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I hope that all our readers have enjoyed the summer. It appears we can say we have had one this year and lets hope the warmth and sunshine do not leave us to soon.

Unfortunately we know that the cold dark winter days are on the way. So in this issue of EN Magazine we take a look at ways to help reduce the cots of heating and lighting your homes in the coming months.

In this issue we launch our Creative Baking Competition. So why not dust of your cake tins, fill your home with the smell of baking and even if you do not win you get to enjoy eating some delicious cakes!

Over the summer the team at EN Magazine have been busy creating a new website which we launch this September. The site will have relevant news articles, competitions and you will be able to read the latest issue of EN Magazine online as well as all the back issues. You can see our new look website at www.enmagazine.co.uk.

I hope that you enjoy reading this issue of EN Magazine. Please do not hesitate to get in touch with me if you have any comments on this issue at [email protected] Kind regards

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Families and individuals in Potters Bar struggling to afford basic food items will be offered a helping hand thanks to a new food bank.

Hertsmere Borough Council (HBC) has awarded £1,500 through its community grants scheme to Life Church towards setting up the food bank at Oakmere Youth and Community Centre.

The food bank, which is due to launch in September, will provide non-perishable food, such as soup, pasta, rice, tinned meat and fruit, for people in need. It will open initially for one afternoon a week.

Life Church, which has a base in Cuffley and holds services on the Oakmere estate in Potters Bar, will run the food bank in conjunction with national charity The Trussell Trust. Local support will be vital for the project which will rely on donations of food and volunteers to keep it going.

Project leader Esther Chelliah-Tam, said: “We are really grateful for the support given by Hertsmere Borough Council. The grant will go towards setting up a warehouse facility so we can store all the food which has been donated to us safely.

“A group of our young members thought of the project, and now the whole church is involved. The food bank is not a way of getting more people into our church. We offer a very safe and non-judgmental service.

“We just want to make a difference in the area and we want to offer support to our neighbours, especially during this time when there are people in

crisis, through no fault of their own, because of the economic uncertainty.The church has a very close relationship with Oakmere Primary School and will work with them to serve all people in this part of Potters Bar.”

The project follows a report produced by Community Action Hertsmere and commissioned by Hertsmere Together, the local strategic partnership co-ordinated by the council, which identified Oakmere Potters Bar as one of the most socially deprived areas in the borough.

Councillor Brenda Batten, chairman of the council’s community grants panel, said: “This initiative will provide a vital service to the Potters Bar community. Food poverty is a sad fact across the UK and research has shown it is happening on our doorstep. This food bank will give short-term relief for families and people in crisis who, often for reasons beyond their control, cannot afford to pay for essential groceries. Those people who need more long-term help can then be signposted to other services and agencies.”

Affinity Sutton Housing Association, Oakmere Primary School, other local churches and local GPs will be working with Life Church to identify residents in need.

Those residents will then be offered a voucher which they will be able to exchange for a bag, containing enough food for a minimum of three days.

Donations of food and volunteers can be made by emailing Life Church at [email protected]

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Enfield Council, via the Enfield Residents Priority Fund, has funded a new Green Gym in Enfield Playing Fields which will allow visitors to the area to get fit whilst out and about. The gym, which cost £26,000, was proposed by the Friends of Enfield Playing Fields, with the support of Councillors from Town Ward, Enfield Ignatians Rugby Club and Enfield Town FC.

The Green Gym is a fantastic asset to the park and is available for everybody to use. The equipment allows users to undertake all

kinds of exercise such as cardiovascular work, push ups and arm lifts; it can be enjoyed by people of all ages and is sited near the Donkey Lane entrance.

Cllr Bambos Charalambous, Enfield Council’s Cabinet Member for Culture Leisure Youth and Localism said “This new equipment is a huge asset to Enfield Playing Fields, and gives people who may not be members of a gym the chance to get fit and enjoy themselves in our parks. If you are coming along to watch a game in the QEII stadium and are perhaps a little early why not check out

the Green Gym? It’s a great way to pass the time.”

Ruth Hastings Iqball, the Secretary of the Friends of Enfield Playing Fields said “We are delighted with the new facility. The gym has only just been installed and it is already being well used, which shows how popular it is. The Friends of Enfield Playing Fields are always seeking to improve all aspects of our park. At our request, a new children’s playground is currently

being installed, which will provide enjoyment and exercise for local children. Enfield’s Parks are vital for the health and wellbeing of the borough’s residents and need and deserve our support.”

As well as the works going on at the Enfield Playing field an 50k bid has secured more investment in Enfield ParksAn artificial cricket pitch, wildflower orchard and play equipment are among the array of improvements

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Enfield Council will be making to five of its parks after winning £50k from a ‘Fields in Trust’ bid.

The Trust work to keep fields and green spaces in community use and supports proposals to help this happen.

Enfield Council already has eight parks with Green Flag Status and is committed to improving the facilities and attractions in all of its open spaces.

The work to be carried out will include:

Ponders End Park – A new artificial cricket pitch will be installed encouraging people to play the game in the park.

St George’s Field - Installation of play equipment such as rocks and balance beams for children to use.

Craig Park – The paddling pool will have new planters installed with flowers and shrubs, and the old bowling green

area will be cleared and turned into a wildflower / orchard area. The existing running track will be marked with new Olympic themed distances.

Tatem Park – Improvements will be made to existing footpaths to make them easier to use for those who have disabilities, older people or residents with buggies.

Jubilee Park - Significant biodiversity enhancements will be made to the park through planting, habitat creation and information boards to explain the work to visitors will be installed.

Cllr Chris Bond, Enfield Council’s Cabinet Member for Environment said “This money will enable us to improve five of our parks and improve the already impressive facilities and attractions our open spaces offer residents.

“We are one of the greenest borough’s in London and this £50,000 investment will help improve access

for visitors, and make these green spaces more welcoming.

“These bids will not only make our parks more attractive and interesting for visitors but also help to encourage and protect the diverse wildlife you can find there.“

Enfield Council has also started work in a number of its parks and green spaces to clear scrub, plant hedges and allow areas of grass and flowers to grow in a bid to encourage nature into the borough.

Supported by grants from the ‘Higher Level Stewardship’ Scheme, it sees six of public parks (Grovelands, Hilly Fields, Whitewebbs, Trent, Forty Hall and Oakwood) having special work undertaken to deliver effective environmental and wildlife-friendly management on the land. So far the work has seen 70 hectares of scrub removed in the wildflower meadows, which lets flowers thrive and attracts bees and

butterflies. Hedges have also been relaid in some parks, which give a variety of wildlife a natural home, such as breeding birds, insects and mammals.

Areas of long grass have been left to grow to provide a habitat for various species, and hay making has been introduced on some sites where there are livestock.

Work has been done on waterways, and ponds which are home to the great crested newt will be managed to encourage their survival, and new habitats will be created to encourage otters back into Enfield and London.

More access will also be made to encourage school groups to learn about the relationship between farming, land management and conservation.

To find out more about Enfield 2020 and how this project is part of something bigger, please visit www.enfield.gov.uk/enfield2020



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People living or working in Hertsmere do not want to see litter lying on the ground, so why do people drop it?

Did you know it is illegal to drop litter anywhere in public? And if you do litter - on the street, in a park or from your car - you could be given an on-the-spot fine of £75?

Hertsmere council is on the lookout for litterbugs and as part of a crackdown on litter in the borough, the council has recently put up a number of road signs along the A41 from Elstree to Bushey to target drivers and passengers to make them think twice about throwing rubbish out a window.

