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Anil Shah with his 1988 Mercedes Benz 560SL Convertible. Photo submitted by Anil Shah
Leading the Regency Car
Club’s Memorial Day Car Pa-
rade is Dennis Cataldo in his
1948 Studebaker pick-up.” Photo by Steve Wandy
Renee Zukerberg in the Regency Actors and
Players show Sentimental Journey. Photo by Sandi Shumsky
Herb Zukerberg, with his wife Renea, was the founder
of what was originally called The Yiddish Club. Photo by Sandi Shumsky
Bob Pincu shot a hole in one May 31 on Hole #7. Photo by Nat Willner, submitted by Jason Pulsinelli
A photo of the neighborhood taken by Steve Schwartz with his drone in June 2018. Photo submitted by Esther Schwartz
In 2015, Esther Schwartz (center) with, from left: Leslie Schoen, Susan Olan, Hollis Borak, and Judy
Feingold in the eighth and final Regency Actors and Players Show, “We’re in the Money?!” Photo submitted by Esther Schwartz
Meet the new kid on the block, 15-
year-old Tibetan Terrier, Reggie
Finkelstein. He’s a tough little guy
who likes being king of the road. He
knew something was up when he
saw his human companions Barry
and Karen packing stuff in cartons;
so being Reggie, he packed up his
treats and toys he used to play with
to keep as his memories. Reggie
loves lying on the grass watching
people walk by. Photo by Bea Siegel
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By Alton Kinsey
During this quarantine, it is
very easy to see the glass as half
empty. But, if we look at the
glass as half full, we can see
hidden positives. Many of us
embraced a technology, which
we did not know how to use or
even existed. We had to adjust
in order to stay connected with
family, friends, and the grocery
store. Many of you are walking,
riding bikes and finally getting
to spend quality time on your
patio. Neighbors are talking
with neighbors. Hopefully this
activity and comradery will
continue once the quarantine is
over.
Many of you were happy to
see the golf course, tennis and
pickleball courts open in May.
These amenities were opened
following the Governor’s direc-
tive and CDC guidelines. But in
order to keep these amenities
open and to open others, we
must follow the guidelines pre-
scribed by the Governor and the
CDC. We must still socially
distance and wear a mask as
indicated by the amenity. These
guidelines are for the safety of
everyone. If these guidelines are
not followed the HOA Board
will be forced to reinstitute the
closure of that amenity. The
HOA Board meets virtually
every week. In addition to the
normal Board agenda, we are
discussing the impact of the
Covid-19 virus on our commu-
nity. When the Clubhouse and
other amenities are opened, the
Board plans to institute updated
CDC and health department
cleaning protocols.
A proposal for a new telecon-
ferencing system was intro-
duced at the virtual May Open
Board Meeting. The need for
this new system began about a
year ago when our current con-
ference call technology was
consistently inadequate. When
the Board looked into replacing
or updating our conference call
ability, we discovered that our
phone system was not compati-
ble with the technology of to-
day. With the quarantine, this
prompted the Board to look at
our current and future commu-
nication needs. The Board needs
the ability to remotely commu-
nicate with Board members, the
community, and vendors. This
is especially important during
this quarantine and will proba-
bly be the blueprint for the fu-
ture. The Board is assessing the
best fit for current and the fu-
A Note from the Board of Trustees
ture needs based on current
available platforms.
At the June Open Board
Meeting, the conclusions from
the Transition 2 negotiations
were shared. As with most ne-
gotiations there was a certain
amount of give and take. The
Board feels that the results from
the negotiations were fair to all.
The majority of items on the
municipal and our (O&S engi-
neering) punch list were ad-
dressed. Items such as our engi-
neering firm overseeing future
repairs and construction in
Phases 7 and 8 were included.
The Board would like to thank
everyone who was involved.
Transition 3 (Phases 9 and 10)
is now in progress. Using what
we learned from Transition 1
and 2, the Board is determining
what is necessary to complete
final delivery of the community
to our homeowners. Issues such
as driveway aprons, sidewalks,
the storm drains/piping system,
as well as roadways are some of
the items to be included in the
Transition 3 negotiations. Also,
to be included is the pond/
irrigation in Phase 10. The
Board contracted with the engi-
neering company of Matrix
New World to create a plan to
correct the turbidity issue on the
North Masters Pond. The cor-
rection will start once the final
construction of homes in Phase
9 is completed. This includes
sodding of the land to prevent
the runoff of sediment into the
pond.
Life as we knew it is differ-
ent. But we are strong and resil-
ient and we will get through this
together. Stay safe and healthy.
Calendar of
Coffee Houses
for 2020 Sunday, November 15 -
Drachman/wan-Chi Sunday, December 6 - TBA
By Ron Post
You might ask, “What is a
REGENCY EMAILER?” Well,
it has been 19 years of sending
residents emails concerning
what is happening at Regency
and elsewhere. At the mini-
mum, one email goes out every
Saturday to 1700 email ad-
dresses, mostly here at Re-
gency. I will send out additional
emails if an issue arises that
residents need to know about.
With COVID-19 many things
have changed. Yet, my emails
continue to be sent out. As diffi-
cult as it is there are messages
dealing with residents who may
have passed away that the fami-
lies ask me to send out. This is
one of the more difficult things
for me to deal with. Due to the
current situation, the Regency
Reporter is not being printed
and delivered to residents’ mail-
boxes. The paper is now in-
cluded in my emails as a PDF,
which anyone can open. The
entire paper is there, with all
pictures in living color. It has
been decided that even when the
Reporter can go back to being
printed, it will still be on the
emails as a PDF. Past papers
will be archived so residents can
have a look back if they so de-
sire.
The reason I am writing this
is because I realize that
NEWER residents might not
have been given THE RE-
GENCY EMAIL AUTHORI-
2020 HOA Public Board
Meeting Schedule
Currently, all public meetings are held Virtually
Wednesday, July 15, 2020
6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom
Wednesday, August 19, 2020
6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom
Wednesday, October 21, 2020
6:30 p.m. – Public Board Meeting in Ballroom – Budget
Presentation
Wednesday, November 18, 2020
6:30 p.m. – Budget Presentation if not previously approved in
October
Public Board Meeting in Ballroom
SUBJECT TO ADDITIONS AND DELETIONS
ZATION FORM, which a resi-
dent must sign in order to have
emails sent from me as well as
the HOA. Usually I pick these
forms up when I go to the Club-
house. As of now, I cannot send
emails to newer residents unless
they first send me their email
address. So I ask you to please
let your new neighbors know to
send me their email address,
which can be sent to ron-
[email protected]. Also, let
them know that if they wish to
see what the REGENCY
EMAILER is all about, they can
go to my website, which is:
www.regencyemailer.com.
Thank you and stay well dur-
ing these difficult times.
Calendar of
HOA Events
for 2020
We are hoping to hold
these events
Saturday, August 8 - TBA Friday, September 11 -
Trivia Night
Saturday, September 12 -
Regency Car Show
Friday, November 6 -
NEIL BERG Part TWO
Thursday, December 31 - New
Year’s Eve
A Message from the Regency Emailer
Barbara Bickel
Louis Flumen
Laurie Lipper
Sandy Newman
Doug Poye
Elaine Sandler
Cecile Spector
By Sandy Newman After retiring as a dentist, Joel
Iserson worked at the Freehold
Apple Store helping customers
set up their new equipment and
teaching classes. Arthur Ehrlich
who worked in IT for all of his
career, went to the Apple Store
to research whether he should
buy an iPad or a laptop (he
bought a laptop). Joel waited on
him. They got to talking and
Arthur mentioned that he lived
at Regency. Joel and his wife
were going to be moving in to
Regency shortly and the rest is
history. Joel and Arthur realized
that while they were both very
computer and iPhone savvy not
every senior
is. The first
week Joel
lived in the
community,
Arthur and
Joel gave
their first
workshop at
the Tennis
P a v i l i o n .
Because of
the virus
l o c k d o w n
the last few
workshops
have been
given on
Zoom. At the workshops at the
Tennis Pavilion that I attended,
Joel led the discussions and Ar-
thur went around helping each
participant keep up by finding the
items being discussed on their
own iPhones. They make a great
team. I took one class on Zoom
about Cutting the Cord, that is
making the transition from Cable
to streaming. Even on Zoom it
was possible to raise your hand
and have your questions an-
swered. I found it very informa-
tive.
Zoom fatigue is very real. I
found it exhausting. Luckily
you can go to the web site
https://www.regencyatmonroe
hoa.com/workshops/ and re-
view all the information from
the classes. Here’s how you
sign up for a workshop: When a
workshop is posted, you will re-
ceive an email invitation that
looks like this: Cable Options-
Get Comfortable with Stream-
ing – Thursday, April 23, 2020,
10:30 AM. Streaming is the new
way of watching all your televi-
sion programs- not just Netflix,
Amazon Prime and HBO. Learn
about all the options and become
comfortable with streaming BE-
FORE it is time to renew your
Comcast contract. Now is the
time to think about next year.
This Workshop is limited to 40
participants.
The Regency Workshop Team
After clicking on the signup
link you will be required to
complete three questions on a
form. Once you complete the
form, don’t forget to click the
REGISTER button. As for the
Q&A, if you have a question
you did not get to ask during the
workshop, you can get an an-
swer in the Q&A. Click on
Q&A on the menu, put in the
subject field who you are and an
(Continued on page 4)
Let’s Zoom with Joel and Arthur
Joel Iserson
Arthur Ehrlich
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 3
By Barbara Bickel (**)
July Birthdays
1–Joan Blitz/Alice Ehrlich/
Marcia Greenberg/Gail
Rosenzweig/Marvin Schutzer/
Ken Stinger/Rochelle Wallach/
Julie Weinberg
3–Howard Drescher/Linda
German/Phyllis Greenberg/
Lilian Isaacs/ Richard Katz/
Charlie LaPalme/Ray Melcher/Linda Strauss/Annette Valerio
4–Harold Balshem/Bruce
Nyman
5–Shirley Goodman/Nancy
Mongon
6–Louis Flumen/Jean Jacobs/
Stuart Megibow
7–Carol Adler/Sue Carey/
Cheryl Farrell/Allan Vogel
8–Nicholas Chiaia/Carlos
Fuentes/Donna Glauber/Jeffrey
McGrory/ George Nirenberg
10–Ingrid Glazrock/Kenneth
Smolanoff/Marlene Spitalny
11–June Charlop/Jackie Dwan/
Cheryl Lindenbaum/Lorraine
Tozzo/Larry Zinstein
12–Debra Green/Elise Linden
13–Howard Davidoff/Jay
Horowitz/Frank Molfetta/Sharon Scheckner/Myra Summers
14–Louis Bogdanoff/Lovina
Espiratu/Ed Hyman/Judy
Schindler/Richard Smilowitz/
Richard Vandenbrouck
15–Michael Abatiello/Ray
Connolly/Gloria Zammit
16–Geri Garfinkle/Lynn Green/
Arlene Levine/Eva Mandelbaum
17–Joseph Butthorn/Barry
Panson/Richard Quinto/Cliff
Sneyers/Cheryl Tosk
18–Alan Datz/Larry Ehrlich/
Mario Lenci/Robert Silverstein
19–Linda Grossman/Gerry
Guidice/Beth Ross/Sandy
Zicheman
20–Barbara Bigman/Joan
DiDonato/Andrea Gall/Audrey
Goldman/Joy Rockoff/Fran Turnof
21–David Berkowitz/Sybil
Manzar/Sue Sabel
22–Gary Green/Elliott
Kominsky/Miriam Jacobs/Julia
Lichtenstein/Gary Roth/Sharon
Siber/Bob Stevens
23–Nai Chu/Michael Felice/
Martha Frans/Lorraine Kaye/
Vivian Leonardi/Janet Pine/
Steven Riback/Deborah Rose/
Ronni Beth Sacks/Jeanette
Schoenberg/Sheila Strug
24–Joseph Calvacca/Ping Eng/
Joel Klausman/Sue Melcher
25–Howard Kohn/Harry
Leibowitz/Bibi Levine/Jennifer
Tan
26–John Boccone/Sara
Schoenfeld
28–Phil Bracco/David Delman/
Sheila Rudder/Morton Spector/
Randy Steinberg/Judy Troiano/Linda Wallman
29–Vanda Cuccinello/Peter
DiGiacomo/Fern Drescher/Mary
Grisancich/Shelly Schwartz/
Janice Vandenbrouck
30–Antoinette Butthorn/Eli
Castellanos/Dawn Guidice/Mort
Pullman/Steve Seidell/Robin
Smulofsky/Deborah Stuby
31–Judy Feingold/Gloria
Silverman
July Anniversaries
1–Kathleen & Carl Schiano
2–Barbara & Mark Engel/Judi &
David Schlesinger
3–Cheryl & Michael Abattiello/
Helene & Jeff Scherling/Kathy &
John Toth/Marcia & David Zajac
4–Karen & Dinesh Gala/Elise &
Ivan Linden/Susan & Gerald Post/Elise & Howard Shein/Rita
& Harry Wasserstein
5–Agi & Richard Frank/Elaine &
Leonard Mongelli/Linda & Steve
Strauss/Bonnie & Steve Taplits
6–Judi & Neil Zipkin
7–Ellen & Steve Baliff/Judith &
Ralph Folkes
9–Nina & Paul Guilinello/
Vivianne & Gary Roth
10–Pat & Michael Trapani
11–Marta & Fabio Berkowicz/
Rae Jean & Bernie Ghee/Wendy
Mamet & Allen Glassman/
Annette & Sal Muce
13–Barbara & Carmen
Verderosa
14–Lori & Sheldon Piekny
15–Gina & Martin Glazer/Sonya
& Gene Radinsky/Johanne & Thomas Sikorski
16–Ann & Howard Schwartz
17–M. Esther & Jesus Johnson
19–Elaine & Carmine Carrara
20–Claire & Eli Castellanos/
Marissa & Larry Mazzuchetti
23–Sharon & Bob Cheret
25–Margaret & John Lewis
26–Les & Dave Offenberg/Helene
& Jeffrey Rosenbaum/Marsha &
Mark Schwartz
29–Donna & Bud Keller
31–Ellen & Alan Buxbaum/Roz
& Bob Esserman/Linda & David
(**) Are your special dates
listed or are they incorrect? Let
me know so that they can be
fixed. Thank you. BB
(Not the Pits)
By Christiana Barone
Let’s Celebrate the Class of
2020!
