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The Mastery of Love

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The wounded mindThe wounded mind All of us are masters, we have the power to create and rule our All of us are masters, we have the power to create and rule our

own livesown lives We master whatever we believe we areWe master whatever we believe we are How do you apply your power? What kind of mastery do you How do you apply your power? What kind of mastery do you

have?have? After practice, you can become a master of…anger, jealousy, After practice, you can become a master of…anger, jealousy,

sadness, self-rejectionsadness, self-rejection All our drama and suffering comes from practice = masteryAll our drama and suffering comes from practice = mastery Human mind is sick with a disease called fear (anger, hate, Human mind is sick with a disease called fear (anger, hate,

sadness, envy and hypocrisysadness, envy and hypocrisy Denial system – mask / restricts yourself – the dream of hellDenial system – mask / restricts yourself – the dream of hell Hook attention – domestication – need to be acceptedHook attention – domestication – need to be accepted A man and a woman make an image of what they want to beA man and a woman make an image of what they want to be

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The loss of innocenceThe loss of innocence

Emotional body – tuned to loveEmotional body – tuned to love Alarm system – fear – domesticate – injusticeAlarm system – fear – domesticate – injustice Hook the attention – emotional poison is Hook the attention – emotional poison is

transferred / releasedtransferred / released We punish ourselvesWe punish ourselves All the beliefs that make us suffer – parasiteAll the beliefs that make us suffer – parasite We are never going to be perfectWe are never going to be perfect

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The man that didn’t believe in loveThe man that didn’t believe in love

Love is like a drugLove is like a drug PossessivePossessive Provider manipulate vs. addictionProvider manipulate vs. addiction Fear relationship based on controlFear relationship based on control Afraid to be alone – endure the sufferingAfraid to be alone – endure the suffering Met “love doesn’t exist” Vulnerable – selfishnessMet “love doesn’t exist” Vulnerable – selfishness Put the star in her hands – doubt –overwhelmingPut the star in her hands – doubt –overwhelming Making someone else responsible for happinessMaking someone else responsible for happiness Exchange rings?Exchange rings?

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The track of love, the track of fearThe track of love, the track of fear

Emotions – fear (95%) and love (5%)Emotions – fear (95%) and love (5%) Characteristics: love has no obligations, no Characteristics: love has no obligations, no

resistance, no expectations, based on respect, resistance, no expectations, based on respect, ruthless, have compassion, responsible, kind, ruthless, have compassion, responsible, kind, generous, unconditionalgenerous, unconditional

Track of love = justiceTrack of love = justice You are only responsible for your half in the You are only responsible for your half in the

relationshiprelationship

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The perfect relationshipThe perfect relationship

You are what you are – be honest with yourselfYou are what you are – be honest with yourself Love someone just the way he / she isLove someone just the way he / she is The right one? Don’t need to changeThe right one? Don’t need to change Closely aligned – a key in a lockClosely aligned – a key in a lock Don’t invent in people what is not thereDon’t invent in people what is not there Love and accept yourself just the way you areLove and accept yourself just the way you are Relationship is an art – ½ ½ Relationship is an art – ½ ½ Service – self-loveService – self-love

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The magical kitchenThe magical kitchen You already have all the love you needYou already have all the love you need We can’t see that loveWe can’t see that love Love hurts – riskLove hurts – risk Self-love before you can love someone elseSelf-love before you can love someone else Searching for someone to control and manipulate – selfishSearching for someone to control and manipulate – selfish We reject ourselves for not being perfectWe reject ourselves for not being perfect Most wonderful relationship: with yourselfMost wonderful relationship: with yourself Be happy alone – refuse to beg for loveBe happy alone – refuse to beg for love What makes you happy is love coming out of youWhat makes you happy is love coming out of you Generosity will open up all the doorsGenerosity will open up all the doors

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The dream masterThe dream master

You are responsible for the consequences of You are responsible for the consequences of whatever you do, say or feelwhatever you do, say or feel

The mastery of transformationThe mastery of transformation Control your reactions – change your routineControl your reactions – change your routine Once you have awareness, you have a choiceOnce you have awareness, you have a choice Be responsible for your own lifeBe responsible for your own life Accept yourself just the way you are – self-Accept yourself just the way you are – self-

lovelove

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Sex, the biggest demon in hellSex, the biggest demon in hell

Sex is the biggest sinSex is the biggest sin Beliefs about sex – guilt, shameBeliefs about sex – guilt, shame Believe a lot of lies about sexBelieve a lot of lies about sex The need is in the mind = loveThe need is in the mind = love Split needs: body vs. mindSplit needs: body vs. mind What am I?What am I? Trauma shows you what you are notTrauma shows you what you are not Identity: a force (life)Identity: a force (life)

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The divine huntressThe divine huntress

Artemis – apologizeArtemis – apologize Hunt to fulfill our needsHunt to fulfill our needs Hunt for love – don’t love ourselvesHunt for love – don’t love ourselves Other humans don’t have what we needOther humans don’t have what we need Hunt inside yourselfHunt inside yourself Difficult prey – everything can distract youDifficult prey – everything can distract you Surrender yourself – hunter (predator) = parasite Surrender yourself – hunter (predator) = parasite

(judge - self-abuse)(judge - self-abuse) Hunt every reaction you have = become a warriorHunt every reaction you have = become a warrior

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Seeing with eyes of loveSeeing with eyes of love

Apologize / say I’m sorryApologize / say I’m sorry Mind abuses the body – concepts – we believe themMind abuses the body – concepts – we believe them If you can accept your own body, you accept If you can accept your own body, you accept

everyoneeveryone Your own opinion is what countsYour own opinion is what counts We believe our beauty is our powerWe believe our beauty is our power You are what you believe you areYou are what you believe you are Treat your body with love – a temple of GodTreat your body with love – a temple of God Hunt the parasite and make it surrenderHunt the parasite and make it surrender

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Healing the emotional bodyHealing the emotional body Open the wounds:Open the wounds: Use the truth as a scalpel – the truth will set you freeUse the truth as a scalpel – the truth will set you free 3 rules:3 rules:

Don’t believe meDon’t believe me Don’t believe yourselfDon’t believe yourself Don’t believe anyone elseDon’t believe anyone else

Clean the wounds: forgiveness–act of self-loveClean the wounds: forgiveness–act of self-love Real problem is pride – personal importanceReal problem is pride – personal importance Make a list of everyone you need to forgive:Make a list of everyone you need to forgive: Nothing anyone does, is because of youNothing anyone does, is because of you Self-love is the medicine the accelerates the process of healingSelf-love is the medicine the accelerates the process of healing Love yourself, love your neighbor, love your enemiesLove yourself, love your neighbor, love your enemies You cannot share what you do not haveYou cannot share what you do not have


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