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Loig ?4, 1:?1
]gd @ebcy I`tay Ec}dco}ebco` Zdyemdc}, [eckftl ]ol goy lomd }gey udoy kbo` }gd z`oc}eck bh bcd le`
`ebc }ddy }gbtkgbt} }gd {b`m# Oy o k`bao` bkoce~o}ebc {d ad`edxd }go} }gey ey o xdu o}}oecoa`d kbo` bxd
}gd cdw} udo#
]gd Uy`d}o @ebcy I`ta mdiemdm }go} oy zo} bh }gey k`bao` bandi}exd {d
{oc}dm }b lofd ytd }go} bt ibc}eat}ebc {bt`m o`yb ibc}eat}d }b }gd
adot}eheio}ebc bh bt ie}u#
Oy {d ibcyemddm {gdd {d ibt`m z`oc} }gd }ddy ocm lofd o yekceheioc} el
zoi} hb bt ie}u, e} {oy mdiemdm }go} {go} ad}}d z`oid }b ombc }gdc bcd bh
}gd nd{d`y hbtcm ec }gd ie}u bh d` zoyb#
Ibcibmeo Idld}ou goy addc gdd yecid }gd ie}u adkoc# ]gd gey}bu ol
zoc} oy o dyt`} bh }gd holbty ocm echolbty hektdy atedm gdd ey }t u oc
ecxo`toa`d zedid bh gey}bu cddmeck }b ad zdydxdm#
]gddhbd Uy`d}o @ebcy I`ta, ec ibcntci}ebc {e}g }gd Hexd Zbec}y @ebcy
I`ta ocm Loq}ec Htcdqo` Gbldy mdiemdm }b z`oc} 14: mdyd} {e``b{ }ddy
o`bck }gd ybt}g ibcd bh }gd idld}ou bcid kb{c, }gdyd }ddy {e`` ad o ye}d
}b adgb`m, dyzdieo``u hb zdbz`d mexeck au bc e?:#
O yzdieo` ]gocfy }b Zo}eieo` Femccdu zdyemdc} bh }gd ibcibmeo idld}ou
oyybieo}ebc hb }gde oyyey}ocid ocm ktemocid ec }gey zbndi} ocm }b Igo`ed
A`oif, Iblltce}u Zbndi}y Medi}b
hb Uy`d}o
@ebcy
I`ta#
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O`~gdedqy>O mqdommeydoyd {e}g cb qd bq
gbzd hbq qdbxdqu
Mdoc Qbuo`}u goy o xe}o` ocmelzb}oc} leyyebc ec `ehd# Gd {oc}y }b
dmtio}d zdbz`d, dyzdieo``u }gd d`md`u,
oabt} }gd mdom meydoyd }go} ey
O`~gdeldy# ]gdd ey cb itd hb }gd
meydoyd, yoem Qbuo`}u# Dxdc}to``u,{d {e`` hecm o itd, }go}y }gd bz}e
ley}ei xed{# At}, }gd do`e}u ey }go}, oy
bh }bmou, {d mbc} fcb{ {go} iotydy
}gd meydoyd ocm {d mbc} fcb{ gb{
}b itd e}# Gb{dxd, }gdd od ydxdo`
y}tmedy }go} `bbf zbleyeck# ]gd ady}
}go} oc d`md`u zdybc ioc mb ey }b d
loec oi}exd, y}ou gdo`}gu dwdieyd,
ocm mb }gd }gecky }go} }gdu y}e`` iocmb#
O`~gdeldy, {geig ey oyybieo}dm {e}g
mdldc}eo, ey o }uzd bh mdldc}eo }go}
kd}y {byd bxd }eld# Do`u meokcbyey
kexdy oc ohh`ei}dm zdybc }gd }eld }b
z`oc hb }gd ht}td {ge`d gd b ygd ioc
y}e`` lofd mdieyebcy ocm htci}ebc
zbzd`u# Yulz}bly bh O`~gdeldy
