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Volume 4 Issue 16 April 20th - April 26th, 2012 INSIDE Horoscopes … .. Ask Nellie … … ... Crossword … … .. Sudoku … … … … Cryptograms ..... Classifieds… … .. Recipe… … … … . Pg 2 Pg 3 Pg 4 Pg 5 Pg 5 Pg 6 Pg 8 Scan me! Use your smart phone or tablet to scan this QR code! Isabelle Rochas shares some of her joy in gardening and the secret to finding peace and relaxation through growing healthy food. You can read about Isabelle’ s gar- dens on page 7. Local Food, Local Value Your weekly horoscope has moved! This week brings a few changes to the layout of The Highland Heart but all your old favorites can still be found inside! Your Horoscope is on page 2 and we’ ve made even more space for articles! Horoscope Inside & More These days it is 'trendy' to buy sec- ond hand or to otherwise re-use/ recycle, but when I a little girl it was just common sense and fun, like treasure hunting. Today parents and grandparents bring their kids to the dollar store to stretch their allowance dollars, but growing up in Calgary, my par- ents brought me to flea markets. In those days, flea markets were a treasure trove of beloved objects that people were able to part with, or sometimes 'dealers' who loved nothing better than picking up treasures cheaply and re-selling them. I remember walking through a permanent flea-market ware- house, thinking, these people must love what they do, because they are basically sitting around a grungy warehouse all weekend. Now a days, the markets are full of vendors selling new wares that they have picked up for a steal some- where, some of the magic has gone. In my youth, flea markets were great opportunities to turn your old stuff into cash. When I was 12 years old, my mother and I rented a table at a flea market, (since I be- lieved that I was 'grown up' and that it was time to sell my treas- ured dolls and toys). My favorite doll 'Thumbelina' was sold (with I am sure with a tear in my mothers eye). It was 14 years later, while at a yard sale, that I was able to pick one up and it became the favorite doll for my little daughter Beth (see photo). My mother and grandmother loved shopping in the old (6th avenue) district of Calgary which at the time was full of second hand shops (it is now a cool, artsy shopping district, which is fun in its own way). I loved those trips, rooting around the shops, looking for a piece of cloth- ing, maybe even a pig figurine for my collection (also sold at the flea market). The bonding experience was magical and the lessons learned valuable, as my grand- mother is an expert 'treasure hunter.' Fast forward to my days in Edmon- ton as a young mother. I will never forget the abundance of yard sales and how I dragged my little boy Adam (only 2-3) around from sale to sale on Fridays. He was a sweet, quiet little boy and I fondly remem- ber that one time we were in a crowded garage and I heard his little voice pipe up from below, ..'scuse me”as he tried to maneu- ver through the crowd. That is a memory I will treasure forever, amongst the other many treasures that I picked up and still have from those yard sale days. I have always had a love for dolls and toys (and still do). It turned out that during my yard sale travels I was accumulating quite a stash of collectable toys. One year I decided to rent a table at a large antique show in Edmonton, and had a great time finding homes for my treas- ures. Sometimes I was selling to another dealer, but just as often, I was talking to someone who just wanted to relive their childhood and reconnect with a lost toy (much like my Thumbelina). Not only was the experience fun, but I got to turn my purchases into cash and go buy something that is now proudly displayed in my store downtown (an antique child-size clothes wringer). I have been back in Nova Scotia going on 13 years and have added to my collections either through auctions, antique stores, flea mar- kets, yard sales or shows (plus the odd sewing collectable purchased on Ebay). A few weeks ago I was in Halifax second hand shopping and found all sorts of 'goodies'. A stoneware set of plates (18 in all and not made in China), a watercolour print, a huge pile of summer reading, a beautiful wooden lamp that just needs a simple shade, shoes, spring shirt and a 'new' designer purse. To sum up, nothing beats owning a piece of history or giving an object a second life. How cool is it, that my life long love for treasure hunt- ing has turned into something 'trendy' that will help our planet. By Kim Braun, Harbour Quilt Company LIFE OF A 'SECOND HAND'JUNKIE
Transcript

Volume 4 Issue 16 April 20th - April 26th, 2012

INS

IDE Horoscopes … ..

