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“The Best Yes” #4
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Page 1: ^The Best Yes #4 · -- Lysa Terkeurst, The Best Yes. a.k.a. The Disease to Please ^We are afraid of people not liking us, not admiring us, not being pleased with us. So we spend the

“The Best Yes” #4

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Do you know what

the “Fosbury Flop” is?

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Do you know whatthe “Fosbury Flop” is?

A technique used in the high jump

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“The Best Yes” #4

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Psalm 111:10 NCV

Wisdom begins with respect for the Lord;those who obey his orders have good understanding.He should be praised forever.

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“The Best Yes” #4

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Wisdom begins with

Wise living (NET)

The good life (MSG)

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respect for the LORD

(KJV) fear

(TLB) reverence

(GNT) honor

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Those who obey his orders

who do his commandments

who do the will of the LORD

who follow his precepts

who practice it [his wisdom]

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have good understanding.

good insight. (HCSB)

good common sense. (CJB)

sound judgment. (GNT)

a teachable heart. (AMP)

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He should be praised forever.

His praise endures forever.

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Psalm 111:10 NCV

Wisdom begins with respect for the Lord;those who obey his orders have good understanding.He should be praised forever.

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“The Best Yes” #4

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My two most

influential words are

“Yes” and “No.”

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How I use “Yes” and “No”

determines

how I set my schedule.

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How I set my schedule

determines

how I live my life.

~

How I live my life

determines

how I spend my soul.

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My two most

influential words are

“Yes” and “No.”

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“What if we, like Fosbury,

decided to flip our current

decision-making technique?”

-- Lysa Terkeurst, The Best Yes

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“Here’s the reality of

our current technique:

Other people’s requests

dictate the decisions we make.”

-- Lysa Terkeurst, The Best Yes

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a.k.a.

The Disease to Please

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“We are afraid of people

not liking us,

not admiring us,

not being pleased with us.

So we spend the best of who we are doing a million things

that we know

we aren’t supposed to do.”

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“I will not let

the awkward disappointment

of others

keep me from

my Best Yes appointments

with God”

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Someone with

the “Disease to Please”

lets the disappointments of others

keep them from making

Best Yes decisions.

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“As hard as it is

to disappoint a person

in order to keep

your appointment with God,

remember that …

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on the other side of awkward … awaits a divine appointment

and a promised land

that you don’t want to miss.”

-- Lysa Terkeurst, The Best Yes

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“It’s about learning how to say ‘yes’ …not because

we’re guilted into saying ‘yes,’

or pressured into saying ‘yes,’

or because we couldn’t figure out how to say ‘no’.”

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“Rather, we sense God’s invitation...

to say a Best Yes.

It’s a new way of being intentional with playing the part

God wants us to play.”

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“Why not

completely spend yourself on

the assignments that are yours,

those moments you dare not miss,

the calling that pulses in your soul,

the love you and only you can offer?”

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“A Best Yes will require

having the courage to say

‘no’ to other things,

‘no’ to wrong things,

‘no’ to some seemingly good things.”

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“I will not let

the awkward disappointment

of others

keep me from

my Best Yes appointments

with God”

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Communion

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“Lord,

I want to run this race to win;

be my coach!

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“Lord, unrush me.

Set my life to your rhythm of

connection, compassion,

and calling.

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“Heal me so that

I will not let

the awkward disappointment

of others

keep me from

my Best Yes appointments

with You, Lord”

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“Amen!”

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“The Best Yes” #4


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