Environment Portfolio Cllr Jean Heywood explained: “The majority of residents wouldn’t dream of littering but unfortunately some people are lazy and drop it on the street or throw it out of their cars when driving. It’s really not difficult, please have pride in Hertsmere and pop your rubbish in a litter bin or hold on to it until you get

home.”

Fixed penalty notices for littering, and dog fouling, can be issued by council officers and PCSOs throughout the borough, and some John O’Conner grounds maintenance contractors have also recently been accredited with certain powers.

The council has also recently replaced its fleet of four Scarab street sweepers, having had them in service for nine years which is quite an achievement for that type of machine. The sweepers will be out and about across Hertsmere collecting rubbish from the streets in Borehamwood, Bushey, Potters Bar and Radlett.

Cllr Heywood added: “Local authorities throughout England collectively spend around £1billion of council tax payers’ money on clearing up litter every year, so next time you are about to drop a crisp packet, cigarette butt or burger wrapper, please think twice.”

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London’s fantastic community farms and gardens are putting on a public show, The City Harvest Festival, featuring greens, gherkins, goats and guinea pigs galore, will take place on September 21st at Capel Manor Gardens.

Now in its 15th year, the City Harvest Festival has all the fun and atmosphere of a traditional rural county show, but features animals and produce from inner city London. It is the one time in the year when the hard work and dedication of talented farmers and gardeners from across London are celebrated.

This year, animals and produce from a wide range of London’s 16 city farms and more than 100 community gardens will be showcased at the event. Visitors to the festival may see Golden Guernsey goats from Newham, honey from Walworth, pumpkins from Kentish Town,

Indian runner ducks from Vauxhall, Bengali kerala from Shoreditch, and blackcurrants from White City.

The festival takes place in 30 acres of gorgeous grounds at Capel Manor Gardens and is a great family day out. Ducks, geese, rabbits, ponies and livestock compete for the Best in Show, while there is a dazzling array of both familiar and exotic fruit and vegetables in a variety of produce competitions, all sourced from London farms and gardens.

Event organiser Catherine Miller, London Co-ordinator for the Federation of City Farms and Community Gardens, said: “Visitors will be amazed at the variety of produce grown at London’s community projects and at all the different animals kept. This popular family show truly is where the city meets the country. Many of the young people who take part in the Festival

volunteer their free time to help nurture plants and animals and create something of benefit to their communities. ”

More than 2,000 people are expected to flock to the festival. The day includes a fiercely competitive tug of war, a contest for the biggest pumpkin, the most unusual looking fruit or vegetable and best mini-farm.

Talented blacksmiths, potters and woodworkers will be demonstrating their crafts, and spectacular produce displays from London’s community gardens will be on show in the

horticulture marquee.

The event is also a celebration of food produced in London and there will be advice for visitors on growing and cooking food, with demonstrations.

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Recycling in Hertsmere is on the increase following changes to collecting cardboard The amount of rubbish diverted from landfill is set to increase following changes to the way cardboard is recycled thanks to the efforts of residents. Last month we asked you to start putting cardboard in your brown bin or black box instead of your green bin because it was contaminating the borough’s composting loads. Now it is collected from your brown bin along with glass, cartons, plastic and cans as a commingled ‘dry’ recycling load.

Environment Portfolio Holder, Cllr Jean Heywood, said: “I’d like to thank residents for getting to grips with the new scheme so quickly. Most people are putting cardboard in their brown bin now, as opposed to their green bin, with waste operatives only having to hand out the odd reminder to residents.

“The change has encouraged lots of households to swap their black box which they had been using for glass, cartons, plastics and cans, for a brown bin which will also help boost the borough’s recycling. In addition we have seen an increase in requests for larger brown bins which are given to households with five or more people.”

Since the change came in, there has been two cycles of ‘week 2’ when brown bins and green bins are collected. The contents of your brown bin, or black box, i.e. your glass, cartons, plastic, cans and cardboard – is taken to a materials recycling facility (MRF) in St Albans where it gets separated and sorted. At the moment cardboard is taken out by hand until an automated system is added to the MRF soon.

Cardboard is pulped similarly to paper and made back into new cardboard. The contents of your green bin – your food and garden waste including cooked or raw food such as meat, fish, bones, shells, fruit, veg, dairy and any leftover scrapings – is composted at South Mimms.

Cllr Heywood added: “If you have been away on holiday please remember to put cardboard in your brown bin ready for it to be collected next week.”

Most people appreciate why it is so important to recycle and divert waste from landfill but if you are unsure, here are the main reasons:

It is cheaper – landfill tax is expensive so recycling more and sending less to landfill saves money (and keeps council tax down). Landfill is about to run out – there is practically no room left in landfill sites so we simply have to find alternative ways of getting rid of our waste.

It is better for the environment as it saves energy and lessens our impact on the planet’s limited resources such as oil – why throw something away if you can reuse it in some way?

For more information including frequently asked questions please visit www.hertsmere.gov.uk/cardboard or call 020 8207 7480.

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Over the last few years the national media has shown us pictures of British Forces personnel returning from conflicts with some alarming injures. Who amongst us has not been moved by the stories of courage that these people have faced in returning to day to day life.

Local business partners Andrew Ryde and Andrew Standen of Chamberlains Estates, a residential sales & lettings estate agents, based in Windmill Hill, Enfield have decided to help raise funds for this amazing and worthwhile group of people by organising a Charity Golf Event.

“As a local business we have always tried to get involved with, and support

the local community. From sponsoring events at Chickenshed, Merryhills & Highlands School fetes, neighbour watch schemes, Trent Park Running Club and local flower beds. However we wanted to do some thing that would help both locally and nationally.” Andrew Standen said

“We have both been moved by the stories we have read, heard and seen, of the bravery of our injured armed forces personnel and wanted to do something that showed our support.”

“We decided to organise a Charity Golf Event which is taking place on Friday, 4th October at Enfield Golf Club. Giving people an afternoon of golf, pitching their talents against other

local people, but also for the non golfers we have indoor 10 pin bowling to entertain everyone during pre dinner drinks, a three course meal, charity auction with Jack Otter, war veteran as our special guest of honour.”

“Our chosen charity is Help for Heroes and they will receive all monies raised from the event and from our charity auction.”

Help for Heroes has created a network of Recovery Centres in

Colchester, Catterick, Tidworth and Plymouth to ensure the support is there for the wounded and their families, for life. The Centres, provide accommodation, training and recovery facilities as well as delivering life-skills courses and activities to get the wounded, sick and injured, serving and veterans, back out doing what they enjoy the most. Through this network,

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and through grants to other specialist charities and organisations such as Combat Stress, Help for Heroes aims to inspire, enable and support individuals to excel along their chosen life path.

Bryn Parry OBE, CEO and Co-founder of Help for Heroes says, “Help for Heroes is all about ‘doing your bit’ and we are delighted to have the support of Chamberlains Estates. The Road to Recovery is a very long and hard path, these are young men and women today but they will grow old. We at H4H want to

ensure that they have the support they need for life, they deserve the best and we are doing our best to make sure they get it.”

“We are also really pleased that Barclays Bank has kindly agreed to match the money raised from the auction up to £750 so we hope we will raise over £1,500 from the event,” added Andrew Ryde.

The cost to enter a four team for the golf day is £240 and includes brunch, golf & dinner.

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Peter Dyer Photographs Ltd. is celebrating its’ 40th anniversary in business this month and is still creating those special moments on wedding days, special events and in it’s themed portrait studio here in Enfield.

The familiar bright red door in Enfield’s London Road takes you into a world of fabulous photographs from wedding groups, family portraits, pets and parties – events on a grand scale and moments of quiet reflection.

