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Lecture Demonstrations
Sajili ShirodkarLife CoachQualified MBTI Administrator
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COURAGEOUS CONVERSATIONS
SAJILI SHIRODKAR
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noundevelopment\di-ve-lp-mnt, d-\the act or PROCESS of growing or causing something to grow or become larger or more advancedthe act or PROCESS of creating something over a period of time
DEVELOPMENT IS NOT AN EVENT , IT IS A PROCESS
DEVELOPMENT
ASKING COURAGEOUS QUESTIONS
to what extent do we see ourselves as finished products who now only have to impart their knowledge ?have we consciously been stepping into our own development ?can we see ourselves as soft clay where something new can grow ?and the almost clichd when is the last time we did something for the first time ?
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoingand rightdoing there is a field.I'll meet you there.Rumi
PERFORMATIVITY bottom line of efficiency and productivity performativity vs meaningproving worth instead of our intrinsic value
What is our MINDSET when we live in performativity?
MINDSET
Eknath EaswaranWe tend to think that unpleasantness is a quality of the job itself; more often it is a condition in the mind of the doer
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HOW WE CHANGE AND REMAIN THE SAMECopyright New Ventures West
4 MARKERS FOR GROWTH MINDSET
ATTENTION
We see what we are - Eknath Easwaran
WE SEE THROUGH OUR MINDSET !
PRACTISE
A practice has the key elements of :
being intentional (not robotic ) and consciousbeing developmental in building of skills & competencies (lasting abilities / capacities)being repeated with regularity and structurenecessarily involving our body
LEARNING TO SAY NO
Objective / purpose : Create space for your own developmentFrequency :15 minutes (at lunch and at the end of your day)Duration: 3 monthsDirections:Review the requests received (incl from yourself)Ask yourself the following questions What requests could I have declined today?How does my body feel as I review them ?Do I want to change any of the promises I made?When will I do that? How will I handle the consequences?Over 15 days make a note of this . What patterns do you observe?
HOMEOSTASIS
The condition resistance to change is called homeostasis. It applies to psychological , behavioural and physical functioning .EXPECT ITRECOGNISE ITBE READY FOR ITACT THROUGH IT
SUPPORT
Bring the little fishesBring the sharksBring em from the brightnessBring em from the dark
Bring em from the cavernsBring em from the heightsBring em from the shadowsStand em in the light
Bring em out of purdahBring em out of storeBring em out of hidingLay them at my door
Bring the unforgivenBring the unredeemedBring the lost and nameless
Let 'em all be seenBring 'em out of exileBring 'em out of sleepBring 'em to the portalLay them at my feetBring em all in by Mike Scott
Thank you
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