The Secrets Men KeepMC's male dating blogger, Rich Santos, reveals what men really think about sex, dating, relationships, and you. Plus, get more great dating advice!
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We like to cuddle. Cuddling is all about mood and ambience. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background. It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning. Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship.
We think we are good in bed. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything. You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay. This may explain why we are so clueless at what we are doing in bed, but we act like we know.
Getting too tipsy on a date is a turnoff. Some people turn into a completely different person when they are drunk. Let the other person learn about you while you're sober, before you get wasted with them. Alcohol should be introduced into the relationship slowly, but if a drink or two takes the edge off, and wine adds romance it's fine. Just don't push it too far.
Heavy makeup is a turnoff. I've always been the type of guy who appreciates a natural look as it is, and when a girl does her makeup well, the results can be magical. But the one thing that should never happen is excessive application: too much, too many colors, or if it's just a botched attempt at a good makeup technique. Seems like as time goes by, makeup makes like the earth and erodes and changes with weathering. There is nothing more ghastly than makeup run amuck in the morning after spending the night together.
We put pressure on ourselves to get married. Women tell me that they feel more pressure to settle down because they can't have children as easily past a certain age. I don't feel pressure in that sense, but I do fear that my appearance and my "game" (not that either are working for me presently) will fade as I get older. It's fun being one of the few guys in my group of friends who hasn't yet found love, but at the same time I wonder what is wrong with me...and I'm trying to decide if time is running out. I'm so far behind, I can't imagine being asked to meet on Sunday for brunch by a girl I've dated for a month, much less having a child or being married.
We want to bail the morning after a one-night stand. Do not linger in bed hung over. I'm foul when I'm hung over, so I am sure others are too. You can't contaminate someone's bed with that. Do everything you can to get home and fester in your own bed. People have things to do over the weekend. Give each other a hug, wish each
other well, don't say anything about calling, and don't believe him when he mutters that he will call you.
You'll never understand our sports obsession. I know some women love sports. But are they as obsessed with sports like guys are? I read about sports every day, and go over stats. And I do find myself telling my sisters about University of Virginia and Boston College teams — where they went to school. There is no reason women wouldn't understand or know sports like guys do if they were as obsessed. I just think guys across the board are more sports-obsessed than women are.
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You're not the only one who engages in retail-therapy post-breakup. I have shopped during emotional low points. Wearing new clothes makes me feel confident. There is also a social aspect of shopping because you are usually with friends, consorting with other shoppers and salespeople. You've been spending a lot of money on your ex in the past; now it's time to spend some money on you.
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Sex in the shower is overrated. I once tried this, but the entire time I was trying to contort my body so that I could get everything inserted correctly. That "up against the wall" variation is tougher than it sounds. The entire shower apparatus is so slippery, and then you have soap all over the place. It's a danger zone. Plus, I do my best to keep my bathroom clean, but I don't think I'd ever want to have sex anywhere near something called "mildew."
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We do think you're crazy sometimes, but only because it makes things easier for us. Once I accepted that women were "crazy" (many older guys had insisted they were for years), it seemed to take a huge load of pressure off me. No longer was I trying to rationalize moves that women made that got me into crazy analysis cycles. When I just throw it all out the window and dismiss it as "crazy," it makes it easier to deal. We don't really think women are insane, we just say it so we can be done thinking about their antics and move on.
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Leave your baggage at the door. Guys are happy to help out their girlfriends with emotional issues. But if the baggage becomes apparent too early in the relationship, then a guy will probably bail. Also, baggage causes people to put pressure on or damage a relationship, so it may be doomed from the outset.
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We are afraid of commitment. Commitment means that I've decided that the woman I'm settling down with is perfect and there is no one else out there for me. Commitment means I've found my soul mate, that I am completely secure with myself, and that there
should be no going back. I don't know about you, but all of that is pretty heavy. I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here. Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of us longer.
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Confidence is key in the bedroom. I know if a girl seems unsure of herself in bed, it gets distracting and starts to feel awkward. The best thing to do is to act like you have some experience, and not question anything. I think back to the advice my dad once gave my sisters and me when he snuck us onto the "premium members only" tennis courts at this fancy resort at the beach. While we played, security goons watched closely, and my dad could tell that we were nervous: "Just act like you are supposed to be here, and they won't ask any questions." Sure enough, it worked.
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We're insecure about dirty talk. Once I've made it into bed with a girl, no way I'm going to let my stupid mouth wreck things. In fact, we've most likely made it to this point in spite of my mouth. There are so many incorrect things I could say, from weak to gross to just downright bizarre. Last thing I need is to give this girl some material for a girls' night conversation.
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Sometimes, we do blame your bad mood on PMS. But if we're smart, we just don't say it. Honestly, sometimes a woman's anger does look hormonal. I have said something to a girl one day that she laughs at, but then a week later she bites my head off when I say the same thing. But I've learned not to make things worse by suggesting that she's PMSing.
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We get jealous because we're insecure. If a guy feels like he does not deserve a woman or is not good enough for her, he will become jealous easily and worried that he's going to lose her to another guy. On the other hand, I admit that I have tried to make girls I'm interested in jealous on purpose before.
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We hate when you try too hard to be one of the guys. It's pretty lame that my buddies and I invent words and languages and then giggle over them like schoolchildren. But what's even lamer: when some outsider tries to use the language, without the ability to contribute. That's what one of my old girlfriends did. My friends and I would discuss how she was trying to speak like us, and it got to the point where I bristled every time I heard her speak one of our made-up words.
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We notice what you're wearing. Make sure you cater what you wear to what you're doing. I try not to make a girl walk too much if she's in heels. Also, I've seen girls wear pearls and a nice blouse to trashy outdoor drinking events, or heels to sporting events.
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Sex on the beach? We prefer the drink. The sea is very romantic, but I would be too nervous the entire time. There are all sorts of creatures out there. While walking in the ocean I've stepped on some unidentified crustaceous creatures and we've both scuttled along away from one another in fear. Maybe it's safer on shore? No way: because sand gets into everything. It has a mind of its own. Sand makes sex uncomfortable and even painful. My solution is to try to get a place by the beach and do it out on the porch where you can see and hear the waves: Sex at the beach, but not on the beach.
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We play hard to get — and we know it. Sometimes, I just act like they have no chance, even though I might like them. I openly flirt with other girls in front of them, and talk about how hot other girls are in front of them. I make myself look really picky and difficult to get to. Then, I get really tender and give all of my attention to this girl who thought she had no chance.
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We Check Out Other Women (Even if We're in Relationships)Sorry, but we notice a hot girl any time any place. Hopefully most of us don't make it obvious, but we check out a cutie when we can. The worst is if your younger sister or best friend is hot, we'll check her out too.
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Sometimes We Like Being Told What to DoOne of the reasons we won't commit is because we don't want to be told what to do. But, it's no secret that we don't like to think, and we struggle with details. So when you tell us clearly what to do, how to do it, and map it out for us, we can go about accomplishing a task without anxiety. Also, if we follow your directions precisely and you're still unsatisfied, then you're more unsatisfied with the directions you gave us, and not our execution of the instructions.
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We Cry and Have Emotional Moments with Our BuddiesAfter my little sister's wedding, I talked over my feelings with a few of my guy friends. We might as well have been on the couch watching movies with a bottle of wine with the deep emotional things we were saying to each other. But it happens. And, we do cry — we just try not to do it in front of anyone. I shed tears when I think about old memories, or see something sad on TV, or a song hits me just the right way.
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We Are Sensitive About Our WeightI got measured for a tux recently and when I returned to my office some of my co-workers asked how it went. I replied: "Well, it didn't make me feel fat." Lately, I've been feeling fat because I haven't been able to get to the gym as much as I'd like to, and I see my gut expanding faster than the universe. Even though we think that women are OK with a bit of a guy on a guy, we still worry about our weight. And yes, we do wonder if certain clothes make us look fat.
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We Fear Growing OlderThis is explicitly linked to our weight sensitivity. As we get older, we gain weight, we lose our hair, we get tired faster, and younger guys look better in our presence. It's especially painful for athletic guys who can't quite do the things they used to do physically. We go through depressions, mid-life crises, etc...until finally we just give up.
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We Say We'll Call Even if We Don't Mean ItWe always say we'll call, because it's the nice thing to say. It's almost as thoughtless as the "fine" answer when someone asks us how we're doing. Would you rather us say: "Look, I'm not planning to call you?" And sometimes at that very moment we say we'll call, we do mean it, but then after 24 hours we change our mind after sleeping on it.
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13 Flat-Belly Foods to Beat the BloatMore than 10 million Americans regularly complain about being bloated. That uncomfortable sensation — the result of air passing through your intestines — is often caused by a tempting culprit: salty and fatty foods. So, what's safe to eat to keep women from unbuttoning those skinny jeans? We researched the top fruits, vegetables, herbs, and spices that will save any stomach from an uncomfortable expansion.
Oranges and WatermelonsBecause water flushes waste and excess water out of your system, enjoying water-rich foods is ideal. Watermelons, as their name suggests, are almost all water — 92 percent. Oranges too are approximately 80 to 90 percent water.YogurtNot only does yogurt have a high water content, but it promotes the growth of good bacteria in the stomach. This bacteria is responsible for the reduction of excess gas that accumulates in the organ over time.GarlicThis plant helps reduce the levels of fat in the liver, whose main functions include detoxification and the production of biochemicals necessary for digestion — major aspects of the prevention of bloating.Bran Cereal and OatmealFiber helps relieve constipation, which is an all-too frequent cause of bloating. By adding bulk in the form of certain cold or hot cereals, everything moves through the intestines more quickly. Because women need at least 25 grams of fiber daily, eating a bran cereal with at least five grams of fiber per serving helps reach that goal. Just be certain to not add too much fiber to your diet too fast, or worsened bloating can occur.Strawberries and BlueberriesFiber also takes the form of certain delicious fruits and berries. Snacking on high-fiber foods such as strawberries and blueberries, as well as dried apricots and dried plums, can help clean out one's system regularly.GrapefruitLike other fruits with high water content, grapefruit is nearly 90 percent water. An added benefit of snacking on this pink treat: It's high in fat-burning enzymes.Broth-Based SoupSoups based on broth — not chowders, purees, or cream soups that are high in saturated fat — have an extremely high water content yet can be filling. Plus, the sodium levels should not be high as long as the soups are made with natural ingredients and don't come from a can. Canned soups often have as much as 1,000 milligrams of sodium, which is half of the daily recommended limit, in a single serving.Lettuce and SpinachThese green leaves, in addition to kale and chard, require ample chewing and provide a healthy dose of fiber, vitamins, and minerals. They also help with acid indigestion, constipation, and urinary tract infections.Peppermint and GingerCarminative herbs, which include peppermint as well as chamomile and ginger, are gas reducers and can be enjoyed in tea form. In addition to these herbs, bitter herbs, despite their taste, are effective at stimulating the digestive tract as well as the flow of saliva.Chili PeppersNot just a spice to heat up a meal, these peppers reduce the risk of high blood pressure, stroke, and heart disease. Capsaicin, an active ingredient found in the peppers, can also increase metabolism and curb food cravings, especially for sweets.Broccoli and CauliflowerCruciferous vegetables, such as broccoli, cauliflower, and cabbage, break down harmful forms of estrogen for safe elimination from the body. Still, they do contain sugars that are sometimes difficult to digest and thus should be eaten in moderation (a half-cup serving at a time).CucumbersThis veggie may not have much nutritional value, but it serves as a natural diuretic, helping to increase urination and the flushing out of toxins from the body. Cucumbers
are rich in sulfur and silicon to stimulate the kidneys into better removal of uric acid. Because cukes are low in both sodium and calories, they're also a favored vegetable in most diet plans.PineapplesThis tropical fruit, which is approximately 85 percent water, also contains bromelain, an enzyme that breaks down proteins, promotes good digestion, and helps to eradicate some stomach problems.
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8 Texting Mistakes Men MakeA friend of mine recently went out with a guy, Sam. They had a good time, smooched a little, and went their separate ways for the night. So, the seed was planted for a second date at the very least.But Sam's mistakes turned a promising situation into a bad one very quickly. You can find a list of his infractions below. Let me know which one (or more) is a deal breaker for you:General Psycho BehaviorAllison woke up Sunday morning to a 7:30 "Good Morning Beautiful" text. Unless he was up at 5AM, it looked like Sam immediately texted Allison as soon as he woke up. That's a bit over-eager.Seizing Poetic License on Pet NamesIn the first text after the kiss night, it's a little strange to be dropping nicknames, even if it's something as general as "beautiful". It pushes things beyond casual way too fast.Text NovelsSam's texts shattered character limits. Allison would routinely receive 3-5 long texts in a row, all connected ramblings.Over-Aggressive TextingSam wasn't keen on giving Allison much time to answer his texts before he was on the attack again. Forcing a DateEarly on in his text assault, Sam asked Allison to get together during the upcoming week. But Allison said she was busy at work and offered to set something up for the next week. Instead of respecting her wishes, Sam fired back with "Well, I was really hoping to see you before the weekend."Making A Woman Feel Wrong For How She FeelsIt didn't take long for Sam's intense texting to turn Allison off. She politely explained that he was coming on a little strong but wanted to remain friends. Instead of accepting Allison's words, Sam argued that he wasn't a game player (implying that Allison was interested in games).Inadvertent InsultsAfter accusing Allison of being a game-player, Sam went on to explain that he was a "grown man interested in a deep committed relationship." He instructed her to let him know if she was ever interested in the same. Allison came away from this exchange feeling like he called her a whore.Hubris and GlibnessAfter the ordeal was over and Sam finally accepted he lost his grip on a chance at another date (and reality), he finished it off by texting that he "never had this happen before." What a stud he must be. Judging by his behavior, it was pretty easy for Allison to glean that he has probably been through this quite often.
So there you have it: eight infractions inside of a couple days of texting. Which of these do you think is the worst, and at what point would you be fed up? I explained to Allison that she should have been freaked out by the 7:30AM text, but hindsight is 20/20. So what are your thoughts? What is the worst text or texting infraction you've received from a guy?
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12 Lies Men Tell Before SexYou already know men will do anything to get a woman into bed—especially when she's as awesome as you are. And they're rarely slick about it. That's why we asked you to tweet us the biggest doozies you've heard from dudes in search of a little nooky. Get ready to LOL at these weak lines.
BY ELISA BENSON
"'Come over, I just want to snuggle.'"
—Megan C.
"'You should take your clothes off. We won't even have sex. I just love the feeling of your skin
against mine.'" —Vanessa C.
"'I hardly ever have sex on a first date.'"
—Kelsey H.
"'It's cold in here, let's get under the covers.'"
—Pam S
"'You're beautiful and it would be an honor to get to sleep with you.'" —Miranda C.
"'I wont tell if you won't.'" —Jen B.
"'I just want to take a nice bubble bath with you - nothing else!'" —Krystal
"'Want to come meet my dog?' At 3 a.m. LMAO." —Kathryn G.
"'Just let me put the tip in!'" —Jen B.
"'I have a cop uniform in my room... want to see?' I love men in uniform, so needless to say I
fell for it." —Maddy C.
