The Roman Catholic Parish of St. Vincent de Paul 250 Bebout Avenue Stirling, New Jersey 07980 Phone: (908) 647-0118 Fax: (908) 647-5992 Parish Office—908-647-0118 In an emergency call 973-222-0720 Parish website: stvincentschurch.org Parish email: [email protected]PASTORAL STAFF Fr. A. Richard Carton, Pastor [email protected]Fr. William (Bill) Mooney Weekend Assistant Elena Bird Zolnick 907-953-0128 Director of Sacred Music [email protected]Vincent G. Clarke 908-647-4926 Organist Sr. Krystyna Dziadkowiec Pastoral Associate [email protected]Sr. Elsa Jeronimo, C.S.JB. Director of Social Outreach [email protected]Deirdre Nemeth 908-647-0421 Director of Faith Formation [email protected]Sr. Niky Burgos C.S.JB. Youth Minister [email protected]Peter O’Neill, Deacon 908-647-7258 [email protected]Parish Trustees Alan Tangreti and Timothy Wallisch PARISH OFFICE STAFF John Castagna Business and Facilities Manager [email protected]Vera Castagna Parish Secretary [email protected]Maria DeLuca Faith Formation Secretary [email protected]Teri Kesselmeyer Technology and Communications [email protected]We are a Catholic community rooted in the Eucharist and committed to the poor. Sunday Mass Schedule (Vigil Mass) Saturday —5:00PM Sunday 8:30AM, 10:30AM and 6:00PM Confession: Saturday at 4PM or other days by appointment. Weekday Mass Schedule 8:30AM Monday—Saturday “It would be easier for the world to survive without the sun than to do so without the Holy Mass.” St. Padre Pio
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The Roman Catholic Parish of St. Vincent de Paul 250 Bebout Avenue
Stirling, New Jersey 07980 Phone: (908) 647-0118 Fax: (908) 647-5992
SUNDAY COLLECTION REPORT MASS INTENTIONS MONDAY January 14th 8:30AM The Sciaccia Family (Living) Rosemary Quinn Eugene McMahon
TUESDAY January 15th 8:30AM Ryan Allen Piotr Nowak
Nona Butterworth
WEDNESDAY January 16th 8:30AM Anthony Wan
Beverly Guldner Donna Marie Morgan
THURSDAY January 17th Saint Anthony, Abbot
8:30AM Colleen Epple (Living) Nicholas Cirillo
Sister Mary Dee Ellis
FRIDAY January 18th 6:00AM For victims of abortion
8:30AM Michael John Elia Matthew Cuaycong Mary Jane Wright
SATURDAY January 19th 8:30AM Vito Fragati
Jim Murphy William and Marian Hosford
Second Sunday in Ordinary Time
5:00PM (Vigil) Rick Binner Steve Falk
Mary Lou Sennett
SUNDAY January 20th 8:30AM John McMonagle Antonio Crincoli
Deacon Bill Wagner
10:30AM Peter O’Connor Bernard Hyduke
Deceased members of the Senyk Family
6:00PM Mary Jane Wright Eugene DeFilippis
Deceased members of the parish
Weekend of December 29th and 30th Total collected at Masses: $7,648
Online WeShare: $2,987
Total Offered: $10,635 Mortgage Reduction: $2,407 The weekend of January 5th and 6th
Total collected at Masses: $9,674
Online WeShare: $4,048
Total Offered: $13,722 Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God : $3,487 Christmas 2018 Collection: $90,428
Christmas 2017 Collection: $109,303
Daily Mass Readings
Monday Heb 1:1-6; Mk 1:14-20 Tuesday Heb 2:5-12; Mk 1:21-28 Wednesday Heb 2:14-18; Mk 1:29-39 Thursday Heb 3:7-14; Mk 1:40-45 Friday Heb 4:1-5, 11; Mk 2:1-12 Saturday Heb 4:12-16; Mk 2:13-17
Our parish will have a bus going to Washington DC for the March For Life on Friday, January 18th. The cost is $30. Registration flyers are available at the parish office and on our website. Contact
Teri Kesselmeyer with questions or concerns.
The bus will depart the parish after 6:00am Mass and will return approximately between 9:00pm and 10:00pm.
