P R O G R E S S G U I D E

THE SCIENCEOF

SELF-DISCIPLINEby Kerry L. Johnson

A Progress Guide for BuildingYour Self-Discipline Skills

2IMPORTANTTo begin Please save thisguidebook to your desktopor in another location.

Some of the forms includedin this guidebook will needto be printed out.

How to Use the Information in this Progress Guide

This Progress Guide serves two major purposes. The illustrations it contains helpyou visualize certain principles and concepts discussed in the audio portion ofTHE SCIENCE OF SELF-DISCIPLINE.

How can you get the most out of this writeable workbook? Research has shownthat the more ways you interact with learning material, the deeper your learningwill be. Nightingale-Conant has created a cutting-edge learning system thatinvolves listening to the audio, reading the ideas in the workbook, and writing yourideas and thoughts down. In fact, this workbook is designed so that you can fill inyour answers right inside this document.

For each session, we recommend the following:

Preview the section of the workbook that corresponds with the audiosession, paying particular attention to the exercises.

Listen to the audio session at least once. Read the text of the workbook. The illustrations contained in this guide will help you visualize certain

principles and concepts discussed in the audio portion of THE SCIENCEOF SELF-DISCIPLINE.

In addition to the exercises and questions, weve created an i-journal to makethis an even more interactive experience for you. At the end of this guide, you canwrite down any additional thoughts, ideas, or insights to further personalize thematerial. Remember, the more you apply this information, the more youll getout of it.

MCMXC Kerry L. Johnson

All rights reserved.

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How the Subjective Unitof Discomfort Scale (SUDS) Works

The Subjective Unit of Discomfort Scale (SUDS) illustrated on the next page helpsyou to visualize both your Performance Level and Discomfort Level whenever youattempt through self-discipline to change behavior or habits. The horizontal scalemeasures the amount of discomfort you feel when you try to be disciplined.

The numbers on both the horizontal and vertical scales advance in groups of ten.The numbers that run vertically help you to determine your Performance Level how well you performed in breaking a habit or behavior.

The numbers that run horizontally along the bottom of the chart indicate yourDiscomfort Level. Ideally, you will score in the 30 to 40 range on the horizontalscale. That means you are in your Maximum Productivity Range. If you score morethan 40 on this scale, your discomfort intensifies, and you start using avoidancebehaviors. At that point, youre getting less done.

Move into the 50 to 60 range and you feel a great deal of Pain. Between 60 and 80,you encounter Burn-out. And a SUDS level below 30 allows you too much pleas-ure, and as a result, you dont push yourself.

How do you get your SUDS to a level that helps rather than hurts? Kerry L.Johnson discusses three techniques on session three of this program. Thats whereyou can refresh your memory about SUDS as well.

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5Figure A. Notice that when you can get your Discomfort Level between 30 and 40,you are also able to hit the peak of your Motivation Range. If your Discomfort Levelfalls below 25 or goes above 40, your motivation to take action rapidly drops off.

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BIODOTS andYour Emotional State

Figure B. Remember that the colors listed on this chart are approximations andthat the interpretation of stress levels is generalized.

How to Use the BIODOTS

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BIODOTS are quick-acting, accurate thermometers that monitor blood flow andthus indicate possible stress. They are small circles of micro-encapsulated choles-teric liquid crystals of a thermal range gauged to variance in skin temperature,invented by Robert H. Grabhorn in Indianapolis, Indiana, in 1977.

Non-toxic and completely safe for external body use, today BIODOTS are sold in107 countries worldwide. Contained in your program materials are a package ofBIODOTS and a color indicator card. It is recommended you place a BIODOT inthe gentle dip between your thumb and forefinger (See Figure C. below). Thisaffords easy monitoring, and this spot is naturally protected from undue abrasion.

Most likely your BIODOT was black when you put it in place. Soon, it will turn acolor. By matching the BIODOTS color to the same shade on the indicator card,you can determine your general emotional state.

BIODOTS are a versatile tool for thoseconcerned with controlling daily stress.By simply observing the BIODOT, you canimmediately tell if your system is reactingadversely to a stressful situation. If so, youcan take steps to reduce stress by engagingin any of the recommended relaxation tech-niques, such as deep breathing, meditation,taking a break from work, etc. Figure C. For best results, position

the self-adhering BIODOT as shown.