Every one is individual……..And every photograph tells a story………..

The walls of PDP are a time capsule of people and places taken over 40 years – lives captured forever in photographs, with every image from those years loving archived for future enjoyment.

Peter & Pam Dyer set up

Peter Dyer Photographs Ltd. back in 1973. In their first year they photographed forty–nine local weddings and the company grew from there. Peter & Pam were the forerunners of the super-imposed photography era, travelled all over the world photographing, lecturing & creating stunning images and turned Peter Dyer Photographs into an award winning studio with the help of, among others, Chris Hands, the current studio manager who has been with PDP for over 25 years.

In 2009 the family business was continued and kept in the family when Peter & Pam’s son Joel Dyer and his wife Debbie took over the business maintaining a progressive style drawing on worldwide influences and innovations keeping them one step ahead.Joel has kept up the family tradition of winning photography awards and being a member of the British Institute of

Professional Photography whilst creating his own style of stunning wedding, portrait and event images.

The studio caters to the individual offering everything from wedding, event and location shoots to portrait photography at their Enfield studio utilizing former Pinewood film sets. People come back to record family events, to mark a new birth, anniversaries, birthdays and they can now transfer old photographs from their archive onto DVD – even from all those years ago!

Memories make great gifts and after 40 years

in business the team at Peter Dyer Photographs believe being a part of making those memories is a privilege and a pleasure.

To celebrate their 40 years, Peter Dyer Photographs is offering EN readers a free studio shoot. Call the studio on 020 8363 2456 and quote the ref: PDP40 to claim you free shoot.

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A fabulous free festival of music and community activities organised by Enfield Council and community groups takes place on the River Lee on Saturday 14th September, between Ponders End and Enfield Locks . The Lock to Lock Festival will run between 11am and 7pm and showcases everything the river has to offer, featuring artists such as Keisha White, Beached boys, Ellamore, Leroy Dias Dos Santos, a dancer from Street Dance group Flawless and EN2 Krew, sport taster sessions, face painting, dance activities, river boat trips, canoeing, a children’s treasure hunt,

mini farm and lots more.

Events are taking place at and between the Navigation Inn in Wharf Road, Ponders End and the Prince of Wales Playing Field in Ordnance Road, Enfield.

The event is funded through the Mayor Of London’s Outer London Fund and there will be free shuttle buses every half hour from the bus stop outside Tesco in Ponders End and Ordnance Road Co-op to transport people from the High Street to the event. Enfield Council’s Cabinet Member for Business and Regeneration, Cllr

Del Goddard, said: “The River Lee is the hidden gem of the area and these events will help open up the lee to more people. This fantastic family festival offers something for everyone so I’d urge people to come and enjoy a day by the river taking in the atmosphere and participating in the excellent music and activities on offer. “We’re determined to provide high quality

events for the whole family to enjoy and we hope the inaugural Lock to Lock Festival will be a fabulous success and we will be able to make it a permanent fixture in our event calendar.”

For more information residents can contact the council at [email protected] or call the Neighbourhood Regeneration Team on 020 8379 1000.-

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It seems these days that you cannot flick through the TV channels without coming across an abundance of cookery programmes. From Jamie Oliver trying to teach the nation how to cook for less, Gordon Ramsey screaming at the cooks in his kitchen to re runs of contestants trying to win a £1000 through their cookery and entertaining skills.

At this time of year it seems it is the turn of baking to get the magic of TV with the BBC’s The Great British Bake Off attracting over 5 million viewers. Now in its 4 series, with celebrity chefs Mary Berry and Paul Hollywood overseeing the baking exploits each week of contestants.

But it is not just on the TV that we are tuning in to get our fix of cakes and baking skills. Did you know that 16th -22th of September is National Cup Cake week and 14th - 20th October is National Baking Week?

Whatever the reason it

seems that the public cannot get their fill of cookery programmes and what could be nicer than the smell of baking wafting through the house as the evenings start to shorten.

Perhaps you like the idea of baking but would like a short cut to producing yummy tasting cakes. Help is at hand !

Five generations of the Wright’s Family have been milling Flour at Ponders End Mills, and know a thing about creating the perfect flour for baking. In fact a working mill has been on this site in Ponders End for over 900 years and was included in the Domesday Book, prepared for William the Conqueror in 1086. And this long history of milling flour has not gone to waste, for today as well as producing a collection of flours Wright’s also produce a range of pre packed mixes, ideal for any cake or bread baker.

Or if you are struggling to find the perfect finish for your baking, pop along

to Decorative Supplies. They can supply you with an extensive range of products to personalise your baking. From coloured icings, edible cake toppers to copying your favourite photo on to a sheet of icing the ideas are endless.

So why not wipe down the kitchen top, dig out the mixing bowl and cake tins from the back of the kitchen cupboard, grab some ingredients and heat up the oven and have a go at baking.

What more motivation do you need – oh yes you’ll get to taste all the cakes you cook!

Win Win WinPerhaps an extra motivation could be entering the EN Magazine Creative Baking Competition.

We have joined up with Wright’s Flour and Decorative Supplies to find the most creative local baker.

The competition is open to any local baker in two categories:•Adult Baker over 16•Child Baker under 16

The winners in each category will receive a selection of 10 Wrights Flour mixes along with a £20 voucher from Decorative Supplies

The runner up each category will receive 5 Wrights Flour mixes.

To enter the EN Magazine Creative Baking Competition just take a photo of your baked creation and email it to [email protected] or post them to EN Magazine 63 High Street Potters Bar Herts EN6 5AS. The closing date for entries is Friday October 11th.

To help get you started here are a couple of recipes from the Wright’s Flour Collection.

ICE CREAM CONE CAKESWright’s Toffee Cake Mix 500g Water 200ml Vegetable Oil 60ml (4tablespoon)Ice Cream Cornets 20

ToppingIcing Sugar 300gButter (softened) 100gCream Cheese 200gFruit or Toffee Sauce 5-6 tablespoonSmall Chocolate Flakes 12

Method (Makes 20)

1. Place the cake mix, water and vegetable oil in a bowl and beat for 1-2 minutes to form a smooth batter.

2. Place the ice cream cornets into a muffin tin.3. Divide the batter between the 20 cornets.

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4. Bake in a preheated oven 190°C (375°F Gas Mark 5) for 20-22 minutes until firm to the touch.

5. Place on a wire rack and allow to cool.

6. Sift the icing sugar into a bowl, then add the butter and cream cheese.

7. Beat until smooth and creamy for about 4-5 minutes with and electric whisk or machine. Do not over beat or the mixture may become runny.

8. Pipe the cream cheese frosting over each cornet.

9. Place a chocolate flake into the topping and decorate with fruit or toffee sauce.

BLACK FOREST BUNDT CAKEWright’s Chocolate Fudge Cake Mix 500g1 Can Cherry Pie Filling 400g tinWater 150mlVegetable Oil 60ml

DecorationDouble Cream 280ml (½ pt carton)Coarsely Grated Chocolate Shavings 40-50g.Kirsch Liqueur (optional) 1 tbsp

Method - (makes 1)

1. Reserve 8 cherries from the Cherry Pie Filling for decoration before mixing together all the ingredients listed above for the “Cake” to make a batter.

2. Pour this into a large 22.5cm (9 inch) well greased savarin or bundt tin.

3. Bake in the oven at 180°C (360°F) gas mark 4 for approximately 35 - 40 minutes.

4. Remove from the tin onto a cooling wire.

5. When completely cold, place the cake onto a serving dish and spoon over the kirsch liqueur (if desired), allowing it to soak in.

