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VOL. 17, NO. 7, JULY 2020 - PUBLISHED MONTHLY FOR THE RESIDENTS OF REGENCY Anil Shah with his 1988 Mercedes Benz 560SL Convertible. Photo submitted by Anil Shah Leading the Regency Car Club’s Memorial Day Car Pa- rade is Dennis Cataldo in his 1948 Studebaker pick-up.” Photo by Steve Wandy Renee Zukerberg in the Regency Actors and Players show Sentimental Journey. Photo by Sandi Shumsky Herb Zukerberg, with his wife Renea, was the founder of what was originally called The Yiddish Club. Photo by Sandi Shumsky Bob Pincu shot a hole in one May 31 on Hole #7. Photo by Nat Willner, submitted by Jason Pulsinelli A photo of the neighborhood taken by Steve Schwartz with his drone in June 2018. Photo submitted by Esther Schwartz In 2015, Esther Schwartz (center) with, from left: Leslie Schoen, Susan Olan, Hollis Borak, and Judy Feingold in the eighth and final Regency Actors and Players Show, “We’re in the Money?!” Photo submitted by Esther Schwartz Meet the new kid on the block, 15- year-old Tibetan Terrier, Reggie Finkelstein. He’s a tough little guy who likes being king of the road. He knew something was up when he saw his human companions Barry and Karen packing stuff in cartons; so being Reggie, he packed up his treats and toys he used to play with to keep as his memories. Reggie loves lying on the grass watching people walk by. Photo by Bea Siegel
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VOL. 17, NO. 7, JULY 2020 - PUBLISHED MONTHLY FOR THE RESIDENTS OF REGENCY

Anil Shah with his 1988 Mercedes Benz 560SL Convertible. Photo submitted by Anil Shah

Leading the Regency Car

Club’s Memorial Day Car Pa-

rade is Dennis Cataldo in his

1948 Studebaker pick-up.” Photo by Steve Wandy

Renee Zukerberg in the Regency Actors and

Players show Sentimental Journey. Photo by Sandi Shumsky

Herb Zukerberg, with his wife Renea, was the founder

of what was originally called The Yiddish Club. Photo by Sandi Shumsky

Bob Pincu shot a hole in one May 31 on Hole #7. Photo by Nat Willner, submitted by Jason Pulsinelli

A photo of the neighborhood taken by Steve Schwartz with his drone in June 2018. Photo submitted by Esther Schwartz

In 2015, Esther Schwartz (center) with, from left: Leslie Schoen, Susan Olan, Hollis Borak, and Judy

Feingold in the eighth and final Regency Actors and Players Show, “We’re in the Money?!” Photo submitted by Esther Schwartz

Meet the new kid on the block, 15-

year-old Tibetan Terrier, Reggie

Finkelstein. He’s a tough little guy

who likes being king of the road. He

knew something was up when he

saw his human companions Barry

and Karen packing stuff in cartons;

so being Reggie, he packed up his

treats and toys he used to play with

to keep as his memories. Reggie

loves lying on the grass watching

people walk by. Photo by Bea Siegel

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JULY 2020 – PAGE 2 REGENCY REPORTER

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ELAINE SANDLER 732 605-9373 · LOU FLUMEN 732-641-2495

By Alton Kinsey

During this quarantine, it is

very easy to see the glass as half

empty. But, if we look at the

glass as half full, we can see

hidden positives. Many of us

embraced a technology, which

we did not know how to use or

even existed. We had to adjust

in order to stay connected with

family, friends, and the grocery

store. Many of you are walking,

riding bikes and finally getting

to spend quality time on your

patio. Neighbors are talking

with neighbors. Hopefully this

activity and comradery will

continue once the quarantine is

over.

Many of you were happy to

see the golf course, tennis and

pickleball courts open in May.

These amenities were opened

following the Governor’s direc-

tive and CDC guidelines. But in

order to keep these amenities

open and to open others, we

must follow the guidelines pre-

scribed by the Governor and the

CDC. We must still socially

distance and wear a mask as

indicated by the amenity. These

guidelines are for the safety of

everyone. If these guidelines are

not followed the HOA Board

will be forced to reinstitute the

closure of that amenity. The

HOA Board meets virtually

every week. In addition to the

normal Board agenda, we are

discussing the impact of the

Covid-19 virus on our commu-

nity. When the Clubhouse and

other amenities are opened, the

Board plans to institute updated

CDC and health department

cleaning protocols.

A proposal for a new telecon-

ferencing system was intro-

duced at the virtual May Open

Board Meeting. The need for

this new system began about a

year ago when our current con-

ference call technology was

consistently inadequate. When

the Board looked into replacing

or updating our conference call

ability, we discovered that our

phone system was not compati-

ble with the technology of to-

day. With the quarantine, this

prompted the Board to look at

our current and future commu-

nication needs. The Board needs

the ability to remotely commu-

nicate with Board members, the

community, and vendors. This

is especially important during

this quarantine and will proba-

bly be the blueprint for the fu-

ture. The Board is assessing the

best fit for current and the fu-

A Note from the Board of Trustees

ture needs based on current

available platforms.

At the June Open Board

Meeting, the conclusions from

the Transition 2 negotiations

were shared. As with most ne-

gotiations there was a certain

amount of give and take. The

Board feels that the results from

the negotiations were fair to all.

The majority of items on the

municipal and our (O&S engi-

neering) punch list were ad-

dressed. Items such as our engi-

neering firm overseeing future

repairs and construction in

Phases 7 and 8 were included.

The Board would like to thank

everyone who was involved.

Transition 3 (Phases 9 and 10)

is now in progress. Using what

we learned from Transition 1

and 2, the Board is determining

what is necessary to complete

final delivery of the community

to our homeowners. Issues such

as driveway aprons, sidewalks,

the storm drains/piping system,

as well as roadways are some of

the items to be included in the

Transition 3 negotiations. Also,

to be included is the pond/

irrigation in Phase 10. The

Board contracted with the engi-

neering company of Matrix

New World to create a plan to

correct the turbidity issue on the

North Masters Pond. The cor-

rection will start once the final

construction of homes in Phase

9 is completed. This includes

sodding of the land to prevent

the runoff of sediment into the

pond.

Life as we knew it is differ-

ent. But we are strong and resil-

ient and we will get through this

together. Stay safe and healthy.

Calendar of

Coffee Houses

for 2020 Sunday, November 15 -

Drachman/wan-Chi Sunday, December 6 - TBA

By Ron Post

You might ask, “What is a

REGENCY EMAILER?” Well,

it has been 19 years of sending

residents emails concerning

what is happening at Regency

and elsewhere. At the mini-

mum, one email goes out every

Saturday to 1700 email ad-

dresses, mostly here at Re-

gency. I will send out additional

emails if an issue arises that

residents need to know about.

With COVID-19 many things

have changed. Yet, my emails

continue to be sent out. As diffi-

cult as it is there are messages

dealing with residents who may

have passed away that the fami-

lies ask me to send out. This is

one of the more difficult things

for me to deal with. Due to the

current situation, the Regency

Reporter is not being printed

and delivered to residents’ mail-

boxes. The paper is now in-

cluded in my emails as a PDF,

which anyone can open. The

entire paper is there, with all

pictures in living color. It has

been decided that even when the

Reporter can go back to being

printed, it will still be on the

emails as a PDF. Past papers

will be archived so residents can

have a look back if they so de-

sire.

The reason I am writing this

is because I realize that

NEWER residents might not

have been given THE RE-

GENCY EMAIL AUTHORI-

2020 HOA Public Board

Meeting Schedule

Currently, all public meetings are held Virtually

Wednesday, July 15, 2020

6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom

Wednesday, August 19, 2020

6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom

Wednesday, September 16, 2020

6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom

Wednesday, October 21, 2020

6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom – Budget

Presentation

Wednesday, November 18, 2020

6:30 p.m. – Budget Presentation if not previously approved in

October

Public Board Meeting in Ballroom

SUBJECT TO ADDITIONS AND DELETIONS

ZATION FORM, which a resi-

dent must sign in order to have

emails sent from me as well as

the HOA. Usually I pick these

forms up when I go to the Club-

house. As of now, I cannot send

emails to newer residents unless

they first send me their email

address. So I ask you to please

let your new neighbors know to

send me their email address,

which can be sent to ron-

[email protected]. Also, let

them know that if they wish to

see what the REGENCY

EMAILER is all about, they can

go to my website, which is:

www.regencyemailer.com.

Thank you and stay well dur-

ing these difficult times.

Calendar of

HOA Events

for 2020

We are hoping to hold

these events

Saturday, August 8 - TBA Friday, September 11 -

Trivia Night

Saturday, September 12 -

Regency Car Show

Friday, November 6 -

NEIL BERG Part TWO

Thursday, December 31 - New

Year’s Eve

A Message from the Regency Emailer

Barbara Bickel

Louis Flumen

Laurie Lipper

Sandy Newman

Doug Poye

Elaine Sandler

Cecile Spector

By Sandy Newman After retiring as a dentist, Joel

Iserson worked at the Freehold

Apple Store helping customers

set up their new equipment and

teaching classes. Arthur Ehrlich

who worked in IT for all of his

career, went to the Apple Store

to research whether he should

buy an iPad or a laptop (he

bought a laptop). Joel waited on

him. They got to talking and

Arthur mentioned that he lived

at Regency. Joel and his wife

were going to be moving in to

Regency shortly and the rest is

history. Joel and Arthur realized

that while they were both very

computer and iPhone savvy not

every senior

is. The first

week Joel

lived in the

community,

Arthur and

Joel gave

their first

workshop at

the Tennis

P a v i l i o n .

Because of

the virus

l o c k d o w n

the last few

workshops

have been

given on

Zoom. At the workshops at the

Tennis Pavilion that I attended,

Joel led the discussions and Ar-

thur went around helping each

participant keep up by finding the

items being discussed on their

own iPhones. They make a great

team. I took one class on Zoom

about Cutting the Cord, that is

making the transition from Cable

to streaming. Even on Zoom it

was possible to raise your hand

and have your questions an-

swered. I found it very informa-

tive.

Zoom fatigue is very real. I

found it exhausting. Luckily

you can go to the web site

https://www.regencyatmonroe

hoa.com/workshops/ and re-

view all the information from

the classes. Here’s how you

sign up for a workshop: When a

workshop is posted, you will re-

ceive an email invitation that

looks like this: Cable Options-

Get Comfortable with Stream-

ing – Thursday, April 23, 2020,

10:30 AM. Streaming is the new

way of watching all your televi-

sion programs- not just Netflix,

Amazon Prime and HBO. Learn

about all the options and become

comfortable with streaming BE-

FORE it is time to renew your

Comcast contract. Now is the

time to think about next year.

This Workshop is limited to 40

participants.

