Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

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...see page 2 Thirty First Sunday in Ordinary Time ~ November 5, 2017

Office Hours: Parish Office—Mon-Fri.: 9 am - 5 pm; Rel. Ed.—Mon-Thurs: 10 am-4 pm; closed Fri.; also by app’t.

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

Deacon G. Montalvo

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

MASS SCHEDULE

Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30am, 9:00am, 10:30 am,

12 noon

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am

& 8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

9 am—5 pm in Mary’s Chapel

SACRAMENTS

Confession: Saturday, 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Baptism Contact the Parish Office.

Marriage Arrangements should be made

with a priest at least one year in advance.

Homebound/Hospital Call Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION

Contact Parish Office.

Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 relgioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School

the greenhouse (PreK)

305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

In Loving Memory

Carol Ajello George Alto Joseph F. Anodide Brian Arena Joan Mary Basic Joseph Bevilacqua Louis M. Brancone Vincent Bricca Rita Marie Bruggemann Carlo Calautti Vincent Cancro William Capo, Jr. Corinne Cappiello Dominick Carlucci Jule I. Casey Thomas Conville Margaret Damato Doris De Palma Louis R. De Palma, Jr. Maureen A. Deuschel Angelo D’Imperio

of Our Dearly Departed

Terence Dolan William Dunleavy Lilia Echeverri Margaret Erickson Louis Ferrante Charles E. Garbaccio Maria Georgieff Charles V. Giancola Beatrice E. Guerra Raymond Guilbert William Hamill Blanca Higuera Kenneth Humiston Frnaces M. Keilly Valerie J. Kruegal Louis La Monaca Marueen MacDevette George E. Macey Joseph Madden Albert Madorran Rita Malasek Edward Maron Antoinette May

Mary Ann Melillo Anne Marie Montoute Patrick O’Brien Nancy Marie O’Brien Emmanuel C. Perrene Marilyn Petrocelli Joseph Porcelli Rose Marie Principe Dorothy Ragosta Luis Regaspi Elizabeth Ann “Lisa” Rittgers Rosemarie Rocchio Delia Rodgriguez Margaret Roupil Arthur Szabo Enrico Santomauro William Scanno Andrea Lois Schuler Louis Scrivani Kenneth Smolinsky Dorothy Stephan

Vincent M. Strohm William Sveridovich Anne Marie Sweeney Daniel H. Swift Lillian H. Vega Elaine Vereb Natalia Villegas Justine Wallach Connor G. Walsh Georgeanne White Rosann Wieder Betty Wisnewski Albert Wunder John Ziller

Eternal rest grant unto their souls, O Lord. May they rest in peace.

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Visit us on our websites! CHURCH: sjcnj.org

SCHOOL: sjsusa.org REL. ED.: sjcnjre.org

MAKE YOUR RESERVATION —TODAY after all Masses

$25

Soloist—Domenick Panfile

SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM October 15, 2017

God bless another of our newest Christians and her loving family!

HELP REFUGEE & HOMELES CHILDREN

50/50 RAFFLE TICKETS AVAIILABLE TODAY after all Masses

Help support the efforts of “New Hope for Children” by purchasing a raffle ticket (each only $2/ book of 10 for only $20) for our 50/50 Raffle. The winning ticket will be drawn at our “Relax and Unwind Friday” on November 17 (see above). Winner need not be present.

Caleigh Mary Urban Child of Deirdre & Joshua (right)

with godparents Keith & Geraldine Wacker (left) and grandparents Noel & Dymphna O’Shea (rear)

Shown: Bob Bertotti and his daughter Lizzie with Elena Gutierrez

BICYCLE BLESSINGS Saint Joseph parishioner Bob Bertotti generously restored two bicycles for donation to needy and deserving students at North Star Academy in Newark where our cantor, Elena Gutierrez teaches.

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THIRTY FIRST SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ NOVEMBER 5, 2017

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK

St. Martin of Tours (c. 316-17 to 397), whose feast is Saturday, was an ex-Roman soldier who later

became a monk and then a bishop in what is now France. His renown was due in large measure to the (c. 397) biography of him by Sulpicius Severus, which passes on a number of accounts of his healing miracles and of his victorious encounters with the devil. The first edition of Butler’s Lives of the Saints records that

One day, when Martin was praying in his cell, the devil came to him environed with light, clothed in royal robes, with a crown of gold and precious stones upon his head, and with a gracious and pleasant countenance, told him twice that he was Christ. Humility is the touchstone which discovers the devil’s artifices in all which a spirit of pride reigns. By this the saint after some pause discerned the evident mark of the angel of darkness, and said to him: “The Lord Jesus said not that he was to come clothed with purple and crowned and adorned with a diadem. Nor will I ever believe him to be Christ who shall not come in the habit and figure in which Christ suffered and who shall not bear the marks of the cross in his body.” At these words the fiend vanished, and left the cell filled with an intolerable stench. John Henry Newman, in commenting on this incident, wrote that (continued above)

