Structural family therapyin chronic illness
Intervention can help produce a more adaptive family structure
JAMES L. GRIFFITH,M.D. #{149}MELISSA E. GRIFFITH, M.S.N.
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ABSTRACT: A strong argument canbe made that the family rather thanthe individual patient is the appropri-ate unit of treatment for the repercus-sions of chronic illness. Familystructures can be assessed in thelight of boundaries, hierarchy, alli-ances and coalitions, and repetitivebehavioral sequences organizedaround the symptom, so as to enablethe family therapist to design appro-priate interventions. Specific exam-ples are presented to illuminate thisapproach. At best, the chronically illpatient can be freed of considerableemotional suffering even when theillness cannot be cured.
Dr. Griffith is assistant professor of psychiatryand instructor in neurology, and Ms. Griffith isclinical instructor in psychiatry, both at the Uni-versity of Mississippi School of Medicine. Re-print requests to Dr. Griffith, Department of Psy-chiatry and Human Behavior, University of Mis-sissippi Medical Center, 2500 North State St.,Jackson, Ml 39216-4505.
Cbionic illnesses differ from acute
illnesses, even if the medical di-
agnosis seemingly is similar for both.
The two particularly differ in regard to
how each is experienced by the family
with an ill member. In an acute illness,
family living can be put on hold with
the expectation that the sick relative
will respond fully to treatment, and
then life will return to normal. In
chronic illness, there is no expectation
that the problem will disappear. The
disease and the sick family member
become part of a recast family.
The main reasons for the belief that
the family, not the individual patient,
should be the essential unit of treat-
ment in chronic disease are as follows:
1. While hospitals, physicians, nur-
ses, and other health-care profession-
als provide the bulk of care in acute ill-
nesses, families provide most of it for
patients with chronic diseases.
2. When treatment is based on the
family unit, unused family strengths
and resources can be identified and
optimally employed. This often im-
proves the quality of health care and
reduces the cost of treatment.
3. In recent years, powerful techni-
ques have been developed in family
therapy for changing the behavior of
an individual by first changing the be-
havior of the family to which the indi-
vidual belongs. This is particularly
useful when a patient shows behavior
that is maladaptive for health but can-
notbe easily changed by working with
that person (as in dementia), when
rapid change is needed, or when fam-
ily behavior itself is judged to main-
tam illness in the patient.’
A general approach to the family af-
fected by chronic illness has emerged
from family systems medicine, which
combines family therapy and medi-
cine . A systematic assessment of fam-
ily structure2 serves as the diagnostic
tool for understanding family behav-
ior organized around a chronic illness,
while evaluation ofthe stage of family
development3 contributes to a blue-
print for changes in structure to cope
effectively with chronic illness.
I Family structureFamily structures are the “relatively
enduring interactional patterns that
serve to arrange or organize a family’s
component subunits into somewhat
constant relationships.”4 Many prob-
lems arising in chronic illnesses are
due to dysfunctional structures that
develop as the family struggles to cope
with the illness.3’5
In order for the family as a group to
survive and for its members to grow
and differentiate, each family creates
an organization in which the subunits
take on different tasks, roles, and re-
sponsibilities.2 In the typical Ameri-
can family most of the executive func-
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tions are performed by a subsystem of
two parents, who maintain a consider-
ably private relationship with each
other, into which the children do not
have license to intrude. The children
form another subunit, in which they
are given age-appropriate privileges
and responsibilities by the parents.
While enormous variation can exist in
the kinds of family structure that can
effectively function within various
subcultures of a society, some struc-
tures ale universal. For example, ev-
ery family must have some sort of
power hierarchy, and every family
needs an executive subsystem whose
members complement the functioning
of one another.
Families with flexible, balanced
structures are resilient and able to cope
well with the stress of chronic illness,
while families with inappropriate or
excessively rigid structures generate
symptoms in their members. Family
therapy seeks to create structures that
are optimally adaptive for a family
confronted by chronic illness. Four
aspects of family structure are regular-
ly assessed for the planning of ther-
apy: boundaries, hierarchy, alliances
and coalitions, and repetitive behav-
ioral sequences organized around the
symptom .�
I BoundariesA boundary represents a set of stable,
repetitive interpersonal behaviors be-
tween two persons or groups of peo-
ple, and it defines the separateness
between them.4 A family normally has
a boundary between its members and
outside persons, eg, only family
members may ordinarily be invited to
Thanksgiving dinner. There normally
is a clearly defined boundary between
the parental couple and the children.
