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Out of the night that covers me, Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconnquearable soul In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud, Under the bludgeoning of chance My head bloody, but unbowed Beyond this place of wrath and tears Looms but the Horror of the shade, And yet the menace of the years Finds and shall find me unafraid It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul. Invictus , William Ernest Henley As e Real Story moves into its fourth month in print and our seventh month of existence, it is time to give thanks to the people who matter most---our readers. Without the people who buy the paper and support us through purchasing ads, there is NO Real Story. While I attended Market Street Festival, this weekend, I was overwhelmed by the love and support that I felt from the people who approached me. And, aer this weekend, I truly felt that the transformation from former police chief to "newspaper man" is complete. e encouragement I have received from the community has always been amazing. I don't always understand it, but I am glad I have it. During my "Dark Journey of the Soul," I was oen asked what I was going to do and whether I was going to move. A couple of well-meaning friends even said I would have to move. "What would the ex-chief do in Columbus, if he wasn't chief?" they asked. And, even when I didn't know the answer to that question, I knew this: I was not moving! Columbus is my home. My experiences, over this past weekend only reinforce this de-

cision. I love C-town. I love Lowndes County. And, now I can say without a doubt, "I am a Mississippian and I am proud to be from Columbus." A really smart guy, who is the Star of his own book, but never wrote a word of it, once said, In patience, you shall win your soul." ese words ring true for all of us, and should be our governing concept in life. To win is to fight and to overcome adversity. It is the glue that keeps everyone on focus. e words, "Even when failure seems certain, cling to your ideals and principles" are words I will never forget. ey have been brought to my attention, most emphatically, over the past few days. I didn't know much about the author, beforehand, but I understand his words meaning. And, that is the important part understanding. e most common admonition that I have heard, since the inception of the paper, has been for e Real Story to keep it real. And, that is what we plan to do. We will endeavor to keep it real for as long as e Real Story exists. Its the only way to get things done. e support I have received, over the past 10 months, will never be forgotten; nor will the commitment I have to the community. e Real Story will be there and, yes, will even stir things up, when necessary. We want to be "the communitys newspaper. We want to be the publication that you can send to anyone, anywhere in America and be proud of the content, the layout, the photos, the writing, and the ads; in short, we want you, the reader, to be proud of everything we do. From the onset, the paper has said, we will be the "government watchdog." at concept should be every papers true agenda. It is not acceptable for a legitimate media outlet to prey on the unfortunate, the wreck victim, the one-time, minor oender, while "Rome burns and Nero fiddles." It is not only sloppy journalism - it is a disservice to the community. Its that plain and simple, and if you're in the media and have to look up either

"Rome" or "Nero" that is also a problem. , So, for all the people who approached me this past weekend and told me to keep giving the man hell - rest assured that we will never stop. e Real Story is dedicated to being a community watch dog. And, I promise that we will never hunt rabbits and squirrels, while there is big game in town. at is a waste of your time and mine. It is a sophomoric attempt to be important, in a troubled world. Using your power to promote silliness and irrelevance is never truly journalism. In closing - because 2,700 words are 1,700 words too much, two quotes resonate with me, as I come to the climax of the article: Meet failure and disappointment with courage. Rise superior to the trials of life, and never give in to hopelessness or despair. In danger, in adversity, cling to your principles and ideals. - Dr. William Osler ink oen of how swily all things pass away and are no more - the works of Nature and the works of man. e substance of the Universe, matter, is like unto a river that flows on, forever. All things are not only in a constant state of change, but they are the cause of constant and infinite change in other things. Upon a narrow ledge thou standest! Behind thee, the bottomless abyss of the Past! In front of thee, the Future, that will swallow up all things that are now. Over what things, then, in this present life wilt thou, O foolish man, be disquieted or exalted - making thyself wretched; seeing that they can vex thee only for a time - a brief, brief time! - Marcus Aurelius ese are words we can all live by!

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Caledonia Commits to Parks and Recreation; Robertsons Situation Sent to the AGs Ocee May 1, 2012, meeting of the Caledonia Board of Aldermen packed noticeably less punch than past meetings. Proceeding smoothly through the mundane aairs of town government, very little excitement permeated the room. With the exception of a brief flair-up between Michelle Cox and Mayor Gerhart, over Easter eggs and the logo on the Easter Egg Hunt fliers, all appeared calm. e most important agenda item of the night was Alderman Mike Savages announcement that the Town was going to continue its search for a full-time Park and Recreation director. Claiming that, at one time, it was his "dream job," Savage went on to explain that that time had passed and someone else needed to fill the role. When asked about the situation by phone, Savage added the points, "It's just mostly for convenience. We already have the ball park and the citizens use it." He also went on to explain that with the cost of gas, in today's market, it only made sense to have the ball field and the programs located within the town. Add to this the fact that Caledonia is fiercely independent and the situation is a no-brainer. If the town can agree on the job description and the rate of pay, the municipality will be getting its own stand-alone Parks and Recreation department. When questioned about the fact that the city and the county already have the Columbus-Lowndes County Parks Department, the citizens who have chosen to speak out about it are committed to Caledonia conducting its own programs. Right or wrong, Caledonians have a strong desire to control their own destiny. is would be no exception. In other news, it was quietly pointed out that the situation between the Town and the Robertsons has been sent to be the Mississippi AG's Oce, for review. A copy of the letter that was sent by Town Attorney Je Smith accompanies this article. It will only be a matter of time before this issue is played out again, as the situation stumbles toward a resolution.

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Election Season Must Have BegunThe May 1, 2012 Columbus City Council MeetingSmith trotted out the members of his the now-defunct Retired Senior Volunsqueaky clean and oh-so-culturally-di- teer Program (RSVP), two of our esverse Mayors Youth Council, so that he teemed councilmen tripped all over each could go on-record as recognizing them. other, in a rush to come to the aid of Ms. Do you think that any of them realized Evans and her fellow senior citizens. Responding to Ms. that they were being Evans plea for used for political purposes? One can Get away from me, someone in city government to look almost envision the into what could be scene, when the kid youre done to resurrect cameras and the the senior center, public had disapbothering me! Charlie Box was peared, where one of quick to volunteer the youngsters apto be part of this proaches the mayor with a question or comment, only to have brand-new committee. en, as if to say, Smith growl Get away from me kid Me, too! Me, too!, Councilman Mickens stated that, since this was in his area, youre bothering me! he wanted to be a part of the committee, Later, during the Citizens Input Agenda, when Margaret Evans came to as well. Hmm, is it possible that these two the podium to decry the closure of the public servants recognize the fact that the senior center that had been operated by most likely voters in any election are senior citizens? Nah, that couldnt be it! (tongue planted firmly in cheek). Lastly, and as if to punctuate the whole Kumbaya, were one big happy family theme of the meeting, the council, with NO discussion, approved the once-controversial reorganization plan that was requested by Police Chief Selvain McQueen. Wow! If you listen closely enough, you can still hear the echoes of See, we really are just here to serve the citizens of Columbus! Yeah, right!

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e May 1 meeting of the Columbus City Council was, on the surface, refreshingly boring. Of course, the Council plodded through the mundane minutiae of city government, with approval of various items and little or no discussion.

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Seasoned observers of Friendly City politics could, however, detect the early signs of a once-every-four-years phenomenon known as Election Season. Yes, and the signs were evident, early in the meeting. During the portion of the agenda devoted to comments by the Mayor and City Council, Mayor Robert


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LETTER cont. from pg. 2April 26, 2012 Mississippi Attorney General's Oce Attn: Honorable Chuck Rubiso P.O. Box 220 Jackson, MS 39205-0220 RE: Opinion Request for the Town of Caledonia Dear Chuck: I was asked to write by the Mayor and Board of Aldermen of the Town of Caledonia for the following situation. The Town of Caledonia owns its own water and sewer system and recently ran across a user's property (actually a family of users which consists of more than one user) and it is questionable if a user agreement or easement was in place. The user (one particular land owner) is most upset with the utility lines being laid or placed upon their property without proof of an easement. The Board has attempted to obtain quotes from landscaping companies to return the property to its former situation or cir-

cumstance/ landscape condition prior to the installation of the utility lines. The landowners are not satisfied with two (2) quotes which were approximately $5,500.00 and had obtained a quote for approximately $10,600.00 from another professional landscaping service. The Town is in a quandary of whether attempting to pay the professional service (landscaping company) or accept one of the quotes from one of the two lower contractors in exchange for a valid easement from the landowners. The landowners refused to accept anything other than the quote they have obtained because they know of his quality work. I have advised the Board they would have to use the quote, since they have been obtained, which is the lowest and best. I would like some guidance from the Attorney General's Oce as to the route which would appear to be the most logical under the law (31-7-13) of Mississippi Code of 1972. Thank you for all of your help in this matter.