"'You don't have to return the favor...'"
—Drew B.
'Wanna go watch tv in your room?'"
—Melanie D.
What Guys Don't Like in Girls?Updated On 19 Jun 2009, Published On 19 Jun 2009
What guys don't like about girls??? Have you ever thought of it??? If not then it is high time you think of it now because the last thing you would want is your guy walking away leaving you with a number of unanswered questions. You may not even realize the reason behind it. Knowingly or unknowingly you could be doing a lot of thing that your boyfriend finds it annoying.. You might find a number of guys asking you out all the time. You might have even gone a step further by hanging out with the guy and things were moving on quite fine. When suddenly out of the blue you could find difficulty trying to keep the guy in your life. Ironically, you might find it impossible to hold on to the guy despite he being the person you have ever longed for.
In such a situation, it could be pretty confusing. You might begin to doubt your individuality and may even become quite frustrated. But that is not going to lead you anywhere. Instead try to get to know the things that you could be doing though unintentionally but must have probably annoyed the guy. Read on to know the things guys don't like about girls:
1) Men hate it when they are being dragged into a relationship. Some women get so desperate that they start pressurizing their men formarriage. This results into hounding about the relationship which most men find it very annoying.
2) Most of the men hate it when you talk about your ex boyfriend. At the same time, do not insult other women or your ex-boyfriend in front of him. This would only represent you as being insecure and they hate it.
3) One of the things that men hate the most is that women consider their men to be a mind reader. They expect their guy to understand and know everything without saying a word.
4) Guys don’t generally like girls who are too sissy. They hate girls who cry
every time the guys say something they don’t like.
5) Guys hate it when girls try to change them from the person they are. If you don’t like them why date them at the first place.
6) Guys want their girls to eat when they take them out for dinner instead of digging into the salad because they want to enjoy the food in their company.
7) Jealousy, spending too much of their money, etc are some of the things that guys don’t like in women. Though they will never speak out loud enough to be heard but keep yourself putting in their shoes and you will realize it.
Guys prefer women who are bold, confident and sporty but again they do not like girls who always try to be right and keep fanning their ego. Always remember that instead of being right and single all your life, it is always better to be wrong and happy. And yes, if you manage to touch the soft corner of your guy and if they are serious about the relationship, they will give in every single thing they possess, no matter what it takes.
Also read on to know about deadliest mistakes that women make with men. Your views and comments are valuable to us, so feel free to share it.
How to Make Up with your ManUpdated On 26 Jan 2009, Published On 24 Jan 2009
Differences are a part and parcel of anyrelationship, but sometimes, arguments and disagreements go out of proportion affecting the relationship to a great extent. Especially in a man-woman relationship, it becomes all the more important to understand the importance of patching up as soon as possible. So on demand of our female readers, Top54u team brings to you the following account highlighting some easy tips to patch up with your man. Read on and know how to make up with your man:
The first and foremost thing which you should do is to understand that the word sorry is not big enough as such it can affect your relationship. Also understand the fact that saying sorry is not going to hurt your ego, on the contrary, it would just give out the impression that you are more mature and are trying your best to ensure the smooth sailing of your relationSHIP.
Never be shy in terms of having an open conversation about the matter troubling you and your man but make sure that you are having the conversation to sort out thing and not to create further complications. Though if your man takes time to understand your point of view then make use of some romantic
things to say and make your man happy.
The well-known grandma’s saying, ‘The way to a man’s heart is through the stomach’ is very much useful in changing the mood of your man. Also just by cooking delicious meals to keep your man’s stomach full, you can make him realize he is indeed lucky enough to get a partner like you who not only feed him with love but also is mature enough to say sorry to keep the relationship going.
The last but definitely not the least tip suggests you to use some of your womanly traits like your sweetness, innocence as well as some tears to make your man feel guilty and come to you to patch up. We know you can do it because we seriously believe that women rule the men and men just live in an illusion of being the ruler.
We hope the above account would help you in having a beautiful, loving as well as a long lasting relationship with your man. Have a good life, Best of Luck!
Also read How to make him yours and know what you should know!
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The Top 25 Things Women DON’T Like in MenLong, long time ago I wrote about 25 Things Women Like in Men (and, soon after, 25 More) – those two articles are still to this day of the most popular on the site. This time I’ll go and present the other side of the story – I’ll show you what girls don’t like.Below is not my personal opinion but the result of an obsessive research with my friends,Twitter questioning and a bit of common sense. You might find a few offensive, but it’s not my point to make anyone feel bad about anything.
Girls don’t like men who:1- Are weak – both physically an personality-wise. Girls want someone to protect them – no matter how independent they may be now. Exercise and get your personality in order.2- Have bad breath. Brush your teeth often and always carry mints with you.3- Have no skill. Be a good football player, a good cook, a good dancer, a good poker player – be a good something. Give her a reason to be proud of you.4- Are miser. Pay for the dinner, buy her presents, give stuff away – not always but if you never do it the road will be rough.5- Can’t lead. Don’t ask ‘What do you want to do?’, ‘Where should we go?’, etc all the time. Grab girls by the hand and just take them with you and where you want to go.6- Lead too much. Lead but don’t exaggerate – it’s all about sensibility. Think twice before obliging her to see Alien vs. Predator with you.7- Don’t call. Chat is cool, SMSs are nice – but use the phone and use it often.8- Smell bad. Shower often, clean your clothes and use cologne.9- Are too egocentric. I also have a big ego – yet sometimes I’ve to keep it for myself. Do the same.10- Dress horribly. If you dress up like this they’ll walk away.11- Are too dangerous. Girls like bad, dangerous
boys – just make sure you don’t take it too far. Do crazy stuff but be careful.12- Are indecisive. Don’t be the ‘I don’t know’ type of guy – decide, move and DO. Else you’ll look weak-willed and they girls leave you.13- Doesn’t get along with her friends. No matter how ugly, ignorant and stupid her friends are, if you like a girl try your best to get along with them.14- Have a small penis. Many say ‘size doesn’t matter’ , but personally I’ve yet to meet one girl in my life who doesn’t care about size. It’s not all lost however – you can read the guide on how to make the most of a small penis.15- Are not independent. Make your own decisions and, if possible, have your own money and live outside Mama’s roof.16- Have beards. Most girls find beards unpleasant and unattractive (and you are probably not the exception). Shave often.17- Can’t drive. It’s always good to have a car, but if you don’t – then at least know how to drive one.18- Too feminine. Even in the XXI Century, girls are girls and boys are boys. If you spend more time in the mirror than she does then something’s wrong.19- Are bad in bed. Rock her world, last long and make her feel special – an unsatisfied girl will leave for the next guy.
20- Are ignorant. Read some books, know your maps, get out to the world. You can’t be sexy if you don’t know where Australia is.21- Looks too bad. Girls are not as superficial as we men are, but they still want to be with attractive boys. Try to look your best.22- Are unpopular. Don’t be the anti-alpha – if most people dislike you, girls will stay away from you.23- Have no ambitions. You need to be fighting for something – to have a big dream or one big project you want to do. Otherwise you will look void and (often) boring to be with.24- Are rude. It’s not old-fashioned to be a gentleman – open her the door, wait for her, eat correctly, etc.25- Have nothing in common with them.I always have fun writing down this lists and I hope you enjoy them too!
It’s not all wrong if you feel identified with one item in the list – it’s ok if you even checked two or three. You can do something to improve right now. It’s of course easier to improve your breath than to become more popular, but with time and effort there’s no point in the list that you can’t do anything about it.The FREE Interviews are still going. Sign up here and you’ll have 20 Minutes to ask me and a girl via Skype whatever you want to know about attraction, seduction, sex, women, etc. The only
requirement is for you to sign up for the email updates below.Interesting Facts about RelationshipsUpdated On 23 Jan 2009, Published On 22 Jan 2009
We all are entangled in a number of relationships in our life, be it, marriage,friendship, opposite-sex friendship,siblings, parenting, or any other man-woman relationship. The word Relationship is full of intriguing facts and the need is to understand those interesting facts. Top54u Team brings to you some interesting facts about relationships which would help you understand the intricacies of relationships in a better way. Have a good read!
1.) A successful relationship is not the one which is free from any disagreement or argument but one where the people know how to patch up, forget the bitter past, have a new argument and get used to repeat this process all their life.
2.) Every relationship has some complications and every human being tries his/her best to make it further complicated.
3.) A man-woman friendship is full of twists and turns, it is just a matter of time when you realize that you are moving in a circle.
4.) A wife can never understand how happy the husband feels when someone thinks that he is actually the king of the house. Actually the people meant to say that he is a big fool to think like that. A husband can never understand how happy the wife feels when someone compliments her for getting such a sweet husband. Actually the people mean to say that the husband is indeed a fool.
5.) If your relationship has just broke up and the person involved says that you would never get a person like him/her then you should feel lucky enough and hope the saying comes true because if you don’t want him/her, then there is absolutely no reason that you would want to have someone like him/her!
6.) After watching the parents fighting, the first thing that comes to mind of the child is ‘whom should I support?’ (Who would you cheer for?)
7.) Opposite-sex friendships enrich one’s life but the family members can never understand and appreciate this enrichment.
8.) If you cannot differentiate between love and lust, then you are dating the right person.
9.) Love is the best thing that can ever happen to a human being, it refers to love after marriage.
10.) If a relationship has to break then nothing in the world can stop it but still we humans try our best to save it.
Hope you liked the above interesting facts about relationships; feel absolutely free to share your precious views, queries, inputs or experiences!
Also check out why Women live longer than Men as well as read an awesome article on the Fabulous Combination of Black and White and get to know some more interesting facts.
How to Tell if a Girl is CheatingUpdated On 23 Jan 2009, Published On 22 Jan 2009
As the world is becoming complex day by day, Cheating is fast becoming a part and parcel of therelationships. It would not be some sort of a surprise when you would come to know that infidelityplays a vital role in breaking up of many relationships. A cheating partner has some commonly noticeable traits which men somehow fail to observe. If you too are one of those guys who just don’t want to be trapped in the cheating games of your girl, then the article would guide you the right way. The following are some signs which can play a vital role in finding out the answer to the question, how to tell if a girl is cheating:
1.) The first and foremost sign of a cheating girl can be observed from her changing behavior. If your girl starts behaving more lovingly or starts feeling uncomfortable with your touch then you should hear warning bells, the earlier the better.
2.) If your girl is ignoring you like not picking up your calls or replying to your voice mails and when you ask her about this, she is ready with some straight face excuse then you are a fool not to sense that something is fishy. We have come across many guys who somehow don’t take these signs seriously even if it starts happening more frequently.
3.) Pay attention to her phone call details or emails and you would get ample evidence regarding your cheating girl. A little bit of technical help is an effective
way to be sure that your relationship is definitely not on the right track.
4.) If your girl has developed a knack of having night-outs and that too without you then it is a sure shot sign that she has had enough of you. Make sure your girl remains atleast truthful about herself to you.
5.) The last but definitely not the least sign indicating about cheating is when her friends become more important for her than you. If your girl spends more time with her so-called Friends or colleagues then you should never take it lightly. Girls often make excuses of being with their mom or with friends, so just don’t trust everything your girl say.
The top 5 signs imply that you are going to be cheated by the girl sooner or later. Though we don’t want to make you overly suspicious but you should just observe your girl and her lifestyle without making her feel uncomfortable. Hope you would take good care of yourself. Have a good life, Best of Luck
Also check out the articles What makes a Person Cheat as well as Why Do women Dump Men and feel absolutely free to share your views, inputs, queries or experiences!
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Have Good Hygiene. Have a shower at least once a day, wash your hair 3-4 times a week, maybe 4-5 during summer (don't do it too often, it will get too dry), brush your teeth at least twice a day, keep your nails clean, make sure you smell nice but don't over do it, and don't forget to shave the legs!
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2.2
Look good. First impressions usually start by the looks. And attraction is actually very important. Nobody is perfect, but you should do your best to look the best you can. This includes:
o Your hair: Again, wash your hair 3-4 times a week. Use a shampoo that is good for your hair. Use hair conditioner and, once or twice a week, pamper your hair with a hair mask. Brush your hair 2-3 times a day, but not too often; it will get oily, or make the ends split. Get a haircut every 4-6 weeks, even if it's just a trim. Another important thing is to change its style. Curly, wavy, straight, ponytail, even plaits. You can choose whatever suits your style, just try not to look the same every day. Dying your hair is not the best option. Your natural hair colour suits your eyes and complexion. If you really want to dye it, go for a nature look by using tones similar to your natural colour.
o Your skin: In the morning, wash your face with cool water (not too cold, but still not lukewarm) and baby soap, then apply a face cream that suits your skin type. In the evening, wash it only with lukewarm water and use some tonic and moisturizing cream. Eat a lots of vitamin A and vitaimin B-containting food, protect your skin from the sun and drink lots of water.
o Your eyebrows: They should be plucked neatly and arched all the time. If you haven't done your eyebrows before, go to a professional; they will shape them properly, and you can ask for advice on how to do it yourself.
o Your eyes: You need to take good care of your eyes. Cool applications, such as cucumber slices or cold tea bags, will help reduce the dark circles under the eyes. Do it twice a month.
o Your lips: You have to have sweet, hydrated and soft lips. Keep your lips conditioned and exfoliated. Honey and butter are really good for your lips; keep them on for 5 minutes or so, then wash away. Keep lip balm/chapstick with you, but don'tover-use it. That's how you lose your lips' natural moisture and then you'll have to rely on those products. Don't use gloppy lip gloss or bright colors. Guys tend not to like too much makeup.
o Your nails: While nail polish is not necessary, keep your nails trimmed neatly, clean, and hang-nail free. If you want nail polish, go ahead and experiment with the pattern, just keep them clean and nice-looking.
o Your body: Workout regularly is important both for looks and health. You should exercise about 5-8 hours a week. Even if your not overweight, it'll tone your body. Eat 5 servings of fruit and 5 servings of vegetables daily. And, it might be smart to play a sport. Like softball, soccer, basketball, or swimming. It'll help complete those many hours of exercise each week, and still have fun.
3.3
Be confident. Head up; shoulders back, back straight, arms casually at your sides, good gait. Just don't overdo it and look like your posing or strutting, just be sure to emit good vibes and make people know your self esteem is at top.
4.4
Style. Remember that hot doesn't mean going out of your comfort zone. A short, low-cut top with a short skirt is too much for some people, but if it makes you feel hot, wear it. Jeans always look good if they are the right cut and size. You don't have to change your wardrobe to be the girl-all-the-guys-want. Just be creative with what you have. Even those boring trousers your grandma gave you for your birthday can look good if you use your imagination a bit - put a nice belt on, maybe a badge or some kind of print. But most importantly, follow your own style, stand out of the crowd. Don't dress like a nun, though. Show a bit of skin but not so much that it becomes vulgar and tasteless.
5.5
Make up. Less is more. Light foundation or tinted moisturizer is ok, even a little blush at night. Eyebrow pencil, lightly applied, can help frame your eyes. Don't go too far with the mascara, it should be just a gentle touch to make your eyelashes and eyes stand out. Mascara looks good with eyeliner. Apply eyeliner more lightly for day wear. If you wear mascara and eyeliner, go with lip gloss for the lips. Vice versa, if you wear some bright lip stick, go easy on the eye make-up.