The Regency Workshop Team

After clicking on the signup

link you will be required to

complete three questions on a

form. Once you complete the

form, don’t forget to click the

REGISTER button. As for the

Q&A, if you have a question

you did not get to ask during the

workshop, you can get an an-

swer in the Q&A. Click on

Q&A on the menu, put in the

subject field who you are and an

(Continued on page 4)

Let’s Zoom with Joel and Arthur

Joel Iserson

Arthur Ehrlich

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REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 3

By Barbara Bickel (**)

July Birthdays

1–Joan Blitz/Alice Ehrlich/

Marcia Greenberg/Gail

Rosenzweig/Marvin Schutzer/

Ken Stinger/Rochelle Wallach/

Julie Weinberg

3–Howard Drescher/Linda

German/Phyllis Greenberg/

Lilian Isaacs/ Richard Katz/

Charlie LaPalme/Ray Melcher/Linda Strauss/Annette Valerio

4–Harold Balshem/Bruce

Nyman

5–Shirley Goodman/Nancy

Mongon

6–Louis Flumen/Jean Jacobs/

Stuart Megibow

7–Carol Adler/Sue Carey/

Cheryl Farrell/Allan Vogel

8–Nicholas Chiaia/Carlos

Fuentes/Donna Glauber/Jeffrey

McGrory/ George Nirenberg

10–Ingrid Glazrock/Kenneth

Smolanoff/Marlene Spitalny

11–June Charlop/Jackie Dwan/

Cheryl Lindenbaum/Lorraine

Tozzo/Larry Zinstein

12–Debra Green/Elise Linden

13–Howard Davidoff/Jay

Horowitz/Frank Molfetta/Sharon Scheckner/Myra Summers

14–Louis Bogdanoff/Lovina

Espiratu/Ed Hyman/Judy

Schindler/Richard Smilowitz/

Richard Vandenbrouck

15–Michael Abatiello/Ray

Connolly/Gloria Zammit

16–Geri Garfinkle/Lynn Green/

Arlene Levine/Eva Mandelbaum

17–Joseph Butthorn/Barry

Panson/Richard Quinto/Cliff

Sneyers/Cheryl Tosk

18–Alan Datz/Larry Ehrlich/

Mario Lenci/Robert Silverstein

19–Linda Grossman/Gerry

Guidice/Beth Ross/Sandy

Zicheman

20–Barbara Bigman/Joan

DiDonato/Andrea Gall/Audrey

Goldman/Joy Rockoff/Fran Turnof

21–David Berkowitz/Sybil

Manzar/Sue Sabel

22–Gary Green/Elliott

Kominsky/Miriam Jacobs/Julia

Lichtenstein/Gary Roth/Sharon

Siber/Bob Stevens

23–Nai Chu/Michael Felice/

Martha Frans/Lorraine Kaye/

Vivian Leonardi/Janet Pine/

Steven Riback/Deborah Rose/

Ronni Beth Sacks/Jeanette

Schoenberg/Sheila Strug

24–Joseph Calvacca/Ping Eng/

Joel Klausman/Sue Melcher

25–Howard Kohn/Harry

Leibowitz/Bibi Levine/Jennifer

Tan

26–John Boccone/Sara

Schoenfeld

28–Phil Bracco/David Delman/

Sheila Rudder/Morton Spector/

Randy Steinberg/Judy Troiano/Linda Wallman

29–Vanda Cuccinello/Peter

DiGiacomo/Fern Drescher/Mary

Grisancich/Shelly Schwartz/

Janice Vandenbrouck

30–Antoinette Butthorn/Eli

Castellanos/Dawn Guidice/Mort

Pullman/Steve Seidell/Robin

Smulofsky/Deborah Stuby

31–Judy Feingold/Gloria

Silverman

July Anniversaries

1–Kathleen & Carl Schiano

2–Barbara & Mark Engel/Judi &

David Schlesinger

3–Cheryl & Michael Abattiello/

Helene & Jeff Scherling/Kathy &

John Toth/Marcia & David Zajac

4–Karen & Dinesh Gala/Elise &

Ivan Linden/Susan & Gerald Post/Elise & Howard Shein/Rita

& Harry Wasserstein

5–Agi & Richard Frank/Elaine &

Leonard Mongelli/Linda & Steve

Strauss/Bonnie & Steve Taplits

6–Judi & Neil Zipkin

7–Ellen & Steve Baliff/Judith &

Ralph Folkes

9–Nina & Paul Guilinello/

Vivianne & Gary Roth

10–Pat & Michael Trapani

11–Marta & Fabio Berkowicz/

Rae Jean & Bernie Ghee/Wendy

Mamet & Allen Glassman/

Annette & Sal Muce

13–Barbara & Carmen

Verderosa

14–Lori & Sheldon Piekny

15–Gina & Martin Glazer/Sonya

& Gene Radinsky/Johanne & Thomas Sikorski

16–Ann & Howard Schwartz

17–M. Esther & Jesus Johnson

19–Elaine & Carmine Carrara

20–Claire & Eli Castellanos/

Marissa & Larry Mazzuchetti

23–Sharon & Bob Cheret

25–Margaret & John Lewis

26–Les & Dave Offenberg/Helene

& Jeffrey Rosenbaum/Marsha &

Mark Schwartz

29–Donna & Bud Keller

31–Ellen & Alan Buxbaum/Roz

& Bob Esserman/Linda & David

Mail

(**) Are your special dates

listed or are they incorrect? Let

me know so that they can be

fixed. Thank you. BB

(Not the Pits)

By Christiana Barone

Let’s Celebrate the Class of

2020!

Fruits of Our Lives (not the

pits) and the Regency Commu-

nity would like to celebrate with

Regency residents who have a

family member in the Class of

2020! Please email information

about your recent graduate to

[email protected] and photos

to [email protected]. All

photos sent from a smart phone

should be “large” or “actual”

size. Let’s make this issue of

Fruits of Our Lives (not the

pits) the most special one ever

and put smiles on the faces of

all members of the Regency

Family! Congratulations to all!

A Special Note To All New-

comers To Our Community If there are any new additions

to your family, an engagement/

marriage of your son/daughter,

yourself, or if someone close to

you has joined the military de-

fending our country and last but

not least has received a special

award, please let us know. All

you have to do is drop a note of

the forthcoming event in the

mailbox of Christiana Barone, 8

Country Club Drive or e-mail

me at [email protected] with a

reference in the subject box

“Regency News” by the first of

the month and magically it will

appear in our community publi-

cation. If you choose to e-mail

me, please indicate Regency

News in the subject area. That’s

all folks. See you next month

with the FRUITS OF OUR

LIVES, (not the pits).

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JULY 2020 – PAGE 4 REGENCY REPORTER

email address and you will be

added to the invitation list. The

web site looks like this:

iPhone, iPad, Mac, and

Cable Workshops

All face to face workshops

are suspended due to

COVID-19.

These workshops will be

virtual. The workshops will be

accessed using a smartphone

or tablet.

In order to attend these vir-

tual workshops on your smart-

phone or tablet, you need to

install the “Zoom Cloud Meet-

ings” app. This app can be

installed from the Apple App

Store, or the Google Play

Store. There is also a video on

how to install ROKU and how

to change your modem. The

Q&A is especially useful be-

cause you can see the ques-

tions that other people ask and

see Arthur and Joel’s answers.

Be sure to put the web site in

your contacts so that your in-

vitation to the next virtual

Zoom event doesn’t go into

your spam file. Arthur and

Joel and their workshops are

another wonderful resource

available here at Regency.

(Continued from page 2)

The Regency Car Club’s 2020

Memorial Day Parade of Cars

Photos by Steve Wandy

Singles Mingle

Monthly

Meeting

Schedule

Members Only

We are hoping to be able

to hold these events

· August 5 – Rescheduled

M y s t e r y D i n n e r

(Tentative)

· September 2 – Paid-up

B a r b e q u e D i n n e r

(Weather permitting)

· October 7 – Election of

2021 Officers, dice/card

games, light refreshments

· November 4 – Speaker:

Ziegfeld Girls (Ballroom)

· December 2 – Holiday

Party

Stay tuned for

more details!

Zoom

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REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 5

By Barbara Butchen

Editor’s Note: This column

was originally supposed to ap-

pear in the June Regency Re-

spective issue of the Reporter.

Due to an overwhelming re-

sponse, it was held over to July

and shares memories from the

Regency Singles Club.

As I sit here writing this arti-

cle I try to remember today’s

exact date. The start of each day

of social distancing and quaran-

tining at home brings to mind a

repeating scene in one of my

favorite movies; Groundhog

Day, where Bill Murray’s char-

acter awakens each day to the

same song; I Got You Babe by

Sonny and Cher, playing on his

clock radio alarm, only to go

through a day that is identical to

the day before it. This has been

a strange and difficult time for

us all, and I imagine we are all

trying our best to adapt and

Singles Mingle

cope in our own unique ways.

For those of us living alone, or

especially those whose loved

ones are ill or who have lost

loved ones, the isolation from

family and friends can be even

more acutely felt. As a Regency

resident who still works, though

currently from home, I always

think about all the things I

would be able to do or accom-

plish if I only had the time. De-

spite currently being at home, I

am still thinking of my to-do list

whenever I walk past boxes in

the garage still unpacked after

well over two years and all the

stuff in my closets that remind

me that they still have yet to be

cleaned out. In order to continue

to avoid attending to this, I am

instead filling my free time with

walking, virtual Canasta and

Mah Jongg with friends, stream-

ing shows and “Zooming” with

family, friends (including long-

lost ones) and colleagues.

In addition to those diversions

this seems like a good time to

look back fondly upon some of

the fun, memorable events and

outings that the Regency Sin-

gles have organized or partici-

pated in over the past year. Our

first outing of the year has tradi-

tionally been our celebration of

the Chinese New Year. For at

(Continued on page 6)

The Year of the Rat Cake

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JULY 2020 – PAGE 6 REGENCY REPORTER

least the last couple of years

that I have been here, The Ori-

ental Pan Restaurant in Marl-

boro has been our venue of

choice. The cozy, inviting at-

mosphere coupled with a sump-

tuous assortment of dishes ar-

rayed on a lazy Susan have

made for a lovely night out es-

caping the doldrums of winter

with our friends. And while the

cake was delicious, I am look-

ing forward to next year’s cake,

which should feature a render-

ing of an ox instead of a rat!

A highlight of 2019 came on

Friday, April 5 - the night that

we played host to Mayhem

High School’s Totally Rad 80’s

Prom Gone Bad, which was

held in the Tennis Pavilion.

(Continued from page 5)

With totally tubular 80’s music,

awesome food from Livoti’s,

and all the Rad big hair, lace

gloves and shoulder-pads

sported by the attendees, what

could possibly go wrong? All

the popular people were on

hand, the prom queen and king

had just been crowned and we

were enjoying our meals when a

piercing scream echoed through

the room and the lights sud-

denly went out! They came

back on to a harrowing site - the

leader of Mayhem High

School’s Football Team lying

dead on the floor. Although the

culprit was apprehended and

things quickly returned to nor-

mal, it was a night that no one

will ever forget!

On a more pleasant note, as

the weather gets warmer, our

thoughts turn to getting out-

doors and enjoying excursions

to interesting historical and sce-

nic destinations in the area that

can be visited for the day. One

of these destinations that we

were fortunate enough to spend

a lovely day visiting last June

was the Culinary Institute in

Hyde Park, New York. We

toured the Institute and after-

ward enjoyed a three-course

luncheon. We even had time to

visit the shops. Despite the three

hour ride there and the longer

one returning home it was a

beautiful day well worth the

long bus ride!

A fun way to usher in the

holiday season and conclude the

year’s programming was a ride

on the Princeton Holiday Trol-

ley. What better way to learn

the history of Princeton from

our tour guide, who brought this

information to life, while being

surrounded by the festival holi-

day atmosphere in town. Our

journey into the past continued

with lunch at the historic Yan-

kee Doodle Tap Room, with its

walls lined with pictures of no-

table Princeton graduates and

wooden booths carved with the

initials of regulars such as Al-

bert Einstein.

These are just a sampling of

some of the many fun activities

that our group has enjoyed. We

are also proud of the efforts of

our members as well as the gener-

osity of the entire Regency com-

munity with everyone coming

together on behalf of I Support

the Girls, an exceptional organi-

zation doing wonderful work on

behalf of the homeless, abused

and underprivileged women in

our region whom they assist. This

culminated in a packing party

held on September 11, where

volunteers from Regency Singles

and the community at large

helped to package personal hy-

giene products to be distributed to

organizations and agencies tasked

with helping those in need.

This March, when it became

apparent that all club and social

activities would have to be in-definitely suspended, we had

just completed planning out the

year’s calendar of events and

activities, and were in the proc-

ess of deciding on what our

charitable undertaking would be

for the 2020 calendar year. We hope that at some point we may

able to restore or revise some

portion of this year’s calendar.

If, or when this happens, it will

be announced in the newsletter

and the Reporter.

Stay well everyone!

Singles

We Support the Girls Packing Party

The Yankee Doodle Tap Room

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By Sharon Scheckner

Editor’s Note: This column

was originally supposed to ap-

pear in the June Regency Re-

spective issue of the Reporter.

Due to an overwhelming re-

sponse, it was held over to July

and shares memories from the

Regency Actors and Players.

Remember the old adage,

“what goes around comes

around?” Eighteen years ago

this month, Hal and I moved to

Regency. We had no Club-

house, no pool or gym - forget

having a grill room! So, what

did we do for entertainment?

We walked around the commu-

nity, all five blocks of it. We’d

see people out walking and stop

and talk (closer than six feet and

without masks). Sometimes, we

would be invited in for coffee,

but most of us had little or no

furniture so where would we

sit? After eighteen long months

the Clubhouse was finally built.