Fruits of Our Lives (not the
pits) and the Regency Commu-
nity would like to celebrate with
Regency residents who have a
family member in the Class of
2020! Please email information
about your recent graduate to
[email protected] and photos
to [email protected]. All
photos sent from a smart phone
should be “large” or “actual”
size. Let’s make this issue of
Fruits of Our Lives (not the
pits) the most special one ever
and put smiles on the faces of
all members of the Regency
Family! Congratulations to all!
A Special Note To All New-
comers To Our Community If there are any new additions
to your family, an engagement/
marriage of your son/daughter,
yourself, or if someone close to
you has joined the military de-
fending our country and last but
not least has received a special
award, please let us know. All
you have to do is drop a note of
the forthcoming event in the
mailbox of Christiana Barone, 8
Country Club Drive or e-mail
me at [email protected] with a
reference in the subject box
“Regency News” by the first of
the month and magically it will
appear in our community publi-
cation. If you choose to e-mail
me, please indicate Regency
News in the subject area. That’s
all folks. See you next month
with the FRUITS OF OUR
LIVES, (not the pits).
JULY 2020 – PAGE 4 REGENCY REPORTER
email address and you will be
added to the invitation list. The
web site looks like this:
iPhone, iPad, Mac, and
Cable Workshops
All face to face workshops
are suspended due to
COVID-19.
These workshops will be
virtual. The workshops will be
accessed using a smartphone
or tablet.
In order to attend these vir-
tual workshops on your smart-
phone or tablet, you need to
install the “Zoom Cloud Meet-
ings” app. This app can be
installed from the Apple App
Store, or the Google Play
Store. There is also a video on
how to install ROKU and how
to change your modem. The
Q&A is especially useful be-
cause you can see the ques-
tions that other people ask and
see Arthur and Joel’s answers.
Be sure to put the web site in
your contacts so that your in-
vitation to the next virtual
Zoom event doesn’t go into
your spam file. Arthur and
Joel and their workshops are
another wonderful resource
available here at Regency.
(Continued from page 2)
The Regency Car Club’s 2020
Memorial Day Parade of Cars
Photos by Steve Wandy
Singles Mingle
Monthly
Meeting
Schedule
Members Only
We are hoping to be able
to hold these events
· August 5 – Rescheduled
M y s t e r y D i n n e r
(Tentative)
· September 2 – Paid-up
B a r b e q u e D i n n e r
(Weather permitting)
· October 7 – Election of
2021 Officers, dice/card
games, light refreshments
· November 4 – Speaker:
Ziegfeld Girls (Ballroom)
· December 2 – Holiday
Party
Stay tuned for
more details!
Zoom
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 5
By Barbara Butchen
Editor’s Note: This column
was originally supposed to ap-
pear in the June Regency Re-
spective issue of the Reporter.
Due to an overwhelming re-
sponse, it was held over to July
and shares memories from the
Regency Singles Club.
As I sit here writing this arti-
cle I try to remember today’s
exact date. The start of each day
of social distancing and quaran-
tining at home brings to mind a
repeating scene in one of my
favorite movies; Groundhog
Day, where Bill Murray’s char-
acter awakens each day to the
same song; I Got You Babe by
Sonny and Cher, playing on his
clock radio alarm, only to go
through a day that is identical to
the day before it. This has been
a strange and difficult time for
us all, and I imagine we are all
trying our best to adapt and
Singles Mingle
cope in our own unique ways.
For those of us living alone, or
especially those whose loved
ones are ill or who have lost
loved ones, the isolation from
family and friends can be even
more acutely felt. As a Regency
resident who still works, though
currently from home, I always
think about all the things I
would be able to do or accom-
plish if I only had the time. De-
spite currently being at home, I
am still thinking of my to-do list
whenever I walk past boxes in
the garage still unpacked after
well over two years and all the
stuff in my closets that remind
me that they still have yet to be
cleaned out. In order to continue
to avoid attending to this, I am
instead filling my free time with
walking, virtual Canasta and
Mah Jongg with friends, stream-
ing shows and “Zooming” with
family, friends (including long-
lost ones) and colleagues.
In addition to those diversions
this seems like a good time to
look back fondly upon some of
the fun, memorable events and
outings that the Regency Sin-
gles have organized or partici-
pated in over the past year. Our
first outing of the year has tradi-
tionally been our celebration of
the Chinese New Year. For at
(Continued on page 6)
The Year of the Rat Cake
JULY 2020 – PAGE 6 REGENCY REPORTER
least the last couple of years
that I have been here, The Ori-
ental Pan Restaurant in Marl-
boro has been our venue of
choice. The cozy, inviting at-
mosphere coupled with a sump-
tuous assortment of dishes ar-
rayed on a lazy Susan have
made for a lovely night out es-
caping the doldrums of winter
with our friends. And while the
cake was delicious, I am look-
ing forward to next year’s cake,
which should feature a render-
ing of an ox instead of a rat!
A highlight of 2019 came on
Friday, April 5 - the night that
we played host to Mayhem
High School’s Totally Rad 80’s
Prom Gone Bad, which was
held in the Tennis Pavilion.
(Continued from page 5)
With totally tubular 80’s music,
awesome food from Livoti’s,
and all the Rad big hair, lace
gloves and shoulder-pads
sported by the attendees, what
could possibly go wrong? All
the popular people were on
hand, the prom queen and king
had just been crowned and we
were enjoying our meals when a
piercing scream echoed through
the room and the lights sud-
denly went out! They came
back on to a harrowing site - the
leader of Mayhem High
School’s Football Team lying
dead on the floor. Although the
culprit was apprehended and
things quickly returned to nor-
mal, it was a night that no one
will ever forget!
On a more pleasant note, as
the weather gets warmer, our
thoughts turn to getting out-
doors and enjoying excursions
to interesting historical and sce-
nic destinations in the area that
can be visited for the day. One
of these destinations that we
were fortunate enough to spend
a lovely day visiting last June
was the Culinary Institute in
Hyde Park, New York. We
toured the Institute and after-
ward enjoyed a three-course
luncheon. We even had time to
visit the shops. Despite the three
hour ride there and the longer
one returning home it was a
beautiful day well worth the
long bus ride!
A fun way to usher in the
holiday season and conclude the
year’s programming was a ride
on the Princeton Holiday Trol-
ley. What better way to learn
the history of Princeton from
our tour guide, who brought this
information to life, while being
surrounded by the festival holi-
day atmosphere in town. Our
journey into the past continued
with lunch at the historic Yan-
kee Doodle Tap Room, with its
walls lined with pictures of no-
table Princeton graduates and
wooden booths carved with the
initials of regulars such as Al-
bert Einstein.
These are just a sampling of
some of the many fun activities
that our group has enjoyed. We
are also proud of the efforts of
our members as well as the gener-
osity of the entire Regency com-
munity with everyone coming
together on behalf of I Support
the Girls, an exceptional organi-
zation doing wonderful work on
behalf of the homeless, abused
and underprivileged women in
our region whom they assist. This
culminated in a packing party
held on September 11, where
volunteers from Regency Singles
and the community at large
helped to package personal hy-
giene products to be distributed to
organizations and agencies tasked
with helping those in need.
This March, when it became
apparent that all club and social
activities would have to be in-definitely suspended, we had
just completed planning out the
year’s calendar of events and
activities, and were in the proc-
ess of deciding on what our
charitable undertaking would be
for the 2020 calendar year. We hope that at some point we may
able to restore or revise some
portion of this year’s calendar.
If, or when this happens, it will
be announced in the newsletter
and the Reporter.
Stay well everyone!
Singles
We Support the Girls Packing Party
The Yankee Doodle Tap Room
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 7
JULY 2020 – PAGE 8 REGENCY REPORTER
By Sharon Scheckner
Editor’s Note: This column
was originally supposed to ap-
pear in the June Regency Re-
spective issue of the Reporter.
Due to an overwhelming re-
sponse, it was held over to July
and shares memories from the
Regency Actors and Players.
Remember the old adage,
“what goes around comes
around?” Eighteen years ago
this month, Hal and I moved to
Regency. We had no Club-
house, no pool or gym - forget
having a grill room! So, what
did we do for entertainment?
We walked around the commu-
nity, all five blocks of it. We’d
see people out walking and stop
and talk (closer than six feet and
without masks). Sometimes, we
would be invited in for coffee,
but most of us had little or no
furniture so where would we
sit? After eighteen long months
the Clubhouse was finally built.
One of the first clubs to be
formed was the Regency Actors
and Players and along with that
came the Regency Chorus. Sue
Tendler, Lorraine Zimmerman,
Marilyn Vassen and myself
wrote a play about life in a sen-
ior community. Using well
known songs, we wrote paro-
dies about our lives at Regency.
Carol Kortmansky was our cho-
reographer and Sandi Shumsky,
assisted by Steffy Altbaum,
designed the costumes and sets.
Sue was the dialogue director
and I was the musical director.
Lorraine was our producer and
made sure we had everything
we needed for the production.
Musical numbers included:
Everyone’s Moving to Re-
gency, Sadie, Sadie, Retired
Lady, We’re Snow Birds, When
I’m Sixty-Four, Mega Mar-
shall’s, and Ah Yes, I Remem-
ber it Well, just to name a few.
In all, we wrote and performed
twenty-three songs. In the Snow
Bird’s number, our singers were
dressed in elaborate bird cos-
tumes. These birds danced and
sang about the residents who
traveled back and forth down I-
95 on their annual trek to Flor-
ida. Sadie, Sadie, Retired Lady
lyrics dealt with all the activities
in which a Regency Diva could
participate on a daily basis.
These included lunch, shopping,
Mah Jongg, canasta, golf and
tennis as well as classes at Ru-
All (now Olli-Ru). Mega Mar-
shall’s, glorified the task of
Those Were the Days
Photos submitted by Ron Post, Sandi Shumsky, and Esther Schwartz All photos without captions are from the first Regency Players and Actors Show -
If They Could See Me Now.
decorating our new homes and the never ending hunt
for bargains.
