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Included:

Welcome Letter

Basics of Spirit Thinking

Guide to Reading Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment

REBT Primer

Schedule of Fees for Certification

Sample Certificate

Welcome Prospective Facilitator:

Spirit Thinking is an exciting new approach to pastoral counseling and spiritual development

coaching which combines cognitive principals with qualities of the Spirit to bring change to your

clients’ thinking as you take them on the journey of knowing their Spirit-Self more effectively.

Spirit Thinking is a very valuable supplemental tool to your training. However, it should not be

relied upon alone to help every client in every situation. As you read the text, you will become

familiar with the program and the aspects of Spirit Thinking. You will see where many of your

clients can immediately benefit. If you feel a client we can provide you with the Spirit Thinking

Guide for a low cost. Many CSTF’s charge between $135.00 - $395.00 for clients to complete

the program and obtain their Mastery Certificate!

Completion of the CSTF course requires you to successfully read and complete exercises in

Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment, a live practice session with a CSTF-M and

the completion of the 30 Day Workbook. Both your copy of Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide

to Enlightenment which you complete, your journal of exercises, and the completed workbook

must be returned in order to obtain your certificate. Once they are received, you may

immediately schedule your practice session to show your mastery of the materials. After all

materials are reviewed and judged to be of good to excellent quality, you will be issued your

CSTF Certificate! You are then legally licensed to use and advertise the professional initials

CSTF after your other professional initials and use the Course in Spirit Thinking for your clients.

Spirit Thinking is growing! More and more people are hearing about the program. If you

decide to become a Certified Spirit Thinking Facilitator, you will be the only Facilitator in your

zip code in order to provide referrals to you.

Spirit Thinking uses 30 percent of your Facilitator fee for advertising to generate leads for your

success. Spirit Thinking teachings are always evolving and continuing to add information and

training. For that reason, your Certification will expire in 24 months. However, you may choose

the Lifetime CSTF Certification program at a very low extra cost and your CSTF will not expire so

long as you keep up with the at least 6 CEU’s every twelve months.

It is a very exciting time to be joining our program and I hope to see your acceptance email

soon!

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You understand the CSTF is a supplemental credential of great importance, however, it is not

recognized by the States of Texas or Nevada for licensure for professional counseling. Hence,

you must fulfill your state’s training. Note this does not apply to those who are ordained

ministers and practice as professional pastoral counselors or life coaching, except where such

practice is regulated. Spirit Thinking is a spiritual program and is exempt from interference by

and governmental body because of its positive, supportive religious nature.

Introduction to Spirit Thinking Certification

Why Spirit Thinking?

America is hungry for spirituality. Spirituality is the buzzword from Oprah to Dr. Phil to Donald

Trump. But what is anyone doing about it? Most people think spirituality is the same thing as

religion. We know, however, that is a very bad equation to make. Spirituality is about our

personal relationship with our Creator. Although we may use religion to supplement our

spirituality, it can also be supplemented by reading, meditating, visualization and exercising our

Spirit-Self just as we do our Body-Self and Mind-Self.

Spirit Thinking is an answer to the need for more spirituality. It may not be the answer for all.

Nevertheless, EVERY person can benefit from some part of Spirit Thinking.

Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment is the text for the Spirit Thinking approach.

Spirit Thinking was developed by Dr. Reece W. Manley, DD, M.Ed., MPM, Rev., who wrote the

text after he survived a near death experience during a five month battle with MRSA. He is the

only known person to have survived the specific strain of MRSA he faced. During his Crossing,

Dr. Manley spent hours inside the Creator’s Light and the billions of souls inhabiting the

heavens. Although he lost most knowledge when he was returned to this life, he still retained

the inspiration for Spirit Thinking.

The Mission of Spirit Thinking

The Mission of Spirit Thinking is the spreading of the truth of God’s love of all of His children,

universally and unequivocally. The first rule of Spirit Thinking is to do no harm. The second rule

of Spirit Thinking is compassion in all things. The third rule of Spirit Thinking is integrity.

By beginning this training you have indicated your interest in sharing the good news of God’s

love and His Spirit’s ability to intervene in our lives. The power of Spirit Thinking lays 100% in

the ability of the client to believe in God’s accepting, unconditional love. No one can

adequately train anyone except in the route of compassionate commitment to the teachings of

God’s love. Teachings of God’s love are evident in every culture, faith and denomination.

