Introduction and Ground Rules

Turning Negative into Positive

“What Matters the Most is How you See

Yourself…”“Nasirat of Today, Leaders of Tomorrow” Workshop

By: Zara Ahmad, Maliha Javaid, Shaista Javaid, KhushbakhtRasool and Riwa Tanveer

How Would You Define Self-Image?

Dictionary Definition:

“The way you think about yourself and

your abilities or appearance.”

Two Types Self Image

What are some words to describe

POSITIVE self image?

What are some words to describe

NEGATIVE self image?

How Would You Define Confidence?

Dictionary Definition:

“Feeling or belief that you

can do something well or succeed at

something”

Positive Self Image = Confidence

Importance of Positive Self Image and Confidence

• Makes you happy and feel good

• You feel empowered

• Become more social and less lonely

• Take on the world

• Protects you from negative people and negative

thoughts

HOW OTHERS SEE YOU IS NOT IMPORTANT, HOW YOU SEE

YOURSELF MEANS EVERYTHING

Personal Experiences

“Love is Louder Than the Pressure to be

Perfect”

Overcoming Obstacles & Tackling Your Insecurities

Faith

Trust

Believing in Yourself

Stop Comparing

Be Forgiving

What Role Does Confidence Play in Our Faith?

So, if Islam is a WAY OF LIFE

and impacts our

choices, actions, behaviors,

thoughts on a daily

basis…the question is…

Personal Experiences

Islamic Values

Doing your best

Hope & Optimism

Moderation

Obedience

VS.

Analogy – Car

Personal Experiences

Mighty Nice To Know You

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zw72ECvuT5c

Bullying

What is Bullying?

Cyber Bullying

The use of electronic

communication to bully a

person, typically by sending

messages of an intimidating

or threatening nature.

Social Media & Chatting

Think Before You Speak

Al-balaa'u mu-akkalum-bil-mantiqi

Speaking (without thinking) leads to trouble

“Taking advantage of modern inventions is not prohibited. Ahmadis should utilise these

inventions to spread the message of the Promised Messiah (on whom be peace) and not come under the influence of indecency and faithlessness and assign themselves to

the detractors.”

December 6th 2013

Friday Sermon: Introspection and

Self-Reformation

- Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad atb

Does Bullying Only Effect the Victim?

Emotional Effects of Bullying

Speechless

Physical Effects of Bullying

Abuse is a Sin

Sibaab-ul muslimi fusooqunAbuse by (or of) a Muslim is an evil

Why does Bullying Happen?

Stop Bullying

Don’t Share Passwords

Stand Up For Yourself and Others!

Against Backbiting

Al gheebatu ashadduminal qatil

Backbiting is worse than killing

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v

=qA1TJjJgdz8

Tunnel of Love and Hate

Against Hearsay

Laisal khabaru kalmu'aaianati

Hearsay is not like seeing

Kindness to Younger Ones and Respect for Elders

Mallam yarham sagheera-naawa lam ya'rif haqqa kabeeri-naa

fa-laisa minnaaHe who is not kind to our younger ones and does not recognize the right of our elders, is not from among us

Confidence and Bullying Interrelating

“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too

great a burden to bear.”

- Martin Luther King, Jr.

LOVE FOR ALL, HATRED FOR

NONEOUR SHIELD