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    TR TU X THNguyn tc: Christian LarosepurkDch gi: Nguyn Thu Hin

    CopyLeft NXB Hi Phng

    CONTENT AT A GLANCE

    PART ONE Hiu R Bn ThnThc ra mi con ngi chng ta u v tri c, ch ciu tng phng din v tri khc nhau m thi.

    PART TWO Php Tc Ca Cuc Sng

    PART THREE Tu Luyn o co c thng c th b p cho s thiu ht v trtu, th ci g c th b p cho s thiu ht v oc y ?

    PART FOUR i Nhn X ThNgi thng minh da vo kinh nghim phtngn, nhng ngi thng minh hn na da vokinh nghim ca mnh la chn s im lng.

    PART FIVE Yu T Ca Thnh CngCon ng ngn nht t c thnh cng trongcuc i ny l hy lm theo nhng g m ta khuyn

    bo ngi khc.

    TABLEOF CONTENTS

    PART ONE Hiu R Bn Thn

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    1. Trc khi hiu c Thng , con ngi ta phi hiu c chnhmnh trc .

    2. iu bt hnh ca con ngi l nh mt i linh hn bm sinh v nnglc yu thng.

    3. Ngi no khng bit trn u mnh cn c ai, ngi s khm ph rart nhiu iu bn thn mnh.

    4. Kinh nghim i giy5. Hu ht ti c u xut pht t nhng tm trng ng ng say.6. Khng coi mnh tm thng, bn s c c tin ti v mt cm gic an

    ton.7. Ch ra khuyt im ca ngi khc th hin mnh ch chng t mt

    iu l bn ch c t nng lc g.

    8. Cng t cho mnh cao qu hn ngi khc, cng d lm ngi khc tnthng.9. Kiu ngo l s t t t li khng c cch no kim ch c.10. Ch bt chc ngi khc th khng th khin tr tu pht trin c.11. Ngi kiu ngo.12. Khi mt ngi dng dng t c ni rng: Nhn xem ny, ti c bao

    nhiu iu tt p th c ngha l ngi bt u ri xung bn en.13. Hnh phc ca bn ch yu quyt nh bi vic bn nhn nhn bn thn

    mnh nh th no.14. Ngi t cho mnh l ngi siu phm lun lun cho rng bn thnmnh cao qu hn nhng ngi khc.

    15. Trong tt c cc thi xu th ci m ta thng khng bit nht chnhl s li nhc.

    16. Nhng tnh cm bt pht khin ngi sng sut nht bin thnh k inr v bin mt g ngc tr nn thng minh tuyt nh.

    17. Hy khn kho vn dng s ngy ng ca mnh.18. Tm l sng bi.

    19. Tui thanh xun l mt cn say khng rt, l cn st ca l tr.20. Ngi thng minh nht l ngi khng cht ng lng trc nhng

    vic chng ng g.21. Nng lc v nguyn vng.22. Vn mnh v tm t thng tr th gii.23. Nu ta khng kiu ngo th ta cng khng on trch ngi khc kiu

    ngo.

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    24. Ni bt hnh ln nht ca con ngi l ni bt hnh khi b ti c nhgc.

    25. Ci mc v i khng cao mt ngi khng bit t lp t cngm tri li n cn lm gim thp gi tr ca h.

    26. Khuyt im trong tnh cch cn nhiu hn khuyt im trong tinhthn.

    27. C hi khin bn nhn ra ngi khc, cng khin chng ta nhn rachnh mnh.

    28. Nguyn tc u tin ca mt tr tu sng sut l c c s sng suttrong tri thc ca chnh mnh.

    29. Thng khng bao gi sa cha li lm ca chng ta.30. Nu mun tt c nhng ngi khc lm tt trc tin mnh phi lm tt

    .

    31. Sc mnh ch yu ca con ngi th hin s khng ch t tng.32. i vi mt ngi y l tnh th bt k kh khn gian kh no cng

    gip ch cho h.33. i tm ngha lng thin trong chnh bn thn mnh.34. Con ngi c to ra suy ngh.35. Quen vi kim ch bn thn.36. Danh ting ch kt thn vi nhng nhn vt chnh37. Nhn thc bn thn.

    38. Nhng ngi sinh ra c t cht thng tr.39. Ngh thut trong ng x.40. Hy th hin mnh cho tt.41. Hy mnh ng vo trung tm ca s vic.42. Khng nn l u ngn tay b thng ca mnh.43. Hy cn thn trong li ni.44. To ra cm gic mong ch45. Trnh nhng khuyt im c hu.46. Nu khng khoc ln mnh b ca s t th hy khoc ln mnh b oca con h li.47. Li ni v hnh ng to nn mt con ngi hon m.48. Hy hiu nhng v nhn sng trong thi i ca bn.49. Khng nn t ra qui d.50. Hiu r khuyt im chnh ca bn thn.51. Khng nn mang danh d ca mnh ph thc cho ngi khc tr phi

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    bn nhn c t ngi giy bo m.52. Cn phi bit bn thn thiu ci g.53. Chng ta khng hon ton thuc v mt ai, cng khng c ai hon ton

    thuc v chng ta.54. Cn phi hp dn ngi khc.55. Phi bit lm th no i mi tnh cch ca bn.56. Th hin mnh ging nh ngi khc ch lm thp bn thn mnh hn

    m thi.57. Trnh ni danh trong mi trng hp.58. Nn c ti pht hin bm sinh.59. Khng nn tr thnh ngi lc no cng i hi.60. Hy phm cht ca chnh con ngi bn vt qua phm cht ca ci

    a v m bn ang m trch.

    61. S trng thnh62. Khng nn khoc lc nhng vic m bn cha hon thnh.63. Ngi phi phm thng c 3 th.64. thc c im mnh ca mnh.65. Kim li tr thnh Thnh nhn.66. Ti sao con ngi ta li ni di.

    PART TWO Php Tc Ca Cuc Sng

    67. Php tc ch thc ca cuc sng l khng bao gi c quay lng vi ltnh.68. Khng nn qu so o vic tn tng khen ngi hay ch trch ca ngikhc.69. Ch cn bn sng cho tm hn mnh ch khng phi l sng cho th xcth bn c th thot ra mi kh khn.

    70. Khng nn gi gm cuc sng ca mnh vo nhng th d dng tan ranh my khi.71. Hm ngha ca hai t cuc sng.72. Khi cn l n l ch c mt ng ch duy nht vy m khi t do ri li c

    bit bao nhiu ng ch khc.73. Mt a tr ch cn c c ci chng mun th chng s ngoan ngonim lng trt t ngay, cn lng tham ca ngi ln li chng bao gi c y

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    c.74. Ci hp dn ca dc vng ging nh con om m d ngi ta bcvo bn ly.75. Cng t i hi th cuc sng cng hnh phc.76. Nu nh lm tt c mi iu ch c c nhng vinh quang trn tc th qu l mt iu bt hnh.77. Ngi chn thnh khng giu c v ngi giu c khng chn thnh.78. S chn trng n cc oan c th dng loi tr chnh s chntrng.79. Ngi ngho au kh, nhng ngi giu cn au kh hn.80. C hai cch trnh khi cnh ngho kh.81. au kh thng bt ngun t li ch v s din.82. Th no l s gi yu.

    83. X hi thng cho v ngoi ca thnh tch nhiu hn ni dung ca n.84. S ho phng bao gi cng cha ng mt d tm c ngy trang.85. Kt qu i lp ca s tham lam.86. Chn thc l c s ca s hon thin v ci p.87. Chn l.88. Ngi khng c dc vng ring thng nhiu hn ngi khng c lng k.89. Thi dung tc.

    90. Nghin cu con ngi cn cn thit hn nghin cu sch v.91. Bn sao tt.92. T th trang nghim.93. S i lng ca mt bc qun vng thng ch l mt bin php chnhtr thu ht lng dn m thi.94. Cm gic i vi vic tt v vic xu.95. C rt t ngi cht i, nhng li c ngi do n qu no m cht.96. Tr tu, l hiu c nhim v ca cuc sng v bit cch lm th no hon thnh nhim v .97. Con ngi ta chng th no thot khi ci c nm su trong tm hn.98. Li ch khin mt s ngi ny m qung nhng li khin mt s khctr nn cc k minh mn.99. Qu trng tnh mng.100. ng sau hnh phc l mt him ha, ng sau him ha l mt hnh

    phc.

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    101. Cuc sng l mt s c gng nhng vnh vin khng th tin gn nmt ci ch trit .102. Hai iu khin i trit gia Khang c phi ngc nhin.103. Sc mnh ca t tng l sc mnh ch thc c th thay i c cucsng ca tt c mi ngi.104. Hnh phc v bit th no l .105. Trit gia gii thch ba ci nht.106. Chng ta sng trong giao im gia hin ti v tng lai.107. Chiu su ca tnh mng quan trng hn di ca n.108. Tr tiu khin.109. Tin ti v danh d.110. Hy cng nhng ngi khc chia s nhng phm cht tt p.111. Tnh a dng.

    112. Cn thn nm bt thng tin.113. B quyt sng lu.114. S suy xt k lng.115. Ginh c danh ting v gi gn danh ting.116. Khng nn tr thnh mt ngi khin ngi khc cm thy kh chu.117. Khng nn bt u cuc sng bng nhng vic thng dng kt thccuc sng.118. Hy sng t i v hc hi nhiu hn.

    119. Hy sp xp cuc sng ca mnh mt cch thng minh.120. Nu trong cng vic bn hiu bit khng nhiu th hy chn con ngan ton nht m i.121. Hy bn hng theo bng gi ca tnh ngha.122. Hy sng v thi khc ny.123. Ngi coi tnh yu th xc lm th vui s nh mt i ngha ca vicnui dng con ci.124. Khng nn coi s sa ng ca mnh l mt s hng th hp php.125. Nu gp nhng vic khng vui, khng nn on trch ngi khc hay ontrch s phn.126. Ngi c t tng nng cn s nh mt i c hi ci thin cucsng ca mnh.127. Hy i x ng n vi cy thnh gi trn vai mnh.128. Hy lm th gii ny tt p hn.129. Khng nn bn khon v nhng ngh dm ng.

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    130. Sai lm tai hi nht ca con ngi l lm tng rng trong cuc i nykhng th t c tt c hnh phc nh mnh mong mun.131. Nhim v ca cuc sng chnh l kim tm s hon m.132. Hnh phc l nm trn bn thn con ngi bn.133. Lm vic thin l nhn c s khen thng ca lng tm.134. Mc ch ca cuc sng khng nm tnh ng vt m nm linh hntrong th xc.135. Hnh phc thc s hn l th c tt c mi ngi cng chung hng.136. Hnh phc nm trong lng bn.137. Khng nn coi s nghi hoc v kh hiu ca ngha nhn sinh l mtvic cao thng.138. Hnh phc thc s m ai ai cng cn l ci hnh phc khng th cc t ch nhng ngi khc.

    139. Cu chuyn ca ng ch nh khch.140. Thi xu ca con ngi nng cn.141. Con ngi cn tnh yu nh con ong cn bay, rn cn b, c cn bi.142. Tnh yu chn chnh l iu m tt c mi ngi u cm th c gianhau.143. C gng yu thng ngi m bn khng yu thng.144. Yu ch dng hin m khng i hi bt k mt iu g.145. Mc ch ca vic ly chng ly v.

    146. Khng lm mt i nam nhn.147. c php tam chng trong hn nhn.148. Mt v mt chng.149. Con ci l minh chng thnh khit nht ca hn nhn.150. Khi bn khng cm thy yu thng ngi ta th khng nn kt thn vih.151. Hn.152. Giu gim nhng tnh cm trong lng ta cn kh hn v vt v tnh.153. Tnh yu ging nh ma qu.154. Kt qu ca vic trng pht con ci lm chng thc c s trng

    pht y l hu ch v cng bng.155. nh ngha tnh yu v nhng th khc.156. Tnh yu c trm nghn phin bn.157. Tnh cm bn b l s tn trng v gip v li ch ca nhau.158. Tnh yu ch thc kh, tnh bn ch thc cn him thy hn.

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    159. Ph n khc phc s a gin tnh yu cn kh hn khc phc nhngtnh cm bt pht.160. Ph n.161. Nhng ngi yu nhau ch nhn thy khuyt im ca i phng khicuc tnh chm dt m thi.162. Khi ang yu.163. T i.164. Li ch l linh hn ca lng t i.165. Khng nn qu nung chiu th xc.166. Chin thng ham mun.167. Hy vit tng ca bn thnh nhng dng mt m.168. Khng nn yu vnh vin, cng khng nn hn vnh vin.169. Kt hp tnh yu v s tn trng ca mi ngi l mt s may mn.

    170. Thng mt con ng ln l vic i cng vi mt ngi khc.

    PART THREE Tu Luyn o c171. Nim tin ch thc l vic thc su sc rng trong cuc i ny nnlm ci g v khng nn lm ci g.172. Lng tri l v quan ta trong lng ta.173. Coi tt c mi ngi u l anh em.174. Lng tri v truyn thng.175. Ch nn i tm ci bn ang c trong tay.176. Ci gi ca s t do.177. C gi m.178. Ng gii ca o Pht.179. Cuc sng tiu cc.180. Con ngi b chnh nhng ti li gy ra trng pht.181. Khi bn quen vi ti li th n s t v tr ca khch bin thnh v trca ch nh.

    182. Ti c ch xut hin khi bn thc y n.183. Ni cu vi ngi khc chng qua l vic i tm s bin h cho linh hnm thi.184. Khng nn ngh v ngi khc theo chiu hng xu.185. Mn n ngon nht th gii l khi nhng li ni c c c nut xungkhng ni ra mm.186. Hai ng c tm kim tri thc.

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    187. Gi gn lng tt tc l gi gn s t do ca linh hn.188. Thi kiu ngo khin ngi ta xa lnh hn tt thy nhng c tnh khc.189. Ch c nhng k th l khng c gio dc mi thch dng bo lc.190. Pht trin t cht hng thin bm sinh.191. Chng ta lm iu thin thng l v khng mun chu ng nhnghnh ng c c trng pht.192. Chn tr linh hn.193. Chng ta khng m chm trong mt hnh vi ti li no ht bi v cnnhiu hnh vi ti li khc na.194. Bn tnh quy nh phm vi con ngi lm iu thin v lm iu c.195. Cao c v cao thng.196. Im lng l s la chn chc chn nht ca nhng ngi thiu t tin.197. Lng thin v c c.

    198. L v l tit.199. Li nhc l mt thi xu d chung sng thoi mi v ha bnh nht sovi tt c nhng thi xu khc.200. Lch lm.201. Tn dng ci thin chnh l mt cch chia ci thin y cho mnh mtcht.202. Hc thuyt chn chnh dy ta iu thin cao nht.203. u tranh vi ci xu phi bt u ngay hm nay.

