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Serves and Celebrates the Chesapeake Bay Region and its People, Past, Present and Future CHESAPEAKE Volume XX Issue 2 October 2016 PRICELESS www.chesapeakestyle.com © Style
Serves and Celebrates the Chesapeake Bay Region and its People Past Present and Future
CHESAPEAKEVolume XX Issue 2 October 2016
PRICELESSwwwchesapeakestylecom
copy
Style
2 October 2016
Fast Times on the Rivers
About the cover~
Editor Publisher Chief Cook amp Bottle Washer
Janet Abbott FastWriters amp Photographers
Corinne Becker Mari Bonomi Carol J Bova Kathey Brodtman Joy B Burch Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III Saraya Cheney Ellen Dugan Jean Duggan Ann Eichenmuller
RuthE Forrest George Frayne Susan Grandpre Bill Graves Deborah Jaouen Martha M Hall Melissa
Haydon Gwen Keane Spike Knuth Don Loop Joanne Nelson Kenny
Park Aaliyah Plummer Jalynn Plummer Alexis Rose Powell Bill Powell Chelly Scala Marie Stone
Charlene Talcott Becky Vess Heather Woolard Diana Wise
Ad Sales DistributionCarol J Bova Betty Bridgeman Susan Christopher Lee Conley
Deborah Figg Bill Graves Martha Hall Florine Headley Karen Jett
Nancy Shelley Marie Stone ProofreaderMarie Stone
Ad Composition Graphics LayoutJanet Abbott Fast Deborah Figg
The mission of Chesapeake Style is to serve and celebrate the
Chesapeake Bay Region and its people past present and future Letters to the editor are welcome
The editor reserves the right to edit all submissions for clarity
lousy spelling or any other reason that strikes her fancy Chesapeake Style is a priceless
circulation magazine published eight times a year by Chesapeake
Bay Marketing To have it delivered for one year please send your name
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Angela Dawson a Sweet Briar graduate is professional portrait and nature photographer born and raised in the good olrsquo Northern Neck of Virginia Her studio is based in Heathsville and she serves many areas throughout Virginia She is available to travel throughout Virginia DC Maryland and North Carolina areas offering a broad range of photography services from Wedding events portraits to retailproduct photography
Visit Milestones amp Memories Photography on Facebook for more information
About the image One fall afternoon I captured this beautiful Bairdrsquos sparrow sitting on an unused hay rake at our farm just as the sun was setting I love to go exploring and photograph what nature has to offer
Settings Nikon D610 f 56 1150 ISO 100 at 500mm spot meteredAthena plans to be a
human for HalloweenJoy Brenda Burch photo
I grew up in Lakeside when todayrsquos Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden was a thought germinating in someonersquos mind When I first came back to Virginia I attended jazz concerts and went with my son and his family to several events over the years
They started the Butterflies Alive exhibit two years ago and Irsquove wanted to see it Since my balance isnrsquot what it used to be I needed someone to drive me to the door My son and two youngest grandchildren came Labor Day weekend and off we went It was slow going but we made it Once inside I was enthralled with all the activity and colors
The children soon tired of it and they went with my son to explore more garden mysteries The exhibit area was hot and humid mists came and went to keep the climate favorable for the butterflies I was enthralled and took many photos But I was unable to capture photos of the ones with the beautiful blue wings except when they were at rest wings folded The underside of their wings is brown
Disappointed I took a photo of the descritption of themmdashCommon Morpho 5-8rdquo wingspan has tympanal ears on its wings called Vogalrsquos organs Most butterflies are deaf Range Mexico to Columbia Note underside is brown Later as we were ready to leave I met two young girls from Essex County and they did have photos of the butterfly and were happy to share them with me via Instagram I briefly met their mom before my son and grandchildren were impatient for me to get in the car to come home
My mind began to percolate The girls were local students and had more photos of the butterflies I wanted to put them on our Students in Style page but how to find them Their Instagram accounts were private and I am new to this app so like a detective I began to sleuth I knew their last name found their mom on Facebook noted we had several friends in commonEarlier this week we connected and mom gave her permission to publish the photos Aaliyah and Jalynn photos of the blue butterfly appear on page 4 Between their photo is a picture of the same butterflies feeding brown wings at rest
We believe that studentsrsquo creativity needs to be celebrated and shared We encourage and welcome students from elementary grades through college to share photos art work essays poetry and we will include your
work in our Students in Style section For more information go to wwwChesapeakeStylecom and click on Students in Style
4 October 2016
Encouraging Student Artists Photographers Writers
Students in
copy Style
Aaliyah Plummer photos She is a Freshman at Essex High School
Essex High School and Essex Intermediate School
Above Jalynn Plummer photo She is in sixth grade at Essex Intermediate School
October 2016 5
By Gwen Keane
Itrsquos been three years since Fe a Flat Coated Retriever was adopted by my friend She came with the name Phoebe but within a few short
minutes I named her Fe the Iron Maiden Fe was to be a companion for my friendrsquos dog Crackerjack who had lost his best dog friend several months earlier My friend received a call from Lab Rescue that they had the perfect dog for her Fe had been picked up while running with a Beagle and was in foster care
So early one Saturday morning we put Crackerjack in my van along with a crate for Fe and off to Richmond we went The foster Mom was so welcoming and reassured us Fe would be a great companion for both Crackerjack and Nancy We introduced the two dogs neither who really showed any interest in each other But the decision was made and we put the dogs in the van When Crackerjack realized this girl was coming home with us he protested by jumping in the crate Fe jumped up on the back seat where she rode during the entire trip
At home we spent the first twenty four hours
trying to help Fe feel loved and wanted But Fe had been a street dog fending for herself most of her life She had rope burn scars on her stomach and part of one ear had been chopped off Why should she believe
she was safe Treme our Lab was the welcomer in our home Fe seemed to be entertained by our puppy Carter Leersquos non stop energy but she wasnrsquot going to take orders from our big Northern Neck Black Dog Olav whom she blew off Watching the dogs interact with other canines and cats is not only entertaining but educating Sometimes we really donrsquot get it but if left to the animals they will show us the way
Fe spends a lot of time visiting with us since her Momrsquos job requires travel Fe doesnrsquot understand why her Mom goes to work She has literally chewed up three metal door knobs convinced if she could get on the other side shersquod find her Mom Nancy It took a while for Fe and Crackerjack to work out their relationship but it happened Crackerjack helped Fe adjust and
often gave in to her pushy ways Over the years Fe has tested my
stamina too At my house she jumps gates and stands on the other side just looking at me as if to say ldquobecause I can I dordquo I have taken her to the vet to get nails clipped and have been called back to pick up the Iron Lady because she was stronger than one vet and two vet techs not allowing her feet to be touched She has been exiled from two groomers whom she wouldnrsquot allow to bathe her And most recently when she injured a dewclaw after two calming pills and three injections it still took a vet three vet techs and her owner to keep her down while treating the injury Yes she is truly an Iron Lady
But then there are those moments when she sleeps next to you gently takes a treat from your hand or softly licks the back of your leg as you walk past her Sometimes she will retreat to a place where she can be by herself but after a while she comes back to socialize with everyone She is such an intelligent dog who has suffered both physical and emotional abuse yet she still loves
The journey with Fe continues Recently she spent three weeks with us and she was the perfect house guest We understand the rulesmdashspeak softly no
loud noises no quick moves and stay with the routine Fe doesnrsquot like change She lost her buddy Crackerjack in March and now has become even more attached to her owner But at our house she is content happy and feels safe while enjoying the company of her canine friends Treme and Carter LeePhoto of Fe by Gwen Keane
DowningsConsignment Shop
1074 Historyland Highway Farnham Vadowningsconsignmentshopgmailcom
804-466-1912
HOURSTues-Thurs 10-7 Fri-Sat 10-5 Sun 11-4
Spa 2 UMobile Therapeutic Massage
RuthE Forrest BA NCBTMB804-453-5367
Offices InKilmarnock amp Warsaw
One of Lifersquos Moments~Fe the Other Side of Rescue
6 October 2016
By Joanne Nelson
Customers come from all over the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula to Beatley Custom Cabinets It is
by reputation of their craftsmanship referrals and word of mouthmdashand their ad in Chesapeake Stylemdashthat folks come to Beatley Cabinets
All kinds of cabinetry and shelves are designed built and finished at Beatley Custom Cabinets Kitchen cabinets are the number one product but Beatleys also
constructs islands vanities bookcases entertainment centers and office file cabinets ldquoQuality is Our Businessrdquo is their motto This quality is represented by the beauty and strength of the product and that the cabinets are made on premises by individuals working for Beatley Cabinets
Daniel Akers Jr is the owner and manager He bought the business in 2014 from Tommy Beatley the original owner Daniel is quick to give Tommy credit for teaching him all that he knows about cabinet building Tommy started the company in 1986 and built the present building in 1998
Tommy still works part time at the company and is available as a mentor to teach what he has learned through his years of experience
Daniel said that he works with many contractors as well as home and business owners One customer who moved away but wanted to be assured of quality work in their cabinets lives in Manakin-Sabot
When you contact him for your project Daniel will come to your home or office take measurements
and discuss your needs and what you have in mind A general plan is established as well as specific details you may want to include for the function of an individual cabinet Kitchen cabinet choices include a lazy susan shelf a trash pull out a spice pull out corner cabinet or utensil drawer
Once the home consultation is complete Daniel returns to his office and designs a plan using a computer design program that produces a model with multiple outline views as well as 3-D images that show how the cabinets will look in the space This helps the customer to visualize their finished cabinets Once this drawing is completed the customer reviews it and makes choices for their cabinets Samples of cabinet faces finishes and hardware are in the office There are also books that a customer may use to choose the look for their cabinets
Next the cabinets are built The inside is made of veneered plywood and the faces are made from hardwood No particle wood is used The pieces are cut sanded and assembled The drawers are on an undermount soft close track made by Grass These tracks give the drawers their gliding effect and are quiet and heavy duty The most popular finish for kitchen cabinets is paint but an array of stains are available as well Daniel said that the stain finishes seem to be easier to maintain as a ding is often less noticeable then on a painted surface Lastly the hardware is added
The cabinet shop is divided into work sections representing the flow of work from planning to building to loading for delivery The shop includes a supplies area a work shop area a finishing area a paint
booth and a room to place completed pieces that are ready to install There is a bay opening for loading the truck with items for delivery The property is large with plenty of room for deliveries parking and loading
Folks who work at Beatley Cabinets do the cutting sanding piecing the cabinets shelves and drawers together painting and staining and mounting the hardware
including drawer tracks and pulls and cabinet handles and knobs Tommy Beatleyrsquos wife Tami works in the office Damon Tim Tyler and Frankie all help in the shop
Daniel is a family man with a wife and two young daughters with one just starting school and the other who is 15 months He gives to the community through Little League via the Youth Club of Lancaster County and is a supporter of Kilmarnock Museum and fire department events
If you have a cabinetry or shelving project in mind call Daniel at 804- 435-2709 or email dtbeatleycabinetscom to get your cabinetry job started Beatley Cabinets is located at 1281 Goodluck Road just outside KilmarnockJoanne Nelson photos of Daniel Akers Jr (top L) and Frankie Cooke
Style Spotlight~Quality Work at Beatley Custom Cabinets
October 2016 7
By Carl ldquoSpikerdquo Knuth
The kestrel often called the sparrow hawk is our smallest falcon Itrsquos about 11 inches long and has the narrow
pointed wings typical of a falcon An old world name for it is ldquowindhoverrdquo
and for good reason Kestrels hunt over open lands and when they spot prey usually in the form of a meadow vole or other rodent it goes to the spot and hovers over it
Often facing into a stiff winter wind theyrsquoll beat their wings furiously looking down into the field or median strip maintaining a steady position until ready to strike Then suddenly it swoops down pouncing on the little rodent in the grass carrying it in its talons to the top of a post pole wires or barren tree to eat Occasionally it misses
and comes up with a fistful of grass In summer they will also feed on lizards small snakes and crickets dragon flies locusts and especially large grasshoppers Another of its names is grasshopper hawk
The male is cinnamon on its back
barred with black and its wings are blue It has a bluish crown and nape which encloses a patch of chestnut atop its head The female is all cinnamon red on its back and wings It has a white throat and cheeks with a vertical black marking below its eyes probably to cut glaremdashlike a
football player with charcoal or lampblack under his eyes or whatever they use nowadays sometimes patches Yoursquoll notice that the topside of aircraft around the cockpit are painted with a flat black for the same reason
Kestrels are cavity nesters preferring open lands nearby nesting in rotting trees or poles but they will nest in man made nesting boxes Young kestrels are unique in that at a young age they resemble the adults in color and color patterns Kestrels breed commonly in Virginia but are more commonly seen in late fall and winter on
Eastern Shore Northern Neck and Virginia Beachmdashthe Coastal Plains areas Look for them on wires atop poles posts or small treesOriginal art by Spike Knuth
Spikersquos Wildlife Almanac~The Kestrel
Reedville Fishermens Museum
WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONSInterested Have a boat with clear title that you wish to donate Please contact Clif Ames via RFM 804-453-6529
Boats for Sale~List is subject to change
1979 Chrysler Buccaneer 18 foot sail boat roller furl jib brand new
spinnaker and 1984 Highlander trailer Asking $1500
1989 19rsquo 7rdquo Maxum Cutty Cabin 125 HP Force OB and 2004
LoadRite trailer Asking $3500
2002 25rsquo 10rdquo MacGregor Sail Boat w 50 HP Honda OB and trailer Excellent condition Asking $11500
8 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
Wi-Fi Pavilion with Grillswwwbaymotelvirginiacom 804-220-2027
By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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October 2016 9
Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
Open Monday through Saturday867 Fleeton Road Reedville
(804) 453-4462Plant Sales and Landscaping
Boxcroft Inc Nursery amp Landscaping
25 Off AllIn Stock Plants
By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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Java Jacks Cafeacute
504 S Church LaneTappahannock
804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
V i s i t u s a t w e s t m o r e l a n d b e r r y f a r m c o m
Win a Westmoreland Berry Farmt-shirt and $7500 Pick-Your-Own
gi card (and much more) atour FARMFEST rae (ee to
enter) e drawing will be held on October 22nd
Visit us at the farm to enterf o r m o r e d e t a i l s a b o u t o u r F A R M F E S T e v e n t
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October 2016 11
A wonderful place for womenrsquos jewelry fashion and accessories
Merrell ldquoMust Haverdquo boots
Exclusive Merrell Retailer in the Northern Neck amp Middle Peninsula
Open Weekends | Call for Hours15170 Northumberland Highway (the Red Store on Route 360)
Burgess Virginia | 804-453-4553
Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
Certified Gluten PractitionerdoTERRA Essential Oils Educator
wwwkimdiazwellnesscomnourishkimdiazwellnesscom Call 804-577-0300
Contact me to schedule an Initial Health Coaching Consultation over the phone or in person at the Northern Neck Family YMCA or
at my New Office in Kilmarnock at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2
wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
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By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
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By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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The Steamboat Restaurant is available for every special function you are planning
Our professional staff can cater to your every need From birthday parties to weddings holiday parties to family reunions
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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Janet Abbott FastWriters amp Photographers
Corinne Becker Mari Bonomi Carol J Bova Kathey Brodtman Joy B Burch Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III Saraya Cheney Ellen Dugan Jean Duggan Ann Eichenmuller
RuthE Forrest George Frayne Susan Grandpre Bill Graves Deborah Jaouen Martha M Hall Melissa
Haydon Gwen Keane Spike Knuth Don Loop Joanne Nelson Kenny
Park Aaliyah Plummer Jalynn Plummer Alexis Rose Powell Bill Powell Chelly Scala Marie Stone
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Angela Dawson a Sweet Briar graduate is professional portrait and nature photographer born and raised in the good olrsquo Northern Neck of Virginia Her studio is based in Heathsville and she serves many areas throughout Virginia She is available to travel throughout Virginia DC Maryland and North Carolina areas offering a broad range of photography services from Wedding events portraits to retailproduct photography
Visit Milestones amp Memories Photography on Facebook for more information
About the image One fall afternoon I captured this beautiful Bairdrsquos sparrow sitting on an unused hay rake at our farm just as the sun was setting I love to go exploring and photograph what nature has to offer
Settings Nikon D610 f 56 1150 ISO 100 at 500mm spot meteredAthena plans to be a
human for HalloweenJoy Brenda Burch photo
I grew up in Lakeside when todayrsquos Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden was a thought germinating in someonersquos mind When I first came back to Virginia I attended jazz concerts and went with my son and his family to several events over the years
They started the Butterflies Alive exhibit two years ago and Irsquove wanted to see it Since my balance isnrsquot what it used to be I needed someone to drive me to the door My son and two youngest grandchildren came Labor Day weekend and off we went It was slow going but we made it Once inside I was enthralled with all the activity and colors
The children soon tired of it and they went with my son to explore more garden mysteries The exhibit area was hot and humid mists came and went to keep the climate favorable for the butterflies I was enthralled and took many photos But I was unable to capture photos of the ones with the beautiful blue wings except when they were at rest wings folded The underside of their wings is brown
Disappointed I took a photo of the descritption of themmdashCommon Morpho 5-8rdquo wingspan has tympanal ears on its wings called Vogalrsquos organs Most butterflies are deaf Range Mexico to Columbia Note underside is brown Later as we were ready to leave I met two young girls from Essex County and they did have photos of the butterfly and were happy to share them with me via Instagram I briefly met their mom before my son and grandchildren were impatient for me to get in the car to come home
My mind began to percolate The girls were local students and had more photos of the butterflies I wanted to put them on our Students in Style page but how to find them Their Instagram accounts were private and I am new to this app so like a detective I began to sleuth I knew their last name found their mom on Facebook noted we had several friends in commonEarlier this week we connected and mom gave her permission to publish the photos Aaliyah and Jalynn photos of the blue butterfly appear on page 4 Between their photo is a picture of the same butterflies feeding brown wings at rest
We believe that studentsrsquo creativity needs to be celebrated and shared We encourage and welcome students from elementary grades through college to share photos art work essays poetry and we will include your
work in our Students in Style section For more information go to wwwChesapeakeStylecom and click on Students in Style
4 October 2016
Encouraging Student Artists Photographers Writers
Students in
copy Style
Aaliyah Plummer photos She is a Freshman at Essex High School
Essex High School and Essex Intermediate School
Above Jalynn Plummer photo She is in sixth grade at Essex Intermediate School
October 2016 5
By Gwen Keane
Itrsquos been three years since Fe a Flat Coated Retriever was adopted by my friend She came with the name Phoebe but within a few short
minutes I named her Fe the Iron Maiden Fe was to be a companion for my friendrsquos dog Crackerjack who had lost his best dog friend several months earlier My friend received a call from Lab Rescue that they had the perfect dog for her Fe had been picked up while running with a Beagle and was in foster care
So early one Saturday morning we put Crackerjack in my van along with a crate for Fe and off to Richmond we went The foster Mom was so welcoming and reassured us Fe would be a great companion for both Crackerjack and Nancy We introduced the two dogs neither who really showed any interest in each other But the decision was made and we put the dogs in the van When Crackerjack realized this girl was coming home with us he protested by jumping in the crate Fe jumped up on the back seat where she rode during the entire trip
At home we spent the first twenty four hours
trying to help Fe feel loved and wanted But Fe had been a street dog fending for herself most of her life She had rope burn scars on her stomach and part of one ear had been chopped off Why should she believe
she was safe Treme our Lab was the welcomer in our home Fe seemed to be entertained by our puppy Carter Leersquos non stop energy but she wasnrsquot going to take orders from our big Northern Neck Black Dog Olav whom she blew off Watching the dogs interact with other canines and cats is not only entertaining but educating Sometimes we really donrsquot get it but if left to the animals they will show us the way
Fe spends a lot of time visiting with us since her Momrsquos job requires travel Fe doesnrsquot understand why her Mom goes to work She has literally chewed up three metal door knobs convinced if she could get on the other side shersquod find her Mom Nancy It took a while for Fe and Crackerjack to work out their relationship but it happened Crackerjack helped Fe adjust and
often gave in to her pushy ways Over the years Fe has tested my
stamina too At my house she jumps gates and stands on the other side just looking at me as if to say ldquobecause I can I dordquo I have taken her to the vet to get nails clipped and have been called back to pick up the Iron Lady because she was stronger than one vet and two vet techs not allowing her feet to be touched She has been exiled from two groomers whom she wouldnrsquot allow to bathe her And most recently when she injured a dewclaw after two calming pills and three injections it still took a vet three vet techs and her owner to keep her down while treating the injury Yes she is truly an Iron Lady
But then there are those moments when she sleeps next to you gently takes a treat from your hand or softly licks the back of your leg as you walk past her Sometimes she will retreat to a place where she can be by herself but after a while she comes back to socialize with everyone She is such an intelligent dog who has suffered both physical and emotional abuse yet she still loves
The journey with Fe continues Recently she spent three weeks with us and she was the perfect house guest We understand the rulesmdashspeak softly no
