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I f you’re like most families in America, the approach of the holiday season brings with it the anticipation of a month filled with family

togetherness and merry memory making – in other words, the holidays as you’ve always imagined them.

Not wrapped, but remembered

Gifting your children with meaningful experiences during the holiday season

As each new holiday season arrives, we promise our -selves that we will not repeat the mistakes made in years past: the guilt we feel from overspending, the exhaustion we feel from overbooking, or the constant frustration over kids who misbehave and act ungrateful. And as the holiday music starts to play anew each year , we make the same promise to ourselves that this is the year we are going to do things differently . And yet – things always seem to stay the same. Don’t despair, though, say Andrea and David Reiser.

It is possible to consciously create the holiday you want, if you make your list early and check it twice. “The key to enjoying a really meaningful holiday season with your family is to plan ahead and to do it purposefully,” says Andrea, coauthor along with her husband, David, of the book “Letters From Home: A Wake-up Call for Success & Wealth. “Like anything else, the family time, parties, and bonding you’re envisioning don’ t just happen. They are created by design.” Andrea, a self-confessed “Martha Stewart type,” knows from personal experience that when your quest to bring a fairy-tale holiday to life makes you feel more like Scrooge than Santa Claus, something’s wrong. Instead of breaking the bank to shower your kids with material things this holiday season, the Reisers suggest giving them the gift of a meaning-ful experience instead. Time spent together, not a new video game system or wardrobe, will truly stick with them and shape their worldviews. Here are some ideas to get you started. Choose an event to attend together. Get a schedule of local holiday-themed concerts, plays, parades, shows, and

other events, and choose a few to attend as a family. Your kids (and you!) will enjoy counting down to these outings, and you’ll have an even better time attending them. Plus, everyone will remem-ber the live performance of White Christmas or the holiday-themed magic show much longer than they will a bevy of action figures under the tree. Even better? In most communities there are plenty of events to choose

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Not wrapped,but rememberedcontined from page 2from that are free to the public! It just goes to show that you don’t have to spend a mint to make memo-ries over the holidays. Remember: There really is no place like home for the holidays. Making special holiday memories doesn’t always have to mean going somewhere. In fact, some of your most treasured experiences can be created inside the four walls of your house, and they don’t have to cost a lot of money or cause a lot of stress to be perfect! Take a regular weeknight dinner and turn it into a magical holiday meal by dimming the lights, lighting candles on the table, and playing soft holiday music in the background. Serve sparkling juice or cider in special glasses and pull out the fancy china for once. It’s a special night you and your family won’ t soon forget! Set your family up for success. On the best of days, kids will be kid – and their propensity for energy , mis-behavior, and hi-jinks grows exponentially when they’re excited. Whenever your family is preparing for any sort of event this season, don’ t assume that the “usual” rules are at the forefront of young minds. Go over your expectations – and potential consequences – beforehand so that you don’ t spend the whole time scolding and correcting. And as a parent, take the time to remind yourself that children are often overstimu-lated, overexcited, and saturated with sugar this time of year. If you don’t think your brood can handle sit-ting still for an hour-long concert, then make the choice not to go. You’ll save yourself a lot of stress, anger, and disappointment in the long run. Make meaningful conversation. Conversation is the foundation upon which any memorable event is built. So to make the most of outings and experiences this holiday season, have a few meaningful topics up your sleeve to engage your family. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself griping about chore lists, homework, and soccer schedules during your special outing – instead of the things you really wanted to share. For example, as you drive around your neighborhood looking at Christmas lights, you may want to ask your kids about their favorite Christmas memories. Or , before attending a church service or local event, sit down and talk about what Christmas truly means to each member of your family. You may be surprised at the answers – and it will make each event and activity that much more meaningful.

Dress up! It’s amazing how getting all dolled up can take an event from “okay” to “outstanding.” If you frame your holiday outings as opportunities instead of as obligations, your kids probably won’ t mind putting on their fancy duds…and they’ll definitely remember the fact that Mom and Dad thought that they were mature enough to attend such a special event! (And you can take the opportunity to snap some photos everyone will enjoy looking at for years to come.) Make something out of nothing. A meaningful experience doesn’ t have to cost a massive amount of money, and it doesn’t have to be a once-

in-a-lifetime event. In fact, your family can make “routine” holiday tasks into beloved traditions. For example, get everyone together to wrap gifts for friends and family, and share hot chocolate and cookies while you’re curling ribbon and cutting paper. Or let everyone climb into special holi-day pajamas, then pile in the car and look at all of the beautiful holiday lights in your town. Give thanks. As the saying goes, “Remember the reason for the sea-son.” Depending on your family’s beliefs and background, that “reason” might differ from your neighbor’s, but one thing’s for sure: This is a time

to be grateful and to count bless-ings. Whenever your family visits a friend or attends a special event, make sure to point out to your children how fortunate they are to have such individuals and opportu-nities in their lives – and point out that not every child around the world is so privileged. Give back. If your family is count-ing its blessings, the natural next step is to reach out to those whose holiday seasons might not be filled with much cheer. Consider donat-ing to a charity instead of giving as many gifts, volunteering at a soup kitchen, or caroling at a nursing home. This is the perfect time of year to teach children that it truly is better to give than to receive – and it can actually feel really good, too. These experiences will instill values in your children and broaden their perspective on holiday privileges.

Live in the moment. It’s easy to get caught up in the hoopla of the holidays, and not living in the moment is a downright joy robber. If you’re constantly setting your sights on the next holiday party or dance recital on your calendar, you won’t be fully enjoying the activity you’re currently doing. Reveling in the now and accepting the (minor) flaws that might come along allows you to truly experience the benefits of living in the present. Those moments with family and friends will be that much sweeter.

The holidays are a time for family and friends, new tra-ditions and old. And many parents may look forward to the school break as a time to bond with their children. It’s also important that children engage in some educational activities over the holidays, especially those that continue to develop reading and math skills. “Take advantage of the break from your regular rou-tines to show your children how learning is an everyday activity,” says Emily Kirkpatrick, vice president of National Center for Family Literacy (NCFL). “The days leading up to the holidays are an exciting time, and many children are thrilled to do something new.” Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, aunt or uncle, take the time to participate in some enjoyable activities with the kids.

READ HOLIDAY STORIES In the weeks before the holidays, gather your family’ s favorite holiday books and read one story or chapter together nightly. Have children participate in following along, turning pages and by asking them questions about the story.

Reading the characters in funny voices and acting out the stories can help even the biggest Grinch warm to reading.

LEARN FUN FACTS Do you know why all snowflakes are different? Or why we make New Year’s resolutions? If you don’t, finding out the answers can be fun with your child. Educational websites like W onderopolis.org, created by the NCFL, lets parents and children explore short videos that explain the answers to many trivia ques-tions – including why people kiss under mistletoe!

