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2. Motivational Quotes
Your life is in your hands, to make of it what
you chooseJohn Kehoe
The secret of getting ahead is getting started
Mark Twain
Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over
small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not
you. Letothers leave their
Jim Rohnfuture in someone else's hands, but not you.
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
3. Road to Success
The aim of this presentation is to acquaint students with
scholarships to continue their education a broad with tips on
maximizing their new college experience and to prepare them to
assume important roles in their future
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
4. Elements of Success
Four elements of success.
Opportunity, support, initiative and competence Your country
provides you with the first two and you provide the second
two.
You are the pride of our country, take advantage of the opportunity
and support you are given, and become the best student
possible.
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
5. Learning To Live in a New Country
No matter what city you come from, you will find the country you
are going to unfamiliar at first.
Much will be new to you: the look of the people, their clothes, the
houses, the smells, the countryside, the cars; the sound of another
language all around you; the sense of living among strangers whose
behaviour you dont understand.
You may miss the food you are used to and the comfort of the
friends and family you lived among at home.
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6. Learning To Live in a New Country
Like many other students, you may find these changes very upsetting
and confusing.
You could feel hopeless, frustrated or even angry. Or your reaction
could be to withdraw from your new surroundings, by spending most
of your time with other students from your own country, or by
staying in your room (or even in your bed!).
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7. Learning To Live in a New Country
If you are very distressed by the feelings you have in this new
place, you are probably undergoing culture shock.
All overseas students have some of these feelingsthey are quite
normalbut most
learn to overcome them in the first weeks and months of their
stay.
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8. Coping with culture shock
You can overcome these feelings little by little as you get to know
your new environment. Learning about a new culture is an important
part of the education you will receive there, and worth the effort
you put into it.
There are many ways you can find out about the country you are
going to, and learn to feel
at home there:
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9. Coping with culture shock
10. You will need to observe people, listen to them and ask many
questions. 11. It is important not to judge people before you
understand their values and customs.Dr. Faiza Aljohani
12. Coping with culture shock
Its a good idea to learn to laugh at the mistakes you will make
from time to time. People will be happy to help you if you are
relaxed and ready to learn.
Find ways to meet as many people as possible. Join clubs, go to
sight-seeing.
Be ready to talk.
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13. Coping with culture shock
Your physical surroundings will become familiar to you as you find
your lecture rooms and the Uni-Centre. Use a map, and explore a
little further each day.
Every University has Student Equity and Diversity Liaison Officers
(SEDLOs) and Counselors who would be happy to help you with any
problems you have settling in to your new life and meeting people
.
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
14. Language
When you arrive at your University one of the first and most
difficult problems you may face is language.
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15. The spoken language
16. understand English at first? 17. You will find that natives
speak very fast. You can ask people to speak more slowly; they will
try to make it easier for you. The main thing is to relax. 18. Dont
try too hard to understand every word at first. And remember you
dont have to speak fast to be understood!Dr. Faiza Aljohani
19. Understanding Language
One of the largest inhibitors for students is often mental block.
While listening, a student suddenly decides that he or she doesn't
understand what is being said. At this point, many students just
tune out or get caught up in an internal dialogue trying translate
a specific word. Some students convince themselves that they are
not able to understand spoken English well and create problems for
themselves.
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20. Tips for being a good listener
Listen for main ideas. The main ideas are the most important points
the speaker wants to get across. They may be mentioned at the start
or end of a talk, and repeated a number of times. Pay special
attention to statements that begin with phrases such as "My point
is..." or "The thing to remember is..."
Ask questions. If you are not sure you understand what the speaker
has said, just ask. It is a good idea to repeat in your own words
what the speaker said so that you can be sure your understanding is
correct. For example, you might say, "When you said that no two
zebras are alike, did you mean that the stripes are different on
each one?"
Give feedback. Sit up straight and look directly at the speaker.
Now and then, nod to show that you understand. At appropriate
points you may also smile, frown, laugh, or be silent. These are
all ways to let the speaker know that you are really listening.
Remember, you listen with your face as well as your ears!
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21. The spoken language
22. You will meet lots of new words. The words used in everyday
living, the words peculiar to a particular state, to university
life, may not yet be in your vocabulary. You will learn them
quickly because you will hear them every day and because you will
need to use them. This is the best way to learn to speak fluently.
23. Nativesspoken language is very informal and contains a lot of
slang, that is, words and expressions with a special meaning for a
small group of people.Dr. Faiza Aljohani
24. The spoken language
Natives often use abbreviations too, that is, shortened forms of
words, even just initial letters. Ask people to explain any words
you dont understand.
The slang used by the students of the University will soon become
familiar to you.
