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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence” 19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215 Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected] * National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC) 635 West 7 th Street, Ste 104, Cincinnati OH 45203 (513) 721-5683 Fax: (513) 345-4489 Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662 http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 27: No. 5 May 2018 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/ MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING LOCATIONS 4 th Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings All Meetings Start at 7:00 PM *NO CHILDREN ALLOWED AT MEETINGS* ◄WEST VALLEY MEETING► Tuesday, May 22 7:00 PM Peoria Community Center 8335 West Jefferson Street Peoria AZ 85344 Facilitator: Joyce Lefler 602- 525-7217 ◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING► Tuesday, May 22 7:00 PM Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ Facilitator: Beckie Miller Co-Facilitator: Carolee Holbrook 623-582-2406 ◄BILINGUAL EAST VALLEY MEETINGTuesday, May 22 7:00 PM Queen of Peace Church 30 West 1 st Street Room St. John 7 Mesa, AZ 85201 Facilitators: Sandy & Paulino Navarro 480-695-4789 ◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►► MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month) *NO CHILDREN ALLOWED AT MEETINGS* Tuesday, May 8, 7:00 PM *** Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ (off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale Avenue and Bethany Home Road - Across from Granada Park) ***Our meeting this month will feature a panel of POMC moms at various stages of their grief journey to share their stories and how they have coped. NEWSLETTER EDITOR Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by the 10 th of the month prior to publication month to: POMC Newsletter 19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215 *Please use order form on Page 11 You can also email items to [email protected] Be sure to place any article or picture in an attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed properly (especially pictures) and may not be used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in the subject line of the email. CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE PROJECT Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @ (480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale, AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at [email protected]
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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence”

19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected]

* National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC)

635 West 7th

Street, Ste 104, Cincinnati OH 45203 (513) 721-5683 Fax: (513) 345-4489

Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662

http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 27: No. 5 May 2018 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/

MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING

LOCATIONS

4th

Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings

All Meetings Start at 7:00 PM

*NO CHILDREN

ALLOWED AT MEETINGS*

◄WEST VALLEY MEETING►

Tuesday, May 22 7:00 PM

Peoria Community Center

8335 West Jefferson Street

Peoria AZ 85344

Facilitator: Joyce Lefler

602- 525-7217

◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING►

Tuesday, May 22 7:00 PM

Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room

2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

Facilitator: Beckie Miller

Co-Facilitator: Carolee Holbrook

623-582-2406

◄BILINGUAL EAST VALLEY

MEETING► Tuesday, May 22 7:00 PM

Queen of Peace Church

30 West 1st Street Room St. John 7

Mesa, AZ 85201

Facilitators: Sandy & Paulino Navarro

480-695-4789

◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►►

MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month)

*NO CHILDREN

ALLOWED AT MEETINGS*

Tuesday, May 8, 7:00 PM

*** Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

(off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale

Avenue and Bethany Home Road -

Across from Granada Park)

***Our meeting this month will feature a

panel of POMC moms at various stages of

their grief journey to share their stories and

how they have coped.

NEWSLETTER EDITOR

Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by

the 10th

of the month prior to publication month to:

POMC Newsletter

19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215

*Please use order form on Page 11

You can also email items to [email protected]

Be sure to place any article or picture in an

attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed

properly (especially pictures) and may not be

used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in

the subject line of the email.

CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE

PROJECT

Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights

through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @

(480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale,

AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at

[email protected]

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Joanne Rushano

May 1, 2002

Brittanae Howard

May 1, 2007

Sharon Louise Butler

May 2, 1988

Steven Michael Hernandez

May 2, 2009

Barney Henepen

May 2, 2013

Rick Daniel Glum

May 3, 2009

Erasmo Gonzales

May 3, 2015

Deputy Jason Lopez

May 4, 2001

Virginia Bateman

May 5, 2001

Nichole Millsaps

May 5, 2009

Dennis Bartley

May 6, 1994

Amy Santa Maria

May 6, 1997

Carol Romero

May 6, 1999

Joanna Noriega

May 6, 2003

Pete Hopkins

May 6, 2007

Eugene Patino

May 6, 2007

Dariel Overby

May 7, 1994

Andrew Burk

May 7, 2000

Kirsten Lynne Anderson

May 7, 2009

Kevin Ore

May 7, 2014

Alfred Thompson III

May 8, 2005

Antonio Torres-Redondo

May 8, 2008

Cheree Goard

May 8, 2009

Christy Ann Fornoff

May 9, 1984

Mitchell North, Jr.