6. Lightly whip the double

cream (decoration), reserving a little for the rosettes. Use the remainder to coat the cake all over.

7. Sprinkle over with Chocolate Shavings (decoration), pipe 8 rosettes of cream, topping each with a cherry.

For more recipe ideas visit www.wrightsflour.co.ukor for all your cake decorations visit Decorative Supplies at 122a Chase Side Enfield

Decorative Supplies have an extencive range of cake decorations and much more


Business News

The 2013 Enterprise Enfield Business Awards are now open for entries. The annual competition recognises and rewards businesses for their achievements and is an excellent opportunity for businesses to shine and demonstrate their success. The awards have been made possible with the support of the sponsors: Enfield Council, The RSA Trust and Start-Up Loans London Ltd - Enterprise Enfield is delighted to be working with these organisations to champion businesses in the region.

There are five categories of awards this year which are all open to small and medium sized businesses, (under 250 employees) - full details and eligibility requirements for each category are available on the Business Awards Website. www.EnterpriseEnfieldBusinessAwards.org

The categories include:

Start-Up Business of the Year (under 2 years of trading)

Business of the Year (over 2 years of trading), Sponsored by The RSA Trust

Green Business of the Year Sponsored by The RSA Trust

Enfield Retailer of the Year Sponsored by Enfield Council

Young Entrepreneur of the Year Sponsored by Start-Up Loans London Ltd

Winners in each category will receive £1,000 as

well as valuable publicity, they will also have the opportunity to display the Business Award Winners logo on their website and marketing materials - an effective way to raise business profile and attract more customers!

Last Year’s Award winner of the Enterprise Enfield Business of the Year Award, Empire Garges, has already gone on to achieve notable further success this year by winning the Federation of Small Businesses Customer Service Excellence Award. Nailesh Gokani, one of the company’s Directors, said: “Our entry was scrutinised by a panel of ten judges and we were then shortlisted to one of the top six in the Customer Service Excellence Category. On the night, we were absolutely delighted to be awarded the winners trophy. I believe that winning the Enterprise Enfield Business of the

Year Award last year was a catalyst that has helped us achieve this milestone.”

To enter the competition business owners should complete the online entry or Word version entry form on the website: www.EnterpriseEnfieldBusinessAwards.org, and return it by the closing deadline 5pm Monday 7th October 2013. All shortlisted entrants are invited to attend the prestigious Awards Gala Dinner and Presentation Ceremony, held at the Royal Chace Hotel in Enfield. The event is widely publicised and attended by over 100 people including the Mayor of Enfield, local MPs and dignitaries, businesses and representatives from Enfield Council and a range of other business support organisations.

The 2012 awards winners were:The RSA Trust Start- up Business of the YearBaskervilles (London) Ltd

The RSA Trust Business of the YearEmpire Garages

Trust Green Business of the YearWarren Evans (Designer Ideas) Ltd

Enfield Retailer of the Year, sponsored by Enfield CouncilHoltwhites Bakery Ltd

Enfield Exporter of the Year, sponsored by Enfield CouncilAMS Acoustics Ltd

2012 Awards Winners

Enterprise Enfield Business Awards 2013Now Open for Entries! £1,000 for Winners in Each Category!


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With the arrival of the cold, dark nights we turn to artificial light and heating systems in our homes, but these do not come cheap.

Over the last few year gas and electricity costs of been rising way above the rate of inflation and there appears no end to this trend.

But how much are you actually using?

Smart meters are the next generation of gas and electricity monitoring. Together with their accompanying in-home displays, smart meters will help you keep track of the energy you use in your home and will cut out the need for meter readings.

By providing information about your energy use, these devices can help you to make informed decisions to manage your energy costs. The Government plans for every home and business in the UK to have a smart meter for electricity and gas by the end of 2020. Smart meters measure the total energy used in the same way as a traditional meter, but they can also tell you when you have used it and how much it costs. Additionally, they have a communication capability that allows this data to be displayed on a device inside your home and read remotely by your energy supplier.

An in-home display (IHD) unit will also be provided along with the smart meter as part of the programme. This device will be the most visible part of the smart metering system and provide up-to-date real-time information on gas and electricity use in pounds and pence, as well as units of energy.

The display will also present historical information on consumption so that you can compare current and past use.

Once your smart meter is installed, you will be able to see instantly when you’re using the most energy – and how much it costs, whatever display method you choose. This means you can adapt your energy use in line with the smart meter information and cut down on energy waste, to provide long-term carbon and financial savings.

For the first time, smart meters will allow households and businesses to make informed decisions based on accurate and real-time cost information. Currently many of us receive estimated bills after the energy has been used, making it difficult to reconcile costs with usage. The Rexel Foundation report found that 9 in 10 Brits think energy efficiency technology such as LED lighting, energy efficient heating and air conditioning or better insulation will allow them to reduce their bills, and almost half (41%) think they could save up to 20% or more.

There are a number of ways to cut your energy bills and ultimately save your pennies. This does include investing in energy efficiency solutions, but there are also a number of really easy behavioural changes you can make which can help to make the difference.

Brian Smithers, European Director of Rexel shared his top 7 energy saving tips include:

1. Keep an eye on your energy usage One of the easiest ways you can be more energy efficient is to keep an eye on what you’re using and target the appliances using the most energy. Energy monitors are useful to track your energy usage and highlight wasteful, inefficient appliances. Purchasing one will cost between £50 - £100, which could pay for itself in energy savings over just one year. 2. Switch off standby Devices left on standby like mobile phones, laptops and iPod chargers still use energy to keep them powered down. Simply switching off and unplugging items on standby is a great way to be more energy efficient. Larger items like televisions will consume more power, so if you can switch them off, you could be in for some big savings. 3. Don’t over fill your kettle Overfilling the kettle is a big energy waster. More water means more energy and time to boil it. Wasted energy boiling an overfilled kettle in just one week can power a TV for a full day! Save energy by boiling just the amount you need and save yourselves around 90 seconds in boil time every

Don’t be scared by the cost of heating and lighting your home this winter


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TO BUY, TO SELL OR IMPROVE?The property makret in Enfield and surronding areas is seeing growth outpacing other parts of the country.

Local property prices are raising, new bulids are going up and home improvments being undertaken can be seen all around the area.

Proprty advice from

• Before you undertake any major structural improvements or installations check whether you need Planning Permission and Building Regulation Consent.

• When you have had the work completed whether it is solar panels, double glazing or a loft extension keep the certificates and guarantees as you will need them when you sell.

• Buy to let is an expanding market with cheap mortgages available for prospective landlords.

• Whether you are buying or selling use a reliable solicitor to act for you.

Martin Shepherd Solicitors have a very highly regarded residential property department in each of the offices in Enfield, Edmonton and North Finchley.

Our staff have over 100 years’ experience between them to give you the best advice and service.

We deal with

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time you want a cup of tea. 4. Check your thermostat Your hot water thermostat should be set to 60°c/140°f, and turning down your central heating by 1°c can reduce your heating bills by 10%. That’s a real quick win! 5. Shower vs Bath If a family of four replaces one bath a week with a five minute shower, they could save up to £18 a year on gas bills and up to £21 on water bills (if a water meter is installed). 6. Fit energy efficient light bulbs Typically 8% of your annual electricity bill is spent on lighting your home which provides a great opportunity to find ways to be more energy efficient. A simple and cost-effective way to save energy in your home is to fit energy efficient bulbs. They are inexpensive to buy and widely available in a variety of shapes and sizes. And of course, switch off lights in rooms you are not using. 7. Keep the heat in - insulate Keeping the heat inside will stop the need to have your heating on for longer and help to be more energy efficient. One of the cheapest ways to save energy is to stop draughts. Draught excluders for windows, doors and letterbox brushes can stop biting winds cooling down your toasty temperatures. Shutting the curtains, especially lined ones, will stop heat escaping through your windows too.