Its fun to use these words and when you do you will feel you
belong.
Anxiety may be a problem for you too. But this is normal and the
more you learn the easier it will become to relax.
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
25. Written language
At university, in your reading, you will also find many words that
are not in your English vocabulary. You may be unfamiliar with some
of the grammar. There are some suggestions that may help you to
improve your understandingand increase your vocabulary.
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26. Written language
You can also talk to the staff at the Learning Resource Centre.
This service is free and available to all students seeking help
with their language and academic skills.
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27. Body language
People express themselves with more than speech: facial
expressions, hand and shoulder gestures, nodding, and bowing all
add extra meaning to what we say.
Some of this body language is just part of the individual
personality, but other movements have special meanings in different
cultures.
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28. Body language
Generally, people of the west like to look people in the eye when
they greet each other, and from time to time while speaking to
them. This might be impolite or insulting in your culture but
Americans & Canadian believe it is both polite (to show they
are listening) and
sincere (to show they honestly mean what they say).
It is rude to stare at people, however, that is to keep your eyes
fixed on someone for too long, whether you are speaking with them
or not. Take note of what people do and you will soon know what to
expect and how to act.
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29. Body language
Americans often talk to people in an informal way, but they do not
stand very close to others or touch them much during conversation.
It is not an insult in the west if you are handed something with
the left hand. No special meaning is attached to left and right
hands there.
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30. Getting To Know People
While you are at the University you will meet many foreigners. You
may be surprised to find what a mixture of different people you
will meet.
The first Europeans arrived to settle in America or Australia only
some 200 years ago but since that time new settlers have come from
all parts of the world.
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31. Directness
Discussing issues, events and ideas openly with other individuals
is considered quite proper in the West . They might bring up in
conversation issues you would consider sensitive or embarrassing or
rude; try not to be offended.
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32. People in the West are also quick to get to the point,
particularly in business situations. They do not spend a lot of
time on polite social talk before getting down to business. They
may also voice disagreement openly, whether with friends, teachers
or employers.
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33. Asking questions
Americans, for instance, ask a lot of questions, some of which may
appear to you to be uninformed and elementary. Try to be patient in
answering them. The students there may not know much about your
country or your way of life. They are sincerely interested in
learning about your country and culture and in trying to find out
what you are like.
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34. Making friends
35. Everyone seems to be in such a hurry its hard to talk to
anyone for very long. 36. It is important to realize that they
themselves have many acquaintances they can talk with casually, but
only a small number of true friends. 37. It takes time before a
speaking relationship turns into friendship. 38. The students you
see may have known each other in high school before coming to the
University.Dr. Faiza Aljohani
39. Making friends
When people know your stay is limited, at first they may hesitate
to commit themselves to friendship. And you may also seem very
different to them until they get to know you.
You mustnt give up, however. If you are open and friendly, and keep
on trying you will succeed. Not everyone would make a good friend.
You need to find people you like; probably theyll like you too. And
once you have made a good friend, new opportunities for friendship
will open up.
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40. Get involved
In the beginning, when you are hoping to make friends, dont worry
if your English doesnt seem good enough. Join in the conversation
anyway and in the effort to communicate, you may find a friend. In
the effort to share ideas and friendship with a few words, interest
and caring can begin. Dont be afraid to make language errors;
nobody is going to laugh at you.
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
41. Get involved
42. Usually people are interested to know how things are done in
other countries. 43. If someone shows an interest, answer his or
her questions; dont be hesitant or shy. 44. Living in a college can
offer opportunities for friendship. If you live off campus, plan to
eat on campus now and then. If you have the opportunity to be a
teaching assistant or to work part-time (if this does not interfere
with your studies) consider doing this. Go to student gatherings
and watch and gradually you will find yourself a participant.Dr.
Faiza Aljohani
45. Get involved
46. Become involved in student activities, perhaps initially
through the international students organizations of your country.
If you are invited to a college or faculty party, go and meet the
members of staff and other students. 47. There areCommittee for
International Students (ICIS)that canplan recreational events and
provides services to all international students and their families.
Take advantage of these opportunities and you may experience
friendship which you will treasure all your life. Dr. Faiza
Aljohani
48. Customs and culture
The following notes about Westerncustoms will help to guide you in
practical situations.
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49. Greetings
People usually shake hands firmly the first time they meet. How do
you do? is the formal greeting at a first introduction, and other
formal greetings are Good
morning , Good afternoon and Good evening. Usually young people
just say
Hello or Hi, often followed by How are you?. People appreciate it
if you use
their name, for example, Hi, Petty.