Ask Nellie … … ...Crossword … … ..Sudoku … … … …Cryptograms .....Classifieds… … ..Recipe… … … … .

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Isabelle Rochas shares some of her joy ingardening and the secret to finding peaceand relaxation through growing healthyfood. You can read about Isabelle’s gar-dens on page 7.

Local Food, Local Value

Your weekly horoscope has moved! Thisweek brings a few changes to the layoutof The Highland Heart but all your oldfavorites can still be found inside! YourHoroscope is on page 2 and we’ve madeeven more space for articles!

Horoscope Inside & More

These days it is 'trendy' to buy sec-

ond hand or to otherwise re-use/

recycle, but when I a little girl it was

just common sense and fun, like

treasure hunting.

Today parents and grandparents

bring their kids to the dollar store

to stretch their allowance dollars,

but growing up in Calgary, my par-

ents brought me to flea markets. In

those days, flea markets were a

treasure trove of beloved objects

that people were able to part with,

or sometimes 'dealers' who loved

nothing better than picking up

treasures cheaply and re-selling

them. I remember walking through

a permanent flea-market ware-

house, thinking, these people must

love what they do, because they

are basically sitting around a

grungy warehouse all weekend.

Now a days, the markets are full of

vendors selling new wares that they

have picked up for a steal some-

where, some of the magic has

gone.

In my youth, flea markets were

great opportunities to turn your

old stuff into cash. When I was 12

years old, my mother and I rented a

table at a flea market, (since I be-

lieved that I was 'grown up' and

that it was time to sell my treas-

ured dolls and toys). My favorite

doll 'Thumbelina' was sold (with I

am sure with a tear in my mothers

eye). It was 14 years later, while at a

yard sale, that I was able to pick

one up and it became the favorite

doll for my little daughter Beth (see

photo).

My mother and grandmother loved

shopping in the old (6th avenue)

district of Calgary which at the time

was full of second hand shops (it is

now a cool, artsy shopping district,

which is fun in its own way). I loved

those trips, rooting around the

shops, looking for a piece of cloth-

ing, maybe even a pig figurine for

my collection (also sold at the flea

market). The bonding experience

was magical and the lessons

learned valuable, as my grand-

mother is an expert 'treasure

hunter.'

Fast forward to my days in Edmon-

ton as a young mother. I will never

forget the abundance of yard sales

and how I dragged my little boy

Adam (only 2-3) around from sale

to sale on Fridays. He was a sweet,

quiet little boy and I fondly remem-

ber that one time we were in a

crowded garage and I heard his

little voice pipe up from below,

“..'scuse me”as he tried to maneu-

ver through the crowd. That is a

memory I will treasure forever,

amongst the other many treasures

that I picked up and still have from

those yard sale days.

I have always had a love for dolls

and toys (and still do). It turned out

that during my yard sale travels I

was accumulating quite a stash of

collectable toys. One year I decided

to rent a table at a large antique

show in Edmonton, and had a great

time finding homes for my treas-

ures. Sometimes I was selling to

another dealer, but just as often, I

was talking to someone who just

wanted to relive their childhood

and reconnect with a lost toy

(much like my Thumbelina). Not

only was the experience fun, but I

got to turn my purchases into cash

and go buy something that is now

proudly displayed in my store

downtown (an antique child-size

clothes wringer).

I have been back in Nova Scotia

going on 13 years and have added

to my collections either through

auctions, antique stores, flea mar-

kets, yard sales or shows (plus the

odd sewing collectable purchased

on Ebay).

A few weeks ago I was in Halifax

second hand shopping and found

all sorts of 'goodies'. A stoneware

set of plates (18 in all and not

made in China), a watercolour print,

a huge pile of summer reading, a

beautiful wooden lamp that just

needs a simple shade, shoes, spring

shirt and a 'new' designer purse.

To sum up, nothing beats owning a

piece of history or giving an object

a second life. How cool is it, that

my life long love for treasure hunt-

ing has turned into something

'trendy' that will help our planet.