EACH OF US ARE CALLED

We all have a call to further the kingdom of God, whether that is as a priest or deacon or for that matter a married or a single person. Each has a call from God and the community to live out our lives in service to another. What is your call? In Latin, the word “vocare” means to call, to name, or to invoke. As Catholic Christians, we believe that God through the community calls each of us into work for the kingdom of God. This week the Church celebrates "National Vocation Awareness Week" To learn more, go to www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/vocations/national-vocation-awareness-week.cfm

What will you do to support and sustain your call to the mission of Christ and the call of others?

The application of this vision to Martin’s age is obvious; I suppose it means in this day, that Christ comes not in pride of intellect, or reputation for philosophy. These are the glittering robes in which Satan is now arraying. Many spirits are abroad, more are issuing from the pit; the credentials which they display are the precious gifts of mind, beauty, richness, depth, originality. Christian, look hard at them with Martin in silence, and ask them for the print of the nails.

The cross will always be the mark that authenticates Jesus Christ, since it is the utmost proof of his great love for us. And all who wish to follow the Lord have to be ready to take up that portion of it that God assigns for us to bear. How can we ever forget the strong words of St. Paul:

The message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. … For Jews demand signs and Greeks look for wisdom, but we proclaim Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles, but to those who are called, Jews and Greeks alike, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God. For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength. (1 Co 1, 18⦁22-25)

Msgr. David Hubba

A PRAYER FOR VOCATIONS

Let us pray...

God, who called to the people of Israel, hear our prayer. You have called each of us to be the hands and feet of your Son our Lord Jesus Christ. Help us to tune our ears to your call, the small voice that is always asking us to help spread your good news. We humbly ask that you endow us with the knowledge and skills to help others to see that you are Lord and God.

We ask this through Christ our Lord and brother, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever.

Amen.

NOVEMBER 5-11, 2017

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SHAWL MINISTRY MEETING —NOVEMBER 14

Saint Joseph’s Shawl Ministry will meet on Tuesday, November 14 from 2:00- 4:00 pm in the Parish Life Center on

Grove Street. All knitters & crocheters are welcome to join us in making shawls…or bring your current yarn project and spend a relaxing afternoon with us. Our ministry has shawls available for those experiencing illness, confinement, bereavement, or other situation. For further information, please contact Barbara Piersa at 201-261-0298 or Pat DeNicolo at 201-261-4323. (There will be NO December meeting.)

EUCHARISTIC ADORATION —NOVEMBER 8

Because the first Wednesday of the month is the Solemnity of All Saints, adoration of the Blessed Sacrament will be held on Wednesday,

November 8 in Mary’s Chapel (lower church) from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm. The Legion of Mary invites you to attend.

MONTHLY PRAYER WITH MARY —NOVEMBER 11

The Monthly Prayer with Mary will be held on Saturday, November 11. All parishoners are invited to join the Legion of Mary after the 8:30 am Mass in Mary's Chapel (in our lower church). After the Rosary we shall continue our series on the virtues of Our Blessed Mother.

ONLINE BIBLE SURVEY Pope Francis has called on Christians to consult the Bible with the same frequency as they might consult their cellphones for messages. “What would

happen if we read the message of God contained in the Bible the way we read messages on our cellphones?” Please take the time to respond to a brief online survey on the Bible and help us better understand the interest and need of our parish communities with respect to the Bible. The anonymous survey can be taken on your phone or computer at: https://survey.research.bible/jfe/form/SV_3ecNsVFfNYLTWG9 The survey will be open from November 12-24. It will take only a few minutes and will give the Archdiocese valuable insights for planning. Thanks so much!

A CHRISTMAS GIFT TO REMEMBER

Looking for a special gift? Or a way to remember a loved one? Want something to record a special event (birth, Baptism, First Communion, Marriage) in the life of your family? A personalized engraved paver placed in our Commemorative Path (beside the church) or in our Garden of Saints (behind the parish office/rectory) may be just the answer. In the Garden we have shrines to Saints Francis of Assisi, Anthony of Padua, Joseph, Therese the Little Flower, Jude and our newest saint, Patrick. Your brick can be placed in front of the saint of your choice. Be the first to have a paver in front of St. Patrick! The donation for each brick is $125. Pick up an order form in the literature racks in the church or in the parish office/rectory and return it to 105 Harrison St., New Milford. Our new engraver will install inscribed bricks in the spring.