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Walk-Ferguson Considers Stores Her BabiesLook back. No, don't turn around and look behind you; look back into the past - 23 years. Ahhh - 1989 - what a year. George H. W. Bush was elected president, Motorola introduced the first mobile phone, and Jo Ann Walk-Ferguson became one of the first people to purchase a franchise of General Nutrition Center, more commonly known as GNC. Now, let's return to the present. To this day, Mrs. Walk-Ferguson owns the longest-operating franchise, out of approximately 3,000 stores, worldwide. Yes worldwide! In 1994, Walk-Ferguson took another store under her wing, this one located in Starkville, Mississippi. ese two GNC stores are known as her "babies". When asked what her favorite part of owning GNC stores is, she stated, "It is just a good company to work for. ey take care of their people." So, make a visit to our local GNC store, in Columbus, for a glimpse of history in the making.

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Graduation Cap Peanut Butter Cup Cookie T reatsGraduation Caps made with peanut butter cups and graham cracker cookies Yum!! Have them on a plate put them on top of cupcakes yummmm.... eyre just too cool and very easy to make!Ingredients Peanut Butter Cups Bottom Chocolate Covered Graham Crackers Top Red Hot Candies Red Button on the top of the Cap Red Licorice Laces Tassels cut to desired length Small amount of frosting for the glue


Hey - if you make some, bring one to me (I wont tell my Mama...Im on a diet). Whoever heard of a pig on a diet, anyway?!

Smithville: Reflecting on the Past, Looking to the FutureHow long is ten seconds? One-Mississippi, two-Mississippi, three-Mississippi, four-Mississippi, five-Mississippi, sixMississippi, seven-Mississippi, eightMississippi, nine-Mississippi, tenMississippi. Not very long at all, right? Ten seconds, however, is long enough to completely destroy a town that took over 200 years to build. Looking back to April 27, 2011, ten seconds was all it took to completely devastate the town of Smithville, Mississippi, population nine hundred. On April 28, 2012, residents of Smithville and Monroe County, along with town, county, and state government ocials, congregated on the site of where the police department once stood, for Smithville Memorial Day. "is has changed the face of Smithville forever. Today is a day to be in Godly fellowship with one another," stated Mayor Gregg Kennedy.The family of the late Mildred Ingram set up on the location of the old homesite.

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Snow read the names of those who lost their lives, that tragic day. "e ones we lost are looking down upon us, as we rebuild our town. On Easter Sunday, we all went to church to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ. Today, we come together to celebrate the resurrection of Smithville. In just one year, remarkable progress has been made. Aer total devastation, the clean-up of debris, and lives lost, eight businesses are back in operation and a large percentage of families have returned, to rebuild their homes. Amidst all of the trials and tribulations, we see nothing but bright beautiful skies, ahead, for the town of Smithville.

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As Amazing Grace touched the ears of the audience, balloons were released into the air, and Vice-Mayor Johnny

The crowd listens to Amazing Grace as balloons are released into the air.

Special Budget Message and Legislative Updates for Columbus Schools StaEditors Note: e following is a copy of a letter that was recently sent to all Columbus Municipal School District sta by Dr. Martha Liddell, CMSD interim superintendent. enrollment numbers and class loads, to make the best decisions possible. We are committed to keeping as many quality teachers as we can possibly aord, in Columbus classrooms. With the state budget complete, I am now able to give principals the green light to begin interviewing and re-hiring RIF-impacted teachers. e Board of Trustees will meet as many times as needed, this month, to approve personnel recommendations. We anticipate having 35-40 RIF-impacted teachers hired back and contracts out, before the end of the school year. I want to personally thank all of our principals, teachers and support sta for the honorable way you've remained focused on our students' best interests, in light of a very tough budget year. Each of you is a "Champion", in my eyes, and you are deeply appreciated. Our state tests are coming up, soon, and the focus on achievement that I continue to see in our schools is outstanding. As Robert Schuler once said, "Tough times never last, tough people do!" anks for all you do, Dr. Martha Liddell, Interim Superintendent Columbus School District Special Note: Because I believe educators need to know about the legislation that passed this year that aects their profession, I have provided a detailed list, below, of the Education Bills you need to know about. e Charter Bill did not pass, this legislative session; however, we are told it will be back. e Bills that passed, during this session, were: HB 707, which aects the start date of school. is bill says that school may not begin before the third Monday in August. Because a minimum of 180 instructional days are required, it is possible that school holidays will be reduced or that students will go to school into June. It is also possible that first semester exams will be given aer the Christmas holiday. e change will take eect beginning with the 2014-2015 school year. SB 2776, which requires that schools and school districts be assigned ratings of "A," "B," "C," "D," or "F", based upon their accountability ratings. School and school district ratings will be assigned based on the following: "Star" will become "A" "High Performing" will become "B" "Successful" will become "C" "Academic Watch" will become "D" "Low Performing," "At Risk of Failing," and "Failing" will become "F" SB 2760, which consolidated the six school districts in Bolivar County into three: the Cleveland Municipal School District, the North Bolivar School District (combines North Bolivar and Mound Bayou), and the West Bolivar School District (combines West Bolivar, Shaw and Benoit). e superintendents will be appointed by their local school boards. SB 2330, which consolidated the three school districts in Sunflower County into one. e superintendent will be appointed by the local school board. SB 2737, which allows parents of students in school districts that lose accreditation to request a legal transfer to an accredited district, with the funding to follow the child. is will help to move us closer to our goal of ensuring that every Mississippi child has access to an excellent public school. SB 2792 will allow students to be duallyenrolled in high school completion courses and in a community college credential certificate or degree program, a move that we hope will improve Mississippi's graduation rate and ensure that more students graduate from high school workplace-ready.

I want to keep everyone informed, as we move toward the conclusion of another school year in Columbus Schools. I have returned, today, from a very informative legislative update meeting sponsored by MS School Boards Association. I am pleased that we had the opportunity to hear from legislators, state ocials and Jim Keith, who covered many legal aspects that are facing school districts, today.

I also want to inform you that the state budget is in its final stage and will be heading to the Governor, soon, for his signature. is is good news for school districts, like ours, who are working every day to stretch our budget dollars as far as they can possibly go. e state budget did not come in as strong as I had hoped; however, being proactive, this year, the budget team and I have planned a budget for the coming year based on "level funding." Fortunately, we didn't count our chickens before they hatched and reduced expenses, this year and for the coming year, in order for CMSD to gain good financial footing, again.

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Dr. Tom Burnham, State Superintendent, who has spent many long hours meeting with legislators, this year, told Superintendents and Board Members, yesterday, at the meeting, that it's not the best budget, but it certainly could have been a lot worse. He advised that although the state budget seems level (when compared to last year's state budget), it is still under-funded by $250 million dollars, and the increases in the retirement system will be passed on to school districts, as well, to pay.

RIF-Impacted Sta - I am pleased to report that budget meetings will be held, beginning this week, with building principals. e budget team and I will review, with principals, their school-by-school

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May 9, 2012 Downtown Columbus, Mississippi has ocially had its socks rocked o. is past weekend, at the 17th Annual Market Street Festival, is where said sock-rocking occurred. Two phenomenal bands kicked o the arts festival, and all in attendance were blown away! e night began with Austin, Texasbased soul and funk group Mingo Fishtrap. is amazing band is a total throwback to the swinging 60s, with their soulful harmonies, groovy percussion, and jazzy horn section. Lead singer and guitarist Roger Blevins Jr. and his band are veterans of the live music scene, and it shows. In their touring career, Mingo Fishtrap has performed with such legendary musicians as Blues Traveler, George Clinton and P Funk, and Sting. e bands musical experience definitely showed in their energetic ninety-minute set. Folks were quite literally dancing in the streets. e second act of the evening was Lukas Nelson and Promise of the Real. e band, lead by Willie Nelson ospring Lukas Nelson, have already appeared on late night talk shows e Late Show with David Letterman and e Tonight Show with Jay Leno. Seeing them live, it is easy to comprehend this California and Hawaii-based bands growing popularity. Nelson and the rest of the band performed songs from their new album Wasted, along with covers of some favorites. e entire crowd was feeding o of the bands infectious energy. A particularly memorable moment for all in attendance was when Nelson played a

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Big Name Bands Headline Cars 17th Annual Market Street Shine Festival Opening Night at Market Street

guitar solo - with his tongue! I feel safe in saying that we will be hearing much more from this up-and-coming band, and all of us in attendance can say we knew them when. All in all, the opening night of the 17th Annual Market Street Festival was an enormous success. All of us should definitely appreciate the wonderful Main Street team, including the Market Street Festival Committee, who work so hard to provide us with fun-filled entertainment for the whole family. e entire night was a one-of-a-kind musical experience that this town will surely be talking about for years to come. When asked what he thought of the evening, one festival attendee summed it up: Dude, it rocked!