MARCH FOR LIFE 2019
The Rally for Life sponsored by NJ Right to Life will take place in Trenton on Tuesday,
January 22nd from 11:00am to 1:00pm at the State House Annex Courtyard.
For information and directions visit www.njrtl.org or contact Helen O’Mullan 908-647-6521.
We conclude this weekend the Christmas Season with the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord. This year there was a beautiful stretch in the liturgical days of the Season and so after today the trees in the church will come down, the manger and figurines will be stored away and poinsettias will be looking for homes to continue to grow in. The manger scene in the rectory and my chapel will remain until February 2nd, the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord. Actually, this year it will be until February 5th as I hope to be in Haiti to visit our sister parish and Fr. Theo from January 31st to February 4th for our annual visit there. This visit will be to check that the water filtration system is doing what we intend and to check that the foundations of the church are stable enough to support the renovations to the church building. Our team this year will include Kevin Dempsey, who guided the filtration system production, shipping and installation, and Jean Philippe Simon who was born in Haiti and who resides in New Jersey. JP is an engineer, so his expertise and contacts with other professionals in Haiti will be key for the next project. I look forward to returning to Nanpol and to see how things have progressed since the last visit. I hope that you will check out the updated photos on our parish website. While we were enjoying Christmas here, the parishioners at Nanpol were also able to enjoy a better Christmas through the ongoing support parishioners give to our sister parish. A number of parishioners make a monthly contribution which enabled Fr. Theo to buy food items and gifts for the parishioners. As with many other aspects of our twinning experience, this was another first for the parishioners and villagers at Nanpol. Please do take some time to check out the photos sent by Fr. Theo on our website. Their gratitude is a gift of love for us as we seek to make their daily life and festive occasions more special. Last Sunday the 10:30 and 6:00pm Masses provided a beautiful opportunity for the children of our parish to learn more about Adoration and the presence of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. If you were there you know that of which I speak. It was so beautiful. On the 3rd Friday of each month a similar experience is offered for families with the Rosary and Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament. After the Friday gathering there are games and dessert in the gym. I hope that more families will consider this opportunity for their children. More opportunities will be provided for our children to be included so that their Faith Formation can be richer and their love is encouraged to grow for the Lord. Some months ago I wrote to Bishop Serratelli with a request. I have always believed that the grace of the Sacraments we receive are essential to our own growth in faith (of course this is not a personal revelation, the Church has always taught this). While the policy of the Diocese has been that that Sacrament of Confirmation be administered in the Spring of the Sophomore year or the Fall of the Junior year of High School, I have been of the mind that sooner is better than later. Also, considering the fact that we are surrounded by dioceses where the Sacrament of Confirmation is offered in 8th grade I asked the Bishop that we be allowed to lower the age of reception for the Sacrament of Confirmation. Bishop sent a letter agreeing with my insights and has given permission for the Sacrament of Confirmation to be received in 8th grade for our parish. Perhaps it will become the Diocesan practice in the not too distant future. Therefore, the current 9th and 10th grade class will be welcomed to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation in May of this year. The 9th grade candidates and their parents have been informed about this and there is a meeting for the 9th grade parents on Sunday to discuss this further. Then next year, 2020 (yikes!), the current 8th grade and 7th grade will receive the Sacrament of Confirmation and after that it will be 8th grade each year. I am pleased with this adjustment as the gifts of the Holy Spirit are more urgently needed and especially for our younger members who have many challenges to navigate. You may have noted as you drive in that materials for the replacement of part of the roof are in the process of being delivered. Again, thank God for the generosity of Bill Hosford who left part of his estate to the parish or we would have to borrow for this essential project. I am not sure when the work will take place, as you might imagine it will be weather dependent. It does interest me that the article which was in this section of the bulletin about the costs and scope of the many projects that have been attended to or that are in the works did not garner many comments, maybe two that I remember —at least not to me. I sincerely hope that folks are at least reading this once in a while as it is a venue by which much of the nuts and bolts of parish life and projects is shared with you. As we conclude this beautiful Christmas Season, my sincere gratitude to all who make not just this Season but each Season possible through their time, treasure, talent and dedication. Let us continue to pray for one another. Peace, Fr. Richard
The end is also a beginning…
January 12th and 13th Page Four PLEASE REMEMBER IN YOUR PRAYERS
Those who serve in the military: Damian McCoy, Calla Ann Armenti, Dylan T. Jones, James Minogue, Stephen J. Campbell, Sean Milde, Frank Fasano, Richard Lister, Eric Leverone, Jay Donato, Frank Messina, Eileen Murphy, Peter Giovanni
Those who are ill: Carol Richter, James Castagna, Angela Mazzei, Mary Ising, Sharon Baker, Jennifer Pellecchia, Rhoda & Ike Blake, Denise Garcia, Rick and Susan Olkusz, Claudia Jardim, Cecile Fountain Jardim, Eric Garcia, Rita D’Angelo, Jim Fittin, Sandra Fittin, Jane Moran, Frank Critelli, John Daglian, Parker Watson, Annette McGrory, Lou Aroneo, Lucy Bustillos, Paula Matchen, Caitlin Shea, Bill Wallisch, Larry Oster, Nanci Gamba, and Elizabeth Early.