lou biit ec zdbz`d 84 ocm bxd, at},
do`u bcyd} ioc biit do`ed oy o d
yt`} bh o mdhdi}exd kdcd# O`}gbtkg }gd
dwoi} iotyd bh O`~gdeldy ey y}e`` o
luy}du, }gdd od }{b }uzdy bh aoec
id``y }go} lou ad iotyeck }gd molokd
z`oqtdy ocm }ock`dy# Z`oqtdy od
i`tlzy bh o cblo``u gol`dyy zb
}dec io``dm ad}oolu`bem, {ge`d }oc
k`dy od heabty }ock`dy lomd tz bh
oacblo` zb}dec io``dm }ot zb}dec#
]gd meydoyd zbkdyydy y`b{`u bxd ozdebm bh hbl ydxdc }b }dc udoy# E}
iotydy o komto` mdi`ecd ec }gd oae`e}u
bh o zdybc }b `doc ocm }b dldlad#
E} ey o`yb o fe``d#
Qbuo`}u, 71, oc dmtio}b {gb xeye}y
z`oidy {gdd }gd d`md`u dyemd b
{gddxd gd ioc hecm kbtzy bh zdb
z`d bxd okd 84, goy addc yzdomeck}gd {bm hb locu udoy# O ldlad
bh }gd @ebcy I`ta Ec}dco}ebco`, gd ey
o xb`tc}dd {e}g }gd O`~gdeldy Oy
ybieo}ebc bh D` Zoyb# Gd }o`fy }b ytz
zb} kbtzy ocm {bfy {e}g
iodkexdy# Gd o`yb ey ecxb`xdm ec om
xbio}eck {e}g Ibckdyy hb }gd zoy
yokd bh }{b ae``y }b kdcdo}d htcmeck
}b mdo` {e}g }gd zba`dl# Ec Oze`, geykbtz {e`` ldd} {e}g Ye`xdy}d Qdudy
'MD` Zoyb% ocm b}gd zb`e}eio` `dom
dy }b ztyg hb{om `dkey`o}ebc###
Ibc}ectdy bc zokd 8
Mdoc Qbuo`}u
Au Nbd B`xdqo , 1:?1
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YBiEO@ YDitQE]U iB@tlC
DOQ]G MOU BQ OCU MOU, YOXD O ]QDD
AU KBECK BC@ECD
Au Qou Xeke`Ybieo` YditQe}u ZtA`ei ohhoeQY YZdieo`eY} ec d` ZoYb, }dwoY
Ozqe` 11 ey Doq}g Mou# Lbqd }goc bcd ae``ebc zdbz`d {e`` id`daqo}d
Doq}g Mou ec bcd {ou bq ocb}gdq#
Ubt ibt`m z`oc} o }dd, ocm diui`d ubt z`oy}ei, k`oyy, ocm zozd, b tyd
}gd aoif yemd bh zec}d zozd adhbd }byyeck e}# At} {go}y dxdc ad}}d
}goc diui`eck ubt zozd ey cb} goxeck ocu zozd }b adkec {e}g# Au
mbeck atyecdyy {e}g Ybieo` Ydite}u bxd }gd Ec}dcd}, ubt`` ad mbeck
ubt zo} }b gd`z ty ec bt dcxebcldc}hedcm`u zoi}eidy#
[gd}gd ubt {oc} }b kd} oc dy}elo}d bh
ubt ht}td d}edldc} adcdhe}y, ozz`u hb
Ybieo` Ydite}u adcdhe}y b Ldmeiod, d
qtdy} o dz`oidldc} Ldmeiod iom, dzb} o
igockd bh ommdyy b medi} mdzbye} 'eh ubt
od itdc}`u didexeck adcdhe}y%, b }ofd
igokd bh ubt d}edldc} z`occeck, ubt ioc
tyd bt yditd {daye}d#
Kbeck bc`ecd yoxdy ubt o }ez, oy {d`` oy }gd koy ocm ioabc dleyyebcy}go} kb o`bck {e}g e}# Kb }b {{{#ybieo`yditqe}u#kbx"bc`ecdydqxeidy }bkd} y}o}dm#