Sadly, the teachings are often marred by man’s will, or lack of will. It is our job as facilitator’s to

find the evidence of God’s love and to bring that to the attention of our clients. We cannot

think or act for our clients. We must bring them to the point of making better choices and let

them fly.

Spirit Thinking is a unique combination of cognitive and REBT approaches with specific spiritual

principles. Like cognitive approaches, Spirit Thinking seeks to help by intervening in clients’

thinking processes with positive self-statements and placing situations in context. Unlike

cognitive theories, Spirit Thinking uses ten specific spiritual qualities to provide depth of the

Spirit in challenging thinking.

Essential Concepts of Spirit Thinking:

Our Creator is the source of all things in the Universe. The Creator loves each of His children

completely, wholly and without reserve. The Creator is deeply passionate about His children.

The Creator, in His wisdom and beyond our understanding, gave the gift of Free Will to

mankind. We are empowered by Free Will to make choices which go against the qualities of

our Creator. We are empowered and supported by the Spirit to exercise our Free Will to

connect with our Creator. The Creator is limited by His divine gift over dominion of man in the

fact that mankind has Free Will. It is our greatest gift. It is our strongest curse. It is the most

powerful concept for mankind to master. Becoming aware of Free Will is essential for the

success of Spirit Thinking. The concept of choosing the Creator’s path is our ultimate use of

Free Will.

People are made of three selves. There is the body-self, the mind-self and the spirit-self. The

spirit-self is the eternal part of ourselves which has all of the power because of the spirit-self’s

connection to the Creator.

The Creator has certain qualities which can be thought of as the fabric of the Spirit, the “DNA”

of the spiritual-self. The Creator is the perfection of these qualities while we are on a journey

to manifest these qualities as children of the Creator.

Some of the Qualities of the Creator include:

The Spirit of the Creator and the spirit-self of mankind is:

Eternal. The I Am has been, is, and will be forever. Our spirit-self lives forever, and is

forever strong.

Loving. The Creator is love perfected and perfectly expressed to His children. In our

spirit-selves we are deeply cared for, and we deeply care for others.

Intelligent. God knows all that is to be known or will be known. Our spirit-self is open

to Spirit knowledge.

Powerful. The I Am is powerful in all His ways. While our spirit-selves draw our strength

from the One who has no limits.

Insightful. No mystery is unknown to God. For our spirit-selves, we know wrong from

right, and how to apply it.

Supportive. The Creator is supportive of his children. He lifts us up when we are tired,

alone, or ill. Our spirit-selves enable us to reach out to others in this way.

Empowering. God seeks to give his children the power to live incredible lives. He gives

us the ability to act in ways that are powerful.

Challenging. God challenges us to grow along our paths. Growth never rests and

opportunities come daily. Our spirit-selves help others along their paths in earthly ways.

Patient. God waits on, and awaits His children’s company. We never disappoint God,

but he does celebrate our walking in tune with His love. We must try, try again. There is

no getting it wrong, only closer to right.

Joyful. God is joyful. God offers us something deeper than happiness; joy is the simple

pleasure of being.

In understanding these qualities, we can bring about great change.

Types of thinking:

Natural. Natural thinking is the interaction between the body-self and mind-self. Our body-self

and our mind-selves are wonderfully efficient. The body-self senses and reports all of the

information from feather tickles to neurotransmitters appropriately to the mind-self. The

mind-self takes all of the information and matches it as closely as possible with a previously

experienced event. This can be very beneficial for the automatic things that must take place. It

can be a very harmful thing for making associations with old experiences we have had. For

example, if we are afraid to leave our house in December because in our childhood we were

told we would die of cold and we still believe that, we are acting on Natural thinking.

Spirit Thinking. Spirit Thinking is the introduction of a challenge to Natural thinking using one of

the qualities of the Spirit. Numerous examples are given in Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide

to Enlightenment. One quick example would be the case of Nancy:

Nancy is a single mother who has been out of work for a year and now has an interview

approaching. She has learned the interview will be with Mr. Johnson. In her life, she has had a

very bad experience with a different Mr. Johnson, but she still feels dread and great fear about

completing the interview even though she needs the job. Fortunately, Nancy has a Spirit

Thinking Facilitator who helps her do the following:

Identify the trigger of the fear: Mr. Johnson from ten years ago who embarrassed her badly in a

college English class. This memory causes great anxiety.

Write down a statement of the trigger: I am afraid I will be humiliated by Mr. Johnson.

Choose a quality of the Spirit for challenge: The spirit is supporting and empowering.