Rexel Energy Solutions is a division of Rexel UK Ltd, the UK’s leading electrical distributor and energy solutions provider. They have dedicated expert teams available in specialist areas such as solar PV, solar thermal, LED lighting, biomass, air-source heat pumps, building controls and energy measuring and monitoring. If your house and water is heated by a gas boiler and radiators perhaps you should consider having them serviced and even power flushed.

Local plumber Owen Brewer from Brewer Plumbing

and Heating told us, “Over the summer you have probably only been using your boiler to heat water and your radiators have sat cold. During this time dirt and sludge that builds up in your radiator system will have sunk, hindering performance.”

“The sludge that builds up inside the central heating system can cause serious problems. The blockages inside the radiators and pipes will cause irreparable damage that is costly to replace. Power flushing will save you having to replace your boiler, valves, radiators and pumps before their time. As well as this, as your system will have free flowing heat and hot water, your boiler will have to work less and for shorter periods of time to supply the heat to your property - reducing your fuel bills by up to 25%.”

But that is just the start of getting the best out of a gas heating system;

Martyn Bridges, director of marketing and technical support at Worcester, Bosch Group, said: Setting the right temperature: The optimum temperature to keep a home warm is between 18°C and 21°C. Simply by turning your thermostat down even just 1°C you could actually reduce your heating bill by around 10%. If your home is well insulated it would be worth considering setting your thermostat to around 17°C so that when you return home your system won’t have to work too hard to reach your desired comfortable temperature. Alternatively, a programmable room thermostat will do the job for you. Avoid rising fuel costs by installing and using the correct controls for your heating system. This could increase the efficiency of a condensing boiler by up to 13% as it doesn’t have to do any more work than it needs to. Get reflecting: A simple yet effective way to increase heat is to place reflective foil behind the radiator. The foil will reflect heat back into the room and increase the efficiency of the radiator.


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Keep the flow clear: It may sound obvious but don’t cover radiators with curtains, furniture, as you will block the heat and stop it circulating around the room. Similarly, drying clothes on the radiator will make your boiler work harder and make the air more humid and feel colder. Nip that drip: The tones of a

dripping tap may be therapeutic to some, but leaking hot taps can add to your heating costs. When looking to save money and energy, get them repaired before it all adds up. If you’ve run a bath, don’t let the hot water out as soon as you get out – the heat from the water can also help keep the room that bit warmer. Lagging behind: Wherever you can you should always insulate any central heating and hot water pipework that gives off heat. In doing so you can reduce the amount of heat that escapes, meaning you spend less money heating water

up and your hot water will stay hotter for longer. Old isn’t always wise: Whether we like it or not, upgrading an ageing boiler is one of the most efficient things we can do in the home to save on our bills. Even if not broken, an old, inefficient boiler of 15 years or more is only around 60% efficient, meaning that for every pound spent on fuel, 40p is wasted. In fact, older boilers are also likely to have a standing pilot light which could cost in the region of £50-60 per year just to keep it going. Updating your heating system to an ‘A’ rated condensing boiler, such as Worcester’s Greenstar range of gas and oil-fired condensing boilers for example, could make your system over 90% efficient. In money saving terms, upgrading to a high-efficiency condensing boiler along with appropriate controls, could see you cutting energy bills by around £235 (source Energy Saving Trust) and saving over 1 tonne of CO2 each year.

Windows

All properties lose heat through their windows. But energy-efficient glazing keeps your home warmer and quieter as well as reducing your energy bills. That could mean double or triple glazing, secondary glazing or just heavier curtains.

According to the Energy Saving Trust (www. energysavingtrust.org.uk) the benefits of energy-efficient windows include:

o Smaller energy bills: replacing all single-glazed windows with B-rated double glazing could save you around £170 per year on your energy bills.


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o A smaller carbon footprint: by using less fuel, you’ll generate less of the carbon dioxide that leads to global warming - typically, 680kg a year.

o A more comfortable home: energy-efficient glazing reduces heat loss through windows and means fewer draughts and cold spots.o Peace and quiet: as well as keeping the heat in, energy efficient-windows insulate your home against outside noise.

o Reduced condensation: energy-efficient glazing reduces condensation build-up on the inside of windows.

o The costs and savings for energy-efficient glazing will be different for each home and each window, depending on the size, material and installer. Double glazing should last for 20 years or more.

Double-glazed windows have two sheets of glass with a gap between them, usually about 16mm, to create an insulating barrier that keeps heat in. This is sometimes filled with gas. Triple-glazed windows have three sheets of glass, but aren’t always better than double-glazed windows: to choose the most energy-efficient window look for the BFRC rating and Energy Saving Trust Recommended logo.

Energy-efficient windows come in a range of frame materials and styles. They also vary, depending on:

o how well they stop heat from passing through the window

o how much sunlight travels through the glass

o how little air can leak in or out around the window. What to look for when chossing windows.

Glass: The most energy-efficient glass for double glazing is low emissivity (Low-E) glass. This often has an unnoticeable coating of metal oxide, normally on one of the internal panes next to the gap. This lets in light and heat but cuts the amount of heat that can get out. In between: Very efficient windows might use gases

such as argon, xenon or krypton in the gap between the sheets of glass.

Pane spacers: These are set around the inside edges to keep the two panes of glass apart. For maximum efficiency, look for pane spacers containing little or no metal – often known as ‘warm edge’ spacers. Frame materialsFor all frame materials there are windows available in all energy ratings.uPVC frames last a long time and can be recycled.Wooden frames can have a lower environmental impact, but require maintenance. They are often used in conservation areas where the original windows were timber framed.

Aluminium or steel frames are slim and long-lasting, and can be recycled.Composite frames have an inner timber frame covered with aluminium or plastic. This reduces the need for maintenance and keeps the frame weatherproof. Energy ratingSome window manufacturers show the energy efficiency of their products using an energy rating scheme from A to G - like the one used for appliances such as fridges. The whole window (the frame and the glass) is assessed on its efficiency at retaining heat. The scheme is run by the British Fenestration Rating Council (BFRC). VentilationReplacement windows will be more airtight than your original frames, so condensation may build up in your house due to the reduced ventilation. If your house does not have much background ventilation, look for replacement windows with trickle vents incorporated into the frame to let in a small amount of controlled ventilation.If you start to see condensation building up around your windows, there may be a damp problem in your home. As a general rule damp occurs when there is inadequate ventilation, inadequate heating, inadequate insulation or a combination of these. If you’ve started to notice condensation in between the panes of glass in your double-glazing units then it is likely that the seal is broken, and the unit will need to be replaced.

You may think that all these improvements are going to cost a lot of money, however the Government has introduced two initiatives to help improve a homes energy saving efficiency.

The Green Deal1. How the Green Deal works

You can make energy-saving improvements to your home or business without having to pay all the costs up front through the Green Deal.Energy-saving improvements include:• insulation - e.g. loft or cavity wall insulation• heating• draught-proofing• double glazing• renewable energy technologies - e.g. solar panels or wind turbines• You may be able to claim money back from the government for your Green Deal home improvements through the Cashback scheme.

Get an assesment of your property to see what improvements you can make and how much you could save on your energy bills.

Use the assessment to apply for the Cashback scheme if you qualify.