MAKE HOLIDAY CARDS Have kids make a list of recipients. Then help them write holiday messages and decorate holiday cards before mailing them. If kids are too little to write a message, have them help you create one and then sign their names or add drawings. Grandparents will appreciate these more than store-bought cards.

VOLUNTEER TOGETHER Whether it’s in your local soup kitchen or hospital, the holidays are a great time to teach kids about the importance of volunteering and spreading joy. If you think it might be difficult for your family to spend a day with strangers, con-sider baking cookies or a cake for an elderly neighbor or relative. Have kids read recipes, measure ingredients and keep things organized. This helps develop reading, counting and organizational skills while sharing.

Remember, the memories you make now will stay with your children for a lifetime.

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Keeping the kids focusedduring the holiday season

Creating holiday cards with your kids can bring you closer together.There really is no place like home at holiday time. Help your family get back the holiday you’ve always wanted and make your “merry” more meaningful this year.

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Coping withholiday stress

Actually, stress is associated with positive life events as much as negative ones. It’ s normal to feel over -whelmed when planning family meals, shopping for gifts, decorating the house or figuring out what to do with the kids during their holiday break. “Stress causes an unhealthy ‘high alert!’ response that wears down the body ,” says Ashley Davis Bush, author of the book “Shortcuts to Inner Peace: 70 Simple Paths to Everyday Serenity.” “Through intentionally summoning a feeling of inner calm, we literally change the chemistry of our bodies.” If you’re looking to keep a calm head in the midst of visiting relatives and busy shoppingmalls, try some of Bush’s favorite shortcuts this holiday season: Play It Again, Sam: When you find yourself grumbling over a nag-ging task (hanging lights, preparing the guest room), play or sing a specific song. It doesn’ t have to be holiday-related; any upbeat tune will help! Remember This: When waiting in line to purchasegifts or groceries, ask yourself “What do I need to remember?” Keep asking yourself this question until you start to get substantial answers like “I need to remember what really matters in life.” Stop ‘N’ Smell: Before you being cooking a holiday meal, take time to smell your ingredients. Or pull a fra-grant item from your pantry that triggers positive emo-

tions (e.g. coffee, vanilla extract, rosemary). Close your eyes and inhale. The smell should ground you in the present, allowing you to savor your time in the kitchen. My Sunshine: Family dynamics are complicated and can get strained during the holidays. If you find yourself

getting annoyed with a loved one, consider hum-ming the song “Y ou Are My Sunshine” and remember that your time together is limited. If your buttons really get pushed, excuse yourself and throw cool water on your face or place a wet towel on your neck. Cool relief to the body brings relief to the mind as well. Touch Tank: It’s easy in the hustle and bustle of the holidays to forget to appreciate all the beautiful decorations, not to men-tion the beauty of the sea-son. Consider keeping a small box or basket of seasonal treasures – pine-cones, smooth stones, mistletoe and chestnuts. Whenever you feel tense or overwhelmed, takea few moments to finger each object. Simple

appreciation tends to restore inner calm. “We often think we need to change our circum-stances to feel peaceful or that we need to be immersed in spa-like surroundings to find tranquility ,” says Bush. “But inner peace requires no extra time or money – just a shift in attention.” Let peace on earth begin with you this holiday season.

Use calming techniques to grapple with the hustle and bustle of the season.

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Away from the classroom

Ideas for family funduring the school break

Although not quite halfway through the school year, the timing of the school vacation does come when kids might be preoccupied with the holiday season and all that comes with it. Kids may be distracted about parties and presents, but parents maybe preoccupied with finding ways their kids can spend their time during the vacation period – typi-cally a 10 day to two-week hiatus from school that begins shortly before Christmas and ends with kids’ return to school shortly after New Year’s Day. With a little plan-ning, parents facing the dilemma of finding something productive for the kids to do during the holiday vacation, will find it’ s not such a dilemma after all.

Take a vacation or staycation. Vacation is the easy way out if finances and timing permit. The break might mark the only time until summer that parents can spend quality time with their kids completely away from the distrac-tions of everyday life. Vacation can mean a trip to warmer climates or simply packing up the car to go spend time with the grandparents. If there’s any vacation time to spare, consider hitting the road.

Teach kids some practical les-sons. Kids likely won’ t miss the classroom during winter break, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t enjoyable ways for kids to learn while they’re away from school. T each kids practical lessons, like how to cook a favorite meal or how to fix things around the house. This gives parents a chance to spend some quality time with their kids while encouraging kids to

learn beyond the classroom. And who knows, such lessons at home may uncover a child’s hid-den talent. Encourage kids to read for pleasure. Reading improves vocabulary and can stimulate a child’s imagination. During the winter break, encourage kids to read a book or the daily news-paper for pleasure, assuring them there won’t be any quizzes or tests after each chapter . Get the ball rolling with a few books given as presents during Christmas or Hanukkah. Or take a trip to the local library and let kids choose their own books. Head outdoors. The weather may be chilly, but bundle up and go outside for a long walk or some outdoor adventures if the

temperatures permit. Everyone will enjoy a break from being indoors and some healthy exercise is good for the entire family.

H oliday break can be the perfect respite for school-aged children.

Get the family away from the video games. Reading during the holiday break can be a fun and benefi cial hobby for kids, as well as mom and dad.

Harmonious holidays

Make it a festive season,not a stressful one

Heightened emotions and unrealistic expectations can threaten your family’ s harmony during the holidays. But, with a little planning and understanding, you can keep the atmosphere merry this season. Keep cherished childhood traditions and consider establishing new ones for your family. Involve everyone, including your children, when creating new tradi-tions. Sometimes traditions lose their importance for a family. Recognize when it’s time to let them go. Plan, organize, and prioritize to avoid burnout, disappointment and fatigue. Create a holiday-planning task schedule. Ask others to share the responsibilities and assign tasks to family members. Create some time alone for yourself.

Reflect on what is precious to you about the holidays and reconnect with your spirit. Examine the differences between your holiday expectations and what is really possible. Establish realistic holiday goals. Share with family and friends any worries about meeting your holiday expectations.Before getting together with family or relatives, anticipate and prepare for any difficulties. Don’ t expect your family or relatives to change their personalities because they are visiting your home. Don’ t bring up old family quarrels during the holidays. Don’t feed into the commercialism of the holidays. Plan free or low-cost activities and celebrations. Create and practice a holiday family tradition that helps those in need. Don’t spend money beyond your means. Consider gifts of help or special times together rather than gifts of things. Discuss gift-giving costs and realistic expectations with all family members well before the holidays. Create a new family tradition to keep the post-holiday blahs at bay . Talk about the fun you’ve had and what the holidays mean to your family, then think about what you might do differently next year. Permission granted by www.FamilyEducation.com © 2000 - 2011 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

By Carleton Kendrick Ed.M., LCSW

Time spent together as a family is priceless. Create annual family customs that can be enjoyed every holiday season, without letting unrealistic expectations interfere.

