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We spend a great deal of ourlives talking and even when we listen wearent really listening. We are justpreparing our response. We fall easily intothe trap of passing judgment, takingthings personally, assuming things anddrawing conclusions based on our ownexperiences and not on what the person issaying.
The cool tool for this week isabout truly listening. I have taken theconcept for this weeks lesson from the 7Habits of Highly Effective PeopleFacilitator Materials.
To truly listen or listenempathically is reflecting what a personfeels and says in your own words.
It is NOT listening to advise,counsel, reply, refute, solve, fix change
judge, agree disagree, question, analyze orfigure out.
When I ask you to listen
and you start givingadvice, you have not donewhat I have asked. When Iask you to listen to meand you begin to tell mewhy I shouldnt feel thatway, you are tramplingon my feelings. When I
ask you to listen and you feel you have dosomething to solve my problem, you have
failed me, strange as it may seem. Listen! All Iask is that you listen; not talk or do - just hearme - Ralph Roughton, M.D.
RCI ROAR
Link to Cool ToolLesson on Google Docs
2012 M A R C H 4 ISSUE 7 PAGE 1
Respect Self and Others Act Safely And responsible
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SCIENCE FAIR BLUES
SCIENCE FAIR BLUES
SCIENCE FAIR BLUES
5TH GR ORCH RECITAL
RCI ROAR2012 M A R C H 4 ISSUE 7 PAGE 2
Respect Self and Others Act Safely And responsible
See this article at loveandlogic.com download thepdf here
Ineffective Effective
Please sit down. Im going to start now. Ill begin as soon as you are seated.
Please be quiet. Its time to begin. Ill be glad to start as soon as you show
me that you are ready.
Open your books to page 54. Ill be working from page 54
Im not going to line you up until
everyone is quiet.
Ill be lining people up as soon as it is
quiet.
Dont sharpen your pencil while Im
talking.
I allow people to sharpen pencils when I
am not giving directions.
Dont be bothering your neighbors. You are welcome to stay with us as long as
you and others are not being bothered.
Keep your hands to yourself. Feel free to stay with us when you can
keep your hands to yourself.
Turn your assignment in on time oryoull get a lower grade.
I give full credit for papers turned in on
time.
Dont talk to me in that tone of voice! Ill listen as soon as your voice is as calm
as mine.
You show some respect. Ill be glad to discus this when respect is
shown.
Dont be late for class. All of those who arrive on time go homeon time.
Im not loaning you any more paper. I loan paper to those who have not
borrowed before.
If you cant remember your pencil,youre just going to have to do without.
Feel free to borrow from anyone but me.
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PBIS (behavior program)ROAR(all expectations)Folder of all ROAR Expectations
EverywhereClassroomHallway/StairsCafeteriaPlayground/RecessBUSBathroom
Common Cool Tools
Voice Level LessonHallway Walking Like aPantherHallways Stairs Power PointLocker Cool Tool
Before School Expectations and LessonLUNCH
Lunch Dens LayoutLunch Staff Recess Assignments(outside)Lunch Procedures SummarizedIndoor Recess & Ala carteOutdoor Recess PowerPointLunch Behavior Flow Chart
After School Procedures/BUSDismissal ProceduresInclement Weather DismissalBUS Dismissal Slide ShowBUS Sign Up 2011-2012Zone 1Zone 2Zone 3
Zone 4Zone 5Zone 6
RCI Awards
RCI Monthly Character AwardsInformation Dates Past WinnersetcRCI Character Award
Nomination Form
Other RCI Resources for Staff
RCI PLC SiteOSD Navigator SiteInfinite Campus
Technology Help Desk RequestAESOP
SkywardSchoolworld Teacher Login
Staff Email
RCI ROAR ResourcesRespect Self and Others Act Safely And responsible Page3
Issue 7, mar 4, 2012
Ineffective Effective
Youre not going out without your
coat.
You may go out as soon as you have
your coat.
Youre not going to stay in this group
and act like that.
You may stay with us if you can give up
on that behavior.
Dont you come back to this room
until you can show some respect.
Feel free to come back to the room as
soon as you are calm.
Quite breaking the rules of the game. Those who can follow the rules are
welcome to play the game.
Stop arguing with me. Ill be glad to discuss this with you as
soon as the arguing stops.
If you cant treat the paintbrushes
right, youll just have to sit out this
project.
All of those who can handle the
paintbrushes correctly are welcome to
join us in the project
If you forget your permission slip,youre going to miss the trip.
All of those who remember permission
slips are welcome to go on the field trip.
Turn Your Word Into Gold(continued from page 2)
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