May 9, 1996

David Mark Anthony McBain

May 9, 1998

Jesus "Pancho" Lopez-Rocha

May 9, 2001

Brian Huckey

May 9, 2008

Joe Puckett

May 9, 2008

Marcus Gabriel Elwess

May 10, 1978

Cheryl Maher

May 10, 2011

Joel Mathew Woodard

May 11, 1999

Lorenzo Mada

May 11, 2003

Frank Ferek

May 11, 2006

Jessica Marie Helms

May 12, 1998

John Michael Adams

May 12, 2002

Timothy Kinder

May 12, 2004

Michelle Dickinson

May 12, 2009

Ryan Harris

May 13, 1997

Jessica Martin

May 13, 2002

Theresa McCullough Drummond

May 13, 2004

Mat Stauffer, Jr.

May 13, 2011

Derek Miller

May 14, 2004

Mercy Cordova

May 14, 2016

Thermon Yonnie

May 15, 2008

Sarah Clark

May 16, 1988

Neal Patrick Beaudoin

May 16, 1990

Kimberly Anne Moffitt

May 16, 2007

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”

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Continued. . . .

Zachary Huff

May 16, 2015

Andrew Sandoval

May 17, 1987

Christopher Swift

May 17, 1999

Kay Buffington

May 17, 2000

Pete A. Ruiz

May 18, 1991

Charles Findley

May 18, 2001

Ashley Johnson

May 18, 2001

Tanya Ramsdell &

Unborn Baby Girl

May 18, 2001

Antonio Torres Redondo

May 18, 2008

Manuel Issac Alvarado

May 18, 2012

Ian Blair

May 18, 2014

Van L. Aldridge

May 19, 1992

Jamal Burt

May 19, 1993

Brian Smythe

May 19, 1999

Malinda Raya

May 19, 2011

Malachi Patterson

May 19, 2013

Jayden LaRell Young

May 19, 2017

Stephen A. Johnson

May 21, 2002

Ashley Tellez & Kelly Cardenas

May 22, 1993

Michael & Joshua Young

May 22, 1995

Gillis Champagne

May 22, 1998

Marcus George Pizano

May 22, 2005

Roger Miller

May 22, 2013

Alfonso Rangel

May 23, 1994

Thomas P. Brantley

May 23, 2000

Elizabeth Ann Byrd

May 23, 2001

Aaron Cones

May 23, 2005

Damien Punzo

May 24, 1991

Candace Marie Barnes

May 24, 1995

Travis Murphy

May 26, 2010

Kyleigh Sousa

May 26, 2010

Todd Alan Hershberger

May 27, 1989

Damien De La Cruz

May 27, 2000

Erica Clark-Harvey

May 27, 2002

Donald Pettit

May 28, 1992

Julia May Garrett

May 28, 2002

Joseph Anthony Lugo

May 28, 2015

Nicholas Steven Reynolds

May 28, 2015

Joseph Wells

May 29, 2004

Kaci Leann Orosco-Chenault

May 29, 2008

Chris Ebert

May 30, 2004

Jason Stanley

May 30, 2004

Robert Edward Pogue

May 31, 1990

Mark Fraijo

May 31, 2008

Every effort is made to ensure

accuracy on these pages.

Please notify us immediately

with any errors or changes.

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VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER NEWS

TRIAL, JUDICIAL & ARREST UPDATES

•An arrest has been made in the murder of Allison Feldman, daughter of Elayne and Harley Feldman. Allison

was killed in February of 2015, in Scottsdale.

•Trial for the killer of Matthew James Lord McClean, began March 3. Matthew is the son of Remi, and brother to

Brianna and Julieanne. He was found guilty of second-degree murder and sentencing is May 11.

•The parole hearing for the killer of Kathryn Ann Koger, and her boyfriend, James Burgoyne, was held on March

26. After a six-hour hearing, the Board voted unanimously to not release him. Thank you to everyone who

wrote letters and signed petitions to keep him in prison.

Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with each and every family member as they endure this difficult process.

IN LOVING MEMORY GIFT DONATIONS (THANK YOU!)

(*All donations are tax deductible: Our chapter exists on the generosity of others, grants, and fundraisers)

♥ Denise Brewer, in very loving memory of her sister, Rosemarie Little.

♥ Sandy & Paulino Navarro, in very loving memory of their son, Michael Garcia.

♥ Don & Beckie Miller, in very loving memory of their son, Brian Ray Miller.

♥ Carolee Holbrook, in very loving memory of her son, Brett Holbrook.

CORPORATE & OTHER DONATIONS THANK YOU! UNITED WAY (Please Note: the write-in number to designate funds to our chapter through your employee

contributions is 0772). You must use this number for designating any funds to go to our chapter. Our chapter

name is not listed except by number. Donations from Melissa Mersch in memory of her son, Matthew, Christine

Busch in memory of her son, Erik, and Lisa Tamborski-Bishop in loving memory of her son, Alex.

AMERICAN EXPRESS - donations from Norma Yanez, anonymous, and Lindison Y. Webb, in honor of

Del Edward Webb, and Tara E. Williams, in memory of her brother Kirk Best, and mom, Sally Whitney.

GOVERNOR’S 2018 “TRIUMPH OVER TRAGEDY” AWARD RECIPIENT

Your chapter-leader, Beckie Miller, is this year’s recipient of the Governor’s “Triumph

Over Tragedy” award which was presented to her at the Crime Victims’ Rights Event on

April 9, 2018. The award was given for her turning tragedy into something positive

through her leadership of the Valley of the Sun Chapter for 25 years. Beckie also serves

on other crime victim service agency boards to ensure crime victim issues and rights are

always forefront and changes are made for them that are needed to assist them through

the aftermath of murder. She accepted this award in memory of her son, Brian, who was

murdered in October of 1991, and in memory and honor of each and every murder victim

and their families and friends left behind.

CHANCE FOR A SCHOLARSHIP TO POMC NATIONAL CONFERENCE IN WASHINGTON, D.C.

If you would like a chance to win a full scholarship (air fare, hotel and conference fee) to our National

Conference (this year being held August 2 – 5, in Washington, DC), be sure to get a ticket at each speaker

meeting you attend, between now and May, in order for you to place it in the drawing we will be holding at the

May Speaker’s meeting. Also, if you plan to attend this year, information is: Save the Date: The 32nd

Annual

National POMC Conference will be held in Arlington, Virginia, at the Double Tree by Hilton Hotel/Washington

DC, on August 2-5, 2018. Room rates are $109.00, plus tax, for 2 adults and 2 children in a room. If you have

more than 2, there is a $10 charge for each adult. The closest airport to fly into is Reagan National Airport. There

is a free shuttle service available to the hotel. The online registration form is on the website now.

***It’s not too early to think of silent auction items, teddy bears and table gifts, to donate for the Conference. If

you are donating any of these items, please send to:

2018 National POMC Conference

635 W 7th

Street Suite 104 Cincinnati, OH 45203

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COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR PHOENIX POLICE DEPARTMENT

The Phoenix Police Department has a Cold Case Registry on line. The link is

http://phoenix.gov/police/investigations/coldcase/index.html.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR HOMICIDES MCSO (SHERIFF'S OFFICE

The Maricopa County Sheriff's Office has a cold case registry for any victim, victim's family member, or other

lawful representative of a victim of a cold case who requests to be included in the registry. This process provides

law enforcement with an avenue to contact family when there are new developments in the case.

In order to submit a request, please contact the MCSO Homicide Unit. Telephone: 602-876-1087.

E-mail: [email protected]

SPEAKER INFORMATION MEETING- UNSOLVED CASES

Our speaker in April featured Shawnie Michie of the Maricopa County Attorney’s Office Victim

Compensation Program, which provides monies for funeral costs, hospital bills, counseling and more for

qualifying victims of crime. An article on Victim Compensation Funds is on page 7 of this newsletter.