6.6
Act cool. Once again, that doesn't mean posing. Feeling confident in yourself usually works - Talk to people outside your group of friends, laugh, be nice, just don't pretend to be someone you're not.
7.7
Friends. You need to get a solid group of friends you feel comfortable with. Just don't change your group of friends for the sake of being "cool" - that's mean and fake. Your friends are really nice, aren't they? You probably like them a lot. So don't "exchange" them for some "popular" group. Also, don't talk behind your friends' backs. Try not to talking behind anyone's back, but especially not when it comes to your friends. Support them, be there for them. Most of the time, just have fun with them.
8.8
Be natural. If you mess up, laugh about it. Don't get embarrassed by stupid things like tripping over something, falling down or stuff like that - that's lame. Anyway, it happens to everyone so just laugh about it.
9.9Flirt. But never flirt with a friend's boyfriend. It's really not cool. Flirt just a tiny bit with your other friends, not the real flirting we all know and love, but that sweet little friendly flirt that makes you smile and feel better - just compliments and stuff. Of course, when you meet someone who you like, feel free to flirt in the proper way with them.
How to Make Man Crave for MeUpdated On 23 Jan 2009, Published On 22 Jan 2009
We used to believe that most women know the secret ofattracting men but when a woman reader asked the question,how to make man crave for me, then we are left with no other option but to help out many such ladies. The word crave in itself is a very serious question namely, Is it Love or Lust ? But as they say all is fair in love and war, so if you seriously want to make your man crave for you then the article would help you a good deal. The following are some of the tips that would be extremely beneficial in making men crave for you:
1.) Be a Magnet: The first and foremost tip suggests you how to attract your iron man by your magnetic personality. Be confident about yourself and let that confidence showcase in your magnetic personality. Yourbody language should not only make you look positive and likeable but also add a
dash of seductiveness to your charismatic persona.
2.) Use your assets: Don’t forget that you are the most beautiful creature on this earth. Use your assets and womanly traits such as your sweet nature, intelligence, innocence, positive attitude, charming personality and a glimpse of your beautiful body to make men want you. Dress to kill and add charm to your dazzling personality.
3.) Be a Mystery: Men would automatically feel attracted to women who behave in a mysterious way. So all you have to do is act mysteriously and just don’t behave in a predictable manner. Be a mystery and leave no option for your man but to approach you every single time he notices you. Let your man feel desperate to solve the mystery and get mesmerized by your awesome aura.
4.) An Adventurous character: Bring out your adventurous self and impress the man. If you can give out an impression that you are anadventurous and fun-loving personality, then your man would feel tempted to go on an adventurous journey with you.
5.) Winking, Touching and Smiling: Use your eyes to check out your man and look away when he notices you after scanning him with your seductive eyes. Body language plays a vital role in leaving the desirable effect on anyone. Hold his hands occasionally, wink at him, pass on a beautiful smile, play with your hair, touch him accidentally and the day is not far when you would get what you ever wanted!
The top 5 tips if implemented successfully can play a significant role in making anyone crave for you. But do remember that there is a huge difference between someone craving for you and someone loving you sincerely. The choice is yours, Best of Luck! Also check out Most Romantic Things to Say as well as know the Things to make your man happy and feel free to share your precious views, inputs, queries or experiences!
five things guys want in a girlfriend
Everyone knows what a guy is supposed to want in a girlfriend: a soul mate, a best
friend, blah, blah, blah. But I'm going to let you in on a little-known fact: Those are all
great concepts, but there are other, more real qualities guys secretly want in a girlfriend
— ones that nobody ever tells you about. They may seem like insignificant little details,
but taken as a whole, these things can make a guy never, ever want to give you up.
1. DON'T LEAVE HIM GUESSING
Guessing is fun when it comes to game shows, but Howie Mandel can't help him when
he's trying to figure out which movie you'd like to see or what you want for your birthday.
I know you girls all wish we'd just get you enough to figure it out on our own, but the
truth is, guys aren't great at reading subtle hints. So just tell your guy what you want —
it will make your life easier, and he will be a lot less confused. If all you give him to go
on is, "I'll watch anything," your guy will end up spending more time talking to Mr.
Moviefone than he will hanging out with you!
2.KNOW WHEN IT'S OKAY TO LIE
Guys want you to be honest when it comes to important things, like whether you're
dating him exclusively or how far you want to go physically. But when it comes to
personal things that could be sore spots, like thinking his best friend is hot or hating his
mom's cooking, he'd prefer that you tell a little white lie. You don't have to pretend to
love his hideous new shirt, but you can just say something neutral, like, "It's okay. I like
your green one better." Guys appreciate when girls have the heart not to needlessly hurt
our feelings — because yes, we do have them!
3. PICK YOUR BATTLES
No relationship is perfect, and no two people are going to agree on everything. A great
girlfriend doesn't let her pride stand in the way of letting her guy walk away from a silly
argument at leastthinking he got his point across (even if you still secretly disagree with
him). If you're arguing about something important to you, like your religious beliefs, then
stick to your guns. But little disagreements can snowball into big fights. And nothing is
sadder than having a huge fight and breaking up because he doesn't think Grey's
Anatomy rocks and you think it's awesome. McDreamy's just not worth it.
4. HUMOR HIM
Stupid as it may seem, guys get worked up about things like video games and sports.
The best girlfriends realize that these things really mean something to guys and affect
us on an emotional level. Think about how psyched you get when you score a great bag
at a killer sale. It makes your day, right? That's how we feel when our team sinks a half-
court buzzer beater. And it's nice to have a girl who'll cheer right along with us, whether
or not she really cares what just happened.
5. GIVE HIM A BREAK
Girls will always be our main focus, but sometimes we just want to hang out with our
friends. Guys are so used to being told what to do by our moms that we have it in our
head that we'll need to beg our girlfriend's permission to see our buddies. So if your guy
says, "I might hang out with the guys on Saturday night," and you reply, "Okay, have
fun!" he'll think you're cool. And it'll make him want to hang out with you that much
more next Saturday night!
What Guys Don't Like in Girls?Updated On 19 Jun 2009, Published On 19 Jun 2009
What guys don't like about girls??? Have you ever thought of it??? If not then it is high time you think of it now because the last thing you would want is your guy walking away leaving you with a number of unanswered questions. You may not even realize the reason behind it. Knowingly or unknowingly you could
be doing a lot of thing that your boyfriend finds it annoying.. You might find a number of guys asking you out all the time. You might have even gone a step further by hanging out with the guy and things were moving on quite fine. When suddenly out of the blue you could find difficulty trying to keep the guy in your life. Ironically, you might find it impossible to hold on to the guy despite he being the person you have ever longed for.
In such a situation, it could be pretty confusing. You might begin to doubt your individuality and may even become quite frustrated. But that is not going to lead you anywhere. Instead try to get to know the things that you could be doing though unintentionally but must have probably annoyed the guy. Read on to know the things guys don't like about girls:
1) Men hate it when they are being dragged into a relationship. Some women get so desperate that they start pressurizing their men formarriage. This results into hounding about the relationship which most men find it very annoying.
2) Most of the men hate it when you talk about your ex boyfriend. At the same time, do not insult other women or your ex-boyfriend in front of him. This would only represent you as being insecure and they hate it.
3) One of the things that men hate the most is that women consider their men to be a mind reader. They expect their guy to understand and know everything without saying a word.
4) Guys don’t generally like girls who are too sissy. They hate girls who cry every time the guys say something they don’t like.
5) Guys hate it when girls try to change them from the person they are. If you don’t like them why date them at the first place.
6) Guys want their girls to eat when they take them out for dinner instead of digging into the salad because they want to enjoy the food in their company.
7) Jealousy, spending too much of their money, etc are some of the things that guys don’t like in women. Though they will never speak out loud enough to be heard but keep yourself putting in their shoes and you will realize it.
Guys prefer women who are bold, confident and sporty but again they do not like girls who always try to be right and keep fanning their ego. Always remember that instead of being right and single all your life, it is always better to be wrong and happy. And yes, if you manage to touch the soft corner of your
guy and if they are serious about the relationship, they will give in every single thing they possess, no matter what it takes.
Also read on to know about deadliest mistakes that women make with men. Your views and comments are valuable to us, so feel free to share it.
Relationship Satisfaction - How Much is Too Much?Updated On 08 Dec 2008, Published On 02 Dec 2008
Human desires are unlimited which makes the question ‘how much is too much’ lose its significance? But here the point of consideration is thepatience-level in arelationship that involves people who are not at allcompatible. Most of you would agree that a relationship is just like a boat surrounded by tides with two people trying to balance out things to make their journey joyful.
But many a times, it has been observed that some people fail to balance out things and as a result they have to face many obstacles which make the journey unpleasant. The amusing part is that there are many people who in spite of figuring out the hole in their boat in the beginning and understanding the fact the relationship is just not the best one, still continue the journey in the hope of a better tomorrow, which never comes for the losers. They keep on waiting for that wonderful tomorrow and when it doesn’t come they are left with no other option than asking themselves ‘How much is too much?’ Most people especially women keep on suffering under an abusive relationship thinking about their family or keep thinking about the right time to leave a relationship!
There are many people who have no relationship satisfaction at all and are dragging it somehow. A recent research surfaced the fact that the number of women who are not happy with their relationship is much more than the number of men who feel the same as their female counterparts do. There could be different reasons for it but some of the reasons are so very genuine which makes one feel that it is better to say good bye to a relationship.
Almost every human being would agree that for a woman suffering the torturous behaviour in domestic violence, the hell is no different than her home. There could be nothing worst than being in an abusive relationship. The reason may be any but the fact is that some things are beyond our patience level. One has to get out of the hell, the sooner the better. However, subjected to violence is not the only reason that bothers a relationship, there are many others as it is quite
natural that two people can’t tango together! One likes Salsa, the other may not like dancing at all.
The point is how justified is it to bear the burden of a relationship that has lost all the charm and romance! Also it is not just that the women only feel suffocated in a relationship, men also feel the same way and the boat has to be rowed from both the partners to balance out things. Both husband and wife have to go through this situation and when the situation gets out of control then it is better to jump out of that boat which is going to sink but the decision to jump should be to swim to a safe shore and it has to be made by you just at the right time.
If you are just not happy with your companionship and confused about the future of your relationship, then the relationship advice on time to move on would hopefully show you the right way. Also, you can check out the article Mistakes to avoid in a relationship to strengthen your relationship by keeping the problems at bay.
50 Things Girls Want Guys To KnowJanuary 26, 2006Posted by The Agency1. Saying "I love you" immediately before, during, or following sex doesn't count. 2. Real men drive stick shift. 3. I will leave if you lie. 4. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts). 5. I'm convinced I'm pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so. 6.I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear. 7. "Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look. 8. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you. 9. I'm terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her. 10. I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you. 11. I expect you to call me. 12. Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants. 13. I'm scared of losing my independence. 14. I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be. 15. Oral sex is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free card. Manolo Blahnik shoes also do the trick.
16. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not. (See directly above.) 17. If I'm not having sex with you, I'm: a). having a fat day. b). not feeling "connected" to you. c). blackmailing you to get something I want. 18. Shoes determine whether you're fashionable or not. 19. I own a Debbie Gibson CD, and I'm not afraid to use it. 20. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing. 21. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies. 22. You look hot in hooded clothing items. 23. You should never tell me what to do. 24. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast. 25. My breasts love much licking and sucking. 26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes. 27. I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice. 28. I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead. 29. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color. 30. I want to be Madonna. 31. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers. 32. I'm in heaven when you hold my hand. 33. You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby. 34. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now. 35. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving. 36. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this. 37. If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking.... 38. Discussion of ex-gf's and ex-bf's should be avoided at all times. 39. I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself. 40. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it's only been a few months, earns major bonus points. 41. I love it when you're sweaty. 42. It's best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas. 43. A lady should always be greeted with kisses. 44. I like porn. 45. I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands. 46. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.
47. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read... 48. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat. 49. I remember everything about our relationship. 50. You should know all this and more with-out my telling you.
For Girls Only – What Men Want
Every guy has his own preferences what he looks for in a girl, but here are
common factors that (most) guys like and dislike about girls.
Guys Are Logical
When we say something is red, then it’s red. When we say something is on the
top shelf in the left cupboard, then that is where you should look.
When you tell a guy something he rationalizes it in his mind. He weighs out pro’s
and cons and tries to deduct the consequences of it with logic.
If you make statements or start arguments based on your opinion without any
clear facts to back it up, guys get annoyed. If you want to win an argument from a
guy very easily, prove him wrong with facts that cannot be denied and he will
shut up faster than you can blink.
Guys Say What They Mean
Our words directly describe what we think and how we feel.
If a guy says “I’m fine”, then usually it means that he is fine and feeling okay.
Seriously.
If a guy says “maybe” it might be yes or it might be no. It does not have to be
‘no’.
Guys Hate Indecisiveness
We hate uncertainty and not knowing what is happening. Guys like to make plans
and stick to them (even though we can change them at the last minute).
Guys like to lead and make decisions, and it’s perfectly okay for you to let us do
that. What is not okay is when you are completely indecisive all the time. Just
make a decision, left or right, stay in or go out etc.
You either want it or you don’t. Decide which it is and don’t switch back and forth
all the time.
Guys Want To Be Proud Of Their Girl
When a guy is out with his girl, he wants to be proud of her. He wants to walk tall
with his chest out and show the world what an amazing girl is walking next to
him.
Don’t try to be perfect and live up to a photo-shopped image of beauty from a
Cosmo. Be yourself but carry yourself like a lady, take care of your appearance
and take pride in your body.
Guys Want To Know You Like Them
I’ve had some girls who were nice and flirty with me, but I never really knew if
they liked me in that way or not. I’ve gone out with girls for a while who actually
never told me they liked me and complimented me (but they were dating me so I
assumed they did). I didn’t like that at all.
Guys like it when you tell them you like them.
Guys Like Confidence
There’s nothing like a confident girl. She’s just so much more attractive.
It has to do with the fact that we hate indecisiveness. When a girl knows what
she wants and is not scared to go for it, that is a huge turn-on.
There is of course a difference between confidence and arrogance, and arrogant
is something that you don’t want to be.
Confidence in the bedroom is just as important. When you are too shy to take off
your top, or walk around naked or do it with the lights on, guys lower their
perception of you. It’s like “We both know we like each other and want each
other, what do you have to be shy about?”
Guys Love Sex
Duh! You know that already.
Personally I think that girls love sex even more than guys, but that guys are far
more open and forward about it.
A really big part of a relationship with a girl is sex. Being able to do it all the time,
when you want and where you want. As a girl you may think that the guy is just
using you for sex or just wants to be on top of you all the time, but actually he just
really likes you.
For guys, liking a girl and wanting to have sex with her all the time is pretty much
the same thing.
Guys Hate You Being Late
It is incredibly annoying when you say you’ll be somewhere at 8pm and only rock
up at 8.30 or later (because you still had to do your makeup or something).
We don’t mind if you do that occasionally, because everyone is late sometimes.