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Reducing Cellphone Use While DrivingAn Addiction Modelsuch as driving and talking on a phone, the brain shis its focus. Important information falls out of view and is not processed by the brain. Research shows we are blind to many changes that happen in scenery around us, unless we pay close and conscious attention to specific details, giving them full analysis to get transferred into our working memory Why, however, does talking, when alone, on a cellphone dier from other distractions, like listening to music or talking to a friend? Scientists have theorized that it has something to do with the visualization of the person on the other end of the line. It is Cousin Herman on the other end of the line, and you have temporarily created a virtual reality of him. is is bad enough, but phone addiction adds another dimension. ere are clear similarities with other addictive behavior, including positive reinforcement. When the phone vibrates, we cannot ignore it, for the very fact of having been identified, called, and singled out feels good. Since phones dont weigh much and fit easily into a pocket or a purse, the threshold is even easier to cross, and theres no end to it, posits one expert. Youre pretty much hooked in wherever you are, if you want to be. Constant and continual use of these devices produces chemical responses in the body similar to gambling. When compulsive gamblers win a hand, they are motivated to keep playing till they win again no matter how much they lose in between. ats a hit, and its a powerful reinforcer. (Gettysburg Times) In another twist, a researcher (David Lindstrom) has suggested that the emotional link to the cellphone might not be addiction but love: Friends who have accidentally le home without their iPhones tell me they feel stressed-out, cut o and, somehow, un-whole. at sounds a lot like separation anxiety to me. Phantom vibration syndrome is the term I use to describe our habit of scrambling for a cellphone we feel rippling in our pocket, only to find out we are mistaken. Lindstrom wanted to be sure that his theory of love vs. addiction was right: Most striking was the flurry of activation in the insular cortex of the brain, which is associated with feelings of love and compassion. e subjects brains responded to the sound of their phones, as they would respond to the presence or proximity of a girlfriend, boyfriend or family member. In short, the subjects didnt demonstrate the classic brain-based signs of addiction. Instead, they loved their iPhones. e problem is, faced with both cognitive distraction and cellphone addiction, how are we going to stop using our phones while driving? e chances of getting stopped for a cellphone infraction are extremely low. Surveillance is unrealistic, since, even with face-recognition soware, it would be dicult for an analyst to tell whether you are listening to Twisted Sister or talking on the phone. e only viable option, it seems, is public information. e Department of Transportation states: irty-seven states and the District of Columbia have public information/education campaigns to warn about the dangers of driver distraction. Eight states noted that they have initiated eorts to provide training or technical assistance to the judiciary on this topic. However, most states have used straight information the basic dos and donts, with an emphasis on the donts. However, in view of the increasing evidence on cell-phone adpublic diction, service advertising messages should be formulated to address more deep-seated and basic emotional issues, such as dependency. A recent Florida anti-smoking campaign aimed at teenagers succeeded because it was focused not on the ultimate benefit of behavior change good health but on a seemingly unrelated but resonant issue an ingenious campaign that focused on teenagers animosity towards fat-cat capitalism. e ads showed a smug, Monopoly-style capitalist, smoking a stogie, happy with his profits; but the voice-over intoned Do you want to give your money to this man? It worked. A similar indirect campaign on reducing overdependence on cell phones might suggest that addicted users are social misfits without real friends; or get-a-life Type A losers who have to be plugged in all the time. In conclusion, we are now at a public policy crossroads. e data is in, but little real thinking has gone on to devise a realistic, data-based strategy. Considering the theme of addiction is a good place to start.

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While there is a strong consensus that phoning and texting while driving causes accidents, enforcing the use of hands-free devices as a principal measure of reducing risk has been only partially eective. A recent white paper published by the National Safety Council has shown that the real problem is talking on the phone, regardless of how it is done: Studies have shown that hands-free phones oer no safety benefit when driving. Conversation occurs on both handheld and hands-free phones. e cognitive distraction from paying attention to conversation from listening and responding to a disembodied voice contributes to numerous driving impairments. Estimates indicate that drivers using cell phones look but fail to see up to 50 percent of the information in their driving environment. Drivers suering from this inattention blindness are looking out the windshield, but they do not process everything in the roadway environment that they must know to eectively monitor their surroundings, seek and identify potential hazards, and respond to unexpected situations. Anyone who has talked on the phone, while driving, has experienced this spacey feeling. You cannot recall what you saw in the last ten miles. You dont remember much about the drive, once it is over, but assume that some deeper, lowerlevel you had seen the road, without really seeing it or remembering it. e white paper suggests that the creation of a third reality one in between driving and talking is because of our inability to multi-task: e brain not only tries to juggle tasks, it also juggles focus and attention. When people attempt to perform two cognitively complex tasks,

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Ron [email protected] Ron Parlato is a writer living in Washington, DC. He has close ties with Columbus which he visits frequently. His writings on literature, politics and culture, travel, and cooking can be found on his own blog, uncleguidosfacts.com.

America and the War on Womenthrough it all, where were the women? To answer this question, we call upon our memories of the tales of women such as Betsy Ross, Abigail Adams, and Martha Washington, each of whom did as much to shape the nation from behind the scenes, as their counterparts who fought the battles on the field. But for some reason, women weren't recognized as part of the military in e United States, until the formation of the Women's Army Corps, on May 15th, 1942. While there are several accounts of women fighting in various other conflicts and wars, prior to that time, it was not until that particular moment that women were recognized, fully, as participants in a war eort, as part of the military. e voice of the people is perhaps, arguably, the most important constituent of being a citizen of this country. is takes form in the right to vote, for this is how the people voice their opinion on policies and the direction that their country takes. It wasn't until 1920, however, that the Nineteenth Amendment was ratified (aer several previous attempts), granting women the right to vote. e law's inclusion of women in the political process, officially, was a monumental step in recognizing the rights of women and giving rise to the acknowledgement that women were important and had value to provide to a country and people. But, it begs the question: why did it take so long? Didn't women have value, before 1920? Surely, women didn't magically become something they had never been before. One can rationalize any answer for this quandary. But, no amount of debate can turn back the clock and adequately explain why the women's surage movement didn't appear until the Seneca Falls Convention of 1848. Achieving the right to vote in this country was a huge advancement for women's rights. But, another step had to be taken: the right to serve their country. At that time, in 1920, no woman had been recognized ocially as a member of the military. e next reasonable step was to serve as a statesperson or politician. It was in 1917 that the first woman, Jeanette See WOMEN Pg. 8

It's strange to think that, at one time in this country, women had few rights. From one perspective, that's half the population of adult human beings that make up this country. In the beginning, whether for political or religious reasons, people of all walks of life came to this land to escape persecution and oppression. America was a symbol of freedom, but America wasn't so much a place, as it was an idea - a concept realized by many, in response to the thought that there had to be something more, something greater, and something better. Unfortunately, these sort of things tend to come with their own forms of baggage, dragging with it bits and pieces of the old world into the new. Wherever people travel, they bring parts of themselves along for the ride.


