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What is Personality?Which of the following helps define the term personality?
A)characteristics that are typical for a person
B) characteristics that make a person unique
C) acting, thinking, and feeling D) all of the above
What is Personality?Personality is a collection of emotional, thought and behavioral patterns unique to a person that is consistent over time
Originates from the Latin persona, which means "mask.“
Personality TheoriesSeveral theoretical perspectives on personality
Trait theoriesA friendly person is likely to act friendly in any situation because of the traits in his personality.
POPULAR MYERS-BRIGGS TYPE INDICATORExtroversion vs. Introversion (outgoing and physical-stimulation-oriented vs. quiet and physical-stimulation-averse).
Intuition vs. Sensing (trust in conceptual/abstract models of reality versus concrete sensory-oriented facts)
Thinking vs. Feeling (thinking as the prime-mover in decision-making vs. feelings as the prime-mover in decision-making)
Perceiving vs. Judging (desire to perceive events vs. desire to have things done so judgments can be made)
POPULAR MYERS-BRIGGS TYPE INDICATOR
Every individual has a primary mode of operation within four categories
Our flow of energy How we take in information How we prefer to make
decisions The basic day-to-day
lifestyle that we prefer
POPULAR MYERS-BRIGGS TYPE INDICATOR Our Flow of Energy defines how we
receive the essential part of our stimulation. Do we receive it from within ourselves (Introverted) or from external sources (Extraverted)? Is our dominant function focused externally or internally?
How we Take in Information deals with our preferred method of taking in and absorbing information. Do we trust our five senses (Sensing) to take in information, or do we rely on our instincts (iNtuitive)?
POPULAR MYERS-BRIGGS TYPE INDICATOR
How we prefer to Make Decisions, refers to whether we are prone to decide things based on logic and objective consideration (Thinking), or based on our personal, subjective value systems (Feeling).
How we deal with the external world on a Day-to-day Basis. Are we organized and purposeful, and more comfortable with scheduled, structured environments (Judging), or are we flexible and diverse, and more comfortable with open, casual environments (Perceiving)
Popular Myers-Briggs Type Indicator16 personality types
ESTJ ISFJ ESFJ ISTP
ESTP ESFP ISFP ENTJ
INTJ ENTP INTP ENFJ
INFJ ENFP INFP ISTJ
INFJ vs INFP - SimilarityIntroverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging/Perceiving
Primary mode of living is focused internally
Operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous
Put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions
Get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them
INFJ – The differenceIntroverted iNtuitive Feeling JudgingINFJ - sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well.
Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger.
They have strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right
INFP – The difference
Introverted iNtuitive Feeling PerceivingDo not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it
In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong
They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don't really care whether or not they're right. They don't want to feel badly.
INFPs make very good mediators, and are typically good at solving other people's conflicts, because they intuitively understand people's perspectives and feelings, and genuinely want to help them
Psychoanalytic TheoriesExplains human behaviour in terms of interaction between the various components of personality
Sigmund Freud was the founder of this school : he proposed the conversion of psychic energy into behaviour
He broke the human personality down to three significant components: the ego, superego, and id.
According to Freud, personality is shaped by the interactions of these three components.
Psychoanalytic TheoriesIn Freud's theory, the ego mediates between the id, the super-ego and the external world
Its task is thus to find a balance between primitive drives, morals and reality
The super-ego is a symbolic internalization of the father figure and cultural regulations
Stands in opposition to the desires of the id
super-ego acts as the conscience, maintaining our sense of morality and the prohibition of taboos
Psychoanalytic TheoriesId: Reservoir of need-gratification impulses such as the primitive instinctual drives
Drives of the id are said to work according to the pleasure principle
The id, the ego, and the super-ego collaborate to serve the needs of the body and to control the conduct of the person
Behaviorist TheoriesBehaviorists explain personality in terms of reactions to external stimuli
Analysis of behavior based on this model: Stimulus - Response - Consequence
The critical question is "under which circumstances or antecedent "stimuli" does the organism engage in a particular behavior or "response," which, in turn, produces a particular "consequence."
Behaviorist TheoriesAristotle : "When two things commonly occur together, the appearance of one will bring the other to mind."
Pavlov’s conditioningIn this process, a subject comes to respond in a desired manner to a previously neutral stimulus, by associating it with an unconditioned stimulus that elicits the desired response.
Personality - As we grow and learn, most of us develop the ability to function well in realms which are not native to our basic personalities.