But…
Most of the time, when you say you will be somewhere at a certain time, be there
and not 10 or 30 minutes later. If you know that it’s going to take you an extra
hour to do your makeup then just say that you will be there at 9 and not at 8.
Easy!:)
Guys Hate It When You Talk About Your Ex
Seriously. It’s okay to mention it once when you get to know each other, but then
don’t bring him up again.
Never ever talk about the things you used to do in bed with your ex. Biggest turn-
off ever.
Do please let us know if you have a psycho-stalker ex who could potentially show
up in the middle of the knight yielding a giant chainsaw.
Guys Are Not Your Therapist
If you have drama and emotional stories, we don’t want to be a part of it. That is
what your girlfriends are for.
Of course if you have a serious dilemma, we are always here for you. We will try
to help logically, but we will not sit there for hours while you spill out all the gossip
about your entire work/school/ex friends etc.
I must add that some guys will happily listen to your drama because they think
that will get you to like them. That is weak on the guy’s behalf.
In general, please don’t use guys as your therapist if they do not hold a degree in
psychotherapy or counseling.
Guys Love Girls
Most guys really love girls.
Personally I love the femininity, the girlishness, the way you walk and how you
smell.
Like I said, everyone has different tastes. You should not try to change who you
are, because there is a guy out there who will adore you for who you are.
Just be the best person that you can be. Take care of your body, take pride in
your appearance. Follow your heart and never stop learning.
Thank you for being you!
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In order to be the guy every girl wants, you are going to have to take the time and learn what it is you really want in a girl. Are you looking for a girl that is outgoing, or a girl that is quiet and shy? Are you looking for a girl that is active in sports, or are you looking for a girl that likes to watch TV? Before asking yourself what girls want, ask yourself, what do I want.
After you have answered that question, you will now be able to understand what a girl would want in a guy like yourself. She is going to want trust, confidence, and physical attractiveness. She will want you to be positive, laugh and smile, and make a few jokes now and then. Although not every girl will want this, these are just a few that are the most common.
The next step in understanding what a women wants in a guy... is learning. Take the time to learn from your past experiences. Have you ever had a girlfriend? If so, what did she like about you and what did she not like about you? Answer these questions, put them on paper, and improve on the things she didn't like.
There is no right or wrong way to approaching women, or how to seduce them, or how to get them to like you. All it takes is a little effort on your part to make a connection with someone, and you will successfully get a girl that you want.
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Let's be honest. It seems there are books, magazines and talk shows
focusing on helping men understand women. Most women feel that men
don't care one bit about our feelings. But, what about helping women
understand men? Where do we go for information about what men really
want and need?
Women seem to have gotten so caught up in our own feelings that we
overlook the fact that there are things we just do not understand about
men. Knowing that women have their own thoughts and opinions on this
subject, I decided to go straight to the source. Men. I posed a very simple
question to some men I know. "What do you think women need to try to
understand about men?" These were the main responses I received.
The main response was, as we women would expect, men want sex. Why? It
feels good. Other good reasons for sex include: 1. Sex is the main way a
man shows his love and interest in a woman; 2. Sex is a good way to show
your man you love and are interested in him; 3. Sex relieves stress; 4. Sex is
a way to escape the daily grind of life. But, let me re-emphasize, the number
one reason men want sex is simply, sex feels good.
Apart from sex, here are a few other things women can consider.
One of the things that really bothers men is the fact that women seem to
think they should just "know things". Men say women want to drop hints
and send little messages, expecting them to know exactly what is on our
minds. Unfortunately ladies, that's just not happening. Men say they never
know what those hidden messages are until it's too late. If you have
something on your mind girls, come right out and say it.
Another thing is, contrary to popular belief, men say they are not
insensitive. Those times it seems as if men are not listening, they claim they
really are. They just suck at showing it. If they don't respond the way
women would like for them to it's not because they don't care about how
you feel. It's just that men respond differently from women because that's
what they were taught to do. From the time they were little boys they were
taught to be tough and not let their emotions rule their lives. So, after years
of practice, they have finally managed to unwittingly put aside most of their
emotions.
Men would ask that you forgive them for seeming dismissive. It's not that
they don't want to hear what you have to say, it's just that they don't want
to spend days, or even hours, discussing it. They don't mean to interrupt
you, which they admit happens more than they would like. They just want to
get right down to the problem and fix it as quickly as possible. Then, once
the problem has been addressed they want to let it go and never think about
it again.
Men also want women to know, although they hate admitting it, that they
are fragile too. Men say they need to be more than just a guy to us. They
want and need to be "The Man" in our lives. They enjoy having their egos
stroked. They want to feel as if they are "King" of their kingdoms, even if we
don't necessarily agree. Men ask that women make them feel important and
let them feel in-charge, at least some of the time.
The final thing men say is that they really hate to be criticized in public.
They ask that if you must criticize, please do it in private. It's not that they
think they are never wrong, it's just that they don't want the whole world to
know that they're not always right.
Men Want in a Relationship
Posted by Elliot April 10, 2012
When a woman suffers through multiple failed relationships she often begins to wonder if it is her fault. She starts to question her ability to maintain a long term romance. Men do have certain needs and expectations for their partners, and some women have trouble fulfilling these needs. Here some examples of attributes that men look for in a long-term dating situation.
Fun and AdventureWhile everyone likes to enjoy a few nights cuddling on the couch, it can become boring if you are doing it 365 times a year. Men, like all people, need to take on new challenges and explore their horizons. If a man beings to see his future with you as boring or predictable, he may jump ship before it gets too serious.
ConfidenceSurrounding yourself with confident people bring a contagious feeling of success and happiness. They inspire you to take on new challenges and you feel good sharing each other's latest achievements. This type of energy forms the
foundation of a strong relationship. This is why it is important to be confident in yourself when dating a new man. Prove to him that you can handle the challenges of life on your own and he will be naturally drawn to your charisma.
PassionSexual activity is an obvious need in a relationship, but sex itself will not attract a man. It is the passion and romance that fuels the sex which will ultimately have him coming back for more. You can build the fires of passion by making sure that sex is a special moment where you connect with each other both physically and mentally. You can also add excitement to the moment by integrating new roles and environments.
TrustThe success of any relationship revolves around the level of trust that keeps it together. Your man needs to feel comfortable with you no matter if he is with you or away. Of course trust this is not something you can build in one day. It takes a proven track record of showing up on time, being honest, and staying faithful. Once a man believes he can count on you then he is much more likely to work hard at the relationship.
LooksWe would like to think our world is not so shallow to believe appearance is essential to dating, but unfortunately it is. Despite this fact, beauty is a perception that means different things to all people. What attracts some men will repel others, and for every woman who finds fault in her appearance there are a hundred men with the same insecurities. The best approach is to simply pay attention to your looks and make an effort to show off your best attributes. Proving you care about a man's opinion will open the door to more interaction.
These are just some of the things that men want in a relationship. There are literally hundreds more and each man has his own unique preferences. The important thing for women is to understand the basic needs of men and make adjustments for each individual. Following these guidelines will help you build a long lasting relationship.
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What do men seek in a relationship?
Well, I'm sure that is one question which would have given many a woman a sleepless night indeed. After all, 'men' and 'relationships' happen to be two parties which, since ages, have been notorious for not being able to get along well with each other. A whole lot of women, for years on end, have struggled to decipher the mind of a man once he's in (or on the verge of getting into) a relationship. At times, I really wonder just how many women are really able to understand what exactly it is that men want in a relationship. To be honest, (and yes, I'll be very honest throughout this article), I don't really blame them for their predicament. 'Coz although it is a globally accepted fact that Eves are the more complex and complicated of the Creator's creations; the moment you throw in the word 'relationship', suddenly the entire scene changes, and it's the Adams who instantly turn into paranoid princes.
Now don't get me wrong. It's not that we men are phobic when it comes to commitment, or for that matter, marriage. It's just that when it comes to serious relationships, we do have our fair share of fears and feelings of insecurity (which ideally, we should share with our partners, and make things all the easier).
Unfortunately, this doesn't happen all that regularly, and that is only because most of the men are horrible communicators! So many a time, women end up perceiving our expressions, actions or feelings differently (which is bad), or negatively (which is even worse). That is why I feel like helping out the female community by providing a short sneak peek into everything that a man wants from his relationship. Read ahead, I'm sure it'll be an eye opener to some of you!
What Men Really Want in a Relationship
So what are men looking for in a relationship? Well, relationships are of different types, and naturally, the things that men look for in a relationship vary, depending on the type, level and the progression of the relationship. For example, what men want in a girlfriend is rarely the same as what men want in a wife. When a man meets a woman on a first date, rarely does he have any expectations whatsoever. If the two of them hit it off, then that first meeting normally paves the way for many subsequent dates and a period of courtship. It is during this time when the seeds of the relationship are first sown. Slowly, as the relationship grows, progresses and develops, the guy begins to develop (both knowingly as well as unknowingly) certain wants ('expectations' seems a far too heavy word to use at this stage...) towards his girl.
As the relationship grows further and prospers, the guy and the girl begin to reach a certain level of commitment. Once a couple is 'committed' towards each other, individual wants and expectations begin to materialize and take shape. As the committed couple naturally move towards marriage, wants, expectations and
relationship requirements undergo a series of updatings and modifications. Contrary to what some may believe, this 'evolution' of relationship wants and needs does not end with marriage. Rather it is a lifelong process and one which keeps on happening throughout the lifetime and the duration of the relationship.
Over time and as their relationship grows, a woman may get a fair idea of what her man wants. However, it is equally (if not more) important for her to understand what it is that he really needs. What her man wants, may not always be what her man needs. And as mentioned earlier, with men being naturally bad communicators, at times it is quite tough for a woman to differentiate between a 'want' and a 'need'. So here are a few tips to help you ladies out.
From Their Girlfriends
What men want in a girlfriend, is usually a pretty damsel who looks hot, dresses cool, and is a whole lot of fun. They desire someone they can be comfortable with and comfortable around. They want someone who's adventurous, maybe even a prankster, someone whose idea of fun can be something as wild as bungee jumping. They prefer to have a lady who is not bogged down with the realities and pressures of everyday life. They want someone who likes to party, hang out and in general, live life in a carefree manner without worrying too much about the future.
In a Marriage
Once a man is married (or committed), what he seeks in his partner undergoes a sea change. Also, from here onwards, the gap between 'want' and 'need' only widens, and there can be several instances when what men want is not always what men need (at that particular point of time, that is).
What men need in a marriage (or a committed relationship) is someone who will love them in spite of the crazy beings that they are. What a man needs in a wife is a woman who cleverly understands the words that her husband doesn't say, rather than those which he does. What a man needs in a wife, is a woman who, despite not having any affection for sport whatsoever, enthusiastically cheers him on at his weekend game of football with the guys. Many a time, what a man wants in a relationship, is to feel like the knight in shining armor; the typical masculine macho male who is strong, mighty, and protective of his partner. However, what a man needs in a relationship, is a partner who is not meek and is not afraid to stand up and take over the reins when her man is low on morale, self belief or plain confidence. What a man needs in a life partner is a woman who, in times of need, can boost his confidence, his self-esteem and can make him feel good about himself. What a man needs is for his woman to love him from the bottom of her heart, and stand by him through thick and thin.
As I end this article, here is what personally I think of this subject. 'What a man wants in a relationship' is not really quite as important as 'what a man needs in a relationship'. What a man needs, is a beautiful woman who loves him unconditionally,
wholeheartedly, who is the apple of his eye, and who, apart from being just a girlfriend or a wife, is more importantly also his best buddy. (To my dearest S: What a man wants and needs in a relationship, is nothing beyond what you and me have...I'm so very lucky to have you...Love you sweetheart!)Read more at Buzzle: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/what-men-want-in-a-relationship.html
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Have you ever wondered why men seem to want you one day, then wants more "space" the next? Ever wondered why most men find it hard to commit? These and many other questions plaque the minds of many women today - just what do men want in relationships?
The surprising thing is that what men want in relationships are pretty much the same things that women want. Here are some of the things men want, and why:
#1 - Men want freedom.
When a man first enters the dating game, he's in it for the fun. He's out to meet new women and make new friends, and finding someone to marry is probably the last thing on his mind. He's enjoying his life to the hilt, and still loves many aspects of his single life -- his hobbies, his friends, his career.
A stigma of relationships today is the idea that once you get into a relationship, you lose your freedom to do the things you used to enjoy. This is precisely why many men are uncomfortable being in a relationship and living under its "rules." But what most people don't
realize is that it's still possible to enjoy your freedom while sharing it with someone you love.
So the best tip you can remember to ensure his freedom is this: Don't be too clingy. As the popular song goes, "Everybody needs a little time away from each other." Let him enjoy his time, and do the same every now and then.
#2 - Men want enjoyment.
The reason why most men space out of their relationships is because they simply don't find it fun anymore. This could either be because their girlfriends try to ask for too much attention, or talk about too many problems, or simply aren't any fun to be with. Do you like the idea of spending the rest of your life with someone so negative? Exactly.
To make the relationship a happier place for him (and you), learn to be in total control of your emotions, instead of being a slave to them. This doesn't mean you'll need to filter out all the negative emotions, but instead of letting them rule you, acknowledge them and move on. And always try to bring positive, enjoyable things to the table in the relationship.
#3 - Men want independent women.
Let's face it -- too many women today think of themselves too much. They depend on their friends, their money, and their boyfriends to stay happy. But you'll be surprised at how being able to stand on your own two feet is a very irresistible quality to have. Men love being with independent women, simply because independent women are a rarity these days.
It may sound hard, but it's always possible to tweak your personality to be more free, more enjoyable, and more independent. It's all a man wants in a relationship!
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Understand What Men Want in Relationships
What men want in relationships may seem simple. Sex, pizza, and sports. All kidding aside, mens needs still dig a little deeper. Sometimes it's not always what men want that is important, it's what they need as well. A lot of times a guy really doesn't put much requirements on specific needs when you cross out the obvious. So for women, it can be a bit of a challenge. Much bigger than they think. You can't just fulfill the typical cliche of what men want in relationships, to truly make them happy.
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o 1Men want to be independent. You will find a lot of similarities when it comes to women's needs and mens in relationships. This is much bigger for guys, because no guy wants their manhood stripped away. Don't control your guy, they don't like it. Even if they're letting you do it. Guys need to be independent.
o 2Don't coddle and smother them. Guys don't want to be smothered, they need their breathing room. Smothering can be calling them too much, or always showing up unannounced. They want to spend time with you, but they don't want to be smothered with it. Let them miss you and reflect on the time spent. They need a little space, and sometimes a bit of guy time. Women don't always understand this, and it doesn't mean they're sick of being around you. It's just how men are. There are things men do, and things women do. Sometimes they need some man time.