When we talk about what makes this country great, we think of things like the Bill of Rights and e Revolutionary War. We romanticize the battles for freedom fought by such names as George Washington, Nathaniel Greene, and Israel Putnam. We exalt statesmen with names like omas Jeerson, Benjamin Franklin, and John Adams. Finally, in 1783, the war had ended and America won its independence, thus cementing its recognition as a separate nation, able and willing to create for itself its own laws, based upon its own ideas, and to govern itself without foreign influence and interference. But,

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Eden Brent Mississippi Number OneAer the heat, sweat and exhaustion of a Market Street Saturday aernoon, the night melted into the smooth, blues sound of Eden Brent. A true Mississippi talent, capable of mixing jazz ris with a non-traditional blues feel, she eased herself into the evening, like biscuits into a warm oven. Cleverly telling jokes and being sassy, this super piano player and vocalist lit up the Riverwalk stage, commanding the attention of old and young alike. Brents vocals are a pleasant mixture of satire and sex, which are best experienced when she slows down the pace of the show and lets the words of her songs slowly break the silence of the night. All good bluesy jazz is a sultry combination of the pain that a person can only experience aer experiencing great pleasure, and the sense of no regret for feeling either one. ere is no doubt that, at least in performance, Brent meets that criterion. And, like her stage show a few years back, she knows how to work the mixture with a crasman's expertise. Never going too far le or right in her performance, she squarely hits the middle of perfection retaining her blues roots, without getting locked into the simple chord progressions of traditional blues. Unfortunately for Brent, like most regional recording artists, the audience is not fully aware of her recording history and, thus, the love of an original song is not meet with the familiarity of knowing its title or on which CD it is published. As a result, the audience is oen le wondering what song has just made them feel so good. And, unless they had the opportunity to purchase the CD, they may never know. In the case of Eden, she had the foresight to sell her CDs on-site, including the standout eort, Mississippi Number One. A carefully craed package of self-written songs and perfectly selected material that is tailored for her style, it is an eort certain to make all Mississippians proud. Not too sweet or sentimental, it is testament to the strength and weakness that makes the music of Mississippi so great. Unlike many female singers, Brent is not afraid to put her husky voice in the forefront of a song. Unapologetic of its strength, she hits you "full on", with powerful songs showcasing a voice that rips across the speakers and is ready to go - no holds barred. Her boogie-woogie piano is as unique as it clean and the opening song, Mississippi Flatland Blues, kicks o an amazing example of Brent's rocking best. It is a Hattie Caraway, the first woman to serve in the Senate as an elected ocial, took her position. To this day, women remain a minority in politics, comprising 17 of the 100 members of the Senate and 75 out of 435 members of the U.S. House of Representatives (17.2%). Either way it's cut, issues that concern women, in particular, are likely vastly under-represented in the U.S. Congress. It's been 225 years since this country was formed with the guarantee of freedom. Current politically-charged topics threaten to undo all that we have worked for throughout the years, and certainly one of the most important aspects of that is the rights and freedoms of women. ese are undoubtedly the freedom of choice, the freedom of expression, and the right to vote - all these which are rights that are enjoyed by everyone else regardless of race, color, or creed. When strong woman singing a strong song about making it and doing what needs to be done. Even when the toughest people may be beaten, you can't keep a good woman down, not on this CD. is stoutness, however, slips into moments of retrospect and soness as the music plays on; that is nowhere more evident than in the closing song, "Until I Die." In a beautifully-craed ballad, Eden shows her soness, without losing her soul. Part church spiritual and part love song, the music builds to a crescendo that reminds us all that music is the best outlet to show and feel love and its many emotions. It is a testament to what many are looking for, in life.


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When Brent sings, you know she means what she says. at, alone, is worth the price of the CD. A real Mississippi child, singing about Mississippi, with the raw emotions of Mississippi. What else needs to be said?

MoJo

WOMEN cont. from pg. 7Rankin of Montana, served as a U.S. Representative. But few women ran for the Senate, prior to 1920, and it wasn't until that year when Rebecca Latimer Felton served on the Senate, for one day, in 1922. But it wasn't again until 1932 that

we denigrate and otherwise find reason their bodies. Women should have the for prejudice and discrimination against right to voice their opinions and beliefs one segment of the population, we tar- in both formal and informal arenas. In nish and destroy a part of the foundation other words, women have the same basic of that original idea, that concept, and human rights as men; in all facets of the that reason for being. e promise and word equal, without respect to naturallythe dream becomes a farce, a great lie occurring physical dierences. is war staining us all, like a gargantuan on women serves only to divide, dissect, melanoma on the face of freedom. To and destroy us all. With this, I assert: we make sure we're on the same page, we are not merely men and women, we are aren't talking about free in the context of Americans. It's time to start acting like it. economies and financial transaction, but rather free as in fundamental human rights and prerogatives without penalty. Invino Veritas When we set that precedent upon [email protected] selves, we form the foundations of our own moral code, our own standards as a Attempting to make sense of people, nation, and society. e universal Invino Veritas bubbles outward his universe, from the chaos, truth of reciprocity as a moral compass is sometimes submitting to its infinite whirl, and as telltale as the rising of the sun to mark other times raging against its disregard for its own the beginning of the day. Guys, women elements. His writings incorporate multiple styles and energies which can be found on his own blog should be able to choose for themselves, of random things at individually, what is best for them and http://musingsfortheinsane.blogspot.com/


Vineyard Court Nursing Home Residents Celebrate Senior PromWith blue and green balloons and crepe paper floating across the ceiling of the recreation room, e Vineyard Court Nursing Home was transformed into a World Under the Sea for the 2012 "Senior" Prom, this past Friday evening. Members of Evangel Church and some of the local media came together to give the residents a brief time of celebration, a remembrance of days gone by, and a glimpse of God's love. With corsages enhancing the already- beautiful ladies and the gentlemen all spruced up, pictures were taken, refreshments were served, and there was singing, clapping and, yes, even some wheelchair dancing. old silk screen and mounted in a distressed metal frame. She also has been influenced by the works of the late Edgar Degas, who is widely regarded as one of the founders of the Impressionist movement. Oswalt said that she draws inspiration for her works, from her life, especially her children. Her works are primarily figurative in nature, though she also paints landscapes. Although Emergence was not the first show in which she has been included she received 2nd place best in show in a 1995 exhibit she, nevertheless, indicated that this recent experience has served as great inspiration for her to create more paintings and to seek either a solo show or participation in a small group exhibit. Oswalts paintings range in price from $75-$500 each, with the higher end of that range consisting of paintings that measure some seven feet in height. ough her work is not currently on Speaking with Executive Pastor Jason Delgado, he stated "Our church really believes that God has called us, e Church, to reach out to people in our community, even abroad, in various forms, touching the forsaken or forgotten. Broken people are really our heart, here at Evangel. We do a lot of outreach. is is one project that was created by our outreach team. We already have a presence at the nursing homes, here, where we go in, once a month, sit with them, visit with them, and read with them. is is a group of people where many are forgotten; they are forsaken so, obviously, e Church can fill that gap and show the love of God bring them together, have some music, share some laughs and create an environment that shows them somebody cares and loves them." Evangel encourages the parents to include and bring their children on these outreach mission trips, so they grow up knowing that it is better to give than to receive. Give your life for others and you receive a blessing, too. From Willie Nelson to Elvis Presley, with a few Charleston and Boogie Woogie favorites thrown in for good measure, and with Tim Wilcox serenading the ladies til some almost swooned, it was a memorable evening for all. Each lady proudly wore a beautiful corsage presented to them by the Evangel Church members, and were looking just as pretty, if not prettier, than the flowers resting prominently on their chests. Refreshments were enjoyed, amidst all of the wonderful singing, with a good time had by all in attendance. As the evening drew to a close, it was clear that everybody had had a good time. Many of the younger set le with a mist in their eyes, as they were the ones touched by these lovely people. See our center spread for all of the photos of the residents.

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O.k. I will come right out and admit it I am a fan of Sarah Oswalts artwork. My appreciation of Sarahs artwork stems from the fact that, despite her having received a Bachelor of Fine Arts from Mississippi University for Women in 2004, her works possesses many of the characteristics of a selftaught or folk artist, a style of painting that I have been drawn to (no pun intended) for a number of years.

Fran [email protected] Fran is a homemaker who enjoys experimenting and creating tasteful diabetic and kidneydisease-friendly recipes. She is married to John Andresen and likes to crochet in her free time.

Oswalt, who has been painting since 1994, used to work in both oil and acrylic paints, but has worked exclusively in acrylic, for some years, now.

When asked which artist has influenced her the most, she cited the late American painter, Richard Diebenkorn. I like the way he uses colors and textures, says Oswalt. When viewing the works of each, one cant help but see the eect Diebenkorn had on Oswalts style. is is particularly evident in Hillwood a piece that was included in the recent Emergence show at Renee Reedy Studio, which consists of the rough image of a young boy, from the waist up. Interestingly, it is painted on an

display, locally, a viewing of her works can be arranged by calling the Renee Reedy Gallery at 662.368.8181. Dont be dismayed, if you missed seeing Oswalts work in Emergence; I have a feeling that we will be seeing more of her work, in the not-too-distant future!