loud noises no quick moves and stay with the routine Fe doesnrsquot like change She lost her buddy Crackerjack in March and now has become even more attached to her owner But at our house she is content happy and feels safe while enjoying the company of her canine friends Treme and Carter LeePhoto of Fe by Gwen Keane
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6 October 2016
By Joanne Nelson
Customers come from all over the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula to Beatley Custom Cabinets It is
by reputation of their craftsmanship referrals and word of mouthmdashand their ad in Chesapeake Stylemdashthat folks come to Beatley Cabinets
All kinds of cabinetry and shelves are designed built and finished at Beatley Custom Cabinets Kitchen cabinets are the number one product but Beatleys also
constructs islands vanities bookcases entertainment centers and office file cabinets ldquoQuality is Our Businessrdquo is their motto This quality is represented by the beauty and strength of the product and that the cabinets are made on premises by individuals working for Beatley Cabinets
Daniel Akers Jr is the owner and manager He bought the business in 2014 from Tommy Beatley the original owner Daniel is quick to give Tommy credit for teaching him all that he knows about cabinet building Tommy started the company in 1986 and built the present building in 1998
Tommy still works part time at the company and is available as a mentor to teach what he has learned through his years of experience
Daniel said that he works with many contractors as well as home and business owners One customer who moved away but wanted to be assured of quality work in their cabinets lives in Manakin-Sabot
When you contact him for your project Daniel will come to your home or office take measurements
and discuss your needs and what you have in mind A general plan is established as well as specific details you may want to include for the function of an individual cabinet Kitchen cabinet choices include a lazy susan shelf a trash pull out a spice pull out corner cabinet or utensil drawer
Once the home consultation is complete Daniel returns to his office and designs a plan using a computer design program that produces a model with multiple outline views as well as 3-D images that show how the cabinets will look in the space This helps the customer to visualize their finished cabinets Once this drawing is completed the customer reviews it and makes choices for their cabinets Samples of cabinet faces finishes and hardware are in the office There are also books that a customer may use to choose the look for their cabinets
Next the cabinets are built The inside is made of veneered plywood and the faces are made from hardwood No particle wood is used The pieces are cut sanded and assembled The drawers are on an undermount soft close track made by Grass These tracks give the drawers their gliding effect and are quiet and heavy duty The most popular finish for kitchen cabinets is paint but an array of stains are available as well Daniel said that the stain finishes seem to be easier to maintain as a ding is often less noticeable then on a painted surface Lastly the hardware is added
The cabinet shop is divided into work sections representing the flow of work from planning to building to loading for delivery The shop includes a supplies area a work shop area a finishing area a paint
booth and a room to place completed pieces that are ready to install There is a bay opening for loading the truck with items for delivery The property is large with plenty of room for deliveries parking and loading
Folks who work at Beatley Cabinets do the cutting sanding piecing the cabinets shelves and drawers together painting and staining and mounting the hardware
including drawer tracks and pulls and cabinet handles and knobs Tommy Beatleyrsquos wife Tami works in the office Damon Tim Tyler and Frankie all help in the shop
Daniel is a family man with a wife and two young daughters with one just starting school and the other who is 15 months He gives to the community through Little League via the Youth Club of Lancaster County and is a supporter of Kilmarnock Museum and fire department events
If you have a cabinetry or shelving project in mind call Daniel at 804- 435-2709 or email dtbeatleycabinetscom to get your cabinetry job started Beatley Cabinets is located at 1281 Goodluck Road just outside KilmarnockJoanne Nelson photos of Daniel Akers Jr (top L) and Frankie Cooke
Style Spotlight~Quality Work at Beatley Custom Cabinets
October 2016 7
By Carl ldquoSpikerdquo Knuth
The kestrel often called the sparrow hawk is our smallest falcon Itrsquos about 11 inches long and has the narrow
pointed wings typical of a falcon An old world name for it is ldquowindhoverrdquo
and for good reason Kestrels hunt over open lands and when they spot prey usually in the form of a meadow vole or other rodent it goes to the spot and hovers over it
Often facing into a stiff winter wind theyrsquoll beat their wings furiously looking down into the field or median strip maintaining a steady position until ready to strike Then suddenly it swoops down pouncing on the little rodent in the grass carrying it in its talons to the top of a post pole wires or barren tree to eat Occasionally it misses
and comes up with a fistful of grass In summer they will also feed on lizards small snakes and crickets dragon flies locusts and especially large grasshoppers Another of its names is grasshopper hawk
The male is cinnamon on its back
barred with black and its wings are blue It has a bluish crown and nape which encloses a patch of chestnut atop its head The female is all cinnamon red on its back and wings It has a white throat and cheeks with a vertical black marking below its eyes probably to cut glaremdashlike a
football player with charcoal or lampblack under his eyes or whatever they use nowadays sometimes patches Yoursquoll notice that the topside of aircraft around the cockpit are painted with a flat black for the same reason
Kestrels are cavity nesters preferring open lands nearby nesting in rotting trees or poles but they will nest in man made nesting boxes Young kestrels are unique in that at a young age they resemble the adults in color and color patterns Kestrels breed commonly in Virginia but are more commonly seen in late fall and winter on
Eastern Shore Northern Neck and Virginia Beachmdashthe Coastal Plains areas Look for them on wires atop poles posts or small treesOriginal art by Spike Knuth
Spikersquos Wildlife Almanac~The Kestrel
Reedville Fishermens Museum
WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONSInterested Have a boat with clear title that you wish to donate Please contact Clif Ames via RFM 804-453-6529
Boats for Sale~List is subject to change
1979 Chrysler Buccaneer 18 foot sail boat roller furl jib brand new
spinnaker and 1984 Highlander trailer Asking $1500
1989 19rsquo 7rdquo Maxum Cutty Cabin 125 HP Force OB and 2004
LoadRite trailer Asking $3500
2002 25rsquo 10rdquo MacGregor Sail Boat w 50 HP Honda OB and trailer Excellent condition Asking $11500
8 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
Wi-Fi Pavilion with Grillswwwbaymotelvirginiacom 804-220-2027
By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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October 2016 9
Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
Open Monday through Saturday867 Fleeton Road Reedville
(804) 453-4462Plant Sales and Landscaping
Boxcroft Inc Nursery amp Landscaping
25 Off AllIn Stock Plants
By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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504 S Church LaneTappahannock
804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
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October 2016 11
A wonderful place for womenrsquos jewelry fashion and accessories
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
Certified Gluten PractitionerdoTERRA Essential Oils Educator
wwwkimdiazwellnesscomnourishkimdiazwellnesscom Call 804-577-0300
Contact me to schedule an Initial Health Coaching Consultation over the phone or in person at the Northern Neck Family YMCA or
at my New Office in Kilmarnock at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2
wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
wwwstudiomontrosscom
By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
Mathews Comes to Gloucester
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The Villas at Farnham
511 Cedar Grove RoadFarnham VA 22460
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
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Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
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October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
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804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
Big Daddyrsquos Smoked BBQwith signature sauce
Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
Homemade Side Dishes amp Desserts
12 Linden Avenue Cobbs Creek
Cobbs Creek Diner
Dine In or Carry Out
725-9300
Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
Transformation
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We Specialize in Top Quality Marine and Boating Products to Make Your Boat Look Great804-529-7652 or 804-761-0202 Cell
Before
During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
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Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
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Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
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Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
4 October 2016
Encouraging Student Artists Photographers Writers
Students in
copy Style
Aaliyah Plummer photos She is a Freshman at Essex High School
Essex High School and Essex Intermediate School
Above Jalynn Plummer photo She is in sixth grade at Essex Intermediate School
October 2016 5
By Gwen Keane
Itrsquos been three years since Fe a Flat Coated Retriever was adopted by my friend She came with the name Phoebe but within a few short
minutes I named her Fe the Iron Maiden Fe was to be a companion for my friendrsquos dog Crackerjack who had lost his best dog friend several months earlier My friend received a call from Lab Rescue that they had the perfect dog for her Fe had been picked up while running with a Beagle and was in foster care
So early one Saturday morning we put Crackerjack in my van along with a crate for Fe and off to Richmond we went The foster Mom was so welcoming and reassured us Fe would be a great companion for both Crackerjack and Nancy We introduced the two dogs neither who really showed any interest in each other But the decision was made and we put the dogs in the van When Crackerjack realized this girl was coming home with us he protested by jumping in the crate Fe jumped up on the back seat where she rode during the entire trip
At home we spent the first twenty four hours
trying to help Fe feel loved and wanted But Fe had been a street dog fending for herself most of her life She had rope burn scars on her stomach and part of one ear had been chopped off Why should she believe
she was safe Treme our Lab was the welcomer in our home Fe seemed to be entertained by our puppy Carter Leersquos non stop energy but she wasnrsquot going to take orders from our big Northern Neck Black Dog Olav whom she blew off Watching the dogs interact with other canines and cats is not only entertaining but educating Sometimes we really donrsquot get it but if left to the animals they will show us the way
Fe spends a lot of time visiting with us since her Momrsquos job requires travel Fe doesnrsquot understand why her Mom goes to work She has literally chewed up three metal door knobs convinced if she could get on the other side shersquod find her Mom Nancy It took a while for Fe and Crackerjack to work out their relationship but it happened Crackerjack helped Fe adjust and
often gave in to her pushy ways Over the years Fe has tested my
stamina too At my house she jumps gates and stands on the other side just looking at me as if to say ldquobecause I can I dordquo I have taken her to the vet to get nails clipped and have been called back to pick up the Iron Lady because she was stronger than one vet and two vet techs not allowing her feet to be touched She has been exiled from two groomers whom she wouldnrsquot allow to bathe her And most recently when she injured a dewclaw after two calming pills and three injections it still took a vet three vet techs and her owner to keep her down while treating the injury Yes she is truly an Iron Lady
But then there are those moments when she sleeps next to you gently takes a treat from your hand or softly licks the back of your leg as you walk past her Sometimes she will retreat to a place where she can be by herself but after a while she comes back to socialize with everyone She is such an intelligent dog who has suffered both physical and emotional abuse yet she still loves
The journey with Fe continues Recently she spent three weeks with us and she was the perfect house guest We understand the rulesmdashspeak softly no
loud noises no quick moves and stay with the routine Fe doesnrsquot like change She lost her buddy Crackerjack in March and now has become even more attached to her owner But at our house she is content happy and feels safe while enjoying the company of her canine friends Treme and Carter LeePhoto of Fe by Gwen Keane
DowningsConsignment Shop
1074 Historyland Highway Farnham Vadowningsconsignmentshopgmailcom
804-466-1912
HOURSTues-Thurs 10-7 Fri-Sat 10-5 Sun 11-4
Spa 2 UMobile Therapeutic Massage
RuthE Forrest BA NCBTMB804-453-5367
Offices InKilmarnock amp Warsaw
One of Lifersquos Moments~Fe the Other Side of Rescue
6 October 2016
By Joanne Nelson
Customers come from all over the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula to Beatley Custom Cabinets It is
by reputation of their craftsmanship referrals and word of mouthmdashand their ad in Chesapeake Stylemdashthat folks come to Beatley Cabinets
All kinds of cabinetry and shelves are designed built and finished at Beatley Custom Cabinets Kitchen cabinets are the number one product but Beatleys also
constructs islands vanities bookcases entertainment centers and office file cabinets ldquoQuality is Our Businessrdquo is their motto This quality is represented by the beauty and strength of the product and that the cabinets are made on premises by individuals working for Beatley Cabinets
Daniel Akers Jr is the owner and manager He bought the business in 2014 from Tommy Beatley the original owner Daniel is quick to give Tommy credit for teaching him all that he knows about cabinet building Tommy started the company in 1986 and built the present building in 1998
Tommy still works part time at the company and is available as a mentor to teach what he has learned through his years of experience
Daniel said that he works with many contractors as well as home and business owners One customer who moved away but wanted to be assured of quality work in their cabinets lives in Manakin-Sabot
When you contact him for your project Daniel will come to your home or office take measurements
and discuss your needs and what you have in mind A general plan is established as well as specific details you may want to include for the function of an individual cabinet Kitchen cabinet choices include a lazy susan shelf a trash pull out a spice pull out corner cabinet or utensil drawer
Once the home consultation is complete Daniel returns to his office and designs a plan using a computer design program that produces a model with multiple outline views as well as 3-D images that show how the cabinets will look in the space This helps the customer to visualize their finished cabinets Once this drawing is completed the customer reviews it and makes choices for their cabinets Samples of cabinet faces finishes and hardware are in the office There are also books that a customer may use to choose the look for their cabinets
Next the cabinets are built The inside is made of veneered plywood and the faces are made from hardwood No particle wood is used The pieces are cut sanded and assembled The drawers are on an undermount soft close track made by Grass These tracks give the drawers their gliding effect and are quiet and heavy duty The most popular finish for kitchen cabinets is paint but an array of stains are available as well Daniel said that the stain finishes seem to be easier to maintain as a ding is often less noticeable then on a painted surface Lastly the hardware is added
The cabinet shop is divided into work sections representing the flow of work from planning to building to loading for delivery The shop includes a supplies area a work shop area a finishing area a paint
booth and a room to place completed pieces that are ready to install There is a bay opening for loading the truck with items for delivery The property is large with plenty of room for deliveries parking and loading
Folks who work at Beatley Cabinets do the cutting sanding piecing the cabinets shelves and drawers together painting and staining and mounting the hardware
including drawer tracks and pulls and cabinet handles and knobs Tommy Beatleyrsquos wife Tami works in the office Damon Tim Tyler and Frankie all help in the shop
Daniel is a family man with a wife and two young daughters with one just starting school and the other who is 15 months He gives to the community through Little League via the Youth Club of Lancaster County and is a supporter of Kilmarnock Museum and fire department events
If you have a cabinetry or shelving project in mind call Daniel at 804- 435-2709 or email dtbeatleycabinetscom to get your cabinetry job started Beatley Cabinets is located at 1281 Goodluck Road just outside KilmarnockJoanne Nelson photos of Daniel Akers Jr (top L) and Frankie Cooke
Style Spotlight~Quality Work at Beatley Custom Cabinets
October 2016 7
By Carl ldquoSpikerdquo Knuth
The kestrel often called the sparrow hawk is our smallest falcon Itrsquos about 11 inches long and has the narrow
pointed wings typical of a falcon An old world name for it is ldquowindhoverrdquo
and for good reason Kestrels hunt over open lands and when they spot prey usually in the form of a meadow vole or other rodent it goes to the spot and hovers over it
Often facing into a stiff winter wind theyrsquoll beat their wings furiously looking down into the field or median strip maintaining a steady position until ready to strike Then suddenly it swoops down pouncing on the little rodent in the grass carrying it in its talons to the top of a post pole wires or barren tree to eat Occasionally it misses
and comes up with a fistful of grass In summer they will also feed on lizards small snakes and crickets dragon flies locusts and especially large grasshoppers Another of its names is grasshopper hawk
The male is cinnamon on its back
barred with black and its wings are blue It has a bluish crown and nape which encloses a patch of chestnut atop its head The female is all cinnamon red on its back and wings It has a white throat and cheeks with a vertical black marking below its eyes probably to cut glaremdashlike a
football player with charcoal or lampblack under his eyes or whatever they use nowadays sometimes patches Yoursquoll notice that the topside of aircraft around the cockpit are painted with a flat black for the same reason
Kestrels are cavity nesters preferring open lands nearby nesting in rotting trees or poles but they will nest in man made nesting boxes Young kestrels are unique in that at a young age they resemble the adults in color and color patterns Kestrels breed commonly in Virginia but are more commonly seen in late fall and winter on
Eastern Shore Northern Neck and Virginia Beachmdashthe Coastal Plains areas Look for them on wires atop poles posts or small treesOriginal art by Spike Knuth
Spikersquos Wildlife Almanac~The Kestrel
Reedville Fishermens Museum
WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONSInterested Have a boat with clear title that you wish to donate Please contact Clif Ames via RFM 804-453-6529
Boats for Sale~List is subject to change
1979 Chrysler Buccaneer 18 foot sail boat roller furl jib brand new
spinnaker and 1984 Highlander trailer Asking $1500
1989 19rsquo 7rdquo Maxum Cutty Cabin 125 HP Force OB and 2004
LoadRite trailer Asking $3500
2002 25rsquo 10rdquo MacGregor Sail Boat w 50 HP Honda OB and trailer Excellent condition Asking $11500
8 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
Wi-Fi Pavilion with Grillswwwbaymotelvirginiacom 804-220-2027
By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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24 Court Street Mathews Va Wed-Thurs-Fri-Sat - 1030 am - 300 pm
October 2016 9
Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
Open Monday through Saturday867 Fleeton Road Reedville
(804) 453-4462Plant Sales and Landscaping
Boxcroft Inc Nursery amp Landscaping
25 Off AllIn Stock Plants
By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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Java Jacks Cafeacute
504 S Church LaneTappahannock
804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
V i s i t u s a t w e s t m o r e l a n d b e r r y f a r m c o m
Win a Westmoreland Berry Farmt-shirt and $7500 Pick-Your-Own
gi card (and much more) atour FARMFEST rae (ee to
enter) e drawing will be held on October 22nd
Visit us at the farm to enterf o r m o r e d e t a i l s a b o u t o u r F A R M F E S T e v e n t
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
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Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
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By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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October 2016 5
By Gwen Keane
Itrsquos been three years since Fe a Flat Coated Retriever was adopted by my friend She came with the name Phoebe but within a few short
minutes I named her Fe the Iron Maiden Fe was to be a companion for my friendrsquos dog Crackerjack who had lost his best dog friend several months earlier My friend received a call from Lab Rescue that they had the perfect dog for her Fe had been picked up while running with a Beagle and was in foster care
So early one Saturday morning we put Crackerjack in my van along with a crate for Fe and off to Richmond we went The foster Mom was so welcoming and reassured us Fe would be a great companion for both Crackerjack and Nancy We introduced the two dogs neither who really showed any interest in each other But the decision was made and we put the dogs in the van When Crackerjack realized this girl was coming home with us he protested by jumping in the crate Fe jumped up on the back seat where she rode during the entire trip
At home we spent the first twenty four hours
trying to help Fe feel loved and wanted But Fe had been a street dog fending for herself most of her life She had rope burn scars on her stomach and part of one ear had been chopped off Why should she believe
she was safe Treme our Lab was the welcomer in our home Fe seemed to be entertained by our puppy Carter Leersquos non stop energy but she wasnrsquot going to take orders from our big Northern Neck Black Dog Olav whom she blew off Watching the dogs interact with other canines and cats is not only entertaining but educating Sometimes we really donrsquot get it but if left to the animals they will show us the way
Fe spends a lot of time visiting with us since her Momrsquos job requires travel Fe doesnrsquot understand why her Mom goes to work She has literally chewed up three metal door knobs convinced if she could get on the other side shersquod find her Mom Nancy It took a while for Fe and Crackerjack to work out their relationship but it happened Crackerjack helped Fe adjust and
often gave in to her pushy ways Over the years Fe has tested my
stamina too At my house she jumps gates and stands on the other side just looking at me as if to say ldquobecause I can I dordquo I have taken her to the vet to get nails clipped and have been called back to pick up the Iron Lady because she was stronger than one vet and two vet techs not allowing her feet to be touched She has been exiled from two groomers whom she wouldnrsquot allow to bathe her And most recently when she injured a dewclaw after two calming pills and three injections it still took a vet three vet techs and her owner to keep her down while treating the injury Yes she is truly an Iron Lady
But then there are those moments when she sleeps next to you gently takes a treat from your hand or softly licks the back of your leg as you walk past her Sometimes she will retreat to a place where she can be by herself but after a while she comes back to socialize with everyone She is such an intelligent dog who has suffered both physical and emotional abuse yet she still loves
The journey with Fe continues Recently she spent three weeks with us and she was the perfect house guest We understand the rulesmdashspeak softly no
loud noises no quick moves and stay with the routine Fe doesnrsquot like change She lost her buddy Crackerjack in March and now has become even more attached to her owner But at our house she is content happy and feels safe while enjoying the company of her canine friends Treme and Carter LeePhoto of Fe by Gwen Keane
