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Sept. - Oct. 2006 Rodef Sholom Temple Messenger The Rabbi’s Message SELICHOT Saturday, September 16 8:45 p.m. B’Nai Israel ROSH HASHANAH Friday, September 22 8:00 p.m. Saturday, September 23 9:00 a.m. Mincha/Maariv Service 6:15 p.m. Sunday, September 24 9:00 a.m. TASHLIKH / ICE CREAM SOCIAL Tuesday, September 26 6:30 p.m. Location to be announced SHABBAT SHUVAH Friday, September 29 8:00 p.m. Saturday, September 30 9:30 a.m. GRAVESIDE PRAYERS Sunday, October 1 11:00 a.m. Rosenbaum Memorial Cemetery KOL NIDRE Sunday, October 1 6:30 p.m. YOM KIPPUR Monday, October 2 9:30 a.m. Yizkor Service will be during the morning Study Session 4:20 p.m. Mincha/Maariv Service 5:20 p.m. Neilah Service followed by Break the Fast 7:37 p.m. SUKKOT Friday, October 6 6:00 p.m. Saturday, October 7 9:30 a.m. Sunday, October 8 9:30 a.m. SHEMINI ATZERT Friday, October 13 8:00 p.m. Saturday, October 14 9:30 a.m. Yizkor Service will be during the morning SIMCHAT TORAH Saturday, October 14 7:10 p.m. Sunday, October 15 9:30 a.m. 2006 High Holy Day Schedule of Services Dear Friends, Shoshana, Moti, and I would like to take this oppor- tunity to thank you for sharing in the joy of the ar- rival of Eden into our family and for helping us with the preparations and in the celebration of Eden’s simchat bat (baby naming) ceremony! It is my hope and prayer that we will all have many more smachot (joyous occasions) to share in the coming years! Becoming a grandmother has given me a renewed sense of awe and also a sense of a new start in life. There is something so indescribably special about welcoming a grandchild into the circle of family and friends! As I write these words we enter the month of Elul, a time used traditionally to begin engaging in the pro- cess of heshbon nefesh (an accounting of the soul) and teshuva (repentance). At the same time, we begin to sense the changing of the seasons and the approach of the High Holidays. We look for special inspiration and for new direction. Paradoxically, new direction and inspiration often comes from Continued on next page
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Sept. - Oct. 2006

RodefSholom Temple Messenger

The

Rabbi’s Message

SELICHOT Saturday,September16 8:45p.m. B’NaiIsrael

ROSHHASHANAHFriday,September22 8:00p.m.Saturday,September23 9:00a.m.Mincha/MaarivService 6:15p.m.Sunday,September24 9:00a.m.

TASHLIKH/ICECREAMSOCIAL Tuesday,September26 6:30p.m.Locationtobeannounced

SHABBATSHUVAH Friday,September29 8:00p.m.Saturday,September30 9:30a.m.

GRAVESIDEPRAYERSSunday,October1 11:00a.m.RosenbaumMemorialCemetery

KOLNIDRE Sunday,October1 6:30p.m.

YOMKIPPUR Monday,October2 9:30a.m.YizkorServicewillbeduringthemorningStudySession 4:20p.m.Mincha/MaarivService 5:20p.m.NeilahServicefollowedbyBreaktheFast 7:37p.m.

SUKKOT Friday,October6 6:00p.m.Saturday,October7 9:30a.m.Sunday,October8 9:30a.m.

SHEMINIATZERT Friday,October13 8:00p.m.Saturday,October14 9:30a.m.YizkorServicewillbeduringthemorning SIMCHATTORAH Saturday,October14 7:10p.m.Sunday,October15 9:30a.m.

2006 High Holy Day Schedule of Services

DearFriends,

Shoshana,Moti,andIwouldliketotakethisoppor-tunitytothankyouforsharinginthejoyofthear-rivalofEdenintoourfamilyandforhelpinguswiththepreparationsandinthecelebrationofEden’ssimchat bat(babynaming)ceremony!Itismyhopeandprayerthatwewillallhavemanymoresmachot(joyousoccasions)toshareinthecomingyears!

Becomingagrandmotherhasgivenmearenewedsenseofaweandalsoasenseofanewstartinlife.Thereissomethingsoindescribablyspecialabout

welcomingagrandchildintothecircleoffamilyandfriends!

AsIwritethesewordsweenterthemonthofElul,atimeusedtraditionallytobeginengaginginthepro-cessofheshbon nefesh(anaccountingofthesoul)andteshuva(repentance).Atthesametime,webegintosensethechangingoftheseasonsandtheapproachoftheHighHolidays.Welookforspecialinspirationandfornewdirection.Paradoxically,newdirectionandinspirationoftencomesfrom

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Rodef Sholom Temple

Rabbi. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .GilahDror [email protected]

President. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . BarbaraGordon [email protected]

Administrator. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .KarenForrest [email protected]

VicePresident,AdministrationandBuilding&Grounds. . . . . . . . SteveMeyerson [email protected]

VicePresident,Education&Membership . . . . . . . . .StanGlasofer [email protected]

VicePresident,Fundraising .......GaryNachman [email protected]

Treasurer . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LarryRoesen [email protected]

Secretary. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .GinnyPhillips [email protected]

FinancialSecretary............... JoshDavid [email protected]

EducationCoordinator. . . . . . . . . . TessGoldblatt [email protected]

SisterhoodPresident . . . . . . . . . . . . . . JanFrank [email protected]

Men’sClubPresident .............. BillBecker [email protected]

Webmaster. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . JudieKavit [email protected]

MessengerEditor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . SusanStein [email protected]

Rodef Sholom Temple318WhealtonRoad

Hampton,Virginia23666757.826.5894

Religious ServicesMonday and Thursday:7:45AMFriday Evening:8:00PMunlessotherwisenotedintheCalendarShabbat Morning:9:30AM

Office HoursMonday – Thursday:8:30AM–4:00PMFriday: 8:30AM–3:00PMOther hours by Appointment

revisitingancientwisdomandsources,somethinglikebecomingagrandparent,andrevisitingthemiracleofbirthandoflifefromanewperspective…

TheGaonofVilnataughtthatapersonwhohasdoneteshuvaislikeanewbornchild.Eachdaywe

havetheopportunitytomakeanewstart;tobeginagain;tomakethatdayanewexperienceandanewopportunity.