Inappropriate boundaries in the
family create maladaptive subunits
within it. A rigid, impermeable
boundary around a parent and one of
the children may so distance the two
spouses from each other that effective
parenting is impossible. Boundaries
too permeable do not allow individual
or family subunits to have needed au-
tonomy and privacy, thus creating en-
meshment. At the other extreme,
boundaries too impermeable produce
emotional disengagement among
family members, so that effective
communication does not occur. Each
type of boundary problem is associat-
ed with psychiatric or psychosomatic
symptoms among family members �2
In chronic illness , the need for some
family members to care for the ill per-
son easily gives rise to enmeshment
between the caretakers and the pa-
tient, as in the following vignette.
Case 1A 17-year-old honor student was inhigh school when she sustained a Se-vere closed head injury. She was laterunable to do college work or to be reg-ularly employed. She was still livingwith her parents when the family wasreferred fortherapyfive years after theaccident.
Prior to the accident, the family hadgone on camping vacations and heldcookouts with neighbors. Afterwards
the worried parents so centered their
attention on the injured daughter thatthe vacations stopped and social rela-tionships outside the family withered.The father took an extra job to pay forcontinuing medical bills, and his pres-ence in the home thus diminished. Asthe mother focused her attention oncaring for the daughter, the marital re-lationship became perfunctory forboth spouses.
The family therapist sought first tostrengthen the boundary around theparental couple by arranging for thedaughter to stay with relatives so thatthe two spouses could have dinnerand attend the movies by themselves,and then later go on vacation by them-selves. Relationships were fosteredbetween each family member andpersons outside the family, through
church and community organizations,and at family reunions. The father anddaughter were assigned some struc-tured times on their own in order toweaken the boundary around themother-daughter dyad . Eventually,the daughter moved into a grouphome as she progressed in a rehabili-tation program to part-time employ-ment.
I HierarchyAn inversion ofpower hierarchies that
creates incongruous hierarchies of
powers may be the single most de-
structive force in the structure of fam-
ilies coping with chronic illness. For
example, the parents of a chronically
ill child may be at the top ofthe power
hierarchy in that they control feeding,
clothing, and medical care. However,
the child may find ways to dominate
the parents by strategically producing
symptoms of illness. In some cases, a
hierarchy that functioned for many
years may be disrupted by illness and
the therapist may work with the family
to invert this hierarchy into one that
works better for chronic illness.
Case 2A 60-year-old patient embarked onhemodialysis for end-stage renal dis-ease. She became increasingly un-able to function effectively as wife andmother over nine months of dialysis,abusing sedatives, failing to adhere todietary restrictions, not performinghousework, spending money exces-sively, and exploding in irrational an-ger towards family members.
Neuropsychiatric evaluation foundsevere deficits indicative of a frontallobe syndrome, probably arising fromearly Alzheimer’s disease. This was aparticular problem owing to the struc-ture of her family. The husband was apassive, dependent man who had al-ways deferred to his wife in the mar-riage. His wife had been a strong ma-triarch, dominating the lives of her hus-
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band and children. Now she ruled thefamily as an irrational tyrant, continu-ing her old roles but no longer compe-tent in them.
Family therapy sessions were de-voted to movingthe husband to the topof the family hierarchy of power byturning to him for decisions while re-straining his wife’s intrusions, pressinghim in sessions to set limits on her be-havior, enlisting support from the chil-dren when his efforts were insufficient,and pointing out when their behaviorencouraged the mother in her undesir-able actions. Although she was infuri-ated by her loss ofcontrol ofthe family,the effects of her erratic behavior di-minished.
I Alliances and coalitionsAlliances consist of two or more fam-
ily members who join together, overt-
ly or covertly, to achieve a positive
goal. Coalitions develop when family
members join together, overtly or co-
vertly, for a negative goal, usually to
oppose the influence of other family
members.2 Secret coalitions that cross
generational boundaries, such as a
grandparent covertly encouraging a
child to resist parental directives, pre-
dictably produce symptoms in one or
more family members.7 In chronic ill-
ness, primary caretakers and the sick
member sometimes bond together in
an intimate relationship through
which they control much of the fami-
ly’s behavior, while other family
members may unite to oppose their
power.
Case3A 37-year-old woman was referred forintractable depression following a se-vere closed head injury ten monthsearlier with major residual deficits in at-tention, memory, and language. Aftera suicide attempt she had failed to re-spond to a variety of antidepressantand antianxiety agents as well as to sixweeks of inpatient psychotherapy.
From a family evaluation it waslearned that her mother had becomebedridden from rheumatic heart dis-ease when the present patient waseight years old. The family had sur-vived by means ofthe five children as-suming full responsibility for thehousehold. The patient bitterly re-membered her childhood as a trau-matic experience. She grew up as anindependent, self-sufficient personwho vowed that she would never placeresponsibility for her well-being andhome upkeep on her children.
