By
T Mohenchander
Psychology Your Children are not your children
You are only a means to them
Do not impose your thoughts on them
Cause they have enough of themselves
Ghaleel Gibran
The Ways You need to know them closely
Watch them at every stage
They need you – you need to contribute
They are flexible
They can change gears according to plan
Of course you need to know the road map
Their Need Instilling confidence by Parents
Make them know that they are here to create greater wishes of their parents
Parents should always learn according to their needs.
Parents means not just father and mother and its beyond that
Aspirations Every child has an idea of their well being
Knows that they need a clear map of their plans
Parents need to guide them in their ambitions to achieve their goals
Create an atmosphere where the children get into the ambience at the earliest and start dreaming.
The Basics Teach them the basics in life as you had and
have
Make them know the dos and donts
Clear all apprehensions from their mind
Impart Godliness always in them
Create awareness about the family and its values
The Hurdles Sparing your time when they need that
Your compromises ultimately ends in children’s disbelief
Never promise anything which is not possible by you.
Make them understand your responsibilities also, cause they have to take the mantle latter like you.
Disciplines Teach discipline as you have envisaged
They automatically fall in line
Educate the invaluable (relationships) in life
Educate their optioned curriculum
Engage them in a sports activity on a regular basis. Let them select their activity, but an activity is a must.
They are go getters Every child has an ambition today and they are all
well informed of the electronic development.
Imbibe them through their own medium how to take up and get going
Involve them in their area of interest and encourage them at all levels
Putting in Your effort to bring in the results should be
articulate and must not be imposed
When you make them understand their roles properly the interest is created naturally
You be a guide and infuse the confidence in them in their game plan
Envisage a clear action plan involuntarily
Easy ways Create a brain storming sessions with your children at
every week end Come out of your thoughts and they can also bash out
their ordeals and positive aspects Find out a solution then and there and make them
understand, we have an answer This puts them in good stead to face the realities in
life
The Missing links We always do not come out with proper game
plan for their actions
We always find an excuse this way or that way and putting the burden on our children and say we have no time
Honesty has to be imbibed first and then preached
Most of it what you say you have to be like real Roll Models
The Strengths Parents and their everlasting faith in their
children and their growth
You decide yourself first and imp lead them in all your activities.
You have to make a kick start and rest of the game is, in their court
Select the right ball to hit for a six or else you may miss because you need to score six runs to win, the balls available are only one.
Summing up Every children are God sent with innumerable
ideas and thoughts
What we need to do is to fix them in the right place at the right time.
We are desirous and why don’t we make them also more desirable.
Wishing you all well If you have started these exercise – you are
on the right path, if not better late than never.
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