IalwaysmarvelatthedepthofperspectiveourTo-rahandtheteachingsofourspiritualpredecessorsgiveus.ItisnevertoolatetodiveintotheseaofJewishwisdomandinspiration.Itisnevertoolatetorevisittheancientwisdom.Itisnevertoolatetofindnewdirectionandinspiration!Anditisnevertooearlytoimmerseourchildrenintherichesofourtradition…

IwouldliketotakethisopportunitytowishyouandyourlovedonesaShana Tova u’Metukah–asweetyear,filledwithjoy,goodhealth,happinessandpeace!

L’Shana Tova Tikateyvu–Mayyoubeinscribedforagoodyear!

RabbiGilahDror

More photos and article of Eden’s Naming Ceremony on page 5.

Rabbi’s Message (continued)

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President’s MessageDearCongregants…

IfyouhaveattendedCabaretatanytimeoverthelast15years,youknowthatwhenitcomestosing-ingtalent,Ihavenone.SoIwillnottrytoputthismessagebeforeyouwithmusicalnotes,butIamproposingthatourprioritiesforthecomingyearbe

JustabriefupdateonRelocation.HowardWaterschairsthecommittee.AtourCongregationalmeet-inginJune,JosephRiddickpresentedtheresultsofoursurvey.Thesurveyshowedthatthecongrega-tionsupportstheconceptofrelocatingandsup-portstheconceptofmovingtoacampuswiththeJewishCommunityCenterandoneormoreothercongregations.Amotionwaspassedthatautho-rizesthesearchforanappropriatepieceoflandanddirectsthecommitteetodevelopafinancialplantoaccomplishrelocation.Howard’scommitteeisdili-gentlyworkingonthosegoalsandwillreporttousinthenearfuture.(Forthecompleteresultsofthesurvey,visitourwebsiteatwww.rodefsholomtemple.org)

TheMembershipeffortisheadedbyourvice-presi-dent,StanGlasofer,andencompassesmuchmorethanjust“recruiting”newmembers.Theeffortin-cludesoutreachtotheentireJewishCommunityoftheVirginiaPeninsula,particularlythe50%whoareunaffiliated.And,italsoincludes“in-reach”toourownmemberstoencouragethemtotakeadvantageofthemanyspiritual,educationalandsocialoppor-tunitiesthattakeplaceatRodefSholomTemple.

Stanisputtingtogetheracommitteeofmanypeo-plewhowilleachplaysomepartinthedevelopmentofamembershipplanthatwillallowustoreachouttomembersofourcommunitywhowillbenefitby

theirassociationwithRodefSholomandwhowillenrichusbytheirattendanceandparticipation.

Eachofusmustalsobeanunofficialmemberofthatcommittee.Wemusttakeeveryopportunitytoreachouttothosewhoarenotaffiliatedwithacongregationbyinvitingthemtocomewithustoservicesortoacongregationaldinner,ortoMen’sCluborSisterhoodfunctions.Weactuallydooffersomethingforeveryone,butweneedyourhelptogetthewordout.AndasoneofourBoardMem-berssaidrecently,wehavetoattendourselves,sothatwhennewpeoplecometheymeetaviable,enthusiastic,warm,welcomingcongregation.

Israel isintrouble.AsIwritethis,thefragileceasefireisholding…butwhoknowswhatwillbehap-peningwhenyoureadthismessage.WemustshowoursupportforIsraelandyourTempleleadershiphaschosentwowaysthatwe,asacongregation,candosomethingeffectiveandsubstantial.

Thefirstwayisimmediate…writeachecktotheRabbi’sDiscretionaryFundfortheMasortiIsraelEmergency.AsConservativeJewswearethelinktoourConservative/MasortibrothersandsistersinIsraelandourMovementhasbeengivingaidtofellowJewswhohavebeendisplacedinthenorth.Masortirabbisandcongregationsareprovidingfood,comfort,andspiritualhelptothethousandswhohavebeenforcedtoliveinbombshelters,tothosewhohavelostparentsandchildren,tothosewhohavelosttheirhomes.Masortirabbisandcongregationsinthesoutharetakinginthosewhohavebeendisplaced,providingrefugeforthechil-drenofthenorth,andraisingmoneytohelpthoseinneed.MasorticongregationsreceivenofundingfromthegovernmentofIsrael.Itisuptous,asConservativeJews,tohelpsupportthesemonumen-talreliefandrebuildingefforts.

DO RE M IDO RELOCATION, MEMBERSHIP, ISRAEL

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Familant Family Scholarship EstablishedTohonortheirdeceasedparents,LeonandDinaFamilant,Drs.Joseph,Harold,andLawrenceFami-lanthavecollaboratedtoprovideacollegescholar-shipgiftintheirmemory.Thescholarshipfundwillprovideitsrecipientwith$2,000forhis/herfresh-manyearofcollegeandwillbegivennextspringtoadeservingstudent.ThescholarshipisopentoallhighschoolstudentsonthePeninsulabutprefer-encewillbegiventoRodefSholomfamilies.