One of the first clubs to be

formed was the Regency Actors

and Players and along with that

came the Regency Chorus. Sue

Tendler, Lorraine Zimmerman,

Marilyn Vassen and myself

wrote a play about life in a sen-

ior community. Using well

known songs, we wrote paro-

dies about our lives at Regency.

Carol Kortmansky was our cho-

reographer and Sandi Shumsky,

assisted by Steffy Altbaum,

designed the costumes and sets.

Sue was the dialogue director

and I was the musical director.

Lorraine was our producer and

made sure we had everything

we needed for the production.

Musical numbers included:

Everyone’s Moving to Re-

gency, Sadie, Sadie, Retired

Lady, We’re Snow Birds, When

I’m Sixty-Four, Mega Mar-

shall’s, and Ah Yes, I Remem-

ber it Well, just to name a few.

In all, we wrote and performed

twenty-three songs. In the Snow

Bird’s number, our singers were

dressed in elaborate bird cos-

tumes. These birds danced and

sang about the residents who

traveled back and forth down I-

95 on their annual trek to Flor-

ida. Sadie, Sadie, Retired Lady

lyrics dealt with all the activities

in which a Regency Diva could

participate on a daily basis.

These included lunch, shopping,

Mah Jongg, canasta, golf and

tennis as well as classes at Ru-

All (now Olli-Ru). Mega Mar-

shall’s, glorified the task of

Those Were the Days

Photos submitted by Ron Post, Sandi Shumsky, and Esther Schwartz All photos without captions are from the first Regency Players and Actors Show -

If They Could See Me Now.

decorating our new homes and the never ending hunt

for bargains.

The men’s ability to romanticize their golf

scores was addressed in Ah Yes I Remember it

Well, as two Regency golfers argued about the

validity of their scores. And who can forget Larry

Ehrlich dressed as a Greek running down the aisle

holding the Olympic Torch that we actually lit on the

stage. (Better to ask forgiveness than permission). If

They Could See Us Now summed up the entire Re-

gency experience about our new lives here in New

Jersey. Although our club went on to write and per-

form other productions, eight in all, this one was my

absolute favorite because it highlighted the biggest

change in our lives - retirement.

As Hal and I stroll through Regency and keep in

touch with our neighbors via email, texts, Skype and

Zoom, what comes to mind is the comradery that face-

to-face interactions gives us. Hopefully, the pandemic

will just be a bad memory and we can say …

Those were the days we:

Walked and talked with masks

Zoomed our family holidays

Cooked and cleaned out of boredom

Considered Netflix and Amazon our best friends

Learned that they developed a vaccine and were free

at last!

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Singing ‘Lollipop, Lollipop’ - from the Rock and Roll Show.

Those Were the Days

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By Marty Feldman

Editor’s Note: This column

was originally supposed to ap-

pear in the June Regency Re-

spective issue of the Reporter.

Due to an overwhelming re-

sponse, it was held over to July

and shares memories from the

Herb Zukerberg Yiddish Club.

When you have lived in the

same place for many years you

can remember many things in

which you have participated,

especially things that have be-

come fond memories. Having

lived at Regency for over 17

years, The Herb Zukerberg Yid-

dish Club is one of those things

for me. I’ve been involved with

this club since it began and it

has given me many fond Memo-

ries. I must admit however that

my memory is not quite what it

used to be so cut me a bit of

slack if I remember some things

differently than they actually

were. The club was started by

Renea and Herb Zukerberg,

around 2005-2006 and was sim-

ply called The Yiddish Club, or

as I called it “music and laughs

with a shmear.” Herb Zukerberg

had been known professionally

as Herb Zane, a renowned band

leader, AKA “The Bar Mitzvah

King of New Jersey.” He and

his wife Renea arranged the

Yiddish Club breakfasts on

Sunday mornings during the

warmer months, usually May

through October. The breakfast

was always followed by some

entertainment, which always

highlighted the Yiddishkeit

(Jewishness) of the music, the

composer, the humor…we

spanned the range of entertain-

ment from Klezmer to

Gershwin to Modi to… .

At the very first breakfast,

Herb our master of ceremony

asked me to come up and speak

to our audience in Yiddish.

Having once upon a time spo-

ken fluent Yiddish I agreed. I

proceeded to answer Herb’s

English questions, in Yiddish,

which Herb humorously trans-

lated into English. The audience

seemed to enjoy this, hearing

the spoken Yiddish and hearing

the English translation. From

that point on, at each breakfast

my job became to follow the

food and before the entertain-

ment with a joke told in Yid-

dish, one line at a time and

translating it, one line at a time

into English. Occasionally I

couldn’t attend the breakfast

and Ethel and Ted Shuster gra-

ciously filled in.

Unfortunately, in 2009,

Herb, at the age of 81, passed

away. The following year his

beautiful and talented wife

Renea, along with the able

assistance of Richard Lans

renamed the club “The Herb

Zukerberg Yiddish Club,” in

Herb’s honor and memory. On

the tenth anniversary of his

death, Renea gave each couple

at the breakfast a CD that

Herb Zane had put out, of tal-

ented senior musicians playing

“the standards that never die.”

The club also puts on a Shab-

bos (Sabbath) dinner several

Friday nights during the sea-

son serving up the type of

chicken and challah dinner

you would expect from your

bubbe (grandmother).

The Sunday breakfasts usu-

ally get between 250-300 plus

hungry Regency residents for a

sit down bagel and lox, tuna and

egg salad, juice, coffee and pas-

try breakfast. Siz a mechayah

tzu seein (It’s a pleasure to see).

This is typically followed by

one of my jokes (bilingual),

followed by Renea providing a

short lecture on a subject near

and dear to the Jewish people -

for example Jews in sports, or

show business, or Nobel Laure-

ates… . Then the entertainment

with either laughs or sing

alongs but always entertaining.

Last but not least, Richard Lans

runs the 50-50 and off to home

we go all feeling satisfied nutri-

tionally and spiritually. By the

way, you do not have to be Jew-

ish to have a great time at the

Herb Zukerberg Yiddish Club.

Just ask Mary Caccamo!

Regency Chorus

The Regency Chorus under

the direction of Sharon Scheckner

Meets on Mondays 4:45 - 6 p.m. in the

front ballroom.

New members welcome!

Chorus will resume when the Clubhouse reopens

and it is safe to do so.

Contact Sharon (732-656-3165)

or Carol Kortmansky (732-605-9759)

The Herb

Zukerberg

Yiddish Club

2020 Events Calendar

We are hoping to be able to

hold these events

· August 16 - 10:00 a.m. -

Breakfast Program - Ari

Axelrod - “Celebration of

Jewish Broadway”

· September 28 - 6:30 p.m.

Break the Fast with Jewish

Trivia

· November 8: - 10:00 a.m. -

Breakfast Program - Johnny

Lambert, Comedian

The Herb Zukerberg

Yiddish Club Memories

Condolence

The Editorial Board of the

Regency Reporter and the entire

Regency community send sin-

cere condolences to Candy

Schweitzer and Family on the

loss of her beloved mother

Blanche Singer, and to the Fam-

ily of our dear friend and

neighbor Julia Lichtenstein.

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in the Club Blast, but feel free

to contact me via email at Jay-

[email protected] to be

added to our weekly email and

Healing

with Yoga

By Jaya Gupta

Most of you know me as your

friendly neighborhood Yoga

lady, Jaya Gupta. My husband

and I moved to Regency eight

years ago. Prem, my husband,

moved here for the golf, tennis

and other amenities Regency

has to offer. However, I moved

here with a dream to make a

difference and help this commu-

nity become the healthiest one

around, through practicing as a

Yoga Therapist and teaching

yoga classes at the Clubhouse.

That’s exactly what I told Pam,

our Regency’s sales associate,

in our welcome meeting, al-

though Pottery classes (with

Beverly Stern), playing bridge

and swimming, making wonder-

ful friends, and finding your

hidden talents are the beauty of

this place.

While going through this

trying time of social distancing

and staying home, which can

keep us safe, but not healthy, I

am offering virtual yoga classes

to stay connected and to keep

ourselves happy and healthy.

Our body, mind and soul need

nourishment every single day.

This is where yoga fits per-

fectly. For this reason, I am

resuming two virtual classes at

the same times as I used to

teach in the Clubhouse, Monday

at 11:00 a.m. and Wednesday at

10:30 a.m. If you’ve never tried

yoga before or couldn’t make it

to the Clubhouse, this is the

perfect opportunity for you to

give it a try.

You’re never too old to try

yoga. Integral yoga can be done

at any age, by anyone who is

seeking to stay in good physical

and mental health. It integrates

four very important components

of true yoga for the union and

alignment of body, mind and

soul.

· Breathing (Pranayama) - to

detox our bodies, to make our

lungs healthier and stronger

and to let go of emotions we

don’t need

· Meditation - to make our

minds stronger, stop the chat-

ter in our minds, increase

focus and memory and keep

away Alzheimer’s and De-

mentia

· Poses - to make our physical

bodies flexible and strong

· Deep Relaxation - to absorb

the benefits and to heal us by

increased REM sleep and

help in sleeping disorders or

Insomnia

The benefits of the poses

alone are enormous, but true

health benefits can only be

achieved by combining all four

components. I encourage you to

try it out. The Zoom link will be

It was a proud moment for Jaya Gupta with her son Sean at the first

International Yoga Day in Times Square. Photos submitted by Jaya Gupta

Kid’s Yoga at the Clubhouse

Jaya Gupta with granddaughters Riya, Sabrina, and Sonya

Zoom link. The greatest benefit

of yoga for us has been the

bonding with our children,

grandchildren, and friends.

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By Carol Kortmansky

Karen Ross, President

Editor’s Note: This column

was originally supposed to ap-

pear in the June Regency Re-

spective issue of the Reporter.

Due to an overwhelming re-

sponse, it was held over to July

and shares memories from Re-

gency Hadassah.

And so another month has

passed in this strange world that

we live in today. As I write this

article, I am amazed that our

last women’s Seder, celebrating

the most important Jewish

woman in our world, our moth-

ers and all who mother us, was

only one year ago! Recently,

Hadassah Magazine celebrated

the beauty and importance of

the Jewish mother. “If ever we

needed the strength, wisdom,

nurturing and resourcefulness of

the mothers and daughters in

our lives, it is now. As we con-

tinue to navigate a surreal exis-

tence dictated by the Covid-19

pandemic, we look to the ladies

in our lives to help us get

through to the other side.”

Many years ago, I was on a

bus going into the city with our

Hadassah chapter, I believe it

was for a tour of the lower east

side. I was sitting with Nina

Wolff and mentioned to her that

I thought Hadassah should con-

sider doing a Women’s Seder,

one that honored the role of

Jewish women in our past, pre-

sent and future. “What a great

idea,” Nina said! “And you will

chair it!” “No way,” I said. “I can’t chair, I don’t do chair!” We

finally agreed to be co-chairs, and the rest as they say is history.

Our idea back then was to have a small, intimate affair, with no more

than 75 women. We hired Nancy Beller-Krieger, who led the evening

and added her beautiful voice and guitar! We asked our members to do

research and write articles about “Jewish Women of Influence.” We

wrote our own stories, and had volunteers do most of the reading. There

was no meal, we served ritual foods and desserts made by our own

talented residents. And our men waited on us! The evening was a big

success, and with that success came later changes - what began with

just 75 women grew to over 200 last year; what began with just ritual

foods and homemade desserts grew to full meals and desserts catered

by outside caterers (in addition to the very delicious desserts made by

our own volunteers). The themes changed as well! We started with

Jewish Women of Influence, we celebrated young and upcoming Jew-

ish Women, honored Righteous Gentiles, and wrote about our own

memories with stories and photographs of our Passovers past remem-

bered. Our very last Seder, which honored the most important Jewish

Woman in our lives was by far the most emotional of all!

There were so many women who helped us to bring those lovely

evenings to fruition, Sandi Shumsky’s magnificent art work for

each of the Haggadahs and Cheryl Hand and her team of bakers to

name just two! Of course there were so many others and we hope

and pray that when the world returns to normal we will be able to

have another evening such as these, filled with memories, beauty,

warmth and the love of our Hadassah family!