Mbeck atyecdyy {e}g Ybieo` Ydite}u bc`ecd ey hoy}, doyu, ocm yditd# E}y
o`yb dcxebcldc}o``u }gd i`docdy}, kddcdy} {ou }b mb ubt Ybieo` Ydit
e}u atyecdyy#
Locu bh bt bc`ecd ydxeidy od oxoe`oa`d oy ot}blo}dm zgbcd ydxeidy
}bb# Nty} io`` ?7::;;1?1?9#
Bc Do}g Mou, cb} dxdubcd ioc kexd }gde gbld b bhheid oc dcxebcldc
}o` lofdbxd b ztigoyd oc d`di}ei io# At} ocubcd ioc tyd bt bc`ecd
ydxeidy b ot}blo}dm zgbcd ydxeidy#
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locokeck tqecoqu Ecbc}ecdcd ec }gd GbdOy ydceby okd, locu
}gecky ibld ec}b z`ou yohd}u ec }gd
gbld ocm bt}, gdo`}g ibcme}ebcy ydc
eby hoid, }gd dlb}ebco` tzy ocm
mb{cy {gdc mdo`eck {e}g }gd cblo`
okeck zbidyy, eci`tmeck }gd `byy bh
`bxdm bcdy# [gd}gd ybldbcd ey io
eck hb oc d`md`u d`o}exd b adeck
dlz`budm }b iod hb o ydceb, e} ey
ie}eio` }b }gd ydceby gdo`}g ocm
{d``adeck hb }gd iodkexd }b ad
ydcye}exd }b }gdyd eyytdy ocm }b ec}d
oi} ec ytig o {ou }go} gd`zy hby}d ec
mdzdcmdcid ec }gd gbld hb oy `bckoy zbyyea`d#
Ybld}eldy, }gey ec}doi}ebc ey doyu#
Zo}eiezo}eck ec oi}exe}edy ytig oy
z`oueck koldy, {o`feck ec }gd zof
b ibbfeck ocm do}eck {e}g ydceby
fddzy }gdl dckokdm ocm hby}dy hdd`
ecky bh {b}gecdyy ocm yd`hdy}ddl#
Gb{dxd, o iodkexdy mt}edy louy}d}ig adubcm }gbyd htche``dm lb
ldc}y ocm dw}dcm ec}b }gd do`l bh
tciblhb}oa`d }bzeiy# Bcd ytig
}bzei }go} ey bh ibcidc olbck ydc
eby ey tecou ecibc}ecdcid#
Ecibc}ecdcid lou ad }btkg }b }oif`d
ocm mb{cekg} dlaooyyeck hb ydc
eby, at} e} ey elzb}oc} hb iodkexdy
}b }ofd o zboi}exd ozzboig }b gd`z
ydceby dibkce~d ocm ytiidyyht``u
mdo` {e}g }gd ibcme}ebc# [ge`d locu
ydceby lou ad`edxd ecibc}ecdcid ey o
yekc bh }gd cblo` okeck zbidyy,
}gey ey cb} cdidyyoe`u }td# Ldmeio`ibcme}ebcy ocm ybld ldmeio}ebcy
ioc iotyd ecxb`tc}ou `byy bh tecd#
[bldc kdcdo``u ythhd ecibc}e
cdcid mtd }b {dofdcdm zd`xei lty
i`dy# Dc`okdm zby}o}d k`ocmy od
bh}dc }gd iotyd bh ecibc}ecdcid hb
ldc# E} ey elzb}oc} hb ydceby }b
meyityy eyytdy bh ecibc}ecdcid {e}g
}gde mbi}by, oy ecibc}ecdcid ey o
yulz}bl, cb} o meydoyd e}yd`h# Tcmd
y}ocmeck }gd mehhddc} }uzdy bh ecibc
}ecdcid ey itieo`# Y}dyy
ecibc}ecdcid biity mteck lbldc}y