ThecollegescholarshipwasestablishedthroughaRodefSholomendowmentfund.“Mymotherwasamemberofthiscongregation,andwewantedtocreateanendowmentforthisscholarshipsothatitwillbeaperpetualfundandgoonyearafteryear,”saidDr.LawrenceFamilant.

“Bothofourparentsbelievedthateducationwasthevehicletobecomingsuccessful,”saidDr.JosephFamilant.“Equallyimportantistheconceptofchar-ityandgivingbacktothecommunity.”AllthreesonsagreethatLeonandDinaFamilantdemon-stratedtheirbeliefsbyexample,andnowtheymustfollowthemodelthatwassetbeforethem.

Peoplecanmakedonationstothisfundbycontact-ingtheTemple.Formoreinformationaboutthescholarship,contactDr.LawrenceFamilantat722-0084.

ThesecondwaytosupportIsraelrequiresanim-mediatecommitmentforanactionthatwilltakeplaceinJune2007.RODEFSHOLOMTEMPLEISGOINGTOISRAEL!

Oneofthefirstthingsthathappenswhenwarbreaksoutisthattouristsstopcomingandtheeconomygoesintoatailspin.In2002duringthematsav(situation),calledthesecondIntifadabysome,RoyLasris,MarkNataupsky,andIjoinedaRabbincalAssemblyMissiontoIsrael.Thecountrywasvoidoftouristsandhadbeenformonths.BenYehudaStreetandtheCardowereempty.Ineveryshopwevisitedandeveryrestaurant,ownersand

workersdeliveredthesamemessage…Thankyouforcoming!

RODEFSHOLOMTEMPLEISGOINGTOISRAELINJUNE2007ANDYOU SHOULDGOWITHUS.

Bythetimeyoureadthis,wehopetohavemorede-tailsaboutthetrip,butcalltodayandletusknowthatyouareinterested.Ipromiseyouawonderful,safeexperiencethatyouwillneverforget.

Onbehalfofmyfamilyandmyself,Iwishyouawonderful,peaceful,sweetNewYear.

L’Shana Tova, Barbara

Portraits of Dina and Leon Familant.

L to R: Joe and Harold Familant, Meril Amdursky, Asst. Director Tidewater Jewish Foundation, and Larry Familant.

President’s Message (continued)

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BRISKET RECIPE by“Sis”Gordon

AsmodifiedbyBarbaraGordonandservedatEden’sNamingCeremony

1wholekosherbrisket 8oz.FreshMushroomswashed&quartered Onionsoupmix(withoutMSG) ½#FreshCarrotspeeled&cutinto1”rounds BlackPepper orminipeeledcarrots GarlicPowder 3largeonionsthinlysliced

Preheatovento350degrees.Rinsebrisketincoldwaterandpatdrywithpapertowel.Spraybot-tomandsidesoflargeroastingpanwitholiveoilspray.Putbrisketinpanfatsideupandsprinklewithonionsoupmix(3-4tablespoons)andseasonwithgarlicpowderandpeppertotaste.Putenoughwaterinbottomofpantoabout½height.Putfreshvegetablesontopofandaroundbrisket.Covertightlywithaluminumfoilandbakeapproximately3½hoursuntildone.

(Fora2½to3½#brisket,reducecookingtimetoapproximately21/2hours)

Simcha at the SynagogueEden’snamingceremonybroughtnearlypalpablejoytoourcongregation.HarrietStormglowedwithemotionoftheday,“Itcameatsuchaperfecttime.AtatimeofcrisisinIsrael--everythingwasfull-blown--itwassuchawonderfulexperienceforus,asacongregation,tocometogetheronawarmsummerafternoonandcelebratenewlife.Everyonecameout:youngandold,babiesandseniorcitizens.ItwassuchajoytoseetheRabbibecomeagrand-mother,toseetheyoung,hard-workingparents,toenjoyamealbakedbythefather,tobreakbreadto-gether.It’swhatyouneedsometimes;tocelebratenewlifeinthemidstofsuchsadnesselsewhere.

Ithinkeveryoneleftfeelingbetter.Itwassouplift-ing.”Bringyournextsimchatothesynagogueanddoublethepleasurewithyourextendedcongrega-tionalfamily.

L’Dor v’Dor! Rabbi Dror celebrates with her next two generations at grandaughter Eden’s naming ceremony. L to R: Rabbi Dror with daughters Nurit and the new mother Shoshana. Proud father Moti Marziano cradles Eden on her big debut at Rodef Sholom.

Rodef Sholom congregants plant joy in Eden’s garden on the occasion of Rabbi Dror’s grandaughter’s naming ceremony.

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L’Shanah Tovah from the Board of Directors and the staff of Rodef Sholom

Temple.

RST Men’s ClubThefirstmeetingoftheRodefSholomTempleMen’sClubwillbeonMondaynight,September18at7:30pm.Thisfall’sprogramhighlightsincludea“steakandscotch”dinnerinthesynagogue’ssukkahonSundaynightOct.8thandaminyan/brunch/programonSundaymorning,Oct.29th.Theprogramwillfeatureapresentationon“Men’sHealthIssues.”Pleaseremembertopayyourduesfortheiryear.Duesare$36.00.YoucanbringachecktothefirstmeetingonsendyourdueschecktotheMen’sClubTreasurer,RickGoldblatt.PleasemakeoutyourchecktoRSTMen’sClub.

RickGoldblatt,RSTMen’sClubTreasurer506RichterLaneYorktown,VA23693

Greetings from SisterhoodAfterservingtwoyearsasco-presidentwithAileenFamilant,IamnowthepresidentofRodefSholomSisterhood.Iwillcertainlymissherhelpattendingsynagogueboardmeetings,givingspeeches,mak-ingpresentationsforSisterhood,andevenwritingtheSisterhoodarticlefortheMessenger.ButshepromisestocontinuesupportingSisterhoodanywayshecan.Thankyou,Aileen,forallyouhavedoneforRodefSholomSisterhoodinthepastandwilldointhefuture!

