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Why should a man bringtrouble into his home?
What is your definition of“Trouble”
Trouble 101
Trouble comes in levelsLevel-1 early
Level-2 middleLevel-3 late
And more………..
“Life is lived in Levels: We arrive in stages”AR Bernard
Substance Abuse
• (A) A maladaptive pattern of use, leading to clinically significant impairment or distress, as manifested by at least one of the following occurring within a 12-month period:
• Recurrent use of substances resulting in a failure to fulfill major role obligations at work, school, or home (e.g., repeated absences or poor work performance related to use; substance-related absences, suspensions, or expulsions from school; neglect of children or household)
• Recurrent substance use in situations in which it is physically hazardous (e.g., driving an automobile or operating a machine when impaired by use)
• Recurrent substance-related legal problems (e.g., arrests for alc./drug-related disorderly conduct)
• Continued use despite having persistent or recurrent social or interpersonal problems caused or exacerbated by the effects of alc./drug (e.g., arguments with spouse about consequences of intoxication).
• (B) Never met criteria for alc./drug dependence.
ALCOHOL/DRUG DEPENDENCE• (A) A maladaptive pattern of drinking/using, leading to clinically significant
impairment or distress, as manifested by three or more of the following occurring at any time in the same 12-month period:
• Need for markedly increased amounts of alcohol or drugs to achieve intoxication or desired effect; or markedly diminished effect with continued use of the same amount of alcohol or drugs.
• The characteristic withdrawal syndrome for alcohol or drugs; or drinking/using (or using a closely related substance) to relieve or avoid withdrawal symptoms.
• Drinking/using in larger amounts or over a longer period than intended.• Persistent desire or unsuccessful efforts to cut down or control use.• Important social, occupational, or recreational activities given up or reduced
because of use.• A great deal of time spent in activities necessary to obtain, to use, or to recover
from the effects of using• Continued use despite knowledge of having a persistent or recurrent physical or
psychological problem that is likely to be caused or exacerbated by use.• (B) No duration criterion separately specified, but several dependence criteria
must occur repeatedly as specified by duration qualifiers associated with criteria (e.g., “persistent,” “continued”).
• Feb. 2011 training\TAAD.pdf• Feb. 2011 training\20 Questions.pdf• Feb. 2011 training\Am I an Addict.pdf
CAGE:Take the Quiz
Please check the one response to each item that best describes how you have felt and behaved over your whole life.
1. Have you ever felt you should cut down on your drinking?Yes No2. Have people annoyed you by criticizing your drinking?Yes No3. Have you ever felt bad or guilty about your drinking?Yes No4. Have you ever had a drink first thing in the morning to
steady your nerves or get rid of a hangover (eye-opener)?Yes No
CRAFFT“Adolescents”
• Have you ever ridden in a car with someone who has been using A/D?
• Do you ever use A/D to relax, feel better about yourself, or to fit in?
• Do you ever use A/D alone? • Do you ever forget things you did while using A/D?• Does your family or friends ever tell you, you should cut
down on your using?• Have you ever gotten into trouble while using?
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When Temptation Knocks
When temptation comes knocking, it is seldom mean and ugly. Most times it’s a friend or family, a neighbor, it’s cute, good looking, rich or broke, man or woman. It’s fun, enjoyable, pleasing to the senses. It helps to relax, to get away from the kids, the wife, the man, from work, from stress. It helps to overcome a cold, or flu. It is legal or illegal. It’s pitiful or powerful. It “wants me”, “he wants me”, “she wants me”.
What else is temptation to you…………..
Trouble 2.5
in·sid·i·ous
1. intended to entrap or beguile: an insidious plan.
2. stealthily treacherous or deceitful: an insidious enemy.
3. operating or proceeding in an inconspicuous or seemingly
harmless way but actually with grave effect: an insidious disease.
Crisis
Chaos
Drama
Omission
Commission
Disposition
Words/thoughts of bitternessSpirit of Offense
Attitude of EntitlementSelfish and Self-centered
_____________Vanity_____________As with the iceberg Vanity lies deep below the
surface:“I am sufficient in myself” “I must do it myself”
“There is no one to help” “I am all alone” “Who can understand what I am going through”
TheDilemma
Acknowledge it… and move on
• Blaming ______ is evidence that we are refusing to let go of some disobedience somewhere in our lives.
• We cannot serve two masters; ourselves and _____. There will be difficulty combined with doubt and confusion.
Rules
Boundaries
Limitations
Trouble 3.0
Event vs Process
Compel a man against his will…
He is of the same opinion still.
Alexander Pope 1688-1744
Teach the Teachable
Un-teachable Teachable Discount----------------------------Account
Reject---------------------------AcceptRebel---------------------------SubmitResist------------------------Embrace
Unbelief vs Belief
“Information-Conformation-Revelation-Transformation”
• In·for·ma·tion: Knowledge communicated or received concerning a particular fact or circumstance; news:Knowledge gained through study, communication, research, instruction, etc.; factual data: The act or fact of informing.
• Con·for·ma·tion: manner of formation; structure; form, as of a physical entity. Symmetrical disposition or arrangement of parts. The act or process of conforming; adaptation; adjustment. The state of being conformed.
• Rev·e·la·tion: The act of revealing or disclosing; disclosure. Something revealed or disclosed, esp. a striking disclosure, as of something not before realized. Theology . a. God's disclosure of Himself and His will to His creatures. b. an instance of such communication or disclosure. c. something thus communicated or disclosed. d. something that contains such disclosure, as the Bible.
• Trans·for·ma·tion: The act or process of transforming. The state of being transformed. Change in form, appearance, nature, or character.
Feb. 2011 training\Healthy Famiily.pdf
More then anything else:Our children know…
worthwhile
sufficiently important, rewarding, or valuable
to justify time or effort spent
One more slide to the end
World English Dictionary
Where your treasure isThere your heart will also be
What you give your time to is what you LOVE
What you are in secret, is what you are
Why should a man bring trouble into his HOME
Last minute addition
Recovery 4.0
“We understand only as we are obedient”
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“I will be obedient when I understand”