bh `otkg}d, ycdd~eck, adcmeck b `eh}
eck# Tkd ecibc}ecdcid ey iotydm au
ytmmdc a`ommd ibc}oi}ebcy iotyeck
oc tkdc} cddm }b teco}d# Ybld}eldy
}gd a`ommd ey tcoa`d }b gb`m tecd,
iotyeck ecxb`tc}ou bxdh`b{ bh
tecd# Htci}ebco` ecibc}ecdcid biity ec ydceby {e}g mdldc}eo {gb
lou hbkd} }b tyd }gd dy}bbl, b ec
}gbyd {e}g elzoedm lbae`e}u {gb
od tcoa`d }b doig }gd }be`d} ec
}eld# ]gd kbbm cd{y ey }gdd od
{ouy ecibc}ecdcid ioc ad }do}dm ocm
locokdm yb ydceby ioc ibc}ectd }b
ztytd oi}exd ocm gozzu `ehdy}u`dy#
]gd hb``b{eck oqd o hd{
}qdo}ldc}y }go} lou ad
ytkkdy}dm ocm zdqhbqldm
tcmdq o mbi}bqy ioqd#
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hbqeck Fdkd` dwdqeydy }gd }ekg}
dceck ocm d`doyeck bh }gd ltyi`dy
}go} ibc}b` tecd# Y}bckd ltyi`dy
ec }gey odo dcoa`d ydceby }b gb`m
tecd ec }gde a`ommdy hb `bckd zd
ebmy bh }eld#
]dog ydcebqy }b adbd bqd
o{oqd bh }gdeq abmedy yekco`y,
{geig oemy ec }gd }oececk bh
y}dck}gdceck zd`xei ltyi`dy#
igoq} xbemeck ocm `dofeck }edy }b
gd`z ydcebqy, eci`tmeck }gbyd {e}g
mdldc}eo, md}dlecd yzdiehei }eldy
}gdu ygbt`m tyd }gd dy}bbl#
]gdd od b}gd hoi}by }go} ioc ibc
}eat}d }b ecibc}ecdcid# O`ibgb` ocm
iohhdecd ioc iotyd ecibc}ecdcid ec
`o}d udoy ocm dwoidao}d }gd zba
`dl bcid e} ythoidy# Dwidyyexd h`tem
ec}ofd ocm ibcytlz}ebc bh yzeiu
hbbmy, gekg`u oiemei hbbmy ytig oy
}blo}bdy, ie}ty hte}y ocm nteidy
lou ibc}eat}d }b }gd zba`dl# Dcibtokd ydceby }b zou o}}dc}ebc }b
}gd hbbmy }gdu do} }b md}dlecd eh
id}oec hbbm ohhdi}y }gde ecibc}e
cdcid#
Ibc}ectdy bc cdw} zokd
Zgb
}bauIblhbq}Fddzdqy
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Ibc}ectdm hbl zokd 9 #### }go} {e`` o``b{ lbd
zdbz`d }b adibld o{od# Gd o`yb goy hey}gocm
dwzdedcid ec mdo`eck {e}g }gd meydoyd#
Lu {ehd adiold ohh`ei}dm {e}g O`~gdeldy ec
?555, ocm ygd medm ec 1::4 hbl iblz`eio}ebcyabtkg} bc au }gey }dea`d meydoyd, Qbuo`}u
yoem# ]gd {by} zo} hb ty {oy gd igockd ec
zdybco`e}u# Ygd `by} gd oae`e}u }b htci}ebc# Ygd
ythhddm hbl }gd Ytcmb{c Yucmbld, {geig
ldocy }go} ygd ibt`mc} y`ddz o} cekg}, at} {bt`m
}ofd hdqtdc} cozy mteck }gd mou# Ygd o`yb tydm
}b {ocmd o} cekg}# E hdd` hb }gd iodkexdy bh
ytig o zdybc, adiotyd E fcb{ {go} }gdu kb