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6 October 2016
By Joanne Nelson
Customers come from all over the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula to Beatley Custom Cabinets It is
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All kinds of cabinetry and shelves are designed built and finished at Beatley Custom Cabinets Kitchen cabinets are the number one product but Beatleys also
constructs islands vanities bookcases entertainment centers and office file cabinets ldquoQuality is Our Businessrdquo is their motto This quality is represented by the beauty and strength of the product and that the cabinets are made on premises by individuals working for Beatley Cabinets
Daniel Akers Jr is the owner and manager He bought the business in 2014 from Tommy Beatley the original owner Daniel is quick to give Tommy credit for teaching him all that he knows about cabinet building Tommy started the company in 1986 and built the present building in 1998
Tommy still works part time at the company and is available as a mentor to teach what he has learned through his years of experience
Daniel said that he works with many contractors as well as home and business owners One customer who moved away but wanted to be assured of quality work in their cabinets lives in Manakin-Sabot
When you contact him for your project Daniel will come to your home or office take measurements
and discuss your needs and what you have in mind A general plan is established as well as specific details you may want to include for the function of an individual cabinet Kitchen cabinet choices include a lazy susan shelf a trash pull out a spice pull out corner cabinet or utensil drawer
Once the home consultation is complete Daniel returns to his office and designs a plan using a computer design program that produces a model with multiple outline views as well as 3-D images that show how the cabinets will look in the space This helps the customer to visualize their finished cabinets Once this drawing is completed the customer reviews it and makes choices for their cabinets Samples of cabinet faces finishes and hardware are in the office There are also books that a customer may use to choose the look for their cabinets
Next the cabinets are built The inside is made of veneered plywood and the faces are made from hardwood No particle wood is used The pieces are cut sanded and assembled The drawers are on an undermount soft close track made by Grass These tracks give the drawers their gliding effect and are quiet and heavy duty The most popular finish for kitchen cabinets is paint but an array of stains are available as well Daniel said that the stain finishes seem to be easier to maintain as a ding is often less noticeable then on a painted surface Lastly the hardware is added
The cabinet shop is divided into work sections representing the flow of work from planning to building to loading for delivery The shop includes a supplies area a work shop area a finishing area a paint
booth and a room to place completed pieces that are ready to install There is a bay opening for loading the truck with items for delivery The property is large with plenty of room for deliveries parking and loading
Folks who work at Beatley Cabinets do the cutting sanding piecing the cabinets shelves and drawers together painting and staining and mounting the hardware
including drawer tracks and pulls and cabinet handles and knobs Tommy Beatleyrsquos wife Tami works in the office Damon Tim Tyler and Frankie all help in the shop
Daniel is a family man with a wife and two young daughters with one just starting school and the other who is 15 months He gives to the community through Little League via the Youth Club of Lancaster County and is a supporter of Kilmarnock Museum and fire department events
If you have a cabinetry or shelving project in mind call Daniel at 804- 435-2709 or email dtbeatleycabinetscom to get your cabinetry job started Beatley Cabinets is located at 1281 Goodluck Road just outside KilmarnockJoanne Nelson photos of Daniel Akers Jr (top L) and Frankie Cooke
Style Spotlight~Quality Work at Beatley Custom Cabinets
October 2016 7
By Carl ldquoSpikerdquo Knuth
The kestrel often called the sparrow hawk is our smallest falcon Itrsquos about 11 inches long and has the narrow
pointed wings typical of a falcon An old world name for it is ldquowindhoverrdquo
and for good reason Kestrels hunt over open lands and when they spot prey usually in the form of a meadow vole or other rodent it goes to the spot and hovers over it
Often facing into a stiff winter wind theyrsquoll beat their wings furiously looking down into the field or median strip maintaining a steady position until ready to strike Then suddenly it swoops down pouncing on the little rodent in the grass carrying it in its talons to the top of a post pole wires or barren tree to eat Occasionally it misses
and comes up with a fistful of grass In summer they will also feed on lizards small snakes and crickets dragon flies locusts and especially large grasshoppers Another of its names is grasshopper hawk
The male is cinnamon on its back
barred with black and its wings are blue It has a bluish crown and nape which encloses a patch of chestnut atop its head The female is all cinnamon red on its back and wings It has a white throat and cheeks with a vertical black marking below its eyes probably to cut glaremdashlike a
football player with charcoal or lampblack under his eyes or whatever they use nowadays sometimes patches Yoursquoll notice that the topside of aircraft around the cockpit are painted with a flat black for the same reason
Kestrels are cavity nesters preferring open lands nearby nesting in rotting trees or poles but they will nest in man made nesting boxes Young kestrels are unique in that at a young age they resemble the adults in color and color patterns Kestrels breed commonly in Virginia but are more commonly seen in late fall and winter on
Eastern Shore Northern Neck and Virginia Beachmdashthe Coastal Plains areas Look for them on wires atop poles posts or small treesOriginal art by Spike Knuth
Spikersquos Wildlife Almanac~The Kestrel
Reedville Fishermens Museum
WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONSInterested Have a boat with clear title that you wish to donate Please contact Clif Ames via RFM 804-453-6529
Boats for Sale~List is subject to change
1979 Chrysler Buccaneer 18 foot sail boat roller furl jib brand new
spinnaker and 1984 Highlander trailer Asking $1500
1989 19rsquo 7rdquo Maxum Cutty Cabin 125 HP Force OB and 2004
LoadRite trailer Asking $3500
2002 25rsquo 10rdquo MacGregor Sail Boat w 50 HP Honda OB and trailer Excellent condition Asking $11500
8 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
Wi-Fi Pavilion with Grillswwwbaymotelvirginiacom 804-220-2027
By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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October 2016 9
Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
Open Monday through Saturday867 Fleeton Road Reedville
(804) 453-4462Plant Sales and Landscaping
Boxcroft Inc Nursery amp Landscaping
25 Off AllIn Stock Plants
By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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504 S Church LaneTappahannock
804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
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October 2016 11
A wonderful place for womenrsquos jewelry fashion and accessories
Merrell ldquoMust Haverdquo boots
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
Certified Gluten PractitionerdoTERRA Essential Oils Educator
wwwkimdiazwellnesscomnourishkimdiazwellnesscom Call 804-577-0300
Contact me to schedule an Initial Health Coaching Consultation over the phone or in person at the Northern Neck Family YMCA or
at my New Office in Kilmarnock at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2
wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
wwwstudiomontrosscom
By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
Mathews Comes to Gloucester
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
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Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
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October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
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Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
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Dine In or Carry Out
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Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
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During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
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Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
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804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
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Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
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Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
6 October 2016
By Joanne Nelson
Customers come from all over the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula to Beatley Custom Cabinets It is
by reputation of their craftsmanship referrals and word of mouthmdashand their ad in Chesapeake Stylemdashthat folks come to Beatley Cabinets
All kinds of cabinetry and shelves are designed built and finished at Beatley Custom Cabinets Kitchen cabinets are the number one product but Beatleys also
constructs islands vanities bookcases entertainment centers and office file cabinets ldquoQuality is Our Businessrdquo is their motto This quality is represented by the beauty and strength of the product and that the cabinets are made on premises by individuals working for Beatley Cabinets
Daniel Akers Jr is the owner and manager He bought the business in 2014 from Tommy Beatley the original owner Daniel is quick to give Tommy credit for teaching him all that he knows about cabinet building Tommy started the company in 1986 and built the present building in 1998
Tommy still works part time at the company and is available as a mentor to teach what he has learned through his years of experience
Daniel said that he works with many contractors as well as home and business owners One customer who moved away but wanted to be assured of quality work in their cabinets lives in Manakin-Sabot
When you contact him for your project Daniel will come to your home or office take measurements
and discuss your needs and what you have in mind A general plan is established as well as specific details you may want to include for the function of an individual cabinet Kitchen cabinet choices include a lazy susan shelf a trash pull out a spice pull out corner cabinet or utensil drawer
Once the home consultation is complete Daniel returns to his office and designs a plan using a computer design program that produces a model with multiple outline views as well as 3-D images that show how the cabinets will look in the space This helps the customer to visualize their finished cabinets Once this drawing is completed the customer reviews it and makes choices for their cabinets Samples of cabinet faces finishes and hardware are in the office There are also books that a customer may use to choose the look for their cabinets
Next the cabinets are built The inside is made of veneered plywood and the faces are made from hardwood No particle wood is used The pieces are cut sanded and assembled The drawers are on an undermount soft close track made by Grass These tracks give the drawers their gliding effect and are quiet and heavy duty The most popular finish for kitchen cabinets is paint but an array of stains are available as well Daniel said that the stain finishes seem to be easier to maintain as a ding is often less noticeable then on a painted surface Lastly the hardware is added
The cabinet shop is divided into work sections representing the flow of work from planning to building to loading for delivery The shop includes a supplies area a work shop area a finishing area a paint
booth and a room to place completed pieces that are ready to install There is a bay opening for loading the truck with items for delivery The property is large with plenty of room for deliveries parking and loading
Folks who work at Beatley Cabinets do the cutting sanding piecing the cabinets shelves and drawers together painting and staining and mounting the hardware
including drawer tracks and pulls and cabinet handles and knobs Tommy Beatleyrsquos wife Tami works in the office Damon Tim Tyler and Frankie all help in the shop
Daniel is a family man with a wife and two young daughters with one just starting school and the other who is 15 months He gives to the community through Little League via the Youth Club of Lancaster County and is a supporter of Kilmarnock Museum and fire department events
If you have a cabinetry or shelving project in mind call Daniel at 804- 435-2709 or email dtbeatleycabinetscom to get your cabinetry job started Beatley Cabinets is located at 1281 Goodluck Road just outside KilmarnockJoanne Nelson photos of Daniel Akers Jr (top L) and Frankie Cooke
Style Spotlight~Quality Work at Beatley Custom Cabinets
October 2016 7
By Carl ldquoSpikerdquo Knuth
The kestrel often called the sparrow hawk is our smallest falcon Itrsquos about 11 inches long and has the narrow
pointed wings typical of a falcon An old world name for it is ldquowindhoverrdquo
and for good reason Kestrels hunt over open lands and when they spot prey usually in the form of a meadow vole or other rodent it goes to the spot and hovers over it
Often facing into a stiff winter wind theyrsquoll beat their wings furiously looking down into the field or median strip maintaining a steady position until ready to strike Then suddenly it swoops down pouncing on the little rodent in the grass carrying it in its talons to the top of a post pole wires or barren tree to eat Occasionally it misses
and comes up with a fistful of grass In summer they will also feed on lizards small snakes and crickets dragon flies locusts and especially large grasshoppers Another of its names is grasshopper hawk
The male is cinnamon on its back
barred with black and its wings are blue It has a bluish crown and nape which encloses a patch of chestnut atop its head The female is all cinnamon red on its back and wings It has a white throat and cheeks with a vertical black marking below its eyes probably to cut glaremdashlike a
football player with charcoal or lampblack under his eyes or whatever they use nowadays sometimes patches Yoursquoll notice that the topside of aircraft around the cockpit are painted with a flat black for the same reason
Kestrels are cavity nesters preferring open lands nearby nesting in rotting trees or poles but they will nest in man made nesting boxes Young kestrels are unique in that at a young age they resemble the adults in color and color patterns Kestrels breed commonly in Virginia but are more commonly seen in late fall and winter on
Eastern Shore Northern Neck and Virginia Beachmdashthe Coastal Plains areas Look for them on wires atop poles posts or small treesOriginal art by Spike Knuth
Spikersquos Wildlife Almanac~The Kestrel
Reedville Fishermens Museum
WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONSInterested Have a boat with clear title that you wish to donate Please contact Clif Ames via RFM 804-453-6529
Boats for Sale~List is subject to change
1979 Chrysler Buccaneer 18 foot sail boat roller furl jib brand new
spinnaker and 1984 Highlander trailer Asking $1500
1989 19rsquo 7rdquo Maxum Cutty Cabin 125 HP Force OB and 2004
LoadRite trailer Asking $3500
2002 25rsquo 10rdquo MacGregor Sail Boat w 50 HP Honda OB and trailer Excellent condition Asking $11500
8 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
Wi-Fi Pavilion with Grillswwwbaymotelvirginiacom 804-220-2027
By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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October 2016 9
Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
Open Monday through Saturday867 Fleeton Road Reedville
(804) 453-4462Plant Sales and Landscaping
Boxcroft Inc Nursery amp Landscaping
25 Off AllIn Stock Plants
By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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Java Jacks Cafeacute
504 S Church LaneTappahannock
804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
V i s i t u s a t w e s t m o r e l a n d b e r r y f a r m c o m
Win a Westmoreland Berry Farmt-shirt and $7500 Pick-Your-Own
gi card (and much more) atour FARMFEST rae (ee to
enter) e drawing will be held on October 22nd
Visit us at the farm to enterf o r m o r e d e t a i l s a b o u t o u r F A R M F E S T e v e n t
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October 2016 11
A wonderful place for womenrsquos jewelry fashion and accessories
Merrell ldquoMust Haverdquo boots
Exclusive Merrell Retailer in the Northern Neck amp Middle Peninsula
Open Weekends | Call for Hours15170 Northumberland Highway (the Red Store on Route 360)
Burgess Virginia | 804-453-4553
Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
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6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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October 2016 15
By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
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By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
Merle Norman Cosmetics
78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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The best comfort food will always be greens cornbread and fried chicken Maya Angelou
26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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The Steamboat Restaurant is available for every special function you are planning
Our professional staff can cater to your every need From birthday parties to weddings holiday parties to family reunions
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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By Carl ldquoSpikerdquo Knuth
The kestrel often called the sparrow hawk is our smallest falcon Itrsquos about 11 inches long and has the narrow
pointed wings typical of a falcon An old world name for it is ldquowindhoverrdquo
and for good reason Kestrels hunt over open lands and when they spot prey usually in the form of a meadow vole or other rodent it goes to the spot and hovers over it
Often facing into a stiff winter wind theyrsquoll beat their wings furiously looking down into the field or median strip maintaining a steady position until ready to strike Then suddenly it swoops down pouncing on the little rodent in the grass carrying it in its talons to the top of a post pole wires or barren tree to eat Occasionally it misses
and comes up with a fistful of grass In summer they will also feed on lizards small snakes and crickets dragon flies locusts and especially large grasshoppers Another of its names is grasshopper hawk
The male is cinnamon on its back
barred with black and its wings are blue It has a bluish crown and nape which encloses a patch of chestnut atop its head The female is all cinnamon red on its back and wings It has a white throat and cheeks with a vertical black marking below its eyes probably to cut glaremdashlike a
football player with charcoal or lampblack under his eyes or whatever they use nowadays sometimes patches Yoursquoll notice that the topside of aircraft around the cockpit are painted with a flat black for the same reason
Kestrels are cavity nesters preferring open lands nearby nesting in rotting trees or poles but they will nest in man made nesting boxes Young kestrels are unique in that at a young age they resemble the adults in color and color patterns Kestrels breed commonly in Virginia but are more commonly seen in late fall and winter on
Eastern Shore Northern Neck and Virginia Beachmdashthe Coastal Plains areas Look for them on wires atop poles posts or small treesOriginal art by Spike Knuth
Spikersquos Wildlife Almanac~The Kestrel
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8 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
Wi-Fi Pavilion with Grillswwwbaymotelvirginiacom 804-220-2027
By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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October 2016 9
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By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
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wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
Calling All Dog LoversAll Breeds and Mixed
Breeds Welcome
Join your local club todayCall Gwen Keane 804-436-2766
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Lois amp David Lavery Owners422 S Church Ln Tappahannock Mon-Fri 10-5 Sat 10-3email giftstappytowngmailcom 804-443-0404
The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
Salt Lamps Hand Painted Glass Fair Trade Products Painted Furniture
Wreaths Home Decor Handbags Jewelry Cards
Dixie Belle Mineral Paint DealerTheGiftGallery1644
Join Us On October 22 201610 am - 2 pm
Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
Each dog will receive raffleticket for their owner to win an
awesome prizeFREE TO THE PUBLIC
Proof of rabies and leashes are requiredMore information NNBarkForLifegmailcom
October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
current vaccination records to register
Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
Merle Norman Cosmetics
78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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The best comfort food will always be greens cornbread and fried chicken Maya Angelou
26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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The Steamboat Restaurant is available for every special function you are planning
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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Style Spotlight~Crazy Crab Flourishes With Deep Roots
18754 Northumberland Hwy Reedville Va
Bay Motel
New OwnersCompletely Renovated mdash Competitive Rates
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By Mari Bonomi
Perched at the very eastern end of Route 360 sits a charming restaurant the Crazy Crab
Since 1999 Charles Williams III and his wife Olivia have been welcoming guests to their waterside place at the head of Cockrellrsquos Creek But long before the couple decided to build and open a restaurant they were planted deep in the soil of Northumberland County
ldquoWe both grew up here and our families have been in this area for generationsrdquo Charles said In fact both Williamses have fathers and grandfathers who were fish boat captains and their two sons are both watermen ldquoI canrsquot imagine living anywhere but Reedvillerdquo Olivia said
As a boy Charles lived in Fleeton ldquoOn Saturdaysrdquo he said ldquoI would sell
Grit Magazine Irsquod ride my bike up to the end of 360 then back I knew everyone in every house then They were the families of those who built the housesrdquo
While many of those families are now gone many of the regular
customers at the Crazy Crab are the families who remain and the families who now live in those beautiful historic homes The history of the Crazy Crab itself is also local
Charles spent 18 years as a spotter pilot in Reedvillersquos menhaden industry and then another seven as general manager of the factory When he was ready to move on they did not want to uproot their entire family and move away
The Williamses have always loved the unique history of Reedville ldquoI like how fishing has sustained the town for over 100 years The people who have worked for the industry many no longer with us are so memorable Thatrsquos what attracts the people who move here toordquo
Olivia said that their families are close by including parents and children ldquoWe can help each other
we are very involved in family liferdquoBoth Williamses had always
enjoyed dining at good restaurants and they figured that as Charles said ldquoIf you serve good food on the water you can fill the place with people The harder question for us was could we make a living doing it So far we have
ldquoItrsquos important to surround yourself with good people and we havemdashpeople you can depend onrdquo Charles said ldquoTheyrsquore the main ingredient to success Some of our employees have been with us since we openedrdquo
Heather Conley is one of those employees She started bussing tables at 14 and still works part time ldquoI love being here on the water It really is a good place to workrdquo she said ldquoI meet a lot of interesting peoplerdquo
The Crazy Crab sits where the old fish cannery the Huff and Puff Pet Food Company once operated Charles and Olivia had the old building torn down and replaced it with the Reedville Marina and Crazy Crab restaurant They opened in June 1999
ldquoThe restaurant is part of the marinardquo said Charles ldquoWe have slips fuel a bathhouse electricity and water on the dock This time of year the folks headed south in their boats stop hererdquo
The marina offers a protected harbor and fronts deep watermdashin fact there was an 80 foot long sports fishing boat tied up one weekend recently ldquoWe have small boat clubs