Create new Spirit Thinking statements: I do not have to relive the experience with Mr. Johnson.

I am supported by God and empowered to have new experiences. God supports me in all

things.

Continue with Spirit Thinking Statements until a new belief is formed.

Reading Tips for Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment

Here are just a few things to focus on in the first chapters of Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide

to Enlightenment. The complete Guide to Certified Spirit Thinking Facilitators contains more

information.

Chapter One:

The diagram is important and you should understand the significance of it. Be sure to review

the REBT primer included.

Chapter 1:

It is important to perform quite a bit of self-disclosure in establishing the necessary trust to

work Spirit Thinking Facilitator to client.

Chapter 2:

The near death experience is the reason for my passion for Spirit Thinking. You may or may not

want to spend a great deal of time with the material. Some other good resources can be found

at www.iands.org. These are important in that they prove the qualities of the Spirit from those

who have been there.

Chapter 3:

Spiritual Recovery is a very important topic. Be sure you can honestly answer the questions

contained in the chapter for yourself and your client. Spiritual Recovery. Recommended

reading is Spiritual Recovery: Seven Steps to Freedom by Dr. Reece Manley, DD, M.Ed., MPM

(2010) and

Schnarr’s Twelve Steps to Spiritual Recovery.

Spiritual Abuse is rampant in America. It is one of the most devastating forms of abuse because

it is the abuse of a part of our original self. Just like physical or emotional abuse, spiritual abuse

can result in depression, anxiety, addiction disorders and a host of other problems.

Proceed carefully but fully explore your clients spiritual state. If they are deeply wounded, you

may need assistance of a licensed mental health counselor prepared to supervise your or

assume the client. It is important to have a referral source for these instances BEFORE the

demand.

Chapter 4:

As a professional, it will be easier for you to answer these questions than it will be for your

clients. You need to make certain you are comfortable with the material before taking it to the

clients. The assumptions are the cornerstone of the work.

The qualities of the Spirit are like threads in a fabric, they sometimes overlap, but each as its

own color and blends to make beautiful patterns. Because we will be making specific

challenges to thinking, we need the power of specific qualities to back up those challenges.

That is why it is essential to understand the qualities of the Spirit to react to the specific stated

problem.

Chapter 5:

REBT and congnitive therapy. Please review the REBT primer and remember to train yourself to

meet the needs of your clients.

Again, seek supervision in REBT if you are unfamiliar with the concept. The included primer is

not a full resource.

Chapter 6:

Here we break down the power house of our life as being the spirit-self. While humans are a

trinity (body, mind, spirit) only the spirit is eternal and is connected to the Creator throughout

the span of eternity. The power of the Spirit-Self is unlimited just as the Creator’s reach is

unlimited. The development of the Spirit-Self must be the focus of successful Spirit Thinking

training and successful use of Spirit Thinking by clients.

Chapter 7:

This is a wonderful way to begin to make close contact with your client. Taking them through

the meditation several times is recommended. It can be very important to check in with your

clients during the visualization/meditation to make certain they are experiencing the correct

images, emotions, connections and feelings.

Do not move on until you feel satisfied your client feels a connection or the beginning of the

connection to the Spirit Self.

Chapter 8:

In this chapter, we focus on helping the client focus on their connection between the client and

the Creator. Imagine an invisible string going from ourselves to the Creator. Over time, this

string becomes a cord. Then a cable. Soon it is a conduit of energy and light through which the

power of the Creator flows directly to our Spirit self.

Chapter 9:

In this chapter, Spirit Thinking begins its unique connection between our old thinking with new

inspired Spirit Thiking.

Chapter 10:

Problems in natural thinking come in the form of their limiting nature. Because natural thinking

leaves out the Spirit Self, it is destined to failure.

Chapter 11:

The Qualities of the Source are our basic building blocks for effective Spirit Thinking. Since each

qualities, matches some external challenge it is essential to have these will memorized.

Chapter 12:

The beliefs we have about things can be very, very limiting. It is the CSTF who opens up the

doors on unhealthy beliefs using specific challenges.

The Second Half of Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment focuses on changing the

client’s life thinking. It is important for you to journal your response and thoughts in this

section. It was originally written for professionals, so you should be able to understand the

parts most important to your understanding.

Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy Review

A Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy Primer

Prepared by Reece W. Manley, DD, M.Ed., MPM

(This is public domain information. There are no known copyrights to this material. This format of the

information is © 2009)

by Albert Ellis, Ph.D.

Rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) is a comprehensive approach to psychological treatment that

deals not only with the emotional and behavioral aspects of human disturbance, but places a great deal

of stress on its thinking component. Human beings are exceptionally complex, and there neither seems

to be any simple way in which they become "emotionally disturbed," nor is there a single way in which

they can be helped to be less-defeating. Their psychological problems arise from their misperceptions

and mistaken cognitions about what they perceive; from their emotional under reactions or

overreactions to normal and unusual stimuli; and from their habitually dysfunctional behavior patterns,

which enable them to keep repeating non-adjustive responses even when they "know" that they are

behaving poorly.

Philosophical Conditioning

REBT is based on the assumption that what we label our "emotional" reactions are largely caused by our

conscious and unconscious evaluations, interpretations, and philosophies. Thus, we feel anxious or

depressed because we strongly convince ourselves that it is terrible when we fail at something or that

we can't stand the pain of being rejected. We feel hostile because we vigorously believe that people

who behave unfairly to us absolutely should not act the way they indubitably do, and that it is utterly

insufferable when they frustrate us.

Like stoicism, a school of philosophy which existed some two thousand years ago. Rational emotive

behavior therapy holds that there are virtually no good reasons why human beings have to make

themselves very neurotic, no matter what kind of negative stimuli impinge on them. It gives them full

leeway to feel strong negative emotions, such as sorrow, regret, displeasure, annoyance, rebellion, and

determination to change social conditions. It believes, however, that when they experience certain self-

defeating and unhealthy emotions (such as panic, depression, worthlessness, or rage), they are usually

adding an unrealistic and illogical hypothesis to their empirically-based view that their own acts or those

of others are reprehensible or inefficient and that something would better be done about changing

them.

Rational emotive behavior therapists -- often within the first session or two of seeing a client -- can

almost always put their finger on a few central irrational philosophies of life which this client

vehemently believes. They can show clients how these ideas inevitably lead to emotional problems and

hence to presenting clinical symptoms, can demonstrate exactly how they forthrightly question and

challenge these ideas, and can often induce them to work to uproot them and to replace them with

scientifically testable hypotheses about themselves and the world which are not likely to get them into

future neurotic difficulties.

12 Irrational Ideas That Cause and Sustain Neurosis

Rational therapy holds that certain core irrational ideas, which have been clinically observed, are at the

root of most neurotic disturbance. They are:

1. The idea that it is a dire necessity for adults to be loved by significant others for almost

everything they do -- instead of their concentrating on their own self-respect, on winning

approval for practical purposes, and on loving rather than on being loved.

2. The idea that certain acts are awful or wicked, and that people who perform such acts should be

severely damned -- instead of the idea that certain acts are self-defeating or antisocial, and that

people who perform such acts are behaving stupidly, ignorantly, or neurotically, and would be

better helped to change. People's poor behaviors do not make them rotten individuals.

3. The idea that it is horrible when things are not the way we like them to be -- instead of the idea

that it is too bad, that we would better try to change or control bad conditions so that they

become more satisfactory, and, if that is not possible, we had better temporarily accept and

gracefully lump their existence.

4. The idea that human misery is invariably externally caused and is forced on us by outside people

and events -- instead of the idea that neurosis is largely caused by the view that we take of

unfortunate conditions.

5. The idea that if something is or may be dangerous or fearsome we should be terribly upset and

endlessly obsess about it -- instead of the idea that one would better frankly face it and render it

non-dangerous and, when that is not possible, accept the inevitable.

6. The idea that it is easier to avoid than to face life difficulties and self-responsibilities -- instead of

the idea that the so-called easy way is usually much harder in the long run.

7. The idea that we absolutely need something other or stronger or greater than ourself on which

to rely -- instead of the idea that it is better to take the risks of thinking and acting less

dependently.

8. The idea that we should be thoroughly competent, intelligent, and achieving in all possible

respects -- instead of the idea that we would better do rather than always need to do well and

accept ourself as a quite imperfect creature, who has general human limitations and specific

fallibilities.

9. The idea that because something once strongly affected our life, it should indefinitely affect it --

instead of the idea that we can learn from our past experiences but not be overly-attached to

or prejudiced by them.

10. The idea that we must have certain and perfect control over things -- instead of the idea that the

world is full of probability and chance and that we can still enjoy life despite this.