    204. Lng tt thng ch l s kt hp gia mt s hnh vi no vi nhngli ch m thi.205. Tit ch hn ch d tm ca nhng ngi v i v an i nhng ngi

    bnh thng.206. Lng k cn kh ha gii hn c lng th hn.207. Nghi k l iu xu nht trong nhng iu xu.208. Tinh thn trc sau ch l ngi b la ca tm linh m thi.209. Chn thnh s ci m ca tm hn.210. Mun c ngi khc tn trng, hy lm mt ngi c phm cht tt.211. Mc ch ch yu ca gio dc l o to ra nhng ngi hiu o l.212. S bt cp ca trng hc.213. Tt c u hon m.214. Ngi hon thin.215. T nhin v ngh thut.216. Hin nhn cn t mnh lm cho y .

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    217. Ngi thc thi.218. Hn ch tnh tng tng.219. S khc ngi.220. S nhn t.221. Khng nn lm nhng cng vic tai ting.222. Khng nn nh mt i tnh t tn.223. Cn c v thng minh.224. Hai tc dng tri ngc nhau c th b sung cho nhau.225. Ch i cng cn phi c b quyt.226. Tnh n ha.227. Mt kt thc tt p.228. Nn chun b trc cho nhng kh khn ngay t khi c iu kin.229. Khng nn bi long tm vt.

    230. S u vit ca li ni.231. Hy l ngi vn minh.232. Khng nn cht v ngu ngc.233. Trn thin ng mi th u hon m.234. Bo th l minh chng ca s cn trng.235. Quan im v sng to.236. Cho d kh khn c nh nhoi th no th cng khng nn coi thng n.237. Nn nhn t trong tng cng vic.

    238. ng nui dng nhng c tnh xung t trong mnh.239. Bit cch lm th no pht huy ht bn thn mnh.240. Cn phi c tri thc hoc lm quen vi nhng ngi c tri thc.241. C o c m khng cao ngo s tm thy ra mt v tr thch hp.242. Khng nn gi b lng thin.243. Khng nn tr thnh ngi ngi l i mch.

    PART FOUR i Nhn X Th

    244. Ngi giu lng trc n.245. Cng thn thin vi mi ngi bao nhiu th cuc sng cng tt p bynhiu.246. Hy yu nhng ngi xung quanh nh yu chnh bn thn mnh.247. iu ng s nht trn th gian ny l lng th hn.248. S tc gin ch th hin mt iu l s bt lc.249. Va khng nn qu coi thng ngi khc, cng ng nn qu tn trng

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    bt k ngi no.250. ng coi tt c nhng ngi xung quanh bn u l ngi xu.251. Khng nn ni gin vi nhng ngi c c v nh mt l tnh.252. Ngi c l tr mi c th thuyt phc c ngi khc.253. Thi quen hay nng gin khin bn chng bao gi c c nim vui khith nghim nhng tnh cm lng thin.254. Ni cn tam bnh cng chng th loi tr c nhng iu xu xa.255. Li ha.256. Bt k ai cng hnh ng theo chiu hng c li cho mnh.257. Cu chuyn ngi nh li gu.258. Ci gy ma qu ca quyn lc.259. Ly c tr c l tng thm lng bo th.260. Trng pht l ly ci c ny i ph vi mt ci c khc.

    261. Thot khi ba con ng khng vui262. Ly thin bo c, khoan dung vi tt c.263. S d tnh hnh ti t khng th bin chuyn tt c l bi v c qunhiu ngi lm vic xu.264. Trc khi th hn hay yu qu mt ai hy suy ngh tht k.265. Khng tin tng vo bn b cn ng xu h hn b bn b la di.266. S bt ngha ca vong n bi ngha.267. Nnh ht l ng tin gi ch nh vo thi s din ca chng ta mi c

    th lu thng c.268. Tn d*ng l mt s nnh ht sng sut, kho lo v khng l liu.Chng ta tn dng ngi khc v mc ch l nhn c s tn dng.269. La di v t la di.270. K ngc lm nhng iu ngc nghch.271. Chnh phi ch thc.272. ginh c ci li, cn in in ln mt cht.273. Hy ch lng nghe v tr li.274. Cm kch l s khao kht ngng m i vi mt n hu ln hn.275. Nhng li ni khim tn v khim tn.276. Ti sao cn phi u khu vi mi ngi.277. Thng hi l mt d cm v nhng iu bt hnh c th s gp phitrong tng lai ca chng ta.278. S phn quyt.279. Tim nhim nhng vinh quang ca mt s ngi ny l h thp vinh

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    quang ca nhng ngi khc.280. Gii tranh th nhng li khuyn ca ngi khc.281. S ngy th gi to l mt s la o tinh vi.282. S hoang ng cn mt th din hn s mt th din.283. Trnh b ngi khc chi phi.284. Tin tng c li cho m phn hn s c tr.285. Trung thc ch l mt th on ngi khc tin tng vo mnh.286. Lng t mn.287. Kho lo li dng sc mnh ca s gng mu.288. Con ngi cao qu v nhng th cao qu.289. Khng nn b qua nhng vic chn ngt.290. Khng nn tc gin vi nhng ngi du dim chn tng ca mnh.291. Khng c nhng ngi tt yu qu l mt chuyn tht ng bun

    nhng khng c nhng ngi xu yu qu lun lun l mt vic tht maymn.292. Nn cn c vo s ng dng ca mt ngi i vi phm cht phnon gi tr ca h.293. Mu gian ch l biu hin ca s thiu sng sut.294. Nhng ngi tt khng bao gi nh ht nhng vic tt m h lm.295. Khng nn i tm nhng iu xu xa ngi khc.296. Ngi bu xu ngi khc cng ng thi bu xu chnh bn thn mnh.

    297. Cnh gic vi nhng nh hng bn ngoi.298. Ch trch.299. Lm mt ngi hnh thin.300. Ngh trc khi ni.301. Tranh lun v chn l.302. Trnh ginh chin thng trc nhng ngi u vit hn bn.303. Khng nhn ri.304. Nhy cm.305. Pht hin ra ng c ca mi ngi.306. Kim ch s ch bai i vi nhng ngi khc.307. C mt tm lng lng thin quan trng hn nhn c mt s tn knhthng thng.308. S dng mnh khe nhng khng nn lm dng n.309. Khng ngi khc lm cho kh x.310. Khng nn phi by mi th.

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    311. u vit hn na.312. Khng nn khut phc trc mt thi quen khng tt.313. Tm mt lung linh.314. i mi nh ho quang ca bn.315. Li dng ch th ca mnh.316. mi mt ngi duy tr c lng tn knh ca h.317. Nn c bn b.318. Ch kt bn vi nhng ngi c danh d.319. ng bao gi ni v mnh.320. Quen vi khuyt im ca nhng ngi bn mi.321. Hy bn l ngi khin ngi khc phi hoi nim.322. Khng nn ri vo danh sch en.323. Phn bit ngi ni li thin v lm vic thin.

    324. Khng nn lng ph sc nh hng.325. Lng tin.326. Li dng s thiu thn ca ngi khc.327. Khng nn em ton b s ng h ca mnh ra phung ph.328. Cnh gic vi nhng ngi khu pht tm x.329. Khng nn cng k ngc trn lng.330. Li dng s ngu xun.331. Hy chu ng s ci nho ca ngi khc nhng ng bao gi ci

    nho li h.332. Khng nn thun lng qu.333. ng bao gi cho ai tha mn tr phi ngi ta yu cu.334. Khi no th thay i ch cu chuyn.335. Mt ln ch lm mt cht iu thin nhng cn lm thng xuyn.336. Cn chun b tt trnh gp tai ha.337. Tm ra mt ngi c th chia se nhng gnh nng vi bn.338. nhng ngi di quyn lm nhng vic kh.339. ng tr nn xu xa v ci tt thun ty.340. Li ni du dng, thi ngt ngo.341. Ngi khng ngoan ngay t u s lm nhng vic m k ngc thng li lm sau cng.342. Li dng v tr mi m ca bn.343. Khng nn mt mnh ch trch mt vic c tt c mi ngi uthch th.

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    344. Khng nn phn bc ngi phn bc bn.345. S tin tng sng i ca mt ngi sng sut.346. Khng l din khin mnh cng c ngi khc tn trng.347. Mt tr tu sng sut thc s l s tinh t thn trng vng vng.348. Khng nn cht v s bt hnh ca ngi khc.349. Khng nn chu trch nhim i vi tt c mi ngi hay vi ch mtngi.350. Khng nn hnh ng da vo lng nhit tnh.351. Bit cch phn on ngi khc nh th no.352. Khng nn kt giao vi nhng ngi bn khin bn tr nn lu m nhtnha.353. Hy tm kim nhng ngi c th dy bo, hng dn cho bn.

    PART FIVE Yu T Ca Thnh Cng

    354. S thch th n t c phn on nhiu hn l n t l tnh.355. c quan st v l tr.356. L tnh cng nhiu khi ty tin xui ta lm nhng chuyn ngu ngc.357. Khng nn theo ui n cng nhng vic m ch c l tr mong mun.358. Khng bit s l mt sc mnh kit xut ca tinh thn.

    359. S yu mm cn c hi cho tm hn hn c nhng hnh ng c c.360. Phm cht tt xu cn s oi thng ca c hi.361. S hng bin thc s l ni tt c nhng g cn ni v ch ni nhng gcn ni m thi.362. Thi s din lm con ngi ta tr nn hung c hn.363. Lng dng cm l mt ngh mo him m ngi ta phi theo v munmu sinh.364. Vinh d l vt bo lnh ginh c nhng iu bn mun.365. To ha to ra u th, s mnh lm n tr thnh mt tc phm.366. T khen ngi bn thn mnh.367. Hy thc c s tht bi ca mnh.368. Mt tri bt dit li khng khin mi ngi nhn lu c.369. Bit giu gim s thng minh ca mnh chnh l mt s thng minhv i.370. S kin nh ca mt hin gia chng qua ch l mt ngh thut ngn

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    cn tm hn mnh khng b dao ng m thi.371. Khng nn t mnh khoc lc.372. Hy suy xt vn bng ci u ca chnh mnh.373. Ngi thng minh th khng c hc vn, ngi c hc vn th li khngthng minh.374. Hc hi tr thnh ngi thng minh lng thin hn.375. c sch cn c nhng sch tt.376. Tri thc c c nh s my m suy ngh.377. Tm kim chn l.378. Hy lm vic theo nhng nguyn tc.379. Mt cu ni ngu ngc thng dn ti mt ti c ty tri.380. Hy hnh ng tht nhiu v ni t thi.381. Im lng l vng.

    382. S im lng l bng chng ca nng lc.383. T b thi quen ch trch ngi khc.384. Hnh trnh ngn dm bt u t di i chn mnh.385. Hy hc cch ni khng bit.386. Mt cch trnh khi au thng.387. ng nn ch suy ngh v kt qu nhng hnh ng ca mnh.388. Nn hn ch ci suy ngh rng: Hy i ti .389. Hy dng cu ni Trc y ti cha lm c vic ny thay cho cu

    vic ny ti khng lm c.390. Vic quan trng nht m mi ngi cn lm l khng lm iu xu.391. Khi gp nhng vic khng bit phi lm nh th no? Bt k lc no

    bn cng nn kim ch.392. Phng trnh sai lm.393. Hy ch ni nhng li tt p v ngi ang sng.394. Nu mun t do, hy hc cch khng ch nhng ham mun ca mnh.395. Hy s dng nhng t ng thng minh ng lc ng ch.396. Hy bit lc no th s vic chn mui v hy hng th chng.397. Khng nn bn lun v ngi khc.398. Mt tri thc khng c dng kh cng v dng.399. Thy tt th nhn.400. Tri thc v thin .401. Trn tnh.402. La chn vn mnh, trnh gp iu bt hnh.

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    403. Hnh s c lc cn suy ngh tht k cng c lc cn hnh ng tc th.404. Bn cht v phng thc.405. Cch thc ca vic thay i hnh ng.406. Cn mn v nng lc.407. Ngh thut ca s may mn.408. Mt kin thc ph hp.409. ng bao gi khoe khoang410. Khng ngng kch ng411. i cng v nhn.412. Quan st thu o, phn on chun xc.413. Bit cch lm th no la chn tt nht.414. Mt gi tr ln cn b ra mt cng sc ln.415. S phn on hon ho.

    416. Kt qu quan trng hn qu trnh.417. Cn theo ui mt ngh nghip c tn trng.418. Khng ngi khc bit ht v kh nng ca bn.419. La chn mt nhn vt anh hng lm tm gng cho mnh.420. Khng nn lc no cng tu to.421. Trnh b ph bang.422. ng i n khi bn tr thnh mt tri ln xung pha Ty.423. Hy nhn cho chnh xc ni dung ca s vt.

    424. i vi tt c mi chuyn bao gi cng nn gi li cho mnh mt cht g.425. Khng nn hng dn k th lm nhng iu chng cn lm.426. Khng nn b tri buc vo trong nhng nghi thc.427. Ch c t cc danh d ca bn cho mt ln nh bc.428. T bit tm nim an i trong mi hon cnh.429. Bit cm th nh th no.430. Hy gi li iu g hi vng.431. Phi bit lc no th chn nng b nh, lc no th chn nh b nng.432. Khng nn lp li cng mt li lm.433. Hy mong i au kh n bin n thnh li ch.434. s vic tm thi dng trng thi cha r rng.435. ng ngu xun n cng.436. Phi bit qun.437. Khng nn c qu nhiu th.

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    438. S dng cch ni lng.439. ng nn sng l l.440 . ng nn i n cc oan.441. Ch nn ngn ng do d.442. su v rng.

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    PART ONE Hiu R Bn Thn

    Thc ra mi con ngi chng ta u v tri c, ch c

    iu tng phng din v tri khc nhau m thi.

    1. Trc khi hiu c Thng , con ngi ta phi hiuc chnh mnh trc .Nu mt ngi m n ngay c bn thn mnh cng khng hiu

    ni th ng ph hoi cng sc khuyn anh ta i tm hiu th giilm g. iu ny ch c th lm c i vi nhng ngi hiu rbn thn anh ta m thi. Trc khi hiu c Thng , conngi cn phi hiu r bn thn mnh trc .

    Con ngi ta khng giy pht no khng t hi bn thn mnh,mnh l ai, mnh ang lm g, ang ngh g, ang cm th iu g?V cu tr li ca anh ta thng l: mnh ang lm mt vic g ,

    ang ngh mt iu g , ang cm th mt iu g .Nhng nu con ngi ta t hi bn thn mnh rng: Th cingi no thc c vic mnh ang lm, iu mnh angngh, v ci mnh ang cm nhn l ai vy? Cu tr li ca anh tal chng c ai khc ngoi chnh bn thn mnh. M ci chnhbn thn mnh y li chnh l linh hn nh chng tao ni.

    Sng v ao khng ging nhau, ao v chum khng ging nhau,

    chum v vi cng khng ging nhau. Th nhng ci m sng, ao,chum hay vi ng u l nc. Cng ging vy, con ngi ta vnkhng ging nhau, nhng linh hn sng trong ni ti h li l mt.Ai ai cng c trch nhim vi nhng ngi khc, trch nhim ivi bn thn, v trch nhim i vi chnh lng tm h. Trchnhim ny khng lm vy bn, mai mt hay b tc linh hn m

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    ngc li, n lm cho linh hn khng ngng c nui dng,sinh trng v ln ln.