Following the head injury, the familysought diligently to support the pa-tient. Her own mother, now recovered,called daily and visited to do house-hold chores. The husband and theirson altered their schedules sothat oneorthe other could be with the patient atall times.
The wife resented her mother’spresence, feeling that “she wasn’t amother when I was growing up, so Idon’t want her to try to be one now.”But she feared hurting her mother’sfeelings and did notaskthat she ceaseher attentive caretaking. The wife feltanger over the loss of her autonomy,guilt that she disrupted the lives of herhusband and teenage son, and worst,despairthat she had betrayed her vownever to be dependent on her childrenfor support. She became progressive-ly more depressed and attempted sui-cide by cutting her wrists. Afterwardsthe husband and son felt compelled towatch her even more closely, whichfurther exacerbated her depression.
In family therapy, the patient’s prob-lems were defined as the “business ofgrownups,” and the son’s attentionwas directed back to his adolescentand school activities with the assur-ance that the therapist and the parentscould handle the family’s problems.After careful prior guidance from theclinician, the wife met alone with hermother and tactfully butfirmly set limitson her overinvolvement. The husbandwas directed to plan brief vacationsand other activities of genuine interestto himself and his son.
The caretaking alliances betweenthe father, son, and the grandmotherwere gradually inactivated, and thepatient’s autonomy and privacy were
reestablished. Her agitation improvedover nine weeks and therapy shifted toa focus on rehabilitation.
I Symptomatic behavioral sequencesEvery family has stable, recurrent Se-
quences of behaviors among its mem-
bers in which the particular behavior
of one member triggers that of another
member in a circular fashion.4’7 For
example, an asthmatic child may pre-
dictably wheeze whenever the parents
start fighting, and then they stop out of
concern for the child.
Case 4
A 1 6-year-old was referred for evalua-tion of an intractable seizure disorder
and family conflicts. He had had sei-zures since infancy, but their frequen-
cy had recently increased to daily, de-
spite trials with several anticonvul-sants. The parents argued about hisillness, with the father angrily asserting
that the son exaggerated his symp-
toms, while the distraught mother be-lieved that he had a serious and made-quately treated neurologic disorder.
Every morning, in the final hours ofsleep, the boy had a seizure. His moth-er would run to his aid from the kitchen,where she could hear his bed shakingas she prepared an early breakfast forher husband. A family evaluation
tracked the steps of the behavioral cy-
cle around the daily seizure. A simple
intervention was prescribed. The fa-
ther would interrupt his breakfast eachmorning to check on the son when thepresumed seizure occurred, while themotherwould remain in the kitchen. No
early morning seizures occurredthereafter.
I Family developmentIn addition to changing the family
structure as observed at the present
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time, most family therapists utilize a
developmental perspective to guide
families through predictably difficult
stages of growth.389 Families, like in-
dividuals , move through a sequence
of stages of growth over time . A com-monly used staging offamily develop-
ment is29:
1 . Courtship
2. Marriage and becoming a couple
3 . Childbirth and young children
4. Middle marriage and school-age
children
5 . Children leaving home
6. Retirement and old age
As a general rule, families tend to
show stable behavior within a stage.
However, the transition from one
stage to the next, a change made nec-
essary by time and biology, is stressful
even in normal situations. Stages in
which a new member enters the fam-
ily, or an established one leaves, are
especially difficult to traverse. When
a family stalls and is unable to move to
a new stage of development, psychiat-
ric or psychosomatic symptoms com-
monly arise among its members.9
The appearance of a chronic illness
typically stops development at the
current stage, so that the family con-
tinues to operate with the organization
that existed when the illness first ap-
peared, as if the family has become
“frozen in time. “3.8 The normal pro-
cess of family development is largely
an orderly shifting over time of bound-
aries among family members: the for-
mation of a boundary around the new-
ly married couple that separates them
from families of origin; reopening of
that boundary to include grandparents
when young children arrive; and re-
forming of a boundary around the two
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I ConclusionFamily-based treatment of the reper-
� cussions of chronic illness opens new
possibilities not available to the clini-
� cian who focuses on the disabled mdi-
: vidual alone. In the best of circum-
� stances, the family can become a pros-
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functions that the patient’s impaired
body may never again furnish.
Cultivation ofa family’s unseen re-
habilitative potential begins with sys-
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ventions to create structures in the
family that are flexible to accommo-
date changing needs and that nurture
the well-being and growth of each
member.
An understanding of normal family
development provides an outline for
family growth, so that planning for
predictable crises can occur. When
these tasks are performed effectively
by the clinician, the patient with a
chronic illness can find considerable
improvement in functioning and relief
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