FRY’S COMMUNITY REWARDS PROGRAM FUNDRAISER FOR OUR CHAPTER

Our chapter is now a part the Fry’s Community Rewards program. If you shop there, can simply sign up (one

time only) to connect your VIP card and we will get a percentage of proceeds. Just go to

http://www.frysfood.com, select Register, under Sign In information, enter your email and create a password.

Select User Card # and enter your Fry's VIP number, last name and zip code. Under Select Your Preferred Store,

enter zip code of that store. Select Find Your Store, then select Create Account. You will be prompted to

confirm your email. Click the hyperlink to finish creating your Online Account. If you already have an Online

Account with Fry's, you can skip this and go to https://frysfood.com/topic/community?activePage=community-

rewards-2. Select Sign In and enter your email and password. Select My Account and then Account Settings

from drop down menu. Click Edit under Community Awards. Under Find Your Organization, select box next to

POMC and enter the NPO number #29432. Save changes and you are good to go. If you have registered

correctly, you should see our organization information listed under "Community Rewards" on your account

summary page. Thanks for your support.

AMAZON SMILE FOUNDATION

We are also part of Amazon Smiles, in which a portion of your purchases goes to our chapter. If you use our

special link, you will automatically be asked if you want to support our chapter, Valley of the Sun.

https://smile.amazon.com/ch/31-122548

CHAPTER SIBLING COORDINATOR Amanda (Harris) Labelle is our Sibling Coordinator and provides support for siblings outside of meetings.

You can reach her by phone for more information at 623-866-3189. Amanda lost her brother, Joshua, to murder

and understands the sibling grief in a way only a sibling can.

“It shall be the policy of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., to provide equal membership/employment service opportunities to all

eligible persons without regard to race, religion, color, national origin, citizenship, age, sex, sexual orientation, marital status, parental

status, disabilities, membership in any labor organization, political affiliation, and for employment only, height, weight, and record of

arrest without conviction.”

*If you feel you have been discriminated against you may file a complaint with our National Office, 635 West 7th

Street, Suite 104,

Cincinnati, Ohio 45203. www.pomc.org (513) 721-5683

To refer a complaint to an appropriate investigating entity:

Office for Civil Rights

Office of Justice Programs

U.S. Department of Justice

810 7th Street, NW

Washington, D.C. 20531 www.ojp.gov

In order to file with the federal Office for Civil Rights (OCR) two forms must be downloaded from the internet and submitted in writing

to the ORC. The forms can be found at www.ojp.gov/about/ocr/complaint.htm.

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Arizona Department of Public Safety

VOCA Administration

Civil Rights Coordinator

PO Box 6638 - MD 1320

Phoenix AZ 85005-6638 (602) 223-2491 www.azdps.gov/services/crime_victims

NEWS FROM NATIONAL POMC Website: www.pomc.org Phone 888-818-7662

E-mail: [email protected]

The National Office has moved to a new location. The address is 635 West 7th

St., Suite 104,

Cincinnati, OH 45203.

NATIONAL CONFERENCE: Save the Date: The 32

nd Annual National POMC Conference will be

held in Arlington, Virginia at the Double Tree by Hilton Hotel/Washington DC on August 2-5, 2018. The

room rates are $109.00 plus tax for 2 adults and 2 children in a room. If you have more than 2, there is a

$10 charge for each adult and the closest airport to fly into is Reagan National Airport. They also have a

free shuttle service to the hotel. The online registration form is on the website now.

It’s not too early to think of silent auction items, teddy bears and table gifts to donate for the Conference.

If you are donating any of these items, please send to:

2018 National POMC Conference

635 W 7th

Street Suite 104

Cincinnati, OH 45203

FACEBOOK: We are having an issue with a Facebook account using the Parents Of Murdered

Children’s name as a group who chats with each other and puts posts on this account. First of all, they are

using National POMC’s name and we have asked them to change this Facebook account to another name.

They are using National’s forms for our various programs and are very disrespectful in the way they talk

to each other. Some of our members have become “admins” for this account, thinking they are helping

POMC, and it is not National POMC’s Facebook account. National POMC does have a Facebook

account, but we only post from the National Office and no one else can post to this Facebook account.

We have contacted Facebook and they said copyright does not protect our name under their guidelines.