11. The idea that human happiness can be achieved by inertia and inaction -- instead of the ideal

that we tend to be happiest when we are vitally absorbed in creative pursuits, or when we are

devoting ourselves to people or projects outside ourselves.

12. The idea that we have virtually no control over our emotions and that we cannot help feeling

disturbed about things -- instead of the idea that we have real control over our destructive

emotions if we choose to work at changing the Must Must Must hypotheses which we often

employ to create them.

Main Differences from Other Schools

1. De-emphasis of early childhood. While REBT accepts the fact that neurotic states are sometimes

originally learned or aggravated by early teaching or irrational beliefs by one's family and by society, it

holds that these early-acquired irrationalities are not automatically sustained over the years by

themselves.

Instead, they are very actively and creatively re-instilled by the individuals themselves. In many cases

the therapist spends very little time on the clients' parents or family upbringing; and yet helps them to

bring about significant changes in their disturbed patterns of living. The therapist demonstrates that no

matter what the clients' basic irrational philosophy of life, nor when and how they acquired it, they are

presently disturbed because they still believe this self-defeating world- and self-view. If they will observe

exactly what they are irrationally thinking in the present, and will challenge and question these self-

statements they will usually improve significantly.

2. Emphasis on deep philosophical change and scientific thinking. Because of its belief that human

neurotic disturbance is largely ideologically or philosophically based, REBT strives for a thorough-going

philosophic reorientation of a people's outlook on life, rather than for a mere removal of any of their

mental or psychosomatic symptoms. It teaches the clients, for example, that human adults do not need

to be accepted or loved, even though it is highly desirable that they be.

REBT encourages individuals to be healthily sad or regretful when they are rejected, frustrated, or

deprived. But it tries to teach them how to overcome feelings of intense hurt, self-deprecation, and

depression. As in science, clients are shown how to question the dubious hypotheses that they construct

about themselves and others. If they believe (as alas, millions of us do), that they are worthless because

they perform certain acts badly, they are not merely taught to ask, "What is really bad about my acts?"

and "Where is the evidence that they are wrong or unethical?" More importantly, they are shown how

to ask themselves, "Granted that my acts may be mistaken, why am I a totally bad person for

performing them? Where is the evidence that I must always be right in order to consider myself

worthy? Assuming that it is preferable for me to act well rather than badly, why do I have to do what is

preferable?"

Similarly, when people perceive (let us suppose, correctly) the erroneous and unjust acts of others, and

become enraged at these others, they are shown how to stop and ask themselves, "Why is my

hypothesis that the people who committed these errors and injustices are no damned good a true

hypothesis? Granted that it would be better if they acted more competently or fairly, why should

they have to do what would be better?" REBT teaches that to be human is to be fallible, and that if we

are to get on in life with minimal upset and discomfort, we would better accept this reality and then

unanxiously work hard to become a little less fallible.

3. Use of psychological homework. REBT agrees with most Freudian, neo-Freudian, Adlerian, and

Jungian schools that acquiring insight, especially so-called emotional insight, into the source of their

neurosis is a most important part of people's corrective teaching. It distinguishes sharply, however,

between so-called intellectual and emotional insight, and operationally defines emotional insight as

individuals' knowing or seeing the cause of their problems and working, in a determined and energetic

manner, to apply this knowledge to the solution of these problems. The rational emotive behavior

therapist helps clients to acknowledge that there is usually no other way for him to get better but by

their continually observing, questioning, and challenging their own belief-systems, and by their working

and practicing to change their own irrational beliefs by verbal and behavioral counter-propagandizing

activity. In REBT, actual homework assignments are frequently agreed upon in individual and group

therapy. Assignments may include dating a person whom the client is afraid to ask for a date; looking

for a new job; experimentally returning to live with a husband with whom one has previously

continually quarreled; etc. The therapist quite actively tries to encourage clients to undertake such

assignments as an integral part of the therapeutic process.

The REBT practitioner is able to give clients unconditional rather than conditional positive regard

because the REBT philosophy holds that no humans are to be damned for anything, no matter how

execrable their pacts may be. Because of the therapist's unconditional acceptance of them as a human,

and actively teaching clients how to fully accept themselves, clients are able to express their feelings

more openly and to stop rating themselves even when they acknowledge the inefficiency or immorality

of some of their acts.

In many highly important ways, then, rational emotive behavior therapy utilizes expressive-experimental

methods and behavioral techniques. It is not, however, primarily interested in helping people ventilate

emotion and feel better, but in showing them how they can truly get better, and lead to happier, non-

self-defeating, self-actualized lives.