Those who have died to this world John Chiappa, Marian Zoll and Andrew Roche, Jr.
Requiescat in Pace
May all the faithful who have departed this world rest in your eternal peace. Amen
READINGS FOR NEXT SUNDAY First Reading: Isaiah 62:1-5 Isaiah prophesizes that Jerusalem will again be held in high esteem by God. He states that all nations will witness its glory. He compares a groom's joy toward his bride to the joy that God will feel toward Jerusalem. Second Reading: 1 Corinthians 12:4-11 Paul discusses the different gifts and talents bestowed upon different individuals. He explains that each individual receives various talents so that everyone can contribute something to society. Gospel: John 2:1-11 Jesus and Mary attended a wedding where Mary informed Jesus that there was no more wine. At first he said it did not concern him, but then he turned several jugs of water into wine. His disciples were also present, and believed in him more strongly after they witnessed the first sign of glory he revealed to them.
ADULT FAITH FORMATION STUDIES
Getting Ready For Sunday Join Fr. Richard for a deeper insight into the Scripture Readings for Sunday Mass. By gaining an understanding of the context and culture within which they were written, the upcoming Sunday
Readings will take on a more profound and richer meaning for you. Weekly discussions take place on Thursdays, from 1:00pm to 2:00pm in the Church Meeting Room and repeated on Thursday evenings from 7:30pm to 9:00pm in the Library. All are welcome to attend one or more sessions. Previous attendance not required.
Join us with your whole family to pray the Rosary before the Blessed Sacrament on Friday, January 18th beginning at 7:00pm. Potluck dessert and fun activities for families will take place after prayer, Adoration and Benediction. RSVP to Amy Pejman
at [email protected] if you and your family are able to attend the activities afterwards.
FAMILY ROSARY
The votive candle before the statue of the Blessed Mother is in memory of
Francesca Caggiano. The votive candle before the statue of
Saint Joseph is in memory of Frank Caggiano
INCLEMENT WEATHER CONDITIONS When weather conditions cause closures and make conditions for travel difficult or hazardous, please call ahead to the parish office (908-647-0118) to check that Mass and parish events are able to take place as scheduled. In some cases it may be more prudent to offer Mass at 12 noon on a day when weather patterns may have changed for the better. When schools are closed due to weather conditions parish events, with the exception of Mass, will also be cancelled.
Check before you go so that you can be in the know.
The Rosary is prayed daily following the 8:30am Mass, on First Saturdays, and at 7:00pm on the evening of the third Friday of each month.
“The power of the Rosary is beyond description.”
Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
ALTAR SERVERS NEEDED Students in 3rd grade and beyond who are interested in training to be an Altar Server are encouraged to have a parent contact the parish office to let us know so that training can be set up for you. What a wonderful choice to begin the new year serving at Holy Mass!
Serving at the Altar is a great gift to Jesus and this community which will deepen your love for Jesus in the Holy Eucharist.
Abortion, the social justice cause of our times: “Abortion was the number one cause of death worldwide in 2018, with more than 41 million children killed before birth” as reported by Worldometers based on the latest statistics published by the World Health Organization. Globally, 23 percent of all pregnancies were ended by abortion. There were more deaths from abortion in 2018 than all deaths from cancer, malaria, HIV/AIDS, smoking, alcohol and traffic accidents combined. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ The theme of the annual March for Life in DC this year is “Unique from Day One”, emphasizing the science of pre-born Life. The March aims to end abortion by “uniting, educating and mobilizing pro-life people in the public square.” The March commemorates the Supreme Court decision in Roe v. Wade (1/22/73) that invalidated state laws and made abortion legal and available on demand in the United States.