The men’s ability to romanticize their golf
scores was addressed in Ah Yes I Remember it
Well, as two Regency golfers argued about the
validity of their scores. And who can forget Larry
Ehrlich dressed as a Greek running down the aisle
holding the Olympic Torch that we actually lit on the
stage. (Better to ask forgiveness than permission). If
They Could See Us Now summed up the entire Re-
gency experience about our new lives here in New
Jersey. Although our club went on to write and per-
form other productions, eight in all, this one was my
absolute favorite because it highlighted the biggest
change in our lives - retirement.
As Hal and I stroll through Regency and keep in
touch with our neighbors via email, texts, Skype and
Zoom, what comes to mind is the comradery that face-
to-face interactions gives us. Hopefully, the pandemic
will just be a bad memory and we can say …
Those were the days we:
Walked and talked with masks
Zoomed our family holidays
Cooked and cleaned out of boredom
Considered Netflix and Amazon our best friends
Learned that they developed a vaccine and were free
at last!
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 9
Singing ‘Lollipop, Lollipop’ - from the Rock and Roll Show.
Those Were the Days
JULY 2020 – PAGE 10 REGENCY REPORTER
By Marty Feldman
Editor’s Note: This column
was originally supposed to ap-
pear in the June Regency Re-
spective issue of the Reporter.
Due to an overwhelming re-
sponse, it was held over to July
and shares memories from the
Herb Zukerberg Yiddish Club.
When you have lived in the
same place for many years you
can remember many things in
which you have participated,
especially things that have be-
come fond memories. Having
lived at Regency for over 17
years, The Herb Zukerberg Yid-
dish Club is one of those things
for me. I’ve been involved with
this club since it began and it
has given me many fond Memo-
ries. I must admit however that
my memory is not quite what it
used to be so cut me a bit of
slack if I remember some things
differently than they actually
were. The club was started by
Renea and Herb Zukerberg,
around 2005-2006 and was sim-
ply called The Yiddish Club, or
as I called it “music and laughs
with a shmear.” Herb Zukerberg
had been known professionally
as Herb Zane, a renowned band
leader, AKA “The Bar Mitzvah
King of New Jersey.” He and
his wife Renea arranged the
Yiddish Club breakfasts on
Sunday mornings during the
warmer months, usually May
through October. The breakfast
was always followed by some
entertainment, which always
highlighted the Yiddishkeit
(Jewishness) of the music, the
composer, the humor…we
spanned the range of entertain-
ment from Klezmer to
Gershwin to Modi to… .
At the very first breakfast,
Herb our master of ceremony
asked me to come up and speak
to our audience in Yiddish.
Having once upon a time spo-
ken fluent Yiddish I agreed. I
proceeded to answer Herb’s
English questions, in Yiddish,
which Herb humorously trans-
lated into English. The audience
seemed to enjoy this, hearing
the spoken Yiddish and hearing
the English translation. From
that point on, at each breakfast
my job became to follow the
food and before the entertain-
ment with a joke told in Yid-
dish, one line at a time and
translating it, one line at a time
into English. Occasionally I
couldn’t attend the breakfast
and Ethel and Ted Shuster gra-
ciously filled in.
Unfortunately, in 2009,
Herb, at the age of 81, passed
away. The following year his
beautiful and talented wife
Renea, along with the able
assistance of Richard Lans
renamed the club “The Herb
Zukerberg Yiddish Club,” in
Herb’s honor and memory. On
the tenth anniversary of his
death, Renea gave each couple
at the breakfast a CD that
Herb Zane had put out, of tal-
ented senior musicians playing
“the standards that never die.”
The club also puts on a Shab-
bos (Sabbath) dinner several
Friday nights during the sea-
son serving up the type of
chicken and challah dinner
you would expect from your
bubbe (grandmother).
The Sunday breakfasts usu-
ally get between 250-300 plus
hungry Regency residents for a
sit down bagel and lox, tuna and
egg salad, juice, coffee and pas-
try breakfast. Siz a mechayah
tzu seein (It’s a pleasure to see).
This is typically followed by
one of my jokes (bilingual),
followed by Renea providing a
short lecture on a subject near
and dear to the Jewish people -
for example Jews in sports, or
show business, or Nobel Laure-
ates… . Then the entertainment
with either laughs or sing
alongs but always entertaining.
Last but not least, Richard Lans
runs the 50-50 and off to home
we go all feeling satisfied nutri-
tionally and spiritually. By the
way, you do not have to be Jew-
ish to have a great time at the
Herb Zukerberg Yiddish Club.
Just ask Mary Caccamo!
Regency Chorus
The Regency Chorus under
the direction of Sharon Scheckner
Meets on Mondays 4:45 - 6 p.m. in the
front ballroom.
New members welcome!
Chorus will resume when the Clubhouse reopens
and it is safe to do so.
Contact Sharon (732-656-3165)
or Carol Kortmansky (732-605-9759)
The Herb
Zukerberg
Yiddish Club
2020 Events Calendar
We are hoping to be able to
hold these events
· August 16 - 10:00 a.m. -
Breakfast Program - Ari
Axelrod - “Celebration of
Jewish Broadway”
· September 28 - 6:30 p.m.
Break the Fast with Jewish
Trivia
· November 8: - 10:00 a.m. -
Breakfast Program - Johnny
Lambert, Comedian
The Herb Zukerberg
Yiddish Club Memories
Condolence
The Editorial Board of the
Regency Reporter and the entire
Regency community send sin-
cere condolences to Candy
Schweitzer and Family on the
loss of her beloved mother
Blanche Singer, and to the Fam-
ily of our dear friend and
neighbor Julia Lichtenstein.
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 11
in the Club Blast, but feel free
to contact me via email at Jay-
[email protected] to be
added to our weekly email and
Healing
with Yoga
By Jaya Gupta
Most of you know me as your
friendly neighborhood Yoga
lady, Jaya Gupta. My husband
and I moved to Regency eight
years ago. Prem, my husband,
moved here for the golf, tennis
and other amenities Regency
has to offer. However, I moved
here with a dream to make a
difference and help this commu-
nity become the healthiest one
around, through practicing as a
Yoga Therapist and teaching
yoga classes at the Clubhouse.
That’s exactly what I told Pam,
our Regency’s sales associate,
in our welcome meeting, al-
though Pottery classes (with
Beverly Stern), playing bridge
and swimming, making wonder-
ful friends, and finding your
hidden talents are the beauty of
this place.
While going through this
trying time of social distancing
and staying home, which can
keep us safe, but not healthy, I
am offering virtual yoga classes
to stay connected and to keep
ourselves happy and healthy.
Our body, mind and soul need
nourishment every single day.
This is where yoga fits per-
fectly. For this reason, I am
resuming two virtual classes at
the same times as I used to
teach in the Clubhouse, Monday
at 11:00 a.m. and Wednesday at
10:30 a.m. If you’ve never tried
yoga before or couldn’t make it
to the Clubhouse, this is the
perfect opportunity for you to
give it a try.
You’re never too old to try
yoga. Integral yoga can be done
at any age, by anyone who is
seeking to stay in good physical
and mental health. It integrates
four very important components
of true yoga for the union and
alignment of body, mind and
soul.
· Breathing (Pranayama) - to
detox our bodies, to make our
lungs healthier and stronger
and to let go of emotions we
don’t need
· Meditation - to make our
minds stronger, stop the chat-
ter in our minds, increase
focus and memory and keep
away Alzheimer’s and De-
mentia
· Poses - to make our physical
bodies flexible and strong
· Deep Relaxation - to absorb
the benefits and to heal us by
increased REM sleep and
help in sleeping disorders or
Insomnia
The benefits of the poses
alone are enormous, but true
health benefits can only be
achieved by combining all four
components. I encourage you to
try it out. The Zoom link will be
It was a proud moment for Jaya Gupta with her son Sean at the first
International Yoga Day in Times Square. Photos submitted by Jaya Gupta
Kid’s Yoga at the Clubhouse
Jaya Gupta with granddaughters Riya, Sabrina, and Sonya
Zoom link. The greatest benefit
of yoga for us has been the
bonding with our children,
grandchildren, and friends.
JULY 2020 – PAGE 12 REGENCY REPORTER
By Carol Kortmansky
Karen Ross, President
Editor’s Note: This column
was originally supposed to ap-
pear in the June Regency Re-
spective issue of the Reporter.
Due to an overwhelming re-
sponse, it was held over to July
and shares memories from Re-
gency Hadassah.
And so another month has
passed in this strange world that
we live in today. As I write this
article, I am amazed that our
last women’s Seder, celebrating
the most important Jewish
woman in our world, our moth-
ers and all who mother us, was
only one year ago! Recently,
Hadassah Magazine celebrated
the beauty and importance of
the Jewish mother. “If ever we
needed the strength, wisdom,
nurturing and resourcefulness of
the mothers and daughters in
our lives, it is now. As we con-
tinue to navigate a surreal exis-
tence dictated by the Covid-19
pandemic, we look to the ladies
in our lives to help us get
through to the other side.”
Many years ago, I was on a
bus going into the city with our
Hadassah chapter, I believe it
was for a tour of the lower east
side. I was sitting with Nina
Wolff and mentioned to her that
I thought Hadassah should con-
sider doing a Women’s Seder,
one that honored the role of
Jewish women in our past, pre-
sent and future. “What a great
idea,” Nina said! “And you will
chair it!” “No way,” I said. “I can’t chair, I don’t do chair!” We
finally agreed to be co-chairs, and the rest as they say is history.
Our idea back then was to have a small, intimate affair, with no more
than 75 women. We hired Nancy Beller-Krieger, who led the evening
and added her beautiful voice and guitar! We asked our members to do
research and write articles about “Jewish Women of Influence.” We
wrote our own stories, and had volunteers do most of the reading. There
was no meal, we served ritual foods and desserts made by our own
talented residents. And our men waited on us! The evening was a big
success, and with that success came later changes - what began with
just 75 women grew to over 200 last year; what began with just ritual
foods and homemade desserts grew to full meals and desserts catered
by outside caterers (in addition to the very delicious desserts made by
our own volunteers). The themes changed as well! We started with
Jewish Women of Influence, we celebrated young and upcoming Jew-
ish Women, honored Righteous Gentiles, and wrote about our own
memories with stories and photographs of our Passovers past remem-
bered. Our very last Seder, which honored the most important Jewish
Woman in our lives was by far the most emotional of all!
There were so many women who helped us to bring those lovely
evenings to fruition, Sandi Shumsky’s magnificent art work for
each of the Haggadahs and Cheryl Hand and her team of bakers to
name just two! Of course there were so many others and we hope
and pray that when the world returns to normal we will be able to
have another evening such as these, filled with memories, beauty,
warmth and the love of our Hadassah family!
Congratulations to Mona Portnoy and Diane Schauman who
have upgraded to Lifetime Memberships and thanks to Sharon
Ben’Ous, Sonia Lieberman and Vivianne Roth for renewing their
annual memberships!
Since all our programs in the foreseeable future have been can-
celed or postponed, there is really nothing to report at this time.
We’re hoping to reschedule as many as we can, and once this pan-
demic is over, Hadassah will again begin scheduling the types of
programs that we have come to expect and enjoy! We were excited that the Regency Hadassah Book Club held it’s
first Zoom Book Club Meeting on Monday, June 29. Look for fur-
ther information about future Book Club Zoom meetings via emails
from Regency Hadassah. We discussed The Third Daughter by
Talia Carner, which follows the life of the third daughter in a family
of Jews forced out of their home in one of Russia’s endless po-
groms, who is married off to an apparently wealthy and kind Ameri-
can businessman. We thank Marilyn Jaclin, Marcia Milgrom, and
Karen Ross for making the arrangements for the meeting and
Phyllis S. Greenberg for facilitating the discussion. We hope many
of you will join us for future Zoom Book Club Meetings.
Please watch your emails for updated information on all the news
that affects our Hadassah community. If you change your email,
please contact us and let us know immediately and send your up-
dated email to [email protected]
We would also like to remind our friends in the Regency commu-
nity that Hadassah sells Shoprite gift cards in the denomination of
$100 per card. Hadassah receives a percentage back from each card
sale. To purchase a card or for more information, please contact
Jane Sussman. Condolence and Greeting Cards can be purchased
from Shelly Schwartz, Sandy Mailman, or Marilyn Krawet. If you
cannot contact one of our card chairpersons, please contact Karen
Ross. For JNF Trees ($18 delivered in Regency, $19 mailed out of
Regency) and Certificates ($10 if delivered in Regency, $11 if
mailed out of Regency) contact Karen Ross or Linda Strauss. Con-
tact Helen Spector if you wish to place a leaf on our Tree of Life.