come in groups Recently one came from Annapolisrdquo Charles said
One of the amenities they offer is an outdoor dining area with heaters available during crisper weather But the biggest amenity may be the Williamses themselves They greet customers warmly and always make sure that every customer dines well and leaves happy ldquoSince wersquove been here wersquove made so many good friends and gotten to be a part of so many livesrdquo Olivia said
Of course the Crazy Crab offers seafood specialties along with hand cut steaks pasta dishes and salads Chesapeake Bay magazinersquos readers voted them 2016s Number One Crab Cake on the lower Bay ldquoThe secret is putting crab meat in You canrsquot fool the publicmdashthey can tell the differencerdquo Charles said The restaurant was also voted Best Family Restaurant in the lower Bay ldquoWe really appreciate this supportrdquo Olivia said
The Crazy Crab has seasonal hours From Labor Day through early December they are open from 5 to 9 pm on Fridays 12-9 Saturdays and 12-8 Sundays They reopen in April on weekends and in May move to a full schedule Tuesday through Friday 5-9 weekends 12-9 The address is 902 Main Street Reedville The phone is 804-453-6789Mari Bonomi photo
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October 2016 9
Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
Open Monday through Saturday867 Fleeton Road Reedville
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By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
Certified Gluten PractitionerdoTERRA Essential Oils Educator
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wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
Mathews Comes to Gloucester
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
Chesapeake Style Magazine
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
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Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
Olversons Lodge Creek Marina
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Friendliest Marina on the Bay
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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The best comfort food will always be greens cornbread and fried chicken Maya Angelou
26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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Nature in Style~Less Yard Work=More Habitat
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By Charlene Talcott
The cooler weather of fall leads many of us to start sprucing up our yards and gardens for the coming winter
The plants that delighted us with colorful blooms are pulled up Grassy areas are cut short Leaves are raked and hauled away Some even power wash the shutters What if I gave you a good excuse to skip all that work
All of these areas can be animal habitat Beneficial insects salamanders frogs and turtles can find a safe haven in your yard They not only have a safe place to pass the winter but some will also use your yard as a nursery
I found a praying mantis egg case in my garden With close inspection I have found egg cases of several types of insects clinging to dried flower stems If you are not sure if
the insect is one you want or not you can do an internet search for insect case pictures and you are sure to find a match If it is one that is a pest in your garden it can be easily cut off and dispatched In addition to egg cases you may also see cocoons and butterfly chrysalis Sometimes they are on the stem and other times may be hanging on the underside of leaves Once in a while you may see leaves drawn together with silk that hides a future butterfly inside
If you hate raking and bagging leaves you will now have a good excuse to let this stay on the ground Leaves help insulate the roots of your plants and hold moisture As they decompose they leave nutrients behind Small frogs turtles and salamanders may hibernate in the leaves protected from snow and extreme cold Juncoes towhees brown thrashers and other birds
dig through the leaves looking for hibernating insects In larger areas turkeys can find small sprouting seeds under the leaf litter
Before power washing the house and shutters in the fall look in the slats for insects Here is another place that you may find cocoons Ladybugs and other insects huddle together in shutter slats They also like to hide in sheds and barns so if you close those up look around first so you donrsquot trap them in You might also find frogs or other amphibians hiding there
If you can abide snakes and micemdashas long as they stay outside of coursemdashbrush piles provide a good habitat for them Snakes of many species will nest together using their body heat to keep each other warm If snakes give you the heebie-jeebies keep in mind that almost all of them are not venomous and keep pests away During the winter if they move
at all they move slowly Consider giving them a home this year
So now you have a good excuse to skip extra fall chores If you want the neighbors to know you are doing good and instead of being lazy you could put up a sign that says Animal Habitat Do not disturb
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804-443-JACK (5225)
Have You Had Your
Jack Today
10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
Certified Gluten PractitionerdoTERRA Essential Oils Educator
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Contact me to schedule an Initial Health Coaching Consultation over the phone or in person at the Northern Neck Family YMCA or
at my New Office in Kilmarnock at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2
wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
wwwstudiomontrosscom
By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
Mathews Comes to Gloucester
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511 Cedar Grove RoadFarnham VA 22460
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
Olversons Lodge Creek Marina
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Friendliest Marina on the Bay
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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10 October 2016
By Charlene Talcott
Downingrsquos Consignment Shop is a real treasure trove First there are the many
items found throughout the store Valuable artwork that would have hung in the dining room of one of Virginiarsquos old families shares wall space with primitives made by hand
Delicate etched crystal that cradled fine wine and heavy crocks that fermented farm foods are both present Mechanical and stuffed toys will remind you of your own childhood Old stoves kitchenware wash ware and hand tools teach us about the hard work our grandparents had to do to take care of their familyrsquos needs Old farm tools playground toys and other big items are right outside
The day I visited he had items for dog agility training You can even
buy a shed to store your purchases Because of the high turnover of merchandise the treasures are always changing and surprising
Secondly there are the people that come through Many people come every Sunday after church Others stop by on their regular treks between their homes in Northern Virginia or Richmond and their weekend stays nearby
Nobody seems in a hurry There is much to see and it brings back memories that they are happy to share There are usually at least a couple of conversations going on in the store Anybody who has been there more than once is a friend of the store
Then there is James Russell the
owner of the store James genuinely loves his customers whether they are buying or consigning Pick almost any item in the store and he can tell you a story about it He likes sharing information especially with curious children wanting to know how things worked or what they were used for
A basket with trinkets for children is by the door so none of them leave empty handed He even allows well mannered dogs to come in with their owners
James wants to see everything in the store go to a good home so he is willing to haggle He even offers layaway if you didnrsquot bring enough cash for that dayrsquos purchase Most of the goods come from consignors Many consignment stores take hefty commissions require binding contracts and insist on price reductions when things donrsquot sell James likes to keep things simple If items are dropped off the consignor keeps 60 of the sale price and the store gets 40 If James has to pick it up the commission is split 5050 No contract is required and consignors can pick up their items anytime or leave them in the store until they sell
The store occasionally hosts outside vendors that come for a day and yard sales where people can bring their high quality wares On a recent Sunday a vendor sold old pottery knives military goods movie memorabilia and antique currency
His biggest sellers are primitives
duck decoys and local oyster industry items However James has an eclectic collection and says there is something for everyone He once carried some items that had been owned by Andy Warhol and a tapestry that was waved at Charles Lindbergh as he flew by A bottle with the
word Water on it caught my eye ldquoA lot of these new ideas have been around a long time This is one examplerdquo said James ldquoCompanies were selling bottled water back in the 1800srdquo
During the holidays James uses the store as a drop off point for a food and toy drive to help the community ldquoThere are so many middle class people that are struggling and donrsquot qualify for traditional help during the holidays Theyrsquore just getting by and they would like to have a nice holiday for their kids Or they might be older folks that just donrsquot have the extra money for a good meal
ldquoI like to make sure that these folks not only have food for a special holiday meal but enough staples in their pantries to get them through the next few months And of course we want to make sure the kids have something nice under the treerdquo
With all of these treasures itrsquos not surprising that the store has been voted Best Consignment Shop several years in a row Be sure to check out the Downingrsquos Consignment Shop Facebook page to find out the latest news Yoursquoll also be the first to know when something new and interesting comes in Downingrsquos Consignment is located at 1074 Historyland Highway in Farnham and open every day except Monday Andy Talcott photo
Style Spotlight~Something for Everyone at Downingrsquos
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
Certified Gluten PractitionerdoTERRA Essential Oils Educator
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Contact me to schedule an Initial Health Coaching Consultation over the phone or in person at the Northern Neck Family YMCA or
at my New Office in Kilmarnock at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2
wwwvashtisjewelrycom Edgehill Town Center
6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
wwwstudiomontrosscom
By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
Mathews Comes to Gloucester
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
Chesapeake Style Magazine
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
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Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
Olversons Lodge Creek Marina
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Friendliest Marina on the Bay
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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The best comfort food will always be greens cornbread and fried chicken Maya Angelou
26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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Bees
By Don Loop
When we think of our food supply we realize that a great deal of it originates
from the pollination of plants flowers and trees Even a juicy steak comes from an animal which eats for instance alfalfa which relies on pollination to flourish And so throughout the plant kingdom
The honey bee has been responsible for much of this pollination for millennia but now faces destruction largely due to pesticides and GMO terminator seeds which produce their own pesticides neonicotinoids But this article is about a at least partial solution to the tragic die off of the honeybee That is the wild mason and leafcutter bees
They are native to the Americas and are superior pollinators They are solitary and do not live in hives as the honeybee and they produce no honey Referred to as the gentle bees they rarely sting and make an innocuous addition to back yards where children play This also removes them from commercial fields where pesticides are sprayed
Their value lies in their pollination ability where one mason bee is the equivalent to sixty honey bees in a cherry tree and three of them are able to pollinate a mature apple tree
A few of them are adequate for most home vegetable and flower gardens and fruit trees Travelling only a short distance from their house they spend all of their time in pollination and laying eggs which they place in a hole including nourishment for the egg which develops into a pupae which then makes a cocoon where it stays until spring
The mason emerges early in spring followed by the leaf cutter a couple of weeks later concerning herself with later blooms The mason compartmentalizes her eggs with a mud partition between thus the name mason whereas the leaf cutter wraps her eggs in small leaf particles cut from surrounding foliage
The leaf cutter entered commercial usage about 1970 when they saved the alfalfa crops out west which were languishing due to the lack of honeybees
Organizations throughout the
country are promoting the backyard propagation of these bees as an answer to the decline of honeybees In these efforts they discourage the use of insecticides around the home It is recommended that a manufactured house such as the one pictured be used as it is made to open for inspection and collection of the cocoons which are then stored until spring
Since late spring my bee condo has attracted enough leaf cutters to fill and cap ten holes This should provide more than enough cocoons for my use so I can give some to neighbors or sell them to a firm who will then sell them to commercial apiarists thus replacing lost honeybees
There is a lot of information on the net Just type mason bee in Google and you may become enchanted by this little insect who may just help save our food supplyDon Loop photo
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Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
Kim DiazIntegrative Nutrition Health Coach
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6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
wwwstudiomontrosscom
By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
Calling All Dog LoversAll Breeds and Mixed
Breeds Welcome
Join your local club todayCall Gwen Keane 804-436-2766
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Lois amp David Lavery Owners422 S Church Ln Tappahannock Mon-Fri 10-5 Sat 10-3email giftstappytowngmailcom 804-443-0404
The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
Salt Lamps Hand Painted Glass Fair Trade Products Painted Furniture
Wreaths Home Decor Handbags Jewelry Cards
Dixie Belle Mineral Paint DealerTheGiftGallery1644
Join Us On October 22 201610 am - 2 pm
Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
Each dog will receive raffleticket for their owner to win an
awesome prizeFREE TO THE PUBLIC
Proof of rabies and leashes are requiredMore information NNBarkForLifegmailcom
October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
current vaccination records to register
Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
Merle Norman Cosmetics
78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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The best comfort food will always be greens cornbread and fried chicken Maya Angelou
26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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The Steamboat Restaurant is available for every special function you are planning
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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12 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Find Your Forever Frames at Corner Cottage
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6734 Main Street Gloucester Va 804-693-3434
Michou calls its jewelry Art to Wear and indeed each piece is a diminutive sculpture
created with exquisite one-of-a-kind details
By Deborah Jaouen
Down in a hollow off Gloucesterrsquos Main Street two large cats blink sleepily in the sun This
picture of bucolic serenity belies the hum of activity coming from the cluster of white planked buildings nearby In the farthest buildingmdashThe Corner Cottagemdashright angled profile samples of frames line two walls to create a geometric entry wall with an intrinsic wow factor A large printer spits out canvas for banners and flags while Deborah Collier and her colleague go about the restoration projects framing jobs and the wide range of other tasks that make up a typical day at the Corner Cottage
When people bring in their cherished keepsakes and heirlooms for framing Deborah takes her role as custodian seriously ldquoIn a lot of cases
theyrsquore going to be looking at these frames for the next thirty years so I make sure it gets done right once and doesnrsquot have to be re donerdquo She has rescued many a discounterrsquos frame job whose quality wasnrsquot up to par with her standards ldquoGo ahead and get what you like the first timemdashyou want it to match your personality and the quality of the rest of your homerdquo
To make it easier she offers payment plans a perk difficult to find at a
mass market framer Go ahead choose 23K gold to frame that oil thatrsquos been in the family forever At the opposite end of the spectrum paper wrapped Medium Density Fibreboard (MDF) aka particleboard is a cost effective solution for posters proof that the Corner Cottage has a frame for everyone
Finding a framer who will accept needlework for framing is next to impossible these days Enter Deborah Itrsquos one of her specialitiesmdashcleaning that old sampler embroidered by Great Aunt Nelly then hand sewing it to the backing using a special technique required by hand worked fabric People will travel many miles to The Corner Cottage to get their heirlooms done right
If you have a faded old photo of Great Great Grandpa in his Civil War era finery that you want restored
to its original glory Deborah can do that too She can clean the foxingmdashyellowingmdashfrom old works on paper including photos prints and original watercolors Therersquos no better testament to the quality of The Corner Cottagersquos work than the word of mouth recommendations dispensed liberally to friends and family by loyal satisfied clients
In college Deborah planned to major in restoration and presentation of fine art Alas her school did not yet offer that course of study as her idea was years ahead of its time A woman of many talents she switched her major to biology and never looked back beginning her design career as a licensed horticultural designer ldquoAny branch of design utilizes the same basic elements of form and colorrdquo she says ldquoItrsquos all relatedrdquo
The last year of the 1980rsquos found Deborah working at the Corner Cottage She enjoyed her framing job so much that she purchased the business from her employer who retired twelve years later Deborah has been expanding the business ever since and six years ago acquired the remaining two buildings to complete her compound The charming group of small buildings is currently in the midst of renovations which will modernize the structures while enhancing and preserving the vintage appeal of the setting
A true autodidact Deborah is equally at home wielding a
needlemdashto hand sew needlework to backing before framingmdasha brushmdashfor gold leafing frames and restoring artworkmdashor a mousemdashmats are now precisely cut using a computer
She also has a unique giftmdasha highly developed palate for tasting spirits and ferreting out which ingredients need to be added and which should be reduced She has put this talent to good use at Williamsburg Distillers where she works part time The gin recipe she developed recently won Triple Gold at the First Annual Virginia Craft Distillers Festival
In addition The Corner Cottage provides outdoor signs on canvas UV protected flags advertising magnets for cars shadow boxes which are useful for displaying objects as unusual as a nine foot boa snakeskin or a fork bent by the mental telepathy generated in a group workshop
The Corner Cottage stands behind all its work with every piece that leaves the premises bearing a lifetime guarantee ldquoIf something goes wrong years down the road customers can just bring it back in and Irsquoll fix it You wonrsquot get that either at a big box storerdquo
Find Corner Cottage at wwwcornercottageframeshopcom on Facebook at The Corner Cottage Frame Shop-Gloucester VA and at 6817 Enfield Road Gloucester or call 804-693-6722Deborah Jaouen photo of Deborah and Garfield
October 2016 13
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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October 2016 15
By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
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October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Our professional staff can cater to your every need From birthday parties to weddings holiday parties to family reunions
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
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Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
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By Ann Eichenmuller
Mention sailboat racing and you probably will not conjure up images of square
rigged seventeenth century ships or wooden skipjacks Yet anyone driving over the Norris Bridge on the first weekend in October will be treated to a view of the Jamestown Settlementrsquos Godspeed and the Reedville Fishermanrsquos Museumrsquos Claude B Somers as they round the marks in the 21st annual Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta That is because this three day event hosted by the Rappahannock River Yacht Club in Irvington is the ultimate classic boat race
While most of the participantsmdashsailboats and captainsmdashwill not have
hit the century mark boat designs do have to be at least twenty five years old in order to enter the race There is clearly no shortage of classic plastic heremdashthe Turkey Shoot is one of the largest races in the Southern Bay regularly drawing over a hundred classic and vintage sailboats It has received the coveted Best of the Bay designation by Chesapeake Bay Magazine twice in 2008 and again this year
This is an even bigger feat when you consider the challenges of arranging such a diverse fleet of boats into competitive classes for racing
Yet the most unusual aspect of the Turkey Shoot has nothing to do with its vintage vessels or the size of its racing fleet This is one of the few regattas where winning takes a distant second place The real measure of success in this race is caring
Originally started in 1989 as a race for classic boats in 1996 the Turkey Shoot took on greater meaning when it became a benefit for Hospice Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) Fund raising was expanded in 2003 to include Riverside Hospice Agencies as well Taking the motto Competition with Compassion the regatta blends the joy and excitement
of sailing on our beautiful local waters with the satisfaction of helping those in our community who have life limiting or terminal illnesses
Money raised for hospice provides medical care equipment food supplements pain control emotional and spiritual support for both patients and their families The need for these services increases in our area each year and events like the Turkey Shoot are essential to help provide the necessary funds Bringing sailors their families and volunteers together for this event is a joint effort of the Irvington community Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck Riverside Hospices RRYC and Yankee Point Racing and Cruising Club
Whether you want to skipper your own boat be part of a crew or volunteer to help with shore side events the Hospice Turkey Shoot Regatta can show you how
to put the fun in fund raising Registration for the race is $95 and includes free breakfast for the crew a free T shirt cap and collectorrsquos mug for the captain Additional memorabilia is available for purchase as are tickets for shore side events For more information go to wwwturkeyshootorg Photo courtesy Jamestown-Yorktown Foundation
History and Hospice in the 21st Annual Turkey Shoot Regatta
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Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
Mathews Comes to Gloucester
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Call Jill for a tour today804-250-6051
wwwCommonwealthSLcom
We invite you to come discover life at The Villas at Farnham where the air is fresh and the living is easy Only ONE two-bedroom Villa remaining
16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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6714 Main St Gloucester804-210-1506 804-210-1507 Fax
Open Daily 6 am - 3 pm
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