In the trials and tribulations of life, we develop some areas of ourselves more thoroughly than other areas.
With this in mind, it becomes clear that we cannot box individuals into prescribed formulas for behavior.
However, we can identify our natural preferences, and learn about our natural strengths and weaknesses within that context
Our native Personality Type indicates how we are likely to deal with different situations that life presents, and in which environments we are most comfortable
Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument
Designed to assess an individual’s behaviour in conflict situations.
Conflict situations are situations in which concerns of two people appear to be incompatible.
In such situations we can describe a person's behaviour along two basic dimensionsAssertiveness – the extent to which the individual attempts to satisfy his/her own concerns
Cooperativeness – the extent to which the individual attempts to satisfy the other person’s concerns
Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument
Uncooperative Cooperative
Unassertive
Assertive
Competing
Avoiding Accommodating
Collaborating
Compromising
How to Interpret Your Results
Your “dominant” conflict management style is predicted by the style with the highest score.
The “strength” of your preference (that is, your willingness to stay or move from one style to the next) is predicted by the difference between the scores of the styles
If the difference is high, resistance is high. If the difference is low, you may move from one style to the other with ease.
Competing – Assertive and UncooperativeAn individual pursues their own concerns at the other person’s expense.
This is a power oriented mode, one uses whatever power seems appropriate to in one’s rank, economic sanctions
Might mean- standing up for your rights or simply trying to win
Places prime importance on personal goals to the exclusion of any concerns for the relationship
Accommodating – Unassertive and CooperativeOpposite of competingYou believe that self-sacrifice and placing the importance of continued relationship above one’s own goals is necessary for solving conflict
It reflects a need for affiliation and acceptance, interest in appeasing others
Since personal objectives are set aside by the user, the cost of this style lends itself to exploitation and can become incredibly burdensome in the long term
Avoiding – Unassertive and UncooperativeThe individual does not immediately pursue their own concerns or those of the other other person.
They do not address the conflictAvoiding might take the form of diplomatically sidestepping an issue, postponing an issue until a better time, or simply withdrawing from a threatening situation
Collaborating – Assertive and CooperativeOpposite of AvoidingInvolves an attempt to work with the other person to find some solution, which fully satisfies the concerns of both the persons.
It means digging into an issue to identify underlying concerns
Collaborating – Assertive and CooperativeYou believe that conflict itself is neither good nor bad, but usually a symptom of tensions in relationships and should be treated accordingly
Differences may be resolved and serve to strengthen relationships rather than divide
Conflict cannot be ignored and requires problem-solving often of the type that goes beyond the superficial issues
Compromising – Intermediate in both assertiveness and CooperativenessYou believe that differences between people should be treated in light of the common good and that party’s need to “win a little, lose a little”
This style tries to soften and make more tolerable the effects of losing by limiting the gains
Attempt to serve the “common good” Addresses an issue more directly than avoiding but doesn’t explore it in as much depth as collaborating
Interpreting your resultsThere are no right answersAll five conflict handling modes are useful in some situations – each represents a set of useful social skills
Two heads are better than one (Collaborating)
Kill your enemies with kindness (Accommodating)
Split the difference (Compromising)Leave well enough alone (Avoiding)Might makes right (Competing)
Interpreting your resultsNone of us can be characterized as having a single rigid style of dealing with conflict
Any individual uses some modes better than others and hence relies on those modes more heavily than others (temperament or practice)
It is important to emphasize that we have the ability to change our dominant style and our response hierarchy
CompetingWhen quick decisive action is vital, e,g emergencies
Enforcing unpopular rules, disciplineTo protect yourself against people who take advantage of noncompetitive behavior
CollaboratingTakes time and energyTrivial problems don’t require optimal solutions
Not all personal differences need to be hashed out
Trust and openness maybe taken advantage of
CompromisingWhen goals are moderately important but not worth the effort of disruption
Labor management bargainingTo achieve temporary settlements to complex issues
As a backup mode when collaboration or competition fails
AccommodatingWhen you realize that you are wrong – to learn from others and show that you are reasonable
When the issue is much more important to the other person than to yourself
When you are outmatched and losingWhen avoiding disruption are especially important
To allow subordinates to experiment and learn from their own mistakes
AccommodatingWhen you realize that you are wrong – to learn from others and show that you are reasonable
When the issue is much more important to the other person than to yourself
When you are outmatched and losingWhen avoiding disruption are especially important
To allow subordinates to experiment and learn from their own mistakes