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Involve the family in a holiday craft project

As we begin to think about planning and decorating for the holidays, why not create some new family traditions by involving the kids in creating personalized holiday decorations. From adorning the tree, to creating a deco-ration for your Hanukkah party, to taking a family photo for greeting cards, create a unique experience while taking a DIY (do-it-yourself) approach that will also help with the holiday budget. The best part about doing it yourself is the memorable moments you spend with your loved ones. This is after all, the reason for the season. Also, as a family, you can create lasting gifts and keepsakes that set you apart from the crowd.

Save yourself a stressful, expensive day at the mall buying stocking stuffers and holiday décor, and plan a pre-holiday family get-together instead. By taking advantage of everybody’ s crafting skills, you can create personal-ized ornaments and gifts made by the family, for the family. Make sure you have plenty of craft supplies on hand that are appropriate for all ages. Provide glitter , paint, ribbon, fabric, popsicle sticks, crayons and paper –and getto work! You can either work without direction, creating ideas from scratch, or provide your guests with instructions forspecific projects. Decorating with pinecones and creating paper chain gar -lands from old magazines are a few ideas to get you started. And the terrific thing is these supplies are free! For creative inspiration, visit your neighborhood craft store, or checkout the websites that provide step by step instructions for creating homemade holiday décor. Kids, grandparents, uncles, cousins, everybody can participate, no matter what their skill level. This get-together can also double as a perfect photo opportunity. It’s easy to get a family portrait when you have everyone gathered in one place. And the holidays are the best

time to share family photos with friends. Use these photos to create cards, ornaments and personalized bookmarks and notebooks. With a little craftiness, and a little wit, you can really customize the look and feel of your holiday this year.

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George Harrison RevisitedThe magical journey of the Beatles era returns to the Hofstra stage when The God-frey Townsend Band, with musicians from the Alan Parsons Project, join the Indian Kirtan ensemble Gauravani and Kindred Spirits to perform “Here Comes the Sun” – The Musi-cal, Mystical Journey of George Harrison. This celebration of the music and spiritualism of the legendary musician commemorates the 10th anniversary of Harrison’s passing. Sing-er-guitarist Godfrey Townsend, with Hofstra Professor Joshua M. Greene as host, leads the dynamic program, which features those beloved tunes from The Beatles’ songbook, with Indian Kirtan music and meditative chanting.Friday, Nov. 4, 8 p.m. $15. Hofstra Universi-ty’s John Cranford Adams Playhouse, South Campus, Hempstead. (516) 463-6644.

La Cenerentola (Cinderella)Capitol Heights Lyric Opera presents La Cenerentola (the Cinderella story) – the ulti-mate rags to riches tale – told by Gioachino Rossini in one of the most delightful comic operas ever written. Mezzo-soprano Frances Devine is the lovely Angelina, who is treated like a maid by her father and selfish stepsis-ters until her goodness and beauty win her a kingdom and the hand of Prince Ramiro, sung by tenor Marcos Vigil. Saturday, Nov. 5, 2 p.m. Elmont Memorial Library Theater, 700 Hempstead Tpke., Elmont. (516) 334-5280.

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Book/Ephemera Fair Book lovers – and folks who love to browse among interesting items – will find much to explore at the annual Book & Ephemera Fair. Exhibitors from Long Island and across the nation gather to present an array of rare and unusual old books, maps and prints, among other items. You’ll also find a wide selection of antiques and vintage memora-bilia. From the frivolous to the sublime, a wea l th o f out-of-print books, posters

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“We’ve gotta have a g reat show, with a million laughs ... and color ... and a lot of lights to make it sparkle. And songs – w on-derful songs. And after w e get the people in that hall, we’ve gotta star t ‘em in laughing right away. Oh, can’t you just see it?” – J udy Garland, “Babes In Arms,” 1939. Yes, we can see it – b ut we only see the final product. Putting on a sho w involves planning, decision-making, scripts, music, stage production, props, lighting and a host of other details that, if done right, the audience will r eally never know about. Who are some of the people w ho make it look so easy?

The producer “I really don’t think the p ublic k n o w s h o w involved it is putting on a show,” said John Cestaro, president of the Island Park The-atre Group board of directors and producer of Island Park Theatre Group’s latest musical, “Mame,” set to open in November. Cestaro, a retired bank vice

president, is currently broker/owner of JVC Realty Corp in Island Park. He has been with IPTG for 20 years, and has been producer for the last 12. T he other board members are Hillary Kass Nussdorf, Reneé Socci, Sal Cane-pa, Frank Cestaro, Barbra Rubin-Perry, and Debby Wilson. Cestaro has appeared on stage in many Long Beach and Island P ark productions, including “Fiddler on the Roof,” “The Sound of Music” – and even as M. Woolsey Lindsey in Long Beach Theatre Guild’s production of “Mame.”

The directors

Hillary Kass Nussdorf, 59, has been with Island Park Theatre Group for

25 years and currently serves on its board as vice president.

“It takes so much with so few people and so little time,” said

Nussdorf. “When we put out the casting call, w e’ve already

been working on the sho w for three to six months.”

Having been a part of both pr ofes-sional and communi-ty theater, Nussdorf is well aware that

with local theater and performers, life gets in the way.

“People – including me – have jobs and families … it’s a big commitment, we

understand that – but we do have to live up to professional standards.” By day, Nussdorf works in the health office at East Elementary Sc hool in Long Beach. She also runs “Center Stage Studios,” a city-endorsed and sc hool-approved acting program for children. She also teac hes ball-room dancing and offers private lessons. Assistant Director Debby Wilson has been involved with community theatre since 1998 – her first sho w was IPTG’s “Once Upon a Mattress.” She has w orked with this g roup and the Long Beach Theatre Guild. “Mame is my first experience with sta ge directing, and I am very glad to be able to learn by working alongside a r eal pro like Hillary,” said Wilson, who works for Long Beach public schools as a secr etary in the Compr ehensive Arts (music/fine arts) department. “So I guess you could say that my day job is not all that dif-ferent from my night job. “Being on this end of the process is very creative, but in a muc h different way. We have to come up with the sta ging and the set tha t gives the actors what they need to work with.”

Now add some music … Although this her first y ear with the Island Park Theatre Group and her first time as a musical dir ector, Danielle Reed, 23, of Freeport, is no stranger to the arts. “I started performing in grammar school, and got involved in community theater in college,” she said. Reed has also directed chil-dren for choral and band perf ormances. She works as an administra tor for the non-profit organization, “Belief for Relief,” as well as teaching at the Rockville Centre Music Stu-dio and the Y oung Musicians Institute, in Hempstead. She also performs at local ven-ues and is proficient in many languages and instruments. “Being a [musical] dir ector gives me so much more perspective on how hard direc-tors work and worry about the final pr oduct,” Reed said. “I’ve had motivational directors and

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WILLIAM O’BRIEN, who plays young Patrick Dennis, rehearses a scene with Reneé Socci, who plays the title role in Island Park Theatre Group’s “Mame.”