The ABC’s of Feelings and Behaviors

American psychologist Albert Ellis, the originator of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), was one

of the first to systematically show how beliefs determine the way human beings feel and behave. Dr.

Ellis developed the 'ABC’ model to demonstrate this.

'A’ refers to whatever started things off: a circumstance, event or experience - or just thinking about

something which has happened. This triggers off thoughts ('B’), which in turn create a reaction - feelings

and behaviors - ('C’).

To see this in operation, let’s meet Alan. A young man who had always tended to doubt himself, Alan

imagined that other people did not like him, and that they were only friendly because they pitied him.

One day, a friend passed him in the street without returning his greeting - to which Alan reacted

negatively. Here is the event, Alan’s beliefs, and his reaction, put into the ABC format:

What started things off:

A. Friend passed me in the street without speaking to me.

B. Beliefs about A.:

1. He’s ignoring me. He doesn’t like me.

2. I could end up without friends for ever.

3. That would be terrible.

4. For me to be happy and feel worthwhile, people must like me.

5. I’m unacceptable as a friend - so I must be worthless as a person.

C. Reaction:

Feelings: worthless, depressed.

Behaviors: avoiding people generally.

Now, someone who thought differently about the same event would react in another way:

A. What started things off:

Friend passed me in the street without speaking to me.

B. Beliefs about A.:

1.He didn’t ignore me deliberately. He may not have seen me.

2.He might have something on his mind.

3.I’d like to help if I can.

C. Reaction:

Feelings: Concerned.

Behaviours: Went to visit friend, to see how he is.

These examples show how different ways of viewing the same event can lead to different

reactions. The same principle operates in reverse: when people react alike, it is because they are

thinking in similar ways.

The rules we live by

What we tell ourselves in specific situations depends on the rules we hold. Everyone has a set of general

'rules’. Some will be rational, others will be self-defeating or irrational. Each person’s set is different.

Mostly subconscious, these rules determine how we react to life. When an event triggers off a train of

thought, what we consciously think depends on the general rules we subconsciously apply to the event.

Let us say that you hold the general rule: 'To be worthwhile, I must succeed at everything I do.’ You

happen to fail an examination; an event which, coupled with the underlying rule, leads you to the

conclusion: 'I’m not worthwhile.’

Underlying rules are generalizations: one rule can apply to many situations. If you believe, for example:

'I can’t stand discomfort and pain and must avoid them at all costs,’ you might apply this to the dentist,

to work, to relationships, and to life in general.

Why be concerned about your rules? While most will be valid and helpful, some will be self-defeating.

Faulty rules will lead to faulty conclusions. Take the rule: 'If I am to feel OK about myself, others must

like and approve of me.’ Let us say that your boss tells you off. You may (rightly) think: 'He is angry with

me’ - but you may wrongly conclude: 'This proves I’m a failure.’ And changing the situation (for

instance, getting your boss to like you) would still leave the underlying rule untouched. It would then be

there to bother you whenever some future event triggered it off.

Most self-defeating rules are a variation of one or other of the '12 Self-defeating Beliefs’ listed

at the end of this article. Take a look at this list now. Which ones do you identify with? Which are

the ones that guide your reactions?

What are self-defeating beliefs?

To describe a belief as self-defeating, or irrational, is to say that:

It distorts reality (it’s a misinterpretation of what’s happening); or it involves some illogical

ways of evaluating yourself, others, and the world around you: awfulizing, can’t stand it,

demanding and people-rating;

It blocks you from achieving your goals and purposes;

It creates extreme emotions which persist, and which distress and immobilize; and

It leads to behaviors that harm yourself, others, and your life in general.

Four ways to screw yourself up !

There are four typical ways of thinking that will make you feel bad or behave in dysfunctional

ways:

1. Awfulizing: using words like 'awful’, 'terrible’, 'horrible’, 'catastrophic’ to describe something - e.g.

'It would be terrible if …’, 'It’s the worst thing that could happen’, 'That would be the end of the

world’.

2. Cant-stand-it-itis: viewing an event or experience as unbearable - e.g. 'I can’t stand it’, 'It’s

absolutely unbearable’, I’ll die if I get rejected’.

3. Demanding: using 'shoulds’ (moralizing) or 'musts’ (musturbating) - e.g. 'I should not have done

that, 'I must not fail’, 'I need to be loved’, 'I have to have a drink’.

