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Page 1: Simple Therapy a step beyond SFBT Plamen Panayotov Solutions Brief Therapy and Counseling Centre Rousse Bulgaria.

Simple Therapy

a step beyond SFBT

Plamen PanayotovSolutions Brief Therapy and Counseling Centre Rousse

Bulgaria

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‘ Improvisation requires

 a profound process of assimilation

 verging on 

forgetting. ’ 

Paolo Pandolfo

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What is the most useful definition of SFBT ?

A psychotherapeutic approach

A way of thinking

A life philosophy

A toolbox(Steve de Shazer)

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How is this definition useful ?

It allows for …

- Discovering new tools- Trying them out in practice

- Evaluating them- Sharing them with others

- Adding them to the toolbox

… thus developing the SFBT practice.

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Solution FocusQuestion:

Who needs to be solution-focused ?

The therapist ?( not necessarily )

The client ?( preferably )

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Question:Can we help clients

become solution-focused without necessarily

asking them SF questions ? The obvious answer :

No .Paradoxically :

Yes .If yes, how ?

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Question:

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to ask a certain question ( to use a particular tool )

?

Answer: You either guess,

or you follow the client.

Question: Which one is better ?

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How do we follow clients ?

by

Listening to them

and

Observing their reactions

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quoted Ludwig Wittgenstein:

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DON'T THINK,

BUT OBSERVE !

http://brianmft.talkspot.com/aspx/templates/topmenuclassical.aspx/msgid/362961

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Question:Since the therapist is too busy

Observing ,

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Who will do the Thinking ?

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Obviously, the Client !

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How are we going to help her do it

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By including

in most of our questions

to clients:

… what do you think … ?

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Examples:

• ‘… what do you think you will notice after the miracle …’

• ‘… where do you think you are on a scale from …’

• ‘… what do you think s/he would say (see, notice) …’

• ‘… what do you think the next step might be (look like) …’

• ‘… when do you think it was a little bit better …’, etc.

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the Thinking Tool / Question

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The Basic Question ( Main Theme ) :

What does the client want …

- to talk about in her session ?

- to be asked about ?

- from our conversation ?

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Thus we

come to

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The Opening Questions :

What do you think is the most useful question

I can ask you as a beginning ?

What do you think we need to talk about first ?

What do you think we need to do first ?

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Opening Questions

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What do you think is the most

common answer to the Opening

Questions

? ? ?

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Most clients reply with

Laughter

or at least

a Smile

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Insoo and Steve

About Laughter

video

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How does this question/tool

“What do you think is the most

useful question I can ask you

as a beginning ?”provoke laughter ?

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By changing the focus from the client to the

therapist and the conversation at

hand.It’s implicit meaning is:

I don’t know anything about your problem,

about the possible solutions, but I don’t know also …

what to ask you !

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This turns the therapeutic situation

Upside Down

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When the client tells us the most useful question ,

we just …

R e p e a t I t

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Echoing - the Therapeutic Wheel

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What happens

if the client replies to the Opening Questions

with :‘ I don’t know . ’

This works as an invitation for us to use

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The Classical SFBT Tools :Exceptions-finding Qs

Miracle Question

Scaling Questions

Relationship Questions

Coping Questions

Compliments

Tasks

EARS

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What happens

if in response to the Opening

Questionthe client asks

W H YW H Y her problem is there ?

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HistoricallyWhen talking about why problems

exist

used to say:

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Shit

A habit

Happens.http://en.solutions-centre-rousse-bulgaria.org/files/The_Vomiting_Girl.pdf

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Exercise

Try to think of an exception

to this ‘explanation’ :

It happened first ,and then became a

habit .

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The Final Cut of the Ockham’s razor :

Everything happens first , and then becomes a habit .

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Clearing the ‘why’ Questions

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Instead of saying this to clients …

we ask themthe Why Clearing Questions:

When did this habit happen for the first time ?

How often does this habit happen lately ?

When did this habit happen for the last time ?

because of ...

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the Process:

Most therapists reply with

clever answers

SFB Therapistsreply with

useful questions

(a Jesuit habit)

Clients come with their questions …

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What do you think

happens when the ‘why’ is cleared ?

After answering one, two, or several

echoing questionswhat usually happens is …

A Miracle:

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Clients BECOME Solution-Focused,

and THEY ask …

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The Awakening Question :

What are we going to do

about it ?

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Then the therapist

simply writes downtheir answers

to the Awakening Questionon…

what, do you think ?

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a Prescription

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What does a Prescription contain ?

From 1 to 5 (usually 3 - 4)

self-prescribed tasks(answers to the Awakening

Question)

in client’s preferred order

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Rp./

• Pills• A cigarette in the morning• Verdi’s ‘Requiem’, page 107 of ‘War

and Peace’, then talking to friends• Buying a dog• A walk in the park• A cognac with the afternoon coffee• Two-sided prescriptions• Whatever clients prescribe to

themselves

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How does a Prescription work ?

Written texts are usually more powerful than spoken words.

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A Prescription works also as a Reminder

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Handing SOMETHING to clientsis better than ‘just talking’ to

them.

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What do you think

needs to happen next ?

We need to ask for a permission

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to follow-up the client.

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Follow-up Permission Quest

If you let one of us ask you 6 months from now

on the phone …

• How are things going on for you ?and

• Was our meeting(s) useful for you ?

please write down your phone number.

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How does it work ?

From now on the client will have to

change not only for herself,

but also for the therapist.

Her progress will beOBSERVED.

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After the agreed upon TIME

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Phone call by someone from the team

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Follow-up Questions:

How are things going on for you ?

and

Was our meeting 6 months ago

useful for you ?

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Feedback database

Date Phone/e-mail

Client's Name(s)

Client(s)Okay

Client(s)Not Okay

Therapy Useful

Therapy Useless

uuu uuu uuu x x

vvv vvv vvv x x

www www www x x

xxx xxx xxx x x

yyy yyy yyy x x

zzz zzz zzz x x

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How does it work ?

- As an additional phone session

- As a reminder

- As a sign of engagement from the therapist

- And …

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As a tool for efficacy studies

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Does Simple Therapy work ?

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Reprise

TherapeuticImprovisation

requires a profound process of assimilation

of therapeutic tools verging onforgetting

them . 

after Paolo Pandolfo

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for

Questions & Comments

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Don’t forget that the

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is waiting for …

Your new tools !!! So,

Good Luck with discovering them with Your

clients !

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http://en.solutions-centre-rousse-bulgaria.org/


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