Let’s put on a show!Behind the scenes of community theater

IPTG’S ‘MAME’ The Island Park Theatre Group (IPTG) was formed in the 1980s as a means of bringing wholesome Broadway-like shows to the Island Park and neighboring communities. In the early 90s, IPTG moved from the Island Park Methodist Church to the professional stage of the Lincoln Orens Middle School. IPTG is self-funded, and relies on advertising, dues and sponsors to produce its shows. This season’s production is the musi-cal “Mame” at the Lincoln Orens School, at Trafalgar Blvd, Island Park. Performanc-es: Nov 12, 8 p.m.; Nov. 13, 3 p.m.; Nov. 18, 8 p.m.; Nov. 19, 8 p.m.; and Nov. 20, 3 p.m. For tickets and more information, call (516) 431-3320.

also some so-so dir ectors, but I realize that all of them had to plan, recruit, direct, and do it all again the following years.” Besides planning the music f or the pro-duction ahead of time, Reed works with the cast and books musicians f or the final rehearsals and performances. Add the choreography … Sal Canepa, 38, of Oceanside lik es to move – and he lik es to make others move as well. Like Nussdorf, he has a no-nonsense-but-lets-still-have-fun style of teaching. With

IPTG since 1994, he has starred in many shows, and has c horeographed and musical-ly directed several shows as well. “Being choreographer requires doing most of the work even before auditions,” he said. One of his most tr easured memories was doing “Into the W oods” with IPTG in 1995-96. “It had an extr emely talented cast and was a life-altering experience. “Although it takes months to prepare a musical before auditions, and months of rehearsals, the end pr oduct is al ways a delightful accomplishment.” Cane pa said. “It’s wonderful to have returning cast mem-bers and thrilling to see ne w faces. Commu-

nity theater creates wonderful friendships that last beyond the closing night.” The sensational ‘Mame’ Reneé Socci, 51 , of Valley Stream, has been singing all her life. She studied opera in college, and performed in Long Island oper-atic productions during those years and into her twenties. She’s been a private vocal coach and piano teac her for 35 years, and works for Holy Name of Mary Church as their principal cantor, singing at weddings and funerals, and is in charge of all of their cantors and the f olk group. She also w orks part time for a local attorney. “There is no other feeling lik e working with a group of wonderful people all commit-ted to having fun and putting to gether a show,” Socci said. “T he show itself is the gravy. For a few hours, you are someone else, living in a ma gical world where everyone breaks into song and dance a t the drop of a hat. It’s pure joy with just enough stress to keep you on your toes. It’s also better than sitting on the couc h at night, munching on chips in front of the TV! Socci’s first show with IPTG was its 1991 production of “The Sound of Music,” play-ing the part of Maria. Since then she’s played “Dolly” in “Hello Doll y,” “Fiona” in Brig a-doon, “Sister Mary Amnesia” in “Nun-sense,” and the queen in “Once Upon a Ma t-tress,” among other parts. She has also musi-cally directed “The Wizard of Oz,” “Oliver,” and the three revue performances that IPTG has done. “I have not acted in an IPTG sho w in 12 years!” “I don’t think people r ealize how much work goes into putting on a thea trical pro-duction,” Socci said. “The long hours prepar-ing – every step is thought out first, in g reat

detail. Will the right people audition? W illanyone come to see the sho w? Will we haveenough money for all our expenses?” “It’s a lot of hard work, and time con-suming,” said Oceanside r esident LindaBakal, who plays Mrs. Burnside. “But wehave so much fun. We come from all walksof life, and we’re all different ages, but it’slike one big f amily – and man y of us stayfriends after the show ends.”

Why support community theater? The Island Park Theatre Group is just oneof a handful of high-caliber performancegroups around. “I think the pub lic enjoys an inexpensivenight out at the theatre,” said Cestaro. “andlocal community theatre is their best bet.” “We provide a way for them to just ‘sitback, relax, and enjo y,’ as J ohn Cestaroannounces to the audience bef ore everyshow,” Socci said. “W e don’t make anymoney personally, but we love to hear theaudience laugh – that’s our payment. If wecan make them forget their troubles whilewe play in our ma gical little world, thenwe’re a success.” “If we do our job w ell, the general pub-lic knows nothing a bout the amount ofwork that goes into each production,” saidWilson, summing up the experience . “Themagic of theatre is that the audience g etsto escape into the alter nate reality that theentire staff and cast has cr eated forthem. If the audience enjo ys the play andbelieves in the c haracters and the scenesthat we’ve produced – and maybe they walkout humming the tunes – then al l of ourhard work, our blood, sweat and tears hasbeen worthwhile and it’ s a lot c heaperthan Broadway!”

Let’s put on a show!

DIRECTOR Hillary Kass Nussdorf, right, and Assistant Director Debby Wilson watch as the actors run through a scene.

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Exhibits and more...“Air, Fire, Water, “Earth”An exhibit in which the four elements are used as a meta-phor for the world we live in. Works of Ron Erlich, Richard Sigmund, Linda Stojak, and Don Resnick are featured. Opening Sunday, Nov. 6, through Dec. 15. Molloy Col-lege’s Publiic Square Art Gal-lery, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre. 678-5000 ext. 6549 or [email protected].

Burton Silverman: The Humanist SpiritA exhibit showcasing the works of contemporary artist Burton Silverman, who demonstrates the continuing power of the realist tradition in the 21st century. Through Silverman’s use of contemporary realist portraiture, this exhibition examines the commonalities of existence of “everyman.” Silver-man is known for his ability to carefully balance formal visual elements in his realistic repre-sentations. Through Dec. 16. Hofstra University’s Emily Lowe Gallery, Emily Lowe Hall, South Campus South Campus, Hempstead. 463-5672.

BESA – Code Of Honor : Muslim Albanians Who Rescued Jews During The HolocaustThis exhibit describes, through documents and photographs, the heroic efforts of Albanian Muslims to rescue Albanian Jews during the Holocaust. Through Nov. 14. Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County, 100 Cres-cent Beach Rd., Glen Cove. 571-8040 ext. 100 or www.holocaust-nassau.org.

Ripped: The Allure of CollageAn exhibit of approximately 50 col-lages, by a diverse range of Europe-an and American artists, that dem-onstrates the medium’s broad and surprising power. Artists represent-ed include Romare Bearden, Joseph Cornell, Salvador Dali, George Grosz, Jane Hammond, Hannah Hoch, Ray Johnson, Roy Lichtentstein, and Conrad Marca-Relli. Through Jan. 8. Heckscher Museum of Art, Main St. and Prime Ave., Huntington. (631) 351-3250 or www.heckscher.org.

Exploraciones ContemporaneasLatin America’s varied artistic voices are on view in this exhibit that reflects the broad

diversity of Latin culture today. Artists include Vik Muniz of Brazil, Cuban-American DEMI, Manuel Esnoz of Argentina, and Darío Escobar of Guate-mala. Through Nov. 27. Nassau County Museum of Art, Con-temporary Collectors Circle Gallery, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. 484-9337 or www.nassaumuseum.org.