Congratulations to Mona Portnoy and Diane Schauman who

have upgraded to Lifetime Memberships and thanks to Sharon

Ben’Ous, Sonia Lieberman and Vivianne Roth for renewing their

annual memberships!

Since all our programs in the foreseeable future have been can-

celed or postponed, there is really nothing to report at this time.

We’re hoping to reschedule as many as we can, and once this pan-

demic is over, Hadassah will again begin scheduling the types of

programs that we have come to expect and enjoy! We were excited that the Regency Hadassah Book Club held it’s

first Zoom Book Club Meeting on Monday, June 29. Look for fur-

ther information about future Book Club Zoom meetings via emails

from Regency Hadassah. We discussed The Third Daughter by

Talia Carner, which follows the life of the third daughter in a family

of Jews forced out of their home in one of Russia’s endless po-

groms, who is married off to an apparently wealthy and kind Ameri-

can businessman. We thank Marilyn Jaclin, Marcia Milgrom, and

Karen Ross for making the arrangements for the meeting and

Phyllis S. Greenberg for facilitating the discussion. We hope many

of you will join us for future Zoom Book Club Meetings.

Please watch your emails for updated information on all the news

that affects our Hadassah community. If you change your email,

please contact us and let us know immediately and send your up-

dated email to [email protected]

We would also like to remind our friends in the Regency commu-

nity that Hadassah sells Shoprite gift cards in the denomination of

$100 per card. Hadassah receives a percentage back from each card

sale. To purchase a card or for more information, please contact

Jane Sussman. Condolence and Greeting Cards can be purchased

from Shelly Schwartz, Sandy Mailman, or Marilyn Krawet. If you

cannot contact one of our card chairpersons, please contact Karen

Ross. For JNF Trees ($18 delivered in Regency, $19 mailed out of

Regency) and Certificates ($10 if delivered in Regency, $11 if

mailed out of Regency) contact Karen Ross or Linda Strauss. Con-

tact Helen Spector if you wish to place a leaf on our Tree of Life.

Phyllis S. Greenberg is our Simcha Chairperson. She will be at our

meetings and events with our Simcha Basket and for a small dona-

tion you will be able to share your Simchas and good wishes.

We are helping heal the world together. Stay strong, stay con-

nected, stay safe!

All are photos of original art by Sandi Shumsky, all photos sent by Sandi Shumsky

First Women’s Seder Honoring Jewish Women of Influence Second Women’s Seder Honoring Righteous Gentiles

Third Women’s Seder Honoring Memories of

Passovers Past

Fourth Women’s Seder Honoring Young Jewish

Women Repairing the World

Fifth Women’s Seder Honoring The Most Important Jewish Woman

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By Marty Feldman

Editor’s Note: This column

was originally supposed to ap-

pear in the June Regency Respec-

tive issue of the Reporter. Due to

an overwhelming response, it was

held over to July and shares

memories from the Regency Din-

ing Club.

A year after Flora and I moved

into Regency (circa 2003), we

thought how nice it would be for

me, the meal preparer for our

household, to teach my male

counterparts the basics of prepar-

ing a meal and at the same time

have neighbors meet each other

while sharing a meal, a glass of

wine and visiting each others’

homes. The premise was that I

would provide menus and recipes

and the husband would do the

cooking. I started the Regency

Dining Club with these goals in

mind (sounded good to me) how-

ever, what happened was that

even when a couple wished to

participate, most husbands re-

fused to cook. Their wives called

and asked whether they could do

the cooking and still participate?

My standard answer, “Of course,

no questions asked.” Each dinner

had a theme - a country, a US

region, city, a holiday…; for our

Shabu Shabu dinner we bought

each host home an electric fondue

type pot to cook in (which they

got to keep) and for our Ethiopian

dinner we went into New Bruns-

wick and delivered to each host

home, before the dinner, orders of

Injera (the Ethiopian bread used

for dipping instead of utensils).

This Regency Dining Club con-

tinued for about nine years with

three hosted dinners per year and

a fourth as a progressive dinner

with couples scurrying from

home to home for various

courses, ending the evening back

at the Clubhouse for dessert and

entertainment. We had everything

from a magician to a well known

comedian over the years with the

one common thread, good food,

good drink, and good friendly fun

for all.

As with any organized activity,

we quickly realized that as we got

older, less willing to cook, and as

the size of the membership in-

creased, some things had to

change. So when we had the ap-

proach of the Lunar New Year

in 2014, an executive decision

was made: the Regency Dining

Club would morph into the Re-

gency Ethnic Restaurant Eat

Around, EREA. Having trav-

eled all over the world for busi-

ness, I felt I would make the

club one that allowed people to

try out dishes they would not

ordinarily order on their own

when going to a new restaurant.

I would choose the menu, they

just had to show up and enjoy.

Our initial dinner for this itera-

tion of the club was a Chinese

banquet at a local restaurant on

Route 9. We had 15 couples

participate for this preset Lunar

New Year menu, and with a

great variety of dishes, for all

types of palates, a wonderful

time was had by all.

Since that initial EREA Dinner

we have had dinners at the fol-

lowing Ethnic restaurants: Portu-

guese (degustation), Spanish

(tapas), Cuban, Thai, Polish, Ko-

rean, Turkish, French, Russian

(Georgian), Brazilian (Rodizio),

Mediterranean (cooking class),

Mongolian (hot pot), Italian

(cooking class), Moroccan (with

belly dancer), and Indian. We

have had participation as high as

100 people, requiring us to have

two separate dates to accommo-

date all interested. Had it not been

for the current situation, we had

scheduled another Russian ban-

quet (in the French style) with

close to 100 participants. When,

not if, the social distancing cli-

mate is behind us, we will re-

sume our EREA events and

look forward to welcoming you

all to join or rejoin us. No mem-

bership fee, no commitment

other than for those dinners who

wish to attend. Keep reading the

Regency Reporter and Ron

Post’s updates for the latest

EREA news. Bon Appetit!

The Regency Dining Club, a Retrospective

Photos submitted by Marty Feldman

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bandhan gave a presentation on

Health Issues for Seniors with a

focus on Diabetes and Blood

Pressure. IAG members at-

tended this very informative and

helpful program by Zoom. He

has been practicing medicine

for over 20 years and IAG is

fortunate to have him in our

community. His presentation

was followed by Q&A period.

As promised in my article dur-

ing March/April, I am providing

a brief introduction to major

festivals that are celebrated in

India during April, May, and

June:

VAISAKHI (April 13):

Vaisakhi is also known as

Baisakhi. It is an historical and

religious festival that is cele-

brated with prayers, sharing

food and performing spiritual/

religious rituals by Sikhs and

Hindus at the beginning of the

month of Vaisakha. Guru Go-

bind Singh had formed Khalsa

panth of warriors on this day in

1699. It is also a spring harvest

festival for Sikhs and for Hin-

dus it marks the Solar New

Year.

BUDDHA JAYANTI (May

7): Gautam Buddha’s birth an-

niversary is celebrated with

great fervor in India and many

other South East Asian coun-

tries. He was the founder of

Buddhism. Many Buddhists go

to the pagodas to pour water at

the foot of the sacred tree

named “Mahabodhi” under

which he had attained Nirvana

(salvation). Worldwide, devo-

tees of Buddha visit temples,

light candles and incense sticks,

pray and offer fruits with

sweets. Over 600 million people

around the world follow Bud-

dha’s teachings.

EID UL-FITR (May 22): Eid

-ul-Fitr is one of the most im-

portant festivals for Muslims all

over the globe. The day marks

the end of the holy month of

Ramadan, in which Muslims

observe fast from dusk to dawn.

The month-long fasting, which

The Regency Book Club

By Joyce Cohen and Nina

Wolff

A Feel Good Book

The Regency Book Club

decided to switch around its

reading list in the midst of the

Coronavirus; we needed a pick

-me-up! Joyce penned this

article before our Zoom meet-

ing on Tuesday, June 9, so not

everyone may agree with

Joyce’s assessments. Does

Have You Seen Luis Velez by

Catherine Ryan Hyde qualify

as a “feel good” book? Defi-

nitely, yes. However, what

else does it offer? Hyde begins

with a clever premise. She

presents Raymond, an overly

sensitive caring seventeen year

old, as her primary protago-

nist. He wants to help a blind

ninety-two year old neighbor

find her “lost” caretaker, Luis

Velez. Millie (Mrs. G) is smart

and independent, but we are

asked to believe that she has

no phone number to reach

Luis, nor the contact number

for the agency that originally

matched them up. This is the

justification for the search,

and Raymond decides to track

down as many men with the

name “Luis Velez” as he can

from a directory … going “door

to door” to ask if they know

Millie. The literary language is

more suited to a YA audience.

As Raymond follows his search,

he brings out the best in almost

everyone he meets. He is pre-

sented as a friendless boy who

can befriend people in all walks

of life.

Nina reports that when the

group met, they discussed the

merits of reading this book at this

time. The book was suggested to

help relieve what might be a

sense of despair brought on by the

constant numbers of deaths being

reported and the fear of the un-

known. Especially for people in

our age range who find ourselves

isolating and unable to hug our

children and grandchildren.

Mostly everyone enjoyed the

book and agreed that while it was

not literature on a grand scale, it

left us feeling good. Raymond is

a kind soul. We see that right

from the beginning as he is caring

for a feral cat, who he ultimately

brings to Millie so she won’t be

so alone. Raymond, who is bi-

racial, is also very much alone as

his best (and only) friend is mov-

ing to California and he is split-

ting his time living with his di-

vorced parents and their respec-

tive “new” families. Neither his

step-father nor step-mother care

for him and his own mother is

busy raising his three half-sisters,

thereby having very little time for

him.

As Joyce says, ultimately, this

is an adventure story that can be

very appealing. I won’t spoil the

book for those who will still

read it by giving too detailed a

summary. In spite of her writing

style, I will say that the themes

Hyde explores are very much

adult ones. Questions about

both murder and justice are

raised and even more important

are the psychological issues that

are woven throughout. Adoles-

cents have evolving self images,

and Raymond is the embodi-

ment of someone who sees him-

self as a misfit. Millie has

gained her wisdom through the

years. Nina adds that due to the

fact that her father had money,

her family was able to escape

from Hitler’s Germany in 1938.

While she provides the balance

for Raymond’s insecurities, she,

herself, has lived her life with

“survivors guilt.”

Unfortunately, Joyce was

unable to attend the Book Club

Zoom. In the next few months

we look forward to discussing

The Giver of Stars by Jojo Mo-

yes, and Olive, Again by Eliza-

beth Strout. Our next Book

Club Zoom Meeting will be on

Tuesday, July 14 at 4 p.m.

Marcia Midler will send out the

link. Perhaps we can have a face

to face out on the deck of the

Clubhouse in the near future.

Keep in touch.

Memories from Past

Culture Club Events

Photos submitted by Milton Paris

By Anil Shah

During the past few months

our daily lifestyles had to be

adjusted to suit conditions cre-

ated by COVID - 19. Each of us

have been adapting to the

change with increased participa-

tion by using Face Time, Face-

book, Zoom, Team, WhatsApp,

etc. YouTube, Netflix, Amazon

and many other services have

also been very helpful to keep

us entertained. The weather has

improved, and it has allowed us

to enjoy outdoor activities while

taking precautions for every-

one’s safety. The Regency Car

Club had organized a Car Pa-

rade in honor of Memorial Day.

IAG was represented by Anil

Shah and his wife Chandni.

They participated in the car pa-

rade with their Classic Con-

vertible 1988 Mercedes Benz

560SL. All cars were very im-

pressive and looked beautiful.

The car parade was well organ-

ized, and each car drove by

houses on all streets of Re-

gency. Residents came out of

their houses in large numbers

and turned it into a very festive

and patriotic two-hours long

celebration with their enthusias-

tic cheering, clapping, dancing,

playing bells, blowing whistles

and waving American flags

with thank you signs. The writer

also attended a Cars and Coffee

event that was casually organ-

ized by the Regency Car Club.

It was a lot of fun joking around

with member friends in the

parking lot of a nearby Dunkin

Donuts. I will tell you a secret

but please do not tell my wife…

I did not measure my sugar

level throughout the entire day

and felt very energetic!

