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SMART
Train the Trainer Refresher 2019
Dr Sonja Vanderaa
7/05/2019
The Australian Childhood
Foundation
acknowledges Aboriginal
and Torres Strait Islander
people as the traditional
custodians of this land
and we pay our respect
to their Elders past,
present and future.
Learning Outcomes:
1. Understand emotional regulation within a developmental continuum;
2. Explore key concepts in the field of family violence;
3. Understand safety in the context of schools and consider practical ways to build safety;
4. Expand your knowledge of current research and your repertoire of resources.
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1. Understand emotional
regulation within a
developmental continuum
Partner conversation
1. What are you looking forward to over the next holidays?
2. Think of a time when someone co-regulated you and you appreciated it.
What helped you to be receptive?
3. Think of a time when someone attempted to co-regulate you
and you didn’t appreciate it. What made it an unhelpful experience?
Self regulation: (v): the ability to monitor and control our own behaviour, emotions, or thoughts, altering them in accordance with the demands of the situation.
J. Cook (2014)
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Self-regulation of emotion
“A large body of data suggests that unconscious affect regulation is more
essential than conscious emotion regulation in human survival functions.”
(Schore, 2012, p. 74)
“There is agreement among both scientists and clinicians that this essential
adaptive capacity evolves in early attachment experiences.” (Schore, 2012,
p.75)
“Resilience in the face of stress is the outcome of secure attachment”
(Schore, 2012, p.438).
Window of Tolerance
Social Engagement- Feels safe and calm
- Able to engage with others- ‘Window of Tolerance’
Social Defence - Fight/Flight/Active Freeze- Body is ‘amped up’ for action
- adrenaline, heart rate, breathing and muscle tension- Very alert and reactive
Social Defence – Immobilised- Body unable to fight so shuts down non-essential systems
- Collapse or submission, dissociation and/or numbness- Loss of bowels, heart rate, breathing and muscle tension
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Social Engagement- Feels safe and calm
- Able to engage with others- ‘Window of Tolerance’
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“While emotional literacy is an
important part of education, children
will not be able to learn to recognise
their own or the feelings of others until
they have experienced a sensitive,
regulating relationship.
Experience of emotional regulation
comes before understanding.”
(Golding, Fain, Frost, et al. 2013, p. 75)
“… treatment needs to address not
only the imprints of specific
traumatic events but also the
consequences of not having been
mirrored, attuned to, and given
consistent care and affection …” (van
der Kolk, 2015)
Developmental sequence
AttunementCo-
regulationSelf-
regulation
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Attunement activity
Person A: Tell person B about what you did on your favourite holiday.
Person B: Listens
1min – music signal for Person B to look down
Person A: Keep talking until the chime.
The importance of feeling felt
“Show the child through your actions, your facial expressions, and your words, that you see them, you hear them, you get them, at their best and their worst.
When you are willing to sit down in the darkness and the cold with them, holding that space and ever so gently helping them to find their way out, you make love tangible.
Consistency and predictability, experienced over time, help children to know that no matter what they do or say, you will be there, holding strong, no matter how long it takes …” (Flint, 2017)
http://www.childhoodtrauma.org.au/2017/november/what-is-love
How might this be paralleled in schools?
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A nine point curriculum for
working effectively with children
Reading 1: Read and reflect - which points does your school:- Do well? - Need more support with? (5 mins)
Reading 2: Share with the group:- 3 key points which stood out for you- 1 question/wondering(p.52 – 63)
Research highlight
(Atzil & Gendon, 2017)
Teaching SEL in high schools
• Teachers “feeling incompetent”
• Schoolwide approach, culture of learning
• Opportunities for team planning and support for implementation
• Input and support from school counsellors
• Need support with ongoing challenges of implementation
(Youngblood, 2015)
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Relational Regulation
• Noticing the need for connection
• Noticing the need for space
• Having appropriate strategies for getting these needs met
“I need to go outside to find my frontal lobe”- grade 2 boy.
References - REGULATIONAtzil, S., & Gendron, M. (2017). Bio-behavioral synchrony promotes the development of conceptualized emotions. Current Opinion in Psychology, 17, 162-169.