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Sweet Porkchop

Aer all of the excitement of last weeks Relay for Life, Porkchop has had plenty of time to chill and heal this week. By heal, I mean that he has been on a serious diet. He ate enough banana chips, grapes, and cucumber pieces, during Relay, to last him for the next few months; and,

much to his dismay, his food portions have been pretty limited, since then. Now, he only gets rationed amounts of pot-bellied pig food, and an occasional handful of carrots. Well, of course, he does get a handful of popcorn every night - but not buttered! He is a very unhappy camper - which is why Ive le him at home this past week, and not taken him to work with me. It is too hard to resist his cute face and his Im HUNGRY! grunts, when hes right behind me. Plus the little piggie tantrums that he can throw, arent too easy to deal with! He is becoming a master of the piggie-tantrum. ese hissy fits come late at night, while we are asleep, when


Porkchop decides that he is hungry. eyre not the kind of fits that you can overlook, either. e more you ignore him, the louder and more demanding he gets. He cant see very well, but he has one heck of a nose, and can tell if you are in the bed, even if you try to hide. Weve been rudely awakened in the middle of the night, several times this past week, and the only solution is to get up, put a tiny handful of feed in his bowl, fill up his water bowl, and try to go back to sleep. I know - we shouldnt give in, but aer a 15-minute fit, something has to give! Well, I did say the only solution, but, sometimes a good belly rub works, too. One thing my husband, Kenneth, and I talk about, oen, is the fact that Porkchop is hard of hearing. We laugh, because every time we talk to him, he grunts back with a small Huh? It is so funny. Porkchop will come in the bedroom, at night, get settled in his area, and when we say something to him, he answers back,

Huh? (Of course, hes not really saying HUH, but thats our story, and were sticking to it!) One benefit of Porkchops diet, this week, is that he can now jump up the front step of the house. We let him and the dogs out in the side yard, when we get home, and they have a grand time running around and playing. Sometimes, well leave them out for a while, and when we go out to bring them back in, they are all standing side-by-side, waiting for the gate to open. Im not sure if Porkchop thinks he is a pit bulldog, or if they think they are pigs!

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For all the Porkchop photos, updates, and videos you can stand, visit Porkchop on Facebook: http://www. facebook.com/PorkchopsPigTales Aimee [email protected] Aimee is the Oce Manager at Malone Electric Company, Inc. and also has her own freelance graphic design business. She is married to Kenneth Shaw of Columbus.

Christian Community Observance, National Day of Prayere National Day of Prayer was held at the Lowndes County Courthouse, last ursday, May 3rd. Paul Brady opened the noon ceremony with worship in song, followed by the Pledge of Allegiance by Boy Scout Troop 1. Opening prayer was given by Rev. Charles Mullins; and government prayer by Charlie Box. Giving the prayer for families was Rev. Kevin Jenkins; and prayer for media, R.H. Brown. Ms. Sherry Kostka followed, with the prayer for businesses; and Rev. Joe Peoples with the prayer for churches. Giving the first responders prayer was Captain Fred Shelton; prayer for youth and education, Ms. Taylor Williamson; and prayer for military, Lt. Colonel Joseph Speed. e event concluded with the unison prayer, given by Dr. Bob Wilburn.

Rev. Kevin Jenkins, Minister to Families Fairview Baptist Church

R.H. Brown, Reporter, WCBI TV

Capt. Fred Shelton, Columbus Police Department

Charlie Box, Columbus City Councilman

Dr. Bob Wilbur, Covenant Presbyterian Church

Lt. Colonel Joseph Speed, Columbus Air Force Base

Taylor Williamson, Senior, Immanuel Christian School


Rev. Joe Peoples, Pastor Stephen Chapel M.B. Church

Rev. Charles Mullins, Pastor Immanuel Baptist Church

Paul Brady

Sherry Kostka, Owner, Blue Jean Outlet

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Computer Safety Tips for ChildrenBy Robin Stephenson, eHow Contributor e Internet can be an invaluable learning tool for children. Unfortunately, it can also be dangerous, if certain safety precautions aren't taken. For the most part, adults have the smarts to be able to detect predatory behavior on the Internet. Children, however, are more vulnerable, and need their parents to be vigilant and protect them.

St. Pauls Hosts LuncheonFor over 150 years, the members of St. Paul's Parish have been preparing and serving a May Luncheon, to support a large variety of ministries. From the historic (and "liturgically correct") "cooked dressing" homemade mayonnaise, to the 1,500 precisely-piped stued eggs, to homemade breads, jellies and cakes in the bake sake; for generations, congregation members have continued to give their time, cooking expertise, flower arranging talents and welcoming smiles to luncheon-goers. e annual ECW May Luncheon is a major fundraiser, and is organized by the Episcopal Church Women. All funds raised benefit ministries in our church, our community, our state and the world, such as the Greater Columbus Learning Center, Good Samaritan Clinic, Habitat for Humanity, Loaves and Fishes Soup Kitchen, HEARTS aer-school tutoring program, Honduras Medical Mission, Episcopal Relief and Development Fund, and many others. St. Paul's ECW May Luncheon oers take-out and dine-in options, plus the bake sale of delicious homemade items. e Bake Sale will be in operation from 11:00 a.m. until 1:30 p.m. Guests may dine in the Parish Hall or pick up take-out plates. Dine-in price is $10.00 per person, including iced tea with mint and coee with dessert. Take-out price is $8.00 per person. Guests choose from two delicious options: 1. e ECW's renowned chicken salad plate with deviled eggs, potato chips, sweet pickles, crackers and dessert OR 2. A "Tom Wolford" BBQ plate with smoked pulled pork, deviled eggs, potato salad, roll, dill pickles and dessert. Pre-orders for takeout plates are strongly encouraged. Order by email by 11 a.m., May 11th, to [email protected]. Include name, time of pick-up, total and type of plates, and a contact number. OR Place phone orders at (662) 549-2225 or (662) 328-6673, May 9 & 10 between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m. OR on May 11, from 9 a.m. to 11:00 a.m.

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e Good Newse Children's Online Privacy Protection Act oers one line of defense in helping protect your children's privacy. What it does is prevent websites from collecting a child's personal information, without a parent's consent. e act also mandates that sites display their privacy policy for parents to review, so they can decide whether the policies are acceptable. It's also a good idea to check with your Internet service provider, to see what parental control features it oers. Many oer programs and filters that can block objectionable content from your computer.


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Be InvolvedSet up your computer in a common area of your home, so that it's in view when your children are using it. Allowing a child to access the Internet in his/her own room, behind closed doors, is not recommended. If your child wants e-mail privileges, then create a shared e-mail account, so that you're privy to the password and correspondence. Don't forget about other places, outside of the home, where your child has access to the Internet and you're not there to monitor his/her activity. You need to be aware of what level of protection your child will have at school, the library and friends' homes.

Chat RoomsAlthough chat rooms can oer a pleasant venue for people with similar interests to congregate and socialize, they can be dangerous places for children. e problem is that they aord people anonymity, so neither you nor your children have any way of knowing whether the person they're chatting with really is another child or an adult, posing as a child. It's a sad fact that many sex oenders prowl chat rooms, looking for children to victimize, and children can easily be fooled into giving away personal details that could put them in danger. Chat room exchanges must be closely monitored by an adult in your home, so that any questionable comments can be handled by an adult, rather than the child.

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Two southern girls with a vintage flair, indulging in fashion through chic jewelry, fabulous accessories, and aordable stylish clothing. Deep South Pout is located at 517 Main Street in Columbus.

Personal InformationLet your children know, from the beginning, that the sharing of personal photographs and information, such as addresses, phone numbers, school or hometown is absolutely forbidden. Have them use screen names, instead of their real names, when accessing message boards or e-mail accounts, and let them know that any transgression will result in the loss of computer privileges for a set period of time. Be firm on this, so that the behavior becomes ingrained.

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Report Cyber-BullyingTake the time to talk openly with your children about the concerns you have, and let them know that they should let you know about any on-line activity that scares them or makes them feel uncomfortable. Make sure that if they do come to you with any such information, that you report it to your Internet service provider. If the situation is more serious and your children are ever approached on-line by an adult, or if they receive pornographic material, via e-mail, you should immediately contact the police.