Phyllis S. Greenberg is our Simcha Chairperson. She will be at our
meetings and events with our Simcha Basket and for a small dona-
tion you will be able to share your Simchas and good wishes.
We are helping heal the world together. Stay strong, stay con-
nected, stay safe!
All are photos of original art by Sandi Shumsky, all photos sent by Sandi Shumsky
First Women’s Seder Honoring Jewish Women of Influence Second Women’s Seder Honoring Righteous Gentiles
Third Women’s Seder Honoring Memories of
Passovers Past
Fourth Women’s Seder Honoring Young Jewish
Women Repairing the World
Fifth Women’s Seder Honoring The Most Important Jewish Woman
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 13
By Marty Feldman
Editor’s Note: This column
was originally supposed to ap-
pear in the June Regency Respec-
tive issue of the Reporter. Due to
an overwhelming response, it was
held over to July and shares
memories from the Regency Din-
ing Club.
A year after Flora and I moved
into Regency (circa 2003), we
thought how nice it would be for
me, the meal preparer for our
household, to teach my male
counterparts the basics of prepar-
ing a meal and at the same time
have neighbors meet each other
while sharing a meal, a glass of
wine and visiting each others’
homes. The premise was that I
would provide menus and recipes
and the husband would do the
cooking. I started the Regency
Dining Club with these goals in
mind (sounded good to me) how-
ever, what happened was that
even when a couple wished to
participate, most husbands re-
fused to cook. Their wives called
and asked whether they could do
the cooking and still participate?
My standard answer, “Of course,
no questions asked.” Each dinner
had a theme - a country, a US
region, city, a holiday…; for our
Shabu Shabu dinner we bought
each host home an electric fondue
type pot to cook in (which they
got to keep) and for our Ethiopian
dinner we went into New Bruns-
wick and delivered to each host
home, before the dinner, orders of
Injera (the Ethiopian bread used
for dipping instead of utensils).
This Regency Dining Club con-
tinued for about nine years with
three hosted dinners per year and
a fourth as a progressive dinner
with couples scurrying from
home to home for various
courses, ending the evening back
at the Clubhouse for dessert and
entertainment. We had everything
from a magician to a well known
comedian over the years with the
one common thread, good food,
good drink, and good friendly fun
for all.
As with any organized activity,
we quickly realized that as we got
older, less willing to cook, and as
the size of the membership in-
creased, some things had to
change. So when we had the ap-
proach of the Lunar New Year
in 2014, an executive decision
was made: the Regency Dining
Club would morph into the Re-
gency Ethnic Restaurant Eat
Around, EREA. Having trav-
eled all over the world for busi-
ness, I felt I would make the
club one that allowed people to
try out dishes they would not
ordinarily order on their own
when going to a new restaurant.
I would choose the menu, they
just had to show up and enjoy.
Our initial dinner for this itera-
tion of the club was a Chinese
banquet at a local restaurant on
Route 9. We had 15 couples
participate for this preset Lunar
New Year menu, and with a
great variety of dishes, for all
types of palates, a wonderful
time was had by all.
Since that initial EREA Dinner
we have had dinners at the fol-
lowing Ethnic restaurants: Portu-
guese (degustation), Spanish
(tapas), Cuban, Thai, Polish, Ko-
rean, Turkish, French, Russian
(Georgian), Brazilian (Rodizio),
Mediterranean (cooking class),
Mongolian (hot pot), Italian
(cooking class), Moroccan (with
belly dancer), and Indian. We
have had participation as high as
100 people, requiring us to have
two separate dates to accommo-
date all interested. Had it not been
for the current situation, we had
scheduled another Russian ban-
quet (in the French style) with
close to 100 participants. When,
not if, the social distancing cli-
mate is behind us, we will re-
sume our EREA events and
look forward to welcoming you
all to join or rejoin us. No mem-
bership fee, no commitment
other than for those dinners who
wish to attend. Keep reading the
Regency Reporter and Ron
Post’s updates for the latest
EREA news. Bon Appetit!
The Regency Dining Club, a Retrospective
Photos submitted by Marty Feldman
JULY 2020 – PAGE 14 REGENCY REPORTER
bandhan gave a presentation on
Health Issues for Seniors with a
focus on Diabetes and Blood
Pressure. IAG members at-
tended this very informative and
helpful program by Zoom. He
has been practicing medicine
for over 20 years and IAG is
fortunate to have him in our
community. His presentation
was followed by Q&A period.
As promised in my article dur-
ing March/April, I am providing
a brief introduction to major
festivals that are celebrated in
India during April, May, and
June:
VAISAKHI (April 13):
Vaisakhi is also known as
Baisakhi. It is an historical and
religious festival that is cele-
brated with prayers, sharing
food and performing spiritual/
religious rituals by Sikhs and
Hindus at the beginning of the
month of Vaisakha. Guru Go-
bind Singh had formed Khalsa
panth of warriors on this day in
1699. It is also a spring harvest
festival for Sikhs and for Hin-
dus it marks the Solar New
Year.
BUDDHA JAYANTI (May
7): Gautam Buddha’s birth an-
niversary is celebrated with
great fervor in India and many
other South East Asian coun-
tries. He was the founder of
Buddhism. Many Buddhists go
to the pagodas to pour water at
the foot of the sacred tree
named “Mahabodhi” under
which he had attained Nirvana
(salvation). Worldwide, devo-
tees of Buddha visit temples,
light candles and incense sticks,
pray and offer fruits with
sweets. Over 600 million people
around the world follow Bud-
dha’s teachings.
EID UL-FITR (May 22): Eid
-ul-Fitr is one of the most im-
portant festivals for Muslims all
over the globe. The day marks
the end of the holy month of
Ramadan, in which Muslims
observe fast from dusk to dawn.
The month-long fasting, which
The Regency Book Club
By Joyce Cohen and Nina
Wolff
A Feel Good Book
The Regency Book Club
decided to switch around its
reading list in the midst of the
Coronavirus; we needed a pick
-me-up! Joyce penned this
article before our Zoom meet-
ing on Tuesday, June 9, so not
everyone may agree with
Joyce’s assessments. Does
Have You Seen Luis Velez by
Catherine Ryan Hyde qualify
as a “feel good” book? Defi-
nitely, yes. However, what
else does it offer? Hyde begins
with a clever premise. She
presents Raymond, an overly
sensitive caring seventeen year
old, as her primary protago-
nist. He wants to help a blind
ninety-two year old neighbor
find her “lost” caretaker, Luis
Velez. Millie (Mrs. G) is smart
and independent, but we are
asked to believe that she has
no phone number to reach
Luis, nor the contact number
for the agency that originally
matched them up. This is the
justification for the search,
and Raymond decides to track
down as many men with the
name “Luis Velez” as he can
from a directory … going “door
to door” to ask if they know
Millie. The literary language is
more suited to a YA audience.
As Raymond follows his search,
he brings out the best in almost
everyone he meets. He is pre-
sented as a friendless boy who
can befriend people in all walks
of life.
Nina reports that when the
group met, they discussed the
merits of reading this book at this
time. The book was suggested to
help relieve what might be a
sense of despair brought on by the
constant numbers of deaths being
reported and the fear of the un-
known. Especially for people in
our age range who find ourselves
isolating and unable to hug our
children and grandchildren.
Mostly everyone enjoyed the
book and agreed that while it was
not literature on a grand scale, it
left us feeling good. Raymond is
a kind soul. We see that right
from the beginning as he is caring
for a feral cat, who he ultimately
brings to Millie so she won’t be
so alone. Raymond, who is bi-
racial, is also very much alone as
his best (and only) friend is mov-
ing to California and he is split-
ting his time living with his di-
vorced parents and their respec-
tive “new” families. Neither his
step-father nor step-mother care
for him and his own mother is
busy raising his three half-sisters,
thereby having very little time for
him.
As Joyce says, ultimately, this
is an adventure story that can be
very appealing. I won’t spoil the
book for those who will still
read it by giving too detailed a
summary. In spite of her writing
style, I will say that the themes
Hyde explores are very much
adult ones. Questions about
both murder and justice are
raised and even more important
are the psychological issues that
are woven throughout. Adoles-
cents have evolving self images,
and Raymond is the embodi-
ment of someone who sees him-
self as a misfit. Millie has
gained her wisdom through the
years. Nina adds that due to the
fact that her father had money,
her family was able to escape
from Hitler’s Germany in 1938.
While she provides the balance
for Raymond’s insecurities, she,
herself, has lived her life with
“survivors guilt.”
Unfortunately, Joyce was
unable to attend the Book Club
Zoom. In the next few months
we look forward to discussing
The Giver of Stars by Jojo Mo-
yes, and Olive, Again by Eliza-
beth Strout. Our next Book
Club Zoom Meeting will be on
Tuesday, July 14 at 4 p.m.
Marcia Midler will send out the
link. Perhaps we can have a face
to face out on the deck of the
Clubhouse in the near future.
Keep in touch.
Memories from Past
Culture Club Events
Photos submitted by Milton Paris
By Anil Shah
During the past few months
our daily lifestyles had to be
adjusted to suit conditions cre-
ated by COVID - 19. Each of us
have been adapting to the
change with increased participa-
tion by using Face Time, Face-
book, Zoom, Team, WhatsApp,
etc. YouTube, Netflix, Amazon
and many other services have
also been very helpful to keep
us entertained. The weather has
improved, and it has allowed us
to enjoy outdoor activities while
taking precautions for every-
one’s safety. The Regency Car
Club had organized a Car Pa-
rade in honor of Memorial Day.
IAG was represented by Anil
Shah and his wife Chandni.
They participated in the car pa-
rade with their Classic Con-
vertible 1988 Mercedes Benz
560SL. All cars were very im-
pressive and looked beautiful.
The car parade was well organ-
ized, and each car drove by
houses on all streets of Re-
gency. Residents came out of
their houses in large numbers
and turned it into a very festive
and patriotic two-hours long
celebration with their enthusias-
tic cheering, clapping, dancing,
playing bells, blowing whistles
and waving American flags
with thank you signs. The writer
also attended a Cars and Coffee
event that was casually organ-
ized by the Regency Car Club.
It was a lot of fun joking around
with member friends in the
parking lot of a nearby Dunkin
Donuts. I will tell you a secret
but please do not tell my wife…
I did not measure my sugar
level throughout the entire day
and felt very energetic!
IAG member Dr. Rama Sam-
is considered to be the sternest
one, ends on the eve of Eid after
sighting the first crescent of the
new moon. Ramadan is the holi-
est month for the followers of
Islam. It is believed that Allah
(God) on this day delivered the
first verses of the Quran. As per
tales, the month of Ramadan
was started when Prophet
Mohammad migrated from
Mecca to Medina. This festival
is celebrated with a lot of fervor
and joy. People worldwide greet
each other, exchange gifts and
feast on special delicacies. On a
personal note, ever since I was a
child, I have loved this day con-
suming delicious food with Khir
and fancy sweets!
In India, there are more festi-
vals than there are total number
of days in a year! I have only
covered major festivals. Like all
of you, I too am waiting for
things to get better and be able
to start meeting friends and
family. Until then…STAY
SAFE AND STAY WELL!
IAG Members Continue
To Stay Active!
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 15
Single Stream
Recycling
Mixed recycling is now collected each Wednesday. All recyclables (paper, bot-tles, cans, plastic, etc.) can be placed in the same container and put out each week.
Beyond Words
By Cheryl Hand
Regency Re-sale Update
I have three messages for you
and your families. First, I hope if
you are reading this you are stay-
ing healthy and social distancing.
It’s so nice to see everyone walk-
ing and enjoying the lush grounds
of Regency. Second, I want to
once again ask everyone to pay
attention to the speed limit and
stop signs in the community. Liv-
ing on Country Club Drive, you
just can’t imagine how fast the
cars whip by my house. DRIVE
THE SPEED LIMIT! Lastly, I
would like to give you an update
on the Regency re-sale market.
This is clearly an unprecedented
time in our history. The real estate
market has been affected, as you
can imagine. However, when I
analyzed our numbers, they are
not quite as bad as I expected.
