Relationship MattersRelationship MattersRelationship MattersRelationship MattersPlace of HopePlace of Hope ‐‐ Gereja Oikos SydneyGereja Oikos Sydney

‘‘The most important single ‘‘The most important single The most important single The most important single ingredient in the formula of ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get success is knowing how to get along with people.’’along with people.’’along with people.along with people.

Th d R lTh d R lTheodore RooseveltTheodore Roosevelt(26(26thth President of the U.S.A.)President of the U.S.A.)

‘‘Relationship is the glue that ‘‘Relationship is the glue that Relationship is the glue that Relationship is the glue that holds team members holds team members together.’’together.’’

John C. MaxwellJohn C. MaxwellJohn C. MaxwellJohn C. Maxwell(Leadership expert, author and speaker.(Leadership expert, author and speaker.

Founder of Injoy Stewardship Services and EQUIP.)Founder of Injoy Stewardship Services and EQUIP.)

‘‘There is no more ‘‘There is no more l l f i dl l l f i dl lovely, friendly lovely, friendly

or charming relationship, or charming relationship, g pg pcommunion or company, communion or company,

than a good marriage ’’than a good marriage ’’than a good marriage.than a good marriage.

Martin LutherMartin Luther(Priest, professor and theologian. Church reformer.)(Priest, professor and theologian. Church reformer.)

Hal‐hal yang membagun sebuah h bhubungan…

(dalam oikos, (dalam oikos, pelayanan, pelayanan, pekerjaan, pekerjaan, friendship, friendship, pernikahanpernikahanpernikahan, pernikahan, 

etc.)etc.)

Tidak EgoisTidak Egois1.1.

• “Selfishness only causes trouble”Selfishness only causes troubleProverbs 28 : 25 (TEV)

• “Look out for another’s interests, not just for your own”your ownPhilippians 2 : 4 (TEV)

Rendah HatiRendah Hati2.2.

• “Pride leads to arguments” Proverbs 13 : 10 (LB)Pride leads to arguments Proverbs 13 : 10 (LB)

“D ’t b lfi h d ’t t t i th• “Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than 

l Y t h th ttit dyourselves… You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.”Phili i 2 3 5 ( )Philippians 2 : 3, 5 (NLT)

Hidup dalam KasihHidup dalam Kasih3.3.

• “… and I was afraid because I was naked; so I ;hid.” – AdamGenesis 3 : 10 (NIV)

• “Such love has no fear, because perfect love , pexpels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. ”1 John 4 : 17 ‐ 19 (NLT)

Hidup dalam PengampunanHidup dalam Pengampunan4.4.

• “Since my heart was embittered and my soulSince my heart was embittered and my soul deeply wounded, I was stupid and could not understand”understandPsalms 73 : 21 – 22 (NAB)

• “Make allowance for each other’s faults and f i th h ff dforgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must f i th ”forgive others ”Colossians 3 : 13 (NLT)