}gbtkg# Ybld}eldy e} ldocy o 98gbt dyzbcyeae`e}u hb o `bxdm bcd# ]gdu cddm bt}yemd gd`z# E}
}edy ubt mb{c# E {oy {bfeck, at} gom }b qte} lu
nba }b }ofd iod bh gd#
Qbuo`}u yoem }go} ec }gd y}o}d bh ]dwoy }gd meydoyd
o}}oify zdbz`d bh dxdu d}gceie}u#
]gd meydoyd mbdy cb} meyieleco}d# Bxdo``, ec
1:?:, }gdd {dd bxd ?5,::: ioydy# Bh }go}
ctlad, 4,17: medm# Bcid o zdybc doigdy }gd
okd bh 7:, }gd ioyto`}edy dyio`o}d# Lbd }goc 4:
zdidc} bh zdbz`d {e}g mdldc}eo mdxd`bz
O`~gdeldy# E} ey dy}elo}dm }go} au }gd udo
1:14, 1::,::: zdbz`d ec ]dwoy {e`` mdxd`bz e}# D`
Zoyb ie}e~dcy o`yb ythhd oy mb b}gdy oibyy }gd
y}o}d# ]gd aek zba`dl gdd ey }go} locu ioydy
od cb} dzb}dm# Ybld zdbz`d `bbf hb gd`z, at},
b}gdy mbc}#
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iblltceio}eck, ecoae`e}u }b `doc b dldlad
cd{ echblo}ebc, zdybco`e}u igockdy, ecoae`e}u
}b doybc, zoocbeo, ocm go``tieco}ebcy, olbck
b}gd zba`dly# E}y o`` oabt} dmtio}eck }gd zta
`ei, Qbuo`}u yoem# ]gd mb``o olbtc} adeck
yzdc} bc }gd meydoyd ey zgdcbldco`# ]gd ht}td
mbdy cb} zoec} o zd}}u zei}td# Zdbz`d, ece}eo``u,
mbc} fcb{ }gdu goxd }gd meydoyd# E} adkecy {e}g`byy bh ldlbu ocm e} zbkdyydy hbl }go} zbec}#
Gbzdht``u, ybld mou, {d {e`` hecm o itd hb e}#
E} ioc} ibld }bb ybbc#
O`~gdedq###Ibc}ectdm hbl zokd 4
@ele} h`tem ec}ofd adhbd adm}eld# Lofd ytd ao}gbbly od doye`u oiidyyea`d#
Eh cbcd bh }gd oabxd }digceqtdy gd`z, }gdd od ldmeio}ebcy oxoe`oa`d }b }do} ybld }uzdy bh ecibc}ecdcid# ]dlzbou, meyzbyoa`d mdxeidy ioc ad tydm }b ecyd} ec }gd td}go }b y}bz ecxb`tc}ou tecd
h`b{# ]gd tyd bh omt`} ecibc}ecdcid zomy b aedhy ioc zbxemd ydceby }gd hddmbl }b dcnbu oi}exd
`ehdy}u`dy# @doceck
oabt} ecibc}ecdcid
ocm e}y iotydy ioc
gd`z ydceby ytiidyy
ht``u locokd }gd
ibcme}ebc#
]gd hey} y}dz ey }b
dcibtokd ydceby }b
}o`f oabt} }gde ey
ytdy }b gd`z md}d
lecd hoi}by }go}
ibc}eat}d }b }gde
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}ebcy }go} oem ec o``dxeo}eck ecibc}ecdcid
ocm }gd dlaooyy
eck lbldc}y e} lou
iotyd# Au mbeck yb,
iodkexdy gd`z }b
ido}d zbye}exd o}}e
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ldc}y }go} it`}exo}d
gozzecdyy ocm {d``
adeck hb }gd ydceby
ec }gde iod#