Currently we have 13 active re-
sales on the market. In a “normal”
market we’d probably have about
25 to 30. The re-sales range in
price from $400,000 up to
$724,999. The prices in this com-
munity range so greatly, we are
not like any other community that
I have known in my thirty-three
years of experience. However, for
those of you considering selling,
less competition means a quicker
sale. Perhaps it could be the right
time even during this pandemic.
We have five homes that are
Under Contract. Those asking
prices range from $495,000 up to
$725,000. I will report the sold
prices when the properties have
closed.
Thirteen re-sales have closed
since January 2020; as low as
$410,000 and as high as
$608,000. In a normal year we
can close 30 to 35 homes. We are
not quite halfway through and
already have 13 closed with five
under contract, so we may end up
with about 30 re-sales closed. Not
bad for a quarantine year. Re-
gency is a popular place to live!
Some of you may wonder how
are we showing homes. The Na-
tional Association of Realtors
created a Covid-19 Hold Harm-
less document that must be signed
by buyers and sellers. The realtors
and buyers must wear masks and
gloves and not touch anything in
the homes. The sellers usually
leave their house during the
showing. One last thing I’d like to
add is that the buyer’s looking
during this time seem to be more
serious, qualified buyers vs. the
‘curious looker!’
Stay healthy…stay happy…be
creative…enjoy your beautiful
surroundings and SOCIAL DIS-
TANCE!
By Cecile Spector
The Grammar Police
Language is alive. It is affected
by the society in which it is used,
and it changes and grows over
time. When, for example, a word
is pronounced by a great many
people in a way that differs from
the preferred pronunciation as
stated in dictionaries, it eventually
will become the pronunciation of
choice. Often, when I use the
word “forte” (pronounced as fort)
to mean one’s strong point, I am
corrected and told it should be
pronounced forte (fort a). The
preferred pronunciation in the
dictionary is “fort.” The word is
derived from French and influ-
enced by Italian. For this reason,
it often is pronounced forte (fort
a). Which is right? They both are.
The way the word is said is in
flux; eventually dictionaries will
reflect the change.
Grammar is one of the most
“abused” parts of language be-
cause, frequently, people decide
to “bend” the grammatical rules
taught in school. If, however,
everyone knows exactly what
you mean then your grammar is
working; if what you say is con-
fusing or ambiguous, then it is
not. After all, the main purpose
of language is to communicate
our ideas and thoughts to each
other. The grammatical rules of
English have been with us for
centuries. In some cases, these
rules resulted from writers from
the seventeenth and eighteenth
centuries attempting to translate
the rules of Latin into rules for
English. For instance, in Latin
an infinitive, being a single
word, could never be split. But
of course it does not follow that
the same should hold true for
English, where infinitives such
as ‘to explain’ or ‘to go’ are
comprised of two words, not
one. The fact that by the seven-
teenth or eighteenth centuries
Latin was strictly a written lan-
guage and had long ceased to
undergo the changes natural to
spoken language, gave these
writers the notion that Latin was
somehow better and purer than
contemporary languages. The
following are some grammar
rules that we probably have
been taught in school:
· Don’t end a sentence with a
preposition. This is considered
to be “non-Latin.” When we
try to abide by this rule our
speech may sound awkward
and unnatural. Winston Chur-
chill’s famous remark when
criticized for ending a sentence
with a preposition was, “That is
the sort of English up with
which I will not put.”
· Don’t use a double negative
(We don’t want no dinner -
does that mean they want
some dinner?) In some cases,
following the rules keeps our
conversations from being
ambiguous. Although it ap-
pears that in English two
negatives destroy one another
and are equivalent to an af-
firmative, we do understand
someone who says, “I haven’t
got no money.” In languages
such as French and Spanish
double negatives are gram-
matically correct.
· Don’t say ain’t. In seven-
teenth century London, the
“r” sound was not pro-
nounced. Consequently,
aren’t sounded like ain’t. It
was used by highly educated
people as well as the masses.
The use of ain’t is stigmatized
when used in the United
States because we do pro-
nounce the “r” sound; its
omission makes ain’t an un-
necessary and unwarranted
contraction of are not, am not
and even is not.
· Don’t split infinitives. This
rule is frequently broken be-
cause splitting the infinitive
lends itself to a more natural
way of expressing oneself.
“To boldly go where no man
has gone before” should be
“To go boldly where no man
has gone before.” Doesn’t the
first one (with the split infini-
tive) sound more forceful and
natural to the ear?
For the most part, the gram-
matical rules that we learned in
school are still used in written
language. In spoken language
there are usages that have
worked their way into everyday
conversation to the point where
most people view them as com-
pletely normal. This being said,
members of the “grammar po-
lice” (e.g., teachers, editors,
etc.) still bristle when some-
one’s grammar strays out of
what is considered by educated
people to be mainstream usage.
Note the following examples:
Saying: asterick for asterisk
(“Put an asterick next to the
citation.”)
expresso for espresso (“I’d
like a double expresso, please.”)
nucular for nuclear (“A nucu-
lar attack would devastate the
country.”)
nother for other (“That’s a
whole nother thing.”)
could care less for couldn’t
care less (“I could care less that
the party was called off.”)
irregardless for regardless
(“I’ll do it, irregardless of cir-
cumstances.”)
I for me (“It was given to
Toni and I.”)
me and him for he and I (“Me
and him went to the game yes-
terday.”)
hisself for himself (“He sat by
hisself in the last row.”)
between you and I for be-
tween you and me (‘Remember
this is just between you and I.”)
oh for zero, when saying a
number (“My phone number is
555-oh oh 34.”)
standing on line for standing
in line (“I was standing on line
forever.”)
If we say any one of the
above we are regarded by the
“grammar police” as perform-
ing a grammatical faux pas. The
use of alternatives to standard
grammatical forms may cause
others to focus on your gram-
mar instead of the content of
what you are saying.
So what is the bottom line? In
some cases of grammatical mis-
use it doesn’t matter. It depends
on the situation, your purpose for
speaking, and the people you are
addressing as to how careful you
wish to be in your use of gram-
mar. Giving a formal speech to an
erudite audience may call for
your grammar to be on its best
behavior as opposed to the gram-
mar you use in casual conversa-
tion with good friends.
In closing, I ain’t gonna split
no infinitives, but I can’t help
myself-I must use a preposition
to end this sentence with.
Rabbi Louis’s
Class
A class of Jewish ethics, val-
ues, beliefs and traits of charac-
ter,” will begin for this season
when the Clubhouse reopens
when it is safe to do so. The
class will meet each Thursday
at 10:30 a.m. and will be held in
Ballroom 1. All are welcome.
Men’s Club
Events Calendar
We are hoping to be able to
hold these events
· Monday, August 10 - Men’s
Night Out Dinner and Movie
· Friday, August 21 - Mon-
mouth Park Race Track
· Sunday, August 30 - Monthly
Meeting and Guest Speaker
Home Trends
JULY 2020 – PAGE 16 REGENCY REPORTER
The Regency Scrabble Club
Join us for Scrabble each Thursday at 7 p.m.
In the Multi-Purpose Room
Monday at 1:30 p.m.
In the Multi-Purpose Room
All ability levels welcome
For information, contact Linda Litsky
[email protected] – (732.492.0921)
Scrabble Scribbles
Healing Ourselves Naturally
By Susan Sloan
Are you wondering why the
market is recovering so quickly
from the disaster that started to
hit us in mid-March? Several
indexes have reached near high
levels as of this date. The
Nasdaq hit an all time high, and
the S&P and Dow are down
only 6% from an all time high.
Not bad considering. At the
same time everything looks
grim. Jobs have been lost, busi-
nesses will be closing, and to
top it off there are demonstra-
tions turning into riots and loot-
ing in many major cities in
America. So, why is the market
recovering? Are we just so opti-
mistic by nature? On Wall
Street there is an old saying
which is, ‘‘Don’t Fight The
FED.” When you go against
what the greatest minds are
thinking you will be wrong. The
Federal Reserve’s job is to
maintain balance and avoid dis-
asters in the economy. No one
could have predicted that the
best economy that we have seen
in decades would be uprooted
by a pandemic. All was going
well, we had near full employ-
ment, taxes were cut and there
seemed a period of calm around
the world. The stock market
was making new highs and eve-
ryone was content. Of all the
things you could think of that
would turn a market around, a
virus was not on anybody’s lips.
However it happened. As I have
written before, It is always the
thing you least expect and can-
not predict that hurts. Like Pearl
Harbor or 9/11.
The Federal Reserve had to
come in to bolster the disasters
that were taking place. Many
people have said to me that they
are spending too much money.
In effect, however, they are not
spending anything. They are
investing in things because
there is no one else there to buy
things. Whether they are stocks
or bonds or Futures, it is the
FED’s job to stabilize things. In
the economic crisis of 2008, the
then FED chairman Ben Ber-
nanke said if he had to throw
cash out of helicopters he would
do that to stabilize the economy.
Hence the nickname Helicopter
Ben, That’s what the FED is
doing right now. They are buy-
ing things which, just as in 2009
and 2010, they will be able to
sell later when the world stabi-
lized, at very big profits. They
were the purchaser of last resort
and brought us out of that disas-
ter. And the treasury’s job is to
make sure that people have
enough money to spend so that
the entire economy doesn’t shut
down. They sent money to peo-
ple who are unemployed, to
businesses that needed it to pay
their rent, and to individuals
whose income was below a cer-
tain level so that they would
continue to buy things to feed
their family and keep the econ-
omy going. They have done a
marvelous job. So when you see
the market recovering so
greatly, it is a tribute to what the
FED has done. Even though you
cannot yet see the end of the
pandemic.
By Don Haback
A Few Miscellaneous
Hints and Tips
Editor’s Note: The sugges-
tions made in this column are
solely those of the author and
not necessarily those of the Edi-
torial Board of the Regency
Reporter and/or Princeton Edi-
torial Services.
This month, as we hopefully
start to recover from our in-
home stays, we’ll look at some
miscellaneous areas – at least
some of which should be impor-
tant to everybody.
Both PCs and MACs need to
be regularly checked to see if
any operating system UP-
DATES are needed. Many times
they’re automatic – but we rec-
ommend that you go to
‘settings’ and check for updates.
Some our machines are older –
and some of them are getting to
the point where replacement
may be considered. For in-
stance, if your PC is running
Windows 7.0 (or an earlier ver-
sion), it is no longer supported
by Microsoft – and should be
replaced. Similarly, some older
MACs (including the ‘all-in-
one’ iMACs) are running ver-
sions of MacOS that are not
supported. The latest version
(CATALINA) is v.10.15. If
yours is running SIERRA
(v.10.12), El Capitan (v.10.11),
Yosemite (v.10.10) or any ear-
lier versions, THEY ARE NO
LONGER SUPPORTED by
Apple.
You should also check to see
that you’re running the latest ver-
sions all of your utility software
(including JAVA, any anti-virus
and anti-malware). If your PC is
not running Microsoft’s own
WINDOWS DEFENDER, please
delete any other anti-virus and
anti-malware product and use this
instead. For earlier versions of
Windows machines, please con-
sider running AVAST anti-virus
and MALWARE BYTES soft-
ware. For MACs – THIS IS IM-
PORTANT – IF IT’S THERE,
REMOVE ‘CLEANMYMAC’!
It is malware! Keep MAL-
WAREBYTES.
With the approaching reopen-
ing of stores, now could be a
good time to consider buying a
new machine.
We are always saying that
there are two categories of com-
puter users, those who backup
their data – and those who
WISH THEY HAD! If you’re
not doing these backups, please
– at your earliest convenience –
consider buying an external
hard disk drive. Both Seagate
and Western Digital have excel-
lent products – and both include
the ability to automatically back
up your data – even to saving
files that you change or modify.
It’s always a good time to in-
vestigate adding backup!
By Steven Soffer N.D. MH
The Power of Gratitude
and Love!
“It was the best of times; it
was the worst of times.” This is
not A Tale of Two Cities. This
is the tale of two worlds... the
world before the Coronavirus
and the world after the Coro-
navirus. None of us on New
Year’s Eve had any idea that
over the next three months our
lives would change like we have
never seen before. Clearly,
that’s what is happening now.