Chesapeake Style Magazine
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
Calling All Dog LoversAll Breeds and Mixed
Breeds Welcome
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The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
Salt Lamps Hand Painted Glass Fair Trade Products Painted Furniture
Wreaths Home Decor Handbags Jewelry Cards
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Join Us On October 22 201610 am - 2 pm
Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
Each dog will receive raffleticket for their owner to win an
awesome prizeFREE TO THE PUBLIC
Proof of rabies and leashes are requiredMore information NNBarkForLifegmailcom
October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
current vaccination records to register
Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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EscapeWinterrsquos Wrathat Commonwealth
24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
Olversons Lodge Creek Marina
800-529-50711161 Melrose Rd Lottsburg Virginia
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Friendliest Marina on the Bay
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
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Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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14 October 2016
Edna Writes ShowboatBy Bill Powell
Her days on the Chesapeake and the James Adams Floating Theatre now a treasured memory Edna Ferber
is back in New York and hard at work on the new still unnamed novel
While she carried the impressions and images in her head the lsquostories in showboat were mainly from the pages of notes she had taken in her little yellow pad a holdover from her reporter days
It was the last day of her stay on the floating Theatre and Charles Hunter finally put aside his many other shipboard duties and sat down with Edna and regaled her with ldquohis store of river lore and showboat experiencehellipIt was a stream of pure goldrdquo she confessed ldquoIncidents characters absurdities drama tragedies river lore theatrical wisdom poured forth in that quiet flexible voice He looked really more like a small town college professor lecturing to a backward student than like a show boat actorrdquo
When she was done at days end the room was littered with yellow sheets The ldquostuffrsquo of an American classic lay about her in disarray on the floor
ldquoBy the time he had finished I had a treasure trove of show boat material human touching truerdquo she later wrote describing the experience that led to her best selling novel a milestone Broadway musical and at least three feature films
Ferber spent the next full year writing in St Jean de Luz France in Paris and in New York writing the novel and published in the summer of 1926 Edna commented ldquoIt doesnt seem right that anyone ever had so much sheer fun gaiety novelty satisfaction and money out of the writing of any one piece of work as I have had out of Show Boatrdquo
The compelling storymdasha mix of romance realistic depiction of racial issues and nostalgia for a vanishing American past was an immediate hit The novel was number one on the best seller lists for twelve weeks The critical reception was more cautious but still positive In his New York Times review Louis Kronenberger wrote ldquoWith Show Boat Miss Ferber establishes herself
not as one of those who are inaugurating first rate literature but as one of those who are reviving first rate storytelling This is little else but an irresistible story but that surely is enoughrdquo
Show Boat chronicled the lives of three generations of performers on the Cotton Blossom a floating theater that travels between small towns on the banks of the Mississippi Sound familiar
Show Boat was adapted as a Broadway musical in 1927 by Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II Three films followedmdasha 1929 version that depended partly on the musical and two full adaptations of the musical in 1936 and 1951
The success of Ferberrsquos Showboat and adaptations that followed marked the acme of the James Adams Floating Theatrersquos history The Floating Theatre changed its name to the Show Boat to ride the tide of acclaim from the novel It was not to last long
The burgeoning motion picture industry the advent of radio and the building economic pressures that would bring the Great Depression were all working against her Repertory companies of any sort were no longer the first choice for small town America
Next The downhill run of the James Adams Floating TheatreBill Powell is president of Deltaville Maritime Museum amp Holly Point Nature Park1Kronenberger Louis (August 22 1926) ldquoShow Boat is High Romance Edna Ferber Goes Barnstorming Down the Old Mississippirdquo New York Times p BR5 Retrieved 2011-10-28
Edna Ferber Showboat and the Chesapeake Bay Part VIII
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October 2016 15
By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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or 130 - 5 pm
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By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
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By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
Merle Norman Cosmetics
78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Our professional staff can cater to your every need From birthday parties to weddings holiday parties to family reunions
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
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By Alexis Powell
Field-Trip Day It used to be one of my favorite phrases growing up going somewhere fun and interesting for
even a few hours as a young child was something that gave me a happy flutter of excitement and anticipation inside Now years later I got to be on the flip side with my mini farm visited by a Mathews 4-H summer camp The happy flutter returned although now it was infused by a tremor of nervousness as well
I knew more than enough about the animals they came to visit and had plenty of fun stories to tell about our experiences with themhellip
but would it be interesting to the group To alleviate some of my extra energy I went out to tell the goats once more that they were to be on their best behavior and calm the rabbitsmdashokay myselfmdashdown with some extra petting time
As the group arrived and the kids came spilling out of the cars I was really glad that I had my team behind me My niece Kayleigh and my brother Sean were both prepped and ready to help answer questions and hold animals safelymdashsecurelymdashwhile the kids got to pet them At one point when Kayleigh was holding a baby rabbit I was reminded of a zombie movie when the horde swarms the last remaining character Instead of zombies though these kids were cute as
rainbows and smart as computersSpeaking with the group was a
bit hard since they had really great questions which required some lengthy explanations and my voice wasnrsquot carrying very far above the din I was happy to have had the experience of teaching classes at our Shoppe because it made me realize that prepping a lot of information was pointlessmdashpeople just want their questions answered about any particular subject
The time went flying by and they had other places to go on their Field Trip Day after visiting with us Amidst the laughter and snuggling of furry creatures I was feeling bad
to know they were leaving so soon I was having a great time and they were too It is so wonderful to share
the love of nature with others The bravest ones actually put their ear to the bee hives to listen to the
honey bees fanning to keep the hives cool That alone is a healing vibration imprinted on their day
Over all as my team and I waved the group goodbye I realized I couldnrsquot stop smiling Who knew Field trip Day was just as much fun for the people the group came to visit as it was for the kids visiting As I turned to go back to the house I realized something key that I forgot to mentionmdashour minifarm actually began with a 4-H chicken project which grew into what we have nowmdashalmost total self sustenant and organic way of life Itrsquos a wonderful reward all the way around
As a side note the animals all got fed extra dinner portions that night as a treat for their good behavior and they were disappointed that all their adoring fans werenrsquot there the next day tooAlexis Powell photos of Kayleigh Moye and Ashton Savage
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
Chesapeake Style Magazine
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Wed-Friday 10-5 Saturday 10-4
153 Northumberland Highway Callao
804-529-1030
At Mosaic You Will Find New Gently Used and Artisan Items
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
Calling All Dog LoversAll Breeds and Mixed
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Join your local club todayCall Gwen Keane 804-436-2766
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The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
Salt Lamps Hand Painted Glass Fair Trade Products Painted Furniture
Wreaths Home Decor Handbags Jewelry Cards
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Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
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Proof of rabies and leashes are requiredMore information NNBarkForLifegmailcom
October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
current vaccination records to register
Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
Olversons Lodge Creek Marina
800-529-50711161 Melrose Rd Lottsburg Virginia
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Friendliest Marina on the Bay
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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The best comfort food will always be greens cornbread and fried chicken Maya Angelou
26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
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Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
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16 October 2016
By Carol J Bova
Why does the Commonwealth of Virginia create situations that discharge
phosphorus directly into our waterways Environmentalists fought to get phosphates removed from detergents in 2010 in Virginia Maryland and Pennsylvania to reduce
pollution in the Chesapeake Bay But no one is fighting to reduce phosphorus releases from flooded roadside ditches and cattails
When soil is flooded microbes use up the available oxygen and the insoluble combination of iron and phosphorus that is bound to the soil changes form to one that is soluble in water Phosphorus is a growth stimulant to
cattails and is taken up from water into their rhizomes and leaves This characteristic has led to recommendations to use cattails to reduce phosphorus in storm water facilities The other half of the equation is those same cattails release the phosphorus into the water when their leaves die back in the fall It can then be
carried to waterways in overflows or intended releases after rains
Cattails are invasive weeds and flourish in the statersquos flooded roadside ditches because of mowing schedule reductions and flooding from failed ditch maintenance A myth that cattails are a protected species means VDOT deliberately avoids mowing some areas allowing the cattails to rapidly take over Cattails are not protected and never belong in roadside ditches or even in detention ponds that are intended to slow down the release of urban runoff because they increase the likelihood that phosphorus released from flooded soil will be in the runoff
There were no cattails in our original roadside ditches Those ditches dried out between rainfalls Lined with tough turf grass they were regularly mowed as part of roadside maintenance That grass moderated the rate of flow without blocking it
Grass filtered sediment which then settled at the bottom of the ditch Any small amounts of water left in the ditch evaporated from exposure to air and wind Dry soil is able to maintain its oxygen level through contact with the atmosphere and keep phosphorus bound to the soil But a freshwater ecology textbook (Batzer and Sharitz 2007) points out the diffusion rate of oxygen from water is 10000 times less than from air Grass lined ditches worked well until woody vegetation and cattails replaced the grass and
the ditches stopped drainingThe solution is simplemdashclear the
pipes remove woody growth and cattails and replant the grassmdashin essence restore the ditch to its original design configuration This is the definition of maintenance in VDOTrsquos blanket permits for roadside ditch maintenance
So who forgot the purpose of rural roadside ditches is to not only drain the roads but to allow natural watershed function and imitate predevelopment hydrology as much as possible
Highway ditches are supposed to be kept clear and drain dry Cattails are living monuments to failed drainage maintenance So why arenrsquot environmentalists speaking up now to keep the phosphorus that cattails accumulate out of the ditches and out of the Bay Rainfall with its oxygen supply and without phosphorus must flow from functioning roadside ditches to help save the BayCarol J Bova is the author of Drowning a County and InsideTheCratercom Email mcditchesgmailcom Carol J Bova photo
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6714 Main St Gloucester804-210-1506 804-210-1507 Fax
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
Chesapeake Style Magazine
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
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Join your local club todayCall Gwen Keane 804-436-2766
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The Gift Gallery A treasure trove of gifts for all occasions
Salt Lamps Hand Painted Glass Fair Trade Products Painted Furniture
Wreaths Home Decor Handbags Jewelry Cards
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Time Square Shopping CenterWarsaw Va
$1000 per dogIncludes BFL dog bandana amp gift bag
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Proof of rabies and leashes are requiredMore information NNBarkForLifegmailcom
October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
current vaccination records to register
Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
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By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
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October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
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504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
Proof
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
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After
Find the Artist in You
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Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
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Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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October 2016 37
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Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
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Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
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October 2016 17
By Martha M Hall
In terms of treatment brain injuries are classified by severitymdashmild which usually resolve themselves over time with targeted
follow up care and moderate to severe which require more intensive treatment Any blow to the head should be taken very seriously particularly if there are no outward visible signs of injury following a significant impact These types of head injuries can fall into that second category of brain injurymdashmoderateseveremdashdue to potential swelling or bleeding inside the skull which puts great pressure on the brain Fortunately moderate to severe brain injuries donrsquot happen as frequently as mild brain injuries but their physical and psychosocial impacts are usually more serious and long-term requiring extensive treatment and rehabilitation
Depending on the severity rehabilitation can encompass services from the onset of injury throughout the personrsquos life Every brain injury is different and everyonersquos response to rehabilitation is different It is important to have different options available to accommodate diverse needs
Here are examples of typical services available in the continuum of careHospital-based services
Acute Hospital Care These services are usually concerned with providing medical attention to stabilize the patient who may be in a coma or has other physical issues or complications from a stroke or an accident Some rehab activities may take place at this point depending upon the patientrsquos ability to participateAcute Rehabilitation This phase provides intense skilled service delivery such as PT OT speech therapy and neuro-psychological services usually delivered in the hospital while medical staff are optimizing the personrsquos medical condition and improving basic functioning Focus is on bowel and bladder control communication mobility basic hygiene orientation and learningPost-Hospital ServicesSkilled Nursing Facility Appropriate for persons at continued medical risk with complex nursing needs the goals and therapies may be similar to those offered in a rehabilitation setting but are governed by the personrsquos medical stabilityPost-Acute Rehabilitation Individuals at this stage of recovery can participate more fully in the rehabilitative process generally provided in a facility setting The focus is on functional physical cognitive behavioral and emotional skills Activities of daily livingmdashmeal preparation community
errands and vocational activitiesmdashare sometimes used to help the individual with reintegration into his home and community Outpatient Services These services are usually focused on specific functional cognitive or behavioral needs and can be provided in the patientrsquos home by therapists who come in or in a nearby outpatient facility which the patient goes to on a scheduled basisSupported Living Designed to support an individualrsquos integration into the community options include residential community and group living settings with varying levels of support based on the individualrsquos needs
Recovery from brain injury can last a lifetime even though formal rehabilitation ends When that happens the survivor and those who care for him need to find ways to manage the day to day challenges and continue the recovery process Good rehabilitation lays a foundation for managing the challenges of daily livingFor more information contact the Brain Injury Association of Virginia at 800-444-6443 or wwwbiavnet
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VISIT US ON FACEBOOKfor Framing amp RestorationIdeas Specials and Sales Kinsale Museum
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Office 804-758-4585Toll Free 800-435-2558
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Wed-Friday 10-5 Saturday 10-4
153 Northumberland Highway Callao
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At Mosaic You Will Find New Gently Used and Artisan Items
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
Calling All Dog LoversAll Breeds and Mixed
Breeds Welcome
Join your local club todayCall Gwen Keane 804-436-2766
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
Fest Sponsored by B H Baird
Register Mon - Fri 830 am - 1230 pm
or 130 - 5 pm
Mon Oct 10 deadline to register Bring
current vaccination records to register
Registration fee is $15 ALL proceeds go to
Local Animal Shelter
By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
Merle Norman Cosmetics
78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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October 2016 37
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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18 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Heat Pumps Tankless Water Heaters Wells and More
By Joanne Nelson
ldquoHow was the company name Fire and Water chosenrdquo I asked Mark Frizzell Senior and Junior Mark Sr explained that
the name came from the gasmdashfiremdashheaters and water heaters they sell and install for customers This led to a conversation with Mark Jr about how many things the name relates to in what they do with natural gas propane heating Regency gas fireplace units plumbing and heat
pump installation Their logo is a stunning portrayal of brilliant fire flames over a blue water wave all on a black background This logo is on their hats their trucks and in their ad
This father and son business was started in 2008 and is run out of Mark Jrs home in Gloucester They have four full time workers and at times use subcontractors for larger jobs Each morning Mark Sr comes over to Mark Jrs place where they line up their day and depart in their work vehicles
Mark Jrs wife Sam helps with the business by doing the record keeping paper work and other support work for
this multifaceted service business They have a house pet Chica a sweet natured light brown and white chihuahua who greets everyone lovingly and enthusiastically
Fire and Water Company sells installs and services Rinnai and Navien tankless water heaters These are on demand water heaters Instead of maintaining a tank of heated water through the day it only uses energy when water is used
The installation involves electrical
work and plumbing but you do not have to hire different contractors with the two Marks on board They can hook up your new water heater in one day and it will be ready to go Whole house heating systems are also an option with Rinnai and Navien hydronic water heaters that heat the house with the same water as the tankless water heater
The backbone of the business is HVAC (Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Systems) and includes everything mechanical specifically electric plumbing heating and air Besides water heaters Mark Sr and Jr install heating systems including heat pumps and Regency gas fireplaces They have all their master licenses in electrical plumbing gas and contractor licenses Not only can they do the electrical work for their heating and air jobs but they can wire and plumb an entire house or even service a shallow well and pumpmdashup to 150 ft
Fire and Water also deals with water purification systems and will test your water before advising what unit and set the adjustments that would be most effective for your water Different areas have different water sources says Mark Jr and therefore a water purifier you buy on the open market may not be the type you need for your water Mark Jr explained that he is the only dealer in Virginia for Aqua water purifier for sulphur iron or salts
Many of their customers are in the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula area but the Frizzells also have customers in Newport News The Williamsburg area is also within their travel range and they are seeking to expand their service call business there as well as new installations The service area is described by Mark Sr as being from Newport News up tomdashnot includingmdashRichmond and from Williamsburg to Callao
Additional local services include helping with tree work after disasters and building decks concrete work tile floors and pressure washing
If you are building a home adding on or updating your home be sure to call Fire and Water to evaluate your facility needs and goals Call to schedule your free home or business consultation for all work You will be able to view a diagram of the layout and features of your planned installation Each job is carefully planned around your needs and the design of your home or facility They can order the product that is the right fit for you Invite Mark Sr and Mark Jr to review your options with you and offer their expert knowledge regarding your situation
To contact Fire and Water Company call Mark Frizzell Sr at 804-824-7085 or Mark Frizzell Jr at 804-832-9379 Check their web site at wwwthefireandwatercompanycomJoanne Nelson photo
Calling All Dog LoversAll Breeds and Mixed
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Join your local club todayCall Gwen Keane 804-436-2766
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
Second Annual Dog Show at Warsaw
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or 130 - 5 pm
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By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
wwwrappahannockgrillcom
Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
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October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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October 2016 19
Sewing in Style~Scrunchies Cozies and More
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By Joy Brenda Burch
Those that sew enjoy sharing their finished projects with friends giving gifts and thoughtful surprises
Letrsquos not leave out our pets There are many items that we can make
for our fur babiesEasy projects are
scrunchies and cozies A scrunchie for a pet is a fabric tube that fits the collar Some dogs do not like to wear scarves A collar scrunchie can add a colorful accent If it is made a little longer it can be slightly bunched up for another attractive look The petrsquos name can be inked or embroidered on it
