- Shamik Baranwal- Shamik Baranwal

- Shamik Baranwal- Shamik Baranwal

Areas of Life We Need to Nurture ?

• Physical

• Intellectual

• Emotional

• Spiritual

• Financial.

Success ?

• Success is not measured by How high we go up in life but by How many times we bounce back when we fall down.

• Success in Life is not determined by How we are doing compared with others, but by How we are doing compared with what we are capable of doing

Critical Success Factors• Positive attitude

• Proficiency

• Communication skills (oral and written)

• Interpersonal skills

• Self Confidence

• Critical thinking and Problem Solving Skills

• Flexibility

• Self-motivation

• Teamwork

• Leadership.

Total Quality People

People with Character, Integrity, Good Values and a Positive Attitude.

Success of an Individual, Organisation or Country depends on the Quality of their People

AN ICEBERG

HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE OF AN ICEBERG?

ONLY 10% OF ANY ICEBERG IS VISIBLE

REMAINING 90% IS BELOW SEA LEVEL

AN ICEBERG

Known to Others

Unknown to Others

AN ICEBERG

10%

90%

Knowledge and Skills

Attitude

AN ICEBERG

10%

90%

AN ICEBERG

VALUES–STANDARDS–JUDGMENTS

ATTITUDEMOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS

10%

90%

The Environment

Other Peoples Behaviour

Negative Work Environment

Negative

World ViewDeterminism Theory

Changing

Environment

Past Experiences

Options Available

We cannot change our past

We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way

We cannot change the inevitable

The only thing we can do is to Refine our Attitude and Think Positive.

ATTITUDE ?

• Ones’ Feelings or Mood toward Things, Circumstances or People

• A complex mental state involving beliefs and feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways

Your Behaviour

Stimulus Response

Reactive

Stimulus

Responsive

My Choices

My Response

My Life

Life is,

15% what happens to me and

85% how I react to it

You must have Money

to be given MORE money!

If you are a “Happy Person",

you'll get MORE Happiness.

Effect of Environment

In a Positive Environment, a marginal performer's output goes up

In a Negative Environment, a good performer's output goes down.

Influencing Factors - Attitude• Environment

Home, School, Work, Media, Cultural & Religious

Background, Traditions & Beliefs, Social & Political

environment

• Experience

With People and Events in our Life

• Education

Formal and informal Education and Learning from it.

Building Positive Attitude

• Change Focus, Look For Positive

• Make Habit of Doing it Now

• Develop an Attitude for Gratitude

• Get into Continuous Learning Program …

Knowledge• Knowledge is piling up facts, wisdom is

simplifying it• Learn to Learn • Intelligence is Quickness to Learn • Ability is the Skill to Apply what is learned• Competence is the ability and the desire to apply

what is learned• Desire is the Attitude that makes a skillful

person competent• An Expert is someone who knows all the answers

if you ask the right question.

Unconscious Incompetence

Learning ProcessConscious

Competence

Unconscious Competence

Conscious Incompetence

Learning Process

Conscious Competence

Conscious Incompetence

Building Positive Attitude

• Build a Positive Self Esteem

• Change Focus, Look For Positive

• Make Habit of Doing it Now

• Develop an Attitude for Gratitude

• Get into Continuous Learning Program

Factors Affecting Self Esteem

• Education

• Role Models

• Unfair Comparison

• Failure or Success – A Ripple Effect

• Failing and Failure

• Expectations

• Discipline.

Building Positive Attitude

• Change Focus, Look For Positive

• Make Habit of Doing it Now

• Develop an Attitude for Gratitude

• Get into Continuous Learning Program

• Build a Positive Self Esteem

• Stay Away from Negative Influences

• Learn to Like the Things that are required to be Done

• Start Your Day with a Positive Note.

Refine Your Attitude

• Angry or Feel Dull – Analyse the Root Cause

Try to Solve the Problem, if You can

• Bad Mood – Avoid Communicating with Others

• Shouting or Fighting with Others – Apologise to them

• Somebody’s Action Makes you Wild – Control Yourself

Be Professional, Concentrate on Your Job and Think Positive.

Positive Personality

• Caring

• Confident

• Patient

• Humble

• High Expectations – Self and Others

• Anticipates Positive Attitude.

Life is all about choices

When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice

You choose how you react to situations

You choose how people will affect your mood

You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood

Your Choice

It's your choice how you live life

The Choice is YOURS

With a Bad attitude

you can never have a positive day

With a Positive attitude

you can never have a bad day

Watch your definitions -

they become thoughts

Watch your thoughts -

they become words

Watch your words -

they become actions

Watch your actions -

they become your destiny

Remember to . . .

A Commitment

I am only one, but still I am one.

I cannot do everything, but still I can do something;

and because I cannot do everything,

I will not refuse to do something I can do

Next StepMake a list of ten positive things you can say about yourself and repeat them daily

Act as if you have achieved your goals even before they come to pass

Don't miss an opportunity to say something positive to someone else

Seek out friends that support you by giving you positive feedback

Monitor any negative thoughts you might have

Use love, humour, hope, faith and courage to overcome the obstacles of life.

3-step positive attitude formula

1. Keep cool and coolly examine the situation. Turn it upside down, inside out, downside up and outside in.

2. Suddenly you realize it could have been worse. Find out how and why it could have been worse.

3. Finally, the good side of it will just appear to you. This can happen gradually or in a flash. It all depends on parts 1 and 2.

Posi+ive Living