IwouldalsoliketothankMarthaKatz-HymanandCarolLewisforputtingtogetherourNewYear’sGreetingsDirectoryyearafteryear.Ourdirectorynowincludesthenames,phonenumbers,addresses,ande-mailaddressesofallourtemplemembers,plussomepastmembersandfriendsofRodefSholom.

Forcountlessyears,theDirectoryhasbeenanimportantfundraiserforSisterhood.ForthefirsttimethisyearweareaddingadvertisementstotheDirectory.ThankstoallofyouwhohavepurchasedtheDirectoryand/orplacedads.

TohelpyoupreparefortheHighHolidays,Sister-hoodwillholdaGiftFaironSunday,September17th.TherewillbeaspecialsaleintheJudaicaShop,pluscraftsfromEileenWoodandLoriWeinerandcardsandstationaryfromRobinRubenstein.PleasesupportSisterhoodbypurchasingyourholi-dayitemsattheHolidayGiftFair.

Sisterhoodwillagainprovidechildcarethisyearforchildren6yearsoldandunderduringRoshHasha-nahandYomKippurservices,September23rdand24thandOctober2nd.PleasesendyourreservationtothetempleofficebySeptember15thalongwithachecktohelpdefraythecostofbabysitting.

Iwishallofyouahappy,healthy,andsweetnewyear.L’shanatova!

JanFrankSisterhoodPresident

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By Tess Goldblatt, Education Coordinator

“Theworldenduresonlyforthesakeofthebreathofschoolchildren.” Shabbat 119b

IlovethecyclicalrhythmsofourJewishyear.Thistimeofouryearisalwaysmarkedwithshoppingfornewclothesandbackpacks,gettinghaircuts,andgearingupforanewschoolyear.InJudaism,wehavetheaddedsweetandyetseriouslayerofpreparingfortheHighHolidays,oftenatthesametimewe’regettingreadytogobacktoschool.

AttherecentCoalitionfortheAdvancementofJew-ishEducation(CAJE)ConferenceatDukeUniver-sity,IparticipatedintheConsortiumfortheFutureoftheJewishFamily.There,aroomfulofmyclass-

matestoldofdeeplyfondchildhoodmemoriesofshoppingfornewshoesbeforetheHighHolidays.ThissharedJewishexperience,formany,vividlymarkedthetimeofyear.Wesharedmuchlaugh-terandmanytears.Ritualcantakemanyshapes,canhappeninmanyplaces,andhasthepowertotransformus.Ifoundmyselfponderingwhyshoeshoppingcouldbesopowerful.

Ihaveafewhunches:Inreassuring,comfort-ing,andpredictablecyclicalfashion,thenewyearalwaysreturns.Yet,children(andtheirfeet)growinalinearfashion.Ithinkperhapsmagicalthingscanhappeninthosemomentswhenlinearandcyclicaltimeintersect.Ialsothinktryingonshoesisahighlytactileexperiencecoupledwithacaringadult’sundividedattention!

Inasimilarway,ourcaringeducatorsgivetheirundividedattentionandstrivetocreatemeaning-ful,experiential,andmemorableJewishlearningopportunitiesforourstudents,theirfamilies,andallmembersofourcongregationalfamily.Whetherinsidetheclassroomor“OutoftheBox”(forourpost-b’naimitzvahstudents),oureducatorsbreathelifeintothesayingthat“theworldenduresonlyforthesakeofthebreathofschoolchildren.”

Asacommunitywithareputationforlifelonglearning,weareall,inessence,“schoolchildren.”Here’saquicklookatsomeofthehighlightsofopportunitiesforlifelonglearningwe’reofferingthis“shulyear.”

♦ CongregationalFamilyEducationprogramcelebratingTorahandpreparingforSimchatTorahtakesplaceduringtheopeningdayofreligiousschool,Sep17thfrom10am-noon.Allcongregantsareinvited.

Shoe Shopping and Shul Bells

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Local Jewish educators enjoy Duke University’s southern hospitality at the 31st Conference on Alternatives in Jewish Education (CAJE): Chris Hochman from Temple Beth El in Williamsburg, and Beth Kluger and Tess Goldblatt from Rodef Sholom Temple. CAJE attendees report that the Duke Chapel bells, in the background, peeled “Shalom Aleichem” at 5:20 PM Friday.

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Library NewsOurLibrarycatalogingprojectcontinues,andweareslowlygettingclosertoourgoalofhavingallofourbooksinthedatabase.Oncethathappens,itwillbemucheasiertokeeptrackofourbooksandalsoproducelistsofchildren’sbooks,aswellasbooksondifferentsubjects.TessGoldblatt,ourEducationCoordinator,isincorporatingthelibraryintoherplanningforthisyearsothatourReligiousSchoolstudentswillhavetheopportunitytoutilizeitmorefully.

Thenextbigprojectinthelibrarywillbetogothroughthehundredsofdonatedbooksthatarestoredinthecabinetsandinvariousplacesaroundthesynagoguetodeterminewhichofthemshouldbeaddedtothecollectionandwhichshouldbe

donatedtootherlibrariesorotherorganizations.Inmanycasesthesebooksarenotappropriateforourlibraryorareduplicates(manytimesover!)ofbooksthatarealreadyinthelibraryandsoarenotneces-saryforus.Wewillmakesuretofindthemgoodhomes.

ThanksagaintoMargoDruckerandPatScherfortheirdedicationtothisproject,andtoBettyLevinforkeepingusfocused!

LibraryFundcardsareavailableforminimumdona-tionof$5.00;a$25.00donationwillincludeplac-ingabookplateinoneoftheLibrary’snewbooks.Pleasecontactmeatmbkatzhyman@juno.comor877-9321.Iwillbegladtosendthemoutforyou.