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o 3Avoid drama. If you ask any guy, this is the number one turn off when it comes with women. They want to avoid drama with all costs. Don't become the kind of person who constantly causes problems, arguments, and act overly sensitive easily. When they do something you don't like, discuss things rationally with them. Also don't be too harsh and expect too much from them. Don't put ridiculous expectations on them, because guys hate that. Have a loose and relaxing attitude with them. They like laid back, not a woman who fills their life with tension.
o 4Pay attention to them and make them feel confident. Men can definitely suffer from being insecure, something women don't always
realize. Women may seem more insecure, but I wouldn't say that they are. Women get insecure physically, where guys get insecure mentally. So understand a guys mindset and don't bring them down. Bring confidence into them, and make them feel confident. Also don't shut them out, because guys do need that companionship as well. They need someone they can open up with.
o 5Be cool. Seems pretty simple, but guys like cool. Guys like a woman they can brag about, saying she likes this, and that. When I say cool, don't turn into their mom. They have a mom, they don't need two. Don't be over sensitive, critical, or emotional with them. Don't treat them like they're a baby. Never, ever talk down to them either, especially around people. Be funny around them, and be who you are. Be relaxing around them, you'll push the right buttons with them. This doesn't mean you can't express yourself, and your thoughts to them. You just don't have be intense about it. Guys don't do well with dramatic scenes. Less drama, the more you'll get out of them.
o 6Don't tell them everything they want to hear. Guys can be a bit insecure, but they can quickly grow an ego as well. Don't always tell them the things they want to hear, especially if they're feeling a little too good about themselves. I think women need to help balance a guys mindset. When they're a bit too down, they can say the right things to help boost them back up. Nothing is better than receiving a compliment from a girl you're into. However, if they're getting a bit too full of themselves, you need to back off a little bit. Humble them. Keep them balanced, and don't let them feel they can take you for granted. You can't allow a guy to walk over you, as well. You have to set your own boundaries as well.
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Relationships can be very fragile. This is because either one or both partners don't come up to scratch. Women need to know what men usually look for in a relationship so that they can satisfy their men and have a long lasting relationship. The fact remains that men also seek to have a partner who can satisfy them on all counts. Read the following tips which will help you know what men want in a relationship.
A two-way communication Men would soon get bored and fed up with a woman who is just beautiful but does not have any intelligence to have stimulating conversations with
her man. The modern man is as turned on by brains than just a "no 10 body". He wants timely, honest and loving communication.
Men need a "woman of substance" to compliment them No man wants to be chosen out of sheer desperation but rather out of emotional want. Secure and self sufficiency in a woman shows that she is confident. This in turn makes the men feel that the relationship has more chances of surviving because she is independent and active.
A compatible partner It definitely takes "two to tango" and most men want their women to be compatible both in bed and out of it. Sharing a loving relationship with a partner who is compatible both mentally and physically is considered ideal by most men.
Men do not want to be manipulated Most men hate to be manipulated in any way. They also hate to be rushed into any relationship. They will commit themselves when they are ready. This applies to other areas of the relationship.
Men want emotional stability and growth in a relationship No relationship can grow strong without a foundation of courage and emotional strength. Men want their women to be able to take responsibility for their own emotional experiences. This means that they have to be mature enough to handle emotions in a responsible manner.
Fidelity ranks high in a relationship Like women, men too want their relationship to be honest and true. A woman who is trustworthy and faithful is considered an asset today. Men love woman who do not have a "roving" eye and who stays committed.
Intimacy Intimacy is the secret of a long and loving relationship. Men want sensual and close intimacy with their partners. A woman who is open and ready to share their most intimate feelings, emotions and desires with their mates is considered highly attractive. Precious moments in a relationship are born out of true intimacy.
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What Do Men Really Want? If you asked most women this question, the answers would be predictable.
Women believe that Men Want:
- A woman that always looks perfect
- The woman they can't get
- Someone who will never complain
Yes, it's true that if you asked men what they want, there are many who would agree
with those answers above, But Here's A Secret so Few Women Know…
What Men Want and What They Say They Want Are Two Different
Things
In fact, what men say they want in a woman and who they end up marrying are often
quite different. What every man does understand is that he wants a woman that
makes him feel good. Since men don't access their emotions as easily as women,
one of the appeals of a woman is her feelings.
More specifically, they find a woman who knows how to put her heart first (and ahead of
any man) to be captivating. Such a woman understands that in relationships a woman
has the ability to make a man feel good simply by being a woman.
When a man has been in the company of a woman that is authentic, he begins to crave
the feeling that such a woman arouses in him. The problem isn't what men want in a
woman, it's how they often choose to go about getting it.
Men Often Confuse Intensity with Intimacy
Men tend to focus on any activity that produces strong feelings. Sex being the
preferred choice. It isn't that men in general are selfish, it's that when they do feel,
they feel quickly and intensely. Once the emotional intensity dies down (which it must),
they detach and often feel as though something is wrong.
What Men Find Captivating is a Woman Who:
-Knows what he needs, even though he may not like the process.
-Has the confidence to pace the relationship when he wants to go too fast. She knows
that men need to be paced.
-When he pulls away emotionally, she never chases him but allows him his space.
-To his surprise, when he is ready to resume a conversation, he is surprised to hear her
say these powerful words; "I am still upset with you for not speaking to me for so long."
Men Want Some One Expensive
What all of these responses have in common is that they convey value to a man. She
knows she's expensive regardless of how he acts. Such a woman makes a man
want to cherish and protect her, as with anything of value.
What Do Men Want?
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If you’ve had a few relationships in your life and you’re still at a loss as to what men
want, then you probably forgot to raise your antennas or turn on your router.
Men are a mystery. Oh sure, men complain about how women can be such mysterious
damsels, saying one thing when they actually mean something else, and how their
emotions rule them so that communication becomes difficult. But women – when
they’re among themselves – also believe that men are equally mysterious, if not more
so.
“I go on and on about how the paint color is so very wrong for the patio and all I get is a
‘uh huh.” Uh-huh what?”
“The other night I asked my husband what he wanted for dinner, and he says, ‘whatever
you can whip up in a snap, hon.’ So I served sole fillets and a cucumber salad, and then
he comes to the table and grumbles, ‘can’t we get some real food in this place?’ I don’t
know what to do anymore. When I ask for his opinion, he’ll mutter a few words I can
barely figure out.”
We tend to compare men to a mystery novel: the surprise ending always comes later,
just when you least expect it. As you flip through the pages, you get a taste of the
mystery, but you only have a vague idea of what it really is because the writer has so
cleverly manipulated the plot, using layers and layers of meaning before the truth is
revealed. The revelation comes only on page 999. Before that, oh boy, prepare yourself
for the long haul. Men are like that mystery plot. Wives realize they don’t know who
they married, or say comments like “I thought I knew him like the back of my hand.”
Don’t get us wrong. We’re not saying all men are the same. Those that are a mystery
and don’t say outright what they want have cunningly crafted an aura of their own, and
it will take an exceptionally smart cookie to see through that aura, crack the code, and
unravel the secret.
To Know what Men Want - Know their SoulSounds simple enough, right? But the last time we checked, soul-reading is an art that
hasn’t been yet honed to perfection. Soul is essence, the core of your being. And when
a person has taken detours frequently in life and been derailed repeatedly, his soul
becomes a blur. So he himself doesn’t know what kind of person he is. After a series of
sad and traumatic life events, his reality could be different from yours and mine. When
people are not on the same level playing field, then it becomes difficult to know what
they want.
Have you tried asking a teenager - who’s been on drugs for many years and who has
never known love and sympathy - what he wants out of life? Try getting a straight
answer!
Going back to what men want, it will help to work with a few assumptions about the
nature of the male. What makes him tick? What are his hot buttons?
Dr. John Gray who wrote Mars and Venus on a Date (Harper Collins, 1997), said that
men are like blowtorches while women are like ovens. If a woman knows this
instinctively, she may get less frustrated. Dr. Gray says that men can be strongly
attracted to women but then suddenly lose interest. Is it because they did not get what
they wanted from their female targets? Did the object of their desire come tumbling
down from the pedestal because he thought she was X but turned out to be Y? Gray
says, “he is like a blowtorch that can heat up really fast and then turn off in an instant…
Women are like ovens. They slowly heat up and slowly cool off.”
Gray zooms in on the real issue: “A woman assumes that if a man is physically attracted
to her, he is also interested in pursuing a relationship with her.” They’re two different
things. Men may get charmed by an attractive woman. He likes what he sees and will
see how far he can go, but he may not necessarily be thinking “relationship.” But
women, poor creatures, think he is.
If You Know his Allergies - Half the Mystery is Solved
We’re not talking about his allergies to nuts or heavy perfumes. We’re talking about the
intangibles, those pesky irritants in a what-if relationship.
One we’re familiar with is a man’s allergy to commitment . Ladies, if you remember this
cardinal rule, you’ll learn not to speak the C word too early in the relationship. That has
to come from him. He has to be willing and ready to change his bachelor ways and be
prepared to settle down into a kind of domestic life that will make confirmed singles
wince with pain. Try restricting his boyhood freedoms and watch what happens. He
suddenly turns into an ogre because you didn’t take his wants seriously.
And here’s another: men don’t want stormy, emotional confrontations. Men will flee if
you’re in the habit of crying a lot. Forget about that declaration that it arouses their
protective instincts. It does, of course, but they tire of it if done repeatedly. A fellow we
dated once used to say, “my poor dad got it again. Mom was on her usual R&R and I
wanted out of the house fast. Don’t know how my dad could take that, day in and day
out.” When we asked him what R&R meant (we thought it meant rest and relaxation),
he said “ranting and raving.”
Ladies, listen up: ranting and raving will trigger your man’s desire to run for shelter.
When you’re feeling emotional, one good practice is not to argue. Instead, say you’ll
discuss the matter once you feel better and more composed. It’s also a good way to
avoid saying hurtful things you might regret later.
What Men Want - Four Levels of Attraction
Dr. John Gray’s insights on a male’s four levels of attraction might also help us decipher
what men want. Being familiar with the psychology of the male will clue us into our own
behavior and teach us how NOT to make his interest wane.
Level one: Physical Attraction
This is the lowest level for a man, regardless of age. Younger men will think of a woman
in physical terms, while older, more mature men will also be physically attracted to a
woman, especially if they’re on the rebound. Physical attractiveness is important for the
male. Women should understand that this is the most preliminary stage of the dating
game. They should not think that the next logical step for a man is to propose marriage.
Level two: Emotional AttractionDr. Gray says that when a man begins to feel
emotional chemistry, he “feels friendly and affectionate toward a woman not just
because he feels physically attracted; but he also wants to be close because he likes
her.”
Level three: Mental AttractionThis is the level where a man begins to realize that
the woman he’s dating has a kind of character deserving of closer scrutiny. He
discovers personality traits that he never noticed before: strength, confidence, ability to
handle stress, lack of meanness. This is when he also detects a woman’s degree of
maturity and appreciates it.
Level four: Soul Attraction
Dr. Gray says that at this level, a man’s heart opens. Finally! Love’s on its way, and the
man thinks, “this could possibly be the one.”
Men Also Want This…
We came across an article in a Canadian newspaper that reported on a survey about
what men look for in women. After they come to terms with the physical and emotional
attraction, men who are seriously thinking of one particular woman put a lot of priority
on fidelity, a notch above good looks and brains.
How’s that for some old-fashioned cocoa?
What Do Men Want in a Relationship?
Men today are confused. They have no clue what hit the fabric of the society and how things they took for granted changed so suddenly. The age of women empowerment and feministic outlook has men disillusioned more than ever. They don’t grudge women their freedom, or power, it’s just that they are having a hard time relating to the new age woman.
One can say women are just as confused due to their new found power especially when it comes to relating with men. Relationships have ceased to be what they were in the good old days. The attributes men look for in a relationship are becoming increasing difficult to find, leaving them searching wildly.
Contrary to the popular opinion among women, what men want in a relationship are really simple attributes. Men are not complex in fact they are really simple in their needs.
What are Men Looking for in a Relationship?So what is it that men want in a relationship? Their needs are basically the same as it was in with their primitive ancestors. Here is what men want from their lifemate.
A LoverMen seek physical and emotional satisfaction in their relationship. Most men are emotional beings. Women who beg to differ have just been meeting the minority. The fact is that men have to show a tough exterior outside because society expects this of them. Men don’t show it outside but there are many who break down when they are alone.
The toughest men have the softest heart. Men want love and care from their partner in a relationship, more than anything else. They just want a woman who will love them for what they are, without judgments.
A Trustworthy PartnerMen look for trust in their relationship. Even men who themselves are not very loyal would expect their mate to stand up to their trust. It seems a little unfair but that’s how it is. Men can’t stand their trust being broken. The cases of infidelity and unfaithfulness are increasing among women at a rate equal to men, or more. Men seek stability in their marriage.
A FriendOnly a woman can be a man’s best friend, this because men don’t share their emotional facets with their male buddies. Men need a lot of emotional support which they depend on their woman to provide. If the history is any proof, the most successful men had a strong woman in their life. Friendship is what men really want in a relationship. Most women nowadays fail to see this because they always look at men as manipulative creatures.
In a nutshell, if you are asking what do men want in a relationship, the answer will be - love, trust, physical intimacy and friendship – most other attributes are secondary.
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The Secret Things Men Love about Women
When it comes to men and relationships, it can be hard for a girl to know
what it is that drives guys crazy, in a good way! We've all got the basics. He
wants love, support, guy time, respect blah blah blah. Any girl in her right
mind knows that these are the fundamentals.
But what are the small secret things about women that men find incredible?
What details catch a man's attention and make him think about a summer
romance? What is it about a woman that really turns the heads? This guide
to kicking off summer love will reveal all.
#1. Men LOVE women who are always positive and confident. Women
who don't criticize other women or complain about their own personal flaws
a lot are completely irresistible to guys.
#2. Guys love pony tails! They're fun, flirty, and frankly remind them of sex.
So wear 'em!
#3. A woman wearing a skirt or dress is both rare and amazing. Play up
your unique femininity with a cute summer dress or swishy skirt!
#4. The ultimate key to attraction? CONFIDENCE! A woman who stands
firm in her beliefs, doesn't seek his approval, and believes in herself no
matter what will attract men like bees to honey.
#5. Be upfront about what you want. Guys don't take hints and can't win at
guessing games, so just tell them what you're looking for!
#6. Men love feminine women. This doesn't mean Barbie, it means a woman
who is soft, kind, nurturing, emotionally grounded, and womanly.
#7. Men are attracted to women who aren't clingy. The attractive women
have their own lives, dreams, ambitions, and things that are important to
them that keep them busy.
#8. The woman who isn't anxious or nervous is incredibly attractive. She
isn't scared off by particular people, places, or situations.
#9. Guys love a girl who drinks beer and will watch the game with them.
#10. Be adventurous! The exciting girl who initiates exciting and sometimes
dangerous activities is nothing less than stellar in his eyes.
#11. Men love a girl who is playful. It is a natural part of being feminine
and fun that they simply can't resist!
#12. Unbeatable technique: Flirt, give him attention, and then don't feel the
need to talk the next day. This one drives guys wild!
#13. Hold your hair up with a pencil. It will fascinate guys because they
don't understand how it works.
#14. Maintain your spirit of independence, but don't make him feel
unneeded.
#15. Jeans + heels = sexy woman.
#16. Speaking of heels, men LOVE them. There are very few occasions
where heels aren't appropriate, so wear them! The way women walk in
heels is killer for guys. :)
#17. Soft pink or peach colors are very attractive to men. Red is also, but it
also gives the air of a more dominant woman.