DID YOU KNOW?
On Sunday, January 20th there will be no First through Tenth Grade classes after Mass. Instead there will be a Second Grade Retreat. Second Graders and Parents: Next Sunday St. Vincent’s will host the annual, and very special, Blessing Cup Retreat led by presenter and potter Ray Boswell. This Second Grade Retreat begins with the 10:30AM Mass followed by lunch and the Retreat in the parish gym.
9 Days of Prayer For Life Novena
January 14th through January 22nd Go to www.9daysforlife.com
and sign up for daily emails or text with prayer intentions for each day.
FOOD PANTRY NEEDS
These items are greatly needed to replenish our Food Pantry: White Rice (2lb bag), Honey Nut Cheerios, Jelly, Hot Chocolate, Spaghetti Noodles and Corn. Please bring all items to the basket in the church set aside for food pantry items. Thank you for your generosity in helping those in need.
LOYOLA DAY OF PRAYER LOYOLA JESUIT CENTER, MORRISTOWN
An Experience of Ignatian Prayer which will include Reconciliation and Mass on
Sunday, January 20th from 2:00pm to 5:00pm
The cost is $20 Register at www.loyola.org
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++Ignatian Spirituality which will
include breakfast, lunch, Reconciliation and Mass on Tuesday, January 22nd
from 9:30am to 3:00pm The cost is $40
Register at www.loyola.org
Set Free: Journey of Recovery through Christian Virtues
Our addictions do not make us less loved by God. Again and again, Jesus reminds us that, with Him, we are capable of living in freedom. So if God believes in us, why don’t we believe in ourselves? Join us for a lecture and group discussion on the following Tuesdays at 7:30pm: January 22nd, February 19th, March 19th and May 21st. For information visit insidethewalls.org/set-free. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
One Way All adults (18+) are welcome to join this interactive, small group experience which aims to bring each participant to a new understanding of Jesus and His Church. The sessions in January will focus on the Church and our part in the structure and mission of the Kingdom. The sessions will be Tuesdays, January 15th and 22nd from 7:30pm to 9:00pm. For information visit insidethewalls.org/one-way-18plus. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Catholicism from Scratch A course in Basic Catholicism is offered for those who need a brush-up, those who missed it the first time around or those who never heard it before. The session will take place Saturday, January 26th from 10:00am to 12 noon. For further information visit insidethewalls.org/Catholicism-from-scratch.
SAINT PAUL INSIDE THE WALLS
The Meals for Moms Ministry seeks to support families who have just
welcomed a new baby. We are happy to provide several meals to the family during this special time.
information. If you would like to help by cooking one meal please email Danielle.
“Give your hands to serve and your hearts to love.” St. Teresa of Calcutta
SUPPORT GROUP FOR THE DIVORCED AND SEPARATED
The Divorced and Separated Ministry of the Church of the Little Flower in Berkeley Heights is offering a twelve week support group designed to provide comfort and healing before, during and after the divorce process. The group will meet on Wednesdays, 7:30pm to 9:00pm beginning January 30th. The program features video presentations from Surviving Divorce followed by discussion. Some of the topics covered are: Finding Strength and Help, Getting Through Your Anger, Learning to Forgive, Handling Money Wisely, and Relearning How to Date. Registration is required. For more information and to register, please contact [email protected] or call the church office at 908-464-1585.
ADORATION OF THE BLESSED SACRAMENT IN OUR PARISH
Our church is open daily from 7:30am to 9:00pm, closing on Saturday and Sunday after the evening Mass. On the third Friday of each month we have Adoration and the praying of the Rosary particularly focused on families – come, bring your children and grandchildren and teach them to speak to Jesus present in the Blessed Sacrament.
On First Fridays we have Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament after the 8:30am Mass through the night until 8:00am on Saturday.
If you are awake because you have many concerns, come talk to Him. Jesus is absolutely and truly present in the Most Blessed Sacrament – many, many Saints became Saints because they knew and responded to this truth. “Do you realize that Jesus is there…especially for you- for you alone? He burns with the desire to come into your heart.” St. Therese of Lisieux