    Linh hn v th xc, l hai th m ngi ta tng thuc vmnh nn lc no cng lo u v n. Nhng bn nn bit rng, con

    ngi ch thc ca bn khng phi l thn xc bn m chnh llinh hn bn. Nn nh k iu ny, hy t linh hn mnh phacao hn th xc, ng linh hn b nhng thi i trn tc lmnh bn, cng ng th xc ln t n, c nh th cuc sng cabn mi tht tt p.

    Khi bn thy au n th c ngha l u trn c th bnkhng c n. Khi bn lm mt vic khng nn lm, khng lm

    c vic bn nn lm hay mong mun lm th cuc sng tm linhca bn cng din ra y nh th. Khi bn thy bun chn, tc ginhoc khi ban yu qu mt th m bn khng nn yu hay bnkhng c c ci m bn yu qu, th bn cn bit rng cch no khng n tha.

    2. iu bt hnh ca con ngi l nh mt i linh hn bmsinh v nng lc yu thng.

    Nh Abikettide tng ni, nga mun thot khi k th cnphi nh vo tc chy nhanh. iu bt hnh ca loi ngakhng phi v chng khng bit gy ln nh g m ch chngmt i bn nng chy nhanh.

    Loi ch qu nht kh nng khu gic. Khi chng mt ikh nng khu gic th tht s l mt iu tht bt hnh. Conngi ta cng vy, iu bt hnh ca loi ngi khng phi v

    khng th nh bi mt con gu, mt con s t hoc thm ch lmt k th hung c hn m ch mt i th qu gi nht mThng ban tng: Linh hn v nng lc yu thng.

    iu bt hnh con ngi khng phi l ci cht, cngkhng phi v mt mt tin bc, khng c nh, khng c ti sn.iu ng bt hnh nht l mt i th qu gi nht: Nng lc

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    yu thng.

    3. Ngi no khng bit trn u mnh cn c ai, ngi skhm ph ra rt nhiu iu bn thn mnh.

    Sc mnh thc s khng phi chin thng k khc m l chinthng chnh bn thn mnh, khng phn con ln t linh hnca phn ngi.

    Con ngi ta c th tm ra tt c mi th, ch khng giitm thy chnh mnh m thi. y qu thc l mt iu ht sck l. Ngi ta sng trn i bao nhiu nm, khi cm thy mnhl ti cao th mi l lc pht hin ra chnh bn thn mnh.Ngi ta ch cn ch n iu ny th lp tc s hiu ra rng,ch cn trong tm hn mnh c mt ch yu th cuc sng str nn tt p bit nhng no. Tt nhin l chng ta rt t khisuy ngh vn no mt cch c lp, thm , cho n tnngy nay, chng ta vn cha cm thy iu ny.

    Chng ta c ph hoi lm hng u c ca chng ta ingh ngi nhng iu g m khng chu c gng cm nhnth tm linh duy nht y.

    C ngi g khi xa ri thc t cuc sng ny mt cht, mmnh vo nhng suy ngh ca ring mnh mt cht, chng ta shiu rng hnh phc ca chng ta l g.

    Khi c th chng ta yu t, khng sch s th trong c th vn cha ng mt hn ngc qu m Thng ban tng:linh hn bt t. Mt khi bn thn chng ta thc c hnngc linh hn ny th t khc chng ta s dng tnh yu i x

    vi nhng ngi khc. Khi chng ta bit yu nhng ngi khcngoi chnh bn thn ta th ngay lc chng ta ginh ctt c nhng g m linh hn ang khao kht, l hnh phc.

    4. Kinh nghim i giyKhi i mt i giy mi, ngi ta thng ht sc cn thn trnh

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    nhng ch ly li, nhng nu chng may l chn lm i giybn mt th anh ta s chng cn gn gi n nh ban u na, vn khi nhn thy i giy ca mnhh bn ht ri, anh ta smnh dn dm vo nhng ch bn ly bn thu lm i giy

    bn cng bn hn.Cng ging th, mt thanh nin khi cha b nhng iuxu xa ca cuc i lm vy bn th vn cn thn gi gn, trnhxa nhng th xu xa nhng mt khi phm phi mt hailn th anh ta s chng thit phi gi gn lm g na v ngh rngsuy cho cng c cn thn hay khng cng khng th trnhc, th l thi xu s t nhim vo ngi lc no khng hay.Khng nn nh vy, nu chng may trt lm bn ri th bn hyra sch n i v cng ch gi gn hn na; mc li lm hybit hi hn v cng phi cnh gic hn. Khi mt thanh ninmi bt u cuc sng, phi i trn nhng con ng mi v xal, h pht hin ra rng bn cnh nhng con ng cn cnhng con ng nh rt bng phng, rt hp dn. Nu bcchn vo con ng th ci cm gic u tin h cm nhnc l s m i thoi mi, cng i cng su, v khi mun

    tr li con ng chnh kia, h li khng bit phi i nh thno tr v, cn nu c i theo con ng nh th cng icng xa, c xa mi, xa mi cho n cht.

    5. Hu ht ti c u xut pht t nhng tm trng ng ngsay.Mt ngi cm n m mm i trong m ti, vt v lm m

    chng nhn ra ng, lc c li v. Lc mt mi r ri, anhta thi tt n ph mc cho s phn, c i, mun n u thn.

    Ngi no dng ru, thuc phin hay ma ty nhla cm gic ca chnh mnh l no li chng ging th haysao? Nhng con ng ca cuc i ny vn rt kh nhn r,

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    trnh lc ng mi khi i lch hng, ngi ta phi utranh tm mi cch tr v vi con ng c. Nhng sau trnh phi tm ng kh s, mt s ngi dng ru,hay mt s cht ma ty khc dp tt i mt tia sng duy nht

    trong tm hn, l l tnh.Mi ngi khc nhau li c nhng thi quen xu khcnhau nhng thi quen ht thuc v ung ru li c tt cmi ngi, bt k k giu hay ngho. l v i a s conngi u khng thy tha mn vi cuc sng ca mnh.Nguyn nhn dn n s khng tha mn l ci h mun tmthy ch l s tha mn v mt xc tht, m xc tht th khngbao gi l c. tm kim s tha mn y, ngi ta phi tmn ru, bt k l ai, giu hay ngho cng mun chm mtrong ru qun.

    Bt lun lc no, bt k l ai cng khng nn ung chosay, ht cho , hy i lm nhng vic c ch hn nh lm vic,suy ngh, thm ngi m hay thm ch ch l i cu nguynThng ph h. i a s nhng ngi gy ti c u hnhs trong trng thi khng tnh to.

    6. Khng coi mnh tm thng, bn s c c tin ti v mtcm gic an ton.Ch c nhng ngi lun tin rng bn thn khng phi l mt

    ngi tm thng m cao hn tt c mi ngi mi c th kimc tin ti cng nh cm gic an ton. Ch c nhng ngi lunc ngh rng mnh c th chin thng tt c mi ngi mi t tm

    kim c tin ti v t bin bch cho mnh. iu ng ngc nhinnht l s chim hu vt cht, ci ng ra khin ngi ta cm thyh thn li tr thnh minh chng ch yu cho s tin b ca anh taso vi nhng ngi khc. Ti c c tin bc bi v ti cao quhn ngi khc. V ti cao qu hn ngi khc bi v ti c tinbc. Nhng ngi ny thng ni nh vy.

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    7. Ch ra khuyt im ca ngi khc th hin mnh chchng t mt iu l bn ch c t nng lc g.Ngi ta thng ch ra khuyt im ca ngi khc th hinbn thn mnh nhng dng cch ny ch chng t mt iu h

    chng c t nng lc g.Mt con ngi cng thng minh lng thin, cng nhn ranhiu ci p ngi khc; ngc li, ngi cng ngu dt thcng c c, h ch nhn thy nhng khuyt im ngi khcm thi.

    Bt k ai cng khng nn t cho mnh thng minh, lngthin, tt p hn ngi khc. Ti sao nh th, nguyn nhn chc mt, l chng ai c th bit c gi tr ca tr tu v citt p ca mnh l bao nhiu, li cng khng th bit gi trch thc ca tr tu v nhng iu tt p ngi khc.

    8. Cng t cho mnh cao qu hn ngi khc, cng d lmngi khc tn thng.Lut php n vit th ny: ng lnh h nng l chn ltuyt i khng ai hoi nghi. Cng ging th vi mt chn l

    khc, ngi c sng cuc sng kh s cn ngi lng thin sc cuc sng tt p. Khng nn bt k ai phi ci ln cho dphi chu au kh v ut c; bt lun mt c ch, li ni, hnhng no cng u khng nn gy tn thng n ngi khc.Ci ln v h nhc ngi khc s cp i hnh phc ch thcca con ngi.

    Nu ti bit rng, tc gin s cp i hnh phc ch thcca con ngi th ti s khng bao gi t bin minh th chvi nhng ngi khc, cng khng bao gi ly s phn n camnh lm nim t ho m hng phn, nh th s cng lm chongn la phn n lan rng v chy to hn. Khi ngh rng cnphi chin thng s phn n th ti s khng th khng thanhn rng sai lm ch c mt mnh ti v v th, khng thkhng i tm kim s ha gii t pha i nghch.

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    Nhng nh th vn cha . Nu by gi ti bit rng sphn n chnh l ci c trong linh hn mnh th ti cng cnphi nhn thc r ci g dn n ci c ny. Dn n ci cny chnh l do ti qun mt rng ci tn ti trn con ngi

    ti th cng tn ti trn nhng ngi khc na. By gi th tinhn ra rng t tch mnh khi mi ngi v t cho mnh caoqu hn h chnh l mt trong nhng nguyn nhn ch yukhin bn tr nn th ch vi nhng ngi khc. Ti ngh vcuc sng trc y ca mnh v nhn ra ti cha tng phn nhay nhc m nhng ngi c a v thp km hn mnh hoc vnhng iu nh nht m ngi ta lm mnh khng vui. Cngngh mnh cao qu hn nhng ngi khc, thm ch khi nghrng a v ca ngi ta khng cao lm cng l mt cch coithng ngi khc ri.

    9. Kiu ngo l s t t t li khng c cch no kim chc.Theo Lisfebe quan st, tnh kiu ngo ca con ngi ta rt khthay i. Nu nh bn lp ci l ny i th ngay lp tc s c

    ngay ci l khc th ra, bt kn ci l ny li mc ngay vi baci khc, c th mi.

    Ch yu bn thn mnh, chnh l ci gc su xa ca thikiu ngo. Kiu ngo, l s t t t li khng th kim chhay kim sot ni. Ngi kiu ngo lun t cho mnh lngthin v tt p hn nhng ngi khc. Mt s ngi kiu ngokhc li ngh rng nhng ngi kiu ngo kia chng c g l tt

    p c, ch c mnh h l tt nht m thi. Nhng ngi nykhng bao gi t cm thy do d hay bn khon v iu ny, hhon ton tin rng nhng ngi lun thy mnh cao qu hnngi khc u mc sai lm c, ch c h l ng thi.

    Kiu ngo hon ton khng phi l s th hin nim t hoca con ngi. Thi kiu ngo ln dn ln cng vi s cung

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    knh v tn dng gi to t nhng ngi khc, n ngc vis t ho ch s t ho ta sng nh nhng kh khn khnhc m ngi phi chu ng.

    Con ngi ta cng bng lng vi bn thn th nhng ci

    ng bng lng trn ngi anh ta cng t i. Thng rng th kuto, thi kiu ngo cng ging vy. V th, trong tp kinh caPht gio c on khuyn ngi ta rng, nhn dng sng rabin ln cng hc c mt iu: dng sng nh th gm gochy xit cn bin c mnh mng ch lng l khng li.

    Ngi kiu ngo lo s tt thy cc li ch trch bi v h tcm thy s v i ca mnh vn khng chc chn, n nh mtci bong bong m h t thi ln, ch cn mt ci l nh lkhng tn ti na, s v i ca h cng ging vy, khng th tnti lu c.

    S ngu xun c th khng ng hnh cng vi s kiungo nhng s kiu ngo th lun lun song hnh vi s nguxun. Mt ngi cng kiu ngo bao nhiu th nhng ngi coih l k ngu xun v li dng h cng nhiu by nhiu. Cchngh ca nhng ngi ny khng sai, bi v h bit dng nhng

    th on khng giu dim la gt m nhng k kiu ngokhng hay bit. S kiu ngo khng cn nghi ng g na, chnhl s ngu xun.

    10. Ch bt chc ngi khc th khng th khin tr tupht trin c.Armson c ni rng chng ta b ra qu nhiu cng sc bt trc ngi khc m khng dng cng sc ny vo tr tuv tm hn ca chnh bn thn mnh.

    Mt ngi hi mt ngi khc, ti sao anh li lm mtvic m anh khng thch. Bi v nhng ngi khc u lmnh vy ngi tr li.

    Ch trch ai cng nh vy, ti khng lm th, ngi khccng khng lm th.

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    Tt nhin l khng phi ai cng lm th nhng a s mingi u lm th.

    Nhng anh th ni cho ti bit, ngi no nhiu hn:ngi thng minh hay nhng ngi ngu ngc?.

    ng nhin l ngi ngu ngc nhiu hn.Bit vy th c ngha l anh ang i vo vt xe canhng ngi khc ?.

    11. Ngi kiu ngo.iu quan trng nht trong cuc sng l hon thin tm hnmnh. Nhng ngi kiu ngo li lun tm nim rng mnh lcon ngi thp ton thp m. Chnh v iu ny, thi kiu ngocc k c hi, n ngn cn con ngi ta hon thnh s nghipquan trng nht ca i ngi, ngn cn ngi ta hon thincuc sng ca bn thn mnh.

    K kiu ngo lc no cng bn rn i dy bo ngi khc,cn bn thn th chng bao gi t kim im, m cng chngcn phi t kim im lm g v trong mt h, h lun l nhngngi tt nht. Chnh v th m cng ln mt dy d ngi khc

    th h cng tr nn t hn. Nh chng 23 trong M ThiPhc m c vit: Trong s cc ngi, ai t cho mnh v ith ngi ch lm ngi hu cho nhng ngi khc v t caott s tr nn ti t, nhng ngi t ti s c gng hon thinmnh hn. S t cao mnh tt s lm hi mnh bi v khic ngi khc cho l tt p, thng minh, l lng thin rith s khng c gng tr nn tt p hn, thng minh hn,

    lng thin hn na. Ngc li, nhng ngi lun khim tn slun c gng n lc hon thin mnh, v h lun ngh rngbn thn cha tht tt cn phi c gng nhiu hn na.