#18. Cinnamon and vanilla scents are completely irresistible to men. (I
learned this one first hand from a number of guys!)
#19. The most attractive women always do one thing: they SMILE! No
matter what, the woman who smiles is always more attractive than the one
who doesn't.
#20. Men love a woman who speaks in a voice that is soft and smooth. This
is also a good way to get an attractive prospect closer to you!
#21. Men will always appreciate a woman who is low drama, in control of
her emotions, kind to others, and confident in herself no matter what. This
is the ultimate standard of intense attraction.
#22. Guys love the back of a woman's neck, so pull your hair up and wear a
nice warm vanilla or cinnamon perfume.
#23. Keep in shape, because guys are visual creatures and always will be!
#24. Men love women's hands and wrists. As part of your daily routine, take
care of your hands with a good moisturizer, your nails with proper trimming
and painting, and top it all off with an elegant bracelet.
#25. Men love a woman who cooks for him. It's true, the way to a man's
heart is through his stomach!
#26. She gives him the look. Guys will always give attractive women the
once-over, but when she returns it with a sultry glance, nothing is hotter
than that.
#27. Men love the way women walk. They have a certain grace and smooth
rocking motion that men can always appreciate.
#28. Soft skin and hair. There's nothing like it.
#29. Women's maternal instinct. It's something pretty much all women
have, yet it drives men wild.
#30. Women smell good. Right after the gym or a night out without the
perfume, women just smell good.
10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About ThemBy Woman s Day | Love + Sex – Mon, Mar 1, 2010 9:22 PM EST
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By Brendan Tapley
Here's the standard line on men: We're simple, straightforward, limited-and
usually perfectly happy to leave it there. Why? Because it keeps your
expectations of us low. But here's the single biggest thing women don't get
about men: Masculinity is a complicated performance we agree to in order
to be seen as men. Unfortunately, that performance is more designed to
conceal than reveal us. For instance, it's easier and more "masculine" for us
to talk about the great sex we had rather than describe the great
conversation afterward. So, a woman ends up knowing the male script, but
not the man. Breaking character, then, I give you (in random order) 10
things he wishes you knew about him.
1. Even Men Like Compliments Every Once in a While
Real guys, or so the story goes, don't need praise. Especially not about
girlish things, like if those jeans show off our assets. But the truth is, men
enjoy a little well-intentioned objectification. A squeeze of the biceps and a
lingering stare when we reach for the top shelf-these remind us of what
attracted you to us and appeal to our Darwinian sense of selectivity (i.e.,
what keeps you choosing us over the other monkeys). It also makes it OK,
even desirable, to send a little objectification your way, too. And just to be
clear, the praise doesn't need to be physical. In fact, it's important that
women commend those things masculinity tends to belittle, like if we're
good cooks or get passionate about foreign films. Tell us, too, when we've
been a good father, a caring son or a helpful husband. Watch how much
faster the toilet gets cleaned.
2. We Are Brutally Honest Because We Care
We know that, at times, tact can be the only four-letter word that doesn't
describe us, but women need to rethink their reactions to male candor. Men
lie and obfuscate with people they have no interest in. The art of BS-and
indulging others with their BS-is how we get through the day. But with you,
lucky you, we want to forget all that. We want to tell you why your mother
bothers us and how you can solve the problem with your high-
maintenance friend. In a relationship, honesty is a young man's mistake
because the longer a man feels punished for it, the more he begins to
censor himself. And that's when you really need to worry.
3. You Should Appreciate Our Reliability
Similar to honesty, a good man demonstrates his commitment to you by
showing up. So it's more than a little irritating to hear about your
fascination with the jerk who has mastered the art of illusion: He's there,
but not really. It's a vicious cycle-the more men feel those guys get the
benefits of your time and attention, the more incentive we have to become
those guys. And that's bad for both of you since more of those guys turn
your illusion into our delusion.
4. Love Means Never Having to Be Attached at the Hip
We acknowledge the importance of couple time. We'd even go so far as to
say that, in the best relationships, love that is asserted each day deepens
and extends. Lost in this, however, is the belief that time spent enriching
oneself also enriches partnerships. In other words, going on a hiking
weekend with the boys does not diminish the bondwe share. Like women
need the affirmation of their girl friends, guys need the companionship of
other men. This kind of solo time will refresh us and we'll come back with
more for you.
5. We Respect You as Females-and Love What Makes You Women
It is sad to say that equality in our times means adopting the worst of both
sexes: Men get more sexualized and women can be cruder. And while no
fair-minded guy wants women to return to the 1950s sitcom (although
coming home to a roast chicken and a stiff drink ain't bad as a fantasy),
neither do we want the elimination of the feminine as a virtue. Don't be
ashamed to hold on to those things that make you different from us, like
how you care about smelling nice or reminding us of empathy. That isn't
regressive; it's just beautiful. To see the exception, read #6.
6. Be the Boss in the Bedroom
Two words: Unleash yourself. Express your fantasies. Use your handsalong
with your…imagination. Show us who's boss and give us good directions-
you already know we don't do well asking for them. Your explanations will
heighten our intuition and your pleasure.
7. Our First Commitment Is to Ourselves
One of the biggest complaints by women (for the second, read #8) is that
men don't commit. Right or wrong, men are raised to believe that a
successful life hinges on self-fulfillment. Relationships, at first glance, seem
to impinge on that. They make men nervous that the pursuit of happiness
will become the path of missed opportunity. But men do come around to
understand that true self-fulfillment depends on fulfilling another. What can
you do in the meantime? Take a page from our script on this one and focus
on your self-fulfillment, your own passions. This kind of healthy withdrawal
will make pursuing you part of our happiness.
8. For Us, Seeing Is Believing
Want to know why men like sports? Pure, measurable success. At the end of
the game, no one can dispute the number of touchdown passes or
homeruns. An athlete works toward a goal and is rewarded with concrete
proof of his effort. What is the irrefutable proof of a successful emotional
life? Here, the data is less tangible. Men fear endeavors where success is
vague because failure seems a likely result. In case you hadn't noticed, we
hate to fail. One way to take the failure out is to become his ally in those
pursuits that bring him emotionally alive; his attempt at wholeness there
will illuminate the great rewards of an emotional life elsewhere.
9. We May Lose Small Battles, but Always Remember the Wars We've
Won
How important is putting the toilet seat down if the yard is mowed each
week? Does it matter that an item was forgotten at the store when he
checked off the rest? If he let the kid go to his friend's with a stained shirt
but made sure to spend time on his science project, is there a point to
mentioning it? Women should remember to give credit where credit is due.
10. Fathers Are Just as Important as Mothers
It can seem, at times, that the world elevates the feminine over the
masculine and that the lessons men can impart are outmoded or regarded
as Neanderthal. But when a bully is picking on your son,
your husband showing him how to throw a punch is not nonsensical. Or if
your daughter has an athletic talent, his testosterone-fueled guidance may
teach her more than just competitiveness. Honoring what men know based
on their experiences is just as valuable to the young as the insights of
women. Freely sharing his wisdom prevents imbalance, both in us and those
we seek to help.
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There are always misunderstandings and misconceptions about how women move, act, react, and voice their opinions. It is expected that men would not comprehend the behavior and thoughts of women, especially if they do not know exactly how they feel and what message they are trying to convey. In fact, in most instances, women are trying to send a message to men in general which are intended for them but in most cases, they are too insensitive to discern that it’s for them or it’s all about them. The succeeding lists are just few of the basic things that any man should learn to fathom the ladies to have a better relationship and communication with their girlfriend, spouse, and even with their sister and mother.
10. Caresses and kisses take their anger away
If you and your girl had a big fight or even a small misunderstanding, nothing would really appease them but simple hugs and caresses. This is one of the things that men in general don’t understand because instead of resolving the issue, they are trying to defend themselves by citing various reasons, which complicate the situation even more. What women really need is a simple kiss and an apology.
9. Girl likes you if she laughs with your corny lines
When a girl laughs at you, even if you are not really throwing funny lines, it only means that she likes you. It’s the same situation when you are telling something, which a girl does not like, whether the topic is about sports or any topic that might not interest them. But if a girl likes you, she is willing to listen, even if an annoying topic or activity may suppose to irritate her.
8. She is resolving something when she looks at you
Do not misinterpret the girl if she is silently looking at you, it only means that they are thinking and analyzing the situation before they react and say something. In fact, psychologically speaking, women think a lot more than men do. That is why in most of the wrong choices and bad results, it is always men that are the causes. They would just think about the
consequence right after the decision has been made, compared to women where they would really think of it many times.
7. She wants to know that you love her
Women in general are expressive when it comes to their emotions. Making her feel that you love her is not enough; they want to hear it from you more often. Therefore, if she is trying to get your attention, that is the time that you have to say that you love her. Nothing more, nothing less.
6. Women hold grudges until trust comes back
Women are really emotional, especially when trust is broken. They could say that they have forgiven you but they still feel the pain and would still hold grudges for a long time. This is the reason why when is a misunderstanding and conflict happens against a lady, it is hard to restore the trust back.
5. They want to be called beautiful rather than sexy
Although it is a compliment that women would be called sexy or hot, but they want to hear more that they beautiful and adorable. This is something that really tickles their heart and what they would love to hear from you, over and over again.
4. They are in love if they become shy in dealing with you
Do not be disappointed if a girl does not give you much attention or if she tries to avoid you, particularly those who are trying to court a lady. It only means that she loves and cares so much about you, but she is just too timid or shy to say it courageously to you. This is one of the good signs that a man can get if he is clueless about the feelings of a girl for him.
3. They wanted to be appreciated
When a woman tries to wear something new and would want to make herself look good and beautiful by wearing make-up and new dress, she just wants to hear a word of appreciation from you. You do not know exactly why they are doing it because of you and not for any other person’s attention.
2. Appreciate the things that they do
What really makes any woman’s heart big is to hear their lover’s or husband’s appreciation. This is one of the common mistakes that men commit. When a woman tried to cook something for you or she has prepared your favorite meal, cleaned the house, and gave you a surprise gift, make sure that you will be vocal to say “Thank You” and be specific on what you like the most on the food that she just cooked.
1. When they say something, it actually suggests the opposites
When women say something to you, it actually means the opposite. For instance, when they say that it is okay for them that you would not buy gifts for them during special occasions, such as anniversaries and birthdays, do not believe them because they want it the other way around.
6 Things Men Do To Get Laid That Science Says Turn Women OffBy:Kathy Benjamin March 29, 2010 5,586,360 viewsAdd to Favorites
As we mentioned in this article, attracting a woman can be so easy you don't
even realize you're doing it. Of course, most of the methods are totally outside
of your control and can only be done on accident.
Unfortunately, it turns out there are just as many things you're doing to repel
women, again without even knowing it. Don't blame us; it's science.
Common turn-offs include:
#6. Talking to Her
So you're in a club and--thanks to those eight shots of Jager, each of which you
swear is making you exponentially sexier than you were before you downed
them--you finally decide to approach the hot chick you've been leering creepily
at all night. You've got your game face on and an arsenal of pick-up lines that
would slay a Victoria's Secret catwalk.
With a perfect storm of raw sex appeal like this brewing all around you, it
comes as no surprise to you that the object of your carnal desires is flirting
back.
But then, just as you're preparing to land your plane at Bonesville International
Airport, she starts backing off. Somehow, the more you talk to her, the less
smooth you become. When she awkwardly ends the conversation five minutes
later you're literally babbling like a moron. A moron with a now totally useless
boner.
What the Hell Happened?!
If you feel like you sound stupid when you talk to women, don't worry, you do.
In a recent study, men chatted with attractive women and then were subjected
to basic tests. They failed miserably. And when we say "basic tests" we don't
mean fourth grade math, either. We're talking not being able to remember your
own address (unless you were asked to take a woman there, right, killer?)
"Sorry, it appears I have punctured my copy of the test with my boner."
Unsurprisingly, the more attractive you find a woman, the worse this effect is
and the stupider you will sound when talking to her. The scientists didn't go so
far as to say what everyone was thinking (that the effect is caused by blood
flowing away from your brain and directly to your junk), but women suffered no
such memory lapses at all when tested after chatting with handsome studs like
you.
However, one of the scientists did say the difference could be down to the fact
that women are interested in things other than looks while men are
"reproductively focused," which is a much more tactful, scientific way of
saying, "Dudes get easily distracted by the thought of boning."
#5. Acting Interested
OK, maybe you were putting yourself out there too much. After all, in this day
and age, for better or for worse, women sometimes like to make the first move
right?
So, instead of going up to a lady and moronically chatting away, you instead
decide to just lean coolly on the bar and smile at the ladies. That way, in their
own time, one of them can come over to you and the flirting can commence.
Except that none of the ladies you are so very obviously acting interested in
ever approach you. What could you be doing wrong now?
It's definitely not the hat.
What the Hell Happened?!
We really enjoy mocking the "Pick-up Artist" community, where guys like this...
...hold seminars on how to reel in women by acting like you don't like them.
And dressing like a douchebag.
But research shows there is a least a little bit of a factual basis behind their
bullshit. In his book The Game, journalist Neil Strauss entered the world of the
pick-up artist and learned one important thing: Women like men who ignore
them. According to his experience, your best bet at getting a girl is walking up
to her group and completely ignoring her, while chatting away to her less
attractive friends.
Even if those friends are men.
We would write that off under our normal rule of "don't believe anything that is
also believed by a man in a furry tophat" (and it's saved our lives more than
once), but another study came up with hard numbers.
The dating site OKCupid.com actually went through their database of pictures
men had submitted, and tracked how many contacts each yielded. They studied
7,000 photos and determined that men who didn't look directly at the camera
in their profile pictures received more messages on average than men who did.
About 50 percent more, in fact, if said picture combined the looking away with
an expression of disinterest (smiling drove down the effect some, but still not
as much as eye contact).
See? No eye contact.
No word on how many of those messages were from cam show robots, but still.
Now, obviously you can't take this to its logical extreme ("I'll get tons of women
if I just never get within 10 miles of one! That's the ultimate expression of
disinterest!") because clearly the men in the study were also expressing the
fact that they were looking for a mate (or else they wouldn't be on OKCupid).
So it's not about total disinterest. The data suggests it's about somehow
showing that you're interested, but not in her.
#4. Dancing
So you've tried it the pick-up artist way, but quickly found that sitting in the
corner acting like you don't like women failed to score you any tail. (And you
peacocked it out with that feather boa and everything!) But you have a trick up
your sleeve: Your sextastic dance moves. After all, dudes have been getting
girls this way for thousands of years!
Come on, Rightie... just a few inches lower.
When you finally get drunk enough to hit the dance floor, in your mind, you're
Fred Astaire-ing the shit out of the place. Unfortunately, what you're actually
doing is some bizarre alt-new wave version of the robot that has every girl in
the room pointing and staring open-mouthed. And not in a good way. But it's
OK, because deep in your heart you know one day a girl, hopefully one who
looks kind of like Zooey Deschanel, will realize your dancing just means you're
a quirky free spirit and she'll have quirky, free spirited sex with you.
Fifty years later, you die alone.