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50. Punctuality
51. appointment at 10.30 am with the dentist, be there at 10.30,
no later. 52. If you are invited for dinner at 7 oclock, be there
at 7.00 (not earlier, however) or within ten minutes after 7.00. If
you cannot keep an appointment or if you cannot avoid being late,
it is extremely important that you telephone immediately and
explain. 53. If you are late and you have not telephoned, you may
find the person you are meeting to be abrupt and even unpleasant.
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54. Social invitations
Invitations should be answered as soon as possible. When you
receive an invitation,
formally through a note or informally by telephone, you will be
expected to respond
quickly and honestly. On a written invitation, RSVP means Please
reply, and you should do so as soon as you know whether or not you
will attend. It is also wise
to get the persons telephone number, so you can call and notify
them if you must change your plans or are delayed
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55. Social invitations
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56. Social invitations
57. This seems strange to most international students but it is
an acceptable way to entertain. Buy a steak at the supermarket
(they come neatly packaged), put it in a bag and give it to the
person who greets you when you arrive at the party. You could bring
a vegetarian alternative if you wish. 58. If you are asked to bring
a plate this means bring a plate of food as a contribution to the
meal dont just bring an empty plate! Groups often have meals where
everyone brings a prepared cooked dish, salad or dessert to put on
the table. 59. A dish from your country would be greatly
appreciated at such a meal.Dr. Faiza Aljohani
60. Saying thank you
61. It is never necessary to give an expensive gift, but a small
souvenir from your country would be received with delight. Thank
you is a phrase used often in the West. 62. Even when a person is
only doing his or her job (such as a sales assistant in a shop), it
is customary to say thank you.Dr. Faiza Aljohani
63. The use of names
Here are a few guidelines on the use of names:
First names are more readily used in the West.
It is acceptable to automatically use the first name of someone of
approximately the same age as you or younger.
People older than yourself are often addressed by their titles, Mr
(pronounced Mister) for men, and Ms (pronounced Mizz) for women
until the individual requests that you use his or her first name,
or until you get to know the individual better.
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64. The use of names
65. Men and women will be confused if you use Mr, Mrs, Miss or
Ms with a given name, as is the custom in some countries. 66.These
titles are used with the last or family name. Thus, it is incorrect
to call Miss Barbara Jones Miss Barbara. 67. If you have any doubts
about what to call someone, simply ask, What shall I call you? If
people seem unsure what to call you, tell them the name you
prefer.Dr. Faiza Aljohani
68. The use of names
The use of nicknames is very common. A nickname is not the persons
real name but a name given by friends (usually) because of some
physical characteristic or behaviour pattern, or it may be a short
form of his or her real name. Someone whose name is Andrew, for
instance, might be given the nickname, Andy. Someone who has very
red hair might be called Blue.
Being called by a nickname is not uncomplimentary; in fact, it is
often a sign of acceptance and affection.
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69. Tips for Students
The limits of dealing with people of the opposite sex.Islam does
not ban gender mixing in normal environments.
What is forbidden in Islam is that a man and a woman sit together
in a closed environment, or have inappropriate conversation . All
you need to remember is to stick to your religion and adjust to
your learning environment.
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70. Tips for Students
Furthermore, in order to get into many countries on the stay abroad
you will require a visa of some type, even if you are just
visiting. This is usually an insert, stamp or sticker which is
placed in your passport and the duration of its validity varies
from place to place. If you do intend to work or study in the
country to which you are traveling, however, you should organize
your visa even further in advance as this can take longer to
process.
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71. Tips for Students
As well as your passport you should ensure that you have at least
one other form of identification with you. This may be a drivers
license, birth certificate or any other form of ID which is
acceptable worldwide. As with passports, bring at least two copies
of all forms of identification in case of loss or theft.
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72. Tips for Students
You should also find out where your embassy is in the country to
which you are travelling as this will come in very handy for
genuine emergencies. For example if you need to return home
urgently or lose important documents or passports, your embassy
should be able to help you out pretty quickly.
Dr. Faiza Aljohani
73. Going home
You may be surprised to learn that you can suffer another culture
shock when you return to your own country. You have changed during
your stay here, while the people and customs at home may have
remained the same. Your friends and family may want you to be
exactly as you were when you left
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74. Going home
you may have difficulty accepting the rules now you have become
accustomed to a new lifestyle; at first you may feel that you dont
belong anywhere. Knowing that you might face these feelings, it
would be a good idea to attend a Returning Home Workshop or talk
with your SEDLO before you leave for home.
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75. Finally, Remember
You were born with potential.
You were born with goodness and trust.
You were born with ideals and dreams.
You were born with greatness.
You were born with wings.
You are not meant for crawling, so dont.
You have wings.
Learn to use them and fly.
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76. Thank you
And non-stop to the top
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