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Families, Change and Social Policy in Europe

Welcome to my

EuroVision !

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EU Family Policy

Why Change?

If you’re heading in a direction which leads to somewhere you don’t want to go to, then if you don’t take action and change your direction and trajectory

then you’re going to end up where you don’t want to be.

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EU Family Policy

It’s OK to Change?

Once we realise that imperfect understanding is the human condition, there is no shame in being wrong, only

in failing to correct our mistakes.

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EU Family Policy

What type of Change?

I’m mindful of a saying from the american Indian tradition:-

“When implimenting change be mindful of the effects seven

generations hence”.

Think Both Radical and Sustainable!Click to CONTINUE



EU Community, Family and Society

Where are we at?

Where are EU at?

Where do we and EU want to be?

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INCREASING• Rate of DivorceMarriage/Relationship

breakdown.• Rate of Births outside Marriage > 30%• Draw on Exchequer through massive Lone

Parent Welfare payments.• Rate of Suicide by Males.• Number of Family Law cases in court.

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INCREASING• Level of Frustration of non-custodial fathers.• Levels of violence/crime involving young

males.• Overburdening of women – parenting alone.• Children with no male role models at home or

in school.• Percentage of child’s life spent in creches.• Loss of grandparent and extended family

relationship with grandchildren in divorce.Click to CONTINUE



Single Parent Families !

Fatherless children !

Rights for women !

Castaway men !

Societal disharmony !

European Union with little value placed on Community !

Balanced sustainable relationships between men and women based on mutual respect, Parity of esteem and Equal treatment for both sexes.

Shared Parenting as a cultural value whether Parents are together or separate.

Community as the Core Value of European Union

In which Direction do we wish to travel ?



Single Parent Families !

Fatherless children !

Rights for women !

Castaway men !

Societal disharmony !

European Union with little value placed on Community !

Sorry!

YOU LOSE!

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EASY!

Choose any Option and You, me and all EU

Win!

Shared Parenting. The Six- Way-Win Program

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Shared Parenting

The Six- Way-Win Program

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WIN!

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for Children by having continuous love and care from both of their

parents and their extended families, whether the parents

themselves remain together or not.

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for Fathers where Fathers are fully integrated as equals in childcare with the love, nurture and validation parenthood

brings with it.

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for Mothers where Mothers are fully integrated as equals in childcare with the love, nurture and validation parenthood

brings with it.

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for Aunts, Cousins, Grandparents and Uncles in the network of

extended by maintaining meaningful engagement with

children even if a parental relationship breaks down.

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for Society in general, where the previous four supported groups have better levels of emotional wellbeing, physical and mental

health and available emotional energy with a consequential reduction in the loading of

our health and education resources.Try Another !




finally for the exchequer and the taxpayer. A shared Parenting world where both parents and extended

families contributing to solution building round childcare (thus ensuring the healthy propagation of our species) rather than overloading the taxpayers

with ever increasing lone parent, legal, medical, behavioural problems etc.

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OK!

So what’s the catch?

What’s the downside?

So Who loses?

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THE LOSERS ?

WHO LOSES? Well the obvious answer is the parasites, the range of professionals,

legal, social worker, psychiatrists, psychologists etc who understandably with the base human condition respond to the

TOXIC INCENTIVE to fuel acrimony in family systems.

….whether passively (a subtle agenda in itself)

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BUT!

There is hope even for the Toxic Losers!

In a scene from Zhivago, the revolution has taken over and the soldiers are returning from the front.

The Bolshevik turns to Zhivago, the aristocratic doctor who is now disenfranchised in the

hierarchical paradigm shift and with honesty says:- “Want some advice, honoured Doctor, said

the millstone to the barley …………

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So there is a future for those same professionals who thrive on the

pain, suffering and turmoil which is the inevitable outcome of

adversarial family law. They can adapt and become shared parenting

lifestyle coaches and conflict resolution facilitators.


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Change but HOW?

When Paradigms change everybody goes back to Zero.

In times of change the learners inherit the world while the experts are perfectly equipped but for world that no longer exists.

There are many unknowns, fears for children, extended families, men and women. There are fears of the paid professionals of losing status and earning power.

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Let’s build a taxation/welfare regime which imaginatively supports share parenting as a

paradigm shift towards positivity, in contrast the present model, whereby a couple are financially better off, by technically separating, so that the

mother can be classified as a Lone Parent and get housing and financial benefits, the father can pay

cash under the table and both can then reside together illegally but with the guaranteed turning of the blind eye by a corrupt and vacant social welfare

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My EURO-VISION !• Fathers and Mothers share equally the

parenting of their children from pre-conception through their formative years, with the support of their communities,

• The cultural values actively protect the child’s right to the love and society of both their fathers and mothers,

• The courts, statutory and educational services proactively respect parenting, treating and supporting both parents equally

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• Socio-economic planning is based on the core value of both parents spending substantive time with their children

• Women and men struggle together in partnership rather than against each other (in a gender war) to manage the increasing and complex demands of balancing childcare and career.

My EuroVision !

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