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Awash in a Sea of CultureBoy Scout Troop 3

Yes, we know that we have said (or is it, written) this, before; but, the past week has been brimming with cultural opportunities. monthly camping trips and conducted an Eagle project providing community service to the District 3 Volunteer Fire Department. Lets begin with Postcards to Columbus, the latest installment in the Art in Columbus series of monthly art exhibits being held at Renee Reedy Studio. is show, which features postcard-sized works of art, in a variety of media, opened with a reception, this past ursday, May 3rd. e exhibit consists of 323 pieces of art, each measuring 4 x 6, which were created by local artists, including area high school art students. e usual overflow crowd that attended the reception was treated to works in acrylic paint, photography, watercolor, collage, quiltwork, mixed media, and much more. At the unbelievable rate of just $25 each, the works were practically flying o the wall. However, many fantastic pieces are still available. Get yours, before the show closes on May 31st. Call the gallery, at 662.368.8181, as hours vary. Music lovers, this was your weekend! If you didnt get your fill of musical enjoyment, shame on you! e 17th Annual Market Street Festival kicked o, Friday night, with incredible performances by Mingo Fishtrap (who were just phenomenal!) and headliners Lukas Nelson & Promise of the Real. Mingo, hailing from Austin the

When you hear Boy Scouts, what do you think of? A group of young men sitting around a campfire? Merit badges? Popcorn? If you answered yes to any or all of those questions, you would be absolutely correct! ese things, however, are only what lie on the surface of Scouting. Hard work and determination are the underlying foundation of every Boy Scouts journey. For Columbus resident Bradley Briggs, the journey has lasted 9 long years. Starting as a Cub Scout, at the age of 9, Bradley - now age 18 - has done everything from hiking, to backpacking in Colorado, to paddling a canoe for 80 miles, just to name a few. Who would have thought that, one day, all of that would lead him to receive the highest honor in Scouting: attaining the rank of Eagle Scout? In addition to all of his other accomplishments, Bradley has also attended weekly troop meetings,

In speaking with Bradley he stated "If you don't put forth the eort, you won't get anywhere. It was all definitely worth it." A senior at New Hope High School, this year, Bradley plans to attend East Mississippi Community College aer graduation, with an eye towards a career in mechanics; he would also like to, one day, become a scoutmaster. Bradley is the son of Je and Bobbye Chism and James E. Briggs.


music Mecca of the southwest wowed the crowd with their combination of blues, rock, country, and funk. For those of you who noticed something familiar about Lukas voice, but didnt make the connection yes, he IS the son of legendary Willie Nelson. His performance, as well as that of his band, epitomized the old saying of the apple doesnt fall far from the tree. As if that wasnt enough, Saturday was filled with bands spanning a variety of genres. Sprinkled with local favorites, like Katie Burchfield and Paul Brady, a plethora of acts provided a wonderful experience for festivalgoers. e musical extravaganza was capped o, Saturday night, by a series of incredibly-talented performers, including the amazing songstress, Eden Brent. Oh yeah, and Market Street attendees were also treated to the works of local and regional artists and artisans, at the festivals Arts & Cras exhibits. Woo-wee! I better stop; I believe that I am experiencing sensory overload, just from recounting the past weeks bounty! Remember, there is always something going on, in Columbus, so


Get out and get your culture on!e Real Story Sta Report

Writers and Photographers Wanted!Do you have a gi for the written word? Perhaps, some journalism experience? Do you have a desire to be a part of making your community a better place in which to live?If you answered yes to any of the above questions, e Real Story wants to speak with you! We are also looking for local photographers, who want to see their images in print. Were growing and we need talented to help us reach even greater heights! For more information on either of these opportunities, please e-mail [email protected] or call 662.497.2914.

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Hats, Hats, and More Hats!Editor's Note: is is the first installment of a weekly column by trained and experienced life coach Meagan O'Nan. Readers are invited to pose questions about life, career, relationships, etc. to Meagan by e-mailing [email protected]. Personal information, such as your name, will NOT be divulged

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Topic: Discrimination in the WorkplaceQuestion

says something negative about someone. Whatever you do, don't respond with a quivering anger in your voice; no one responds well to that. Since you already know what to expect from your boss, perhaps you can prepare yourself, mentally, for the next moment. If you don't feel like you can respond "in the moment" (which is how I am), ask your boss for a meeting to chat. You can tell your boss that you are most eective and focused when everyone is positive and supportive. Tell her that you are uncomfortable when people are talked about in a negative way, because it distracts from the purpose of your work and it brings you down. If you are clear that you don't want that kind of negativity around you, then you have every right to ask those around you not to talk about others while you are around. ings will be uncomfortable at first, and maybe a little awkward for a while, but they will come around. Plus, you will, at least, get to go home at night feeling good about yourself. Eventually, if things don't change in your work environment, and you feel that you have done everything in your power, then you can explore other opportunities. You are never stuck. All in all, I believe that people are good, and we all want to do good in the world. If we get caught up in negativity, it becomes contagious, until someone gently reminds us who we are and who we can become. It is dicult to be the person that does the reminding to support one another, but you can do it in a loving, respectful manner, so that you feel good about you. I have no doubt you are doing the best you can, and I admire you for reaching out. Best of luck!

My boss can be an extremely bigoted person and I oen wonder if my approach is correct. Normally, I just say nothing in return, or if it is political/news-related, I just say, I havent had time to read up on all that stu.

Sometimes, I feel like my saying nothing is an acknowledgement that what they are saying is ok. But, if I openly disagree, then I risk alienating my boss. I feel like I am in a no-win situation. My employer supplied a carpool, which a few of us used, so that we could save money on gas. I had to stop using the carpool, aer a few months, because I couldnt handle hearing all of the hateful things she was saying.

Am I contributing to the problem by not standing up?

Answer

First of all, congratulate yourself for choosing not to take the carpool because of the negativity. at is, at least in my book, standing up for yourself and doing what is right for you! You identified what was making you uncomfortable and you found a solution.

e Redwing Garden Club of Columbus held its annual Kentucky Derby Party, this past ursday, May 3rd, at the home of member Mona Sanders. An exciting aspect of this years event was a hat contest, which was judged by a panel of three Columbus residents, including Real Story EditorCarolyn Long and Jane Lee in-Chief Joe St. John. All of the attendees were resplendent in their inspired chapeaus, making the judges job even more dicult. Although every entrant was a winner in her own way, special recognition went to: Mona Sanders, whose hat featured playing cards and mah jong tiles, for Most Creative; Patricia Wilson, with a dramatic black and white composition, for Most Derby Inspired; and Jane Lee, for Mona Sanders reads last weeks issue of The Real Story. Best Overall, with a tightly-woven black straw hat adorned with an abundance of flowers and peacock feathers. Prior to the judging, the members dined on a delightful selection of homemade dishes, each of which had been prepared by club members.

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Lori Fridley and Carolyn Long

ere is no right way or wrong way to deal with the issue you have presented. What I would ask yourself is, what is most important to you, at the end of the day? If it is more important to you to keep your job and not, potentially, "rock the boat", then you should remain silent - in which case, you will have to find a way to repress your emotions and make peace with yourself.

Meagan M. ONanMeagan is a trained and experience Life Coach, awardwinning author of Creating Your Heaven on Earth, blogger, poet, and supporter of the underdog. She has a life coaching practice in Columbus, MS. (Meaganonan.org)

If it is more important to you to not have to worry about those awkward moments, then let me suggest how you can approach your boss, the next time she


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EMCC Authors Finish First in State Writing ContestEast Mississippi Community Colleges creative writers are so good, they win state contests without even trying. Two students from EMCCs Golden Triangle campus took first place in their respective categories in the Mississippi Community College Creative Writing Associations statewide competition, in April, despite having no idea their work would even be submitted for consideration. Matthew Chandler of Columbus and Alex Anthony of Madison were recognized for their work at the MCCCWAs 33rd Annual Conference and Awards Banquet, April 18-19, in Oxford. e first place winners and several EMCC students who placed in other categories were treated to a double-decker bus tour of Oxford and the Ole Miss campus and a tour of William Faulkners Oxford home, Rowan Oak. is is the first time EMCC has participated in the MCCCWA competition. Students Morgan Fant and L.T. Gathings earned Honorable Mentions. Matthew Chandler is one of the brightest, most articulate young scholars I have had the privilege to teach. Alex is a true performer and, when she submitted a dra of what became the winning entry for the drama category, I sensed immediately she had hit the jackpot, said English instructor Marilyn Ford, who taught both students in multiple courses, this year. Both of these students exhibit the characteristics of successful young scholars. EMCC is quite proud of them. For their part, Chandler and Anthony were just doing their homework. On Chandlers behalf, Ford submitted a critical analysis of Faulkners A Rose for Emily. For Anthony, Ford submitted a skit based on Anthonys hoarding grand-

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In the fall, Anthony intends to move on to Mississippi College, where shell pursue a degree in English and hopes to teach English as a second language overseas. Chandler will head to Mississippi State University, to major in marketing and learn to develop advertising campaigns.


