TheEmotionVocabWheelUnlabeledemotionsoftengomisunderstood,whichleadstoirrationalchoicesandcounterproductiveactions.PeoplewithhighEQs(likeIQsbutforEmotionalIntelligence)mastertheiremotionsbecausetheyunderstandthem.Theydosobyexpandingtheiremotionalvocabulary.Forexample,whilemanypeoplemightdescribethemselvesassimplyfeeling"bad,"emotionallyintelligentpeoplecanpinpointwhethertheyfeel"irritable,""frustrated,”,"or"anxious."Themorespecificyourwordchoice,thebetterinsightyouhaveintoexactlyhowyouarefeeling,whatcausedit,andwhatyoushoulddoaboutit.Beingspecificactuallyhelpstoputyourmindateasebecauseyoursubconsciousvaluesbeingunderstood---evenifitisself-awareness.Beingspecificalsoenablesyoutopinpointtheissueandhelpsothersunderstandwhat'sgoingoninyourhead.Communicationisamajoraspectofemotionalintelligence,butyoucan'tcommunicatesomethingifyoudon'tknowhowtoidentifyit.Thenexttimeyoufeelacertainway,trytocomewiththemostaccuratewordthatdescribesitusingtheEmotionalVocabularyWheel.