We have reached out to the “admins” with no success on changing their name. We have contacted our

attorney and she has sent a Cease and Desist Letter, which they have not paid attention to, so our next step

is legal action. Unfortunately, this Facebook account, which is using National POMC’s name, has given

the official Parents Of Murdered Children account a reputation of not being respectful to other survivors,

which in turn, causes phone calls to the National Office complaining about the disrespect and how they

have been treated from some of the persons writing on this account. These “admins” are acting like

representatives of POMC and are not representatives of ours.

MINE PROGRAM: The National Office is going to begin sharing the MINE alerts like the Parole Block

petition. We thought it might be easier if we prepare the petitions for you.

1. First, we need you to email/mail the information and put in subject line, MINE alert, about a Murder-

Mystery dinner or any other murder related activity, to [email protected] or 635 W 7th

Street, Suite

104, Cincinnati, OH 45203

2. The National Office will fill in the information, send out the form for signatures, and then the signed

MINE alert forms should be mailed directly to the address listed on the upper left hand corner.

*We have not had a Mine alert in a long time and we want to keep the public aware of this educational Program.

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Victim Compensation Program

Maricopa County

The victim compensation program provides financial assistance and relief to crime victims. It covers

expenses of physical harm, mental distress and economic loss from victimization. It does not require that the

perpetrator of the crime has been apprehended or convicted. The fund is also a payor of last resort, after any

insurance you might have. The monies from the Compensation Program come from Federal funds through the

Victims of Crime Act (VOCA) and the Arizona Criminal Justice Commission as well as State funds through the

Criminal Justice Enhancement Fund, inmate work fees and unclaimed victim restitution, along with recovered

restitution and subrogation money.

In order to be eligible to apply, you must be a victim of a crime as defined by Arizona or Federal Law, a

family member of a victim, a person who witnessed a crime, a person who assumes financial obligation for the

victim or a resident of Maricopa County victimized in another country without a compensation program.

Compensation is not based on financial status, but upon eligibility criteria, rules and collateral source

availability.

Eligibility requirements are that the crime occurred in Maricopa County or another country without the

compensation program, the crime is reported within 72-hours, cooperation with Law Enforcement/Prosecution,

and applied for within 2 years. There can be a good cause exception for applying after 2-years, if the Board

decides there was good reason for the delay. The victim/claimant cannot be serving a sentence of imprisonment

in a detention facility, on home arrest, work furlough or has escaped from any of these. The victim cannot be

either the offender or the accomplice of the offender and contributory conduct of the victim can be considered

for eligibility. Also, the victim cannot have a delinquency from a conviction of a state or federal crime and they

are delinquent in paying fines, fees or restitution; there are some exceptions to this.

Rules do not allow assistance funds for: property loss or damage, pain and suffering, attorney’s fees, interest

fees from collection agencies, cancelled and no-show appointments or clothing, travel, lodging, wage loss, food

or per diem for individuals to attend funerals.

An application form must be filled out to apply. You can download the application online at www.azcjc.gov

or www.maricopacountyattorney.org. You can call them for help and/or questions about filling out the form.

All applications are investigated to substantiate claims and then forwarded to the Board for consideration and

decision. Advocates verify attached medical bills/transportation requests, funeral costs, etc. If the claim is

denied, the claimant is notified by letter. An appeals process can begin with a written letter from claimant as to

why they feel the decision should have been to fund.

Victim Compensation is capped at a total of $25,000. It includes the following: Medical and prescriptions,

medical conditions as a result of the crime, durable medical equipment, dental, transportation costs up to

$2,000, wage loss for victim or secondary victim, loss of support for dependents of victim, counseling up to

$5,000, funeral expenses up to $10,000, and a crime scene clean up for homicides, sexual assault and

aggravated assaults of up to $2,000 for professional cleaning service or $500 for non-professional. Mileage

from and to crime related doctor appointments, counseling, court proceedings related to the case, transportation

costs (mileage, fare, rental fee) is reimbursed if due to a substantiated threat to the victim’s safety or well-being.