Qdhdqdcidy Yigcdemdq, Omeco#
LM# Locokeck ecibc}ecdcid ec
}gd d`mdq`u# Qd}qedxdm bc Hda
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]gd Badye}u Dzemde> Gb{ Mbdy E} Ohhd} Ydcebqy2Badye}u, }bmou, ey o gb}
}bzei# Ec hoi}, mtd }b }gd yekceheioc}
eyd bh badye}u ec ige`mdc ocm }gd
ytaydqtdc} gdo`}g eyytdy e} iotydy,
gdo`}g dwzd}y zdmei} }go} }bmouy
ige`mdc lou goxd ygb}d `ehd yzocy
}goc }gde zodc}y# ]gey zbndi}ebc
goy zodc}y, }gd ldmeio` iblltce}u
ocm b}gd gdo`}g omxbio}dy zblb}
eck yekceheioc} `ehdy}u`d igockdy ocm
ad}}d do}eck goae}y hb ige`
mdc ec gbzdy }gdu oigedxd
aekg}d
gdo`}g y}o}ey}eiy ec }gde ht}tdy# Oc
b}gd zbzt`o}ebc ythhdeck }gd dhhdi}y
bh }gd badye}u dzemdlei }go} ey ko
cdeck {emdyzdom o}}dc}ebc ey Old
eioy ydceby#
Locu ydceby ao}}`d {dekg} eyytdy,
bh}dc }gbtkg} bh ec }dly bh adeck
}bb }gec b lo`cbteygdm# Gb{dxd,
}gd kb{eck zbzt`o}ebc bh ydceby o}
eyf bh adeck bxd{dekg} hoidy bad
ye}ud`o}dm ydebty gdo`}g eyytdy, oy
{d``, eci`tmeck eyf bh by}dbzbbyey,
iomebxoyit`o meydoyd, o}ge}ey, `byy
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ldc}eo ec `o}d
udoy# Ec ygb}
zbzd do}eck goae}y
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ec `ehd ocm ibc}ectd
}gbtkg }gd kb`mdc udoy#
]gd zba`dl ey cb bcd ey }go} zd
hdi} ocm }bmouy hoy}zoidm, hoy}hbbm
ybied}u lofdy e} doyu }b mdxeo}d hbl
gdo`}gu igbeidy# Gb{dxd, cb lo}}d
{go} okd, zoi}eieck gdo`}gu ct}e
}ebco` goae}y ioc lofd o aek elzoi}
bc o zdybcy bxdo`` gdo`}g# Iod
kexdy bh ydceby z`ou oc elzb}oc}
b`d ec dcyteck ydceby ibcytld
gdo`}gu, {d``ao`ocidm med}y# Yelz`u
ec}doi}eck {e}g ydceby au gd`zeck
}gdl ygbz hb ct}e}ebco` e}dly o} }gd
kbidu y}bd, igbbyeck gdo`}gu
ycoif o`}dco}exdy, ocm z`occeck
ldcty }go} zbxemd omdqto}d cbt
eygldc} {e}gbt} tccdidyyou io`b
edy od fdu# Zdzoeck gdo`}gu ldo`y
}bkd}gd ioc hby}d ad}}d do}eck
goae}y ocm zbxemdy oc oi}exe}u dc
nbudm au o``# Mececk {e}g ydceby
{gdcdxd zbyyea`d ommy ocb}gd bzzb}tce}u }b bxdydd gdo`}gu hbbm
igbeidy# ]gey o`yb bhhdy ydceby o ae}
bh ybieo`e~o}ebc, lofeck ydceby hdd`
`dyy `bcd`u ocm eyb`o}dm }goc {gdc
mececk o`bcd#
Ibc}ectdy bc cdw} zokd
Zgb}bauIblhbq}Fddzdqy
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