There are two sides to every
coin...but those two sides are to
only one coin. We don’t want to
take any wooden nickels. What
do I mean by that? It doesn’t
matter if we are a Democrat or a
Republican, nor does it matter if
we get our news from Fox or
CNN. What matters is our own
personal truth and how we live
our lives now.
Clearly, our lives have
changed. Now we have to social
distance, wear masks when we
are out, wash our hands ten to
twenty times a day and be really
conscious of those around us. I
am writing this on June 6. Much
of the country is re-opening
without really following guide-
lines set by the CDC. People are
starting to get a false sense of
security. The tragic death num-
bers are not really coming down
in many places in the country.
People are social creatures and
it is hard to stay hunkered down
and in isolation for a very long
time. We gain and draw support
and nourishment from those
with whom we interact. It is a
well known fact that the failure
to thrive, meaning things like
poor weight gain, poor and ab-
normal behavior and even poor
cognitive development can de-
velop in infants when they are
neglected. Our physical bodies
truly rely on the nourishment
and support that we share and
gain from others around us aid-
ing us in functioning properly.
Believe it or not, our genetics
are influenced by isolation and
loneliness. These things create
actual inflammation and re-
duced immune function. One
really great natural anti-
inflammatory remedy is strong,
rich, and loving social relation-
ships with our spouses, our chil-
dren, our spiritual families, and
friends. Studies reveal that any
inflammation can easily create
cardiovascular, auto-immune
and neurodegenerative diseases,
cancer, and depression. I know
common sense is very uncom-
mon, but this really makes
sense...that people who have
strong social connections and
family life create up to a 50%
increased chance of living
longer and recovering from dis-
ease (even Coronavirus) more
quickly. The more connections
we have with more people that
are positive create a more positive
feedback of mental, emotional
and physical well being. It is so
important that we make time for
those who support us, nourish us,
love us, and help us to live longer
and healthier lives. In seventh
grade my teacher said, “It’s qual-
ity, not quantity, that counts.” He
was talking about our homework
and school work. But, I’m talking
about the quality of our relation-
ships that matter. Not the number
of the relationships but the true
supportive essence of those nur-
turing relationships that create a
feeling of being close with and
belonging with others.
Love is the answer! We were
created to love, to be loved and
to belong. We need to see who
we are in our innermost depths
of consciousness as a crucial
and imperative part of human
existence. The more we receive
from others of that love, friend-
ship and support, the more it
helps us to trust and relax
within ourselves and to be more
comfortable in our own skin,
especially at this critical time on
the planet with things as crazy
as they are. We must now pull
out from within ourselves all
that deeply buried stuff that is
based on love. The world needs
us now more to support each
other and love each other no
matter which side of the coin
we see. Yes, it is the best of
times and also now the worst of
times. We are getting through
this. Just remember, a human
being is as wise as the tools that
they use and the knowledge of
how to use them.
One of the greatest tools we
have is gratitude. As we think,
we become. What we focus on
grows. Simply practicing grati-
tude for even a few minutes a
day can actually change your
brain in ways that will improve
your mood, confidence, self-
love, empathy, and ability to
feel compassion for others.
When we experience deep grati-
tude, we also strengthen the
circuits that are involved with
thinking and moral decision
making, which means we can
help our family, our kids and
grandkids to become more
socially responsible and better
human beings. An attitude of
gratitude creates a happier,
healthier, and more effective
human being! Those with
more gratitude report im-
proved psychological and
physical health and engage in
more healthy activities. Plus,
they are more supportive of
people with health concerns
who don’t consciously prac-
tice gratitude. When children
and teens practice gratitude,
grades go up, stress and con-
flict goes down, family relation-
ships get better, and foolish,
risky behaviors decline.
So, it’s all about choice once
again. We have free will to
choose happy thoughts or sad
thoughts, positive ones or nega-
tive ones; like the Sunshine
Makers cartoon. The people of
different towns choose to be
either happy or sad. This choice
is always ours so make. These
are difficult times, but we can
learn how to deal with it most
effectively and how to get
through this as unscathed as
possible. Do the right thing. We
will all get through this to-
gether. Steve encourages ques-
tions and comments from free-
thinking individuals.
“What would happen if we
could convert the energy of fear
to faith, the energy of doubt and
uncertainty into a feeling of
belonging to the universe and
being safe in It?” Ernest
Holmes.
“What the world needs now
is love, sweet love.” Burt
Bacharach
Crazy Markets
Some of us are still using older
and much slower Internet and
local area services in our homes.
These include Verizon’s DSL
services (typically running at
speeds well below 5 Mb/sec data
rates) and slower services pro-
vided by Comcast and Verizon
Fios. In some cases, the limit is
caused by older WiFi equipment.
It is possible for us to get Internet
access at speeds above 300 Mb/
sec today (from both Comcast
and Fios) but these most likely
will need new WiFi equipment.
Now might be good time to look
into this – especially if, for in-
stance, you have smart TVs con-
nected to the Internet through
your home’s WiFi system. Our
home system runs at (depending
on the time) speeds well above
300 Mb/sec on Comcast. We may
also want to consider upgrading
our WiFi systems to include some
of the new ‘mesh’ capabilities.
This will provide maximum
speeds throughout our homes.
Do NOT rush out to buy a new
5G smartphone. Yes, they’re
slowly becoming available, but
they are expensive and will not
help your phone and texting op-
erations at all! It will be several
years before the really important
advantages - much higher speed
data transfer and networking ca-
pabilities – become widely avail-
able. There’s plenty of time for all
of us.
Please contact me if you have
any questions.
Tech Trends
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 17
The Pet Corner M&M Movie Minutes
LABORATORY AND NURSING SERVICES
Available at Regency at Monroe Penn Medicine Princeton Health exclusively offers
Regency at Monroe residents phlebotomy and nursing services in the Clubhouse. See details below.
LABORATORY SERVICES
Phlebotomy services (blood draw) are provided Every Tuesday from 7:15 a.m. – 9 a.m.
By appointment in the Clubhouse. To make an appointment with our assigned phlebotomist,
please contact Regency at Monroe’s concierge desk at 732-605-9800.
Please note: a laboratory prescription from your doctor is required at the appointment.
NURSING SERVICES
Blood sugar testing, blood pressure checks, and health counseling are offered by the assigned nurse on the
dates and times listed below: First Tuesday of the month: 8 a.m. – 12 p.m.
Second Tuesday of the month: 8 a.m. – 12 p.m. Fourth Tuesday of the month: 8 a.m. – 12 p.m.
We hope you enjoy the convenience of the Tuesday phlebotomy and nursing services.
For more information, call 732-605-9800.
Regency
Chorus
The Regency Chorus
under
the direction of
Sharon Scheckner
Meets on Mondays
4:45 - 6 p.m. in the
front ballroom
New members welcome!
Chorus will resume when
the Clubhouse opens
and it is safe to do so.
Contact Sharon
(732-656-3165)
or Carol Kortmansky
(732-605-9759)
By Marcia Milgrom and
Marilyn Jaclin
Disobedience
After six months and six feet
of separation M and M finally
got together on Marilyn’s patio
and wrote up our impressions of
Disobedience, a film that was
recommended to us. Naturally,
we saw it separately. The film is
a romantic drama based on the
novel of the same name. It takes
place in Northern London. We
see at first a most important and
well respected Rabbi Rav
Krushka (Anton Lesser) drop-
ping dead. He was an important
figure in his Orthodox Jewish
community. We next see his
daughter Ronit (Rachel Weiss),
a New York based photogra-
pher, who left the Orthodox
community years ago. Ronit
returns when she learns of her
father’s death, and walks into
the unchanged world of her for-
mer home. Friends and
neighbors view her as a curios-
ity. She obviously became very
rebellious and secular. Her long
hair, short skirt and cigarettes
are very noticeable. When she
reads her father’s obituary it
states that he had no children.
This was hurtful but not uncom-
mon in the Orthodox world who
would see a deviant as dead.
At her friend Dovit’s
(Alessandro Nivola) house peo-
ple were paying their respects.
She finds out that Dovit had
been taken in by her father as
his protégée. She also sees her
best friend, Este (Rachel
McAdams) who is now married
to Dovit, leading an Orthodox
life. The movie does a great job
of showing the expression on
Ronit’s face upon hearing about
the marriage of her two best
friends. Dovit is surprised to see
Ronit and invites her to stay at
his home. During her stay Ronit
visits her uncle to find out what
is going to happen to her fa-
ther’s house. She is told that the
house and possessions are to go
to the synagogue. She is only
allowed to get her personal pos-
sessions. Este goes with Ronit
to retrieve her things. While in
her father’s house together the
two women reminisce about
their shared memories. It is
there that Este kisses Ronit,
who at first resists but subse-
quently reciprocates. The story
now takes a surprise turn. Este
confesses that she is the one
who notified her friend to return
home. We realize that the two
women had a previous intimate
relationship, which is why Este
wanted Ronit to come back
home again.
Este is leading a religious,
comfortable life but is not really
happy. She and Ronit meet
again and they are spotted kiss-
ing by two women from the
congregation. The next day at
the Jewish school where Este
teaches, she is summoned by
the head mistress and hears the
complaint about her and Ronit.
Meanwhile, at the synagogue
Dovit is asked to take the
Rabbi’s place. Dovit is leery
about Ronit but feels he can
keep his house in order. At
some interval the two women
sneak to a hotel and have pas-
sionate sex, which confirms
their love. When Este arrives
home late at night Dovit is sus-
picious of the two women and
Este admits to kissing Ronit.
Ronit leaves for home. When
she arrives at the airport she
gets a call from Dovit telling
her he cannot find Este. Ronit
goes back to Dovit’s house.
Eventually, Este comes home
and asks Dovit for her freedom.
She also tells him she is preg-
nant. At this point Este and
Ronit attend a Memorial ser-
vice, presided over by Dovit, for
the deceased rabbi. During his
sermon Dovit releases Este
from their marriage and turns
down the congregation’s invita-
tion as their spiritual leader. The
three of them meet outside and
embrace, reconciling their
friendship. Ronit invites Este to
join her in New York. Este has
decisions to make and we don’t
want to spoil the ending.
The eloquence of this movie is
the performance of the actors.
The two females, Rachel
McAdams and Rachel Weiss
were so believable, making it a
heartfelt, poignant film. Alessan-
dro Nivola was young for the role
that he was asked to play. He was
a likable character, M and M en-
joyed him. We felt all of their
pain. Although slow in spots we
were happy we paid the four dol-
lars each to see it. If you are ho-
mophobic it might be uncomfort-
able for you.
By Barbara Potasky
If, during these unusual times,
you are looking to watch some-
thing a bit unorthodox, then you
might want to consider the
miniseries Unorthodox, on Net-
flix. With just four episodes,
each running slightly under an
hour, this is a worthwhile binge-
watch. The series is inspired by
the book Unorthodox: The
Scandalous Rejection of My
Hasidic Roots, by Deborah
Feldman. I recommend, after
watching the series, that you
also watch the 20-minute Mak-
ing of Unorthodox to learn
more about the show. I was
surprised to learn that the part
of the series that focuses on the
main character’s life after leav-
ing the Hasidic community is
not what actually happened to
Ms. Feldman. That led me to
become curious about the book,
which I have had on hold as an
eBook at the library since April
10, with another 11 weeks to go
until I can borrow it (and that is
with 15 copies available). That
really brought home to me how
popular this series has been.
With a largely unknown cast,
at least to the US audience, Un-
orthodox is the story of Esther
(Esty) Shapiro (played by Shira
Haas), who is a member of an
ultra-conservative Hasidic com-
munity in Brooklyn, New York.
Her mother left years earlier, as
she had an arranged marriage to
Esty’s father, a much older man,
and was desperately unhappy.
And due to these types of com-
munities having their own set of
laws, Esty’s father retained cus-
tody. Her mother now resides in
Berlin, Germany, and we see
her throughout the episodes,
first, when she goes to Brooklyn
to try to connect with Esty be-
fore her arranged marriage, to
see if it is what she really wants,
which Esty assures her she
does. Later, when Esty flees the
community and goes to Ger-
many, she finally does re-
connect with her mother.