To go with the collar scrunchie make a longer fabric tube to go around the leash This set is easy
to make Just cut a fabric strip long enough for the length of the leash up to the hand loop Make it about one half inchmdashor moremdashwider than the circumference Then hem the short ends With right sides facing sew the long side Now turn the tube right
sides out That is your leash cozy Do the same thing for the collar
except it does not need to be the exact length of the collar Adjust the length according to whether you want it to be a little scrunched up on the collar or not It should cover the collar across the back of the neck Now you have a matching set for your next walk with your pet A scrunchiecozy set make a nice gift for a friend and their fur baby
Perhaps you would still like to use a scarf that is easy to put on but does not slide or untie A collar scarf might be the answer Cut a triangle shape of fabric adjusted for the petrsquos size Make it long enough so that the top edge of the triangle can be folded to the back and sewn across making a tunnel for the petrsquos regular collar The triangle will hang in the front of your petrsquos chest neatly
A pet dish place mat is another project for sewist pet lovers Use
washable fabric that has firmness such as denim decorator fabric or fabric with a firm backing You can make a rectangle circle or a shape that is pet related A fish shape for a cat or a bone shape for a dog adds special personality
Cut two matching shapes With the top and bottom pieces put right sides together sew almost all around Leave an unsewn section through which to turn it right sides out After turning it machine or hand sew the opening closed With an iron press the pet dish place mat to flatten the hemmed edges Now your pet or a friendrsquos pet has a special place for their food dish It protects the floor and is washable
These easy projects are fun to do Beginners and more experienced sewists can share their creativity with family and friends by making these fashions and practical items for their petsJoy Burch photo of model Athena
20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Our professional staff can cater to your every need From birthday parties to weddings holiday parties to family reunions
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
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Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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20 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Elder Law Experts
37 North Main St Kilmarnock Va 804-435-5152
HoursSunday -Thursday 1130 am - 8 pmFriday amp Saturday 1130 am - 9 pm
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Our Lunch Dinner amp Drink MenusAre Perfect For Any Occasion
ldquoServing The Freshest Seafood In The Northern Neckrdquo
By Susan Grandpre
Close to 40 years ago Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton Ill opened his private law practice In the beginning he
did not know that he would spend his career specializing in elder law As a young attorney Chip had a client who asked him to prepare a will and a trust for him and Chip has never looked back He found that he liked this area of the law and he knew that it was important to him to help people
What began as a client request launched Chip into a highly successful career He is one of only 500 certified in the country and one of only 12 in the Commonwealth of Virginia This designation of being a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA) is issued by the National Elder Law Foundation Reaching this level of certification requires a lot of hard work peer review examinations a certain number of cases per year and recertification every five years
Chip practices law as part of the TrustBuilders Law Group a family owned and operated law firm focusing on estate planning and elder law This area of law includes trusts and wills probate and estate
administration asset protection business succession Medicaid planning and long-term disability charitable giving elder advocacy and corporate fiduciary services
Among the other attorneys comprising TrustBuilders are Chips son Wake his daughter in-law Lori and E Jane Smart Hansch Helping clients make thoroughly informed decisions is important to Chip For most of us thinking about death disability wills trusts and other related topics makes us uncomfortable
Despite the information and encouragement of experts many people still resist going through the process of making plans for their finances in the event of death or disability What many people do not realize is that by not making plans the hardship difficulty expense and lengthy process will be borne by their families and loved ones
With three offices in the Tidewater area Chip knows that this family law firm is accessible to so many of the residents in the area ldquoWake is located in the Williamsburg Yorktown offices and I work in the Urbana officerdquo says Chip The third office is situated in the Virginia Beach and
Norfolk area providing easy access to anyone in the greater Tidewater region who needs help with estate planning or any part of elder law
Through the years Chip has immersed himself in elder law issues He has been an adjunct law professor at Regent University Law School Chip has been appointed to Board of Governors for the Virginia Senior Lawyer Conference
The Buxton Family has deep roots in the Tidewater region along with long-standing dedication to civic-minded ness While current generations of Buxtons help residents with legal matters the first members of the Buxton family who settled in the region served the area through the practice of medicine In 1899 Dr Joseph T Buxton moved to Newport News and eventually established Buxton Hospital His son Russell who is Chips father was also a local doctor and chief administrator of the hospital
Chips father and grandfather were not the only strong role models for Chip to follow In fact his mothers family also has a rich history of hard work and dedication to community His mother was from Ohio and his grandmother graduated from Ohio State University Law School in 1917 Chip recalls that Sarah Phillips Hendrick his grandmother attended law classes during the day
and taught her husband each night the information she learned in class each day They practiced law together in Cleveland until their deaths
In addition to advising and serving area clients TrustBuilders offers regular free public seminars to educate people on elder law issues and to motivate people to get their affairs in order For example a seminar on estate planning will address the essential tools to estate planning Virginias tax laws and new laws pertaining to wills trusts and Powers of Attorney among several other important topics Through education and knowledge people can begin to take the necessary steps to sift through the issues facing them Chip notes ldquoThese seminars usually last approximately 90 minutes and cover the basics of good estate planningrdquo The next seminar will likely occur in late October
The staff at TrustBuilders is dedicated to their clients and have also made commitments to local charities and non-profit groups For instance TrustBuilders is a sponsor for the Walk to End Alzheimerrsquos and the Alzheimerrsquos Association
For more information about the TrustBuilders Law Group estate planning or any of the vast number of issues related to elder law please call 757-877-2248 or visit httptrustbuilderscom online
Merle Norman Cosmetics
78 S Main StreetKilmarnock
804-435-7177
October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
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Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
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October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
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By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
For a complete listing of our activities and eventsgo to wwwrfmuseumorg
504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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October 2016 21
By Saraya Cheney
This past summer The Bay School Community Arts Centerrsquos Free Weeks of Art were shrouded in myths
and legends From the opening of Pandorarsquos Box to the wild omen of
The Raven children and teens were invited to delve deeper into the mysteries that have shaped many of the worldrsquos ancient cultures Each week the children and teens joined with Teaching artist Steph Brown and were told a myth or legend that aimed to spark their creativity and were then asked to bring those myths and legends to life through a variety of artistic media
The summer began with the release of chaos into the world via Pandorarsquos Box Students created their own boxes of mystery allowing them to creatively explore who they are
and what they wish to keep from or release into the world From there they explore the murkiest depths of Loch Ness in search of Nessie capturing her likeness in statue with clay and paint Some of the students were whisked away
into the land of the Faeries with Teaching Artist Virginia Coyle as they learned all about the wee folk their homes and fashionmdashothers sought out the wisdom of The Raven through legume mosaics to see what the future may hold Children and teens both ventured deep into the heart of the ocean to swim with Poseidon and his mer-people creating mixed media sculptures of mer-creatures and people
The summer culminated with an art show that featured many of the works created and the art show attendees were invited to create wings and tails to turn themselves into the mythical creatures they learned about during the course of the summer These winged creatures could be seen running wild on Main Street in the heart of Mathews
Wings and tails were created with a variety of recycled materials that challenged the attendees who
were assisted by Bay School Board members to think outside the box to truly bring their inner mythical creature to life The exploration of these myths and legends truly sparked the imaginations of all who attended and brought a touch of magic to the town of MathewsSaraya Cheney photo
Myths and Legends Explored Through the Arts
22 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
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Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
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Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
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October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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Style Spotlight~Journey To Better Health
By Joanne Nelson
When entering Kim Diazs office one can see that she is serious about helping a
person start over about their health and well being Her office is a place of peace and tranquility like stepping into a stress free cocoon furnished with natural fabrics in neutral colors with pastel accents The art on the walls features whole foods designs and a beautiful rope bridge to represent crossing the blocks to your healthfulness and energy There is a an uplifting citrus oil emanating from
the diffuser A salt lamp is on a corner table glowing orange as it offers positively charged ions into the environment
The journey to better health is like climbing a mountain says Kim People know where they are and where they want to be but getting from here to there is the hard part Kim helps you to break down
your climb into manageable steps with intermittent goals and methods along the way to achieve success
Her programs center around nutrition lifestyle and self care Many things relate to how you eat and Kim is trained to help with stress focus determination and self awareness When you call her the first thing she will do is set up a personal consultation time for you You can meet with her at the YMCA or in her office You will be given a form to fill out about your health history and review your past and present health status She will talk to you
about your health goals and explain how the various programs work
After you have established your goals you may choose to meet with Kim in person or over the phone once a week or every two weeks for a period of three or six months Online support is also given in between sessions
The general approach for these programs is to first find out what foods work for you There is not one fixed diet for everyone Kim can help you determine if you have an allergy or food sensitivity You keep a food diary of what you eat and any reactions like fatigue or cravings If you like a certain food that is not healthy for you or if you have a food restriction Kim can help suggest substitutes and provide you with recipes and meal plans to help make it easier for you to form your new diet
Healthy eating is the major focus however many people do loose weight lower cholesterol blood pressure and even lower or eliminate medicines once they find the right way to nourish their body and satisfy their appetite with healthy whole foods
A cleanse is a good way to begin a healthy eating regime Each season Kim runs a two week long whole foods clean eating cleanse program At the first part of the program many foods are eliminated and then gradually introduced back in
Kim is certified through Integrative
Nutrition the International Association of Health Coaches and AADP American Association of Drugless Practitioners She is also a Certified Gluten Practitioner Kim began her business two years ago as a health coach at the Kilmarnock YMCA
She meets with clients by appointment and also holds monthly classes at the YMCA including workshops with food recipes and cooking As a doTERRA essential oil educator she also does presentations about natural health solutions using essential oils Essential oil class topics include Emotions Mood and Stress Management Digestive and Immune Health Women and Childrens Health Sometimes a particular oil or combination is highlighted and she explains the use and effect of that oil These therapeutic grade essential oils as well as the diffuser to freshen a room and give a special lift or a calming effect are available for purchase through doTERRA from Kim
Kim became interested in helping others through healthy eating and the use of natural products when she found out first hand what a difference a change in diet and lifestyle made for her own health
You dont have to buy special foods to eat well says Kim You can eat a healthy diet by shopping at your local grocery store Kim recommends fresh vegetables and vegetables in season Local Farmers Markets and vegetable stands abound and are good sources for fresh produce
Her office is at 25 Office Park Drive Suite 2 in Kilmarnock You can call her at 804-577 0300 or email nourishkimdiazwellnesscom Find her on FaceBook Kim Diaz Wellness and online at wwwnourish-wellnesscomJoanne Nelson photo
Callao Community Trading Post
In the center of Callao where neighbors can get together sell
their goods Rent space inside or outside weekends or monthly
Fri Sat - 11 - 5 pmSun 12 - 5
Call 571-233 1663
October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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24 October 2016
Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
Distinctive Bazaar - Irvington United Methodist ChurchThe Premier Event in the Northern Neck
Our Bazaar Is Like Walking Into A Gift ShopTithe 25 Food Bank Scholarships Animal Welfare Free Health Clinic
bull We Have One Of A Kind Gifts bull Gift Baskets bull Hostess Gifts bull Theme Trees bull Wreathsbull Childrenrsquos Books wAnimals bull Bakery Boothbull Affordable Upscale Gifts
October 1st - 8 am to 3 pmCafe Features Vegetable soup amp Chicken Salad Sandwich
November 5th - 8 am to 3 pm Cafe Features Chili and Condiment Bar
By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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October 2016 23
Bark for Life~Take a Bite out of CancerBy Martha M Hall
Cancer is no respecter of time or season race or gender age or ethnicity one in three persons
will experience this destructive disease in their lifetime and while science continues to make tremendous progress in diagnostic techniques and treatment options to fight this disease cancer is still a fearsome opponent According to the American Cancer Society there will be an estimated 1685210 new cancer cases diagnosed and 595690 cancer deaths in the US in 2016
The American Cancer Societyrsquos Relay for Life campaigns each year raise millions for cancer research and 75 of all donations go directly to four critical areas 1) research 2) patient support 3) prevention information and education and 4) detection and treatment The Relay for Life
of Essex-Richmond-Westmoreland this year raised over $100000 for the ACS and another fund raising event is planned for October 22 2016mdashBark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County of Virginia This third annual BFL fundraiser covers the counties of Essex Richmond Westmoreland Lancaster and Northumberland Bark for Life recognizes the comfort and support that pets offer those fighting cancer by holding a special event to allow dogs to accompany their owners to celebrate taking a bite out of cancer This event is particularly special because it coincides with both Breast Cancer Month and Adopt A Shelter Dog Month
Bark for Life of the Northern Neck and Essex County is sponsored by Lucky Lavender Lads and Ladies a Relay for Life team Team members include Mary Jo Wilson a two time cancer survivor Dianne Dillon cancer caregiver to both her parents and her husband and Diannes grandchildren Both Mary Jo and Dianne are dog owners and they
encourage residents to bring their dogs to this fun and important event
The donation for each attending dog is $10 which entitles the dog to a Bark for Life bandana and gift bag and entitles the owner to a raffle ticket for a surprise gift The event will be held in Warsaw in the field in front of the Warsaw Animal Clinic and will feature a number
of dog friendly activities such as a Meet the Dogs lap and a Mutt Strut Parade There will be contests for the Best Tail Wagger the Best Pink and Lavender costumes Best Clever Canine and because the event is close to Halloween the Best Costume
There will also be Retrieving and K-9 demonstrations as well as a Smooch Booth a Silent Auction and Paw Art All funds raised at the event will go to the American Cancer Society
According to statistics from 2014-2015 there are nearly 145 million cancer survivors living in the United States today and that number is expected to increase to nearly 19 million by 2024 Come out for the Bark for Life event and help make it happenMary Jo and Dianne are looking for volunteers to help and can be reached at 804-493-0035 or at NNBarkForLifegmailcom
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Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
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By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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Visit the Reedville Fishermens Museum where history of Northern Neck Watermen comes alive
Walk our dock inspect our boats visit our museum galleries Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop
Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how Reedvilles early residents lived
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504 Main Street Reedville Virginia
804-453-6529
30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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Payable On DeathBy Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III
Payable on Death (POD) accounts are used by many individuals so that when they pass away the account is
designated to a specific individual or group of individuals They are used on bank accounts brokerage accounts retirement accounts andor insurance policies Naming a beneficiary on a financial account can be useful from an estate planning perspective but is dangerous in many cases
For example if you have a large bank account or brokerage account and you name a child as payable on death beneficiary and the child predeceased you that account will normally go through the probate process at your death and be
distributed by your Executor or your Administrator of the estate
At the same time this process inadvertently disinherits the childrsquos children if your intent was to have that account or those assets pass to your beneficiaryrsquos descendants Another problem arises if you have named an individual who may be disabled and receiving public benefits When the account passes to the child outright their public benefits are in jeopardy
However the use of payable on death accounts on joint accounts can be useful For instance when one individual passes away and the account passes to the survivor and the survivor dies either in the same accident or after the first death with no one named on the POD account
the assets go through probate to be managed by the Executor or Administrator of the last to die
This is why with my trust clients I usually advise them to name the trust as payable on death beneficiary Thus if they are in a common disaster or accident the assets can be collected by the trustee without going through the court system
Designating individuals as beneficiaries on the account can seem to be an easy cost effective way to transfer assets at death However doing so can defeat your intent especially if the beneficiary has predeceased you is incapacitated or disabled In lieu of using POD accounts I recommend the use of trusts for estate planning purposes The Trustee will manage the account
in the event of the death or disability If you want to have an individual
bank account outside of a trust it should name the trust as the beneficiary so that at your death your trustee can collect those funds and close out that account without those assets passing through court supervised probate system Joseph T Buxton III is the founder of TrustBuilders Law Group Buxton and Buxton PC with offices in Yorktown Williamsburg and Urbanna He can be reached at 804-758-2244 or chipbuxtontrustbuilderscom Joseph T ldquoChiprdquo Buxton III is Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation Tucson Az
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By Corinne Becker
Things will be hopping in October at RHHT in Heathsville
On Saturday night October 8th the
Taverns Oyster and Art Fest will take place from 4 to 8 pm outside on the Tavern Green The restaurant will be cooking up delicious oyster offerings like fried oysters oysters on the half shell and oyster sliders plus fried chicken for the land lubbers There will also be beer wine and live music under the big top tent
Artisans from the Northern Neck
Artisan Trail will be showcasing their wares for sale inside the adjacent Transportation Museum Building Inside the Tavern more hand crafted items will be for sale in the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Thats the art part
Get in for a $5 cover charge and then buy your fill of oysters and beverage as you watch the sun go down and the lights go The band who call themselves The Articles is out of Richmond and does a little bit of everything from rock n roll to soul and country They were here last year and are a real crowd pleaser
The season ending Heathsville Farmers Market will follow up on Saturday October 15th As part of this months market the public is invited to view the winning photographs in the Tavern Photography Show on display inside the Transportation Museum Building
A pumpkin decorating contest will take place outside with prizes awarded to both youth and adults There will also be a dance exhibition provided by local line dancers and square dancers
All your favorite vendors will be on hand including purveyors of local produce meat eggs goat cheese bread gourmet soups and handcrafts There are new vendors every month The market runs from 9 am to 1 pm
Jumping ahead to the holiday season put Saturday Nov 19th on your calendar for a Christmas Shopping Open House at the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop Enjoy refreshments and door prizes while you shop The store sells only locally made hand crafted items all unusual
and all one of a kind Youll find handwoven towels and place mats quilted items wooden boxes and cutting boards jewelry handbags and totes cards hand knitted lace shawls baskets pottery and so much more
A Historic landmark in the Northern Neck since the 1700s RHHT is the home to the Heritage Arts Center Gift Shop where visitors can find working artisans in residence locally made artisans wares for sale and the Tavern Restaurant The shop is open Tuesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 3 pm The Tavern Restaurant is open for breakfast and lunch Wednesday through Friday 10 am to 2 pm and Saturday 9 am to 2 pm
RHHT Happenings
Chesapeake Style Magazine
October 2016 25
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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Fall Gardening Activities
28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
Museum
Convenient parking
Oct 15th Holly Point amp Seafood Festival 10-4pm
Nov 26th Holiday Gift Market
9am-1pm 287 Jackson Creek Road Deltaville VA 804-776-7200 Website wwwdeltavillemuseumcom
FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
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bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