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Choose a Green Deal Provider to carry out the work. You discuss with them what work you want done and whether the Green Deal is right for you.If you go ahead with the improvements you must sign your Green Deal Plan - this is a contract between you and the provider stating what work will be done and how much it will cost. The provider will then arrange for a Green Deal installer to do the work.

Once the work is done, you’ll pay off the money in instalments through your electricity bill.If you’re a landlord, you must get your tenant’s permission before you sign up, and if you’re a tenant you must get your landlord’s permission to sign up - this also applies to social housing.

2. Getting an assessment

Get an assessment of your property by choosing a Green Deal assessor You can also ask a Green Deal provider to find an assessor for you.

If you get a provider to arrange the assessment, you don’t have to use that provider for any future work you want done.You may have to pay for an assessment - you should check with the assessor or provider before the appointment.During the assessment an assessor will come and inspect your property, and discuss your energy use.They will give you a Green Deal Advice Report - this will explain what improvements you can make and estimate how much you could save on your energy bills.If the assessor wants to quote for improvements or recommend products or providers, they must get your permission before the assessment.After the assessment you will need to contact a Green Deal Provider to discuss what work is right for you. They can then arrange for any work to be done.

You can get quotes from as many providers as you like - you don’t have to choose all, or any, of their recommendations.You must apply for and receive your Cashback voucher before you start any work if you want to use the Cashback scheme.

3. Repayments

The amount you repay for Green Deal improvements is based on what a typical household or business is expected to save on energy bills by having the work done.

The cost will be shown on your Green Deal Plan (the contract between you and the provider), and will include the interest rate.Most improvements should reduce your heating bill because you’ll be using less electricity, gas or oil - but the actual savings depend on your energy use and the future cost of energy.

Before you sign your Green Deal Plan, check you understand the repayment rules.

You’ll pay the money back through your electricity bill. This is so that the Green Deal stays with the property - ie if you move, you no longer benefit from the improvements and therefore stop paying for them.

If you have a prepayment meter, a small amount will be taken from the meter each day instead.

You can pay off your Green Deal early, but you might be charged a fee - check with your provider.If you’re on benefits, a low income or live in an old property, you may be able to get help with costs.Contact the Energy Saving Advice Service

The ECO (Energy Company Obligation) The ECO for the big six energy suppliers launched in early 2013. It is in three parts:

Affordable Warmth ObligationTo provide heating and insulation improvements for low-income and vulnerable households (excluding social housing tenants).

There are complex eligibility criteria for this means-tested scheme. Call the Energy Saving Advice Service on 0300 123 1234 to check whether you might be eligible, and to apply if you are.

Carbon Saving ObligationTo provide funding to insulate solid-walled properties (internal and external wall insulation) and those with ‘hard-to-treat’ cavity walls.This is not means-tested but can be used in conjunction with the Green Deal. The aim is to provide enough support to make these relatively expensive measures cost-effective.

Carbon Saving Communities ObligationTo provide insulation measures to people living in the bottom 15% of the UK’s most deprived areas. It is expected that this element of ECO will particularly benefit the social housing sector.Through ECO, the government aims to help 230,000 low-income households.. Of the expected investment by suppliers of £1.3bn per year, there will be a 75:25 split between the carbon and affordable warmth obligations.

So if you follow the advice from our expertise perhaps the colder nights that on the way will not be as cold!

For more energy money saving tips and advice visit the Energy Saving Trust at www.energysavingtrust.org.uk

In the October issue Wood Burners - can they heat your home


Special Report

If someone was to talk to you about fostering a child, I bet like me, your initial thoughts are of a problem child, a troublemaker that no one else wants. A child that is going to cause problems where they live and a team of strict, dedicated people or soft liberal types looking after them. However, as I was to find out this could not be further from the truth.

Take, for example, the case of a 4 year old child; he lives with his single parent, has no other relations or family, suddenly his parent is rushed into hospital for an emergency operation and is unable to look after him for a couple of weeks. This is just one example of where a foster carer steps in to help.

That is not to say that children in foster care do not have issues, but from my experience of talking to foster carers the problems that these children have and face are often those of any child growing up, but due to circumstances beyond their control these problems are often exaggerated.

EN Magazine meet up with some foster carers to find out more about the role and why they do it.

Why become a foster carer and what is in it for you?

The reasons the people I met chose to take on a fostering role are very varied, but they all have one thing in common: a love of children and a willingness to care.

Vanessa and Mark have been fostering teenagers for 19 years. They have 3 daughters of their own who have grown up and left home and are currently fostering 3 teenage girls.

“I worked in nursing at a local hospital where my role involved supporting and looking after people in the community. I had first hand experience of children in foster care and wanted to be able to do more, so became a full time foster carer. It has been one of the most rewarding decisions of my life.”

“I am not going to say that it has been easy, some of the children who have come to stay with us have arrived with deep rooted problems. They often see being in care as a punishment for something they have done, which is usually far from the truth. To watch a scared, angry, resentful child walk through your door and see them, over time, flourish and grow into a loving and caring person is incredible.”

“The children who have come to us, we have welcomed into our family, we always try to treat them as one of our own and include them in our family activities. For many, when they come to us they have not necessarily had the opportunity to experience family life as we know it, they may have been rejected or neglected by their parents. Giving them a stable and safe environment is the first step from us. For me one of the most important things I have learned is taking the time to listen to the children in my care. Often I have found I have been the first adult who has sat them down and just talked to them. I do not judge them but try to understand. From listening to them time and time again, I have come to realise that it is not the fault of the child but the situation that they have been in before arriving with us. Often they were living with parents with issues of their own that meant they just can not cope with looking after their child.”

“Working with the children has bought all of my family such joy and pleasure. Some of the girls we have cared for, who have now grown up and left us live locally and

are still very much a part of my family and friends with my own daughters. I do not want to sugar coat the experience of fostering, it is hard work, it can be distressing and both physically and mentally challenging, but then so was bringing up my own children and it is just as rewarding.”

Helen another foster carer said. “I have grown up children of my own and when they moved out I found I was rattling around the house on my own. It was a friend who suggested I foster but I was very unsure if I would be able to love and care for someone else’s child. 19 years later I am still fostering. I currently have two teenage boys staying with me. I have always looked after

Fostering - A journey of discovery for carers and the cared for alike


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teenagers on short term and emergency care situations.”

“I have come to understand that you can not force change on the children in your care but you can show them alternatives to how they are living their lives and help them to improve their circumstances.”

“One child I had living with me was very angry and did not want to do anything I asked him to do. When I spoke to him about this I found out that it was because he felt sad and angry that it was not his own parent that was talking to him and telling him right and wrong. He did not know how to deal with the resentment he felt. Talking through the issue with him helped him to understand and cope with his emotions.”

“The safety of the child in my care is of paramount importance to me. Before agreeing to look after a child I always find out from the social worker as much about their situation as possible so that they will not be a danger to themselves, other children in my care or myself.”

“I don’t look at the bad kid, but to the issues that may be surrounding them. One teenager I cared for was getting into lots of trouble at school. It turned out that the reason behind this was that they could not read. They had somehow managed to slip through the school system. However it went further than that. The child’s parent also could not read so they had received no support for reading at home. They were embarrassed and did not know where to turn to for help and so had turned to getting into trouble to deflect from the issue of reading.”

“From my experiences of fostering I have come to realise just how resilient and resourceful children can be. I have also learnt a lot about myself as a person and how I deal with situations.”