Francisco Goya: Los CaprichosA new exhibition featuring an early first edition of Los Caprichos, a set of 80 etchings by Spanish artist Francisco de Goya y Lucientes, that were pub-lished in 1799. It is one of the most influential series of graphic images in the history of Western art. Through Nov. 27. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. 484-9337 or www.nassaumuseum.org.

Afternoon MovieSee “Tree of Life,” the story of a Texas family, with Brad Pitt, Friday, Nov. 4, 2:30 p.m.; also “Zookeeper,” comedy with Kevin James, Tuesday, Nov. 8, 2 p.m. Elmont Memorial Library Theatre, 700 Hempstead Tpke., Elmont. 354-5280.

Friday FilmSee “Bridesmaids ,” Friday, Nov. 4, 1 and 6:45 p.m. Baldwin Public Library, 2385 Grand Ave., Baldwin. 223-6228.

Theater/ MusicCamelotThe classic musical with music with the beloved Lerner and Loewe score, Thursday and Friday, Nov. 3-4, 8 p.m.; Saturday, Nov. 5, 3 and 8 p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 6, 2 and 7 p.m. $60. John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport. (631) 261-2900 or www.engemantheater.com.

Jake’s WomenNeil Simon’s comedy about a writer and his struggling mar-riage, Friday and Saturday, Nov. 4-5, 8 p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 6, 2:30 p.m. $20, $18 seniors, $16 students, $15 ages 12 and under; $25 at door. Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst. (631) 226-8400 or www.studiotheatreli.com.

Josh Groban“Straight To You” Tour with rock/jazz pianist ELEW, Friday, Nov. 4, 8 p.m. $98.50 and $58.50. Nassau Coliseum, Uniondale. (800) 745-3000 or www.tickemaster.com.

Broadway UnpluggedA revue of hit Broadway songs, Saturday, Nov. 5, 7 p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 6, 2 and 7 p.m. $30, includes wine and cheese, coffee and dessert. Merrick Theatre & Center for the Arts, 2222 Hewlett Ave., Merrick. 868-6400.

Cougat’s Nougats!The heyday of Xavier Cugat is brought to life with original arrangements of his hits, Sat-urday, Nov. 5, 8 p.m. Program includes a 13-piece orchestra, the Tango Romantico dancers, and a special appearance by Bob Spiotto. $30, $25, seniors, $20 students. Hofstra University’s John Cranford Adams Playhouse, South Cam-pus, Hempstead. 463-6644.The Curious SavageJohn Patrick’s heartwarming comedy about money and greed, presented by the Lantern The-atre, Saturday, Nov. 5, 8 p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 6, 1:30 p.m. $18, $16 seniors and students Satur-days. Congregation B’Nai Israel, 91 N. Bayview Ave., North Free-port. 221-4485.

A Grand Night For SingingTony-nominated musical fea-turing the tunes of Rodgers & Hammerstein, Saturday, Nov. 5, 8 p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 6, 2:30 p.m. $20, $18 seniors and students, $14 youth. BroadHollow Theatre, BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip. (631) 581-2700 or www.broadhollow.org.

Idina MenzelThe Broadway headlines Tilles Center’s annual gala concert , Saturday, Nov. 5, 8 p.m. $175, $125, $80, and $50. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, C.W. Post Campus, Rte. 25A, Brookville.

(800) 745-3000 or www.ticketmaster.com orwww.tillescenter.org.

A Jimmy Moore SamplerA musical revue, Sunday, Nov. 6, 2 p.m. Program includes songs from “Bye Bye Birdie,” “Showboat,” “Carmen’s Toreador aria, along with popular hits from Frank Sinatra, Stevie Wonder, and more. Elmont Memorial Library Theatre, 700 Hempstead Tpke., Elmont. 354-5280.

I Hear MusicVocalists Susan Winter and Rick Jensen perform a unique blend of pop, jazz and cabaret, Sunday, Nov. 6, 2:30 p.m. Tickets required. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Cen-tral Ave., Lawrence. 239-3262.

My Fair LadyThe classic musical based on George Bernard Shaw’s “Pygma-lion,” presented by Plaza Theatrical Productions, Sunday, Nov. 6, 2 p.m. $20, $25 seniors and stu-dents. The Show Place at the Bell-more Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bell-more. 599-6870 or www.plazatheatrical.com.

Nightmare In The AtticA Revolutionary War tale based on the occupation of Rock Hall by American patriots in 1776, Sunday, Nov. 6, 6:30 p.m. $20, $15, seniors, $10 students. Reservations required. Lawrence Middle School (next to Rock Hall Museum), 195 Broadway, Lawrence. 239-1157.

A White House Tour – Part Two Harriet Baker and Barry H. Kaplan explore the life and times of our nation’s presidents and first ladies, including the Washingtons, Jeffersons, Nixons, and Clintons, in a staged reading, Wednesday, Nov. 9, 2 p.m. Tickets required. Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside. 766-6500.

David Ostwald’s Gully Low Jazz BandThe popular Dixieland band performs traditional jazz favorites, Thursday, Nov. 10, 7:30 p.m. Tickets required. Hewlett-Woodmere Public Library, 1125 Broadway, Hewlett. 374-1967.

Musical Manners & Mores Of 19th Century AmericaBaritone Frank Hendricks and pianist Linda Pratt per-form period music, Thursday, Nov. 10, 1 p.m. Hewlett-Woodmere Public Library, 1125 Broadway, Hewlett. 374-1967.

FamilyHow I Became A PirateMusical story of adventure and finding one’s own heart, based on the book by Melinda Long, presented by Plaza Theatrical Productions, Saturday, Nov. 5, 11 a.m. Audiences are encour-aged to come dressed in their pirate best. $10. The Show Place at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore. 599-6870 or www.plazatheatrical.com.

The Legend Of Sleepy HollowLearn the real story behind the legend of the headless horseman, in this audience participation play, Saturday and Sunday, Nov. 5-6, 2 p.m. $10, $8 children. Vanderbilt Museum Carriage House Theater, Suffolk County Vanderbilt Muse-um, 180 Little Neck Rd., Center-port. 293-0674 or www.arenaplayers.org.Mid-Autumn FestivalCelebrate the Vietnamese festival tradition of Tet-Trung-Thu, in conjunction the visiting exhibit “Dragons and Fairies,” Saturday and Sunday, Nov. 5-6, 12-4 p.m. With varied activities, including Vietnamese cui-sine to sample. Free with museum admission. Long Island Children’s Museum, Museum Row, Garden City. 224-5800 or www.licm.org.