    Hnh ng ca k kiu ngo ging nh ngi ta i c kheovy, khng phi i bng i chn ca chnh mnh nn khngphi gim ln bn bn trn mt ng, c th bc nhng bc

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    tht di na. Nhng tht bt hnh ch: i trn i chn ckheo y, anh ta c th c bao xa y, thm na li c th ngxung bn nh bt k lc no, va b ngi khc ch ci, cuicng l rt li pha sau. Ngi kiu ngo l nh vy y, h s

    tt li rt xa so vi nhng ngi khc, nhng ngi khng tko di mnh c. Khng ch c th, k kiu ngo cn trthnh tr ci cho nhng ngi khc khi h ng nho xung tnhng i chn c kheo cao ngt.

    12. Khi mt ngi dng dng t c ni rng: Nhnxem ny, ti c bao nhiu iu tt p th c ngha l ngi bt u ri xung bn en.Hai k kiu ngo i cng nhau trn ng, ngi no cng tcho mnh cao hn nhng ngi khc trn i. Nhng ngikhc bn ngoi nhn vo thy tnh cnh ny tht bun cinhng bn thn hai k kiu ngo kia th khng h thy nh th,chng nhn nhau th ch, v th m t chng hnh h bnthn. Khi hai ngi th ch ln nhau th h bit rng nh th lkhng tt. Th nhng t la di mnh, h phi tm ra l do

    bin h cho s th ch y trong lng. Mt trong nhng l doy l, mnh u t hn nhng ngi khc nhng ngi ta khnghiu r iu ny, th nn mnh khng th ha hp c vingi ta; mt l do na l, gia nh mnh tt p hn nhng gianh khc; l do th ba l, mnh sinh ra mt dn tc u t hnnhng dn tc khc.

    Chng c g trn i ging nh s kiu ngo v bn thn,

    gia nh, giai cp v dn tc. Con ngi khng yu thng anhem ca mnh m tc gin vi h, iu ny khng tt. T hnna, con ngi cn tuyt i tin tng rng bn thn mnhkhng ging nhng ngi tm thng khc m u t hn h,chnh v th h c th khng i x vi nhng ngi khcging nh bn thn h mun nhng ngi khc i x vi

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    mnh.Con ngi kiu ngo v bn thn l ngu ngc, nhng

    kiu ngo v b m, t tin, bn b, giai cp v dn tc camnh li cn ngu ngc hn.

    T cho mnh l ngi tt nht, l iu tht ngu xun vt hi, iu ny chng ta u hiu r. Coi gia nh mnh cao quhn nhng gia nh khc cng ngu xun v t hi hn. Chng tathng khng ch bit n iu ny m cn coi l mt uim c bit. T coi dn tc ca mnh cao qu hn nhng dntc khc l iu ngc nht trong nhng iu ngc. Nhng conngi ta li khng thy nh vy, ngc li, h cn coi l mtphm cht v i.

    Khi mt ngi dng dng t c ni rng Hy nhnny, con ngi ti c bao nhiu iu tt p. th cng l lccon ngi bt u ri xung bn en.

    13. Hnh phc ca bn ch yu quyt nh bi vic bnnhn nhn bn thn mnh nh th no.C mt s ngi rt k l, h sng khng v hnh phc ca

    mnh, cng khng sng v hnh phc ca ngi khc m h chsng c c s tn dng ca mi ngi m thi. ngthi, nhng ngi khng coi trng vic ngi khc c tn ngvi hnh ng ca mnh hay khng m coi trng hnh phcmnh em li cho ngi khc li cng t.

    Nu vi bn, quan trng nht l nhn nhn bn thn mnhnh th no bi v bn c hnh phc hay khng cng u do

    yu t ny quyt nh ch khng phi l s i x nhn nhnca ngi khc th ng nn suy ngh xem nhn th bnh lung, hy tp trung ngh xem lm th no ci thin cuc sngtinh thn ca mnh ch khng lm n mai mt i.

    14. Ngi t cho mnh l ngi siu phm lun lun cho

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    rng bn thn mnh cao qu hn nhng ngi khc.Con ngi ta c thi quen phn chia ngi khc ra thnh nhiuloi ty vo thnh phn xut thn, cao qu hay thp hn, cgio dc hay khng c gio dc. Nhng nu ni mt cch cng

    bng th mt s ngi ny c cuc sng sung sng hn nhngngi khc, ngi kia c nhiu ngi tn trng hn cng chdo s ngi ny c ngi ta quy vo tng lp ny, cn ngikia li b quy v tng lp kia m thi.

    Nu ai t coi mnh khng tm thng nh nhng ngikhc cng ch bi v hoc l anh ta c hnh dng cao ln hnnhng ngi khc, hoc l thng minh hn nhng ngi khc,hoc linh hot hn nhng ngi khc, hoc ni ting hn, hoclng thin tt bng hn. Nhng nhn thc ny c th hiuc. Ci khin ngi ta thy bt bnh ng l mt s nginy c gi l nng phu, cng nhn, ngi i giy da ty,ngi ch c dp c

    Mt s ngi t cho v cng c nhng ngi khc chorng h khng ging vi nhng ngi bnh thng. Trong sh, c ngi l qu tc, c ngi lm thng nhn, c ngi

    lm tnh trng, c ngi lm chnh n, lm quan, lm hongthng, lm i thn, Tt c nhng ngi ny u khnglm vic theo chc trch ca mnh m lm vic theo ci gi lqu tc, thng nhn, chnh n, tnh trng, i thn,

    Mt thi quen m nhng ngi giu c hay c l, vi mts ngi ny h gi l ng, s ngi khc gi l ngi, bttay vi ngi ny, khng bt tay vi ngi kia, vi s ngi

    ny th tip trong phng khch, vi ngi khc li ch tipchuyn hnh lang. iu ny chng t, khong cch tha nhns bnh ng gia ngi vi ngi vn cn qu xa.

    15. Trong tt c cc thi xu th ci m ta thng khngbit nht chnh l s li nhc.

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    Trong tt c cc thi xu th ci m ta thng khng bit nhtchnh l s li nhc. Trong tt thy nhng thi xu th s linhc l c hi nht, tuy nhin, s tai hi gh gm ca n li khc th nhn ra, tc hi m n gy ra ht sc ngm ngm. Nu

    chng ta ch suy ngh v sc mnh tai hi ca s li nhc,chng ta s thy n len li vo mi ngc ngch tnh cm tronglng ta, tr thnh ch nhn mi tnh cm, mi li ch v nimvui ca ta; n ging nh mt loi c, c kh nng lm ngngbc tin ca c mt con tu ln; n ging nh s im lngtrc khi bt u mt cn gi ln. i vi nhng s vic quantrng nh th th n cn nguy him hn nhng tng bng ngmhay nhng trn gi li nh; s yn nh ca thi li nhc lmt ba php giu kn trong linh hn, n t nhin gc linhng mong mun mnh lit v lng quyt tm st nht.Cui cng, cho thi xu ny mt quan im chnh xc nht,chng ta nn kt lun rng thi li nhc chnh l ng ch calinh hn, cp i tt thy nhng li ch i vi tm hn.

    16. Nhng tnh cm bt pht khin ngi sng sut nht

    bin thnh k in r v bin mt g ngc tr nn thngminh tuyt nh.Nhng tnh cm bt pht khng ngng ny sinh trong tm hnchng ta. Hu nh c mi mt tnh cm ny mt i th li cngay tnh cm khc th ch. Khi linh hn ta b tn d ca mttnh cm bt pht no y tc ng vo, chng ta vn mun nnhn mt th tnh cm khc hn l tip tc theo ui ci tnh

    cm c y. n na gia cuc i mi l lc nhng tnh cmbt pht ngng li.Chng ta chng bao gi thi gian lm r xem nhng

    tnh cm y c tc ng th no i vi nhng vic ta lm.Nhng tnh cm bt pht ca thanh nin khng th nguy

    him bng s lnh m ca tui gi. Nhng tnh cm bt pht

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    khin ngi sng sut nht bin thnh k in r v bin mt gngc tr nn thng minh tuyt nh. Tt c nhng tnh cm btpht y u khin ta x l sai cng vic, tnh yu cn khin talm nhng vic sai lm bun ci hn.

    Tnh cm bt pht l mt nh din thuyt sut t u ncui ch lm mi mt vic l thuyt phc ngi khc. C hnh chng ang phc v ch nhn mnh vi mt nguyn tc lchnh xc khng c sai st. Ngi c ti hng bin nu c snnhng tnh cm bt pht cng c sc thuyt phc ngi khc.

    17. Hy khn kho vn dng s ngy ng ca mnh.Ngi bit khn kho li dng s bnh thng tri ph

    ca mnh thng hay t c danh ting v lng knh trnghn nhng ngi trc vit thc s.

    C v s nhng iu hoang ng lc ci lm v d chonh gi trn m l do su kn li cc k r rng, v ng tin cy.

    C mt s ngi m s tinh khn ca h nm ch bitvn dng kho lo s ngy th ca mnh.

    18. Tm l sng bi.Chng ta thng qu mn nhng ngi sng bi mnh chkhng phi lc no cng qu mn ngi mnh sng bi.Yu qu mt ngi m mnh khng knh trng tht kh,nhng vi nhng ngi m mnh knh trng h hn c bnthn mnh cng kh khn nh vy.Chng ta c th tha th cho ngi m ta ght b nhng li

    khng th tha th cho ngi ght b ta.19. Tui thanh xun l mt cn say khng rt, l cn stca l tr.Tui thanh xun l mt cn say khng dt, l cn st ca l tr.Tr m khng p hoc tt p m khng tr na u khng ctc dng. i a s thanh nin khi t ra th l v thiu l php

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    u cho rng iu ny rt t nhin.Nhng thanh nin bc vo x hi cn khim tn, l .

    Nu tht l th bn s nh mt nhiu c hi v l nhng stht l ngu xun.

    20. Ngi thng minh nht l ngi khng cht ng lngtrc nhng vic chng ng g.Ngi thng minh nht l ngi khng cht ng lng trcnhng vic chng ng g, nhng thng th con ngi takhng th dng dng, khng cht ng lng trc nhng vickhng quan trng y.

    Nhng ngi hay n nhng vic nh nht thngkhng c nng lc lm c nhng vic g to tt c. Chng tac d tr nh nh ht nhng vic nh nht chi tit nht? Tisao chng ta li khng c tr nh nh c rng vic nychng ta ni i ni li vi cng mt ngi bit bao nhiuln?

    21. Nng lc v nguyn vng.

    Nng lc ca chng ta cn vt tri hn c nguyn vng nhngchng ta li c bin h cho mnh rng: S vic X no l khng thlm c.

    22. Vn mnh v tm t thng tr th gii.Vn mnh th hin ci c cng nh ci c ca chng taging nh nh sng lm l ra vn vt vy. Khng th xcnh c nhng s vic s lm trong tng lai th trctin chng ta phi chun b cho vn mnh ca mnh.Vn mnh khng m qung nh nhng ngi khng cvn mnh u i cm thy. Vn mnh thc y tt cnhng ngi c ch cho bn thn n. Nn gi gn vnmnh nh gn gi sc khe ca bn thn; khi gp vn mayth li ra dng, khi ang ri ro th tm nhn li ch i, khi

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    khng th khng dng th ng quyt nh nhng vic quln lao. Sau khi vn mnh cho ta mt v tr quan trngm pht hin ra rng chng ta khng t dn dt bn thnhoc khng cu tin nh bn thn hi vng th vic tip tc

    duy tr v vn xng ng vi v tr y l khng th.Vn mnh c mt trong tt c nhng vic ca ta, u ctm t ta xc nh gi tr. Bt k vn mnh ca con ngikhc nhau nh th no u l s b p bnh ng giavn may v vn ri. C lc vn mnh li dng khuytim ca ta nng ta ln. C mt s ngi b ngi khcght b v iu ny, gi d chng ta khng mun thotkhi h th s khng tn thng nhng cng tch ca h.Trit gia thng coi khinh tin bc, chng qua l v hmun t bo th s thng pht khng cng bng cavn mnh khng cho h ci h mun. S mit th nycng l mt b quyt chng t rng h khng b sa ngtrong hon cnh kh khn, thng qua c th ginh lys tn knh ca mi ngi m s tn knh y h khng thc c nh vo tin bc.

    23. Nu ta khng kiu ngo th ta cng khng on trchngi khc kiu ngo.Ging nh vic to ha sp xp cc c quan trn c th conngi mt cch khoa hc v sng sut chng ta cm thytha mn v hnh phc th Ngi cng cho chng ta lng kiungo ta khng bit cch khc phc ni thng kh m mnh

    phi gnh chu.Kiu ngo bao gi cng tm thy l do cho mnh, thm chc khi n t b s din. Tt c mi ngi u kiu ngo gingnhau, ch c iu cch thc v th on th hin khng gingnhau m thi. Nu lng ta khng h kiu ngo th chng ta cngs khng on trch ngi khc kiu ngo. S m qung ca con

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    ngi l kt qu ng s nht m thi kiu ngo ca con ngigy ra: kiu ngo cng lm con ngi m qung cn mqung hn, n ngn cn ta nhn ra s bt hnh m ta c thtrnh c, ngn cn liu thuc cha nhng khuyt im m ta

    mc phi.S kiu ngo pht trin n lm chng ta thay i lunc nhng khuyt im khc na. Thi kiu ngo khin chng tach trch lun c nhng khuyt im m ta tng l bn thnkhng mc phi, ng thi cng lm chng ta khinh b cnhng phm cht tt p m bn thn mnh khng c. Thi kiungo khi ln tnh k trong lng ta cng thng gip ta titch c n.

    Thng cm vi ni bt hnh ca k th chng qua l tra rng ta cao hn h. Khi chng ta khuyn bo nhng ngi chnh vi khng ng n, th nh vo tm l kiu ngo ca hcn hiu qu hn nh vo lng tm h. Chng ta sa cha hkhng bng vic chng ta lm h tin rng nhng ngi khcu c th sa cha c nhng khuyt im .

    Thi kiu ngo, sau khi a ct vi tt c mi ngi trong

    ci v hi kch cuc i ny xong, c v nh qu mi mtvi nhng k sch v s thay hnh i dng, n lin chuynngay sang mt s th hin khc, thng qua nim t ho xutu l din, ni mt cch khc, s t ho l phin bn ca thikiu ngo.

    24. Ni bt hnh ln nht ca con ngi l ni bt hnhkhi b ti c nh gc.

    Nhng hnh ng ca chng ta cha y s may mn hoc bthnh. S khen ch ca chng ta i vi nhng hnh vi ny cngu xut pht t gc may mn hoc l bt hnh.

    Nhn ra mnh bt hnh, l mt s may mn. Nhngchng ta chc s ng vi nhau rng: bt hnh ln nht cacon ngi l khi b ti c nh gc. Mt ngi khng yu qu

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    ai cn hnh phc hn mt ngi khng c ai yu qu.Tt c chng ta ai cng c sc mnh gnh vc ni bt hnh

    ca ngi khc.Chng ta thng tin rng, chng ta c c s kin nh

    khi gp ni bt hnh, thc ra lc chng ta sc tn lc kit,chng ta chp nhn s bt hnh m khng dm nhn thng von m thi.