MarthaKatz-HymanLibraryChair

♦ “TheHighHoliday“S” שWords:Sweet,Selichot,Sorry,Sneakers…HowDoYouConnect?”willbethethemeoftheShabbatSchoolstudentprogrammingonthefirstdayofRoshHaShanah,Saturday,September23rd.

♦ Rabbi’s“AfterShulSchmooze”seriesthisyearwillbebasedonthewonderfulseriesofessaysfoundinthebackofourEtzChayimchumash.WatchtheTemplecalendarforthesemonthlylearningopportunitiesheldafterShabbatkiddushlunch.

♦ Thechallengesofmodernparenting,fromaJewishperspective,willbeexploredwhenwediscussThe Blessing of a Skinned KneebyWendyMogel.“Pencilin”March11thandMarch25thandwatchtheTemplecalendars.

Religious School registration packets were mailed in early August.

Or register now online at rodefsholomtemple.org

L to R: Rebecca Scheetz, Jody Sarfan, Roy Lasris, Rabbi Dror, and Sam Parrucci enjoy fabulous kosher dinners at Duke and the chance to share news of their various sessions on Building Jewish Literacy at the CAJE Conference.

♦ “WritinganEthicalWillasaGifttoYourChildren”willbepresentedFebruary11thbyJo-AnneTucker-ZemlakfromtheUSCJSeaboardRegion.

Finally,besuretoaskanyoftheotherCAJEat-tendeesabouttheirremarkablelearningandgrowthasJewisheducators:RabbiDror,RoyLasris,BethKluger,JodySarfan,SamParrucci,andRebeccaScheetz…andthankthemfortheircontributiontotheenduranceofourworld.

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Celebrate Special Occasions at Rodef Sholom TempleHavingaspecialbirthdayoranniversary?Remem-beringadepartedlovedone?Wanttosharegoodnewsorgoodfortunewithfriends?Areyouread-ingHaftorahontheanniversaryofyourBar/BatMitzvah?

CelebratethatspecialoccasionwithTemplemem-bersbysponsoringanOnegShabbat,KiddushLuncheon,orMinyanBreakfast.

Yourdonationof$50.00foranOnegShabbat,$100foraKiddushLuncheon,or$35foraMin-yanBreakfastistaxdeductible.CalltheTempleOfficetoscheduleyoursponsorship.

Thankstothefollowingwhohavesponsoredameal:

• David&KarenLevyinmemoryofFrancesLevy&RuthHoneySiegel

• LarryFamilantinmemoryofDinaFamilant• RabbiDrorinhonorofhernewgranddaughter• MitziFrancisinmemoryofJuliusMinkoff• JoanAaroninhonorofLeonardAaron• Marshall&RebeccaScheetzinhonoroftheir

wedding• AbeFirestoneinhonorofErnestine’s80th

birthday.• JanetGlasoferinhonorofvacation• Evelyn&CyrilMirmelsteininhonorofCyril’s

90thbirthday.• SarahPscheidt

Anonymous

Liveshulsareconstantlychanging;deadshulsdon’thaveto.

Liveshulshavelotsofnoisykidswhorunaroundanddisturbtheserviceanddrivetherabbibats;deadshulsdon’t.

Liveshulsexpensesalwaysexceedtheirincome;deadshulstakeinmoremoneythantheyspend.

Liveshulsareconstantlythinkingaboutthefuture;deadshulsworshiptheirpast.

Liveshulsfocusonpeople-keepingthemgrowing;deadshulsfocusonthebuilding-keepingitneatandcleanandquiet.

Temple News Mazel Tov To:

• MotiandShoshanaMarzianoonthebirthoftheirdaughterEden.

• Rabbionthebirthofhergranddaughter.• JudyMorewitzandGeorgeMorewitzon

thebirthoftheirnewgrandsonMilesLewisMorewitz

Condolences To:• HelenSoeferandfamilyonthelossofBob

Soefer• TheMinkofffamilyonthelossofJulius

Minkoff• JaneGoldmanonthelossofhersisterBertha

Nelson

Welcome To New Members:

• D.J.Freedman,SarahPscheidtandIsaiahFreedman

• Dr.SteveDannenberg

Live Shuls and Dead ShulsLiveshulsdreamgreatdreams;deadshulsrehearsenightmares.

Liveshulsdon’thave‘can’t’intheirvocabulary;deadshulshavenothingelsebut.

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Endowment FundInmemoryofAnnaCohen EleanorB.Small

InhonorofMarvin&CisPosner’sgreatgranddaughter Al&FranMoliken Kenny&RobinMurov

InmemoryofT.Hornsby Tsvi&MarthaKatz-Hyman

InhonorofSarahKatz-Hyman’sConfirmation Kenny&RobinMurov

InmemoryofRobertSoefer Mark&MarilynNataupsky Leonard&JoanAaron Dick&JaneFairman LotteGoldstein Charles&SueFriedman Jimmie&LizO’Donnell Scott&JanetKruger Jay&TovaWarren Bill&JoanneRoos Ed&JudyMirmelstein SondraSchaffer&family Chick&JudyBecker Abe&ErnieFirestone Tsvi&MarthaKatz-Hyman Stan&JanetGlasofer Harvey&SheilaRubin GertrudeGordon Sam&LisaMargolin Al&FranMoliken JudyMorewitz GeorgeMorewitz BerniceA.Schoenbaum Alan&BootsWorkman Marvin&CisPosner Buddy&BettyLevin Marcy,Joel,Sari&Jeremy Mirmelstein Phil&AvivaSalasky Melvin&MeetsieDickler JodyMazur&DavidBanyai EttaleaKanter HildaLevinson L.J.&PollyPursifull Krieg&MontreoPursefull SharonWinter