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Take a stroll across town and back again when the Gil-bert and Sullivan Light Opera Company presents some of the most beloved and familiar tunes to grace the Great White Way and opera houses worldwide, Sunday, Nov. 20, at 3 p.m., in Garden City. Conceived by co-Directors David Groeger and Valerie Grehan, and produced by the Gilbert & Sullivan Light Opera Company of Long Island, “Midtown to the Met 2: More of the Best of Broadway and Opera” is a light-hearted revue of songs

we all love to listen to and sing along with. From “Rigoletto” and “The Magic Flute” to “Godspell” and “Wicked,” this show will please both opera and musical theater fans alike in a friendly and casual ‘coffee house’ setting. Tickets are $20, including complimentary light fare and dessert; available at www.gilbertandsullivanli.com. Ethical Humanist Society of Long Island, 38 Old Country Rd., Garden City.

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I f you’re like most families in America, the approach of the holiday season brings with it the anticipation of a month filled with family

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As each new holiday season arrives, we promise our -selves that we will not repeat the mistakes made in years past: the guilt we feel from overspending, the exhaustion we feel from overbooking, or the constant frustration over kids who misbehave and act ungrateful. And as the holiday music starts to play anew each year , we make the same promise to ourselves that this is the year we are going to do things differently . And yet – things always seem to stay the same. Don’t despair, though, say Andrea and David Reiser.

It is possible to consciously create the holiday you want, if you make your list early and check it twice. “The key to enjoying a really meaningful holiday season with your family is to plan ahead and to do it purposefully,” says Andrea, coauthor along with her husband, David, of the book “Letters From Home: A Wake-up Call for Success & Wealth. “Like anything else, the family time, parties, and bonding you’re envisioning don’ t just happen. They are created by design.” Andrea, a self-confessed “Martha Stewart type,” knows from personal experience that when your quest to bring a fairy-tale holiday to life makes you feel more like Scrooge than Santa Claus, something’s wrong. Instead of breaking the bank to shower your kids with material things this holiday season, the Reisers suggest giving them the gift of a meaning-ful experience instead. Time spent together, not a new video game system or wardrobe, will truly stick with them and shape their worldviews. Here are some ideas to get you started. Choose an event to attend together. Get a schedule of local holiday-themed concerts, plays, parades, shows, and

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Not wrapped,but rememberedcontined from page 2from that are free to the public! It just goes to show that you don’t have to spend a mint to make memo-ries over the holidays. Remember: There really is no place like home for the holidays. Making special holiday memories doesn’t always have to mean going somewhere. In fact, some of your most treasured experiences can be created inside the four walls of your house, and they don’t have to cost a lot of money or cause a lot of stress to be perfect! Take a regular weeknight dinner and turn it into a magical holiday meal by dimming the lights, lighting candles on the table, and playing soft holiday music in the background. Serve sparkling juice or cider in special glasses and pull out the fancy china for once. It’s a special night you and your family won’ t soon forget! Set your family up for success. On the best of days, kids will be kid – and their propensity for energy , mis-behavior, and hi-jinks grows exponentially when they’re excited. Whenever your family is preparing for any sort of event this season, don’ t assume that the “usual” rules are at the forefront of young minds. Go over your expectations – and potential consequences – beforehand so that you don’ t spend the whole time scolding and correcting. And as a parent, take the time to remind yourself that children are often overstimu-lated, overexcited, and saturated with sugar this time of year. If you don’t think your brood can handle sit-ting still for an hour-long concert, then make the choice not to go. You’ll save yourself a lot of stress, anger, and disappointment in the long run. Make meaningful conversation. Conversation is the foundation upon which any memorable event is built. So to make the most of outings and experiences this holiday season, have a few meaningful topics up your sleeve to engage your family. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself griping about chore lists, homework, and soccer schedules during your special outing – instead of the things you really wanted to share. For example, as you drive around your neighborhood looking at Christmas lights, you may want to ask your kids about their favorite Christmas memories. Or , before attending a church service or local event, sit down and talk about what Christmas truly means to each member of your family. You may be surprised at the answers – and it will make each event and activity that much more meaningful.












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Jewish Early Learning Center of Merrick-Bellmore The Jewish Early Learning Center of Merrick-Bellmore enables its young children to grow academically and socially through the SPICES approach to education. That is, they address the children’s Social, Physical, Intellectual, Creative, Emotional and Spiritual development. Licensed by NYS, small classes and warm, certified teachers guarantee individualized attention and the highest commitment to the students. Children are recognized for their uniqueness and the Jewish ELC does its best to cultivate their individuality through learning and playing. Jewish tradi-tions and values along with an array of subjects like math, literacy readiness and dramatic play are incorporated into the classroom curricula. Programs focus on areas like sen-sory and perception development, self-help, motor skills and emotional growth. Children are encouraged to grow through learning and creative expression during indoor and outdoor playtime. Facilities include a beautiful indoor , air conditioned classroom with many windows and skylights, and a beautiful outdoor shaded playing space. Kosher breakfast, hot lunch, and snack are ser ved daily to ease the burden on parents. Flexible schedule of half days, full days and extended hours are available for children aged 12 months to 4 years old. Special discounts are offered for early registration! For a preschool or daycare experience ‘where ever y child counts’, choose the Jewish Early Learning Center of Merrick-Bellmore!Jewish Early Learning Center of Merrick-BellmorePreschool & Daycare, & Exciting Summer Program

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Temple Beth Am Religious School Temple Beth Am - Religious School (The ONL Y Reform Jewish Congregation of Merrick and Bellmore. Our objective is to watch your children grow in their love of Jewish heritage and culture. Instill in our children a love and respect of Jewish life and values. We believe in strong familly links through educational pro-grams and opportunities. A partnership between home and Jewish education. Our curriculum covers: the Bible and Jewish literature, customs and traditions, festivals, Shabbat, life cycle, histor y and of course Hebrew. Additional education programs include: Youth Group Happenings (grades 5-12) Torah for Tots (ages 3 and 4).

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Childrens School of Ballet Number 68 Osborne Rd., Garden City became the home for CHILDRENS SCHOOL OF BALLET in Aug. 2011. It is a place for children to gather on an early evening or Saturday, appearing with ballet buns and slippers in tow to seek out their desire and fulfill their dreams for dance. CHILDRENS SCHOOL OF BALLET follows the methodology of the AMERICAN BALLET THEATRE® National Training Curriculum that is sweeping the nation and globe. CHILDRENS SCHOOL OF BALLET is proud to include ABT® Affiliate Teacher Carolyn Zettel-Augustyn who is certified in Primary through Level 5 of the ABT® National Training Curriculum. An ABT ® Affiliate Teacher is a level of distinction for ABT ® Certified Teachers that successfully present students for examinations. We invite you to join us at CHILDRENS SCHOOL OF BALLET to seek out your artistic spirit, challenge your physicality in ballet technique and experience joyous dance!

