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Uncovering and Engaging Polarities: Coaching Clients' Wholeness through Engagement of Opposites Sam House and Debra Wilton-Kinney USA
Uncovering and Engaging Polarities:
Coaching Clients' Wholeness through Engagement of Opposites
Sam House and Debra Wilton-Kinney USA
Why Polarity Wholeness: The State of the World
Out of Balance: Divided In–Balance: Wholeness
Through Crisis?OR
Consciousness?
Leap to a Whole New LevelÀ la Einstein: Can’t solve imbalance with the same mindset that created it – we need no less than a
Fundamental Transformation of Consciousness
Where?– Integral thread across multiple
disciplines– Ancient wisdom– Nature-based principles– Participating with creative forces larger
than ourselves
What is the Shift in Mindset?From : To:
Expand awareness to engage possibilities
Simultaneous perspectives embraced togetherDivide and conquer
Resolve and makeit happen
Material Power Power that comes not from us but through us
Linear Ebb and Flow
Compromise Full Engagement and Cooperation
Unleashed Capacity to Create
– In and out breath Lifeforce– Heart beating Lifeblood– Rain and sun cycles Life flourishing– Computer on and off bits Artificial intelligence– Airplane high and low pressure Flight– Chaos and order Creativity– Autonomy and relationship Authentic connection
Simultaneous perspectives co-creating in relative balance unleash a Third Energy that is naturally life supportive and generative
Make Polarity Visible as a
Whole (Frame it)
Expand Awareness
Make Meaningful Connection (Amp it up)
Navigate Flow with Purpose
(Plug it in)
Embrace the Disconnected
PAWS: Polarity and Wholeness System
Detox &Establish Creative Tension
Keep Channel Open with “Right” Balance
Pick A Challenge
• Career• Money• Health• Relationships
• Romance• Fun and Recreation• Physical Environment• Spirituality
Navigate Flow with Purpose• Keep the channel open
Resistance as information and Acceptance of what is to open to possibility
• Attend to co-creative balanceObserve and Experiment … turn it around …. change it up
• Guide the emerging flow Focus with Intention and Surrender
Daily Practices for Engaging Wholeness
– Follow your breath in AND out as an access point to consciously look for two aspects of any other wholeness
– Substitute “both/and” for “either/or” thinking and language
– Catch self in act of strong opinion and look for the opposite
– Notice constriction in body or thought, then release
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