IAG member Dr. Rama Sam-

is considered to be the sternest

one, ends on the eve of Eid after

sighting the first crescent of the

new moon. Ramadan is the holi-

est month for the followers of

Islam. It is believed that Allah

(God) on this day delivered the

first verses of the Quran. As per

tales, the month of Ramadan

was started when Prophet

Mohammad migrated from

Mecca to Medina. This festival

is celebrated with a lot of fervor

and joy. People worldwide greet

each other, exchange gifts and

feast on special delicacies. On a

personal note, ever since I was a

child, I have loved this day con-

suming delicious food with Khir

and fancy sweets!

In India, there are more festi-

vals than there are total number

of days in a year! I have only

covered major festivals. Like all

of you, I too am waiting for

things to get better and be able

to start meeting friends and

family. Until then…STAY

SAFE AND STAY WELL!

IAG Members Continue

To Stay Active!

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Recycling

Mixed recycling is now collected each Wednesday. All recyclables (paper, bot-tles, cans, plastic, etc.) can be placed in the same container and put out each week.

Beyond Words

By Cheryl Hand

Regency Re-sale Update

I have three messages for you

and your families. First, I hope if

you are reading this you are stay-

ing healthy and social distancing.

It’s so nice to see everyone walk-

ing and enjoying the lush grounds

of Regency. Second, I want to

once again ask everyone to pay

attention to the speed limit and

stop signs in the community. Liv-

ing on Country Club Drive, you

just can’t imagine how fast the

cars whip by my house. DRIVE

THE SPEED LIMIT! Lastly, I

would like to give you an update

on the Regency re-sale market.

This is clearly an unprecedented

time in our history. The real estate

market has been affected, as you

can imagine. However, when I

analyzed our numbers, they are

not quite as bad as I expected.

Currently we have 13 active re-

sales on the market. In a “normal”

market we’d probably have about

25 to 30. The re-sales range in

price from $400,000 up to

$724,999. The prices in this com-

munity range so greatly, we are

not like any other community that

I have known in my thirty-three

years of experience. However, for

those of you considering selling,

less competition means a quicker

sale. Perhaps it could be the right

time even during this pandemic.

We have five homes that are

Under Contract. Those asking

prices range from $495,000 up to

$725,000. I will report the sold

prices when the properties have

closed.

Thirteen re-sales have closed

since January 2020; as low as

$410,000 and as high as

$608,000. In a normal year we

can close 30 to 35 homes. We are

not quite halfway through and

already have 13 closed with five

under contract, so we may end up

with about 30 re-sales closed. Not

bad for a quarantine year. Re-

gency is a popular place to live!

Some of you may wonder how

are we showing homes. The Na-

tional Association of Realtors

created a Covid-19 Hold Harm-

less document that must be signed

by buyers and sellers. The realtors

and buyers must wear masks and

gloves and not touch anything in

the homes. The sellers usually

leave their house during the

showing. One last thing I’d like to

add is that the buyer’s looking

during this time seem to be more

serious, qualified buyers vs. the

‘curious looker!’

Stay healthy…stay happy…be

creative…enjoy your beautiful

surroundings and SOCIAL DIS-

TANCE!

By Cecile Spector

The Grammar Police

Language is alive. It is affected

by the society in which it is used,

and it changes and grows over

time. When, for example, a word

is pronounced by a great many

people in a way that differs from

the preferred pronunciation as

stated in dictionaries, it eventually

will become the pronunciation of

choice. Often, when I use the

word “forte” (pronounced as fort)

to mean one’s strong point, I am

corrected and told it should be

pronounced forte (fort a). The

preferred pronunciation in the

dictionary is “fort.” The word is

derived from French and influ-

enced by Italian. For this reason,

it often is pronounced forte (fort

a). Which is right? They both are.

The way the word is said is in

flux; eventually dictionaries will

reflect the change.

Grammar is one of the most

“abused” parts of language be-

cause, frequently, people decide

to “bend” the grammatical rules

taught in school. If, however,

everyone knows exactly what

you mean then your grammar is

working; if what you say is con-

fusing or ambiguous, then it is

not. After all, the main purpose

of language is to communicate

our ideas and thoughts to each

other. The grammatical rules of

English have been with us for

centuries. In some cases, these

rules resulted from writers from

the seventeenth and eighteenth

centuries attempting to translate

the rules of Latin into rules for

English. For instance, in Latin

an infinitive, being a single

word, could never be split. But

of course it does not follow that

the same should hold true for

English, where infinitives such

as ‘to explain’ or ‘to go’ are

comprised of two words, not

one. The fact that by the seven-

teenth or eighteenth centuries

Latin was strictly a written lan-

guage and had long ceased to

undergo the changes natural to

spoken language, gave these

writers the notion that Latin was

somehow better and purer than

contemporary languages. The

following are some grammar

rules that we probably have

been taught in school:

· Don’t end a sentence with a

preposition. This is considered

to be “non-Latin.” When we

try to abide by this rule our

speech may sound awkward

and unnatural. Winston Chur-

chill’s famous remark when

criticized for ending a sentence

with a preposition was, “That is

the sort of English up with

which I will not put.”

· Don’t use a double negative

(We don’t want no dinner -

does that mean they want

some dinner?) In some cases,

following the rules keeps our

conversations from being

ambiguous. Although it ap-

pears that in English two

negatives destroy one another

and are equivalent to an af-

firmative, we do understand

someone who says, “I haven’t

got no money.” In languages

such as French and Spanish

double negatives are gram-

matically correct.

· Don’t say ain’t. In seven-

teenth century London, the

“r” sound was not pro-

nounced. Consequently,

aren’t sounded like ain’t. It

was used by highly educated

people as well as the masses.

The use of ain’t is stigmatized

when used in the United

States because we do pro-

nounce the “r” sound; its

omission makes ain’t an un-

necessary and unwarranted

contraction of are not, am not

and even is not.

· Don’t split infinitives. This

rule is frequently broken be-

cause splitting the infinitive

lends itself to a more natural

way of expressing oneself.

“To boldly go where no man

has gone before” should be

“To go boldly where no man

has gone before.” Doesn’t the

first one (with the split infini-

tive) sound more forceful and

natural to the ear?

For the most part, the gram-

matical rules that we learned in

school are still used in written

language. In spoken language

there are usages that have

worked their way into everyday

conversation to the point where

most people view them as com-

pletely normal. This being said,

members of the “grammar po-

lice” (e.g., teachers, editors,

etc.) still bristle when some-

one’s grammar strays out of

what is considered by educated

people to be mainstream usage.

Note the following examples:

Saying: asterick for asterisk

(“Put an asterick next to the

citation.”)

expresso for espresso (“I’d

like a double expresso, please.”)

nucular for nuclear (“A nucu-

lar attack would devastate the

country.”)

nother for other (“That’s a

whole nother thing.”)

could care less for couldn’t

care less (“I could care less that

the party was called off.”)

irregardless for regardless

(“I’ll do it, irregardless of cir-

cumstances.”)

I for me (“It was given to

Toni and I.”)

me and him for he and I (“Me

and him went to the game yes-

terday.”)

hisself for himself (“He sat by

hisself in the last row.”)

between you and I for be-

tween you and me (‘Remember

this is just between you and I.”)

oh for zero, when saying a

number (“My phone number is

555-oh oh 34.”)

standing on line for standing

in line (“I was standing on line

forever.”)

If we say any one of the

above we are regarded by the

“grammar police” as perform-

ing a grammatical faux pas. The

use of alternatives to standard

grammatical forms may cause

others to focus on your gram-

mar instead of the content of

what you are saying.

So what is the bottom line? In

some cases of grammatical mis-

use it doesn’t matter. It depends

on the situation, your purpose for

speaking, and the people you are

addressing as to how careful you

wish to be in your use of gram-

mar. Giving a formal speech to an

erudite audience may call for

your grammar to be on its best

behavior as opposed to the gram-

mar you use in casual conversa-

tion with good friends.

In closing, I ain’t gonna split

no infinitives, but I can’t help

myself-I must use a preposition

to end this sentence with.

Rabbi Louis’s

Class

A class of Jewish ethics, val-

ues, beliefs and traits of charac-

ter,” will begin for this season

when the Clubhouse reopens

when it is safe to do so. The

class will meet each Thursday

at 10:30 a.m. and will be held in

Ballroom 1. All are welcome.

Men’s Club

Events Calendar

We are hoping to be able to

hold these events

· Monday, August 10 - Men’s

Night Out Dinner and Movie

· Friday, August 21 - Mon-

mouth Park Race Track

· Sunday, August 30 - Monthly

Meeting and Guest Speaker

Home Trends

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The Regency Scrabble Club

Join us for Scrabble each Thursday at 7 p.m.

In the Multi-Purpose Room

Monday at 1:30 p.m.

In the Multi-Purpose Room

All ability levels welcome

For information, contact Linda Litsky

[email protected] – (732.492.0921)

Scrabble Scribbles

Healing Ourselves Naturally

By Susan Sloan

Are you wondering why the

market is recovering so quickly

from the disaster that started to

hit us in mid-March? Several

indexes have reached near high

levels as of this date. The

Nasdaq hit an all time high, and

the S&P and Dow are down

only 6% from an all time high.

Not bad considering. At the

same time everything looks

grim. Jobs have been lost, busi-

nesses will be closing, and to

top it off there are demonstra-

tions turning into riots and loot-

ing in many major cities in

America. So, why is the market

recovering? Are we just so opti-

mistic by nature? On Wall

Street there is an old saying

which is, ‘‘Don’t Fight The

FED.” When you go against

what the greatest minds are

thinking you will be wrong. The

Federal Reserve’s job is to

maintain balance and avoid dis-

asters in the economy. No one

could have predicted that the

best economy that we have seen

in decades would be uprooted

by a pandemic. All was going

well, we had near full employ-

ment, taxes were cut and there

seemed a period of calm around

the world. The stock market

was making new highs and eve-

ryone was content. Of all the

things you could think of that

would turn a market around, a

virus was not on anybody’s lips.

However it happened. As I have

written before, It is always the

thing you least expect and can-

not predict that hurts. Like Pearl

Harbor or 9/11.

The Federal Reserve had to

come in to bolster the disasters

that were taking place. Many

people have said to me that they

are spending too much money.

In effect, however, they are not

spending anything. They are

investing in things because

there is no one else there to buy

things. Whether they are stocks

or bonds or Futures, it is the

FED’s job to stabilize things. In

the economic crisis of 2008, the

then FED chairman Ben Ber-

nanke said if he had to throw

cash out of helicopters he would

do that to stabilize the economy.

Hence the nickname Helicopter

Ben, That’s what the FED is

doing right now. They are buy-

ing things which, just as in 2009

and 2010, they will be able to

sell later when the world stabi-

lized, at very big profits. They

were the purchaser of last resort

and brought us out of that disas-

ter. And the treasury’s job is to

make sure that people have

enough money to spend so that

the entire economy doesn’t shut

down. They sent money to peo-

ple who are unemployed, to

businesses that needed it to pay

their rent, and to individuals

whose income was below a cer-

tain level so that they would

continue to buy things to feed

their family and keep the econ-

omy going. They have done a

marvelous job. So when you see

the market recovering so

greatly, it is a tribute to what the

FED has done. Even though you

cannot yet see the end of the

pandemic.

By Don Haback

A Few Miscellaneous

Hints and Tips

Editor’s Note: The sugges-

tions made in this column are

solely those of the author and

not necessarily those of the Edi-

torial Board of the Regency

Reporter and/or Princeton Edi-

torial Services.

This month, as we hopefully

start to recover from our in-

home stays, we’ll look at some

miscellaneous areas – at least

some of which should be impor-

tant to everybody.

Both PCs and MACs need to

be regularly checked to see if

any operating system UP-

DATES are needed. Many times

they’re automatic – but we rec-

ommend that you go to

‘settings’ and check for updates.

Some our machines are older –

and some of them are getting to

the point where replacement

may be considered. For in-

stance, if your PC is running

Windows 7.0 (or an earlier ver-

sion), it is no longer supported

by Microsoft – and should be

replaced. Similarly, some older

MACs (including the ‘all-in-

one’ iMACs) are running ver-

sions of MacOS that are not

supported. The latest version

(CATALINA) is v.10.15. If

yours is running SIERRA

(v.10.12), El Capitan (v.10.11),

Yosemite (v.10.10) or any ear-

lier versions, THEY ARE NO

LONGER SUPPORTED by

Apple.