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Sweet Tots Creative Child Care Center Sweet Tots Creative Child Care Center, in North Bellmore, is the perfect “home away from home” for your child. Owned and operated by Karen and Tommy, and licensed by New York State, Sweet Tots is seriously committed to caring for children from six weeks to five years old. Open year round, the center provides itself on being able to offer a warm, friendly setting in a pre-school environment. With a ratio of one adult to every four children, our qualified, professional staff ensures that each child receives the care and attention he/she deserves. Each age-appropriate room is filled with learning activities made fun through play, arts and crafts, stor y and circle time, music and movement, and computers. Sweet T ots appreciates the physical, cognitive and cultural differences of the numerous children and makes it their mission to adapt to each child’ s individual level of readiness. As a result, even the youngest children are able to form friendships and learn the basics of getting along. Communication with parents is the center’s number one priority. Parents are urged to maintain a school-family connection.

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I.L. PeretzJewish School

At the I. L. Peretz Jewish School, in East Meadow, experience and become a part of our secular Jewish community . Serving the com-munity for more than 50 years, we provide a child-centered, family-friendly Jewish educational environment featuring Bar/Bat Mitzvah prepara-tion, celebration of all Jewish Holidays, including High Holidays, and a music and dramatic arts program taught by a world renowned Klezmer musician. Coupled with dynamic, highly skilled staff and an innovative, exciting curriculum, we give students broad and extensive exposure to Jewish life, histor y, language, culture, and tradi-tions. Our students develop a strong, positive sense of Jewish identity.

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Trinity Lutheran School and Early Childhood Center “Where Christian values and academic excellence prepare children, motivated by their faith and love of Christ, to live productive lives in service to others.” Trinity Lutheran School is a parochial school in the Lutheran tradition that seeks to ser ve students and families from all walks of faith. We consider it a joy and a privilege to share the word of God’s love with all people. Trinity Lutheran School offers families an excellent education for toddlers through grade 8 students in a caring, Christian environment. We are a close knit community of dedicated individuals supporting each other in the process of building a firm foundation for academic excellence, moral relationships, and a healthy Christian faith for our children. Come and explore the possibility of sending your child to Trinity Lutheran School, and see for yourself what makes us so special. Call us today at 516-931-2211 or e-mail at [email protected] to set up an appointment for a personal tour .

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T he holidays are a time for family, fun and festivities. So why are you so stressed ?


Coping with holiday stress

Actually, stress is associated with positive life events as much as negative ones. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed when planning family meals, shopping for gifts, deco-rating the house or figuring out what to do with the kids during their holiday break. “Stress causes an unhealthy ‘high alert!’ response that wears down the body ,” says Ashley Davis Bush, author of the book “Shortcuts to Inner Peace:70 Simple Paths to Everyday Serenity .” “Through intentionally summoning a feeling of inner calm, we literally change the chemistry of our bodies.” If you’re looking to keep a calm head in the midst of visiting relatives and busy shopping malls, try some of Bush’s favorite shortcuts this holiday season: Play It Again, Sam: When you find yourself grumbling over a nagging task (hanging lights, preparing the guest room), play or sing a specific song. It doesn’t have to be holiday-related; any upbeat tune will help! Remember This: When waiting in line to purchase gifts or groceries, ask yourself “What do I need to remember?” Keep asking yourself this question until you start to get substantial answers like “I need to remember what really matters in life.” Stop ‘N’ Smell: Before you being cooking a holiday meal, take time to smell your ingredients. Or pull a fragrant item from your pantry that triggers positive emotions (e.g. coffee, vanilla extract, rosemary). Close your eyes and inhale. The smell should ground you in the present, allowing you to savor your time in the kitchen. My Sunshine: Family dynamics are complicated and can get strained

during the holidays. If you find yourself getting annoyed with a loved one, consider humming the song “Y ou Are My Sunshine” and remember that your time together is limited. If your buttons really get pushed, excuse your -self and throw cool water on your face or place a wet towel on your neck. Cool relief to the body brings relief to the mind as well.

Touch Tank: It’s easy in the hustle and bustle of the holidays to forget to appreciate all the beautiful decora-tions, not to mention the beauty of the season. Consider keeping a small box or basket of seasonal treasures – pinecones, smooth stones, mistletoe and chestnuts. Whenever you feel tense or overwhelmed, take a few moments to finger each object. Simple appreciation tends to restore inner calm. “We often think we need to change our circum-

stances to feel peaceful or that we need to be immersed in spa-like sur-roundings to find tran-quility,” says Bush. “But inner peace requires no extra time or money – just a shift in attention.” Let peace on earth begin with you this holiday season.


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Although not quite halfway through the school year, the timing of the school vacation does come when kids might be preoccupied with the holiday season and all that comes with it. Kids may be distracted about parties and presents, but parents maybe preoccupied with finding ways their kids can spend their time during the vacation period – typi-cally a 10 day to two-week hiatus from school that begins shortly before Christmas and ends with kids’ return to school shortly after New Year’s Day. With a little plan-ning, parents facing the dilemma of finding something productive for the kids to do during the holiday vacation, will find it’ s not such a dilemma after all.

Take a vacation or staycation. Vacation is the easy way out if finances and timing permit. The break might mark the only time until summer that parents can spend quality time with their kids completely away from the distrac-tions of everyday life. Vacation can mean a trip to warmer climates or simply packing up the car to go spend time with the grandparents. If there’s any vacation time to spare, consider hitting the road.

Teach kids some practical les-sons. Kids likely won’ t miss the classroom during winter break, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t enjoyable ways for kids to learn while they’re away from school. T each kids practical lessons, like how to cook a favorite meal or how to fix things around the house. This gives parents a chance to spend some quality time with their kids while encouraging kids to

learn beyond the classroom. And who knows, such lessons at home may uncover a child’s hid-den talent. Encourage kids to read for pleasure. Reading improves vocabulary and can stimulate a child’s imagination. During the winter break, encourage kids to read a book or the daily news-paper for pleasure, assuring them there won’t be any quizzes or tests after each chapter . Get the ball rolling with a few books given as presents during Christmas or Hanukkah. Or take a trip to the local library and let kids choose their own books. Head outdoors. The weather may be chilly, but bundle up and go outside for a long walk or some outdoor adventures if the

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Reflect on what is precious to you about the holidays and reconnect with your spirit. Examine the differences between your holiday expectations and what is really possible. Establish realistic holiday goals. Share with family and friends any worries about meeting your holiday expectations.Before getting together with family or relatives, anticipate and prepare for any difficulties. Don’ t expect your family or relatives to change their personalities because they are visiting your home. Don’ t bring up old family quarrels during the holidays. Don’t feed into the commercialism of the holidays. Plan free or low-cost activities and celebrations. Create and practice a holiday family tradition that helps those in need. Don’t spend money beyond your means. Consider gifts of help or special times together rather than gifts of things. Discuss gift-giving costs and realistic expectations with all family members well before the holidays. Create a new family tradition to keep the post-holiday blahs at bay . Talk about the fun you’ve had and what the holidays mean to your family, then think about what you might do differently next year. Permission granted by www.FamilyEducation.com © 2000 - 2011 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved.