“The advice I would give to anyone reading this who may consider fostering is to make sure that they love children and love being around them. Consider carefully the age of the children you are going to foster and the involvement, do you want to have to get up to do the school run each morning? Be flexible, tolerant and remember they are children. Be prepared to hear about very traumatic and disturbing experiences and be able to not be judgemental on first impressions.”

“And finally be prepared that the children will come back, I often have them turn up saying hello and asking if they can come in for diner and a chat after they have left my care!”

Pat and Dave have been fostering for 12 years and have had to deal with some extremely troubled children in their care.

“For us fostering with all its issues has given us experiences we would not be without. We now have a very extended family, one of our ex foster children turned up 9 years after leaving, asking could they come and cook lunch for us on Fathers day as a thank you for all the times we cooked for them. We have found that even after they leave us, in many cases, they want to stay in touch and include us as part of their lives.”

“We have always tried not to differentiate the children in our care, but to take them into our home and family, not just a room in a house.”

“It was a friend who initially suggested fostering to us and after attending an information meeting and the fostering preparation group we have not looked back, we have also made some good friends amongst the other foster carers we have met.”

“We have been very fortunate in the children that we have cared for. Although some of them have come to us with some serious problems. We have always tried to understand and put ourselves in their shoes rather than just judge. But what do you say to the child whose parent has committed suicide and now finds themselves all alone in the world blaming themselves for what has happened?.”

“Balancing consideration for what they have been through with the rules and control that they must live with under your care is the challenge. When you get it right and you see young people grow, develop and flourish in your care it is fantastic.”

“We would advise people to work closely with children’s services and to understand the process of social care. The training given to foster carers is invaluable. It helps you to understand the kinds of situations you may find yourself in and how to handle them. We have learnt to work with the fostering service, doctors and child psychologists who have helped us to care for and help the children in our care. We have learnt not to attempt to judge the children in our care by our own standards and upbringing as their experiences will probably have led them to judge things differently to us.“

“It is sad to see the children leave you at the end of the time they are in care, but you have to understand that it is what is best for them that is always important, and as we have found out once they leave it does not mean they will not be back. Fostering has given us fantastic and rewarding experiences and continues to do so with the children we have cared for making us a part of their lives once they have left.”

Not all of Enfield’s foster carers have been doing it for years. Maria only started caring for children this year.

“Initially lots of friends and family tried to persuade me not to get involved with fostering but deep down I knew it was something that I wanted to do and I was committed.”

“The process to become a foster carer started with me attending an information session before having an initial home visit. The initial training lasts a few days and then there are social work assessments. I would advise people to be transparent and honest throughout the process. I was pleased to find out that they do carry out lots of checks and assessments to make sure that people really are ready to care for a child.”

“I had my final assessment on a Friday and my first placement arrived on the following Tuesday. The first child I looked after was a boy whose Grandmother had looked after him but because of health issues he was brought to me and after a few weeks was taken to live with his father.”

“I am now looking after another young child, whose mum is very young herself and was finding it hard to cope. Even though I am looking after a young child I work hard to help them realise that I am not here to replace their own parent but to support them, something as important for the mother as the child.”

“Throughout the time I have been fostering I have had lots of contact and support from the children’s services teams involved in the cases of the children in my care.”

“Although I am new to fostering I am finding it to be even more rewarding than I had hoped for. Yes I have had to deal with tantrums and some bad behaviour, but having bought up kids of my own these have been nothing out of the ordinary, I am just really glad to give these children so much love and understanding while they are with me.”


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Henning Wehn Wyllyots TheatreSun 6th Oct 7.30pmTickets: £14.00, £12 concsBox office 01707 645005www.wyllyottstheatre.co.uk

German Comedy Ambassador Henning Wehn is a fountain of knowledge. There’s no shortcut to success, hard work will eventually pay off and there is no shame in paying tax. But what he knows bestest is that his comedy shows are a guaranteed success. Either he’s funny or he confirms a national stereotype. It’s a win-win situation. Wunderbar!

The Vagina Monologues Millfield TheatreTues 24 September 8pm Tickets £20 Online £19 Box Office: 020 8807 6680www.millfieldtheatre.co.uk

An unmissable show for every generation - bring your mum, your best friend or even your gran for the ultimate girls’ night out.

Eve Ensler’s hilarious Broadway and West End smash hit is back with an all new all star cast! Featuring the feisty Hollie-Jay Bowes (Hollyoaks), TV favourite Terri Dwyer (Hollyoaks, Grange Hill, LooseWomen) and national treasure Diane Keen (Doctors, Ruth Rendell Mysteries).This hilariously witty and moving collection of stories is an unmissable show for every generation -bring your mum, your best friend, your sister or even your gran – this is the ultimate girls night out… trust us!

Stick Man – Live on Stage!Wyllyots TheatreSun 6th Oct 1.30pm and 3.30pmTickets: £10, family of 4 £36 Box office 01707 645005www.wyllyottstheatre.co.uk

Scamp Theatre and Watford Palace Theatre are delighted to present: Stick Man – Live on Stage!From the book by Children’s Laureate Julia Donaldson, Illustrated by Axel Scheffler creators of the Gruffalo. Directed by Sally Cookson, Designed by Katie Sykes and composed by Benjy Bower. Featuring a trio of top actors and packed full of puppetry, songs, live music and funky moves, Stick Man promises more fun than you can shake a stick at! Touching, funny and utterly original, this fabulous is a sure fire hit. Most suitable for children aged 3, their friends and family.

Snail and the WhaleMillfield TheatreSaturday 28 and Sunday 29 October Time: 10am and 1.30pmTickets £13 and £11 concs Online £12 and £10 concs Family £44 Online £40

‘An exiquisite piece of theatre that leaves you smiling’ Based on Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler’s famous children’s book,.

A tiny snail longs to see the world, so she hitches a lift on the tail of a huge humpback whale. Together they go on an amazing journey, experiencing sharks and penguins, icebergs and volcanoes. The little snail is amazed by it all, but starts feeling very small in the vastness of the world… Then disaster strikes – the whale becomes beached in a bay… Can the tiny snail save the day?

Created in Tall Stories’ unique style, The Snail and the Whale combines physical storytelling, live music and lots of laughs. Ages 4+


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Creative Markets: At: The Co-op Car Park, 654-658 Hertford Road, Enfield Wash, Enfield EN3 6LZ Sunday 29th September, 12 noon - 4pmSunday 27th October, 12 noon - 4pmChristmas Market Sunday 8th December, 12 noon - 4pmCome along and browse the beautifully crafted handmade items made by local traders - plus FREE arts and crafts activities and FREE face-painting for kids too! It’s a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon - a chance to purchase fantastic products not found on the high street, such as: Jewellery - delicious cakes – homeware – clothing – accessories - cards and gifts For details of how to book a stall contact Enterprise Enfield on 020 8443 5457, www.EnterpriseEnfield.org

Race night at the Dog & Duck in aid of Youth Initiatives (YI) Thursday 12th September. YI, is a Belfast based Charity which works with children from Catholic and Protestant backgrounds in the North of

Ireland in an effort to break down barriers. With the tension in the North over the last year the work that YI do cannot be underestimated. Please come along and support the night.

Trent Country Park - History & Mystery WalksSunday 22nd September 2013 – 10.00am start Trent Park is Enfield’s largest park and has some extraordinary history. Join walk leader Alan Mitellas as he leads the third walking tour of the park. The first two have proved extremely popular with over 95 people so far coming to find out about the many aspects of Trent’s history, from royal hunting grounds, to weekend parties for the rich and famous; not forgetting the WWII POW camp and the mystery of Camlet Moat… so why not come along? Sunday 27th October 2013 - Special Halloween Walk!!! Meet 10.00am, outside Trent Park Café, the main car park, near the Cockfosters Road entrance. Total distance of the guided walk will be no more than 3 miles. Approx 12.30pm finish. Wear comfortable footwear.