4. People-rating: labeling or rating your total self (or someone else’s) - e.g. 'I’m stupid /hopeless

/useless /worthless.’

Rational thinking

Rational thinking presents a vivid contrast to its illogical opposite:

It is based on reality - it emphasizes seeing things as they really are, keeping their badness

in perspective, tolerating frustration and discomfort, preferring rather than demanding, and

self-acceptance;

It helps you achieve your goals and purposes;

It creates emotions you can handle; and

It helps you behave in ways which promote your aims and survival.

We are not talking about so-called 'positive thinking’. Rational thinking is realistic thinking. It is

concerned with facts - the real world - rather than subjective opinion or wishful thinking.

Realistic thinking leads to realistic emotions. Negative feelings aren’t always bad for you. Neither

are all positive feelings beneficial. Feeling happy when someone you love has died, for example,

may hinder you from grieving properly. Or to be unconcerned in the face of real danger could put

your survival at risk. Realistic thinking avoids exaggeration of both kinds - negative and positive.

From Self-defeat to Rational Living

12 Self-defeating Beliefs and 12 Rational Beliefs

1. I need love and approval from those significant to me - and I must avoid disapproval from any source.

1. Love and approval are good things to have, and I'll seek them when I can. But they are not

necessities - I can survive (even though uncomfortably) without them.

2. To be worthwhile as a person I must achieve, succeed at what ever I do, and make no mistakes.

2. I'll always seek to achieve as much as I can - but unfailing success and ompetence is unrealistic.

Better I just accept myself as a person, separate to my performance.

3. People should always do the right thing. When they behave obnoxiously, unfairly or selfishly, they be

blamed and punished.

3. It's unfortunate that people sometimes do bad things. But humans are not yet perfect - and

upsetting myself won't change that reality.

4. Things must be the way I want them to be - otherwise life will be intolerable.

4. There is no law which says that things have to be the way I want. It's disappointing, but I can stand

it - especially if I avoid catastrophizing.

5. My unhappiness is caused by things outside my control - so there is little I can do to feel any better.

5. Many external factors are outside my control. But it is my thoughts (not the externals) which cause

my feelings. And I can learn to control my thoughts.

6. I must worry about things that could be dangerous, unpleasant or frightening - otherwise they

might happen.

6. Worrying about things that might go wrong won't stop them happening. It will, though, ensure I

get upset and disturbed right now!

7. I can be happier by avoiding life's difficulties, unpleasantness, and responsibilities.

7. Avoiding problems is only easier in the short term - putting things off can make them worse later

on. It also gives me more time to worry about them!

8. Everyone needs to depend on someone stronger than themselves.

8. Relying on someone else can lead to dependent behavior. It is OK to seek help - as long as I learn

to trust myself and my own judgment.

9. Events in my past are the cause of my problems - and they continue to influence my feelings and

behaviors now.

9. The past can't influence me now. My current beliefs cause my reactions. I may have learned these

beliefs in the past, but can choose to analyze and change them in the present.

10. I should become upset when other people have problems and feel unhappy when they’re sad.

10. I can't change other people's problems and bad feelings by getting myself upset.

11. I should not have to feel discomfort and pain - I can't stand them and must avoid them at all costs.

11. Why should I in particular not feel discomfort and pain? I don't like them, but I can stand it. Also,

my life would be very restricted if I always avoided discomfort.

12. Every problem should have an ideal solution, and it is intolerable when one can't be found.

12. Problems usually have many possible solutions. It is better to stop waiting for the perfect one

and get on with the best available. I can live with less than the ideal.

Applying for CSTF requires completion of an application, including permission to perform a

criminal background check. Felonies disqualify you from seeking CSTF status unless extreme

circumstances can be shown. The submission of the $295.00 Certification fee for 48 month

certification and participation or $350.00 for a permanent certification so long as you keep up

with the educational requirements.

Certified Spirit Thinking Facilitator Requirements 1. Read Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment

a. While reading, keep a journal and make notes where you have questions.

b. Keep a journal and write down insights your gain from the text. Normally this

will be one or two paragraphs per chapter.

c. Complete the exercises in the second half of the book.

d. Complete the 30 Day Guide.

2. Read two new books from any of the following topics and provide a minimum 1000

word summary of each book.

a. Spirituality

b. Spiritual Development

c. Near Death Experience

d. Spiritual Recovery

e. NOTE: If you select Crossing Twice: Answers from the Source (2009, Dr. Reece

W. Manley, Advocate USA Publishing) for your supplemental texts you will only

have to read it. It covers enough material to count for two books because of its

concentration area.