By Kim Braun, Harbour Quilt Company

LIFE OF A 'SECOND HAND' JUNKIE

Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb 18)

It is important to realize when tothrow in the towel. Some thingsare just not worth your time, effortand money. Move on!

Pisces (Feb 19-Mar 20)

Don’t allow experiences from thepast cloud your judgement andlead you to rash decisions. Thinkcarefully before reacting.

Aries (Mar 21-Apr 19)

Don’t settle for a stream whenyou can have the ocean. Allgoals can be reached with hardwork and dedication.

Taurus (Apr 20-May 20)

You can learn from your mistakesif you take the time to admit them.Everyone will benefit, includingyourself.

Gemini (May 21-Jun 20)

A friend will be in need but tooproud to ask for help. Pay atten-tion to all the clues and be sup-portive.

Cancer (Jun 21-Jul 22)

Push away those winter blues bystarting new projects. Get outwalking, gardening or sprucing upyour place.

Leo (Jul 23-Aug 22)

Now is not the time to investenergy and emotions into newprojects or relationships. You’llbe disappointed in the end. Wait.

Virgo (Aug 23-Sep 22)

It may be tempting to overspendthis week. Try to concentrate onneeds and not the wants or you’llregret your financial decisions.

Scorpio (Oct 23-Nov 21)

It may feel like nobody recog-nizes your hard work at school,home or the office. They do.Keep up the good work for greatrewards.

Sagittarius (Nov 22-Dec 21)

Don’t get overwhelmed with extraresponsibilities this week withwork or school. Stay organized,positive and don’t procrastinate.

Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan 19)

It is probably best not to ask forthe truth if you are not preparedto hear it. Let things settle for aweek or so before enquiring.

Libra (Sep 23-Oct 22)

Keeping up an appearance willcause you more tears than ac-cepting reality. Friends will ac-cept ‘you’for being you.

Submitted by Susan Butts

JENNIFER’S RUN

The inau-

g u r a l

“Jennifer’s

Run” will

be held

Saturday

April 28th

in Port

H a wkes -

bury in memory of Jennifer

Butts who passed away June

22nd 2010. Jennifer was diag-

nosed with Hodgkins Lym-

phoma eight years ago. After

many years of chemo, radiation

and two bone marrow trans-

plants, Jennifer was free of can-

cer, but the treatments affected

her lungs and she required a

lung transplant. Jennifer passed

away before she was able to

receive the lung transplant.

All proceeds from the 5k walk

or run will go to Cathy’s Place

Cancer Resource Room at St.

Martha’s Hospital assisting pa-

tients in the Guysborough Anti-

gonish Strait Health Authority

who are undergoing cancer

treatment. All the Cancer Re-

source Centre Funds go directly

to patients and families that

have financial need.

Registration starts at 8:00 The 5

k walk/run will start at 9:00 from

the Strait Area Community Club,

15 MacQuarrie Drive Extension,

Port Hawkesbury.

For more information: Susan

Butts 625-2017 or soo-

[email protected]

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YOUR WEEKLY HOROSCOPE

Nellie,

I really like your section in The Highland Heart. You are funny sometimes and always

seem sincere. I have a problem. I am 16 years old and found out this morning I was preg-

nant. I saw your paper in the hospital cafeteria and thought why not, maybe Nellie could

help me! I am really scared to tell my parents. My father is going to kill me. I am a very

good student and I know I will be embarrassed to go to school. I am not old enough nor

have the money and ability to look after a baby. I am scared to ask my Doctor this be-

cause she knows my parents very well, do you know if I am old enough to have an abor-

tion without my parents' permission? Can I give up the baby or could my parents force

me to have it and keep it? Nellie, I am so worried. Please help me as soon as you can. I

feel like I have nobody to talk too.

Your fan, S.L.

Dear S.L,

I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Teenage pregnancy can be very scary

especially if you feel like you have nobody to talk to. I was not exactly sure how to answer

your question. I wanted to give you the best advice I could. In doing that I called The

Termination of Pregnancy Unit in Halifax (902-473-7072) and asked for some information

for you. Firstly, there is no legal age of consent to have an abortion in Nova Scotia. This

means that if a girl understands the situation she is in and is aware of the consequences of

the medical procedure, she can consent to a therapeutic abortion. The first step is to see

a family physician and talk to them. They will then make a referral to the TPU in Halifax.