What the Hell Happened?!
Dancing is a high-risk venture. Yes, there's a reason why dance clubs are
usually just an orgy waiting to happen. But if you dance badly, you'd have been
better off staying far away.
Scientists say if you suck at dancing, it signals to women that you're a bad
mating partner. It's a subconscious sign that your testosterone levels are lower
than average, which means you're not up to a lady's baby-making standards.
And your awkward moves on the dance floor may have evolved as a neon
flashing sign to warn women to steer clear of you and your inferior DNA.
Not evolutionarily fit.
This effect only increases as you get older. The awkward "dad dancing" you've
seen at every wedding you've ever been to and during that season that Taylor
Hicks won American Idol? Those guys were probably John Travolta clones in
the 70s and moonwalking in the 80s. But now that they're past their prime
sexually, they can't even do the electric slide without it turning into a raucous
display of awkwardness and sprained ankles.
Seriously, it's not a risk worth taking. Before you bust out the moves this
weekend, get yourself to a fertility clinic. If your sperm count is below 60
million/ml then skip the dancing and just chill at the bar.
Read more: http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html#ixzz2Dfeg0BLi
6 Things Men Do To Get Laid That Science Says Turn Women OffBy:Kathy Benjamin March 29, 2010 5,586,360 viewsAdd to Favorites
As we mentioned in this article, attracting a woman can be so easy you don't
even realize you're doing it. Of course, most of the methods are totally outside
of your control and can only be done on accident.
Unfortunately, it turns out there are just as many things you're doing to repel
women, again without even knowing it. Don't blame us; it's science.
Common turn-offs include:
#6. Talking to Her
So you're in a club and--thanks to those eight shots of Jager, each of which you
swear is making you exponentially sexier than you were before you downed
them--you finally decide to approach the hot chick you've been leering creepily
at all night. You've got your game face on and an arsenal of pick-up lines that
would slay a Victoria's Secret catwalk.
With a perfect storm of raw sex appeal like this brewing all around you, it
comes as no surprise to you that the object of your carnal desires is flirting
back.
But then, just as you're preparing to land your plane at Bonesville International
Airport, she starts backing off. Somehow, the more you talk to her, the less
smooth you become. When she awkwardly ends the conversation five minutes
later you're literally babbling like a moron. A moron with a now totally useless
boner.
What the Hell Happened?!
If you feel like you sound stupid when you talk to women, don't worry, you do.
In a recent study, men chatted with attractive women and then were subjected
to basic tests. They failed miserably. And when we say "basic tests" we don't
mean fourth grade math, either. We're talking not being able to remember your
own address (unless you were asked to take a woman there, right, killer?)
"Sorry, it appears I have punctured my copy of the test with my boner."
Unsurprisingly, the more attractive you find a woman, the worse this effect is
and the stupider you will sound when talking to her. The scientists didn't go so
far as to say what everyone was thinking (that the effect is caused by blood
flowing away from your brain and directly to your junk), but women suffered no
such memory lapses at all when tested after chatting with handsome studs like
you.
However, one of the scientists did say the difference could be down to the fact
that women are interested in things other than looks while men are
"reproductively focused," which is a much more tactful, scientific way of
saying, "Dudes get easily distracted by the thought of boning."
#5. Acting Interested
OK, maybe you were putting yourself out there too much. After all, in this day
and age, for better or for worse, women sometimes like to make the first move
right?
So, instead of going up to a lady and moronically chatting away, you instead
decide to just lean coolly on the bar and smile at the ladies. That way, in their
own time, one of them can come over to you and the flirting can commence.
Except that none of the ladies you are so very obviously acting interested in
ever approach you. What could you be doing wrong now?
It's definitely not the hat.
What the Hell Happened?!
We really enjoy mocking the "Pick-up Artist" community, where guys like this...
...hold seminars on how to reel in women by acting like you don't like them.
And dressing like a douchebag.
But research shows there is a least a little bit of a factual basis behind their
bullshit. In his book The Game, journalist Neil Strauss entered the world of the
pick-up artist and learned one important thing: Women like men who ignore
them. According to his experience, your best bet at getting a girl is walking up
to her group and completely ignoring her, while chatting away to her less
attractive friends.
Even if those friends are men.
We would write that off under our normal rule of "don't believe anything that is
also believed by a man in a furry tophat" (and it's saved our lives more than
once), but another study came up with hard numbers.
The dating site OKCupid.com actually went through their database of pictures
men had submitted, and tracked how many contacts each yielded. They studied
7,000 photos and determined that men who didn't look directly at the camera
in their profile pictures received more messages on average than men who did.
About 50 percent more, in fact, if said picture combined the looking away with
an expression of disinterest (smiling drove down the effect some, but still not
as much as eye contact).
See? No eye contact.
No word on how many of those messages were from cam show robots, but still.
Now, obviously you can't take this to its logical extreme ("I'll get tons of women
if I just never get within 10 miles of one! That's the ultimate expression of
disinterest!") because clearly the men in the study were also expressing the
fact that they were looking for a mate (or else they wouldn't be on OKCupid).
So it's not about total disinterest. The data suggests it's about somehow
showing that you're interested, but not in her.
#4. Dancing
So you've tried it the pick-up artist way, but quickly found that sitting in the
corner acting like you don't like women failed to score you any tail. (And you
peacocked it out with that feather boa and everything!) But you have a trick up
your sleeve: Your sextastic dance moves. After all, dudes have been getting
girls this way for thousands of years!
Come on, Rightie... just a few inches lower.
When you finally get drunk enough to hit the dance floor, in your mind, you're
Fred Astaire-ing the shit out of the place. Unfortunately, what you're actually
doing is some bizarre alt-new wave version of the robot that has every girl in
the room pointing and staring open-mouthed. And not in a good way. But it's
OK, because deep in your heart you know one day a girl, hopefully one who
looks kind of like Zooey Deschanel, will realize your dancing just means you're
a quirky free spirit and she'll have quirky, free spirited sex with you.
Fifty years later, you die alone.
What the Hell Happened?!
Dancing is a high-risk venture. Yes, there's a reason why dance clubs are
usually just an orgy waiting to happen. But if you dance badly, you'd have been
better off staying far away.
Scientists say if you suck at dancing, it signals to women that you're a bad
mating partner. It's a subconscious sign that your testosterone levels are lower
than average, which means you're not up to a lady's baby-making standards.
And your awkward moves on the dance floor may have evolved as a neon
flashing sign to warn women to steer clear of you and your inferior DNA.
Not evolutionarily fit.
This effect only increases as you get older. The awkward "dad dancing" you've
seen at every wedding you've ever been to and during that season that Taylor
Hicks won American Idol? Those guys were probably John Travolta clones in
the 70s and moonwalking in the 80s. But now that they're past their prime
sexually, they can't even do the electric slide without it turning into a raucous
display of awkwardness and sprained ankles.
Seriously, it's not a risk worth taking. Before you bust out the moves this
weekend, get yourself to a fertility clinic. If your sperm count is below 60
million/ml then skip the dancing and just chill at the bar.
Read more: http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html#ixzz2Dfeg0BLi
Things Men Want to Hear – While women are fairly open about what they
want to hear, the things men wish women would say more often are rarely
discussed. Why? Our culture has denoted men talking about their feelings
as ‘weak’ and as a result many men don’t express what they want from the
women in their lives.
That’s why in a long-term, monogamous relationship it’s as important that
you take the time to observe and learn what it is he wants to hear from you.
In the mean time, here are some suggestions.
Things Men Want to Hear
Compliments
Women assume that as the “fairer sex” they need compliments more than
their male counterparts. Not so. Many men feel insecure about their
physical appearance and want to be told by their partners that they’re
attractive. These compliments shouldn’t be limited to just their looks, but
expand to all of their attributes. How clever they are, how good they are at
their jobs, etc.
That You Trust His Opinion
Your man wants to know that not only do you find him intelligent, but that
his opinion is important to you. Asking someone for their opinion on
something important is the ultimate display of respect. He’ll be flattered and
happy that you trust him so much.
That You Need Him
Everyone likes to feel needed, especially men. Perhaps it’s the “provider”
role, instinctual or drilled in their head by society, but most guys want to
feel like you need them. I’ve heard some of my male friends complain that
their girlfriends are too independent and make them feel worthless.
Sometimes, I think, letting him know you need him can be as simple as
asking him to help you open a pickle jar. I know that sounds silly, but small
expressions of his importance can go a long way.
You Laugh At His Jokes
The sound of your laughter is something he wants to hear! Men like being
goofy and making women laugh. Rather than rolling your eyes the next
time he tells a joke, listen to the whole thing and let yourself find the humor
in it. C’mon, laugh! No matter how immature the joke might be, if you find it
slightly amusing, just let yourself laugh.
That He Satisfies You
Almost every man I know has been insecure about his performance in the
bedroom at some point in time, especially when he first starts dating a new
girlfriend. At the end of the day, a man’s confidence revolves around his
identity as a sexual being. Let him know how much you enjoy being with
him and how great his performance was. It will do wonders for his ego.
More Things Men Want to Hear
Things Men Want to Hear
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Men want to hear you talk about their interests.
Women have a tendency to start conversations… about the things they
want to talk about! Make sure you’re going Dutch in the conversation
department by making an effort to learn and talk about some of his
interests.
Men want to hear that you trust them.
Encourage him to go out with his friends. Let him know that you hold him in
the highest regard– because there’s nothing worse in the world than
hearing that your partner doesn’t trust you.
Learning what men want to hear is important for your relationship. Women
have a tendency to draw more attention to their needs, to focus on myths
about men‘s bad behavior, and not treat them like emotionally equal
beings. Just because men tend to be less expressive than women doesn’t
mean they feel any less.
These are just a few examples of Things Men Want to Hear. Do you have
anything else to add to the list?
Five Things Women Do that Drive Men Away
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Women drive men away frequently on a regular basis without knowing it.
Here are five things women do that drive men away.
Low Self Esteem
A woman who has low self esteem drive men away. Men aren't impressed
with a woman who has a ton of baggage. Men like to be around women who
don't have a large amount of problems. Men don't want to be around women
who cry all the time. Men don't want to be around women who blame all
their problems on everyone else instead of correcting it.
Controlling
Some men don't like controlling women. Who wants to be reminded of their
nagging mother? Controlling women don't impress men. Men who are
controlled just lie and sneak around behind the persons back. It makes him
want to spend less time around you. Controlling women come across as
having insecurity issues and bad news. Men will never stay with a
controlling women forever nobody how good you are. Men shouldn't be
treated like a child by women. Women should treat a man like a man
instead of a little child all the time.
Clingy
Nobody wants to be around a person who is too clingy. Nobody wants to
date someone that reminds them of a little child. Men don't want to be
around somebody who constantly needs to be paid attention to. Clingy just
turns men off completely. Men like to go out with the boys every once in a
while without the women around.
Unemployed
Men don't like to be around unemployed women. Men don't like women who
uses them for money. A man wants to know that a women can take care of
herself. She needs to have a good job history. A woman who hops from job
to job isn't very impressive. If she can't keep a job then she probably can't
keep a man. Don't ask to borrow money from your man. Don't tell him about
your money problems. It isn't his problem so therefore he doesn't care.
Running Home to Mom
No man wants to be with a woman who runs home to mother. Nobody wants
to date a momma's girl just like women don't want to date a momma's boy.
One needs to learn that it is time to grow up and stop running to momma
about every little thing in life. Men want women who knows how to make
decisions. Don't let mother get in the middle of your relationship with a
man. It will make a man disappear pretty fast if you let your mother get in
the middle of arguments.
Top things man ' Hate ' about woman
Men always find women attractive and try their best to woo her. A woman always needs to be loved and taken care of. In today's society women have taken up powerful corporate and social positions and are making headlines. Carly Fiorina of ex. HP CEO and Indra Nooyi of Pepsi are just two examples. A woman, no matter how powerful, always needs support from a man and vice versa. Men have always lent their shoulders for her to rest on. On the flip side, men have certain complaints about her and we are here to discuss that.
Imagine you are busy in an important meeting and the phone keeps on ringing, even though you disconnected it a couple of times. Certainly you would find it dislikable, and this is one point that men find annoying in a woman. Women sometimes fail to understand that her partner or husband have other work apart from answering her calls and tending to her constantly- it makes them seem too needy, which usually a big turn off for a man. Many men find it quite irritating when their partners shout at them because the shirt is not at the proper place or the trousers are lying on the ground, for example- because it comes off as a nagging attitude. A Man always wants his woman to take active interest in his work and indifference in that aspect definitely annoys him, because he feels she does not care if interest in not genuinely expressed.
These factors do not really cause a dent in a relationship necessarily, but definitely small ripples are created. A man and a woman should be careful of not invading into each other's personal space too much. Men sometimes do not like the self centered attitude of women. Women are sometimes so worried about themselves that they forget there are other people around. Over possessiveness, jealously and undue interest in other men are certain traits that a man dislikes in a woman.
Imagine you both having a coffee and suddenly a good looking man walks in. Your girlfriend suddenly starts to talk about him and gives undue attention and starts comparing you. Is this something that you would appreciate? Certainly not! After all we all have our own feelings and being compared to another man without any justification surely hurts.
There are several other factors that can turn off a man's feeling towards a woman. If a woman tries to exhibit too much of manliness that can definitely turn off a man. Women often fail to take care of their physical appearance after child birth or after being with their partner for a while. This is something that bothers men, as they are visual creatures. While women do not and should torture themselves to look a certain way and be a certain size, a woman should invest her best efforts in staying in healthy physical shape- for herself and to please her partner. There is nothing wrong with men and women doing things to please each other, as long as it is done in a healthy manner and no one is being criticized in a hurtful way or having unrealistic expectations put on them.
Some Women are too worried about the materialistic things in life. They forget the finer points in a relationship and become too worried about that big car or a big house. This fact sometimes annoys men, especially if he is not able to fulfill her requirements or it seems like she is never pleased. To maintain a happy relationship, a woman should always try to understand the parameters of her partner and not push him too hard for materialistic
things. Spending too much money on jewelry, clothing and ignoring the needs of her partner sometimes disturb men and make him think of the relationship with doubt.
Another important factor that can play spoilsport in a relationship is the lack of interest in sex. After a certain period in relationship women tend to lose interest in sex. This is something that bothers her partner and leaves him confused. If there is a genuine reason it should be discussed between the partners to enjoy the bliss of togetherness.
Some of the factors mentioned above are truly disturbing for men. The silver lining is all this can be sorted out if the partners try to accommodate each other and share their opinions. A woman should always discuss her problems in a relationship with her partner, rather than gossiping with friends or keeping it all inside, assuming he will figure it out. This may further deepen the dent in a relationship. Every man craves for a certain amount of importance from his partner. He feels good if he gets priority in the finer things in life from his partner. It is always important for a woman to display her feminine characteristics to the best of her ability. This, along with team work can make a man happy and drive a relationship to the pinnacle of happiness.