3. Prepare a sample of Spirit Thinking Interventions for any two specific client problems.

Do not use the same examples of the ones used in the Spirit Thinking journal.

4. Participate by phone or video chat in a practice Spirit Thinking session with a CSTF-M.

When you are ready for this, please write cstf@spiritthinking.net and we will arrange for

the session within one week of the request.

5. Submit all materials to: Dr. Reece W. Manley, DD, M.Ed., CSTF-M, 15530 Lewis Place

Ste. 4729, Addison, TX 75001.

6. Receive your Certificate or a notice of Incomplete Credential Materials. Don’t worry,

you’ll be given three opportunities to submit acceptable material.

7. Be current on any monies due for the Certification.

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Because of your many accomplishments, we are offering your unique opportunity to save on

what will become one of the most sought after certification in the helping professional industry.

The usual fee for the Certified Spirit Thinking Facilitator Certification is $295.00. However, this

certificate can be used to save $100.00 off the normal course fee.

The fee includes:

1. One copy of Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide to Enlightenment.

2. Certification Training Guide

3. One Hour Session for Practice of Spirit Thinking with a CSTF-M.

4. The License to Use Spirit Thinking Series with your clients, including the following:

a. 50 Brochures

b. 50 Business Card Promotions

c. 50 Personalized Mastery of Spirit Thinking Certificates for your clients.

5. Access to the Spirit Thinking Professional Network.

6. The license to use the Spirit Thinking name, Spirit Thinking Certified Provider Center and

the professional initials CSTF after your name so long as it appears CSTF®

There is no other program that carries the “meat” Spirit Thinking will provide for those seeking

spiritual development. You will have exclusive use to all of the above in your ZIP Code and you

will receive any and all referrals generated by SpiritThinking.net for your immediate area.

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your application BEFORE January 14, 2010. Immediately submit the application by email, fax or

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(Las Vegas, NV) 12-01-09 Spirit Thinking® Professional Certification is now available to mental health

professionals interested in offering the registered process to their clients in their practice. “We have

been fully reviewed by licensing agencies, endorsed by appropriate credentialed individuals and are now

ready to begin training in the Spirit Thinking methodology of counseling clients,” says Craig Williams,

PhD, Psychologist and Developer Advising Psychologist for Advocate USA Publishing.

Imagine an approach to healing the emotional wounds of clients so fresh, so different that it was

granted a patent consideration by the United States Trademark and Patent Office,” begins Dr. Williams,

“The Spirit Thinking® process is the first of its kind to offer cognitive psychology combined with specific

spiritual principles to bring about fast and lasting change in the thinking patterns of clients suffering with

depression, anxiety, addiction and a host of other disorders. In short, this will change how you approach

counseling.

The need for training others in Spirit Thinking® was almost obvious from the beginning. “Client

participation exit polls were showing an 86 percent of clients rating the Spirit Thinking® process. No

other spirituality based helping process has ever ranked this high in client rated effectiveness,” says

Craig. “And, this was after just four sessions, including the introductory orientation.”

The Spirit Thinking® Process™ works for clients by allow them to read Spirit Thinking: Your 30 Day Guide

to Enlightenment®, work with the included exercises, perform journaling and keep a 30 day record of

their growth. The Certified Spirit Thinking Facilitator® (CSTF™) then takes the client through the steps of

the exercises and then applies working the Spirit Thinking process over the next three sessions. At the

end of the fourth session, clients are eligible for a certificate. However, the true gain is the ability to

think positively and independently through their understanding of a loving, accepting and empowering

Creator.

Professionals interested in obtaining CSTF™ certification are invited to respond quickly. “We have

hundreds of lives experiencing Spirit Thinking and we expect the grassroots to fuel a fire of demand for

the training. We will be limiting our CSTF™ designations to one per ZIP code to ensure availability of

clients and trained CSTF ™.

Professionals will wish to note the CSTF is not a license to practice any type of counseling and carries no

legal recognition at this time. “It takes years to go through that process,” says Dr. Williams, “but we are

in the pipeline. For now, CSTF is a designation to be used only with a base professional license or to be

used with pastoral counselors. Most pastoral counselors are able to practice under their rights of

ordination because of the U.S. Constitution. Upon successful completion of certification, graduates are

licensed to use the CSTF designation when advertising their professional credentials.

Contact cstf@spiritthinking.net for more information.©