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WELCOME

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Seminar – Workshop on

Peer Pressure and Positive

Peer Group

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I N V O C A T I O NLord, the giver of life, knowledge, wisdom and understanding, pour out on us your Spirit of love, truth and peace. Help us to strive with all our hearts to know what is pleasing to you. Graciously let a ray of your light to shine upon us and guide us. Give us a sharp sense of understanding, retentive memory, and the ability to grasp things correctly and fundamentally. Grant us the talents of being exact in our explanations, and the ability to express ourselves with thoroughness and charm. Point out the beginning, direct the progress and help in the completion of this Seminar Workshop on Peer Pressure & Positive Peer Group. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

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N A T I O N A L A N T H E M

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S P C H Y M N

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O P E N I N G R E M A R K S

Prof. Maria Jean T. CastilloPrincipal

( High School Department )

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S P E A K E R…

Ms. Maria Jesselyn R.

Lucido

Guidance Personnel( High school Department )

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T H E M E

“Be yourself. You belong..”

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O B J E C T I V E S To identify the styles of communication that influence peer pressure

Help the students become more aware of the pressures they may encounter as adolescents; demonstrate the differences between positive and negative peer pressures

Develop positive attitudes toward self as a unique and worthy person and learn how to cope with peer pressures

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How to communicate with others?

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AGGRESSIVE COMMUNICATION

is expressed in a forceful and hostile manner, and usually involves alienating messages such as you-statements (blaming the other person and accusing them of being wrong or at fault) and labeling.

In addition, the person's tone of voice and facial expressions are unfriendly. The assumption behind aggressive communication is 'Your needs don't matter' (I win/you lose).

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PASSSIVE COMMUNICATION

involves putting your needs last. You don't express your thoughts or feelings, or ask for what you want. When you use passive communication it feels like others are walking all over you because you don't assert your own needs. So, you bottle things up and might feel resentful. The assumption behind passive communication is 'My needs don't matter' (You win/I lose).

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ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION

involves clearly expressing what you think, how you feel and what you want, without demanding that you must have things your way. The basic underlying assumption is 'We both matter - lets try to work this out'.

Assertive communication increases your likelihood of getting what you want, avoiding conflict and maintaining good relationships (I win/you win).

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Styles of Communication Aggressive

Communication

Passive Communication

Assertive Communication

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ALWAYS REMEMBER…The way you speak - including

the volume and tone of your voice, your physical gestures, and facial expressions, all have an important impact on how your message will be received by people around you.

BODY LANGUAGE

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Here's an acronym that might help you remember good body language:S - Face the person squarelyO - Open posture, no crossed arms or fidgetingL - Lean towards the person, not too much but just enough to show interestE - Maintain eye contact, without staringR - Be relaxed, don't fidget and be comfortable

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BR

EA KT I M E

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PEERS

PEER GROUP

POSITIVE NEGATIVE

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P E E R S ??Peers are the people around us that are in a similar situation, like our friends at school or even our friends outside the school.

The relationships we have with our friends can be very influential, having both positive and negative results.

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is an influence when a peer

group,or individual

encourages another person to

change their values, or

behaviors to suit other people’s convenience.

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G U I L T

P U T - D O W N S

C O L D S H O U L D E R

P R O M I S E S O R T H R E A T S

P H Y S I C A L H A R M

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POSITIVE

If it pushes to do the

RIGHT THINGS, and is often GOOD

NEGATIVE

If it pushes to do the WRONG THINGS,

and is often

DANGEROUS

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Having good friends in our life is important to our happiness, but sometimes trying to fit in with a group can turn sour.

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WHO ARE YOU?

What would you do?

Two of your most popular classmates are having a party on Saturday and you are invited but your best friend isn’t. No one has really said it, but you understand that she/he hasn’t been invited because some of your classmates think that she/he is boring. You really want to go because you have heard about all the fun and you don’t want to miss it. At the same time, you don’t want to hurt your friend's feeling.

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Choose the best answer..

A)I would go without telling my friend. It’s not my fault that they don’t like him/her and besides, I have the right to have fun, don’t I?

B) I would say no to the party and do something fun with my best friend instead. Who needs these people anyway?

C) I would ask why they hadn’t invited him/her and try to make change their mind about him/her.

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You are:

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_________________________

_________________________

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POSITIVE INFLUENCES Our friends can

introduce us to new hobbies and interests.

Our friends having high expectations of themselves , can lead to the same in us.

Teamwork & being part of a large group can make us feel good about ourselves & increase self – confidence.

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NEGATIVE INFLUENCESIt can be difficult to stand up for something you believe in if everyone else disagrees.

Peer pressure is often a reason why children/ teens start smoking, take drugs, or turn to crime.

Peer pressure can lead to low self- esteem if you cannot afford to keep up with your friends' lifestyles.

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What are the effects of…………..

POSITIVE

NEGATIVE Peer

Pressure??

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How to navigate Peer Pressure?Value Common Interest. Try and hang out with

people who do like doing similar stuff to you. It sounds obvious, but you’re less likely to feel pressured to do things you don’t want to.

Say NO. If you’re finding hard to work up the guts to say no to something, you should know that sticking up for what you believe in feels really good. If you can explain to people in a calm way why something’s not for you, more often than not, you’ll gain their respect.Try not to judge others. Respecting someone else’s choice may help them respect yours. People don’t have to agree on everything, & understanding that’s ok will mean both parties are likely to be less defensive about their choices.

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Creating POSITIVE PEER GROUP Choose FRIENDS who:

are God – fearing are loving and compassionate are honest and trustworthy respectful are open minded encourages another value common and good interests value family and education are optimistic are caring and sharing

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Workshop…

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Evaluation Time!!

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CLOSING PRAYER..Heavenly Father, we thank you for blessing our

lives. We are able to enjoy all the good things you have bestowed upon us. Thank you for having directed our thoughts, words and actions. May all that we learned from this Seminar – workshop on Peer Pressure and

Positive Peer Group be of great help to us in developing our character. Please continue to be with us everyday of our lives, to guide us, direct us & lead us to be your good servants. All these things we humbly pray in the name

of your son Jesus Christ. Amen.

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Thank you!


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