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Page 1: Difficult mentoring conversations: a skills-based approach Faculty of Education Partnership Conference 2015 Carole Page.

Difficult mentoring conversations: a skills-based approachFaculty of Education Partnership Conference 2015 Carole Page

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In this session we will:

• Consider what we mean by difficult conversations

• Take a skills-based approach to exploring the mentor-trainee relationship within the wider frameworks of:

- The mentoring learning agreement - The Teachers’ Standards (Progress Indicators)

• Explore the key communication skills of listening and questioning to provide focused, targeted and constructive feedback to support trainees in identifying areas for progression and the steps to achieve this.

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What do we mean by difficult conversations and why are they difficult?

When was the last time you had what you might term a ‘difficult’ conversation with a trainee?With a partners, consider:-The context-How you introduced the conversation-Trainee response-Outcome

**Remember that, by their very nature, such conversations are likely to be sensitive and confidential so do ensure you maintain the confidentiality and privacy of all parties involved.**

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•What are difficult conversations?•Why are they difficult?

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The bigger picture

In this workshop we will explore such conversations within the wider frameworks of:

•The mentoring learning agreement•The Teaching Standards

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The mentoring learning agreement

• A learning agreement establishing confidence about the boundaries of the relationship by agreeing and upholding ground rules that address imbalances in power and accountability

(DfES National Framework for Coaching and Mentoring 2005)

• What are these ground rules?

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The Principles of Mentoring and Coaching• A learning conversation• A thoughtful relationship• A learning agreement• Combining support from fellow professional learners and specialists• Growing self direction• Setting challenging and personal goals• Understanding why different approaches work• Acknowledging the benefits to the mentors and coaches• Experimenting and observing• Using resources effectively

DfES National Framework for Mentoring and Coaching

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The Teachers’ Standards

Consistent application of levels using the Progress Indicators:•The mentor•The class teacher•The trainee•The university tutor

An evidence-based course

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Good mentors …

… need to encourage learners, that is trainee teachers, to take ownership of their development, and need to be adept at assisting in the evaluation process by being an effective questioner and listener without being judgemental. Thus, the mentor needs to help the learner to reflect on, review and refine their practice; and to provide opportunities to extend their repertoire of skills through the sharing of planning, and by the observation of the learner's practice and that of the mentor or other skilled practitioner, accompanied by explicit discussion of pedagogical decisions.

An Introduction to Mentoring in ITE

Christchurch Canterbury Teach First

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How?Through the Mentoring Cycle -aligned to Kolb’s model encouraging/supporting the mentee in

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There is absolutely no point to observation without critical analysis, so 'general', impressionistic observations should be avoided. The whole notion of 'mentoring' places the emphasis on negotiation and consensual planning, and 'surprise' observations don't allow for this.The process of identifying a focus ties in with the experiential learning cycle of {planning - implementing - reviewing}, and as such makes it vital for the student to be involved in setting the focus, feeding from any previous targets set. Feimann-Nemser et al: (1993) show that priorities set by a mentor alone are likely to be ignored by a student, if they do not coincide with their own.

[Brooks and Sikes: 1997; p.101-103, 130-131]

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Focused observation

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• Focused observation

• Appropriate questioning techniques

• Active and observant listening

• Reflective discussion

• Explicitness MM

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Key features of successful feedback

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Some types of behaviour which may lead to difficult conversations …

What targets might you focus on in your feedback?

(Adapted from Wright, T. (2010) How to be a Brilliant Mentor, London: Routledge)

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The administrator• The trainee teacher fills their lesson with lots of lively and

engaging activities but fails to do much actual teaching. Teacher talk becomes limited to task setting. The lack of teaching input means that pupils don’t understand what they are doing and why. There is little connection to their learning.

• Feedback focus:

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The defensive traineeMentor: Some further discussion about the strategies for identifying key points in the passage would have been useful.

Trainee: Yes but this was such a short lesson and I knew that I wanted to get on to the main section of the task so that they would have enough time to complete.

It is perfectly reasonable for the trainee to have a rationale for their choices but when this becomes a recurring response, the defensiveness can be frustrating and prove to be a barrier to progression.

Feedback Focus:

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DiscountingFour types of behaviour:•Doing nothing•Over-adaptation•Agitation•Incapacitation or violence

Four levels of discounting:•The existence of the problem•The significance of the problem•The possibilities to change the situation•Personal ability to solve the problem

Newell, s. and Hughes, S. in Wright, T. (2010) How to be a Brilliant Mentor

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Having a dialogue about dialogue1. Notice the discount and talk about it2. Challenge the discount constructively3. Explore ways in which the trainee might solve the problem

herself / himself

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• Taking adult learning styles into consideration• Recognising language has different effects• Active listening• Clarify what the other person is saying• Paraphrasing and summarising• Using validating language• Using open questions• Using and recognising body language effectively• Recognising emotional cues M

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Communication skills

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1. Remember you get more out of people if you are sensitive to their situation and treat them as adults.

2. Imagine how you would feel if you were on the receiving end.3. Make your feedback honest as well as fair.4. Balance negative and positive messages.5. Don’t avoid weaknesses, but always balance them by emphasizing strengths as well.6. Choose the appropriate time and place as well as the appropriate tone and language.7. Keep criticism simple and constructive by concentrating on behaviours, not personal attitudes

or beliefs.8. Encourage people to take responsibility for their own development.9. Be well organized yourself and hold regular progress reviews.10. Recognize that you may be taken as a role model, so practise what you preach.

Parsloe, E. And Leedham M. (2009) Coaching and Mentoring: Practical conversations to improve learning,, London: Kogan Page

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Essentials of effective feedback

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Start by taking account of your learner – their experience, personal identity, their knowledge about how they learn, factors that may affect their learning

Define their learning objectives – by negotiation

Identify a strategy or strategies for achieving their objective – by agreement

Recognise the achievement of objectives – this may be celebration or support

Review critically the learning that has taken place

Plan the next learning activity

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A Framework for Learning (FEDA

(1995) in Rhodes, C (2004) A Practical Guide to Mentoring, Coaching and Peer Networking

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The learning agreement

Is built on:•Honesty•Trust•Transparency•Clarity and ExplicitnessIt is:•Evidence-based•Reflective•Progressive•Collaborative

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If you are an experienced mentor …… You might be interested in gaining APEL accreditation for your work

Contact Carole PageAward Leader for Coaching and [email protected]


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