***Mentioned earlier was contributory conduct that could cause a claim to be denied. In order for a

Compensation Board to reduce or deny an award due to contributory conduct, the Board must determine that the

victim’s wrongful act (negligence, unlawful conduct, or conduct intended to provoke or aggravate) was a

substantial cause of the criminally injurious conduct and the resulting injuries, medical condition, mental

distress or death. The fact that a victim committed a wrongful act is not enough to deny or reduce a claim. Both

misconduct and substantial causation must be found before a Board can deny or reduce a claim.

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A Mother’s Thoughts

(For this Mother’s Day)

YESTERDAY...

We dreamed of how our future would be.

Of times we’d share, my child and me.

Whether joy or pain, laughter or tears,

We’d stand together throughout the years.

A promise of what life should always be,

Of a child so dear, ever loving me.

TODAY...

My heart sobs with uncontrollable grief.

I search for answers but find no relief.

The skies have darkened, no longer bright,

For my child is gone, forever from sight.

The dreams we shared can never be.

They’re left to linger in my memory.

TOMORROW...

My heart will push aside this cloud

That darkens my life like a heavy shroud.

Once again, I’ll see dawning light

And know my child’s love still burns bright.

I’ll remember the moments we both shared;

I’ll remember our love and how we cared.

I’ll remember my child now lives in me,

And his yesterdays shall always be.

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By: Carol Cichella, Rockford Illinois

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God bless the grieving mother in January as the snowflakes fall...

And as a new year dawns for her memories will comfort her...

Through winter, spring, summer, and fall.

God bless the grieving mother in February during the month of love...

She sends her hugs on the wings of a dove.

God bless the grieving mother in March and on St. Patrick's Day...

A beautiful rainbow, a symbol of hope...

Which colors her world in a magical way.

God bless the grieving mother on Easter in April as she stops to pray...

Thanking God for the gift of everlasting life...

Knowing she will be reunited someday.

God bless the grieving on Mother's Day and thru the month of May...

Whose memories are like threads of gold...

For they will never tarnish, or go away.

God bless the grieving mother in June as her tears fall like rain...

Please comfort her and give her strength

And peaceful days to ease help ease the pain.

God bless the grieving mother in July as the fireworks light up the sky afar...

Just like her memories light up her heart...

And she wishes upon an evening star.

God bless the grieving mother in August as the sun shines through...

Who's life moves on thru ups and downs..

Whose heart is so tender and true.

God bless the grieving mother in September as the leaves turn and fall...

Her child's life forever etched in her heart...

Her child's name entered on the memorial wall.

God bless the grieving mother in October with the harvest colors all around...

Please guide her on her journey of grief...

And keep her safe and sound.

God bless the grieving mother in November, a time to give thanks and pray...

Who is so thankful for each precious memory...

But wishes with all her heart just for one more day.

God bless the grieving mother in December as Christmas nears...

Please bless her with the gift of peace...

And many great friends to help her try her tears.

God bless the grieving mother each day throughout the year

As seasons come and go... and time unfolds...day by day...month by month...year by year...

And especially today...on this Mother's Day.

(Author not known)

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ONE MORE DAY

(To Mom: by Mistique M. Hart)

I wish for nothing more

Than just one more day,

For I would give it all,

Just to hear her say.

It’s funny how

In life it seems

You take for granted

The most important things.

To feel her close,

And be safe again,

Safe from my own self,

Back with my best friend.

Yes, she was the best,

And at other times the only,

My Friend, you left me here,

And now my heart is lonely.

If you could just come back,

If only for one day,

I’s make sure that I’d listen

To all you had to say.

And now that it’s too late,

You cannot speak anymore,

I finally realized,

I should have heard you before.

And if I could do it over,

I’d change only one thing,

I’d tell you that I love you,

And how much joy to me you bring.

No one will ever know

Quite how I feel inside,

And on that day you left,

You weren’t the only one who died.

You have always been there, Mom,

And you loved me till the end,

So with all my heart and soul,

I love you too, My Friend.