You should also check to see

that you’re running the latest ver-

sions all of your utility software

(including JAVA, any anti-virus

and anti-malware). If your PC is

not running Microsoft’s own

WINDOWS DEFENDER, please

delete any other anti-virus and

anti-malware product and use this

instead. For earlier versions of

Windows machines, please con-

sider running AVAST anti-virus

and MALWARE BYTES soft-

ware. For MACs – THIS IS IM-

PORTANT – IF IT’S THERE,

REMOVE ‘CLEANMYMAC’!

It is malware! Keep MAL-

WAREBYTES.

With the approaching reopen-

ing of stores, now could be a

good time to consider buying a

new machine.

We are always saying that

there are two categories of com-

puter users, those who backup

their data – and those who

WISH THEY HAD! If you’re

not doing these backups, please

– at your earliest convenience –

consider buying an external

hard disk drive. Both Seagate

and Western Digital have excel-

lent products – and both include

the ability to automatically back

up your data – even to saving

files that you change or modify.

It’s always a good time to in-

vestigate adding backup!

By Steven Soffer N.D. MH

The Power of Gratitude

and Love!

“It was the best of times; it

was the worst of times.” This is

not A Tale of Two Cities. This

is the tale of two worlds... the

world before the Coronavirus

and the world after the Coro-

navirus. None of us on New

Year’s Eve had any idea that

over the next three months our

lives would change like we have

never seen before. Clearly,

that’s what is happening now.

There are two sides to every

coin...but those two sides are to

only one coin. We don’t want to

take any wooden nickels. What

do I mean by that? It doesn’t

matter if we are a Democrat or a

Republican, nor does it matter if

we get our news from Fox or

CNN. What matters is our own

personal truth and how we live

our lives now.

Clearly, our lives have

changed. Now we have to social

distance, wear masks when we

are out, wash our hands ten to

twenty times a day and be really

conscious of those around us. I

am writing this on June 6. Much

of the country is re-opening

without really following guide-

lines set by the CDC. People are

starting to get a false sense of

security. The tragic death num-

bers are not really coming down

in many places in the country.

People are social creatures and

it is hard to stay hunkered down

and in isolation for a very long

time. We gain and draw support

and nourishment from those

with whom we interact. It is a

well known fact that the failure

to thrive, meaning things like

poor weight gain, poor and ab-

normal behavior and even poor

cognitive development can de-

velop in infants when they are

neglected. Our physical bodies

truly rely on the nourishment

and support that we share and

gain from others around us aid-

ing us in functioning properly.

Believe it or not, our genetics

are influenced by isolation and

loneliness. These things create

actual inflammation and re-

duced immune function. One

really great natural anti-

inflammatory remedy is strong,

rich, and loving social relation-

ships with our spouses, our chil-

dren, our spiritual families, and

friends. Studies reveal that any

inflammation can easily create

cardiovascular, auto-immune

and neurodegenerative diseases,

cancer, and depression. I know

common sense is very uncom-

mon, but this really makes

sense...that people who have

strong social connections and

family life create up to a 50%

increased chance of living

longer and recovering from dis-

ease (even Coronavirus) more

quickly. The more connections

we have with more people that

are positive create a more positive

feedback of mental, emotional

and physical well being. It is so

important that we make time for

those who support us, nourish us,

love us, and help us to live longer

and healthier lives. In seventh

grade my teacher said, “It’s qual-

ity, not quantity, that counts.” He

was talking about our homework

and school work. But, I’m talking

about the quality of our relation-

ships that matter. Not the number

of the relationships but the true

supportive essence of those nur-

turing relationships that create a

feeling of being close with and

belonging with others.

Love is the answer! We were

created to love, to be loved and

to belong. We need to see who

we are in our innermost depths

of consciousness as a crucial

and imperative part of human

existence. The more we receive

from others of that love, friend-

ship and support, the more it

helps us to trust and relax

within ourselves and to be more

comfortable in our own skin,

especially at this critical time on

the planet with things as crazy

as they are. We must now pull

out from within ourselves all

that deeply buried stuff that is

based on love. The world needs

us now more to support each

other and love each other no

matter which side of the coin

we see. Yes, it is the best of

times and also now the worst of

times. We are getting through

this. Just remember, a human

being is as wise as the tools that

they use and the knowledge of

how to use them.

One of the greatest tools we

have is gratitude. As we think,

we become. What we focus on

grows. Simply practicing grati-

tude for even a few minutes a

day can actually change your

brain in ways that will improve

your mood, confidence, self-

love, empathy, and ability to

feel compassion for others.

When we experience deep grati-

tude, we also strengthen the

circuits that are involved with

thinking and moral decision

making, which means we can

help our family, our kids and

grandkids to become more

socially responsible and better

human beings. An attitude of

gratitude creates a happier,

healthier, and more effective

human being! Those with

more gratitude report im-

proved psychological and

physical health and engage in

more healthy activities. Plus,

they are more supportive of

people with health concerns

who don’t consciously prac-

tice gratitude. When children

and teens practice gratitude,

grades go up, stress and con-

flict goes down, family relation-

ships get better, and foolish,

risky behaviors decline.

So, it’s all about choice once

again. We have free will to

choose happy thoughts or sad

thoughts, positive ones or nega-

tive ones; like the Sunshine

Makers cartoon. The people of

different towns choose to be

either happy or sad. This choice

is always ours so make. These

are difficult times, but we can

learn how to deal with it most

effectively and how to get

through this as unscathed as

possible. Do the right thing. We

will all get through this to-

gether. Steve encourages ques-

tions and comments from free-

thinking individuals.

“What would happen if we

could convert the energy of fear

to faith, the energy of doubt and

uncertainty into a feeling of

belonging to the universe and

being safe in It?” Ernest

Holmes.

“What the world needs now

is love, sweet love.” Burt

Bacharach

Crazy Markets

Some of us are still using older

and much slower Internet and

local area services in our homes.

These include Verizon’s DSL

services (typically running at

speeds well below 5 Mb/sec data

rates) and slower services pro-

vided by Comcast and Verizon

Fios. In some cases, the limit is

caused by older WiFi equipment.

It is possible for us to get Internet

access at speeds above 300 Mb/

sec today (from both Comcast

and Fios) but these most likely

will need new WiFi equipment.

Now might be good time to look

into this – especially if, for in-

stance, you have smart TVs con-

nected to the Internet through

your home’s WiFi system. Our

home system runs at (depending

on the time) speeds well above

300 Mb/sec on Comcast. We may

also want to consider upgrading

our WiFi systems to include some

of the new ‘mesh’ capabilities.

This will provide maximum

speeds throughout our homes.

Do NOT rush out to buy a new

5G smartphone. Yes, they’re

slowly becoming available, but

they are expensive and will not

help your phone and texting op-

erations at all! It will be several

years before the really important

advantages - much higher speed

data transfer and networking ca-

pabilities – become widely avail-

able. There’s plenty of time for all

of us.

Please contact me if you have

any questions.

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Regency

Chorus

The Regency Chorus

under

the direction of

Sharon Scheckner

Meets on Mondays

4:45 - 6 p.m. in the

front ballroom

New members welcome!

Chorus will resume when

the Clubhouse opens

and it is safe to do so.

Contact Sharon

(732-656-3165)

or Carol Kortmansky

(732-605-9759)

By Marcia Milgrom and

Marilyn Jaclin

Disobedience

After six months and six feet

of separation M and M finally

got together on Marilyn’s patio

and wrote up our impressions of

Disobedience, a film that was

recommended to us. Naturally,

we saw it separately. The film is

a romantic drama based on the

novel of the same name. It takes

place in Northern London. We

see at first a most important and

well respected Rabbi Rav

Krushka (Anton Lesser) drop-

ping dead. He was an important

figure in his Orthodox Jewish

community. We next see his

daughter Ronit (Rachel Weiss),

a New York based photogra-

pher, who left the Orthodox

community years ago. Ronit

returns when she learns of her

father’s death, and walks into

the unchanged world of her for-

mer home. Friends and

neighbors view her as a curios-

ity. She obviously became very

rebellious and secular. Her long

hair, short skirt and cigarettes

are very noticeable. When she

reads her father’s obituary it

states that he had no children.

This was hurtful but not uncom-

mon in the Orthodox world who

would see a deviant as dead.

At her friend Dovit’s

(Alessandro Nivola) house peo-

ple were paying their respects.

She finds out that Dovit had

been taken in by her father as

his protégée. She also sees her

best friend, Este (Rachel

McAdams) who is now married

to Dovit, leading an Orthodox

life. The movie does a great job

of showing the expression on

Ronit’s face upon hearing about

the marriage of her two best

friends. Dovit is surprised to see

Ronit and invites her to stay at

his home. During her stay Ronit

visits her uncle to find out what

is going to happen to her fa-

ther’s house. She is told that the

house and possessions are to go

to the synagogue. She is only

allowed to get her personal pos-

sessions. Este goes with Ronit

to retrieve her things. While in

her father’s house together the

two women reminisce about

their shared memories. It is

there that Este kisses Ronit,

who at first resists but subse-

quently reciprocates. The story

now takes a surprise turn. Este

confesses that she is the one

who notified her friend to return

home. We realize that the two

women had a previous intimate

relationship, which is why Este

wanted Ronit to come back

home again.

Este is leading a religious,

comfortable life but is not really

happy. She and Ronit meet

again and they are spotted kiss-

ing by two women from the

congregation. The next day at

the Jewish school where Este

teaches, she is summoned by

the head mistress and hears the

complaint about her and Ronit.

Meanwhile, at the synagogue

Dovit is asked to take the

Rabbi’s place. Dovit is leery

about Ronit but feels he can

keep his house in order. At

some interval the two women

sneak to a hotel and have pas-

sionate sex, which confirms

their love. When Este arrives

home late at night Dovit is sus-

picious of the two women and

Este admits to kissing Ronit.

Ronit leaves for home. When

she arrives at the airport she

gets a call from Dovit telling

her he cannot find Este. Ronit

goes back to Dovit’s house.

Eventually, Este comes home

and asks Dovit for her freedom.

She also tells him she is preg-

nant. At this point Este and

Ronit attend a Memorial ser-

vice, presided over by Dovit, for

the deceased rabbi. During his

sermon Dovit releases Este

from their marriage and turns

down the congregation’s invita-

tion as their spiritual leader. The

three of them meet outside and

embrace, reconciling their

friendship. Ronit invites Este to

join her in New York. Este has

decisions to make and we don’t

want to spoil the ending.

The eloquence of this movie is

the performance of the actors.

The two females, Rachel

McAdams and Rachel Weiss

were so believable, making it a

heartfelt, poignant film. Alessan-

dro Nivola was young for the role

that he was asked to play. He was

a likable character, M and M en-

joyed him. We felt all of their

pain. Although slow in spots we

were happy we paid the four dol-

lars each to see it. If you are ho-

mophobic it might be uncomfort-

able for you.

By Barbara Potasky

If, during these unusual times,

you are looking to watch some-

thing a bit unorthodox, then you

might want to consider the

miniseries Unorthodox, on Net-

flix. With just four episodes,

each running slightly under an

hour, this is a worthwhile binge-

watch. The series is inspired by

the book Unorthodox: The

Scandalous Rejection of My

Hasidic Roots, by Deborah

Feldman. I recommend, after

watching the series, that you

also watch the 20-minute Mak-

ing of Unorthodox to learn

more about the show. I was

surprised to learn that the part

of the series that focuses on the

main character’s life after leav-

ing the Hasidic community is

not what actually happened to

Ms. Feldman. That led me to

become curious about the book,

which I have had on hold as an

eBook at the library since April

10, with another 11 weeks to go

until I can borrow it (and that is

with 15 copies available). That

really brought home to me how

popular this series has been.

With a largely unknown cast,

at least to the US audience, Un-

orthodox is the story of Esther

(Esty) Shapiro (played by Shira

Haas), who is a member of an

ultra-conservative Hasidic com-

munity in Brooklyn, New York.

Her mother left years earlier, as

she had an arranged marriage to

Esty’s father, a much older man,

and was desperately unhappy.