Quick Takes: East Mississippi Community College raised more than $7,000 for the American Cancer Society during the schools first-ever Relay For Life event Tuesday at the Scooba campus. About 500 people, including 200 students, participated in the four-hour event.Courtesy Photo

Alex Anthony of Madison and Matthew Chandler of Columbus took first place in their respective categories at the 33rd Annual Mississippi Community College Creative Writing Association Conference and Awards Banquet, April 18-19, in Oxford. Both students currently attend East Mississippi Community College's Golden Triangle campus.

mother and great-grandmother, entitled Stu. I was surprised (Ford) chose it, said Chandler of his analysis. It wasnt something I pored over or wanted to win anything with. When she told me I won first place, it was really surprising. Anthony, a self-professed procrastinator, is even more candid about her skit. I had to submit something for class to get a grade and it happened to win first place, so that was really convenient for me, she said. Anthony isnt a traditional writer, in the sense that she doesnt write for the sake of improving her cra. However, she dabbled in acting as a child, which played a part in her decision to write a humorous monologue, based on her grandmothers

and great-grandmothers eccentric propensity to resist throwing anything away. Chandler, however, has been an author and poet since the age of 15. He drew on his experience as a writer, as he turned a critical eye to Faulkners story of a homebound debutante. I looked at it as an anti-Disney princess story, explained Chandler. e character was a princess, but everything worked against her.

EMCCs Dual Enrollment program will return in the fall. Dual Enrollment oers qualifying high school students the opportunity to simultaneously earn college and high school credit. Students interested in Dual Enrollment should talk to their high school guidance counselor or contact Cindy Johnson at (662) 243-1908 or [email protected]. Prerequisites for Dual Enrollment include: the completion of 14 core high school units; a GPA of 3.0 or better; and a written recommendation from the students high school counselor or principal. Students must pay a $65 registration fee, per class. Classes are oered at EMCCs Golden Triangle campus and on-site at select high schools. On-line courses are assessed an additional $30 per class.


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East Mississippi Community College raised more than $7,000 for the American Cancer Society, during the school's first-ever Relay For Life event, Tuesday, at the Scooba campus. About 500 people, including 200 students, participated in the four-hour event. Pictured, are student Victorian Tilley of Columbus, speech instructor Marie Gordon, student Emily Bullard of Mantee and art instructor Lisa Spinks.


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OBSERVATION: With more and more violence happening in our city, it seems that our Police Department is becoming more secretive, with each passing day. Doesn't it seem to make sense that when you are transparent, the citizens feel safer and more secure, because they actually know what the CPD is doing to protect them? Secrets only cause suspicion and doubt.


Walking into Buet City, on Saturday evening, filled me with anticipation, as the experience impacted each and every one of my senses. I love seafood, and it seems that, on this particular evening, they had shrimp in just about every way imagined, and then some. Next, there was crab - oh my. I never knew there were so many ways to prepare crab meat. Add all of this to the already full variety of dishes available, and you have a buet that satisfies even the toughest critic out there.

e restaurant is clean and roomy. e sta seems to be pleasant, but a little distant. Customer service is adequate. is is not the cozy down

home feeling of some of the restaurants in our area, but the wide variety of food more than makes up for that. If you enjoy Asian food with an American twist, give Buet City a try. If you especially like seafood, then try them on the weekend for some yummy shrimp and crab.


ACR Coach Express Ribbon Cutting

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ACR Express is your local and regional leader for rural and intercity transportation from Starkville, Mississippi and through the western Alabama corridor.


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2012 EMCC Job Fair a Success

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Brittany Wilson of Caledonia speaks with Beth Cook of American Eurocopter.

More than 800 people, including job-seekers and employers, gathered in the Lyceum to submit and accept resumes and job applications. e East Mississippi Job Fair was held May 1st at East Mississippi Community Colleges Golden Triangle campus. Due to the quality of vendors, well-prepared job-seekers and the hard work of our job fair committee, the event was a success, said Linda Gates, EMCC district director of Job Placement. e EMCC team is looking forward to pairing more students, graduates and the general public with hiring employers at the 2013 East Mississippi

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Jamarcus O'Briant of Cedar Blu, far left, and Larry Collie of Starkville, far right, speak with Jimmy Hargrove and Shane Danovsky of Ellis Steel Company, of West Point.


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Terrell Lenoir and DaChristopher Johnson, both of West Point, and Cierra Sykes of Columbus fill out job applications at the Eat With Us booth.


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May 9, 2012

Traveling Exhibit Shows History of Truck Farming in Mississippi


Photo courtesy of the Mississippi Department of Archives and History

From the Luther M. Hamilton Collection

An exhibit featuring historical photographs documenting the early days of truck farming in Mississippi will be on display at the Columbus-Lowndes Public Library, from May 4th to June 22nd. rough the Lens: Copiah County Truck Farming showcases the work of Luther M. Hamilton (1869-1944), a native of Crystal Springs. Hamiltons striking photographs of early 1900s truck farming capture workers in cabbage and tomato fields; trucks lined up to unload at a train depot; and scenes of downtown Crystal Springs and its residents. Truck farming growing large crops of fruits or vegetables to be shipped to distant markets originated around 1874, in Copiah County. It proved to be an eective way to diversify the states agricultural economy and lower the financial risk of the many Mississippians who had previously depended on the volatile cotton market. Its success led to many other communities in Mississippi following the lead of Copiah County and beginning their own truck farming operations. is exhibit was produced by the Museum Division of the Mississippi Department of Archives and History. For more information about the exhibit, while at the Columbus-Lowndes Public Library, call 662-329-5300. For information about other traveling exhibits available through the Mississippi Department of Archives and History, call 601576-6800.

Clockwise from top: Angela Jones and Wendy Stewart. Keith & Margie get the crowd moving. Leroy Brooks Zumba dancing. Peggy Phillips and Wendy Stewart dance to Mustang Sally .



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Correctione article in the last issue, Students Particpate in CafeNight, was credited to Fran Andresen. However, the article was actually written by Molly Murphree. We regret the error.


May 9, 2012 Award-winning novelist and creative writing instructor Michael F. Smith, poses for a photo with Carlos Rosales, owner of Caf Quartier Latin. Caf Night is a showcase of creative writing and English majors from Mississippi University for Women, held in the back patio of Carlos new coeehouse.

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Perry Hendrix recently celebrated his 30th anniversary with the YMCA.

Monica Pennington, Perry Hendrix, Maryanne McAdams, Melissa Parsons, and Stephanie Gibson.

CROSSWORDAcross 1: Unhappy 4: Cows ospring 8: Pinup Hayworth 12: Sense of self 13: Water jug 14: Upsets 15: Religious sister 16: Compelled 17: Tolstoy et al. 18: Dancers harnessmate 20: Visit 22: Discontinue 23: Annoy 27: Act the hostess 30: Ex-soldier 31: Stick in the ____ 32: Take it easy 33: Confused noise 34: Thin rope 35: McMahon and others 36: The Raven poet 37: Cautious 38: Less distant 40: Gift of ____ 41: Inept actor 42: Actor Welles et al. 46: The Gift of the ____ 49: Director Kazan 51: Ascot, e.g. 52: Actor Alda 53: Landlords demand 54: All ___ ___ days work (2 wds.) 55: Farm sight 56: Loses tautness 57: Become firm Down 1: E-mail command 2: Water, in Madrid 3: Rickles and Knotts 4: Ingredient of mortar 5: Academy _____ 6: Served as guide 7: Perk up 8: Annoys 9: Fury 10: Boxing result (abbr.) 11: Mules cousin

05.09.201219: Shoe part 21: Patronize a diner 24: Los Angeles problem 25: Bait 26: Whirlpool 27: ____ plaid 28: Went by bus 29: Movie lioness 30: Strive 33: Roof windows 34: Hacks 36: Garden vegetable 37: Forty ____ 39: Afr. animal 40: Auctioneers word 43: Singer Redding 44: Three squared 45: Pants part 46: Mothers, informally 47: The Greatest boxer 48: Guys companion 50: Grassy area SEE ANSWERS TO THIS CROSSWORD PUZZLE ON PAGE 18


YMCAs Healthy Kids Day at Riverwalk

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May 9, 2012 e Columbus YMCA hosted the Healthy Kids Day at the Riverwalk on Saturday, April 28th. Among the many activities, the kids participated in a friendly tug of war between Mayor Robert Smith and Board of Supervisors President Harry Sanders; potato sack races; parachute tossing; and attempting to dunk Wesley Morrow in the dunking booth. ey had a great turn out, and I think some of the adults even had more fun than the kids!