Halloween Howler Sunday 27 October 2013 Capel Manor Gardens, Bullsmoor Lane, Enfield, EN1 4RQ 10am – 3pm see Capel Manor websiteActivities - Pumpkin carving, traditional craft activities, spooky shoot out, trick or treat, face painting, tractor rides, ghostly stories, haunted trail and much more. We are interested to hear from any Community groups that are interested in getting involved by organising Halloween activities. Please contact Priya Singh on T: 020 8449 8877 or E: [email protected]

The Enfield Community Singers go from strength to strength. Thirty members turmed up at that performance and a delighted audience applauded and sang along to great songs that included Edelweiss, Moon River, Bright Eyes, Consider Yerself, Sing a Song, Amazing Grace and Unforgettable. The choir has a busy autumn schedule of concerts in the borough with performances at Mary Magdalene Church Windmill Hill on Saturday 14th Sept at 7.30 pm, Trinity at Bowes, Bowes Road, Palmers Green N21 at 3.30 pm and Reformed Church, Main

Avenue, Enfield on Sunday 29th September at 3.00 pm.Simon Gilbert, choral director, is always looking for new singers. There are no auditions and sight reading is not essential.For further details about concerts and the choir, please contact Simon at [email protected] or call him at 020-8360-7386 “

Enfield Classical Guitar Society details in your next publicationWe meet 8:00 every Friday from September. Please see website

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Enfield Civil Service Retirement FellowshipMeets once a month, and has speakers of various kinds, often with slides, and we are open to both ex civil servants and non Civil Servants.We meet at St Andrews Church Hall, Silver Street, Enfield EN1 3EG on the 1st Monday of the month [2nd Monday if a Bank Holiday] at 10am for a 10.30 am start. For details, please contact Sue Sims 020 8245 4723 or [email protected]

Enfield Classical Guitar Society We meet 8:00 every Friday from September. Please see website

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Enfield & District Fuchsia Society Now in our 45th year.Meet at Capel Manor, Bullsmoor Lane, Enfield. 2nd & 3rd Wednesdays of each month7-45 - 9-45 pm. Demonstrations, talks, advice, regular speakers.Beginners warmly welcomed.Free entry to our show, in July.Christmas party in December.For further information tel: Roy Fenwick 020 8292 6965 orMark Mendes 020 8368 6670

Enfield National Trust Association meet twice monthly, one afternoon at Holtwhites Sports & Social Club and one evening at either Enfield Grammar School or Enfield County School, Holly Walk, Enfield. We have summer outings, London outings, concert & theatre outings as well as lectures.Please ring Peter on 020 8363 1568 for details.

Enfield RSPB meet once a month at St Andrew’s Church Hall, Silver Street, Enfield @ 7.45pm for lectures, quiz evenings, etc & have monthly mid week walks, coach outings & two “birding” holidays a year.Check our website; rspb.org.uk/groups/enfield/news or ring Pauline on 020 8363 1568

Cuffley Floral Art ClubWe are a friendly flower arranging club meeting every 2nd Tuesday in the month (except January and August) at Cuffley Hall, Maynards Place from 8pm-10pm. Doors open from 7pm, visitors always welcome. For more information ring Jackie 020 8441 3663 or Val 01707 889447

Enfield Over 50s Computer Clubmeets first Sunday of every month at St John’s Hall, Strayfield Road,off Theobalds Park Road, Enfield EN2 9JP from 10.30am to approx 3.00pmOur website is www.enfieldcomputerclub.com or phone Eric at 0208 366 6162

Enfield Video Makersmeets first and third Tuesday of every month at 8pm at St Stephen’s Church Hall, Park Avenue, Bush Hill Park, Enfield EN1 2BA Website: www.enfieldvideomakers.co.ukContact us by email through the website or Eric at 0208 366 6162 Film making, talks about techniques, competitions.

Oakmere Bridge ClubHeld at Wyllyotts Centre, Darkes Lane Potters Bar every Monday,7.30 p.m. to 10 p.m. We are a small friendly club and would

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Grange Park (Evening) W. I. would love you to come and join us at 7.30pm on the first Monday of every month at The Orchard Room Grange Park Methodist, Church Old Park Ridings, Grange Park N.21, when we have a speaker or a quiz and make bookings for social events such as theatre outings etc. If you are interested please phone Jan Barker on 0208 367 0988.

Enfield Camera Club meets at Trinity Church Hall Thursday evenings at 8 pm. New members are always welcome. Alternatively they can contact the club through the website www.enfieldcameraclub.co.uk or email to [email protected]. The subscriptioin rate is £32 for the full season - Visitors are asked to pay a £1 visitor’s fee,

The Rotary Club of Enfield Chase Meets on Thursday mornings from 7.30am until 8.30 am in the Coffee Lounge, Enfield Baptist Church, Cecil Road, Enfield Town. For more information call 020 8366 4046

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What is it with people and companies these days thinking that everyone is using these social media products? They do not appear very social to me.

I may be old fashioned but when I want to tell people something I phone and speak to them. Do you remember the art of conversation? Or how about writing something a letter or an email perhaps? But I am not against all technology.

I know that lots of people are using Facebook and Twitter, but there are some and I think a lot more than people and companies realise, that are not. I for one do not have a Facebook page; a Twitter account and neither do the majority of my friends. In fact my friends’ daughter was even telling me the other day that these are both dated now and I should be joining this or that, I really cannot remember what they were. Having a conversation is not as hard as it may appear. Just start with a few basics:Ask after the person you are speaking to, they may have something interesting to tell you as well.

Wait for them to ask after you. Do not just blurt out your information or if you must open the conversation with something like “ I just had to phone to tell you……” or I had to pop round to tell you about….”

Remember a conversation can take place in person it does not just have to be on a phone.

And do not forget, in a conversation take time to listen to what the other person is telling you, you will probably find out something interesting.

You may be shocked but people all over the country and all over the world are still doing this.

The other day I was in a local restaurant and saw a table of young people all with their heads down sitting in silence. How well behaved I thought, until my companion pointed out that they were all on phones playing games or texting.

Have the younger generation really lost the art of communicating through conversation. Will we in the future have to text a question to a shop assistant?

Now I am not against modern technology, I do have one of these smart phones. I like it, as I can keep up to date with what is going on in the world by reading news stories online. I also can use my phone to find out information of companies, products and services, researching there sites when I want to. And yes I do have an email account.

I like email it is a great way to keep in touch with friends, but this brings me on to another pet hate, why can people not write in English any more?

When did see you become cu or later become l8er?

I asked a teacher friend the other day, while in a conversation, if this was a new kind of shorthand being taught at school? She told me that it was not and I fact I would be shocked at some of the spellings and ways the children in her class are writing.

The reason that people are doing it, she told me, is because you only get 140 letters on a tweet and it is a short way of sending a phone message.

So social media is not only interfering with my day to day live but is changing the language we use without telling everyone. I could not find cu or l8er in my dictionary.

So if like me you are not on Facebook or Twitter and would rather your friends and companies took the time to contact you in person by a phonecall or in writing, do not worry you are not alone.

Have you got something you want to get off your chest an opinion a rant or just want to share something?

Then why not write it down and send it to [email protected] or EN Magazine, 63 High Street,

Potters Bar, EN6 5AS

Got an Opinion?Get it off your chest hereI do not want to follow you, I do not tweet, I do not need to know everything you do all day every day and do not get me started on texting.

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