And due to these types of com-

munities having their own set of

laws, Esty’s father retained cus-

tody. Her mother now resides in

Berlin, Germany, and we see

her throughout the episodes,

first, when she goes to Brooklyn

to try to connect with Esty be-

fore her arranged marriage, to

see if it is what she really wants,

which Esty assures her she

does. Later, when Esty flees the

community and goes to Ger-

many, she finally does re-

connect with her mother.

I admit that I have always

been fascinated by sects that

live outside the norms of soci-

ety. When I was a teenager, my

family went on vacation to Lan-

caster, Pennsylvania, and I was

very intrigued by the Amish. I

could not understand why peo-

ple would want to live without

electricity or cars or wear the

clothing that they wore. So,

when I read that Netflix was

coming out with this series ear-

lier this year, I knew that it was

right up my alley. It is some-

times difficult to watch, as it is

heartbreaking to see Esty’s

plight and her naiveté. She is

just 19 when she is introduced

to her prospective husband,

Yankov (Yanky) Shapiro by a

matchmaker. Both sides agree

to the marriage. Yanky is not a

bad young man; he is just a

product of the sheltered envi-

ronment in which he was raised,

as is Esty. But, many of these

ultra-conservative religions are

particularly oppressive for

women. And, Esty soon feels

restricted by a marriage to a

man she does not love, and we

see how she is different from

the women in the community.

Or, perhaps they are just better

at hiding their unhappiness.

After fleeing to Berlin, (the

part of the story not based on

Ms. Feldman’s life), Esty meets

up with a group of musicians,

and experiences a life and a

sense of freedom that she could

not have imagined. The com-

munity, being what it is, feels

determined to find her and bring

her back, especially because

they suspect she is pregnant

(which she is). So, the rabbi

tells Yanky to find her and

bring her home. Yanky, along

with his cousin find out from

her piano teacher that she is in

Berlin, and they go there too

look for her. I will not spoil the

ending of the series, although I

am curious to read the book and

find out how the story really

ended, and why the series was

changed. After watching, I saw

that Netflix had several other

shows about the Hasidic com-

munity, due no doubt to the

popularity of Unorthodox. I

watched a documentary called

One of Us, which follows three

individuals who have left their

Hasidic communities. We can

see how difficult it is to leave,

as these people have few skills,

and are mostly uneducated, as

that is a way of keeping them in

the community. The story of the

woman trying to get custody of

her children is particularly

heartrending.

Enjoy the early days of sum-

mer. Hopefully things are al-

most back to normal, and as

always stay tuned…

By Bea Siegel

As of this writing, hair sa-

lons, barber shops, and nail sa-

lons are not open, but pet

grooming and tattoo parlors are

open, as long as we continue to

social-distance. A case in point,

those of us who enjoy walking

our dogs always social-distance;

reason being there could be

aggressiveness between dogs

that aren’t familiar with each

other, or maybe you’re cautious

about the dog’s health. A silent

code is that if you’re walking in

one direction, and another per-

son walking their dog ap-

proaches in your direction, one

walker will go in the opposite

direction instead of approaching

head-on. This practice will

avoid any conflicts between

people and their dogs.

With the pandemic going on,

and we’re in a lock-down, pet

adoptions are up, because hav-

ing a dog or cat is companion-

ship. In fact, some dogs are

saying, “Hey, enough with the

walks, go do what you have to,

and let me sleep.” Just imagine

a family with kids, everyone

wants to get out and walk, so

now you have a family that each

time someone leaves the house,

they take the dog out, but

poochie is smart, he hides the

leash just to get some rest. With

many people noshing away on

food, they just might start giv-

ing kitty or Fido some scraps, or

too many biscuits, and before

you know it the pounds are go-

ing on, or they’re getting

tummy problems and now a

visit to the veterinarian is neces-

sary. Keep their daily routine

going as much as possible.

Talking about pet grooming -

now that the groomers are open

for business, you might be put

on a waiting list for an appoint-

ment, so just take it upon your-

self to brush and comb your dog

everyday. It’s a good habit to

get into, since it’s stimulating to

the follicles in the skin. Gently

brush out mats, which are very

uncomfortable for dogs and

cats, since body movement

pulls the mats, which your pet

will start to lick and cause other

problems. Many factors are

involved in the process of shed-

ding. Breed, age, health, and

genetics determine how rapidly

a dog’s coat moves from growth

to what is called, “death” of

coat for new growth. Good nu-

trition and exercise are also fac-

tored into this. “Mats” can be

difficult to brush or comb out,

and eventually become knotted

or imbedded into the skin. This

especially occurs with long-

haired dogs and cats under the

belly or areas where the hair

grows long. If not routinely

groomed, it becomes very prob-

lematic. Dogs will usually lick

and maybe bite at the sensitive

area, trying to remove the knots,

which will only get worse with

lots of discomfort. If you live

near the Arctic Circle and your

dog spends endless hours out-

doors, the coat will be thick and

gorgeous. But our dogs live in a

house with different tempera-

ture settings, and seasonal

changes outdoors with exposure

to sunlight, rain, and snow.

They really appreciate the bond-

ing of a good easy brushing and

combing to make their coat

shine. And while you’re at it,

those belly-rubs always make

them smile.

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Stay Tuned

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Attention Regency Musicians

The Regency Band

Is in need of musicians Brass and rhythm (guitar, bass, etc) needed

The Regency Band

Meets on the FIRST and THIRD Tuesday of

each month

7:30 p.m. in the Dance Studio on the Spa level

Contact: Jerry Minkin or Mark Greenstein

(732) 605-1983 (732) 605-0045 Resident Phone Numbers

in Reporter Articles

While many residents are mentioned in articles as people to

“get in touch with,” their phone numbers are not. The policy of

the Regency Reporter is not to print phone numbers in articles.

The phone numbers of residents mentioned in articles can be

found in the Regency Directory.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.

The Editorial Board

The Senior Sensations

Wants You!!

Our Troupe - dancers from G/W, Regency, Stonebridge, and

the surrounding Monroe area, is always growing and

looking for talent.

Our last performance, “Dancin’ through the USA” received a

standing ovation and rave reviews.

We’ve had jugglers and twirlers added to our singers and

dancers to enhance our performance throughout the years.

If you have special talent and have the desire to perform with a

great group of women…

Contact Bunny Feigenbaum (609) 395-8174

Harmony in

Motion 2020

Calendar

We are hoping to be able to

hold these events

· Saturday, August 22,

2020 - Summer White

Party

· Saturday, October 31,

2020 - A Halloween

Party

· Saturday, December 5,

2020 - Membership

Party free event

The weather is still unpredict-

able with wild windy days, lots

of rain, and all of a sudden a

blast of sunshine the next day,

which is what I call “dog

weather,” that makes them feel

feisty and happier than when

the temperature rises and be-

comes more uncomfortable for

your canine companion. Dogs

perspire by panting and through

the pads of their feet. A note of

caution – your dog is having a

great time running after that

ball, but heat exhaustion sets in

(Continued from page 17) quickly, so don’t wait for their

tongue to hang out. Giving your

canine companion time to rest

between fun-time will prevent

your having to rush them to the

emergency animal hospital.

When out-and-about, always

have water available for them.

Now is a good time to go over

your pet’s list of vaccinations to

be sure they’re up-to-date, and

very important is the Bordatella

vaccination to prevent Kennel

Cough, which is very contagious

to other dogs. In the meantime,

stay safe, stay healthy.

The Pet Corner

By Doug Poye

The pandemic continues to

affect the future operation of

our schools through a reduction

of state aid and a delay of any

referendum to provide badly

needed classrooms come Sep-

tember. My May article re-

ported that the Board budget for

the next school year would re-

ceive $7,039,000 in aid from the

state; however, the state, faced

with reduced revenues as a re-

sult of the pandemic, notified

Monroe that it was reducing the

aid to $6,239,000. Counter to

what some residents projected,

this reduction in aid will not

result in a larger tax increase

than originally established when

the budget was adopted back in

April . The approximate

$800,000 reduction will be han-

dled by several actions. The

four classroom trailers, which

were to be installed at the high

school over the summer, will be

deferred. The savings is

$630,000, which was the initial

cost of leasing the trailers as

well as the cost of their installa-

tion. The administration, in con-

sultation with the high school

principal, decided on this action

even though it meant that the

over-crowded building would

have to go another year with

even more students. The alter-

native would have been to cut

programs and/or instructional

staff. Another $100,000 will be

eliminated by deferring any

referendum to build additional

classroom spaces until the sum-

mer of 2021.

At its May meeting the Board

listened to a presentation by

Superintendent Alvich in which

she outlined three plans de-

signed to alleviate the over-

crowding in at least three of the

schools in the district: the high

school, the middle school, and

one elementary school. A meet-

ing of the Building, Grounds

and Transportation Committee

on June 1 made it apparent that

the Board would need more

time to look at various options

on how, when, and where to

construct additional classrooms.

Not knowing what changes in

the operations of the schools

may occur in the coming year,

the economic situation within

the town, and whether the pro-

jected number of students over

the next five years will occur if

families delay moving into

Monroe, the delay in a referen-

dum may well be the best route

to take at this time. The remain-

der of cuts needed to make up

for the loss of state aid will

come from the elimination of

two new non-instructional posi-

tions, which the administration

felt could be handled with cur-

rent staffing.

The conduct of one or more

Board members came under

attack at its monthly meeting on

June 10. It was reported that the

confidentiality of the Board’s

closed sessions had been vio-

lated based on evidence avail-

able on social media. Sessions

are “closed” and occur near the

end of a regular monthly meet-

ing whenever the topics involve

students, staff, administrators,

or potential contracts. Members

are prohibited from divulging

discussions until such can be

disclosed to the public by the

Board president. Several mem-

bers expressed their dismay

over the breach of confidential-

ity and called for an investiga-

tion by an independent attorney.

The Board voted unanimously

to authorize the investigation. A

second issue concerning the

conduct of Board member Peter

Tufano was aired by at least

five members of the public who

called into the virtual meeting

during the Board’s second public

session. The callers made refer-

ence to demeaning statements

that Tufano allegedly posted on

social media. One caller men-

tioned that a petition seeking Tu-

fano’s removal from the Board

had garnered over 2500 signa-

tures within a matter of a few

days. Reports on this issue have

appeared on nj.com (June 10) as

well as in the Star Ledger (June

11). The petition drive began with

alumni of the high school.

This article is written by a

former member of the Board of

Education and has not been

written at the request of the

Board. It is provided for infor-

mational purposes to the mem-

bers of this community.

Pandemic Alters Future Planning for Our Schools;

Board Members’ Conduct Questioned

By Steven Brody

Modified Start to

2020 Tennis Season

Due to COVID-19 the Re-

gency Tennis season was put on

hold, as were all other activities.

The courts were finally opened

the week before the Memorial

holiday weekend. In order to

open, strict guidelines were im-

plemented which included open-

ing only three of the six courts. In

addition, no night time play was

allowed. The good from this was

the courts were finally opened.

Because of COVID-19 and the

stay at home guidance that we

had been living under since early

March, it was a much needed

outdoor activity. I have nothing

against walking and bike riding

(if you have a bike), but those

activities were getting old. For

those of us who enjoy tennis it

was a great new activity to add to

our daily “what to do today.” The

last two weeks of May and the

first two weeks of June saw terri-

fic weather for morning games.

Some afternoons did get too hot

to safely play, although I did per-

sonally play on a number of those

days. It’s been a lot of fun playing

and getting much needed exer-

cise. It is great seeing people

playing singles matches as well as

doubles being played. Hopefully

by mid-June night time play will

be allowed and all six courts will

be available.

For those tennis players who

are new to Regency and are

looking to get some games in

we have something called

“Drop in Tennis.” Bud Ratner

organizes these games. They

run Monday through Friday at

9:30 a.m. If you are interested

and want to join in, there is an

app ca l led TeamReach.

Download it and look for mem-

ber Drop in Tennis. Or just

come by the courts and ask one

of us about it. A number of peo-

ple have asked me about col-

lecting club dues and setting up

organized events as we had

done in previous years. As of

now I am not collecting any

dues as I do not know what to

expect in terms of gatherings of

people either outdoors or in-

doors. Many times, in the past

the Tennis Club would run an

event on a Saturday or Sunday

then have a catered meal after-

wards either in the Pavilion or

in the Clubhouse. If the social

distancing guidelines are further

relaxed as the season pro-

gresses, I’ll try to put some

events together.