Stay Healthy!


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Columbus Exchange ClubChristian Good, Laurel McCoy, Joanna West, Stephen Williams, Shelby Ross, Landon Williams, Rodnetra Wayne, Taylor Jones, Ysolde Carreon and Kaleigh Reynolds.

Students of the Year Announced...e Columbus Exchange Club announced the 2012 Youth of the Year/ACE Award recipients at their last meeting, ursday, April 26th. e winner of the ACE (Accepting the Challenge of Excellence) award was Ysolde Carreon, from the Mississipi School for Mathematics and Science. ACE award honorees include Laurel McCoy from Heritage Academy; Shelby Ross from Victory Christian Academy; Taylor Jones from West Lowndes High School; and Anna McCrary from New Hope High School (not pictured). Taking home the title of Youth of the Year, was Charlotte Wang from the Mississippi School for Mathematics and Science (not pictured). Honorees for Youth of the Year, include Christian Good of Immanual Christian; Joanna West from Heritage Academy; Stephen Williams from Victory Christian Academy; Landon Williams from

School and local government ocials with award recipients.

Congratulations on a Job Well Done! The Real Story Staff WWW.SUDOKU PUZZLES.NET SEE SUDOKU PUZZLE ON PG 18


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by Jeremiah Short

SPORTS

Mississippi State Is a Labor Of Love for Flickanything. So, I just kind of stumbled into it. Flick had a unique style, at a time, when it wasnt the norm. He took a position that he hadnt sought out, and made it all his own. Long before you would go into arenas, what the announcers are doing. I was doing that before them. I was in the right place; I had athletic directors, who were very good to me. ey understood something good was happening, said Flick. Dr. Flick, as he is known by students, exhibits the same original style in the classroom. He has given several people nicknames - including aectionately nicknaming me Shane Power. His distinct delivery came out of a necessity to keep up with the changing student. Students, nowadays, have to be entertained. ey have so many things going on in their world. For them to put down that cell, stop texting, and listen to you you have to give them something to look at, said Flick. Everything is about providing an experience where kids cant help but learn. at style: sarcasm, hyperbole, exaggeration conflict; it gives you style. It has , developed over the five decades. e students have changed; theyre much more reality-based. ey want an education that works and is in their face; that teaches them how to survive in the world, personally and professionally. Flicks entertaining, but eective, style has made him a favorite amongst students. e very best teachers in this school are in this department. I have my good days and I have my bad days. I never look at myself as being good. I look at myself as being eective, in most cases, to accomplish results, Flick said. Outside of his Mississippi State duties, Flick is an accomplished writer. At one time, he was one of the foremost authorities on Malcolm X. It was a great learning experience on this here life. How to endure? How to discipline yourself? How to develop a style, here, that you can leave people with? ere were a lot of people in the 60s and 70s doing what Malcolm X and Stokley Carmichael were doing. It was just interesting to be a white person and study that. It wasnt a case of agreeing or disagreeing. You just studied their style. Youve got to speak and live with a conscious. And that early black rhetoric had a conscious to it, which means that it meant something to people. It elevated people to be more than the world gave you credit for being. It was fun to look at and fun to write about, Flick stated, in discussing his studies of Malcolm X and other civil rights leaders. e Oakland, California native has been a valuable asset to Mississippi State athletics; numerous players and coaches have benefited from his counsel. He has silently helped them learn to handle the media in a professional manner. You develop a relationship with the coaches, because they know you teach their players. You help their players; you counsel and mentor those players. You help the coaches with their style of communicatingwith their interviewing. What to say and what to do. You get very close to the coaches. I have very strong feelings for Bob Boyd, for Richard Williams, for Coach (Rick) Stansbury, says Flick, on the relationships he has built over the years. Most of them used me as a source to help them with their own communication. Head coaches only have so much time with their players. Its the assistants and support group around them, that helps the program grow. So, most times, when a program goes under, oentimes it isnt because the head coach is doing anything dierent; it just means he doesnt have the support people. Athletics is a beautiful diamond ring, and if you start to take a couple of stones out of that setting, the ring isnt as pretty as it used to be. So, you help the coaches any way possible. Because theyre good people and because you love Mississippi State. Flick has been there for the young athletes, who have struggled with the sometimes-brutal criticism of the Bulldog fan base. Youre in the world and the world is very, very dierent. Anytime you say anything to a person about their speech, they are like this is the United States and I have freedom of speech. People have the right to say whatever they want and thats their right. You cant scold them; its just part of the times, Flick said. I had a player in here, earlier this morning, talking about the hurtful things that were said about him, on message boards. It hurts, and you listen to them. ere isnt much you can say. But its the nature of the times. Youve got to be in the world, but not of the world. Im on Facebook! Ive got a Twitter account. e nature of the world youre in and can you handle it, and in many cases an athlete can not. Ive had football players read stu on message boards, and they are like Im not playing for Mississippi State, anymore; Im playing for myself. If I knew these types of things were said about me; I would have never come to this school. Flick, obviously, is a treasured figure, who bleeds Maroon and White. Even though his firing in 2009 was unpopular and hurt him deeply, he still loves Mississippi State and the man who fired him, former Mississippi State Athletic Director Greg Byrne. I have the greatest respect for Greg Byrne. I admire Greg; I love Greg. He, Regina, and the boys are one of the best things that happened to Mississippi State. I will never think or say anything derogatory about Greg Byrne. And he fired me! But, it had to be hard for him to do. Sure it hurt. e athletic directors here have to do what they have to at the dierent times, stated Flick, sharing his personal feelings on Greg Byrne. In 41 years of service, Flick has shown unwavering commitment, through sickness and family tragedy. I love Mississippi State; I know I do. I can remember, back in the 80s, I had kidney stones. I can remember doing a football game - it was against Kentucky, in the 80s, and I was passing kidney stones while doing a football game. It hurt like heck, and I never said a word. at was my proof that I loved Mississippi State. Afterwards, when you didnt say anything, you lived through it, says Flick. Ive never taken a sick day in 41 years. Last March 29th, I got a call. It was a ursday morning, and the person started talking to me. I told them I dont want to hear what you got to tell me, dont tell me. ey told me that my mom died. Two hours later, I was in a classroom. I taught for three hours that day. And no one knew that the most important person in my life - my mom - had died, two hours earlier. e next day I was in a classroom, teaching. Dr. Hank Flick has displayed what it means to be true maroon. He has been there for it allthe College World Series, Final Four, several bowl games, and the evolution of the Peoples University. For this humble man, it was all a labor of love.

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Hank Flick

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When we attend sporting events, our focus typically goes toward the athletes competing on the field or courtwith the behind-the-scenes sta receiving minimal attention. ose unseen individuals oentimes have more to do with the success of the program than meets the eye.

Hank Flick, the former Mississippi State public address announcer (1977-2009), played a vital role in the MSU program prospering, during that time. Anyone that purchased a ticket to a basketball game, when he was on the microphone, can remember his iconic opening line: Welcome to the Hump for hoops, Mississippi State-style! Many remember him for that signature voice, but Flick is also known by his students as a beloved teacher, over the past 41 years.

Flick didnt originally plan to come to Mississippi State, aer receiving his Masters from the Memphis State University (Now, the University of Memphis). But, he found his way down to Starkville, Mississippi, aer someone else turned the job down. I was finishing up my Masters at the University of Memphis, and the job came open here. My bosses recommended someone else to come down and take the job. ey didnt like it, and they wanted to know if I wanted it. I was going to go teach at Christian Brothers College. e person that didnt take the job, down here, ended up taking the job at Christian Brothers, said Flick, about how he ended up at Mississippi State. He was a professor for six years, before being asked to take the microphone for Mississippi State games. Someone just asked me, one day, if I was interested. I said yea Im a student of communication; Ive never been on radio. I dont have that good a voice. ey said you need to be somewhere tonight, if youre interested, Flick said. I went over, that night, to an exhibition basketball game at Humphrey Coliseum. ey sat me down, and I didnt even know how to turn the microphone on. e game was going on, and I wasnt saying

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Wilson-led Defense Could Dominate in 2012some consideration, the Dallas, Texas native decided to stay at Mississippi State for a third year (second as defensive coordinator). Although the Bulldogs lost defensive tackle Fletcher Cox (12th overall pick of 2012 NFL Dra), the MSU defense is poised to dominate, in 2012. Some people may disagree with my assessment, but I based this statement on several factors. e first is continuity; the Bulldogs will have the same defensive coordinator in back-toback seasons for t

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