    25. Ci mc v i khng cao mt ngi khng bit tlp t cng m tri li n cn lm gim thp gi tr cah.Ci mc v i khng cao mt ngi khng bit t lp t cngm tri li n cn lm gim thp gi tr ca h.

    C nhng ngi t cho mnh cao qu, cn coi s bt hnh camnh nh mt th s din, h vinh. H c thuyt phc ngi khc tinrng, ch c nhng i gia mi xng ng nhn c s hnh h cavn mnh m thi.

    Gi s trn con ng thc hin mc tiu ln lao ca mnh, gpphi mt tr ngi khng th vt qua. Ngi ta s t la di bng cchcoi mc tiu ln lao tr thnh mt th mong mun tm thngchng c gi tr g c.

    Trong nhng ngi nho nh c mt g in khng, hn cho rngtt c nhng chic thuyn khi cp bn u l ca mnh, khin mt kt kiu t i tnh ng li, hy i x vi h nh nhng ngi nho nhi x vi k in khng kia.

    26. Khuyt im trong tnh cch cn nhiu hn khuytim trong tinh thn.i vi mi mt vn , chng ta thng c nhiu cch gii

    quyt khc nhau, li khng phi l s phong ph trong tinhthn m l mt khim khuyn ca tr tu, n lm ta dng bckhi ta cn th hin sc tng tng ca bn thn, ngn khng ta thc c ci g l tt nht. Nguyn nhn khin ngi taphn i nhng li l tit l bn thn l : lo s phi phimnh ra trc thin h.

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    Chng ta mc nhng khuyt im nho nh bi v chng tamun ngi khc tin rng chng ta chng c khuyt im g.Nhng khuyt im ca ta thng d tha th hn nhng thon m ta by ra che y nhng khuyt im y. Chng ta

    thy vinh d v nhng khuyt im m ta khng mun sacha.27. C hi khin bn nhn ra ngi khc, cng khin

    chng ta nhn ra chnh mnh.Nu mun tr thnh mt v nhn, hy bit tn dng tt c nhngc hi. Hu ht mi ngi u ging nh thc vt vy, cnhng thuc tnh tim n m ch c c hi mi lm n l ra.

    C hi khin ta nhn ra nhng ngi khc cng lm tanhn ra chnh mnh.

    i vi nhng vic to tt, chng ta khng nn tn nhiutm sc to ra c hi m hy nn ch tn dng nhng chi c sn.

    28. Nguyn tc u tin ca mt tr tu sng sut l cc s sng sut trong tri thc ca chnh mnh.

    Mt trit gia ni rng, nguyn tc u tin ca mt tr tusng sut l c c s sng sut trong tri thc ca chnh mnh.Ch khi bit r mnh th mi bit c nhng ngi khc.Ging nh vy, nguyn tc u tin ca lng nhn t l bnglng vi ci ngho, ch khi no bit bng lng vi ci nghomi c th i x nhn hu vi ngi khc c.

    Con ngi mun thot khi ti li ch c mt cch l u

    tranh nghim khc vi bn thn mnh v khng ngng nhc nhbn thn, gic ng v tnh thng nht ca bn thn vi Thng bi v tt c nhng qu tng ca cuc i ny u doThng mang li.

    29. Thng khng bao gi sa cha li lm ca chngta.

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    Hy t b cch ngh ny i, ngha l ng mong Thng lngi sa cha nhng li lm ca chng ta. V d, ta lm hngmt ba cm, bn ng ngh rng Thng s bin n trthnh mt ba cm ngon; ging nh th, nu bn hi vng thn

    linh s gip v sp sp mi th tr nn tt p hn. Munc cu ri v c c hnh phc m khng da vo n lcca bn thn, chng c th no trn i li d dng nh th c.

    Nh ng Tri hay nhng ngi khc gip mnh thot khinhng hon cnh kh khn him ngho- iu ny tht hoangng bit bao. Con ngi khng cn s gip , cng khngcn thot khi hon cnh hin ti ca mnh. Ci duy nht mcon ngi cn l : hy da vo thc c gng ca bn thn thot khi ti c v s m mui.

    Ch khi no lm c vic ny th hon cnh kh khn cabn mi c ci thin.

    30. Nu mun tt c nhng ngi khc lm tt trc tinmnh phi lm tt .Nu bn thy ch x h ny khng tt, mun thay i n th

    bn phi bit rng, lm c vic , bn ch c mt cchduy nht lm cho tt c mi ngi u lm tht tt, m munlm cho mi ngi u lm tht tt, bn ch c th lm cmt iu, l: bn thn phi lm cho tt.

    Cuc sng ca chng ta ti t? Ti sao vy? Bi v conngi ta khng chu sng cho tt. S d con ngi sng khngtt bi v bn thn h khng tt. V th, chm dt cuc sng

    khng tt , phi lm sao cho mi ngi thay i, bin xuthnh tt. Nhng lm sao lm c vic ny? Bt k ai trnth gii ny cng khng c kh nng thay i tt c mi nginhng ai ai cng c th thay i chnh bn thn mnh. Lc banu, bn c th cm thy rng cng vic ny c v v ch. Bnthay i nhng nhng ngi khc khng thay i, th th phng

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    c ch g c ch? Nhng vn l ch, ai ai cng on trchmt cuc sng ti t. Nu nh vy, nu ai cng bit mt cucsng tt bt ngun t nhng con ngi tt, thm na, ai cngbit rng khng th thay i c ngi khc th ch c th thay

    i c bn thn mnh m thi, th ngha l c th thay i bnthn t xu thnh tt. Ai ai cng thay i bn thn mnh nhvy th c x hi ny cng u c thay i theo.

    Th nn, lm cuc sng ti t l do chnh chng ta v lmcho cuc sng ny tt p hn cng do chnh chng ta.

    31. Sc mnh ch yu ca con ngi th hin s khngch t tng.Sc mnh ch yu ca con ngi th hin s khng ch ttng bi v tt c hnh vi ca con ngi u bt ngun t ttng.

    Cn g qu gi hn khi bit suy ngh cho tht thu o.Da vo sc mnh c bp khng th no thot ra khi ti

    li v s m mui. Mun lm c vic ch c th da vosc mnh ca t tng. Da vo t tng mi hc c cch hi

    sinh bn thn, mi hc c s chn thnh v khim tn. Phibit qun mnh i trong t tng, khim tn v chn thnh mic sc mnh chin u trong cuc u tranh vi ti c vs m mui.

    Chainerza ni, nu chng ta khng thay i thi quen cat duy, chng ta s khng th no c c nhng c m ttp. Thi quen t duy quyt nh c m ca con ngi m t

    duy li hnh thnh t s kt tinh gom gp nhng yu t lm conngi trn tri t ny tr nn lng thin.

    32. i vi mt ngi y l tnh th bt k kh khn giankh no cng gip ch cho h.Nu ai khng bit rng: mt c th nhn thy mi th v

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    ngi cng cha bao gi m mt ra th trong hon cnh ,anh ta tht ng thng. Ging nh vy, nu mt ngi khngbit rng, bnh tnh n nhn mun vn gian kh s cng tipthm cho ngi ta sc mnh t tng th ngi cng tht

    ng thng. Nu mt ngi c nhiu l tnh, anh ta s c thbnh thn n nhn nhng kh khn gian kh: bi v, u tin ltnh ni vi anh ta rng, kh khn no ri cng qua i, thmna, kh khn thng thng bin thnh nhng iu tt; tiptheo, nhng kh khn i vi ngi giu l tnh u tr nn cch. Vy nn sau , h khng i din vi kh khn na mtm cch thot khi n.

    Thng cho chng ta sc mnh chng ta khi aukh khi gp nhng vic khng ging nh mong mun cachng ta, khng phi l iu ng mng hay sao? Thng lm linh hn chng ta ch phc tng theo nhng th mchng ta c th khng ch c l l tnh. Chng ta khngnn cm n Thng v iu hay sao? Phi bit rng,Thng khng ta phi phc tng ai: b m, anh em,cng khng ta phi phc tng tin ti, th xc hay thm ch

    l ci cht. Ngi, vi lng nhn t ca mnh, ch linh hn taphc v ci ph thuc vo bn thn ta, l l tnh.

    33. i tm ngha lng thin trong chnh bn thn mnh.Cuc sng ca chng ta tt p hay ti t u quyt nh bi ttng ca chng ta, t tng l th c th iu chnh c.

    Tri cy sinh ra t ht ging, cng nh hnh vi sinh ra t

    t tng vy.Ging cy xu th cho ra th qu khng ngon, mt ttng xu th sn sinh ra nhng hnh vi khng tt. Bc nngdn phi loi b nhng ht lp, lc ra nhng ht ging chnhcng, ri t nhng ht ging chnh cng y la ra nhng htging u t tht l t k. Tng t vi nhng ngi c l tnh, h

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    cng la chn t tng ca mnh y nh th. H y nhng ngh v b v ti li ra khi u, ch gi li nhng ngh tchcc u t.

    Nu khng b i nhng ngh xu xa, khng bit qu

    trng nhng ngh tch cc, lng thin, bn s khng trnhkhi to ra nhng hnh vi xu. Mt hnh ng lng thin chxut pht t mt ngh lng thin. Hy bit trn trng nhng ngh lng thin. Trong sch ca nhng trit gia, trong nhngli ni tr tu th iu quan trng nht vn l hy tm kimnhng ngh lng thin trong chnh bn thn ta.

    34. Con ngi c to ra suy ngh.Tru, nga hay bt k mt loi ng vt no cho d c li hi

    bao nhiu, nu b nht vo trong th cng khng th no chyra ngoi c. Nu nh ca ng cht v khng c ngi m thchng s cht i trong y m khng bit ko ci cht ca ra.Ch c con ngi mi hiu c, nu mun c c ci mnhmun cn phi nhn li khc phc kh khn v ch c hi vng chmt vi giy lt. Con ngi c th khng ch c bn thn, c

    th khng n, c th khng ung, khng ng, tt c ch bi v conngi hiu c rng ci g l tt v cn thit, cn ci g l khngtt v khng cn thit. Dy con ngi bit nhng iu chnh lnng lc t duy ca chnh h.

    Puska ku ln rng, con ngi c sng to ra suyngh. Ton b u im v thnh qu ca loi ngi u nh von. Chc trch ca con ngi l suy ngh cho chnh xc. Cn th

    t ca suy ngh bt u t chnh bn thn, t chnh s sng to vmc ch ca mnh. Bnh thng con ngi ta suy ngh iu g?Chng c g lin quan n nhng ngh trn c, ci m conngi suy ngh l lm th no thnh danh, lm th no thnhvua m khng bao gi ngh xem ngha ca lm vua v ngha ca lm ngi l nh th no.

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    35. Quen vi kim ch bn thn. tn trng ngi khc nh tn trng bn thn mnh,

    hi vng ngi khc i x nh mnh i x vi h, iu quan

    trng nht l phi bit kim ch bn thn. kim ch cbn thn th phi quen vi vic trc .Mi ln bn rt mun lm mt vic g, cn bnh tnh ngh

    k xem, ci vic m bn rt mun lm kia c ng khng. Chcn bn khng lm nhng vic khng nn lm th bn s lmc nhng vic bn thn mong mun lm, hay t b nhngvic ang lm.

    khng lm iu c, ngoi vic kim ch bn thnkhng lm nhng vic y ra cn phi bit kim ch li n tingni, trnh ni nhng li c c v quan trng nht l khng mnh c nhng ngh c c. Mt khi bn nhn ra rng li nica mnh c khng tt, chm trc, ch trch hay lng mngi khc th hy lp tc dng ngay li v hy nghe nhngngi khc bn lun v nhng vic . Khi tm tr bn xuthin nhng ngh khng tt, bn s kim ch mnh khng lm

    nhng iu c.

    36. Danh ting ch kt thn vi nhng nhn vt chnhC mt s ngi phi dng th on mi chng minh

    c s c tr ca mnh, y l mt s tha mn y nguy him, vl m ni cn phi chu s trng pht. Mt ngi hu cn tt l ngim khng lm s v i ca ch nhn b lu m. Tt c cc thnh tch

    v s vinh quang u thuc v din vin ng vai chnh. Danh tingch kt thn vi nhng nhn vt chnh. Ngi ta t khi ni rng :Ngi hu ny rt tt, cn ng ch th li rt t m thng nirng: Ngh s ny tt, ngh s kia khng tt. Do vy, bn nn cnthn la chn v th thch ngi tr th cho mnh bi v bn khngth khng t danh ting ca mnh ph thc cho nhng ngi thn

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    cn hu h.37. Nhn thc bn thn.

    Phi bit thc v mnh, v thn phn v nng lc camnh, thc s phn on v tnh hng ca bn thn. Bn

    khng th iu khin c mnh nu bn khng thc cbn thn. Cn hiu r tr lc v nng lc v nng lc lm vicca chnh mnh cng cn th nghim lng dng cm ca bnthn na c th to cho mnh mt c s vng chc khin chou c lun lun tnh to i vi mi chuyn.

    38. Nhng ngi sinh ra c t cht thng tr.Khng nn c nhng th on xo qut c c thnhcng m hy dng nng lc thng tr tri cho ginh lyn, cng chnh l mt sc mnh u vit b mt. Tt cmi ngi u b khut phc bi sc mnh y m khngbit nguyn nhn ti sao. Tinh thn uy phong ny nu niv s trng th l vua, nu ni v c quyn th l s t.Cng vi s tn knh m sc mnh ny to ra, nhngngi c sc mnh ny c th nm bt c tnh cm v l

    tr ca nhng ngi khc. Nu h c c nhng phm chtkhc na th nhng ngi ny l my pht ng chnh choc mt quc gia. H ch cn khoanh tay cng c th thngtr c thn dn ca mnh. Ngc li, nu khng c scmnh ny th cn phi lm tht nhiu mi hon thnh cc mun y.

    39. Ngh thut trong ng x.Nhng ngi ngc nghch thng lm vic mt cch h. u c h n gin nn nhn nhn mi vic ht scn thun, h khng lng trc nhng vic nguy him vkhi tht bi cng khng c cm gic xu h. Nhng ngicn thn khi lm vic g, ngi thng suy ngh rt kn

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    k, thm nhp thc t pht hin ra nhng nguy c cth xy ra. Suy ngh trc khi lm vic c th trnh cnhng nguy him c th xy ra, v thn may mn cngthng gip bn trong nhng trng hp nh th. Khi

    bn nghi ng trc mt mnh c by th hy bc i cnthn. Ngi sng sut cn bit rng, cho d thn may mnc m ca pha ny i chng na th thn xui xo c thli n t pha khc. Nu khng r nng su th khuynbn nn bc i cn thn, c nh vy chn bn mi tht st trn t lin.