Armstrong, A. (2011) 4 Key strategies help educators overcome resistance to change. Tools for Schools, 14 (2).
Bohn, J. (2014). Turning resistant teachers into resilient teachers. Building School Morale, 9(10).
Bridgeland, J., Bruce, M., & Hariharan, A. (2013). The Missing Piece: A National Teacher Survey on How Social and Emotional Learning Can Empower Children and
Transform Schools. A Report for CASEL. Civic Enterprises.
Cairns, K., & Stanway, C. (2007). Learn the Child: Helping Looked After Children to Learn: A good practice guide for social workers, carers and teachers . BAAF.
Chetwin, A. (2013). A review of the effectiveness of interventions for adult victims and children exposed to family violence.
Flint, M. (2017). What is love? http://www.childhoodtrauma.org.au/2017/november/what-is-love
Garmston, R., & Wellman, B. M. (1999). The adaptive school: A sourcebook for developing collaborative groups. Norwood, MA: Christopher-Gordon.
National Council for Curriculum and Assessment (2009). Leading and supporting change in schools. Discussion Paper.
http://ncca.ie/en/Curriculum_and_Assessment/Post-Primary_Education/Senior_Cycle/Consultation/Leading_and_Supporting_Change_in_Schools.html
Ozuah, P. O. (2016). First, there was pedagogy and then came andragogy. Einstein journal of Biology and Medicine, 21(2), 83-87.
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Perry, B. D. (2001). The neurodevelopmental impact of violence in childhood. Textbook of child and adolescent forensic psychiatry, 221-238.
Rock, D., & Siegal, D. J. (2009). Your brain at work: Strategies for overcoming distraction, regaining focus, and working smarter all day long. New York,
NY: Harper.
Stewart, C. (2014). Transforming professional development to professional learning. Journal of Adult Education, 43(1), 28
Taylor, R. D., Oberle, E., Durlak, J. A., & Weissberg, R. P. (2017). Promoting Positive Youth Development Through School‐Based Social and
Emotional Learning Interventions: A Meta‐Analysis of Follow‐Up Effects. Child development, 88(4), 1156-1171.
Youngblood (2015). Teachers’ perspectives on implementing social-emotional learning standards.
Women’s Council for Domestic & Family Violence Services (WA) ‘My Safety Plan’ www.kkidssafe.com/safety-planning
Safe Steps ‘Safety Planning for Young People’ https://www.safesteps.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/safety-planning-for-teens.pdf
Williamson, R., & Blackburn, B. R. (2010). Dealing with resistance to change. Principal leadership, 10(7), 73-75.
2. Explore key concepts
in the field of family
violence
childhood.org.au
Concepts and language
Offender
Victim
Threat
Physical abuse
Emotional abuse
Gas lighting
Domestic violence
Family violence
Perpetrator
Manipulation
Coercion
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Family violence: key concepts
o Read and highlight key concepts.
o Share and compare your key points with partner.
o Agree on 2 key points to share with the group.
– Reading 1: p. 2-4
– Reading 2: p. 5-6
– Reading 3: p. 9-10
When a child loses everything…
ACTIVITY
Safe and Secure Practice Framework
(Safe and Secure, p.31)
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Change the Story
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https://www.ourwatch.org.au/
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(Our Watch, 2015, p,4)
How do you see your role in supporting
Respectful Relationship Curriculum?
http://www.sgps.vic.edu.au/page/208/Respectful-Relationships-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=T5mMiPV384M
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Research
What works and doesn’t work engaging with children and families impacted by
family violence?
Engaging families with multiple
and complex needs
- Unconditional positive regard, which involves taking a respectful stance and suspending judgement.
- Emotional literacy, which involves being attuned to and managing your own emotional responses, and recognising and helping to co-regulate others.
- Communication skills, which involve the use of techniques to improve connection, understanding and engagement.
What questions do you hold in mind to guide you
through complex situations?
Where am I in my own window of tolerance?