In Loving

Memory

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday

7:30 am 8:30 am

Friday

7:00 am 8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember those who are ill:

Francis Rockelein, Onofrio Petrella, Chloe Smith Thomas Fahey, Sr., Anthony Meo,

Corazon Silva, Beth Johnson

Let us remember those who have recently died: Virginia Carolan, Noreen Mastellon, James Montagne,

Rev. Daniel Danik, Rev. Donald Di Pasquale

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Week of October 29, 2017

BASKET PARISHPAY* TOTAL $6,691 $3,742 $10,433

*Total ParishPay donations are divided into five weeks (instead of four) for the month of October.

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread & wine for the week of November 5, 2017

is offered in loving memory of beloved cousin

Anthony “Tony” X. Navarra

as requested by Michael and Ann Moretti and Family.

THIRTY FIRST SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ NOVEMBER 5, 2017

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “Whoever exalts himself will be humbled; but whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” MATT 23:12 Jesus gave His life to serve, not to be served. Putting others’ needs before our own needs is a sign of becoming a mature disciple, of following Jesus’ example. Humility is really a sign of a strength. By putting others’ needs first we declare to the world that we are putting our complete trust in God. When we align our thoughts and actions with God’s plan for us, the result is joy and peace.

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Parish Trustees………..Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Parish Pastoral Council…………….Mr. Martin De Benedetto Dir. of Religious Education ……….Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator …………..Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………..Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister ………………………...Mrs. Donna Cirino Facilities Director ………………….....Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager ……………….…. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………....Mrs. Geraldine Carolan

Principal of Saint Joseph School…Dr. Paula Valenti

EARLY BULLETIN DEADLINES

Announcements for the Nov. 19 bulletin — due by Friday, Nov. 10

Nov. 26 bulletin — due by Tuesday, Nov. 14 Please send them to hellriegeld@sjcnj.org

NO LATER than the listed deadlines. Thank you!

November 4, 2017 Elizabeth Pittenger

November 5, 2017 People of the Parish Jack Verrier Deceased Members of the Fakharzadeh Family Eileen Diaz Patrick Pepe

November 6, 2017 All our beloved deceased Lloyd De Nicolo

November 7, 2017 Catherine Kim All our beloved deceased

November 8, 2017 All our beloved deceased Ida & Silvio De Nicolo

November 9, 2017 Felice Bartolomeo All our beloved deceased

November 10, 2017 All our beloved deceased Mary & Dominick Nocetti

November 11, 2017 Catherine Dreitlein (Anniversary Remembrance) Tony Navarra

November 12, 2017 People of the Parish Graham O’Brien Eamon G. McCarthy (Tenth Anniversary) John Keefe John A. Haviland, Jr.

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FOOD DRIVE AT SAINT JOSEPH

—NOVEMBER 18-19

“Lord when did we see You hungry, and feed you, or thirsty, and give You drink? … Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to Me.” Matt. 25: 37, 40

Our traditional Thanksgiving Food Drive will take place in two weeks. Your generous donations will bless those in need of the Food Pantries at the Church of the Ascension in New Milford and our Brother/Sister Parish of St. Joseph in Jersey City.

If you prefer, you may make a monetary donation. Please make your check payable to “Saint Joseph Church” and mark the

envelope “Food Drive.”

The following is a list of items often requested. Please make sure that the food is NOT OUTDATED. Thank you for using your own grocery bags!

Baby Food/Formula Macaroni & Cheese Baked Beans/ Mayo/Mustard/Ketchup Pork & Beans Meat/Fish (Canned) (Dried or Canned) Beef Stew (Canned) Beans Milk (Powdered or Canned) Bisquick/Pancake Mix Pasta/Pasta Sauce /Syrup Peanut Butter & Jelly Cake Mix/Frosting Potatoes Cereal (Canned or Instant) Coffee/Tea Rice Cranberry Sauce Salad Dressing Fruit (Canned) Soup (Canned) Fruit Juice Stuffing Mix Gravy Sugar/Salt/Pepper/Etc. Jello/Pudding Vegetables (Canned) Deodorant Shampoo Dishwashing Liquid Shaving Cream Garbage Bags Soap Laundry Detergent Toilet Paper Napkins/Paper Towels Toothpaste

*Please bring your donations to the Saint Joseph Rectory Garage, before or after any of the Masses the weekend of Nov. 18-19.

HOW TO REPORT ABUSE The Archdiocese takes very seriously any and all allegations of sexual misconduct by members of the clergy, Religious and lay staff of the Archdiocese. We encourage anyone with knowledge of such to inform us immediately so that we may take appropriate action to protect others and provide support to any victim. Individuals who wish to report an allegation may do so by calling the Archdiocesan Office of Child and Youth Protection at 201-407-3256.

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