B I O D O T SColor Body Temperature Emotional State

Figure D. Pursuant to creating your own Rewards and Reinforcers Worksheet (onthe next page), weve completed this one for you to show you how its done. ThisWorksheet works in conjunction with the Behavioral Contracts.

How to Use the Rewards and Reinforcers Worksheet

In the example above, Joe Everyguy listed 14 of his favorite activities. Some may be favorites ofyours. In compiling your own list, consult this Worksheet as a guide and memory-jogger.

Some of the activities Joe listed take place during his working day, such as consuming coffee or tea,and eating his favorite foods over lunch. Others are leisure-time activities. He ranked his activitieson a scale of 1 to 10, depending on their importance to him. Just because an activity was a favoriteof Joes didnt necessarily mean it required a lot of time. He likes to play tennis very much, forinstance (a 10 on the Importance Scale), but he doesnt have to play too often (3 hours a month).

The Measurement column shows how many hours are devoted to the activity, and the Frequencycolumn shows how often. You need all this information to determine what rewards you want tooffer yourself to reinforce the behavior you are seeking.

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Activities Importance Measurement Frequency

Watching television 3 3 hours weekly

Listening to the radio 1 half an hour weekly

Cup of coffee, tea 5 1 hour weekly

Being alone 1 half an hour weekly

Reading newspapers, magazines, books 10 2 hours weekly

Exercisejogging, spa, aerobics 10 5 hours weekly

Hobbiessewing, stamps, etc. 2 2 hours monthly

Long baths or bubble bath 4 1 hour weekly

Eating favorite foods 8 4 hours weekly

Going to movies, plays, concerts 8 3 hours monthly

Sportstennis, golf, bowling 10 3 hours monthly

Going out for dinner 9 3 hours weekly

Going to sporting events 8 5 hours 4x a year

Drives in the country 5 1 hour 6 x a year

Rewards and Reinforcers Worksheet

8Activities Importance Measurement Frequency

Rewards and Reinforcers Worksheet

WORKSHEET NUMBER ONE: In figure D, on the previous page, you sawa partially completed version of this Worksheet, and you learned how to use it.The Worksheet above is for your personal use. If you wish you can print out copiesof this page.

OutcomeWorksheetGoal Cost When

1 750iL BMW $95,000 12/2009

2 Midsummer vacation in Europe $8,000 6/2009

3 New rental property $80,000 3/2009

4 Achieve top sales of year award $150,000 commissions 12/2009

HOW ATTAINED By making more sales.Current activity level: 2 phone calls/day 1 booked appointment

every 2 days -1 appointment every week-1 sale every 2 weeks.

Current averages: 1 sale - $250 commission 2 appointments 5 booked appointments

20 calls. Extra activity needed to achieve objectives by date desired: 10 calls/day

2 booked appointment/day 1 appointment/day 1 sale every 2 days

2 sales/week - $2,000/month ($1,500 more than Im making now!)

Figure E. We thought youd like to see how the Outcome Worksheet looks when itscompleted, before completing your own on the next page.

How to Use the OutcomeWorksheetThe Outcome Worksheet helps you visualize your goals. They become more realwhen you put them into writing. And under the How Attained section, you canbreak your large goals into daily, weekly, or monthly portions, thus making it easierfor you to maintain the desired level of self-discipline.

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WORKSHEET NUMBER TWO: On the previous page, you saw a completedexample of this Worksheet. This one is for you to complete. Feel free to printthis Worksheet.

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OutcomeWorksheetGoal Cost When

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WORKSHEET NUMBER THREE:

How to Use the Four-to-Six WeekBehavioral Contract

On the adjacent page, you see a completed version of the Four-to-Six WeekBehavioral Contract. This is an agreement you make with yourself to bring aboutneeded changes on a regular basis for increased overall performance.

The If column is the portion of the contract devoted to detailing exactly what youplan to achieve to support the goals you established in the Outcome Worksheet.These are target behaviors you want to be more self-disciplined about. And theyare ones you believe will help you get what you want the items you listed underthe Goal column in the Outcome Worksheet.