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REFERENCES
Australian Childhood Foundation (2013). Safe and secure: A trauma informed practice guide for understanding and responding to children and young people
affected by family violence. Melbourne: Australian Childhood Foundation. www.childhood.org.au
Care and Protection Practice Framework http://www.practicecentre.cyf.govt.nz/documents/knowledge-base-practice-frameworks/care-and-protection/care-
and-protection-practice-framework-1-2-11.pdf
Lucas, P. V., Winter, R. E., Hughes, C. J., & Walsh, K. (2016). Increasing men's awareness of the effects on children exposed to family and domestic violence.
Our Watch, Australia’s National Research Organisation for Women’s Safety (ANROWS) and VicHealth (2015). Change the story: A shared framework for the
primary prevention of violence against women and their children in Australia. Our Watch: Melbourne, Australia. https://www.ourwatch.org.au/
Reos (2014). National stakeholder consultation for national perpetrator intervention outcome standards for Australia.
Support, Help and Empowerment (2016). Supporting individuals experiencing family violence: A guide for mental health professionals. www.she.org.au
Victorian Government, Department of Human Services (2012). Families with multiple and complex needs: Best interest case practice model specialist practice resource. http://www.dhs.vic.gov.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0008/721880/Families-with-multiple-and-complex-needs-specialist-resource.pdf
3. Understand safety in
the context of schools
and consider practical
ways to build safety
Partner conversation
1. What helps you to feel safe in your work environment?
2. When you’ve felt unsafe in your work environment, what helped to restore
your sense of safety?
3. How do you see your role in supporting safety in schools?
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(Safe and Secure, p.31)
SAFETY focus on the PRESENT
• physically
• socially
• emotionally
• cognitively
• organisationally
Children
Families
Professionals
Self
What can we do when children and young people
still live in unsafe situations?
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School as a safe place
“Young people in care,
across five European countries,
said that school was a safe haven”(Jackson & Cameron, 2014).
“Close and supportive relationships
with teachers have demonstrated
the potential to mitigate the risk of
negative outcomes for children who
may otherwise have difficulty
succeeding at school” (Driscoll & Pianta, 2010).
Assumptions about safety
What do you see?
(Image from van der Kolk, 2015, p.109)
Before we can
engage in social
behaviour and
learning we must
first feel safe. (Porges, 2015, p.115).
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Partner conversation
Triggers are responded
to with the same
intensity of the original
experience.(van der Kolk, 2015)
What implications
might this have for
practice:
- For ourselves
- For school staff
- For families
- For children and
young people
Neuroception
• Unaware it’s happening (Porges, 2011).
• “Danger turns off our social engagement system”(van der Kolk, 2014, p. 85)
• Teaching point: Trigger diary(Briere & Lanktree, 2012)
What might be helpful to know and understand about polyvagal
theory?
Cues of risk and safety
are continually monitored
by our nervous system.
Before we can engage in
social behaviour and
learning we must first feel
safe. (Porges, 2015, p.115).
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Evolution
Behavioural Functions Body Functions
Social Engagement
Soothing and calming
Indicates safety
Mobilization
Fight or Flight
Active Freeze
Moderate to extreme danger
Immobilization
Collapse or submission
Death feigning
Increased pain threshold
Conserves metabolic resources
Life threatening situations
Hyper arousal
* Increases heart rate
* Sweat increases
* Inhibits gastrointestinal function
* Narrowing blood vessels- to slow
blood flow to extremities
* Release of adrenaline
Hypo- arousal
* Slows heart rate
* Constricts bronchi
* Stimulates
gastrointestinal function
* Lowers or raises vocalization pitch
* Regulates middle ear muscles to
perceive human voice
* Changes facial expressivity
* Head turning
* Tears and eyelids
* Slows or speeds heart rate
Polyvagal Theory and Protective Responses (Porges, 2012)
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Emotion affects decisions
• Narrowing of attention
• Failure to search for new alternatives
• Tendency to take more risks
• Simpler decision strategies and
• More extreme judgements
• More creative problem solving
• Better integration of information
• Tendency to deliberate longer
• Better use of more information
• More re-examination of outcomes
Negative emotion produces: Positive emotion produces:
(Bloom, 2013, p.196)
Parallel process
Clients
• Feel unsafe
• Aggressive
• Helpless
• Hopeless
• Hyperaroused
• Fragmented
• Overwhelmed
• Confused
• Depressed
Staff
• Feel unsafe
• Punitive
• Helpless
• Hopeless
• Hyperaroused
• Fragmented
• Overhwhelmed
• Confused
• Demoralized
Organisation
• Is unsafe
• Punitive
• Stuck
• Missionless
• Crisis driven
• Fragmented
• Overwhelmed
• Valueless
• Directionless
(Bloom & Farragher, 2013, p.21)
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Emotional contagion
“All emotions are contagious – both the ones
that are pleasant and the ones that are
unpleasant” (Rothschild, 2006, p. 9).