Michael&JoEllenSlurzberg Rhea&JulieWolfram JesseMirmelstein RebeccaGreen RhodaMazur Kenny&RobinMurov Martin&EthelKrinick Martin&RozDamsky BarbaraNachman Norman&BonnieKatzenberg Bob&MarilynNochimson Arthur&JeanFass Ben&TaraFriedman TheWeisgerberFamily L.J.&TzinaRichman Ralph&BobbiGoldstein Sam&RoseAnnTreger SaraAnnStein Mark&JudyRanzer Eugene&LoisNewman William&JoanneRosenfeld RuthLee Richard&HeleneLee Geofrey&LisaNochimson Linwood&MyraKramer

ForthespeedyrecoveryofStevePortnoy Mark&MarilynNataupsky Abe&ErnieFirestone Charles&SueFriedman Ralph&BobbiGoldstein

ForthespeedyrecoveryofAbe&ErnestineFirestone Al&FranMoliken

InhonorofJoanRosenbaum’sbirthday Al&FranMoliken

InhonorofRabbiGilahDror’sfirstgrandchild Mark&MarilynNataupsky Buddy&BettyLevin Bob&MarilynNochimson EdithSpritzer

InhonorofTsvi&MarthaKatz-Hyman’sfirstgrandchild BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofMoti&ShoshanaMarziano’sdaughter Sam&LisaMargolin

ForthespeedyrecoveryofAdamDeyong Sam&LisaMargolin

ForthespeedyrecoveryofNormanPetock Mark&MarilynNataupsky Mike&JillKeech

InmemoryofJuliusMinkoff Bob&MarilynNochimson Charles&SueFriedman Gene&EvelynGoodman Sam&LisaMargolin Milton&SandyKatz Marvin&CisPosner Lou&GloriaPadersky

ForthespeedyrecoveryofGalePhillips Sam&LisaMargolin

InhonorofErnestineFirestone’sspecialbirthday L.J.&TzinaRichman Stan&JanetGlasofer

InhonorofJoanRosenbaum’sspecialbirthday Linwood&MyraKramer

Drucker Music FundInhonorofEdenMarziano RuthBerlin

Silverman/Schoenbaum FundInmemoryofRobertSoefer Louis&BobbiSueSilverman TheSchoenbaumFamily

InmemoryofJuliusMinkoff Louis&BobbiSueSilverman

Eric & Jack Luckman Memorial FundInmemoryofRobertSoefer Jeff&LoriLuckman

ForthespeedyrecoveryofStevePortnoy Jeff&LoriLuckman

InhonorofAmyRosenbaum’sgraduationandaward Jeff&LoriLuckman

Todah Rabah

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InmemoryofMarySchneider Jeff&LoriLuckman

InhonorofShellyPortnoy’sretirement Jeff&LoriLuckman

Rabbi’s Discretionary FundInmemoryofRabbiJesseFinkle Jay&TovaWarren

InmemoryofRobertSoefer Milt&SandyKatz Norman&BebePetock

InhonorofRabbiGilahDror’sfirstgrandchild Norman&BonnieKatzenberg Al&FranMoliken Geofrey,Lisa,Joel&Benjamin Nochimson GertrudeGordon FrancesZwerdling Stanley&PatScher Myra&LinwoodKramer BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofMoti&ShoshanaMarziano’sdaughter Stan&JanetGlasofer Al&FranMoliken Wendy&GeorgeCohen

InhonorofTsvi&MarthaKatz-Hyman’sfirstgrandchild Al&FranMoliken

InmemoryofJuliusMinkoff AudreyRapaport Milt&SandyKatz

ForthespeedyrecoveryofNormanPetock L.J.&TzinaRichman

ForthespeedyrecoveryofStevePortnoy Linwood&MyraKramer

ForthespeedyrecoveryoftheFirestones Linwood&MyraKramer

InhonorofCantorIsaacDanker’sspecialbirthday Linwood&MyraKramer

Education FundInhonoroftheBatMitzvahofAllieBashkoff Norman&BonnieKatzenberg Leonard&JoanAaron Geoffrey&RyekenKostiner

InmemoryofIdaFenigsohn’ssister-in-lawJean Bob&HelenSoefer

InhonorofBarbaraGordon’sbirthday AdaBrenner

ForthespeedyrecoveryofStevePortnoy Richard&JaneFairman Cyril&EvelynMirmelstein

InmemoryofBobSoefer Steve&ShellyPortnoy

InhonorofRabbiGilahDror’sfirstgrandchild Steve&ShellyPortnoy Belle&EdOlshansky

InhonorofGalePhillips Geofrey,Lisa,Joel,&Benjamin Nochimson

InmemoryofJuliusMinkoff Helen,Ellyn,&HarveySoefer

InhonoroftheconversionofJanFreedman BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofAmyRosenbaum’sgraduationfromhighschool BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofSuzanneLuckman’sgraduationfromhighschool BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofCraigSegall’sgraduationfromhighschool BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofLauraGlasofer’sgraduationfromhighschool BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InhonorofthemarriageofMarshall&RebeccaScheetz BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InmemoryofBelleOlshansky’sbrother,NathanGoldblatt BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchnerForthespeedyrecoveryofAbeFirestone Leonard&JoanAaron

Minyan Breakfast FundInmemoryofBobSoefer Stanley&MargoDrucker BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

InmemoryofJuliusMinkoff Tsvi&MarthaKatz-Hyman Mark&MarilynNataupsky

InhonorofRabbi’sgranddaughter Milt&SandyKatz

ForthespeedyrecoveryofStevePortnoy BarbaraWeisner&HerbHotchner

Torah FundInhonoroftheBatMitzvahofAllieBashkoff Ben&JaneGoldman

InmemoryofBobSoefer RuthBerlin Ben&JaneGoldman David&KarenLevy

Inappreciationofallthekindnessesbeingextendedtohersisterduringherlengthyillness JaneGoldman