For now though get out on the

courts, knock the ball around,

play the game you’re most com-

fortable with, and most impor-

tantly get exercise.

REGENCY SPORTS

On the Tennis Courts

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The Golf

World

Handicap

System

By Jason Pulsinelli,

PGA Professional

The World Handicap Sys-

tem was introduced in January

2020. There are five important

changes that you should be

aware of. The handicap index

calculation is changing. In the

past it was based off your 10

best scores of your past 20.

Now it is you best eight of

your past 20 scores. You will

have a playing handicap. The

formula of slope rating and

now course rating and par will

be used to determine your

playing handicap, allowing

players to compete from dif-

ferent tees more easily. Net

double bogey will replace eq-

uitable stroke control. Net

bogey, the maximum hole

score for handicap purposes,

will be limited to net double

bogey (par+2+any handicap

stokes you receive). You will

have more responsive handi-

cap index updates. Your

handicap index will update the

day after your score. On days

you don’t submit a score the

system will not update your

handicap. The system will

account for abnormal playing

conditions, limit extreme up-

ward movement of handicap

index, and reduce a handicap

index when an exceptional

score is posted. For more in-

formation on the World

Handicap System please visit

usga.org/whs.

Photos above by Golf Pro Jason Pulsinelli

By Ron and Susan Kane

Editor’s Note: The authors

report that at the time of this

trip and even to when the article

was written, COVID-19 had not

reached this faraway part of

Brazil; in early May, it finally

reached Manaus and is having

a terrible impact on an unpre-

pared population.

We returned from a three

week cruise aboard the Viking

Sea on March 12, just in time to

see the country shut down be-

cause of COVID-19. Our trip

featured a thousand mile cruise

up the Amazon River to Manaus

where the Amazon River meets

the Rio Negro at the “meeting

of the waters.” The meeting

point is obvious as the Rio Ne-

gro water is black and the Ama-

zon is muddy brown with float-

ing islands of green jungle de-

bris atop the water. The two

rivers take miles to mix, with

the Amazon eventually over-

coming its major tributary, not

unlike the meeting of the Mis-

souri and Mississippi near St.

Louis. But the one major differ-

ence is the amount of water and

width of the Amazon system

compared to all others in the

world - seven times greater than

the next largest river system.

There were times along the way

that it seemed we were on a lake

with the river banks so far

away.

When we reached Manaus - a

city of two million people in the

middle of the Amazon region,

we took a pre-arranged private

tour with two other couples. We

had chosen a tour with a fluent

English-speaking guide in this

Portuguese language country;

the guide we got was far better

than we could have hoped for.

The tour included a boat ride up

the Rio Negro, a visit to an in-

digenous tribe, a trek into the

Amazon jungle, and a lunch.

While our boat did have seven

passengers, we were booked for

more than a three hour tour so

there was no expectation we

would wind up as castaways on

Gilligan’s Island or similar. The

boat was not the most fashion-

able one but it stayed afloat and

moved well enough for the hour

it took to reach our stop at the

“village” to meet the indigenous

tribe. On the way there, we

passed under the only bridge in

the Amazon region (over the

Rio Negro) and chugged along

before pulling into a sandy flat

area next to the village. The

village had three thatched roof

huts - two dwellings and a tribal

meeting hall.

Cruise ship tours don’t visit

this village, but our guide knew

the members of the tribe and

had permission to show up un-

announced with guests. A senior

male of the tribe, dressed only

in shorts (no footwear) and with

facial markings of some signifi-

cance, greeted us and was to be

our jungle guide. We also met

tribal children and women, all

dressed or undressed depend-

ing on perspective as the

Maidenform idea had not yet

reached the female members

of this group. Being topless is

apparently a unisex concept

here. But we noticed a small

satellite dish on a tree near

one of the dwellings and later

the tribal members were eas-

ily able to make change in

US dollars for any of the

“showroom wares” (hand-

made musical instruments of

sorts) in the meeting hut.

Capitalism and international

commerce had reached even

this primitive outpost.

The native guide led us on

a mile-long trek via a narrow

path from the village directly

into the primary jungle, clearing

the way with a machete and

pointing out various plant spe-

cies useful in combating any

number of nasty diseases and

conditions. The six Americans

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Indigenous tribe jungle trek guide

Indigenous tribal women with the instruments we bought for our

grandsons.

Ron Kane and guide for the day at

the floating restaurant along an

Amazon tributary. Photos by Susan Kane

An Adventure in the Amazon

Congratulations Monroe Township

High School Class of 2020

By Dr. Dori Alvich,

Superintendent of Schools

I know that this year did not

end the way the Class of 2020 or

the district thought it would. This

class of students missed out on

some milestones that others be-

fore them have enjoyed. But as a

district and a community, we

invented new ways to celebrate

our amazing class. Some of the

events planned are included here.

On June 24, we celebrated our

graduating class with a virtual

graduation. This is available for

viewing on our website - https://

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The virtual celebration was

followed by a wave parade and a

township-wide Graduate Sound

Off. A group of parents began a

Facebook campaign for “Adopt-a

-Senior.” Members of the com-

munity adopted a senior via the

Facebook page and communi-

cated with them to send care

packages for the end of the year.

Our senior spring athletes deco-

rated our fences in front of the

high school with their sports

memories. And we are currently

planning a Zero Year reunion for

fall 2020.

I am proud to share with you

the future plans of our graduating

seniors, which include prestigious

college acceptances, military as-

signments, and new members of

our work force. Please see the list

of colleges/universities that our

students are attending in the fall.

Please join me in celebrating our

AMAZING Class of 2020!

American University, Auburn

University, Berkeley College-

Woodbridge Location, Berklee

College of Music, Binghamton

University, Bloomsburg Univer-

sity of Pennsylvania, Boston Col-

lege, Boston University, Brook-

dale Comm. College, Cabrini

University, Cal Poly, San Luis

Obispo, Carnegie Mellon Univer-

sity, Catholic University of

America, Clemson University,

Cornell University, Delaware

Valley University, DePaul Uni-

versity, Drew University, Drexel

University, East Stroudsburg

University of Pennsylvania,

Elizabethtown College, Elon Uni-

versity, Fashion Institute of Tech-

nology, Florida Atlantic Univer-

sity, Florida Institute of Technol-

ogy, Georgetown University,

Georgia Institute of Technology-

Main Campus, High Point Uni-

versity, Ithaca College, Jackson-

ville University, James Madison

U n i v e r s i t y , J e f f e r s o n

(Philadelphia U and Thomas Jef-

ferson U), Kean University, Kent

State University, Kutztown Uni-

versity, Lycoming College.

Also, Manhattan College,

Maryland Institute College of Art,

Mercer County Comm. College,

Middlesex Comm. College, Mid-

dlesex County College, Mon-

mouth University, Montclair

State University, Moravian Col-

lege, Morgan State University,

Muhlenberg College, New Jersey

Institute of Technology, New

York University, Northeastern

University, Nova Southeastern

University, Ohio University-Main

Campus, Oklahoma State Univer-

sity-Main Campus, Pace Univer-

sity-New York, Pennsylvania

State University, Pitzer College,

Princeton University, Providence

College, Purdue University-Main

Campus, Queen’s University,

Ramapo College of New Jersey,

Rider University, Rowan Univer-

sity, Russell Sage College, Rut-

gers University - Camden/ New

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in the group were, of course,

wearing long sleeves, long

pants, hats and heavy footwear,

and were fortified with anti-

malarial medication to avoid

infections from mosquito bites.

The native guide, barefoot and

only in shorts, stopped at one

tree, disturbed a small ant col-

ony (getting his hands full of

ants) and then rubbed his hands

together to produce a crushed

ant salve that is used to ward off

mosquitoes. Other plants could

be used to ward off other ail-

ments. We kept thinking that

they must get sick all the time if

they needed so many native

remedies.

We then re-boarded our boat

and entered a small tributary off

the Rio Negro and saw the re-

mains of a huge hotel and vaca-

tion complex, now almost com-

pletely taken over by the jungle.

The complex was once host to

many wealthy Americans seek-

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Adventure in the Amazon

ing a unique adventure; it was

also the base of operations for

the filming of the movie Ana-

conda. By moving along the

side channels, we were finally

able to get close enough to the

banks to see some of the beauti-

ful birds and interesting wildlife

of the region, including caimans

(the South American version of

the alligator) and fleeting

glimpses of pink river dolphins.

After that we were taken to

lunch in a quiet area off the

main river that had several

floating restaurants. Our restau-

rant host had caught a very

large Amazon River fish (very

similar to white fish) and served

that with regional vegetables,

concoctions and various drinks.

If the lunch wasn’t enjoyable

enough, our host brought us

over to a small dock area and

asked us to lightly slap the wa-

ter with our hands. Sure enough,

two pink (yes, they are really

pink) dolphins showed up to

show off, so to speak, and spent

time with us - looking for hand-

outs but also just being playful

like most dolphins.

We took another hour to get

back to the Viking Sea to enjoy

the evening on board, where we

heard our well-traveled and

extremely talented cruise direc-

tor tell his audience that he has

done this trip twenty-three times

and has yet to see a pink dol-

phin except after drinking too

much. We thank the Regency

Reporter for allowing us to

share this (just barely) pre-

COVID-19 adventure and hope

everyone stays safe and well.

The Monroe Township Public

Library now offers appointment

-based, contactless curbside

pickup service to Monroe

Township Library cardholders.

Hours of service will be Mon-

day, Wednesday and Friday from

11 am to 3 pm and Tuesday and

Thursday from 3 pm to 7 pm.

Request your items online or

over the phone. Please have

your library card number handy.

Once your items become

available you will be notified by

the preference associated with

your library card - either email,

automated call or text message.

You must then schedule an ap-

pointment for pickup.

When you arrive at your

scheduled appointment time,

please park in the designated

curbside pickup area. Call or

text the phone number listed on

the sign for further instructions.

Remain in your vehicle and pop

open your trunk so that staff

may safely place your items into

the trunk. Walk-up service is

also an option when scheduling

an appointment for pickup of

library materials.

Find answers to frequently

asked questions on our website

at www.monroetwplibrary.org/

curbside

The book drop at the Library

is open. All Library materials,

including books, movies, music,

Wi-Fi hotspots, and any other

Library materials must be

placed in the book drop slots

Monroe Township Public Library to Offer

Appointment-based Curbside Pickup Service

The elusive pink dolphin of the

Amazon

Brunswick/ Newark.

Also, Saint Joseph’s Univer-

sity, Seton Hall University, Shen-

andoah University, Stevens Insti-

tute of Technology, Stockton

University, SUNY Maritime Col-

lege, Susquehanna University,

Temple University, Texas A&M

University, The College of New

Jersey, The Ohio State Univer-

sity, The University of Alabama,

The University of Scranton, The

University of Tennessee-

Knoxville, Towson University,

Tulane University of Louisiana,

United States Military Academy

West Point, University at Albany,

SUNY, University of Central

Florida, University of Delaware,

University of Florida, University

of Hartford, University of Mary

Washington, University of Mary-

land-Baltimore County, Univer-

sity of Maryland-College Park,

University of Massachusetts-

Lowell, University of New Ha-

ven, University of New Orleans,

University of Pittsburgh-

Pittsburgh Campus, University of

Rhode Island, University of

Southern California, University of

the Sciences, Ursinus College,

Villanova University, Virginia

Tech, Washington University in

St Louis, West Chester University

of Pennsylvania, West Virginia

University, Widener University,

William and Mary, York College

of Pennsylvania.

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near the Library’s Drive Thru

window. Book drops at both the

Senior Center and Community

Rec Center remain closed at this

time. All returned materials will

be quarantined and unavailable

for at least 72 hours after return.

Due dates on materials checked

out prior to March 14 were ex-

tended to July 1. Overdue fines

have been temporarily waived.

We are unable to accept do-

nations at this time. Please do

not drop off any donations at

the library, or place donations

into the book drop.

Under the guidance of the

Governor’s Executive Order,

the library building remains

closed to the public. The lobby,

restrooms, computers and all

other spaces will be inaccessible

until further notice.

Class of 2020

Please observe all

STOP signs in the

community

for everyone’s

safety!

Thank you!

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