The Provincial Health Plan in NS covers the cost of abortions at hospitals up to 15+ weeks

based on ultrasound results. Therefore you should make your appointment to speak with

your physician as soon as possible, if this is the route that you chose. Legally, your par-

ents can not force you to either carry the child nor can anyone force you to abort the

pregnancy. It is your decision. The lady at the TPU did say to feel free to call anytime if

you had any questions.

( continued on page 7)

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Age: 16Favourite Food: SteakPet Peeve: Bread crumbs in a jar of peanut butterFavourite TV Show: The ListenerHobbies: Playing music for large crowds

From East Havre Boucher, Julie is a talented musician who

currently plays several instruments including the fiddle, guitar,

piano, trumpet and banjo among others. Julie enjoys playing

music for large crowds and the joy that comes with getting peo-

ple off their feet and dancing. A member of the Cape Breton

Fiddle Association, music is a large part of Julie’s life and writ-

ing music has become a favourite pastime.

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partner violence is impacting our communities.

Naomi Society is here to provide free and confiden-

tial support for individuals who experience family

and intimate partner violence.

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When: Tuesday April 24/20126:30pm - 9pm

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What is Fracking? Public Info.

A public information session.

April 25th, 7-830pm @ People’s Place

Info on hydraulic fracturing - "fracking" -

and other unconventional forms of natural

gas exploration and extraction.

Residential and small business

Specializing in residents and businesses

I offer a full house cleaning or basic

I use all green cleaners

15 years experience

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Comedy Night with Ryan Belleville

April 26 @ 8pm

Bauer Theatre, St. FX

Festival Antigonish’s first ever comedy

night! Headliner Ryan Belleville and opener

Julie Kim. Tickets on sale now!

Adult Dance Feat. "John Drakes"

April 21 9pm - 1am

St. Andrews District Community Centre

Guests & Members Welcome

Admission $8 / person

For more info: (902) 863-9222

50% off winter stockNew items arriving daily!

RABBITS TO GIVE AWAY

Mixed breed rabbits to give away to good

homes. They'll make great pets!

Contact James at 863-0293

1997 FORD MUSTANG FOR SALE

1997 Ford Mustang, V6, automatic

The car has never been driven in the

winter. 100,000 km

$5000.00 OBO

Contact 870-3327 for details

10% off all Momzelle &glamourmom

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2nd Annual Fit4Lit run

Sunday, April 22nd 9am - 5pm

St. FX Oland’s Stadium

Proceeds to benefit ACALA

For more info: www.fit4lit.ca

863-3060 or [email protected]

FRESH FARM EGGS FOR SALE

free range kids selling free range eggs!

$3.00 / dozen

Contact 870-3777

MUSICIANS! SINGERS! BANDS!

Looking to showcase your talent?

ACALA TV streams live music every Friday

Email [email protected] for details

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Opportunity for Young Artists

Old Barn Gallery & Decor in Pomquet is

spacious. We have a wall for the art of

local children and young people. Please

call Carol at 386-2304 - or email at

[email protected]

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My intent in this article is to

contribute to the awareness of

our food choice; to raise ques-

tions, make us think about the

things that we see every day but

never really think about.

It is said that plant are harvesters

of light. From the scientific point

of view, the process of harvest-

ing the light that creates matter

is called photosynthesis. In

more alternative circles we hear

about the practice of people

feeding from Light energy. In,

yet more alternative form of

thinking, it is thought that the

destruction of our land and food

vitality, by today’s practices, is

another process to awake hu-

man ability to feed from light-

energy by elimination of the

need of plant and animal matter.

We are more and more often

becoming aware of the environ-

ment in which plant photosyn-

thesis takes place is as important

as the soil environment itself.

Just as we have learned that our

body is not only affected by

what we eat but what we think,

we have also observed that

plants are affected by their envi-

ronment; including the ’health’

of the environment in which

they grow. So if the growing

environment is an environment

of indifference, poorly cared for

and full of destructive thoughts

and constantly worked at in a

hurry to get it done - the ques-

tion is: how much this is trans-

ferred into the plant, and there-

fore the food we eat?