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As each new holiday season arrives, we promise ourselves that we will not repeat the mis-takes made in years past: the guilt we feel from overspending, the exhaustion we feel from overbooking, or the constant frustration over kids who mis-behave and act ungrateful. And as the holiday music starts to play anew each year, we make the same promise to ourselves that this is the year we are going to do things differently. And yet – things always seem to stay the same. Don’t despair, though, say Andrea and David Reiser. It is possible to consciously create the holiday you want, if you make your list early and check it twice. “The key to enjoying a really meaningful holiday season with your family is to plan ahead and to do it purposefully,” says Andrea, coauthor along with her husband, David, of the book “Letters From Home: A Wake-up Call for Success & W ealth. “Like anything else, the family time, parties, and bonding you’re envi-sioning don’t just happen. They are created by design.” Andrea, a self-confessed “Martha Stewart type,” knows from personal experience that when your quest

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T he holidays are a time for family, fun and festivities. So why are you so stressed ?


Coping with holiday stress

Actually, stress is associated with positive life events as much as negative ones. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed when planning family meals, shopping for gifts, deco-rating the house or figuring out what to do with the kids during their holiday break. “Stress causes an unhealthy ‘high alert!’ response that wears down the body ,” says Ashley Davis Bush, author of the book “Shortcuts to Inner Peace:70 Simple Paths to Everyday Serenity .” “Through intentionally summoning a feeling of inner calm, we literally change the chemistry of our bodies.” If you’re looking to keep a calm head in the midst of visiting relatives and busy shopping malls, try some of Bush’s favorite shortcuts this holiday season: Play It Again, Sam: When you find yourselfgrumbling over a nagging task (hanging lights,preparing the guest room), play or sing a specific song. It doesn’t have to be holiday-related; any upbeat tune will help! Remember This: When waiting in line to purchase gifts or groceries, ask yourself “What do I need to remember?” Keep asking yourself this question until you start to get substantial answers like “I need to remember what really matters in life.” Stop ‘N’ Smell: Before you being cooking a holiday meal, take time to smell your ingredients. Or pull a fragrant item from your pantry that triggers positive emotions (e.g. coffee, vanilla extract, rosemary). Close your eyes and inhale. The smell should ground you in the present, allowing you to savor your time in the kitchen. My Sunshine: Family dynamics are complicated and can get strained

during the holidays. If you find yourself getting annoyed with a loved one, consider humming the song “Y ou Are My Sunshine” and remember that your time together is limited. If your buttons really get pushed, excuse your -self and throw cool water on your face or place a wet towel on your neck. Cool relief to the body brings relief to the mind as well.

Touch Tank: It’s easy in the hustle and bustle of the holidays to forget to appreciate all the beautiful decora-tions, not to mention the beauty of the season. Consider keeping a small box or basket of seasonal treasures – pinecones, smooth stones, mistletoe and chestnuts. Whenever you feel tense or overwhelmed, take a few moments to finger each object. Simple appreciation tends to restore inner calm. “We often think we need to change our circum-

stances to feel peaceful or that we need to be immersed in spa-like surroundings to find tranquility,” says Bush. “But inner peace requires no extra time or money – just a shift in attention.” Let peace on earth begin with you thisholiday season.


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Crafting memories



Save yourself a stressful, expensive day at the mall buying stocking stuffers and holiday décor, and plan a pre-holiday family get-together instead. By taking advantage of everybody’ s crafting skills, you can create personal-ized ornaments and gifts made by the family, for the family. Make sure you have plenty of craft supplies on hand that are appropriate for all ages. Provide glitter , paint, ribbon, fabric, popsicle sticks, crayons and paper –and get to work! You can either workwithout direction, creating ideas from scratch, or provide your guests with instructions forspecific projects. Decorating with pinecones and creating paper chain gar -lands from old magazines are a few ideas to get you started. And the terrific thing is these supplies are free! For creative inspiration, visit your neighborhood craft store, or checkout the websites that provide step by step instructions for creating homemade holiday décor. Kids, grandparents, uncles, cousins, everybody can participate, no matter what their skill level. This get-together can also double as a perfect photoopportunity. It’s easy to get a family portrait when you have everyone gathered in one place. And the holidays are the best



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Although not quite halfway through the school year, the timing of the school vaca-tion does come when kids might be preoc-cupied with the holiday season and all that comes with it. Kids may be distracted about parties and presents, but parents maybe preoccu-pied with finding ways their kids can spend their time during the vacation period – typically a 10 day to two-week hiatus from school that begins shortly before Christmas and ends with kids’ return to school shortly after New Year’s Day. With a little planning, parents facing the dilemma of finding something productive for the kids to do during the holiday vacation, will find it’s not such a dilemma after all. Take a vacation or staycation. Vacation is the easy way out if finances and timing permit. The break might mark the only time until summer that parents can spend quality time with their kids completely away from the distractions of everyday life. Vacation can mean a trip to warmer cli-mates or simply packing up the car to go spend time with the grandparents. If there’s any vacation time to spare, consider hitting the road. Teach kids some practical lessons. Kids likely won’t miss the classroom during winter break, but that doesn’ t mean there aren’t enjoyable ways for kids to learn while they’re away from school. Teach kids practical lessons, like how to cook a favor-ite meal or how to fix things around the house. This gives parents a chance to spend some quality time with their kids while encouraging kids to learn beyond the classroom. And who knows, such lessons at home may uncover a child’ s hidden talent. Encourage kids to read for pleasure. Reading improves vocabulary and can stimulate a child’s imagination. During the winter break, encourage kids to read a book or the daily newspaper for pleasure, assuring them there won’t be any quizzes or tests after each chapter . Get the ball rolling with a few books given as presents during Christmas or Hanukkah. Or take a trip to the local library and let kids choose their own books. Head outdoors. The weather may be chilly, but bundle up and go outside for a long walk or some outdoor adven-tures if the temperatures permit. Everyone will enjoy a break from being indoors and some healthy exercise is good for the entire family.



Harmonious holidays



Reflect on what is precious to you about the holidays and reconnect with your spirit. Examine the differences between your holiday expectations and what is really possible. Establish realistic holiday goals. Share with family and friends any worries about meeting your holiday expectations.Before getting together with family or relatives, anticipate and prepare for any difficulties. Don’ t expect your family or relatives to change their personalities because they are visiting your home. Don’ t bring up old family quarrels during the holidays. Don’t feed into the commercialism of the holidays. Plan free or low-cost activities and celebrations. Create and practice a holiday family tradition that helps those in need. Don’t spend money beyond your means. Consider gifts of help or special times together rather than gifts of things. Discuss gift-giving costs and realistic expectations with all family members well before the holidays. Create a new family tradition to keep the post-holiday blahs at bay . Talk about the fun you’ve had and what the holidays mean to your family, then think about what you might do differently next year. Permission granted by www.FamilyEducation.com © 2000 - 2011 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved



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