CongratulationstoRabbiGilahDroronthebirthofhergranddaughter Evelyn&EugeneGoodman

BestwishesforaspeedyrecoverytoNormanPetock Evelyn&EugeneGoodman

Library FundInhonoroftheBatMitzvahofAlexandraBashkoffMartha&TsviKatz-Hyman

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InhonoroftheBatMitzvahofEmmaNeedhamMartha&TsviKatz-Hyman

InmemoryofThelmaZarinBetty&BuddyLevin

InhonoroftheBarMitzvahofFayeFeinbaum’sgrandsonBrett’sBarMitzvahBetty&BuddyLevin

InmemoryofRobertSoeferJanice&PhillipLevySylviaBlechmanKruger&SadyeM.Blechman

InhonorofJeanneCohen’sspecialbirthdayCis&MarvinPosner

WishingaspeedyrecoverytoStevePortnoyBetty&BuddyLevin

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Todah Rabahcontinued from previous page

Religious school students and parents give the gift of music to Gale Phillips as they sing “I’m Growing Jewishly.” Education Coordinator Tess Goldblatt leads the Family Chorus accompanied by RST songleaders, Brian Parker and Joel Glesier.

Ifyouhavephoto-graphs,programs,newspaperarticlesofeventsinvolvingRodefSholomTempletobeincludedinacomprehensive

albumofourcongregation’shistory,pleasedropthembythetempleoffice.Wearelookingforitemsofanyvintageof:

Peseachseders,Purim,Sukkot,SimchatTorah,Chanukahcelebrations;ReligiousschooleventsincludingConfirmationsandConsecrations;Caba-ret;Weddingsandotherfamilysimchat;Sisterhood,Men’sClub,andYouthGroupprograms;Construc-tionandrenovationphasesonpriortemplebuild-ing;Thededicationofthesanctuary;andanyotheroccasionsthatwouldhelpusprovideapermanentrecordforfuturegenerations.

Ifyoudonotwishtopartwiththem,wouldyoupleasemakecopiesthatcanbeincludedinthisalbum?Printsthatare8X10or5X7wouldbeappreciated.Itwouldbemosthelpfulifyouwouldincludeonthebackofthephototheeventpictured,approximatedate,whoispictured,andyournameasthedonor.

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Jewish News Network

Special Report:

Famous Jewish American EducatorsFamilyEducationatRSTtraveledtoa“newdi-mension”onJune4thasthecongregationandreligiousschoolgatheredtolearnaboutandtohonorfamousJewishAmericanEducators.JNNAnchorwomanSylviaCrafttime-traveledtothelate1790’stointerviewJewishpioneerwomanRe-beccaSamuel,playedbyBethArager.Throughanamazingletterfoundbyhistorians,familieslearnedabouttheimportanceoftheparents’roleinJew-isheducationinthehome.Timetravelcontinuedinthislivelyhistoricalskitto1838ontheopeningdayofthefirstHebrewSundaySchoolinAmerica.Historicalspeeches,letters,andotherprimarysourcesformedthemajorityofthesecharacters’lines.TheJewishWomen’sArchiverecognized

RST’sprogramintheireducational“BestPractices”section.Seehttp://jwa.org/teach/bestpractices.

Afterinterviewingeducatorsfromthepast,thecongregationtime-traveledtothepresent,shower-ingGalePhillipswithgiftsofartandmusic,thank-ingandhonoringher23yearsofservicetothereligiousschool.Goingtothe“Future,”studentsnamedtheirwishesforfuturereligiousschoolpro-gramsandvotedonthedistributionofthetzedakahfundstheyhaddonatedthroughouttheyear.

CongregationalFamilyEduca-tionprograms,opentotheentirecongregation,willbe-ginagainonSeptember17thfrom10amtonoon,whenwewillbecelebratingTorahandpreparingforSimchatTorah.TalentedsongleadersBrianParkerandJoelGleiserwillreturntoupliftourOpen-ingDaycelebrationwithmusic,andbesurenottomissthenewest“substituteteacher”atRST,introduc-ing“Sh’Mama!”FamilyEd:Checkitout!

Jewish News Network (JNN) Special Reporter Sylvia Craft time travels to interview famous Jewish American Educator Miss Rebecca Gratz, played by Lauryl Daugherty on the right. Teacher Rosa Mordecai, played by Lori Luckman, begins to tell about classes at Miss Gratz’s Sunday School while famous educational philanthropist Hyman Gratz, played by Brian Dougherty, listens in.

During the Family Education program on famous Jewish American Educators, Rabbi Dror and the congregation thank Gale Phillips for her amazing 23 years of service to the religious school.

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Torah FundAswebeginthenewyear,Women’sLeagueforConservativeJudaismbeginsitslatestTorahFundcampaigntoraisemuch-neededfundsforstudentsatTheJewishTheologicalSeminaryinNewYork,theZieglerSchoolofRabbinicStudiesattheUni-versityofJudaisminLosAngelesandtheSchechterInstituteofJewishStudiesinJerusalem.Overthepast60-plusyears,fundsraisedbyWomen’sLeaguemembersalloverthecountryhavehelpedsupporttheeducationoffuturerabbis,cantorsandeducatorsforoursynagoguesandschools,aswellastherehabilitationofresidencehalls,librariesandthecon-structionoftheWomen’sLeagueSeminarySynagogue.Everywoman’sgiftis

Geese fly in a V-shape.Geese take turns in the front of the V where the going is the hardest.Geese moving to the back of the V get support, as wing-flapping creates lift for those who’ve just finished their job up front.