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VALLEY OF THE SUN

BOARD OF DIRECTORS (2018)

Beckie Miller, Chapter-Leader .......... .(623) 582-2406 Don Miller, Treasurer ....................... .(623) 582-2406

Claudia Marco, Co-Leader/Secretary..(480) 290-3908

Amanda Labelle, Co-Leader................(623) 866-3189 Tim Osolin ....................................... ...(602) 615-7096

Denise Brewer..……………………......(917) 696-2928 Sandy Navarro.....................................(480) 695-4789 Paulino Navarro...................................(602) 828-1106 Carolee Holbrook.................................(602) 300-7665 (Volunteers) Carolee Holbrook - Office Assistance Denise Brewer - Anniversary Note Writer

CONTACT NUMBERS

SIBLING SUPPORT: Amanda (Harris) Labelle is our

chapter's Sibling Coordinator providing support for

siblings. Her contact info is 623-866-3189 or email is:

[email protected]

POMC VOICE MESSAGING)....................(602) 254-8818

Chapter E-mail.……………………. [email protected]

Chapter Fax: .................................................(623) 582-0917

CRISIS LINE/MOBILE CRISIS TEAM

Empact Crisis Line ............................ ..(480) 784-4949

OTHER HELP LINES

Teen Lifeline.......................................…...(602) 248-8336

GrandCare (Grandparents help line) .....(602) 274-5022

Crime Victims Legal Assistance Project (480) 965-5640

MCAO Victim Services.............................(602) 506-8522

Crime Victim Compensation....................(602) 506-4955

♥♥♥ THANKS FOR CARING ♥♥♥ To the Mountain View Police Precinct for donating our meeting rooms. To the Department of Public Safety (VOCA), for the grant for our newsletter, and everyone who has donated gifts of their time, talents and energy to our chapter activities. With your help, we are able to continue the outreach that is needed by our community.

Memorial Wall Order Form

Please add my loved one’s name to the “Valley of the

Sun Memorial Wall in their Memories.” Each

Nameplate is $10. Our wall is displayed at many

special events across the valley during the year.

NAME__________________________________

Age:___________ Murder date: _____________

Picture Board

___ Check here if sending picture for the picture

board & or Holiday Memorial Video (no cost).

You may email picture to [email protected]

Chapter Bracelets

Red and black with words “Always in our Hearts.” $3

each # ordered _____

Chapter Window Decals

$10 each for auto or home with our logo and chapter

information: # ordered _____

*Make all checks or money orders out to POMC

*Mail to 19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Call 602-254-8818 and leave a message if you wish

to pay by credit card. Minimum $20 order

“The Journey” Memorial Page Order Form (newsletter)

Please reserve: □ ½ page (suggested donation of $10)

□ Full pg (suggested donation of $20)

Month you wish memorial to appear in: ________________

Loved One’s Name________________________________

Age _____

Date of Death_______________

YOUR Name_____________________________________

YOUR Phone Number______________________________

YOUR E-MAIL __________________________________

A half page will hold a picture and short poem OR message,

depending on space. If a photo is included, please provide

identification of the person on the back. If you wish the photo to

be returned include a self-addressed, stamped envelope, big

enough for the picture to fit in. Unless otherwise specified,

location, size and structure of the text and picture will be at

editor’s discretion and space permitting.

**We also, if space is available, print "Survivor to Survivor"

stories if you would like to send in a one page, single spaced and

typed document. Also, if you have written poetry about your loss

or have a favorite poem to share with others. We do edit for

misspellings and or profanity. There is no charge for these

items, either poetry or shared stories.

*Return this form with your material for The Journey by the 10th

of the month preceding the issue you wish it to appear in; for

example: September 10 for October's newsletter, etc.

*A donation for the memorial page can be made by sending a

check made out to POMC and mailed in care of:

POMC

Valley of the Sun Chapter

19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

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Return Address PARENTS OF MURDERED CHILDREN, INC. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

19620 North 38th Avenue Glendale AZ 85308-2215 (602) 254-8818

WHY WE ARE HERE: MISSION STATEMENT: “POMC makes the difference through ongoing emotional support, education, prevention, advocacy, and awareness.” VISION STATEMENT: “To provide support and assistance to all survivors of homicide victims while working to create a world free of murder.” This project is supported by Grant No. 2014-VA-GX-0018 from the US Department of Justice - Office for Victims of Crime. The opinions, findings, and conclusions or recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the US DOJ or the Arizona Department of Public Safety.

Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., is a self-help organization dedicated to the aftermath of murder. The success of its mission depends upon the participation of the families and friends of those lost to murder. POMC number (602) 254-8818


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