I admit that I have always
been fascinated by sects that
live outside the norms of soci-
ety. When I was a teenager, my
family went on vacation to Lan-
caster, Pennsylvania, and I was
very intrigued by the Amish. I
could not understand why peo-
ple would want to live without
electricity or cars or wear the
clothing that they wore. So,
when I read that Netflix was
coming out with this series ear-
lier this year, I knew that it was
right up my alley. It is some-
times difficult to watch, as it is
heartbreaking to see Esty’s
plight and her naiveté. She is
just 19 when she is introduced
to her prospective husband,
Yankov (Yanky) Shapiro by a
matchmaker. Both sides agree
to the marriage. Yanky is not a
bad young man; he is just a
product of the sheltered envi-
ronment in which he was raised,
as is Esty. But, many of these
ultra-conservative religions are
particularly oppressive for
women. And, Esty soon feels
restricted by a marriage to a
man she does not love, and we
see how she is different from
the women in the community.
Or, perhaps they are just better
at hiding their unhappiness.
After fleeing to Berlin, (the
part of the story not based on
Ms. Feldman’s life), Esty meets
up with a group of musicians,
and experiences a life and a
sense of freedom that she could
not have imagined. The com-
munity, being what it is, feels
determined to find her and bring
her back, especially because
they suspect she is pregnant
(which she is). So, the rabbi
tells Yanky to find her and
bring her home. Yanky, along
with his cousin find out from
her piano teacher that she is in
Berlin, and they go there too
look for her. I will not spoil the
ending of the series, although I
am curious to read the book and
find out how the story really
ended, and why the series was
changed. After watching, I saw
that Netflix had several other
shows about the Hasidic com-
munity, due no doubt to the
popularity of Unorthodox. I
watched a documentary called
One of Us, which follows three
individuals who have left their
Hasidic communities. We can
see how difficult it is to leave,
as these people have few skills,
and are mostly uneducated, as
that is a way of keeping them in
the community. The story of the
woman trying to get custody of
her children is particularly
heartrending.
Enjoy the early days of sum-
mer. Hopefully things are al-
most back to normal, and as
always stay tuned…
By Bea Siegel
As of this writing, hair sa-
lons, barber shops, and nail sa-
lons are not open, but pet
grooming and tattoo parlors are
open, as long as we continue to
social-distance. A case in point,
those of us who enjoy walking
our dogs always social-distance;
reason being there could be
aggressiveness between dogs
that aren’t familiar with each
other, or maybe you’re cautious
about the dog’s health. A silent
code is that if you’re walking in
one direction, and another per-
son walking their dog ap-
proaches in your direction, one
walker will go in the opposite
direction instead of approaching
head-on. This practice will
avoid any conflicts between
people and their dogs.
With the pandemic going on,
and we’re in a lock-down, pet
adoptions are up, because hav-
ing a dog or cat is companion-
ship. In fact, some dogs are
saying, “Hey, enough with the
walks, go do what you have to,
and let me sleep.” Just imagine
a family with kids, everyone
wants to get out and walk, so
now you have a family that each
time someone leaves the house,
they take the dog out, but
poochie is smart, he hides the
leash just to get some rest. With
many people noshing away on
food, they just might start giv-
ing kitty or Fido some scraps, or
too many biscuits, and before
you know it the pounds are go-
ing on, or they’re getting
tummy problems and now a
visit to the veterinarian is neces-
sary. Keep their daily routine
going as much as possible.
Talking about pet grooming -
now that the groomers are open
for business, you might be put
on a waiting list for an appoint-
ment, so just take it upon your-
self to brush and comb your dog
everyday. It’s a good habit to
get into, since it’s stimulating to
the follicles in the skin. Gently
brush out mats, which are very
uncomfortable for dogs and
cats, since body movement
pulls the mats, which your pet
will start to lick and cause other
problems. Many factors are
involved in the process of shed-
ding. Breed, age, health, and
genetics determine how rapidly
a dog’s coat moves from growth
to what is called, “death” of
coat for new growth. Good nu-
trition and exercise are also fac-
tored into this. “Mats” can be
difficult to brush or comb out,
and eventually become knotted
or imbedded into the skin. This
especially occurs with long-
haired dogs and cats under the
belly or areas where the hair
grows long. If not routinely
groomed, it becomes very prob-
lematic. Dogs will usually lick
and maybe bite at the sensitive
area, trying to remove the knots,
which will only get worse with
lots of discomfort. If you live
near the Arctic Circle and your
dog spends endless hours out-
doors, the coat will be thick and
gorgeous. But our dogs live in a
house with different tempera-
ture settings, and seasonal
changes outdoors with exposure
to sunlight, rain, and snow.
They really appreciate the bond-
ing of a good easy brushing and
combing to make their coat
shine. And while you’re at it,
those belly-rubs always make
them smile.
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Stay Tuned
JULY 2020 – PAGE 18 REGENCY REPORTER
Attention Regency Musicians
The Regency Band
Is in need of musicians Brass and rhythm (guitar, bass, etc) needed
The Regency Band
Meets on the FIRST and THIRD Tuesday of
each month
7:30 p.m. in the Dance Studio on the Spa level
Contact: Jerry Minkin or Mark Greenstein
(732) 605-1983 (732) 605-0045 Resident Phone Numbers
in Reporter Articles
While many residents are mentioned in articles as people to
“get in touch with,” their phone numbers are not. The policy of
the Regency Reporter is not to print phone numbers in articles.
The phone numbers of residents mentioned in articles can be
found in the Regency Directory.
Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.
The Editorial Board
The Senior Sensations
Wants You!!
Our Troupe - dancers from G/W, Regency, Stonebridge, and
the surrounding Monroe area, is always growing and
looking for talent.
Our last performance, “Dancin’ through the USA” received a
standing ovation and rave reviews.
We’ve had jugglers and twirlers added to our singers and
dancers to enhance our performance throughout the years.
If you have special talent and have the desire to perform with a
great group of women…
Contact Bunny Feigenbaum (609) 395-8174
Harmony in
Motion 2020
Calendar
We are hoping to be able to
hold these events
· Saturday, August 22,
2020 - Summer White
Party
· Saturday, October 31,
2020 - A Halloween
Party
· Saturday, December 5,
2020 - Membership
Party free event
The weather is still unpredict-
able with wild windy days, lots
of rain, and all of a sudden a
blast of sunshine the next day,
which is what I call “dog
weather,” that makes them feel
feisty and happier than when
the temperature rises and be-
comes more uncomfortable for
your canine companion. Dogs
perspire by panting and through
the pads of their feet. A note of
caution – your dog is having a
great time running after that
ball, but heat exhaustion sets in
(Continued from page 17) quickly, so don’t wait for their
tongue to hang out. Giving your
canine companion time to rest
between fun-time will prevent
your having to rush them to the
emergency animal hospital.
When out-and-about, always
have water available for them.
Now is a good time to go over
your pet’s list of vaccinations to
be sure they’re up-to-date, and
very important is the Bordatella
vaccination to prevent Kennel
Cough, which is very contagious
to other dogs. In the meantime,
stay safe, stay healthy.
The Pet Corner
By Doug Poye
The pandemic continues to
affect the future operation of
our schools through a reduction
of state aid and a delay of any
referendum to provide badly
needed classrooms come Sep-
tember. My May article re-
ported that the Board budget for
the next school year would re-
ceive $7,039,000 in aid from the
state; however, the state, faced
with reduced revenues as a re-
sult of the pandemic, notified
Monroe that it was reducing the
aid to $6,239,000. Counter to
what some residents projected,
this reduction in aid will not
result in a larger tax increase
than originally established when
the budget was adopted back in
April . The approximate
$800,000 reduction will be han-
dled by several actions. The
four classroom trailers, which
were to be installed at the high
school over the summer, will be
deferred. The savings is
$630,000, which was the initial
cost of leasing the trailers as
well as the cost of their installa-
tion. The administration, in con-
sultation with the high school
principal, decided on this action
even though it meant that the
over-crowded building would
have to go another year with
even more students. The alter-
native would have been to cut
programs and/or instructional
staff. Another $100,000 will be
eliminated by deferring any
referendum to build additional
classroom spaces until the sum-
mer of 2021.
At its May meeting the Board
listened to a presentation by
Superintendent Alvich in which
she outlined three plans de-
signed to alleviate the over-
crowding in at least three of the
schools in the district: the high
school, the middle school, and
one elementary school. A meet-
ing of the Building, Grounds
and Transportation Committee
on June 1 made it apparent that
the Board would need more
time to look at various options
on how, when, and where to
construct additional classrooms.
Not knowing what changes in
the operations of the schools
may occur in the coming year,
the economic situation within
the town, and whether the pro-
jected number of students over
the next five years will occur if
families delay moving into
Monroe, the delay in a referen-
dum may well be the best route
to take at this time. The remain-
der of cuts needed to make up
for the loss of state aid will
come from the elimination of
two new non-instructional posi-
tions, which the administration
felt could be handled with cur-
rent staffing.
The conduct of one or more
Board members came under
attack at its monthly meeting on
June 10. It was reported that the
confidentiality of the Board’s
closed sessions had been vio-
lated based on evidence avail-
able on social media. Sessions
are “closed” and occur near the
end of a regular monthly meet-
ing whenever the topics involve
students, staff, administrators,
or potential contracts. Members
are prohibited from divulging
discussions until such can be
disclosed to the public by the
Board president. Several mem-
bers expressed their dismay
over the breach of confidential-
ity and called for an investiga-
tion by an independent attorney.
The Board voted unanimously
to authorize the investigation. A
second issue concerning the
conduct of Board member Peter
Tufano was aired by at least
five members of the public who
called into the virtual meeting
during the Board’s second public
session. The callers made refer-
ence to demeaning statements
that Tufano allegedly posted on
social media. One caller men-
tioned that a petition seeking Tu-
fano’s removal from the Board
had garnered over 2500 signa-
tures within a matter of a few
days. Reports on this issue have
appeared on nj.com (June 10) as
well as in the Star Ledger (June
11). The petition drive began with
alumni of the high school.
This article is written by a
former member of the Board of
Education and has not been
written at the request of the
Board. It is provided for infor-
mational purposes to the mem-
bers of this community.
Pandemic Alters Future Planning for Our Schools;
Board Members’ Conduct Questioned
By Steven Brody
Modified Start to
2020 Tennis Season
Due to COVID-19 the Re-
gency Tennis season was put on
hold, as were all other activities.
The courts were finally opened
the week before the Memorial
holiday weekend. In order to
open, strict guidelines were im-
plemented which included open-
ing only three of the six courts. In
addition, no night time play was
allowed. The good from this was
the courts were finally opened.
Because of COVID-19 and the
stay at home guidance that we
had been living under since early
March, it was a much needed
outdoor activity. I have nothing
against walking and bike riding
(if you have a bike), but those
activities were getting old. For
those of us who enjoy tennis it
was a great new activity to add to
our daily “what to do today.” The
last two weeks of May and the
first two weeks of June saw terri-
fic weather for morning games.
Some afternoons did get too hot
to safely play, although I did per-
sonally play on a number of those
days. It’s been a lot of fun playing
and getting much needed exer-
cise. It is great seeing people
playing singles matches as well as
doubles being played. Hopefully
by mid-June night time play will
be allowed and all six courts will
be available.
For those tennis players who
are new to Regency and are
looking to get some games in
we have something called
“Drop in Tennis.” Bud Ratner
organizes these games. They
run Monday through Friday at
9:30 a.m. If you are interested
and want to join in, there is an
app ca l led TeamReach.
Download it and look for mem-
ber Drop in Tennis. Or just
come by the courts and ask one
of us about it. A number of peo-
ple have asked me about col-
lecting club dues and setting up
organized events as we had
done in previous years. As of
now I am not collecting any
dues as I do not know what to
expect in terms of gatherings of
people either outdoors or in-
doors. Many times, in the past
the Tennis Club would run an
event on a Saturday or Sunday
then have a catered meal after-
wards either in the Pavilion or
in the Clubhouse. If the social
distancing guidelines are further
relaxed as the season pro-
gresses, I’ll try to put some
events together.
For now though get out on the
courts, knock the ball around,
play the game you’re most com-
fortable with, and most impor-
tantly get exercise.
REGENCY SPORTS
On the Tennis Courts
REGENCY REPORTER JULY 2020 – PAGE 19
The Golf
World
Handicap
System
By Jason Pulsinelli,
PGA Professional
The World Handicap Sys-
tem was introduced in January
2020. There are five important
changes that you should be
aware of. The handicap index
calculation is changing. In the
past it was based off your 10
best scores of your past 20.