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Tech Bytes in Style~Computer Hardware Guide
By Becky Vess
The time has come and you are ready to purchase a new computer With technology changing
rapidly shopping for a new computer can be quite overwhelming First you need to have an idea of what type of computer you want Do you want a desktop or a laptop What operating system Windows or Mac What programs or apps will you be running
First letrsquos look at the hardware Each computer has these basic components processor hard drive memory and graphics card The processor is the brain of the computer You may have heard it
referred to as the Central Processing Unit (CPU)
The processor connects to the motherboard and works with other components to process instructions between different hardware and memory components You will find several options regarding which processor to get For instance a single core processor which is just that one
processor A dual core processor two processors in one A quad core processor four processors in one And an octa core processor eight processors in one The larger the core the more programs you can process at one time
When looking at hard drives yoursquoll see HDD (Hard Disk Drive) or SSD (Solid State Drive) A quick breakdown is that typical HDD drives use plates and a read write head to access the data from those plates These types of hard drives are more common and are more affordable
An SSD drive is newer and uses memory chips similar to usb drives to store data SSD drives are a bit more expensive and the storage size is typically smaller If you are
planning to purchase a laptop it is highly recommended that you get a solid state drive in the event of the laptop dropping or getting banged around Plus solid state drives just perform better
Random Access Memory (RAM) ranges in size todayrsquos computers usually start at 4GB This is the memory that programs use The more you have the faster your system with perform It is worth the extra money to invest in a larger amount of RAM Especially if you do a lot of work with graphics and videos
Depending on how you plan to use the computer will depend on the graphics card If yoursquore looking for a home computer to surf the internet and pay bills then a high end graphics card is not necessary However if you plan to play a lot of games or do video or photography work a quality graphics card is worth the investment
Now that you have a little more knowledge of the hardware shopping for a computer should be a more pleasant experience for you Only you know your budget and your computing needs Do your homework and shop around for the best deal For more tech news and tips follow me on facebook wwwfacebookcomjandbusinesssolutions wwwjbbsus rvess76gmailcom
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
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26 October 2016
Style Spotlight~Looking Good is Easy with Jennifer BishopBy Charlene Talcott
Jennifer Bishop has been making customers happy for 13 years One reason is her line of Merle Norman products Jennifer is in love
with the product line When she was younger she tried several lines of cosmetics but they all aggravated her skin Merle Norman created the only cosmetics and cleansing products that worked for her ldquoTheir quality was better than what I could get at the drug store Irsquove been a convert ever sincerdquo Jennifer added
She loves her customers even more than her Merle Norman products Her bubbly personality is infectious and the reason she has so many repeat customers Some of them have been with her since the beginning When she first started she brought baby Peyton to the store A few years later brother Connor joined them Jennifer liked having a way to take care of her children and be able to run a business at the same time Customers have enjoyed watching both of them now 14 and 11 grow up They help in the store at times and have learned hard work and customer service skills from their mother
Unfortunately cancer enters the life of some of her customers The effects of radiation and chemotherapy can make them feel less than beautiful In 2010 Jennifer was approached by the American Cancer Society to participate in the
Look GoodhellipFeel Better Campaign Several times a year registered patients can receive a customized bag of cosmetics donated by the company and put together by volunteers
Jennifer sits down with each client and teaches them how to deal with skin conditions that arise from treatment how to brighten their looks with cosmetics and how to recreate eyebrows and eyelashes She also carries a line of wigs and toppers She works with clients to find the best style and option for them
When one of her customers said that she needed to go to Richmond to find prosthetics and mastectomy bras Jennifer became a certified fitter for these products This required hours of training A thorough assessment is done to analyze the site of the mastectomy and the best option for the woman The bras come in pretty designs and the prosthetics are chosen to match the womanrsquos body to look natural and flattering
Most insurance plans cover up to 80 of the costs of prosthesis
bras wigs and hairpieces for women going through chemotherapy Women should talk to their doctors for a prescription and paperwork
Of course Jennifer also supplies beauty products for women just trying to juggle everyday life while looking good I asked for some advice for us older women The makeup we wore in our twenties just doesnrsquot seem as flattering anymore She said as our faces change so should our cosmetics Lighter
is better in both texture and color Heavy foundation gets into creases on our faces accentuating them
She was too nice to call them wrinkles Powders are also bad for creases so liquids are best Darker colors make us look older while lighter brighter colors make us look vibrant Yellow is good for ruddy complexions Many new products have light diffusers that make skin glow
If all of this sounds too complicated make an appointment for a free consultation Jennifer will tell you what colors work best for
you and send you out looking like a whole new person Everything is guaranteed 100 so if you get home and donrsquot like it you can return it She wants everyone to be comfortable and happy with their purchases
Itrsquos not surprising that many bridal parties come to her for makeup before the big event She is also popular for prepping for holiday parties and for proms She has a flair for making every woman look her best and highlighting each womanrsquos special features
This November she will add nail services to her lineup Additional services Jennifer offers are eyebrow threading facial hair removal eyelash enhancements and spray tanning
Merle Norman products are made in America Even the packaging is made in the United States Carrying on that theme gifts in her store are also made in America She carries a line of Pouchee and Stephanie Dawn bags that are made in Ohio Even the mastectomy products are American made When so many products are made overseas that is truly amazing
Jenniferrsquos shop is located in downtown Kilmarnock in the Steptoe District at 78 Main Street For appointments for make overs nails spray tanning wig customized fittings and mastectomy fittings call 804-435-7177 Find her on FaceBook at Merle Norman Cosmetics with Jennifer Bishop Photo courtesy Jennifer Bishop
October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
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Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
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October 2016 27
By Kathey Brodtman
By the time you read this article autumn will be officially starting We have seen record temperatures
this summer and low rain totals Some of the trees like the Tulip Popular and the Black Gum are starting to show their fall colors with leaves falling early which could possibly be caused by our hot dry summer Maybe you will decide to travel somewhere so you can experience cooler temperatures and autumn leaf peeping Be sure to check the dates predicted for best leaf color It is worth the trip
Fall is an excellent time to divide or transplant many perennials
because of warm soil rain possibilities with fewer insect and disease related problems that combine to make perfect growing conditions for your new divisions and transplants New roots will grow all winter and in spring they will be strong enough to support lush new top growth You will enjoy the new garden additions you planted in the fall Generally if a perennial blooms
in spring or early summer it can be divided or moved in fall If it blooms in late summer or fall it is best divided or moved in spring
July through September is the best time to divide and transplant iris once
they have finished blooming The iris will benefit from the division and reward you with beautiful blooms in a year or two Iris will grow well in sunny areas in soil that drains well Space them 18 inches apart Place the rhizome on top of a small soil mound in the hole Spread the roots out around the rhizome and then cover the roots with soil leaving the rhizome partially exposed Water the newly transplanted iris plant
Fall is also a good time to make some changes to your lawn Many of you may have attended a lawn care seminar that was sponsored by your local extension office We were watching Virginia Home Grown recently on TV and they addressed lawn care It seems that Tall Fescue is one of the best choices if you are not too close to the coast
Otherwise they recommended a warm season grass like Bermuda or Zoysia It is good to use a blend
of different seed types which can help to protect the lawn against diseases We recommend contacting your extension office in your area for more details on lawn care
Finally here are a few words about hummingbirds These unique birds are gradually losing their native nectar plants due to climate change It is important that we consider planting to attract hummingbirds Please make some changes in your gardens to accommodate them A few of the plants they like are Carolina jessamine coral bells jewelweed penstemon bee balm scarlet sage cardinal flower and trumpet honeysucklemdashthis is not an invasive species and comes in colors of yellow orange and red Enjoy fall and cooler weather If wersquod only stop trying to be happy wersquod have a pretty good time Edith WhartonKathey Brodtman photo
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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28 October 2016
Third CultureBy Kenny Park
Just like a fish in water We are generally unaware of the culture in which we live It is present but on an unconscious level Things
just lsquoarersquo You know what to do what to say how to respond It is understood You donrsquot remember there being a time when you Didnrsquot know how to relate to the people around you It just came naturally And you knew what to expect From the people you were around There is a code that is followed You say lsquoArsquo I say lsquoBrsquo Itrsquos easy Your whole life therersquos never been a question or a doubt
Except when there is When you are exposed to a new a different culture One where the norms are different When the greetings the customs the food the way of being with each other are all different from what you knew beforehand Then it becomes an exhausting struggle You try to understand try to relate try to
learn the new ways People talk differently joke differently make references to things with which you are unfamiliar and sometimes even speak a language which is so completely different from your own that while you May catch a little hint of what is being said because of the context you are in you are mostly clueless
That experience is much Much more jarring if you are older than if you are younger when you are exposed to that new culture There is a group of people who exist in an in between place They are those who have been born into a household where the parents belong to a culture other than the one in which they
are living but who are immersed in the surrounding culture to the point of being fluent in It
The result is that they are part of a Third Culture In some ways it is a blend of the two but it is more a description of an ability The ability
to understand and function in more than one culture to the point of considering oneself to belong to both your parentrsquos and your adopted culture It is commonly seen in children of missionaries or military personnel whorsquove been stationed overseas most of their lives or of diplomatic or international businesspeople whorsquove been working away from their home country
These people TCKrsquos (Third Culture Kids) may surprise you with their
ability to adapt to new situations to engage in new relationships and to interact with folks in a manner beyond their chronological age They are able to assess new situations and recognize different relational dynamics quickly and more readily begin to live and move and breath in that new environment
Unfortunately they are also by virtue of their ethnic background more likely to be faced with bullying and discrimination because they donrsquot match the prevailing ethnicities that surround them They are more prone to dealing with identity crises as they grow While they may seem to belong to one culture externallymdashread appearancemdashinternally they identify with their surrounding culture just as that fish does with the water he is swimming in Look for them They are all around and they are a treasureKenny Park photo
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FALL EVENTS
October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
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By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
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October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
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36 October 2016
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By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
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Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
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October 2016 29
Tercera CulturaBy Kenny Park
Igual como un pez en el agua En general no estaacutemos conscientes de la cultura en la que vivimos Estaacute presente pero en
un nivel inconsciente Las cosas simplemente son asi Sabe queacute hacer queacute decir coacutemo responder Se entiende No recuerda un momento en que no sabiacutea coacutemo relacionarse con las personas que le rodean Le venia de forma natural Y usted sabiacutea queacute esperar de las personas que estaban a su alrededor Hay un coacutedigo que se sigue Usted dice A yo digo B Faacutecil En toda su vida nunca ha habido pregunta o duda
Excepto cuando si las hay Cuando usted estaacute expuesto a una nueva a una cultura diferente Uno en el que las normas son diferentes Una en donde los saludos las costumbres la comida la forma de ser con los demaacutes
son todos diferentes de lo que sabiacutea de antemano Entonces se convierte en una lucha agotadora Intenta comprender trata de relacionar trata de aprender las nuevas maneras de ser La gente habla de manera distinta bromea de manera diferente hacen referencias a las cosas con las que no estaacute familiarizado y a veces incluso hablan un idioma que es tan completamente diferente a la suya que si bien es posible coger una pequentildea pista de lo que se dice por el contexto en que se encuentra en su mayoriacutea no tiene ni idea de lo que se estaacute diciendo
Esa experiencia es mucho mucho maacutes chocante si es mayor de edad a que si es mas joven cuando se expone a la nueva cultura Hay un grupo de personas que existen en un entre medio Son los que han nacido en un hogar donde los padres pertenecen a una cultura distinta a aquella en la
que estaacute viviendo Estaacuten inmersos en la cultura que los rodea hasta el punto de ser totalmente capaces en EL El resultado es que son parte de una tercera cultura En cierto modo es una mezcla de las dos pero es maacutes una descripcioacuten de una habilidad La capacidad de comprender y funcionar en maacutes de una cultura hasta el punto de considerarse a siacute mismo perteneciente tanto a la cultura de sus padres y tambieacuten a la cultura adoptada Se presenta con frecuencia en los hijos de misioneros o personal militar que han sido destinados en el extranjero la mayor parte de sus vidas o de empresarios internacionales o diplomaacuteticos que han estado trabajando fuera de su paiacutes de origen
Estas personas de TCK (Chicos de Tercera Cultura (Third Culture Kids) pueden sorprender con su capacidad para adaptarse a nuevas situaciones a participar en nuevas
relaciones y para interactuar con la gente de una manera maacutes allaacute de su edad cronoloacutegica Son capaces de evaluar las nuevas situaciones y reconocer diferentes dinaacutemicas relacionales de forma raacutepida y maacutes faacutecilmente empezar a vivir y moverse y respirar en ese nuevo entorno Por desgracia tambieacuten en virtud de su origen eacutetnico es maacutes probable que se enfrentan a la intimidacioacuten y la discriminacioacuten ya que no se ajustan a las etnias predominantes que los rodean Ellos son maacutes propensos a hacer frente a las crisis de identidad a medida que crecen Aunque pueda parecer que pertenecen a una cultura externa (es decir por apariencias) a nivel interno se identifican con su cultura circundante al igual que los peces hacen con el agua en que estaacuten nadando Estaacuten por todas partes y son un tesoro
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
Tidewater amp Timber~A Fall Plate
Chesapeake Style Magazine
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15075 Kings Hwy Montross Vamagnumrvverizonnetwwwmagnumrvcom
Office 804-493-1100RV SALES
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FINANCING AVAILABLE
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
Proof
BIG SALE - All framed artmirrors in stock molding amp prints 50 off thru August
804-333-3533
Embroidery SuppliesMachine Sales and Repair
Franklinrsquos SewingQuilting Supplies
Notions
Ritsy and Lou ClarkeHaynesville Va
Mon-Fri 9-430 Sat 9-12
Ficklin BryantUPHOLSTERY
We specialize inAll household and patio furniture
Cushions cornices Boat seats and repairs
Pick up and delivery available
For those who know the difference
costaricafickgmailcom11975 Richmond RdWarsaw Va 22572
804-333-3343 or 313-7303
Duncan Phyfe Sofa belonging to Linda LeBrun
34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
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After
Find the Artist in You
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Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
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Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
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October 2016 37
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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30 October 2016
Messing with Boats~Part One
By George Frayne
In 1906 Kenneth Grahame in his classic childrenrsquos book Wind in the Willows had one of his characters Ratty enthusiastically proclaim
ldquothere is nothing absolutely nothing half so much worth doing as simply messing about with boatsrdquo
People had begun messing around in boats many centuries earlier mostly in boats they rowed Later they rigged their dugout canoes and shallops with masts and booms put sails on them and took off
In the 17th century Dutch burgers in Holland began building small yachts which they sailed in competition with one another on the Zuiderzee When Charles II of England was in exile in the Netherlands in the late 1600s the Dutch introduced him to their sailing regattas which he immediately took to with great enthusiasm When he returned to the British throne he was made a present of one of the Dutch pleasure boats He organized sailing events made his courtiers acquire similar boats and established the first yacht club in Great Britain
When many of the Dutch watermen migrated to the North
American Continent they chose the coastal areas of the Delaware Bay Long Islandrsquos Great South Bay and along the Eastern Shore of
Chesapeake Bay While most of their efforts were in commerce and fishing they found time to indulge in the pleasure side of being on the water
In the late 1800s and early 1900s with the introduction of steam propulsion suitable for pleasure boats the noncommercial boating interest took hold
The Chesapeake Bay was one of the most obvious and adaptable bodies of water for this happening With all of its tributaries coves and with a timeworn sandy foundation it proved to be a perfect setting for
experimentation and development with those more easily handled vessels Many Bay area people took to the water related trades and professions gradually adding to the economic development of the region When you count all the enterprises and support facilities and people eventually involved with the care feeding and operation of the noncommercial nautical world on and around the Chesapeake Bay it is staggering
Steam powered vessels were a bit too expensive for the average person and were largely restricted to the top percentage of wealthy boating enthusiasts Additionally with the frequency of boiler explosions the US Government required all steam boats to carry a licensed engineer Obviously most small boat owners couldnrsquot accommodate one An alternative was the naphtha powered
engine These however tended to restrict the enthusiasm of small boat owners to availability
The support system to maintain the steam yachts grew slowly through the post civil war era They required piers and docks and boat houses Repair and refitting facilities were also needed As these exclusive yachtsmen
began to gather as enthusiasts tend to do they formed associations and clubs
These clubs needed housing for all the events they invented like trophy dinners meetings regarding operation of club
and boats and storage space for gear and garments All of this added to the expansion of the support system and as has been said contributed to the growing economy around the Bay
While all this was to an extent thriving its drawback paradoxically was this more limited group whose devotion to the water was directly related to the fluctuations in the financial market the less money the less playing on the watermdashexcept maybe for a bit of fishingmdashstriped bass make a great meal particularly if you donrsquot have to pay for their acquisition
The whole nautical scene was about to experience a major upheaval however Some inventive young scientific boating adherents had begun messing around with new means to propel boats To be continuedEditorial Research and Production assistance Nancy Rahn Research Kathy Elsen I would like to include the following credits to the photos Top l The Corsair IV was owned by JP Morgan Corsair IV courtesy of ssMaritimecom Medial 1britannicacom Early Man in dugout Aerial mobjackbaymarinacom Chesapeake Bay Marina aerial view
October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
Tidewater amp Timber~A Fall Plate
Chesapeake Style Magazine
Magnum Auto Group IncMagnum RV
15075 Kings Hwy Montross Vamagnumrvverizonnetwwwmagnumrvcom
Office 804-493-1100RV SALES
CONSIGNMENT AND SERVICEMOBILE RV SERVICE AVAILABLEQUALITY USED CARS amp TRUCKS
FINANCING AVAILABLE
Fax 804-493-1200
October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
Proof
BIG SALE - All framed artmirrors in stock molding amp prints 50 off thru August
804-333-3533
Embroidery SuppliesMachine Sales and Repair
Franklinrsquos SewingQuilting Supplies
Notions
Ritsy and Lou ClarkeHaynesville Va
Mon-Fri 9-430 Sat 9-12
Ficklin BryantUPHOLSTERY
We specialize inAll household and patio furniture
Cushions cornices Boat seats and repairs
Pick up and delivery available
For those who know the difference
costaricafickgmailcom11975 Richmond RdWarsaw Va 22572
804-333-3343 or 313-7303
Duncan Phyfe Sofa belonging to Linda LeBrun
34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
Big Daddyrsquos Smoked BBQwith signature sauce
Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
Homemade Side Dishes amp Desserts
12 Linden Avenue Cobbs Creek
Cobbs Creek Diner
Dine In or Carry Out
725-9300
Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
Transformation
129 Northumberland Hwy Callao wwwbanesupholsterycom
We Specialize in Top Quality Marine and Boating Products to Make Your Boat Look Great804-529-7652 or 804-761-0202 Cell
Before
During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
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October 2016 31
By Ellen Dugan
Where would Mary Poppins be without her umbrella No doubt singing
in the rain somewhere with Gene Kelly on a drenched movie set But what about Jonas Hanway Where would umbrellas be without him Probably a little damp
As a British merchant Jonas made a lot of money As an authormdashhe wrote several books including an essay expressing his fervent opposition to the introduction of tea into Englandmdashhe never made much of a splash However he is featured on a commemorative memorial in Westminster Abbey
The plaque celebrates his ldquochampioning the cause of chimney sweeps and poor childrenrdquo as well as his work with ldquohopeless youths rescued from misery and ruinrdquo It makes no mention of umbrellas So whatrsquos going on