    40. Hy th hin mnh cho tt.S vic khng bao gi th hin bn cht vn c m ch thhin v b ngoi ca n m thi. Hy t ra c ch, ngthi cng bit lm th no tr thnh ngi c ch, nhth s c ch y s tng ln gp i. Khng nhn thy thging nh l khng tn ti vy. Nu mt s vic khng thhin ng chn tng ca n th n khng th nhn cmt s suy xt thch ng. V s lng, ngi cnh gic

    khng b v ngoi ca s vic la di thng t hn nhiungi b v ngoi la di. S la di khng ch con ngi.Rt nhiu ngi nh gi qu hnh thc ch t c ai nhnthng vo thc cht. Mt v ngoi ho nhong l t giythng hnh c gi tr nht cho ni dung ca n.

    41. Hy mnh ng vo trung tm ca s vic.

    C nh th bn mi cm nhn c nhp p ca ngmch. Rt nhiu ngi b lc v m ui vo nhng cuctho lun v b, hay qu nhiu li khin ngi khc mtmi, h khng nhn ra ni dung ch thc ca s vic. Htho lun v cng mt vn hng trm ln lm cho ngikhc v ngay c chnh bn thn h cm thy chn ngy

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    nhng li khng h cp c n vn ct li ca svic. l bi v, lng h ri nh t v, h khng ccch no thot khi tm trng hn lon y. H lng phthi gian v s kin tr vo nhng vic khng ng phi

    tm n v cui cng cng vn khng th thot khinhng vic chng cht lin quan g n mnh y.

    42. Khng nn l u ngn tay b thng ca mnh.Khng nn l u ngn tay b thng ca bn v nhth mi th s nhm ch b thng y m chm vo. Bncng ng nn on than, phin no v iu ny chng ctc dng g, tr thnh tr ci cho ngi khc cng ngbun hn.iu c lun lun i tm ch b thng trn con ngi bn d b cng kch bn, thm d t ca bn, tm ra chnhy cm nht ca bn p dng bin php thch hpnht. Ngi sng sut khng bao gi thu nhn mnh bnh trng cng khng l cho i phng bit mnh cbnh tt g. Nu bn mun lm lnh vt thng v khng

    au n na th hy giu vt thng i.

    43. Hy cn thn trong li ni.i vi k th ca mnh, hy ni nng cn thn, y l

    mt nguyn tc phng c bn, i vi nhng ngi khc cnphi cn thn trong li ni th hin s tn trng. Mt li nira bao gi cng d dng nhng li khng d dng thu li n.

    Ni chuyn cng nh lp di chc vy: cng ni t bao nhiu th cng tt by nhiu Nhng ngi ni nng h khngcn thn sm mun g cng s tht bi m thi.

    44. To ra cm gic mong chNhn bit ngi duy tm khng phi cn c vo cch n

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    mc ca h m da vo s sng bi ca h. Ngi sngsut mun ngi khc cn cn n mnh ch khngmun ngi khc cm n mnh. ngi khc ch ibn cnh ca hi vng mi l k cao tay, tin vo s cm

    kch ca ngi ta l rt tm thng. Nim hi vng bao gicng c tr nh tt hn, cn s cm kch li thng hayqun. Ci t c trong s mong ch thng nhiu hntrong s n n tr ngha. K kht nc s b ci gingnc m i mt khi ung tha thch, v qut s b nmvo thng rc khi ngi ta n ht mc d trc ncn c trang trng nm trn chic khay lng ly bngvng. Khi cm gic mong ch khng cn na th nhnghnh vi tt p v s tn knh cng mt theo. Hy ly likhuyn sau y lm mt trong nhng bi hc kinh nghimch yu: Hy duy tr nim hi vng, hy ngi khc lunlun cn n mnh (k c cc bc vng ngi trn ngaivng). iu ny nui dng nim hi vng n sng mich khng tha mn n cht i. Nhng khng nn btngi khc phi hi vng qu lu, s lnh lung th ca

    mnh tr nn thi qu s phn tc dng.

    45. Trnh nhng khuyt im c hu.Nc sng trong hay c c nguyn nhn t cht t tthay xu y sng. V con ngi d c c sinh ra u cng s chu nh hng bi th nhng ni sinh ram to nn tnh cch tt xu. C mt s ngi hn nhng

    ngi khc nh cng mnh t anh ta c sinh ra bi vmnh t ni anh ta ra i c li cho s pht trin ca anhta. Trn th gii khng c quc gia no (k c nhng qucgia vn minh nht) li khng c nhng khim khuyt tbn thn khin nhng quc gia khc ly lm nim ai ihoc vnh vang. Nu ngi no c kh nng khc phc

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    hoc che giu nhng khim khuyt ny th qu l mtbiu hin thng minh. Anh ta c c danh ting nh vovic th hin s c o ca bn thn mnh gia nhngngi ng bo, hnh ng ca anh ta vt ra khi s hi

    vng ca mi ngi nn anh ta cng c nhng ngikhc tn knh hn. Ngoi ra, cn mt s khim khuytkhc xut pht t gia nh, a v, ngh nghip, k c tuitc v thi i. Nu tt thy nhng khim khuyt utp trung trn cng mt con ngi m khng c phngb k lng th ngi s tr thnh mt con qui vtkhng th chu ni.

    46. Nu khng khoc ln mnh b ca s t th hykhoc ln

    mnh b o ca con h li.Bt kp vi thi cuc chnh l lnh o c thi cuc.

    Ngi t c th m mnh mun thng khng bao gi mti thanh danh ca mnh. Khi bo lc khng pht huy c tcdng th ta cn dng n tr thng minh. Nu khng phi l ci

    uy ca mt bc qun vng hng dng th chnh l ci dng vma mnh xo quyt. K xo lun pht huy hiu qu hn bo lc,s c mu thng chinh phc c dng kh hn bt k phngthc no khc. Khi bn khng t c iu g th bn hy quaylng v lm ng n i.

    47. Li ni v hnh ng to nn mt con ngi hon m.

    Con ngi ta cn phi th hin li ni p , c ch ngn. V sau l s u vit ca l tr, v trc l s u vitca tnh cm, c hai v trn u n t s cao qu trongtm hn. Li ni l ci bong ca hnh ng. Nhn c likhen bao gi cng hn vic phi i khen ngi khc. Lini th d dng m hnh ng th kh khn. Hnh ng l

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    thc cht ca cuc sng, li ni l mt th trang sc cacuc sng. Danh ting tn ti trong hnh ng v b ditvong trong li ni. Hnh ng l thnh qu ca t tng.Nu t tng minh mn sng sut th hnh ng s c hiu

    qu.

    48. Hy hiu nhng v nhn sng trong thi i ca bn.Trn th gii khng c nhiu nhng v nhn. C th giiny ch c mt con phng hong, trong mt th k ch cmt v tng qun v i, ch c mt trit gia chn chnh,trong nhiu v vua ch c mt v vua kit xut. Ngi bnhthng th nhiu cn nhng v nhn kit xut th trong lnhvc no cng him hoi. Phm cp cng cao th th hin vtr ti thng ca mnh trong mi trng cng kh, rtnhiu k li dng tn tui chp li khng lm mhng. Nu bn thc s khng c cht cng lao g th dbn c khuych trng bn thn n th no th cng ch lni khoc m thi.

    49. Khng nn t ra qui d.Khng nn c t ra kiu cch m khin mnh tr nn quid, cng khng nn v m khin ngi khc c cm gicbn tht qui d. C rt nhiu ngi c c tnh rt k l,nhng hnh vi ca h rt k qui. Nhng hnh vi k quiny cn khim khuyt hn c s lp d. Cng ging nhnhng ngi ni ting v qu xu x, nhng ngi ny ni

    ting nh s ng ght v ngoi hnh. S ni ting ny chkhin ngi khc cm thy mt cm tnh, n khng dnn s khinh thng th cng l mt s k th khng tt.

    50. Hiu r khuyt im chnh ca bn thn.Bn thn con ngi ai cng c sc mnh cn bng nhng

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    u im r rt ca mnh. Nu sc mnh ny ln nn nhvo dc vng th n s tr thnh mt hn qun. Bn hych trng khiu chin vi n ri thn trng bin n trthnh ng mnh ca mnh. Vic u tin bn cn phi lm

    l cng khai ni r bi v ci c mt khi b cng khai ara nh sng s phi chu khut phc ngay thi, c bit lkhi ngi b hi v ngi ngoi cuc c cng mt quanim nhn nhn ging nhau. Mt ngi nu mun lm chchnh mnh th cn phi hiu r bn thn. Nu nh khuytim ch yu ca mnh u hng ri th nhng th cn licng s kt thc.

    51. Khng nn mang danh d ca mnh ph thc chongi khc tr phi bn nhn c t ngi giy bom.Hy s im lng tr thnh mt li ch chung, hy s tit ltr thnh mi e da trn c hai phng din. Khi danh d camnh ri vo vng nguy him, bn nht thit phi cng hnhng vi mt ngi khc, khng nn ph thc danh d ca

    mnh cho mt ngi khc. Nu nh bn trt lm nh vy rith hy cnh gic ch khng ch n thun l cn thn Hy s nguy him ny l s nguy him chung, l s mo him ca chai ngi, c nh th ngi bn kia ca bn mi khng trthnh ngi lm chng cho nhng li lm ca bn.

    52. Cn phi bit bn thn thiu ci g.

    Rt nhiu ngi nu nh khng thiu ht ci khin h trnn hon m th c th h tr thnh nhng nhn vt vi. Mt s ngi nu c th th hin c s tt p camnh trong mt s trng hp no th h c th trnn u vit hn. Mt s ngi khng thc s c gng nn khng th pht huy c kh nng tr nn ngi v i;

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    mt s ngi khng s du dng, m phm cht ny lil ci m ngi thn v bn b mong mun, c bit l khianh ta mt a v cao; mt s ngi khng c nng lc tchc, mt s ngi khc li thiu s tit ch. Nu tt c

    bn h thc c nhng im thiu ht ny ca mnh thh c th hon thin c bn thn. Trong hon cnhny, mt ngi cn thn c th bin thi quen ca mnh trthnh mt thin tnh th hai.

    53. Chng ta khng hon ton thuc v mt ai, cng khngc ai hon ton thuc v chng ta.Quan h, tnh bn, c nhng quan h mt thit nht cng khng gi l Hon ton thuc v ai. Th hin s tn nhimhon ton ca mnh i vi mt ai v s tn knh i vi hl hon ton khc bit. K c nhng mi quan h thn thit nhtcng c ngoi l, nu khng c ngoi l th quy lut tnh bn sb ph b. L bn b cng vn lun gi gn nhng b mt choring mnh, k c con trai cng c nhng iu b mt khng cho cha mnh bit. C mt s chuyn hon ton giu kn vi

    mt ai , nhng i vi mt s ngi khc th li khng nhth, v th cng mt vn , bn c th lc th hon ton cim, lc li hon ton giu kn, chng qua l i tng mbn nhm vo khng ging nhau m thi.

    54. Cn phi hp dn ngi khc.Hp dn ngi khc l mt sc mnh thu ht rt tinh xo.

    Li dng ngi khc l sc hp dn khin ngi khc vuiv ch khng phi l s hp dn nh vo s dng nhnghnh vi tt p t c thin , thm vo cn sdng n i vi tt c mi ngi. y, nu ch c uim khng thi vn cha , t c danh ting l cchtt nht thu phc ngi khc. Tr khi c c s ng

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    h ca sc thu ht, sc thu ht l bin php thc t nht thng tr ngi khc. c ngi khc hoan nghnh lmt vic may mn, sau vn dng n tht kho lo ginh c s c v bi v ngh thut tt nht nn bt r

    trong mnh t ca thin nhin. thin ln ln vpht trin thnh mt n sng ph bin.

    55. Phi bit lm th no i mi tnh cch ca bn.Cn phi bit vn dng t nhin v ngh thut nh th no gip bn thn trong vic i mi tnh cch ca mnh.c bit c by nm th tnh cch con ngi ta li thayi mt ln. Hy n tr thnh mt s thay i tng itt p, tng i cao qu trong con ngi bn. Sau 7 nmu tin l tnh bt u xut hin, cng vi s rc r musc do s thay i ny mang li, cn c thm mt tm hnp na. Phi quan st s thay i ny mi c th gip n, mi c th hi vng vo s thay i tt t ngikhc. Rt nhiu ngi khi thay i v tr v ngh nghipca mnh cng thay i lun c hnh vi ca mnh na.

    Thng thng, nhng thay i ny khng c chon khi n pht trin n nh im. Con ngi ta khi 20tui ch l mt con chim s, khi 30 tui tr thnh mt cons t, 40 tui l mt con lc , 50 tui l mt con rn, 60tui l mt con ch, 70 tui l mt con kh, v khi 80 tuith chng cn l ci g na.

    56. Th hin mnh ging nh ngi khc ch lm thp bnthn mnh hn m thi.Khi mt ngi c mi ngi coi chng khc g nhngngi khc th chng bao gi cn c c hi c l thnthnh c. S ni tri v thanh danh hon ton tri ngcnhau. Ging nh mt con ngi bo th c coi l cao

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    pht hin ra nhng iu li l nhng ngi khc m s li rt t. Nhng ngi ny v c mt tui tc ln phmcht o c u l nhng ngi dn u. S mi mkhin ngi khc cm thy thch th nhng nu mun

    thnh cng th cn c lng tin gp i. Nu ni v phnon s vic th s mi m l rt nguy him. Bi v n cth dn n mu thun. Cn nu ni v thin ti th s mim qu thc l dng khen ngi. Nu ni v thnh cng thc hai iu trn u c biu dng nh nhau.

    59. Khng nn tr thnh ngi lc no cng i hi.Khng nn tr thnh ngi lc no cng i hi ngikhc, nh th bn d b coi thng nu bn mun cngi khc tn trng th trc ht bn phi tn trng chnhmnh. trnh phi xut hin th khng nn ty tin xuthin. C nh th bn mi lm tha mn s mong c cangi khc v c c s i x t t. Khng nn nng vo lc ngi khc khng cn n, hy n khi cmi. Nu bn tht bi khi theo ui mt vic no m tmnh lm th bn s nhn c rt nhiu li ch trch, nu

    thnh cng cng chng c ai cm n bn. Ngi lun luni hi ngi khc l ngi lun lun b nhiu li chtrch, v bi v anh ta chng bit lim s l g, t mnh ybn thn vo th s mt mt khi b y ra m thi.

    60. Hy phm cht ca chnh con ngi bn vt quaphm cht ca ci a v m bn ang m trch.

    Khng nn ci a v ca bn vt qua gi tr phm chtca chnh con ngi bn. Bt k bn c a v cao nh thno i chng na th cng nn phm cht ca chnh conngi bn cao hn na. Mt ngi m chc v cng caoth ti nng ca anh ta cng phi rng ln hn na. Mtngi bng hp hi th l do thng l trch nhim v

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    thanh danh ca anh ta cng ngy cng t i nn d dngcm thy tht au kh. Augustin v i cho rng nim tho ca ng nm ch ng l mt trang nam t ngng chnh chnh ch khng phi bi v ng ta l mt

    qun vng v i.