This past winter I met a person

who farmed a family land by

simply reading the instruction on

fertilizer bags. In complete con-

trast to that person, in February,

Dr Shiva Vandana was in Anti-

gonish. She is a world-known

advocate for world-wide fair

farming practices. She talked

about small scale farming being

a knowledge based, because a

small-scale farmer main task is

to feed the soil workers (worms,

fungus, balance of life soil) and

the pollinators, the bees, insects!

Another question is - which form

of thinking do you want your

farmer to follow, working by rote

and instruction or contributing

to an environment that creates

the ideal environment for

growth and health?

The farmers, vegetables produc-

ers, home and backyard garden-

ers are our local food supplies, in

our county they are small scale

but generate a tremendous

source of valuable, trustworthy

and healthy produce right in our

own backyard. The people I have

met, farm with a deep connec-

tion with the land. They are in

harmony with themselves, and

with the natural world. When

they are doing their work, they

would mostly hold thoughts of

harmony and dedication for the

land. Myself, for example, I am

in awe of how positive my work-

place is - being in the garden,

amazed by the beauty I am sur-

rounded by, and all the potential

I contribute to. I am overjoyed

when in my garden a place de-

void of worries and stress, a

place where my energy is always

flowing, I see myself as an in-

strument to creation that is be-

yond my own personality. To

me, gardening is a celebration,

of life, of the land. I am grateful

for the chance to contribute to

the earth and humanity in a way

that generates peace and health.

To conclude our time together

of pausing and thinking about

the choices we make in food

sources, I have two more

thoughts.

Let think about our connection

to the land. There is a value that

guides my actions: What you

give energy to, you strengthen.

If I give energy to the food that

is grown on the land I live on, I

strengthen the vitality of the

land and the food I grow.

By eating carefully grown food,

tended lovingly and raised as

part of the community, you not

only strengthen yourself but

those who share in the bounty

you create.

By Isabelle Rochas, Lafrayere Gardens Vegetable Shares

LOCAL FOOD, LOCAL VALUE

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page at www.facebook.com/VegetableShareFromLafrayereGardens

Isabelle, hard at work in her garden - and loving every minute of it.

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No Bake Cherry Balls

½ cup butter1 ½ cups coconut1 ½ cups icing sugar1 Tbsp canned milk1 tsp almond extractGraham wafer crumbs1 small bottle of cherries

Submitted by Cathy Jones (via www.thehighlandheart.ca)

Cream together first 5 ingredients. Take enough dough to cover 1 cherry. Roll in crumbsuntil covered. Chill and serve.

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Continued from page 3

ADVICE FROM NELLIE

Now, after that being said, I

have to share a story with you.

A very, very close friend of

mine got pregnant when she

was 19 years old. She was in

university and was the apple

of her father’s eye. She was

scared to death to tell her

parents and ended up having

an abortion with nobody by

her side, not even the father

of the baby knew she was

pregnant. Like any medical

procedure, there are always

risks and she was told by the

physician that the procedure

may result in her not being

able to carry a child to term

again. She went ahead with

the abortion and to this day

has been unable to have chil-

dren. She regrets both the

decision to have the abortion

and to not have spoken with

her parents. I would hate for

you to go through something

similar to what my friend went

through.

My personal advice to you

would be to sit your parents

down and tell them the truth.

I can promise you, your father

is not going to kill you. He

will be hurt and disappointed.

Most likely will yell like a mad

man, but he will not kill you!

Let them know what you want

to do. Listen to their advice.

Something they say may

make sense to you and you

may choose a different op-

tion. There is always adoption

to think about. Remember in

the end, YOU and YOU alone

have to not only make the

decision but live with it. You

owe it to yourself to hear all

possible solutions and that

means listening to what your

parents have to say.

You felt you were mature

enough to get involved in a

sexual relationship now you

have to be mature enough to

deal with those consequences.

You can handle anything

thrown your way as long as

you know your options. Be

strong and know there are

people to help you regardless

of your final decision.

Best of luck to you S.L

Your friend, Nellie

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