The Behavioral Contract weve completed as an example (See next page) is devotedto attaining selling objectives. However, you can complete a contract on almostanything quitting smoking, losing weight, saving money the list is endless.

The Then column is for listing the reward you plan to give yourself. Consult yourown completed Rewards and Reinforcers Worksheet to select a reward. Choose anyreward youve rated at least a 6 on the Importance Scale.

Notice that each targeted behavior in the If column represents a daily activity,and the reward under the Then column represents a daily reward. Now, if youmeet your daily objective for each week, you deserve a bonus. List it in the spacedevoted to Bonus and be certain it is something that is not only rewarding, butone that also reinforces your goals for the future.

The Control section establishes the penalty youll invoke against yourself if youdont meet your goals sort of a negative enforcer.

Select a partner to check up on you. This person should be supportive of you andyour goals. List the Partner in the space provided and date the agreement. Formore details, listen again to session Nine of this program.

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Figure F. Joe Everyguy made a contract with himself to achieve his goals. Noticethat the rewards he listed for each Then entry are picked up directly from Joescompleted Rewards and Reinforcers Worksheet (See Page 6).

BONUS: If I achieve my goal each and every day of the week for contacts, bookedappointments, and face-to-face appointments, then my wife and I canattend a sporting event.

CONTROL: My wife will meet with me every day to discuss my goal activity andhelp me keep track. I will give $200 to my wife for security. If I givemyself a reward without earning it, or fall off the program before 6weeks are completed, she may spend the $200 as she pleases.

Goal Achiever: Joe Everyguy

Partner: Mary Jones-Everyguy

This contract will be reviewed on (date): August, 26, 2009

IF I make 3 contacts each day

IF I book 1 appointment each day

IF I go on 1 appointment each day

THEN I will go out for dinner twicethis week (3 hours).

THEN I can read my favorite book for25 minutes each weekday night(2 hours weekly).

THEN I can exercise one hour eachweekday morning or evening(5 hours).

Four-to-Six Week Behavioral ContractEFFECTIVE DATES: From July 9, 2----- To: August 22, 2----

Sample

Four-to-Six Week Behavioral ContractEFFECTIVE DATES: From To:

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This contract will be reviewed on (date):

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WORKSHEET NUMBER FOUR: Heres a blank version of the Four-to-Six WeekBehavioral Contract. Instead of filling it out in this Progress Guide, you may wishto make a few copies and use them for your needs. You can have several contractswith yourself going at the same time.

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Four-to-Six Week Behavioral ContractEFFECTIVE DATES: From To:

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This contract will be reviewed on (date):

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WORKSHEET NUMBER FIVE

Current Goal-Oriented Activity Assessment*

As succinctly as possible, list what your goal is._____________________________________________________________________

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For each of the periods listed, what are you now doing to meet your goal?(Note: Depending on your goal, you may not need to fill each blank.)

Hourly _______________________________________________________________

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WORKSHEET NUMBER SIX: This Worksheet helps you determine the activitiesyou are currently engaged in to meet your goal(s). You may make such an assess-ment for each goal you now have.

How to Use the CurrentGoal-Oriented Activity Assessment

This is a rather straightforward device to help you ascertain exactly what it is thatyou are now doing to meet your goal(s). You can use this Worksheet to target suchbehaviors as (1) improving on tardiness; (2) increasing your reading; (3) improvingyour child-rearing abilities; (4) eliminating procrastination from your life; (5) los-ing weight; or any current goal-oriented activities.

*Editors Note: In the audio portion of this program, Kerry Johnson refers to thisWorksheet as the Activity Level Worksheet.

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Weekly Activity Log

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Figures G, H: Here are examples of two partially completed Weekly Activity Logs, one devotedto reading more, and the second to being more organized about making and keeping appointments.Its easy to see that the Weekly Activity Log has been designed to be quite flexible and allows you todetermine all column headings.

Weekly Activity Log - (Please print out this worksheet to use.)

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WORKSHEET NUMBER SEVEN: Heres a blank version of the Weekly Activity Log. See theprevious pages for two examples of how to use this Worksheet. Dont feel limited to listing only oneactivity a day. Nor should you feel each day must show some activity. Actually, these matters will bedecided by the subgoals into which you broke your major goal.

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