    61. S trng thnhS trng thnh biu hin ra hnh dng bn ngoi nhngn cng biu hin r rt hn trong thi quen. S quantrng ca vt cht nm gi tr b ngoi. Ci quan trngca o c l s biu trng ca gi tr con ngi. Strng thnh t im thm cho nng lc ca con ngi vto ra s tn knh. Mt tm hn trng thnh biu hin v bn ngoi. Ngi ngc xem trng thi ny nh mt sm mui ngu dt m khng bit rng l s uy nghimtrm lng. i vi ngi nh th ny, c mi li ni rau tr thnh mt bi din thuyt, mi mt hnh ng thhin ra u t c thnh cng. trng thnh ca mtngi t l thun vi hon thin trong nhn cch ca

    anh ta. Khi ngi ta khng phi l mt a tr na th hbt u t ra rt uy nghim v nghim tc.

    62. Khng nn khoc lc nhng vic m bn cha honthnh.

    C rt nhiu ngi bn thn mnh chng xng ng cht nonhng lc no cng ra r ni v cng lao ca minh. H t ra

    rt lnh lung khin mi ngi u cm thy b him. Hdng s bin ha v lng ca mnh khin ngi khc vuici. S h danh lc no cng ng ght, cn trong trnghp ny th s h danh qu l tin. Con su danh d nyb lm ngm khp ni mong rnh m nh cp tng cht mtcng lao nh b. Cng lao ca bn cng ln bao nhiu th bn

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    cng khng nn khoc lc. Hy hi lng vi vic mnh lm,cn vic tn tng n th hy dnh cho ngi khc. Khngnn ly ci bt ca thi tham lam vit nhng li tn dngtt p trn bn en ngi khc ch ci. Hy nui ch

    ln tr thnh mt ngi anh hng m khng phi ch lmt anh hng v b ngoi.

    63. Ngi phi phm thng c 3 th.Trong v vn nhng tng vt ca Thin ng th c 3 th lnhng tng vt tt p nht, l: ti nng, mt tr lc thmtrm, v mt kh nng cm th tt. Mt t tng tt tt, mtt tng ng n chnh xc cn tt hn. Nhng ngi tt hiur iu ny. Nu s phn on dng li ct sng v nmim, n s dn n hn m v chng pht huy c tc dng g.Mt t tng ng n l thnh qu ca mt tnh cch hp l:20 tui quyt nh bi l tr; 30 tui quyt nh bi tr lc; 40tui quyt nh bi c phn on. C mt s b c le sngtrong m ti. l i mt ca loi mo rng, tinh tng nhttrong nhng ch ti tm nht. Cn mt s b c li thch hp

    nht trong nhng trng hp sau: nhng b c y lun ngh vnhng gii php thch hp trong nhng trng hp nguy cp.Loi tnh cch ny c rt nhiu u im, mt dng hnh phc.ng thi nng lc cm th tt cng khin cuc sng tr nnthi v hn.

    64.65. thc c im mnh ca mnh.

    Hy thc c im mnh ca bn: y l mt kh nngthin ph. Nu bn c th nui dng v pht huy ckh nng thin ph y th n s gip ch bn trn miphng din. Nu tt c mi ngi ai ai cng thc cim mnh ca mnh th t hn h s pht huy c khnng ca mnh trn mt lnh vc no . Ch xem bn

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    c mt phm cht no hn hn ngi khc tp trungnui dng pht trin n. C mt s ngi dnh cthnh cng nh vo c phn on ca mnh, c ngi linh vo s mnh dn. Phn ng con ngi ta thng g

    b c ch kh nng t nhin ca mnh, do khng i nthnh cng. Thi gian lun nh thc nhng vic c ththu ht s nhit tnh ca chng ta qu mun.

    66. Kim li thnh thnh nhn.Tt c u c th biu hin bng cu ni ny. o c ls lin kt ca tt c nhng iu tt p, l trung tm caphc lnh. N khin mt ngi tr nn cn thn, tr tu,cnh gic, c dng kh, c t duy, ng c tin tng, vuiv, c danh d, trung thc, ng thi tr thnh mt anhhng mang tnh v tr. C 3 ch H khin ngi ta hnhphc: Health sc khe; Holiness Thnh thn; vHradpiece u c. o c l vng mt tri ca v trnh, l lng tm bt h ca mt na v tr. N p thnn ginh c s sng i ca c Thng v con

    ngi. Ngoi o c ra, chng c ci g p bng, ngoici c ra, chng c g ng khinh bng. Ch c o c lnghim tc, nhng th khc ch l tr a m thi. Nnglc v s v i ca mt ngi c o bng ci p cacon ngi ch khng phi c o bng s may mn. Nkhin con ngi ta khi sng th ng yu, khi mt th cngi i nh mi.

    67. Ti sao con ngi ta li ni di.Ch dng cch nhn nhn ca ngi khc nh gi mic th gii thch c hnh ng rt ph bin v k l ny:ni di.Con ngi ta bit mt ng nhng li ni sang mt no.

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    Ti sao vy? i vi vn ny chng c cch gii thchno khc, ch c th ni rng h ngh rng nu ni ln stht th ngi khc s khng tn dng h cn nu ni dith h s c rt nhiu li ca tng.

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    PART TWO Php Tc Ca Cuc Sng

    68. Php tc ch thc ca cuc sng l khng bao gic quay lng vi l tnh.Cuc sng ca con ngi bao gi cng c ci tt, ci xu, iuny hon ton ty thuc vo vic ngi ta hiu php tc chthc ca cuc sng nh th no. Cng hiu r v php tc cacuc sng ny bao nhiu th cuc sng ca bn cng tt p bynhiu, ngc li, khi bn hiu bit v php tc cuc sng mtcch nng cn th cuc sng ca bn s tr nn thc s ti t.

    Php tc ch thc ca cuc sng n gin r rng v dhiu nh th nn ngi ta khng th ly l do khng hiu bit vphp tc ca cuc sng bin h cho s tin ca mnh. Nusng m quay lng li vi nhng php tc ca cuc sng th ci

    duy nht m ngi y c c ch l s phn bi li l tnh camnh m thi.

    69. Khng nn qu so o vic tn tng khen ngi hay chtrch ca ngi khc.Bt lun l ngy xa hay by gi, ngi ta thng ph phnnhng ngi cy ming chng c mt li, ng thi cng

    ch bai nhng ngi khoa trng tn pht. Trn i ny chngc loi ngi no l khng b t nhiu ch trch. Trc kia chah v k c v sau ny na cng chng bao gi c chuyn ai b tr trch trn mi phng din v ngc li c ai lun ckhen ngi tn tng bt k lnh vc no. Do vy d l b ngikhc ch bai hay c ngi khc ca tng th bn cng ng

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    nn bn tm qu nhiu.Ch c bn thn mnh mi hiu r ngi ta khen ngi hay

    ch trch mnh v nguyn nhn g. Chng ta khng nn qu xemtrng nhng li tn dng ca ngi khc cng khng nn qu

    lo s khi b ngi khc ch trch.Khng ch khng nn t mnh tn tng bn thn mnh mcng khng nn ngi khc tn tng vo. Nhng li khenngi s l nm m chn vi linh hn con ngi ta bi v nkhin con ngi ta qun i s quan tm chm sc i vi tmhn m chuyn sang quan tm n nhng h danh trn tc.

    69. Ch cn bn sng cho tm hn mnh ch khng phi lsng cho th xc th bn c th thot khi mi kh khn.Ai ai cng bit rng con ngi ta tn ti hai cuc sng: cucsng tm hn v cuc sng th xc. Khi cuc sng th xc tti nh im th cng l lc s gi yu bt u... Cn cucsng tm hn th hon ton ngc li, cng sng lu th cngkho mnh cng trng.Ngi ta thng ni "cu vt linh hn", ci c th cu vt

    c ch l nhng s vt c nguy c s cht i. M linh hn lci khng bao gi cht bi v n l th tn ti t u n cui.i vi linh hn khng phi l cu vt m l loi tr nhng thlm bn thu lm nhim hay che khut ci linh hn y gin lun trong sng.Nhng ngi sng v th xc th anh ta v c cuc i anh tana ginh sn cho ci cht ri. Nu con ngi sng v linh

    hn tc l nim hnh phc gi gm ni con ngi, anh ta sngy mt ln nn, cho d ci cht n cn k cng khng c gng phi lo ngi.Bn s thot ra mi hon cnh kh khn nu bn nh mt iurng bn sng cho linh hn mnh ch khng phi cho th xc.Ch cn bn nh c iu y th ngi mnh nht trn th gii

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    ny s nm trong bn y.

    70. Khng nn gi gm cuc sng ca mnh vo nhng thd dng tan ra nh my khi.

    T trc n nay chng c th th xc no khng bao gi cbnh tt, lc no cng khe mnh cng trng; khng c gia tino khng cn kit; khng c chnh quyn no khng n hikt thc. Tt c nhng th u khng vng chc trng tn.Nu ai gi gm cuc sng ca mnh vo mt ngi khemnh giu c, thm ch bit rng c th c c mi th t anhta th ngi vn khng trnh khi nhng lc lo lng khnghong bi v anh ta nhn thc c rng, tt c nhng g trongcuc sng m bn thn gi gm u ngy mt xa ri anh ta mi, anh ta thc c rng, con ngi ta s ngy mt gi yui, ci cht s ngy cng cn k hn.

    Lm th no khng cn phi lo lng khng hong na?Ch c mt cch: ng bao gi t cuc sng ca mnh

    vo nhng th d dng tan ra nh my khi th, hy gi gm

    cuc sng mnh vo nhng th bt h khng bao gi cht, llinh hn tn ti trong th xc.

    iu m th xc k vng ch bn l : tin ti danh vng,nh th cuc sng ca bn s ging nh a ngc vy. Cn linhhn li mong mun tnh yu thng, s nhn t, nh th bnchng cn thm mt thin ng no na m n nm chnhtrong linh hn bn ri. iu bt hnh ca tt c chng ta l

    ch qun i nhng th tn ti trong con ngi ta, nhng thvui th xc bn r linh hn.

    71. Hm ngha ca hai t cuc sng.Mt ngi bit rt r rng cuc sng ca mnh khng tt nhngvn khng tm cch thay i v ci thin cuc sng y m ra

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    sc tin rng bn thn mnh khng ging nhng ngi bnhthng khc m cao qu hn h, chnh v these m anh ta cgi ly ci cuc sng m anh ta ang c. T c th thy rngnhng ngi c cuc sng khng my tt p ny l nhng

    ngi ht sc kiu ngo.Khi ngi ta khng bit mnh ang sng v ci g th cucsng qu s tr nn tht kh khn. i vi nhng ngi ny, htin chc chn rng y l mt cu hi khng bao gi c ccu tr li.

    Thc t cu hi ny khng c g kh khn c: hm nghaca hai t cuc sng nm mt im, hy linh hn cgii phng khi th xc, hy cho n mt sinh mng khc, ngungc ca vn vt ha hp vi Thng . Con ngi ta nghtrong bng v ni ra ng mm rng h khng bit n nhngiu ny ch bi v h khng tun theo cuc sng ca nhngg m nhng nh hin trit trn th gii ny dy, khng chc th thm ch h cn khng sng theo nhng g m l tnh vlng tri tn ti trong chnh bn thn h.

    72. Khi cn l n l ch c mt ng ch duy nht vy mkhi t do rili c bit bao nhiu ng ch khc.Hy xem mt n l mong mun cuc sng th no. iu utin anh ta mong mun l s t do. Anh ta ngh rng nukhng c c t do th khng th tr thnh mt ngi hnhphc. Anh ta ni th ny: nu nh ti c c t do, ti s trthnh mt ngi hon ton hnh phc, ti s khng b buc

    phi lm nhng vic m mnh khng thch na, ti c mt tcch bnh ng tip xc ni chuyn vi nhng ngi khc, in ni no ti thch m khng cn phi cu xin bt k ngino cho php c.

    Th nhng khi anh ta c c t do anh ta s phi va chmvi cuc sng kim ming cm manh o. c c nhng

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    th y anh ta nguyn lm mi iu k c nhng iu v s. Khianh ta phi da dm vo mt k giu c no th anh ta li rivo v tr mt k n l m anh ta c gng thot ra. Nu nhanh ta kim ra nhiu tin, anh ta s t kim cho mnh mt n l

    tnh i, ri lao vo vng tay ngi con gi y m tr thnh mtn l theo mt dng khc. Nu nh anh ta tr thnh mt k giuc hn na th cng ng ngha vi vic s t do ca anh tangy cng t i. Th l s au kh bt u. Khi cm thy khngth chu ng ni na anh ta s ngi hoi nim li qung thigian lm n l trc kia ri t ni vi mnh rng: Thc raqung thi gian sng bn cnh ng ch xa kia qu l sungsng, chng cn lo lng g cho bn thn mnh c, c ngi chota cm n, o mc, khi m au li c ngi quan tm chm sc.Qu vy hu h ngi khc chng c g l gian kh c. Th mby gi sao li phin phc qu! Trc kia ta ch c mt ng chduy nht, cn by gi c bit bao nhiu ng ch, phi nnh ntcung phng bit bao nhiu ngi.

    73. Mt a tr ch cn c c ci chng mun th chng

    s ngoanngon im lng trt t ngay, cn lng tham cangi ln li chng baogi c y c.Khi mt a tr khng c c th tri chng mun thchng s go khc m , nhng khi c c ri th chng s trtt ngay, khng vi vnh na. Cn i vi ngi ln, khi hsng khng phi v linh hn m sng v th xc th tnh hnh skhng ging nh th. H lun lun i hi ht ci ny n ci

    khc, vi h, chng bao gi l c. Qu ho phng vi nhngi hi ca th xc, cho n nhiu hn ci n cn, l mt sailm ln, bi v mt cuc sng xa hoa s ch lm gim bt nimvui ca vic n mc sinh hot ch khng lm tng thm hngphn cho nhng th vui . Khng b cng sc ra nu nngnhng li n ht mt lng ln nhng thc ngon vt l s ch

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    lm hi d dy v nh mt nim hng th vi n m thi.C th i b m cng cn ngi xe hi, quen ng trn ging mm m, n cao lng m v, trong nhng ngi nh xa hoa,quen vo ngi khc lm nhng vic m mnh c th lm s

    nh mt nim vui hng nhng pht giy hnh phc khi cngh ngi sau khi lao ng, s m p sau khi phi chu rtmt, nh mt nim hnh phc do nhng gic ng ngon emli, c th ngy mt yu t, s thanh bnh v t do trong cucsng khng nhng khng tng ln m tri l ngy cng gim.

    74. Ci hp dn ca dc vng ging nh con om md ngi tabc vo bn ly.Con thiu thn khi lao vo la chng u khng bit rng lac th lm chy nhng i cnh mng manh ca chng; nhngcon c nut nhng con giun t u vo li cu v chngkhng bit rng nhng con giun t y s git hi chng. Chngta bit r rng s dm dc s bm rit ly chng ta v hy hoicon ngi ta nhng vn m chm vi n.