The connection is that Jonas was a man of his convictions Those convictions led to the eventual use and acceptance of umbrellas in England and by association their use by people in her most successful colonies us
Convinced that tea was a corrupting influence Jonas created controversy by writing an Essay Upon Tea and Its Pernicious Consequences Then perhaps suffering from tea withdrawal he became convinced that protecting himself from rain would
improve his health Hence he bucked all social morays and began carrying an umbrella in public the first man in England to add this accessory to his wardrobe
It seems like a very small gesture today but in 18th century England real men did not carry umbrellas Ever Umbrellas were feminine and foreignmdashFrench But Jonas simply wasnrsquot content to let a smile be his umbrella When it rained he wanted to carry one
This attitude outraged Londonrsquos non umbrella embracing citizens They hooted and jeered when he walked by He was roundly criticized and mocked pelted with rubbish accused of having a ldquoweakness of characterrdquo Socially his sin registered on the same scale as wearing a dress and high heels with fishnet stockings
But the social stigma didnrsquot seem
to faze Jonas He dug in remained stubbornly committed to umbrellas Itrsquos even possible he realized that much of the torrent of ridicule raining down upon him emanated from the cityrsquos coach drivers They felt threatened financially Their cabs and sedan chairs came equipped with small canopies that kept passengers dry during rainy weather If everyone in London followed Jonasrsquo example and started using umbrellas where would this leave cab drivers High and dry
Not a good thing Better to run over Jonasmdashand his umbrellamdashto eliminate the threat This was tried and happily failed Jonas reacted by using his umbrella as a weapon and thrashing the would be hit and run driver
Because of Jonasrsquo persistence the cloudy forecast for umbrella acceptance eventually gave way to sunny skies Today with Americans owning an average of two umbrellas each itrsquos difficult to understand how anyone could venture out without one both to resist getting wet and to insure that it wonrsquot rain And in Songxia a town within Shangyu city in China more than 1200 factories busily turn out 350 million umbrellas each yearmdashrain golf beach folding
promotional minimdashperhaps even one for a budding Mary Poppins to use How supercalifragilisticexpialidocious is that
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32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
Tidewater amp Timber~A Fall Plate
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October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
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34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
Big Daddyrsquos Smoked BBQwith signature sauce
Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
Homemade Side Dishes amp Desserts
12 Linden Avenue Cobbs Creek
Cobbs Creek Diner
Dine In or Carry Out
725-9300
Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
Transformation
129 Northumberland Hwy Callao wwwbanesupholsterycom
We Specialize in Top Quality Marine and Boating Products to Make Your Boat Look Great804-529-7652 or 804-761-0202 Cell
Before
During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
32 October 2016
By Chelly Scala
As October arrives outdoor enthusiasts have a full fall plate to choose from October 1 is the opening
day of the statewide deer archery season and turkey archery season October 4 is the opening day of the fall striped bassrockfish season for Virginia Chesapeake Bay and Virginia Chesapeake Bay tributaries Take your pick of the fall plate or plan to do it all Early morning and late afternoon are good opportunities to archery hunt for deer or turkey could be an all day possibility as long as travel and feeding patterns are known Rock fishing can also be enjoyed all day depending on the wind
Check your gear clothing and hunting stands for archery hunting including your safety harness Aim for one of the cooler days as deer wonrsquot move much in warmer weather as it feels like an oven to them Check out wwwdgifvirginiagovhuntingregulationsdeerasp for regulations As you have success donrsquot forget those less fortunate Share some of your success with Hunters Feeding the Hungry See their website for more information www
h4hungryorgFall striped
bassrockfish season is always an exciting time The possession limit is two (2) per person per day with minimum size 20 inches and maximum size 28 inches Although one fish may be greater than 28 inches The season runs through December 31 2016 For more information on regulations for Virginia check out the Virginia Marine Resources Commission website at httpmrcvirginiagovindexshtm
Trolling or chumming provide great action this time of year When trolling try in line trolling weights in 4 to 6 ounce sizes Use 20 to 25 feet of 30 pound test monofilament leader with barrel snap swivels at the connecting end to the sinker Lure possibilities
should include larger Clarks buck tails with 4 inch sassy shads or twister tails attached medium size drones Crippled Alewives or Tony Acetta spoons
The Lower Potomac and Chesapeake Bay are alive with stripers vying for the huge schools of bait fish
Striped bass fishing remains a hit in Maryland and Potomac
River waters Maryland Chesapeake Bay waters and tributaries remain open to Striped Bass fishing through December 20 2016 Maryland has a 20 inches minimum sizemdash2 fish per person per day One of these fish may be equal to or longer than 28 inches See wwweregulations
commarylandfishingstriped bass for any questions Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) fall season remains open until December 31 below the Woodrow Wilson Bridge (I 95) PRFC minimum size is 20 inches with only 1 over 28 inches 2 per person limit and no more than 2 hooks See the regulations available at wwwprfcus
If chumming is your liking create a chum slick with ground menhaden oil When a good slick is created the fish are attracted and will readily bite the small chunks of fresh cut menhaden that are drifted back into the slick When chumming no terminal tackle should be used Just let your bait drift back into the slick Always keep your net ready to scoop up your catch Steve Scala TBT photo by Chelly Scala
Tidewater amp Timber~A Fall Plate
Chesapeake Style Magazine
Magnum Auto Group IncMagnum RV
15075 Kings Hwy Montross Vamagnumrvverizonnetwwwmagnumrvcom
Office 804-493-1100RV SALES
CONSIGNMENT AND SERVICEMOBILE RV SERVICE AVAILABLEQUALITY USED CARS amp TRUCKS
FINANCING AVAILABLE
Fax 804-493-1200
October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
Proof
BIG SALE - All framed artmirrors in stock molding amp prints 50 off thru August
804-333-3533
Embroidery SuppliesMachine Sales and Repair
Franklinrsquos SewingQuilting Supplies
Notions
Ritsy and Lou ClarkeHaynesville Va
Mon-Fri 9-430 Sat 9-12
Ficklin BryantUPHOLSTERY
We specialize inAll household and patio furniture
Cushions cornices Boat seats and repairs
Pick up and delivery available
For those who know the difference
costaricafickgmailcom11975 Richmond RdWarsaw Va 22572
804-333-3343 or 313-7303
Duncan Phyfe Sofa belonging to Linda LeBrun
34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
Big Daddyrsquos Smoked BBQwith signature sauce
Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
Homemade Side Dishes amp Desserts
12 Linden Avenue Cobbs Creek
Cobbs Creek Diner
Dine In or Carry Out
725-9300
Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
Transformation
129 Northumberland Hwy Callao wwwbanesupholsterycom
We Specialize in Top Quality Marine and Boating Products to Make Your Boat Look Great804-529-7652 or 804-761-0202 Cell
Before
During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
October 2016 33
By RuthE Forrest BA CMT BCTMB
Massage therapy is one of the most ancient forms of healing with origins
reaching back millennia Humans instinctively rub areas that hurt because being stroked makes us feel better Manual therapies turn this instinct into professional treatment Over time these methods have been codified into trademarked modalities There is no doubt that massage relieves pain and facilitates relaxation responses in the brain or that it feels great when done correctly but how do you prove this very subjective treatment objectively
There are many theories of how manual therapies work but few have been proven scientifically in spite of the fact therersquos been an increase in professional studies being published Modern medicine demands scientific proof Double blind studies repeatable over a variety of parameters The very basis of this kind of proof is to compare a real treatment with a fake treatment to prove the efficacy of the real treatment How do you fake touch Most test subjects know when theyrsquove been touched and how it feels unless neurological deficits prevent their brain from acknowledging these signals Quantum science states that simply paying attention to a person causes positive changes at the cellular level
Observing whether a person improves over time with massage isnrsquot proof either most observers will report improvements when any treatment is given
even if there is no evidence of change Comparing two unproven modalities such as massage and reflexology offers no real proof of either both have the same pitfalls of scientific burden
That massage therapy is utilized successfully across a wide field of conditions and body types is evident the difficulty in proving why is clear Itrsquos really hard to ascertain the effectiveness of any hands on therapy no matter how true your intensions There is simply no placebo for touch no fake massage so no possibility of a truly double blind study
Therersquos no doubt massage increases blood circulation in tissues being worked whether this has lasting effects is debatable Some schools teach manual therapies break up toxins being held in tissues but again therersquos little proof
Another theory is massage promotes whole body healing in a
general way reducing stress and inducing relaxation The bodyrsquos chemical cascade resulting from the relaxation response has been studied showing promise of proof as we learn more about cellular processes and measuring infinitesimal changes with increasingly sensitive instruments No one denies massage satisfies our most basic need to be touched This may be the most scientific proof studies indicating we canrsquot thrive without being touched
HCAVAcom reports ldquoIn a review of 13 randomized trials researchers concluded that massage may be effective for non specific low back painhellipbeneficial effects can last for up to one year in patients suffering from chronic painhellipexercise and education appear to enhance the effectiveness of massage involve(s) personal talents that go beyond specific training certification or licensure as some people are simply gifted with
their handsrdquo As with any therapy itrsquos best to choose a licensed practitioner wwwexpectmorecom lists those in your area Where licensure isnrsquot available your best bet is a referral Whether provable or not everyone agrees that massage is a good thing Call Spa 2 U at 804 453 5367 and prove it for yourself
Proof
BIG SALE - All framed artmirrors in stock molding amp prints 50 off thru August
804-333-3533
Embroidery SuppliesMachine Sales and Repair
Franklinrsquos SewingQuilting Supplies
Notions
Ritsy and Lou ClarkeHaynesville Va
Mon-Fri 9-430 Sat 9-12
Ficklin BryantUPHOLSTERY
We specialize inAll household and patio furniture
Cushions cornices Boat seats and repairs
Pick up and delivery available
For those who know the difference
costaricafickgmailcom11975 Richmond RdWarsaw Va 22572
804-333-3343 or 313-7303
Duncan Phyfe Sofa belonging to Linda LeBrun
34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
Big Daddyrsquos Smoked BBQwith signature sauce
Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
Homemade Side Dishes amp Desserts
12 Linden Avenue Cobbs Creek
Cobbs Creek Diner
Dine In or Carry Out
725-9300
Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
Transformation
129 Northumberland Hwy Callao wwwbanesupholsterycom
We Specialize in Top Quality Marine and Boating Products to Make Your Boat Look Great804-529-7652 or 804-761-0202 Cell
Before
During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
34 October 2016
By Bill Graves
Itrsquos a question I am sure a lot of us are asking ourselves and for good reason Food is costing a lot The answer is not a simple
one for many factors come into play in determining what we pay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics stated the cost of food over the past five years was up 3 I donrsquot buy
that and with a little research Irsquoll tell you why Beef prices are up 17 in the last two years Dairy is up 5 for the same period Corn and wheat contributed to the rise by 18 and 12 respectively this year in the trading of futures globally It is an ever increasing dilemma for many Americans especially for low income and fixed income individuals
While we see our middle class fraying around the edges other countries around the world have emerging middle classes These folks are demanding more of the quality food stuffs and this impacts price and availability which has a particularly strong effect on perishable commodities Worker shortage has caused dwindling productivity
The inadequacies of the H-2 visa program are key reasons exacerbating dwindling productivity Labor alone can explain as much as $33 billion in missed GDP growth and $23
billion in unrealized farm income this year Timothy Richards a professor of agribusiness at Arizona State University reports that labor shortages work in tandem with other factors to create a difficult environment for farming ldquoItrsquos the perfect storm we donrsquot have enough water or enough workers to pick crops so much of the food is left in the fieldsrdquo
Droughts in California and Texas have an effect on the costs of meat vegetables eggs and fruit The USDA notes that the drought could have a large and lasting effect on the prices of these products Climate change is becoming a major factor affecting food prices that can hardly be denied any longer
Perhaps the largest price pressure stemming from the processors and packagers in our food system is consolidation Big Foodrsquos consolidation indirectly spells higher food prices as a result of a lack of
competition ldquoThe grocery industry justifies the size of the big box and merging grocery chains as a way to increase efficiency lower costs and pass savings on to consumersmost supermarkets pocket savings in the form of higher profits while consumers rarely benefit The dominant supermarkets may charge consumers more than it costs to put groceries on the store shelves They have little incentive to pass discounts to consumers if there are few or no competitors in a local marketrdquo Food and Water Watch Reports
And oil prices The average American meal travels 1500 miles from the farm to the consumer There are ways to save on your monthly food bill Buying locally is a good start For a copy of Savvy Senior Savings Using Your Home to Stay at Home contact Bill Graves 804-453-4141 or Toll Free 866-936-4141 or email reversemortgagevametrocastnet
Why is My Grocery Bill So High
Big Daddyrsquos Smoked BBQwith signature sauce
Subs bull Brisket bull Ribs bull WingsPulled Barbecue bull Chicken bull Pizza
Homemade Side Dishes amp Desserts
12 Linden Avenue Cobbs Creek
Cobbs Creek Diner
Dine In or Carry Out
725-9300
Meats Sold by the Pound
NEW HOURS
SunbullMonbullWedbullThurs 12-8Fri - Sat 12-9 Closed on Tues
Transformation
129 Northumberland Hwy Callao wwwbanesupholsterycom
We Specialize in Top Quality Marine and Boating Products to Make Your Boat Look Great804-529-7652 or 804-761-0202 Cell
Before
During
After
Find the Artist in You
279 Main Street Mathews 804-725-1278 wwwbayschool-artscom
Behind the Face Adele Castillo Opens Nov 12
Painting the ldquoWowrdquo of Nature Oct 11-12 Christmas Tree Wall Mosaic Oct 15 The Art of Paper Cutting Oct 18 Autumn Pumpkin Canvas Oct 19
Beginner Wheel Throwing 6 Saturdays starts Oct 22
Blush amp Brush Halloween Cat Oct 25 Portrait Fun in Acrylic Oct 29 Abstract Mixed Media Nov 11
Drawing with Conte Crayons Nov 12
Show
Oct 1-29
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
October 2016 35
By Heather Woolard
If someone you love bought you an expensive piece of jewelry do you lock it away in a jewelry box Do you take it to someone
that would clean it super cheap knowing that they used chemicals that made it fade in the sun No you would wear it display it proudly and cherish it forever
What if the same scenario is applied to photography It would be similar to investing time and money into a photographer Who invests love sweat and sometimes even tears to capture the perfect memory That much investment should not be tossed in an envelope in the back
of a closet These memories should be displayed proudly
Identical to that fine piece of jewelry they should be taken care of like a trusted friend or family member would So then why take these images and get them printed with a cheap printing agency Such companies use the cheapest materials and processes in all categories This includes printing papers ink and machines that are not calibrated to match what was given to them
Lets talk about the visual difference When you get your photos back from the photo lab you notice the subjectrsquos skin looks dark Shadows seem even darker These two pictures are a comparison of an original image captured by me and a print of the same image done at a local big box store
This may not matter to many It matters to me Photographers put so much thought into the shots we are capturing for you This includes the weather lighting focus angles and poses These are the basic questions that go through our thought process All in hopes of achieving those perfect pictures Your photos are our jewels and we cherish them
When family and friends see these prints they say ldquoThey look so nice Who took thoserdquo Theyre really
thinking ldquoWhy is her skin so dark She looks like a zombie I hope she didnt have to pay for that I wont be calling themrdquo Thats how a photographers reputation gets tarnished Not to mention after years or even months of sunbathing in a house
the colors are severely faded Had a professional printing lab
been used none of this would be an issue Such places use only the best inks and papers They make sure that the photographers screens and their screens are calibrated to the truest colors Among several
other protective measures the corresponding places use a special coating that is guaranteed not to fade
My photographer friends and I want you to ask us who our favorite lab is We will never discourage this We encourage it because we want our jewels to shine and never fade Most photographers have a website that you can order your prints and products directly Our jewels will then be yours and arrive at your doorstep Should you have questions want to voice your opinion or are interested in a session contact me I would love to hear from youTop l original photo left copy Photos by Heather WoolardHeather Woolard Photography wwwheatherwoolardphotographysmugmugcom woolardemailgmailcom 804-580-0533
Finished Product Makes All the Difference
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
36 October 2016
Local Business Necessities
Custom DocksThat Fit Your Needs
Modular Sections Multiple Sizes Easy to Install Unlimited Configurations Great for
Family Fun Fluctuates with Changing Tides
Reedville MarinaFor more information call
804-453-6789
email rmchvacyahoocomFinancing AvailableOffice 804-529-7934
Fine Food amp Full Marine Service in Historic Reedville Va
Slips Available 804-453-6789
Mary H Sudduth LCSWSuzanne Souders LCSW
The Wellness Place
622 Main Street Warsaw
804-472-3706
wwwwellnessplace1com
Visit Rebounds
11239 Suite 3 Kings Hwy Montross
Thurs-Sat 10-5
Southern at Heartrescued bull repurposed bull reloved
antiquescandleshoneysoapcavallini paperdownton abbey teashomemade ice cream sandwiches
804-761-9086804-761-4135
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
October 2016 37
Local Business Necessities
MICHAEL BAUGHAN
Chesapeake Style Thanks Local Businesses for Advertising Locally
Quality is Our Business
1281 Goodluck Rd 804-435-2709Kilmarnock Va Fax 804-435-6348
Daniel Akers Jr
Bethany Baptist Church16256 Richmond Rd Callao
804-529-6890wwwvisitbethanycomKornel Kiss Pastor
Sunday School - 945 amWorship Service - 1100 am
Wed Kids for Christ - 645 pmYouth Bible Study - 7 pm
Prayer Service amp Bible Study 7 ndash pm
Come and Worship with usJerusalem Baptist Church
8800 History Land Hwy Warsaw
804-394-9770jbcemmertongmailcom
Sunday MorningBible Study 945
Sunday Worship 11 Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting Bible Study 7 pm
New SectionBe sure your church is included Prints
10000 copies reaches 300 locations Only $20 per issue Email chestylehughesnet
Route 360 Lottsburg 804-529-7578allisonsacehardwarecom
A Division of Allisons Ace Hardware
Custom Awnings amp Seamless Gutters
38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
22645 Kings Highway Westmorland County
804-761-2412
Open 7 daysEnroll in our
Winter Box Program Nowwwwgarnersproducecomdboylegarnersproducecom
Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
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38 October 2016
By Melissa Haydon
I have to admit that for many years I tried to make a good biscuit and just could not get
them to turn out right That is until I came across this recipe from my good friend Stacey From the first time I made these they were a complete hit with the family Using my trusty cast iron skillet bakes these up perfectly every time These are the kind of biscuits that your Grandma used to bake Trust me on this one they are just like heaven
Old-Fashioned Biscuits2 12 cups of self-rising flour12 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon sugar12 cup vegetable shortening1 cup buttermilk2 tablespoons butter melted
Preheat oven to 475 degrees In large bowl combine the flour salt and sugar Add the shortening and cut into the flour using a pastry cutter or large fork The mixture should be crumbly Stir in the buttermilk until everything is just combined Turn the dough onto a well floured surface Knead the dough lightly being sure to fold the dough in half 3 or 4 times This helps create flaky layers Gently roll the dough
out to about 34 inch thick Use a biscuit cutter to cut
the biscuits by pressing the cutter straight down Do not twist the cutter Transfer the biscuits to a baking pan or cast iron skillet and lightly brush the tops with 1 tablespoon of melted butter Bake for 14 to 16 minutes or until just golden brown Remove from the oven and brush with the remaining melted butter Serve hot
Tip Your hands are your best kitchen tool If you donrsquot
mind getting them a little messy use your hands to mix in the shortening Do Not twist your biscuit cutter Twisting causes the edges to seal and you will not get the biscuits to rise correctly
With just a few simple ingredients you could have a delicious party appetizer for all your fall parties Caramel Apple Cream Cheese Spread8 ounces cream cheeseCaramel sauce Toffee bits
Place cream cheese on a serving dish Pour as much caramel
sauce as you want evenly over cream cheese Sprinkle with a generous helping of toffee bits
Serve with sliced apples pears or pretzelsAll of the recipes I share are ones that I feed my family My style of cooking is simple no fuss and easy I am always cooking or baking up something new in my kitchen Stop by wwwservedupwithlovecom and see whatrsquos gracing our table Disclosure I use many recipe sources to share recipes with you The recipes shared here are not 100 my own
Served up with Love in Style
Cooking with Style by Diana
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Hearty Beef Stew1 lb or more of Cubed Stew Meat (tough cut of beef)2 Cups of cut up carrots (big or little pieces your choice)4 Medium size Potatoes cut into
quarters1 Large Onion cut up into quarters2-4 Tablespoons of Seasoned Salt
Put all ingredients in a large crock pot fill with water until the ingredients are barely covered Put the lid on the crock pot
Cook all day on low or three hours set on highFrost on the Pumpkin
6 Chocolate Cookies crushed finemdashuse Oreo cookies remove the creme filling1 15 oz Can of Pumpkin1 8 oz Container of Whipped Topping
1 small 3 oz package of Vanilla Instant pudding12 teaspoon of Pumpkin Pie Spice4 Small Dessert Dishes
Crush chocolate cookies fine and spoon into the bottom of the dessert dishes Mix pumpkin pie filling whipped topping mdashsave some for later One package of instant pudding (dry do not make the pudding) and 12 teaspoon of spice Mix together well
Spoon mixture equally
on top of crushed cookies when done add a bit of the whipped topping as a garnish Refrigerate for two hours EnjoyKitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
wwwRivahInteriorscom
838 Northumberland Hwy Callao Va 22435804-529-7770
24 South Main StreetKilmarnock Va 22482
804-436-9115
Fall is the Season for Outdoor
Living in the Northern
Neck Save 25 to 40 off retail on all
outdoor furniture in stock Hurry Quantities are limited Outdoor
dining seating umbrellas firepit tables and more Telescope
Casual Tuuci Three Birds Casual Barlow-Tyrie Castelle