Now it is you best eight of
your past 20 scores. You will
have a playing handicap. The
formula of slope rating and
now course rating and par will
be used to determine your
playing handicap, allowing
players to compete from dif-
ferent tees more easily. Net
double bogey will replace eq-
uitable stroke control. Net
bogey, the maximum hole
score for handicap purposes,
will be limited to net double
bogey (par+2+any handicap
stokes you receive). You will
have more responsive handi-
cap index updates. Your
handicap index will update the
day after your score. On days
you don’t submit a score the
system will not update your
handicap. The system will
account for abnormal playing
conditions, limit extreme up-
ward movement of handicap
index, and reduce a handicap
index when an exceptional
score is posted. For more in-
formation on the World
Handicap System please visit
usga.org/whs.
Photos above by Golf Pro Jason Pulsinelli
By Ron and Susan Kane
Editor’s Note: The authors
report that at the time of this
trip and even to when the article
was written, COVID-19 had not
reached this faraway part of
Brazil; in early May, it finally
reached Manaus and is having
a terrible impact on an unpre-
pared population.
We returned from a three
week cruise aboard the Viking
Sea on March 12, just in time to
see the country shut down be-
cause of COVID-19. Our trip
featured a thousand mile cruise
up the Amazon River to Manaus
where the Amazon River meets
the Rio Negro at the “meeting
of the waters.” The meeting
point is obvious as the Rio Ne-
gro water is black and the Ama-
zon is muddy brown with float-
ing islands of green jungle de-
bris atop the water. The two
rivers take miles to mix, with
the Amazon eventually over-
coming its major tributary, not
unlike the meeting of the Mis-
souri and Mississippi near St.
Louis. But the one major differ-
ence is the amount of water and
width of the Amazon system
compared to all others in the
world - seven times greater than
the next largest river system.
There were times along the way
that it seemed we were on a lake
with the river banks so far
away.
When we reached Manaus - a
city of two million people in the
middle of the Amazon region,
we took a pre-arranged private
tour with two other couples. We
had chosen a tour with a fluent
English-speaking guide in this
Portuguese language country;
the guide we got was far better
than we could have hoped for.
The tour included a boat ride up
the Rio Negro, a visit to an in-
digenous tribe, a trek into the
Amazon jungle, and a lunch.
While our boat did have seven
passengers, we were booked for
more than a three hour tour so
there was no expectation we
would wind up as castaways on
Gilligan’s Island or similar. The
boat was not the most fashion-
able one but it stayed afloat and
moved well enough for the hour
it took to reach our stop at the
“village” to meet the indigenous
tribe. On the way there, we
passed under the only bridge in
the Amazon region (over the
Rio Negro) and chugged along
before pulling into a sandy flat
area next to the village. The
village had three thatched roof
huts - two dwellings and a tribal
meeting hall.
Cruise ship tours don’t visit
this village, but our guide knew
the members of the tribe and
had permission to show up un-
announced with guests. A senior
male of the tribe, dressed only
in shorts (no footwear) and with
facial markings of some signifi-
cance, greeted us and was to be
our jungle guide. We also met
tribal children and women, all
dressed or undressed depend-
ing on perspective as the
Maidenform idea had not yet
reached the female members
of this group. Being topless is
apparently a unisex concept
here. But we noticed a small
satellite dish on a tree near
one of the dwellings and later
the tribal members were eas-
ily able to make change in
US dollars for any of the
“showroom wares” (hand-
made musical instruments of
sorts) in the meeting hut.
Capitalism and international
commerce had reached even
this primitive outpost.
The native guide led us on
a mile-long trek via a narrow
path from the village directly
into the primary jungle, clearing
the way with a machete and
pointing out various plant spe-
cies useful in combating any
number of nasty diseases and
conditions. The six Americans
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Indigenous tribe jungle trek guide
Indigenous tribal women with the instruments we bought for our
grandsons.
Ron Kane and guide for the day at
the floating restaurant along an
Amazon tributary. Photos by Susan Kane
An Adventure in the Amazon
Congratulations Monroe Township
High School Class of 2020
By Dr. Dori Alvich,
Superintendent of Schools
I know that this year did not
end the way the Class of 2020 or
the district thought it would. This
class of students missed out on
some milestones that others be-
fore them have enjoyed. But as a
district and a community, we
invented new ways to celebrate
our amazing class. Some of the
events planned are included here.
On June 24, we celebrated our
graduating class with a virtual
graduation. This is available for
viewing on our website - https://
w w w . m o n r o e . k 1 2 . n j . u s /
Domain/113
The virtual celebration was
followed by a wave parade and a
township-wide Graduate Sound
Off. A group of parents began a
Facebook campaign for “Adopt-a
-Senior.” Members of the com-
munity adopted a senior via the
Facebook page and communi-
cated with them to send care
packages for the end of the year.
Our senior spring athletes deco-
rated our fences in front of the
high school with their sports
memories. And we are currently
planning a Zero Year reunion for
fall 2020.
I am proud to share with you
the future plans of our graduating
seniors, which include prestigious
college acceptances, military as-
signments, and new members of
our work force. Please see the list
of colleges/universities that our
students are attending in the fall.
Please join me in celebrating our
AMAZING Class of 2020!
American University, Auburn
University, Berkeley College-
Woodbridge Location, Berklee
College of Music, Binghamton
University, Bloomsburg Univer-
sity of Pennsylvania, Boston Col-
lege, Boston University, Brook-
dale Comm. College, Cabrini
University, Cal Poly, San Luis
Obispo, Carnegie Mellon Univer-
sity, Catholic University of
America, Clemson University,
Cornell University, Delaware
Valley University, DePaul Uni-
versity, Drew University, Drexel
University, East Stroudsburg
University of Pennsylvania,
Elizabethtown College, Elon Uni-
versity, Fashion Institute of Tech-
nology, Florida Atlantic Univer-
sity, Florida Institute of Technol-
ogy, Georgetown University,
Georgia Institute of Technology-
Main Campus, High Point Uni-
versity, Ithaca College, Jackson-
ville University, James Madison
U n i v e r s i t y , J e f f e r s o n
(Philadelphia U and Thomas Jef-
ferson U), Kean University, Kent
State University, Kutztown Uni-
versity, Lycoming College.
Also, Manhattan College,
Maryland Institute College of Art,
Mercer County Comm. College,
Middlesex Comm. College, Mid-
dlesex County College, Mon-
mouth University, Montclair
State University, Moravian Col-
lege, Morgan State University,
Muhlenberg College, New Jersey
Institute of Technology, New
York University, Northeastern
University, Nova Southeastern
University, Ohio University-Main
Campus, Oklahoma State Univer-
sity-Main Campus, Pace Univer-
sity-New York, Pennsylvania
State University, Pitzer College,
Princeton University, Providence
College, Purdue University-Main
Campus, Queen’s University,
Ramapo College of New Jersey,
Rider University, Rowan Univer-
sity, Russell Sage College, Rut-
gers University - Camden/ New
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JULY 2020 – PAGE 20 REGENCY REPORTER
in the group were, of course,
wearing long sleeves, long
pants, hats and heavy footwear,
and were fortified with anti-
malarial medication to avoid
infections from mosquito bites.
The native guide, barefoot and
only in shorts, stopped at one
tree, disturbed a small ant col-
ony (getting his hands full of
ants) and then rubbed his hands
together to produce a crushed
ant salve that is used to ward off
mosquitoes. Other plants could
be used to ward off other ail-
ments. We kept thinking that
they must get sick all the time if
they needed so many native
remedies.
We then re-boarded our boat
and entered a small tributary off
the Rio Negro and saw the re-
mains of a huge hotel and vaca-
tion complex, now almost com-
pletely taken over by the jungle.
The complex was once host to
many wealthy Americans seek-
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The Clubhouse is equipped
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· Fitness Studio
· Gym
The Tennis Pavilion and
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There is one (1) located in the
Tennis Pavilion on the wall by
the kitchen. The other is lo-
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the middle courts.
We also have one (1) at the
outdoor pool and one (1) at
the pickleball courts.
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Adventure in the Amazon
ing a unique adventure; it was
also the base of operations for
the filming of the movie Ana-
conda. By moving along the
side channels, we were finally
able to get close enough to the
banks to see some of the beauti-
ful birds and interesting wildlife
of the region, including caimans
(the South American version of
the alligator) and fleeting
glimpses of pink river dolphins.
After that we were taken to
lunch in a quiet area off the
main river that had several
floating restaurants. Our restau-
rant host had caught a very
large Amazon River fish (very
similar to white fish) and served
that with regional vegetables,
concoctions and various drinks.
If the lunch wasn’t enjoyable
enough, our host brought us
over to a small dock area and
asked us to lightly slap the wa-
ter with our hands. Sure enough,
two pink (yes, they are really
pink) dolphins showed up to
show off, so to speak, and spent
time with us - looking for hand-
outs but also just being playful
like most dolphins.
We took another hour to get
back to the Viking Sea to enjoy
the evening on board, where we
heard our well-traveled and
extremely talented cruise direc-
tor tell his audience that he has
done this trip twenty-three times
and has yet to see a pink dol-
phin except after drinking too
much. We thank the Regency
Reporter for allowing us to
share this (just barely) pre-
COVID-19 adventure and hope
everyone stays safe and well.
The Monroe Township Public
Library now offers appointment
-based, contactless curbside
pickup service to Monroe
Township Library cardholders.
Hours of service will be Mon-
day, Wednesday and Friday from
11 am to 3 pm and Tuesday and
Thursday from 3 pm to 7 pm.
Request your items online or
over the phone. Please have
your library card number handy.
Once your items become
available you will be notified by
the preference associated with
your library card - either email,
automated call or text message.
You must then schedule an ap-
pointment for pickup.
When you arrive at your
scheduled appointment time,
please park in the designated
curbside pickup area. Call or
text the phone number listed on
the sign for further instructions.
Remain in your vehicle and pop
open your trunk so that staff
may safely place your items into
the trunk. Walk-up service is
also an option when scheduling
an appointment for pickup of
library materials.
Find answers to frequently
asked questions on our website
at www.monroetwplibrary.org/
curbside
The book drop at the Library
is open. All Library materials,
including books, movies, music,
Wi-Fi hotspots, and any other
Library materials must be
placed in the book drop slots
Monroe Township Public Library to Offer
Appointment-based Curbside Pickup Service
The elusive pink dolphin of the
Amazon
Brunswick/ Newark.
Also, Saint Joseph’s Univer-
sity, Seton Hall University, Shen-
andoah University, Stevens Insti-
tute of Technology, Stockton
University, SUNY Maritime Col-
lege, Susquehanna University,
Temple University, Texas A&M
University, The College of New
Jersey, The Ohio State Univer-
sity, The University of Alabama,
The University of Scranton, The
University of Tennessee-
Knoxville, Towson University,
Tulane University of Louisiana,
United States Military Academy
West Point, University at Albany,
SUNY, University of Central
Florida, University of Delaware,
University of Florida, University
of Hartford, University of Mary
Washington, University of Mary-
land-Baltimore County, Univer-
sity of Maryland-College Park,
University of Massachusetts-
Lowell, University of New Ha-
ven, University of New Orleans,
University of Pittsburgh-
Pittsburgh Campus, University of
Rhode Island, University of
Southern California, University of
the Sciences, Ursinus College,
Villanova University, Virginia
Tech, Washington University in
St Louis, West Chester University
of Pennsylvania, West Virginia
University, Widener University,
William and Mary, York College
of Pennsylvania.
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near the Library’s Drive Thru
window. Book drops at both the
Senior Center and Community
Rec Center remain closed at this
time. All returned materials will
be quarantined and unavailable
for at least 72 hours after return.
Due dates on materials checked
out prior to March 14 were ex-
tended to July 1. Overdue fines
have been temporarily waived.
We are unable to accept do-
nations at this time. Please do
not drop off any donations at
the library, or place donations
into the book drop.
Under the guidance of the
Governor’s Executive Order,
the library building remains
closed to the public. The lobby,
restrooms, computers and all
other spaces will be inaccessible
until further notice.
Class of 2020
Please observe all
STOP signs in the
community
for everyone’s
safety!
Thank you!
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