Geese fly together in community, and Jews pray together in community.Our weekday minyan service has lost some of its most frequent flyers.

Our weekday minyan needs you to help create lift for those needing to say kaddish. Geese don’t fly alone, and Jews don’t let other

Jews feel alone.Take your place in the V, whenever you

can, Mondays and Thursdays at 7:45AM.

Geese Don’t Fly Alone

important,butasaspecialgifttothoseattheBenefactorlevel($180),TorahFundcommissionsspecialpins(seenbelow)astokensofappreciation.Thisyear’sthemeis“Hallel,”asongofpraise--espe-ciallyappropriatebecausethisyearmarksthe50thyearthatTorahFundhascommissionedthesepins.

OurTorahFundbrunchwilltakeplacelaterthisyear.Ihopemanyofyouwilljoinusthatmorning.

Mybestwishesforanewyearofpeaceandgoodhealth.

MarthaKatz-HymanTorahFundChair

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YahrzeitsYahrzeitsSeptember 2nd Dr.ThomasD.MorewitzLouisJaffeeGretaH.SegallBessieKaplanCoplandIdaGlasoferRoseSternVeraFriedmanEdwardMassellBlechmanLouisRotginAlfredGreenfieldMosesSalsburyJamesEarlBarnettSr.GraceBanksMirmelsteinJ.S.KingHarryWaxman

September 9th JosephH.ConnAnnaGoldmanGoodmanE.DavidBlechmanSylviaSchonfeldDavidR.MarguliesJakeLevienMaryMeyhrJosephBlackLouisOsmanTzinaZwerdlingSidneyKatzenellSophiaRosenWeinsteinJuliusLevyJuliusWeinstein

September 16th EstherF.BeskinRoseUngerLenaG.SilvermanSolFenigsohnAnneS.LipmanSelmaHarrisBrianDesherFrancisDr.SeymourGlasoferDavidB.Rubin

September 23rd BenjaminFairmanMiltonLevineBorisMargolinRosemaeLevinsonAbrahamH.MorewitzMorrisHimmelLillianGreenblumAnnEdelbergIrvingBlockIreneHelfandIsraelSchwartzMaxKanterShulamithSchneiderFranklinO.BlechmanGoldieNachmanMonasKramerAleciaL.SalaskyEllisB.MirmelsteinSethLeonardStrickJeannetteDavidsonCellieRiibner

September 30th FannyCohenManuelTillesJosephMeyerKaplanAlfredMorrisMarciaKurkeAaronBenGordonMossDeyongJuliusConnBerniceT.LevingstonJosephI.GoldsteinBernard“Bucky”FoxEmilSchoenbaumBernardRaskinMorrisLeonGodbergDoraSilverKleinJacobBrennerJosephGoldmanHarryMarks

October 7th DoraEisenbergRebaKaplanCarolynHornsbyAnnieFriedlengNormaLasrisNellieKatzBerthaFeldsteinBerthaLendleWilliamR.DavidWilliamDiamonsteinEdwardSaundersJackE.FriedmanNathanLipmanGoldyeLindemannGertrudeRubinAlvinSholkHermanKabikAlbertGoldberg

October 14th HarryJanuaryMacyM.CarmelSamuelAdelsonBenjaminM.RomeLeonBlackmanBenjaminSatiskyMiriamKatzenellJosephLipmanHarryEllensonSadeK.RichmanJennieFinkleMershonSamGarfinkelSarahR.LevineJosephFrankScher

October 21st GitelaJacobsonGabrielLichtensteinHelenNachmanEpsteinBessieEllensonMarkoffVeraGoldrosenFeldsherJosephOlshanskySidneySpirnPoeSolomonBertramRudermanHarryAbramsDonaldSagmanDoraFischLouisMorewitzLouisLewitt

October 28th AlexanderSternSimmieO.SolomonGilbertLevineMiltonL.LevyJackKatzenbergHermanLevineAnneSegaloffSolCramerCeceliaKatzSadyeMeyhrMorrisRossyeN.BeckerH.DavidPeltzWalterFlickJacob“Jack”HermanLichten-stein

Again, we are looking for home hospitality for students at our local colleges and universities for the High Holy Days and throughout the year. If you would be willing to host one or more students for holiday dinners or for Shabbat din-ners during the year, please call or e-mail Stan Glasofer at 930-4606 or [email protected].

Geese fly in a V-shape.Geese take turns in the front of the V where the going is the hardest.Geese moving to the back of the V get support, as wing-flapping creates lift for those who’ve just finished their job up front.

Geese fly together in community, and Jews pray together in community.Our weekday minyan service has lost some of its most frequent flyers.

Our weekday minyan needs you to help create lift for those needing to say kaddish. Geese don’t fly alone, and Jews don’t let other

Jews feel alone.Take your place in the V, whenever you

can, Mondays and Thursdays at 7:45AM.

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Dear Fellow Congregant:

This is the time of year when many Jewish families are looking for a temple which will help meet their religious and communal needs. You can reach out and share the “haimishness” of your congre-gation with them. Invite them to join you for a Shabbat Service, or bring them to one of our activities, or simply share this Messenger with them. As a person who cares about the growth and strengthen-ing of our synagogue, please extend your hand to others and invite them to be-come a part of our congregational family.

Shalom,

Barbara GordonPresident

Attention All Seniors•Do you live alone?• Is your family scattered to the far winds? Or

really busy?• Would you like a “friendly caller” to call you at

a time and frequency convenient for you?

The “friendly caller” project is sponsored by the National Council of Jewish Women-Hampton Roads section.

If you are interested, call one of the following committee members: Ruth Berlin 723-1762Ida Fenigsohn 930-2263Edith Spritzer 596-8762


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