    Ging nh con om m d ngi ta i n ch bn ly

    ri bn thn th bay vt i ch khc. Ci hp dn ca dcvng cng la di ngi ta y nh th, con ngi sa ng vo nv hy hoi bn thn v n. Khi tnh dy quay u nhn li khng cn nhn thy bng dng cuc sng trc kia, ci cucsng m bn thn t b chy theo nhng iu ti t nyna ri.

    Tt c nhng ngi thot ra khi dc vng tr nhng a

    tr mi ra i hay nhng c gi x bng th bt lun l tuino hay a v g i chng na u ni, i vi h l mtcuc u tranh y gian kh. V th nhng thanh nin phiphi, bt lun nam hay n hy lun cao cnh gic vi n, btk lc no, mt khi c c hi n s li bt u tn cng ngay.

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    75. Cng t i hi th cuc sng cng hnh phc.i hi cng t th cng c nhiu hnh phc, l mt

    chn l c mm m vn c mun i cng nhn.John tng ni: bn cng sng xa hoa bao nhiu bn cng

    d ri xung a v ca mt k n ti. Bi v bn cng yu cubao nhiu th s hn ch t do ca bn s cng ln by nhiu.T trit vn c l khng cn i hi bt c iu g hocyu cu cng t cng tt.

    Scacla t chi n nhng th khng phi duy tr s sngm tha mn nhu cu ca v gic v thuyt phc nhngngi em ca mnh cng nn lm th. n nhiu khng ch chi cho th xc m ngay c tm hn cng b nh hng rt ln.ng ni rng trc khi cm thy no hy ri khi bn n. ngk cho nhng ngi em ca mnh nghe cu chuyn v k schca m ph thy khng m hoc c ng ta bi v ng khngtham n, trong khi ngi bn ng hnh ca ng v khngcng li c s cm d ca nhng n thc ung ngonming m bin thnh heo.

    76. Nu nh lm tt c mi iu ch c c nhng vinhquang trn tc th qu l mt iu bt hnh.Rt nhiu trng hp ngi ta lm iu c tha mn nhngi hi v th xc, cn nhiu hn s l c ngi khen, vnim vinh d trn th. Khi no bn kh hoc khng th hiuc ti sao anh ta li nh lm mt vic no th xin bn hytin rng ng c ca hnh ng y l hy vng c c nim

    vinh d trn th.Khi con ngi ta lm mt vic g , nu khng phi v thxc, khng phi v tm hn th ch c th l v mun c c sngi khen ca ngi khc, y l mt trong nhng nguyn nhndn n nhng ti c m con ngi thng mc phi.

    Mi mt hnh ng tt u n giu mt phn ng c ca

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    s mun c ngi khen. Nhng nu bn lm nhng vic ch v mun c ngi khen th qu l mt iu bt hnh.

    Lo lng v nhng vinh d trn th, v c ngi khen,c tn knh, c ca tng - chng c th c c no ging

    nh th c, n c th khng ch c c con ngi ta tronglng bn tay rt lu, rt lu, n khng cho ngi ta hiu c ngha ch thc ca cuc sng.

    77. Ngi chn thnh khng giu c v ngi giu ckhng chn thnh.10 ngi lng thin tt bng chen vai thch cnh ng trn mtchic thm h cng c th ng rt ngon lnh v ha thun vinhau nhng 2 ngi giu c ng trong 10 cn h cng khngth c c s ha thun. Nu mt ngi lng thin tm cmt mu bnh m, anh ta s chia na ming bnh m cho mtngi ang i bng. Mt v hong c na giang sn mcha c nt c na giang sn kia th v hong vn chath k cao gi ng ngon.

    3 ngi giu c s hu 15 cn h cng khng cho mt

    k ngho kh bc chn vo si m ng nh qua mt m baogi. Cn nh nh ca bc nng dn ch rng 7m2 cha n c 7bc nng n cng c th nhng ch cho mt k l ngv h tm nim rng: Thng dn rng, c phc cnghng.

    Khng bao gi ng lng trc ni au ca ngi khclun l nhng k giu c, ngi bit trc n cm thng bao gi

    cng l ngi ngho kh, cn k giu c bit lng trc n th cmy ai. Do vy m Peter cm thn rng: Tin ti thng lmcon ngi ta kiu ngo, tn nhn v v s bit bao.

    78. S chn trng n cc oan c th dng loi trchnh s chn trng.

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    Chng ta thng ni ngoa rng mt mnh ta khng bao gi cmthy chn trng c, chng ta rt t ph v khng mun mtngi chng ra g lm bu bn.

    Nu chng ta quan st k cng nhng biu hin ca s

    chn trng, chng ta s pht hin ra rng i a s s chntrng l mun trn trnh ngha v v khng mun mu cu lich.

    S chn trng n cc onn c th dng loi tr chnhs chn trng.

    79. Ngi ngho au kh, nhng ngi giu cn aukh hn.Con ngi ta lc no cng on thn s ngho kh v tm ratrm phng nghn k tm kim tin ti , nhng trn thct, s ngho kh v bt hnh khin con ngi ta kin cngmnh m hn, cn ngc li, s phng tng v xa hoa ch dncon ngi ta i n s bi hoi v dit vong. Ngi giu csng chng sung sng g bi v h khng c c s thanhthn, lc no cng lo lng cho ti sn tin bc ca mnh, tin

    bc cng nhiu th s lo lng y cng nhiu hn. S d cucsng ca nhng ngi giu c thng khng sung sng g bimt l, s nhng ngi giu c m anh ta c th kt thn cch l s t, cn nhng ngi khc, nhng ngi ngho kh thli khng th kt giao.

    80. C hai cch trnh khi cnh ngho kh.

    Ngi ta lc no cng tm kim tin ti, nhng khi ngi ta bittch ly tin bc sinh sng th h s nh mt rt nhiu lngtt. Lc ny, h mi hi h trnh xa tin bc nh khi h hi hi kim tin.

    C hai cch trnh khi hon cnh ngho kh:Th nht: Kim tht nhiu tin.

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    Th hai: Hc cch to ra thi quen hi lng vi ci mnhc, bit th no l .

    Kim tht nhiu tin l vic khng phi lc no cng lmc, thm ch c th c i phi gn vi thi di tr la o.

    Cn vic kim ch nhng ham mun li l vic thuc ch quancon ngi, c th t khng ch, thm na n cn c ch cho tamhn na.

    81. au kh thng bt ngun t li ch v s din.Chng ta c th tm c li cho mt l do no y dn nnhng au kh ca bn thn ta, nhng thng thng au khca chng ta thng bt ngun t li ch v s s din. C lcs luyn tic ca chng ta i vi mt s ngi khi qua i cnhn c s au thng dnh cho h; cn i vi mt s ngikhi qua i th s tic thng ta dnh cho h li nhiu hn sluyn tic. Trong s au kh c rt nhiu iu gi di, mttrong s l: ly c l thng tic i vi ngi cht nhngtrn thc t li l s thng tic cho chnh bn thn chng ta.Chng ta tic thng cho vic mt i mt ngi c ch li

    cho bn thn, mt ngi tn knh ta, c ci nhn tt p v ta.ng thi, ngi cht cng ng ngi khc thng tickhc thng, mc d nhng git nc mt y c th v ngisng m nh xung. Ti ni l mt s gi di l bi v, trongs thng au ny con ngi ta ang t nh la bn thn. Cnmt s gi di na nhng khng th thin nh th ny bi v nc ph bin rng ri khp x hi. H khao kht mt s vinh

    quang bt h ca s au kh, khi t gic mang i tt c nhngs au kh v kt thc n trn thc t th bn h vn khngt b, vn kin tr ko di ci s au kh ra mi, h than thhay rn r, t ra mt b dng tht au kh, thng qua hnh ngca mnh th hin cho ngi khc tin rng, cho n lc nom h cn sng trn th gii ny th s au kh tic thng y

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    vn cn mi. Ci s gi di au bun ng ght thng thy nhng ph n c d tm, dng nh ci gii tnh ca h nvi nh sng vinh quang khin h phi thng qua ci cch gib nh khng th no km nn c ni au n nh im y

    mi c th c c danh ting vy.Ngoi ra, vn cn mt loi nc mt na m nguyn nhnkhng ng k, n d dng tro ra m cng d dng lau kh vnh: khc v ra v nhn t, khc v nhn thy ngi ta khc mkhc theo, cui cng l vi s din m khc.

    82. Th no l s gi yu.C rt t ngi hiu th no l s gi yu. Tui gi tr thnhmt hn qun do bn thn ang giai on thy au kh mcm on tui tr vui chi.

    Tui gi thch dy d ngi khc nhng bi hc v iuthin bi v h khng cn kh nng lm mt tm gng xunn h t ra rng lng.

    Tui tr cn c vo bu nhit huyt ca mnh m thay is thch, tui gi li cn c vo thi quen c gi ly s thch

    ca mnh.Mt ngi tng l mt ngi rt ng yu khi v gi th

    iu hoang ng t hi nht l h qun mt rng h khngcn ng yu na.

    Khi chng ta gi i chng ta tr nn va in r va sngsut.Sc sng ca tui gi song hnh cng s in r.

    S in r ca ngi gi cn hn c ca tui tr.

    83. X hi thng cho v ngoi ca thnh tch nhiu hnni dung ca n.Mun c c s thnh cng trong x hi, ngi ta ra sc lmnhng iu m x hi tng lm thnh cng.

    X hi thng cho v b ngoi ca thnh tch nhiu hn

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    ni dung ca n. Mun c c s thnh cng trong x hi,ngi ta ra sc lm nhng iu m x hi tng lm thnhcng.

    Chng ta qu quen vi vic v vt trc mt ngi

    khc, v ri cui cng l v vt vi chnh bn thn mnh, t taxng ng vi chc v m mnh khng t c v c th c nd dng hn c cng vic m bn thn ang gi.

    Ci ng bun ci do gi to cn l bch hn ci ngbun ci xut pht t chnh bn cht tht.

    84. S ho phng bao gi cng cha ng mt d tmc ngytrang.Ci m chng ta thng gi l s ho phng thng ch l mts s din ca mt k i hnh thin [di dang hien ?] m thi,chng ta yu s s din ny cn hn ci m chng ta em cho.

    S ho phng bao gi cng cha ng mt d tm cngy trang. T b mt li ch nh b mu mt li ch lnhn.

    Chng ta cho ngi khc ci g u khng ho phng nh

    khi chng ta cho ngi khc nhng li khuyn.S keo kit cn tt hn s ho phng v mt i lp tin

    ti.

    85. Kt qu i lp ca s tham lam.Lng tham thng dn n nhng kt qu i lp : rt nhiungi hi sinh tt c ti sn ca mnh cho mt nim hi vng

    khng c c s v xa vi tn u u; mt s ngi khc li bqua nhng li ch h coi l nh c ch i mt li ch to lns n trong tng lai.

    Lng tham t n cc oan phn ln u dn n sai lm,n thng khng t c mc tiu ra ban u v n mt b nhng th khc.

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    86. Chn thc l c s ca s hon thin v ci p.Chn thc l cn c cho c s ca s hon thin v ci p.Mt s vic bt k mang tnh cht g, nu nh n hon ton tht

    nh n vn th, n khng c tt c mi ci ng nh bn chtca n th khng th l mt th hon thin v p .C mt s th c coi l p khi n khng m bo

    c hon thin ca mnh th cng cn long lanh hn khi nqu hon thin. Chng ta khng dm ni rng chng ta lhon m, nhng nhng k i nghch vi ta trong mt s trnghp c th chng ta li gn vi cch nhn nhn nh gi ny.

    87. Chn l.Chn l khng to ra qu nhiu nhng vic xu hay qu nhiunhng iu tt.

    Bt k cuc sng ny c bt cng nh th no chng tavn c th thy c, yu thng mt gi tr gi cn thngxuyn hn l mt chn l thc t.

    Bt k mt chn l v i no mun i vo thc ca nhn

    loi u khng trnh khi phi tri qua 3 giai on. Giai onth nht: Ci (hong lieu) hng liu nh vy, tht khngng ti.. Giai on th hai: Ci khng mang tnhgio dc, vi phm tn gio Giai on th ba: i gii, ci th ai chng bit cn g phi ni c ch. Thng xy ratnh trng nh vy, mt s ny sinh t tng, bn va cm gicn ng, va cm thy n c v k l khin bn khng tin tng

    vo iu na. Nhng nu bn ch cn suy xt k lng mtcht bn s pht hin ra rng ci t tng khin bn cm thyhi k qui kia vn l mt th chn l rt ph bin, mt khi bnhiu c n, bn s khng c cch no khng tin tng nc.

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    88. Ngi khng c dc vng ring thng nhiu hnngi khng clng k.Chng ta hay ging nhng ngi sp cht lo s tt c mi th,chng ta li khng ging h ch chng ta khng khao kht

    mi th nh h. Ngi khng c dc vng ring thng nhiuhn ngi khng c lng k.Gi d chng ta hon ton hiu c rng chng ta cn g

    chng ta li khng n lc thc hin mong mun .T b mong mun th nht bao gi cng d dng hn l

    tha mn nhng mong mun tip theo. Trc khi c sc lcmong mun mt iu g th hy xem xt n hnh phc canhng ngi c n l nh th no.

    89. Thi dung tc.Thi dung tc c lc c th mt i trong qun i nhngtuyt i khng bao gi mt i trong cung nh.

    Nhng c gi khng mun lo u my cui mt v nhngbc phu gia khng mun t ra lc long th ng bao gi nn bnlun v tnh yu ging nh th h l mt trong nhng nhn t

    tham gia vo tr chuyn vy.

    90. Nghin cu con ngi cn cn thit hn nghin cusch v.Nghin cu con ngi cn cn thit hn nghin cu sch v.Nghin cu c nhn loi cn d hn i su nghin cu mt conngi c th. Gi tr ca con ngi ging nh mt th qu, phi

    theo ma. Chng ta c th tr nn v i khi chng ta mtcng v thp hn cng v ca chng ta, nhng li t ra nonkm khi c t mt v tr cao hn. Chng ta thng c lich nhiu hn nu nh ngi khc thy b mt khc cachng ta ch khng phi b mt tht.

    Ch c nhng k tin mi s b mit th. Khi nhn cch

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    ca chng ta thuyn gim th nhng s thch ca chng ta cngr tin theo.Gi tr chn thc ca chng ta s c nhng con ngi chnchnh tn knh, nh sng trn u ca chng ta s c cng

    chng n nhn v knh trng.Khng c ngi no li thng phm li hn nhng ngikhng th chp nhn c nhng sai lm ca ngi khc.Chng ta thng on trch nhng ngi dy chng ta nhn thcra bn thn mnh, ging nh mt k in khng on trch bc skhi b lc vo mt m nhng ngi nho nh, mc d chnh bcs l ngi iu tr cho anh ta anh ta hiu rng mnh khngphi l mt ngi giu c.

    91. Bn sao tt.Ch c nhng bn sao khin chng ta pht hin ra s sai

    st vnh vo bn gc mi l mt bn sao tt.

    92. T th trang nghim.T th trang nghim l mt pht minh ca con ngi nhm

    che y


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