Mirror neurons
Image source: https://www.psych2go.net/what-are-mirror-neurons/
Questions for reflection
• What does hyper-arousal look likes for staff and families?
• What does hypo-arousal look like for staff and families?
• What do I notice when staff/families are within their window of tolerance?(Physically, socially/emotionally, cognitively)
• What are the early warning signs that they’re on the edge of their window of tolerance?
• What routines (daily, weekly, monthly, annually) help them to maintain a wide window of tolerance?
• What’s my role in supporting these routines?
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Have you ever noticed?
Safety is connected to predictability (Porges, 2012)
Predictability – for students
http://childhoodtrauma.org.au/2015/january/how-to-help-young-people-navigate-the-new-school-year
relationshipsphysical
environmentroutines
instructionslearning
tasksbehavioural expectations
Social communication for co-regulation
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References
Australian Childhood Foundation (2013). Safe and secure: A trauma informed practice guide for understanding and responding to children
and young people affected by family violence. Melbourne: Australian Childhood Foundation. www.childhood.org.au
Bloom, S. L., & Farragher, B. (2013). Restoring sanctuary: A new operating system for trauma-informed systems of care. Oxford University
Press.
Bloom, S. L. (2013). Creating sanctuary: Toward the evolution of sane societies. Routledge.
Bloom, S. L., & Farragher, B. (2010). Destroying sanctuary: The crisis in human service delivery systems. Oxford University Press.
Cameron, C., Jackson, S., Hauari, H., & Hollingworth, K. WP5 UK Report Young people from a public care background: pathways to further
and higher education in England.
Driscoll, K. C., & Pianta, R. C. (2010). Banking time in head start: Early efficacy of an intervention designed to promote supportive teacher–
child relationships. Early Education and Development, 21(1), 38-64.
Hughes, D., Bomber, L. M., Brisch, K. H., & Perry, A. (2009). Helping Adolescents Engage with Life and Learning. Worth Publishing.
National Child Traumatic Stress Network, Secondary Traumatic Stress Committee. (2011). Secondary traumatic stress: A fact sheet for
child-serving professionals. Los Angeles, CA, and Durham, NC: National Center for Child Traumatic Stress.
References cont.
Porges, S. W. (2015). Making the World Safe for our Children: Down-regulating Defence and Up-regulating Social Engagement to ‘Optimise’ the
Human Experience. Children Australia, 40(02), 114-123.
Porges, S. (2012). Understanding Polyvagal Theory: Emotion, Attachment and Self-Regulation [Video file]. Psychotherapy Networker. Retrieved
July 2, 2016, from Counselling and Therapy in Video: Volume III.
Rothschild, B. (2006). Help for the helper: The psychophysiology of compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma. New York: WW Norton & Co.
Stamm, B.H. (2010). The concise ProQOL manual, 2nd Ed. Pocatello, ID: ProQOL.org. Available at:
http://www.proqol.org/uploads/ProQOL_Concise_2ndEd_12-2010.pdf
Saakvitne, K. W., & Pearlman, L. A., & Staff of TSI/CAAP. (1996). Transforming the Pain: A Workbook on Vicarious Traumatization. New York:
W.W. Norton.
Szalavitz, M. & Perry, B. D. (2010). Born for love: Why empathy is essential--and endangered. New York: Harper Collins.
van Der Kolk, B. (2014). The body keeps the score. New York: Viking.
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