10 THINGS MEN DISLIKE ABOUT WOMENOne: Men hate the way women jump to conclusions and assumptions without knowing
all the facts surrounding the situation. Women see a situation and immediately jump to
the most logical explanation without asking any questions. Then when men try to
explain the woman’s mind is already made up with their own delusion and they think
they are right. Here’s an example…
What happened my sandwich you ate it on me…. Eh no I didn’t the dog must have
taken it… Eh no he didn’t you ate it…. Look the dog is eating it in the corner there
look… Well you gave it to him then, there is no way the dog could have taken it off the
plate… Yeah sure hunny whatever..
Two: Women love to make plans without consulting us first, just as we think that we are
going to have a handy weekend and just relax ourselves. Who should walk into crush
our spirit, only herself, with great news on how she is got other plans in mind. And when
we make plan to do something we get… Eh no you’re not your doing this instead…
Famous words, I told you during the week.. If you told us during the week we wouldn’t
have made our plans to relax for the weekend, would we..
Three: We don’t want to know your every step of the day. Women have a habit of
saying, guess what happened to me today… What happened honey ? thinking you
would just tell us the actual event of what happened. But no you tell us everything from
the minute you left the house all the way up to what happened and everything in
between… And you then wonder why we don’t listen to you… Just give us the facts we
don’t want to know what kind of trouble you had finding a parking spot, or how much of
a bitch your boss is or if a work college wore the same clothes as you… we just don’t
want to know.
Four: We hate your total disregard in our input in decisions. Women ask our advice and
then don’t take it.. For example … There is somebody talking about me in work and she
is a total bitch what should I do… Confront her and tell her how much of a bitch she is if
front of everybody and be little her just like she is behind your back.. Yeah I will thanks
I’ll do it first thing tomorrow… After work that day… So did you do it ? Eh no I never got
a chance.. how could you not get the chance she works beside you… Men confront men
and let them know what they think of each other all the time. That’s how its done,
usually when we have our differences a side we know where we stand and just get on
afterwards.
Five: We hate the way you question everything we do, we cannot leave the house
without telling you where we are going… Why do women do this and then accuse us of
being controlling… We don’t ask women where they are going or what they are doing
usually because it sparks an argument.. It’s just not worth the hassle to ask.
Six: Don’t ask us what clothes go with what because we can’t tell you, we don’t know
what you mean. All we can tell you is trousers go on your legs and a jumper or a blouse
will cover your boobs and you might want to put some shoes on. One of our shirts will
do for Saturday or Sunday mornings because this is all you will need. It is up to you
dress yourself up we wouldn’t have a clue… Sure whatever we say you just go with
something else.
Seven: Men hate shopping, especially clothes shopping. Again we don’t know what
colours go with what or what handbag goes with what shoes. The truth be known we
actually don’t care, the only thing on our minds is when is this going to stop, so I can
get home and relax. When men shop we know exactly what we want and just go for
those items, women on the other hand might have an idea of what they want but could
spend the whole day arising around different shops.
Eight: Stating the obvious is another great trait of the female of our kind. Women
always seem to say the most obvious thing in any event, such as something falling,
something breaking down or making a loud noise or almost everything. Here’s a few
examples… I couldn’t stop it from falling… It’s a bit obvious you couldn’t stop it if it’s
broken on the ground… We’ll have to clean that up… Well we are hardly going to leave
it there are we… That won’t fit in there… Right again honey it won’t sure look at the size
of it… I have come to the conclusion that they only state the obvious to buy them time
to see our reaction.. Yes honey I will fix it, I will clean it up, you broke it but sure just
because you stated the obvious and I love you, I will get it..
Nine: We hate interruptions if we are doing something, women will call men from the
other room and expect us to go to them if they want to talk to us.. Beckoned to
attention like a dog would be.. Come here I want to talk to you, no fear of her getting up
and coming to talk to you, oh no, we have to go to you. If men try and pull the same
trick we get answered by…. Well you know where I am, you come here i’m busy… We
are treated like dogs men and they see us as them too… After a while it becomes a
habit and when we want to talk to them or they us, we just get up and go without
thinking about it.
Ten: Women give out about the toilet seat being up constantly. Wouldn’t it be the same
job for us to put it down than it would for you to put up. We don’t ask you to put the
seat up when you are finished so what gives..
Forty things men hate about womenPosted by: Emily May 18th 2010
1. Leaving the toilet seat down2. Phoning or texting you every 10 minutes3. Never being ready on time when going out4. Spending too much time in the bathroom5. Being a bad cook
6. On the phone to girl friends for hours after just having spent the day with them.7. Not letting you spend time with their mates8. Only wanting to watch Soaps and Reality shows on TV9. On a permanent diet and yet they’re still fat10. Orange faces and white necks11. Moaning when you look innocently at other women when you are out together. You looked at a tree too but she didn’t complain about that!12. Keeping tabs on how much you have had to drink when you are out together.13. Nagging about you not helping around the house.14. Complaining that you didn’t do a good enough job when you tried to help out around the house15. Always making you take out the rubbish and do all the dirty jobs.16. Leaving female items on your bedside cabinet.17. Having a headache when you indicate you want to have sex.18. She never appreciates the gifts you get her. It’s always the wrong size.19. Telling you what to buy her rather than letting you make it a surprise.20. Taking your hard earned cash and spending it on make-up21. Moaning about how fast you drive.22. Asking when you are coming home just so they can know how long before they can nag you in person.23. Expecting you to notice every change she makes to herself even though it was a while since you saw her naked and that’s really the only look you’re interested in.24. She is starting to look more and more like her mum. 25. Wearing multiple layers to bed.26. PMT.27. She spends her day off lounging around the house in an old tea-stained dressing gown.28. She reads her mates texts while you’re having sex. 29. Snooping through your wallet, phone and Facebook account. They don’t stop till they find something incriminating,,,however minor.30. Spending too much time on Facebook.31. Turning on the tears when they’re in the wrong to get you to forgive them.32. Badmouthing you to all their mates when you have a row.33. Wanting to cuddle after sex.34. Wanting you to let her squeeze your blackheads.35. Saying she’ll be ready in 5 mins and then being ready in 50.36. Expecting you to pay when you go out.37. Choosing your clothes and telling you what to wear. 38. Tidying your private things (pics of old girlfriends) into the bin without telling you.39. Lipsticks marks on your mug.40. Trying to get you to wear her undies when having sex.41. Not letting you wear her undies when having sex.
What Men Like And Dislike( Originally Published 1892 )
In spite of the fact that"many men have" many minds," and that individual
tastes differ as greatly as features and tints, yet there are certain tastes which
are essentially masculine the world over.
We have all often heard the expression, "Oh,she is just the sort of woman men
like!" and we all feel an immediate, if secret interest in the woman so referred
to.
Men are the rulers of the world, and to please them is our aim and desire. Often,
however, their tastes are so paradoxical that it would require a seven headed
Medusa to respond to all their varied and contradictory ideas.
That a man likes beauty goes without saying, as that a bee likes flowers. But as
the bee only flutters about a flower which contains no honey-yielding property,
so man only hovers a brief time about the beauty without wit or charm.
A man likes a woman to be capable of talking well at times, but he does not care
for the garrulous girl. He likes to be listened to himself, and objects to the girl
who monopolizes the conversation almost as much as to the one who does not
talk at all.
A man likes modesty, but he is disgusted with mock prudery.
He secretly likes a slightly unconventional girl, but he is so sensitive to public
comment that he is afraid to openly show his liking for her unless she is well
grounded socially. And he is quick to censure if she defies the proprieties or
violates absolute good form.
A man is utterly lacking in independance regarding these matters, and far more
sensitive to public opinion than the weaker sex. However much he might enjoy
the society of a woman who defied conventional rules of dress or deportment,
he would not be seen in public with her if he could avoid it. And a lapse from
good morals does not offend him as quickly as a lapse from good manners. A
man likes discretion, but he invites indiscretion from women. In order to please
him in the matter of conduct and morals, we must do exactly the opposite to his
either bold or subtle suggestions. He will advise you to be discreet with others,
but tempt you to folly himself merely to flatter his own vanity. But he is
disappointed and disillusioned if you yield. There are no exceptions to this rule.
All men are alike in this instinct to destroy virtue, and in their secret heart hope
that virtue will withstand temptation. A man likes an enthusiastic woman but he
abhors gush. The girl who enjoys herself thoroughly, and is not afraid to show
her enjoyment, always wins more admirers than the languid beauty who is
forever "bored."
He likes a girl who understands masculine sports. and can appreciate skilful
games; but he does not like to have her appreciation extend to playing base ball
herself.
A man likes a woman who does not scold him for smoking, and he is never
reformed by one who foes.
He likes a spice of coquetry in a woman, but he does not like the absolute flirt.
He may pursue her, but it is for amusement, not from admiration.
He is afraid of the woman who boasts of her conquests. The woman who tells a
man how many pro posals she has received and rejected from his disappointed
fellow-men destroys his respect for and confidence in her discretion, and he is
very sure not to add one more proposal to her list.
He likes a hint of daring flashing through a woman's nature, but he wants it
hidden and controlled. Then he enjoys thinking how he can develop this
dangerous trait, and congratulates himself on being an excellent fellow when he
does not attempt it.
But he is repelled by bold dash and venturesomeness in a woman, for that he
believes has been developed by some other man, and it is not therefore to his
taste.
The French maiden is told to never lift her eyes above the second shirt stud of
the gentleman to whom she is listening. This sort of shyness entertains a man
for one or two occasions; after that—or alter he has compelled her eyes to meet
his--it bores him. He likes better the frank, honest, di rect gaze of the American
girl; but the unblushing stare of the flirtation-inviting belle is not to his liking,
although he may respond to it for the sake of adventure.
A man likes a woman of sympathetic feeling and affectionate nature, but he is
afraid of the intensely emotional one. She tires and fatigues him, and is liable to
be exacting in her demands, or at least he fears that she might be. The highly
emotional woman needs to wear an armor of control and repose, no matter
what it costs her to do so, if she would be pleasing to man. Let her nature be
suspected, and it fascinates; let it be discovered, and it ennuies.
A man likes a cheerful and optimistic woman, though he may strive with all his
might to convert her to pessimism. Yet the ready-made cynic in woman's form
shocks him. However erroneous the idea, man regards woman as the sunlight of
life, and expects her to drive away malarial mists from his mind and shadows
from his heart by her warmth and light.
Though she be accomplished, beautiful, and talented, she will lose ground with
the opposite sex if she is cynical or sad. Every man likes to create his own
pessimist. He does not wish to find one.
Men like an accomplished and bright woman rather than a talented one, and
entertaining and amusing qualities rather than markedly intellectual ones.
A wise and tactful woman who desires to be popular with mankind (and she is
not wise if she does not) will keep her intellect subservient to her graces and
charms when in the presence of men.
A man likes a woman's intellect to shine brilliantly in its full force only when
great occasions demand it. At other times he wants it veiled by her beauty and
modesty. He would rather it should gleam like star shine on his path, or
suddenly glow forth in shadowed places like a powerful dark lantern, than to
glare always about him like an electric light, which blinds the eyes of his
egotism and offends his pride.
A man likes a woman of independent and strong character, but he is not
attached to her unless she possesses some feminine weaknesses. He may
admire her as a good comrade, and even seek her advice, but he is more likely
to love and marry the weak, clinging vine ; and after the honeymoon is over he
not infrequently wastes his life secretly longing for or openly seeking the
companionship of the strong character he passed by. Here, again, let the
discreet woman take warning, and veil the full extent of her self-reliance and
strength from the sight of man till occasion demands revealing it.
She must keep it to surprise him ever and anon, instead of flaunting it forever in
his eyes.
A man likes a neat woman, and admires a stylish one. He always knows, but can
never describe what he likes in the matter of feminine attire, and it is for the
woman who listens to his comments on her sisters to discover his tastes. He
likes trim boots, neat gloves, a snug-fitting waist and a well-hung skirt, plain
draperies, good material, quiet colors. He does not like elaborate trimmings, and
is sensitive about pronounced styles or odd fashions, unless they are very
artistic, or worn by an exceptionally pretty women. He likes jaunty (but not
dashing) hats and bonnets, not overweighed down with ornaments.
A man censures extravagance in women, but invariably admires expensive
garments. He likes a girl of strong vitality, great endurance, and excellent
spirits, but the mannish girl has more comrades than admirers. Although the girl
who can sew, embroider, and play the piano possesses eminently domestic
accomplishments, he admires the girl more who can ride, row and swim. Yet he
prefers plumpness to muscle. He is annoyed or disappointed in the girl who tires
easily, and perhaps this is why he enjoys the athletically inclined young woman
rather than the honsehold deity, with her fancy work and her side ache.
A man may consider children a great bore himself, but he shrinks from a woman
who openly declares her dislike for them. He expects the maternal instinct in
women, and is disappointed if he does not find it, and when it strongly exists
this feeling will draw him back to her often when her personal charms no longer
influence him. He may prove a bad father, and an unloving husband, yet
through her love for his children he often returns to her.
A man prefers temper to sulks, a storm of tears to a fit of melancholy. He is
flattered by a touch of jealousy occasionally in a woman's attitude toward him,
but he is weaned and alienated from her if it becomes a quality of her nature.
An occasional thunder-storm clears the air, but constant cyclones and cloud-
bursts destroy life and vegetation. A man likes girls who speak well of one
another, and he is repelled by those who de-declare "they hate women."
Men like women with ideas of their own, but they are afraid of women with
theories or hobbies. A woman with a hobby needs to carefully blanket and stable
it away from the eyes of a man whom she desires to please.
What Men Say About Us
( Originally Published 1892 )
Men talk very nicely to us, but they say some very disagreeable things about us.
In the time of holiday shopping, when we and our country cousins have a
monopoly of public conveyances, bazaars and stores, we furnish a fruitful
subject for unpleasant comment to lordly man.
"I have made up my mind to never resign my place in a car to another woman,"
I overheard a very fine looking man say to a lady, evidently his wife, in the
Broadway car recently.
As he made this remark he looked proudly and defiantly at several women who
were wobbling about in the car, holding to the strap with one hand and grasping
Christmas parcels with the other, and casting pathetic glances at all the men
who had seats.
"Why, dear?" questioned the wife, somewhat timidly, for the expression on her
husband's face and the sound of his voice suggested to her the nature of his
thoughts.
"Because women are so confoundedly selfish, thoughtless, stupid, indifferent,
ungrateful and disagreeable in public places," replied the man. "I grow to
despise them more every day I live. They are like a lot of hens running hither
and thither, fluttering their wings. in each other's eyes, quacking, cackling,
getting under people's feet and pecking at you if you try to drive them in the
right direction. If they would only carry out the hen nature still further, by going
to their roosts at sunset, it would be a relief. But you run against them at all
hours, everywhere, and it is getting worse every day. They are so beastly
impolite to one another, so selfishly thoughtless of everybody's comfort save
their own, that I am not going to sacrifice myself in future for a false idea of
gallantry. I am going to keep my seat and let the women wobble."
I was wobbling on a strap directly in front of the man who delivered this oration,
so that I received the full benefit of his remarks. He was a man of marked
elegance and refinement, a thorough cosmopolitan in appearance, and his voice
was that of a cultured gentleman. I felt that he was driven to this extremity of
speech by long suffering at our hands. His wife interposed a mild little objection.
"Not all women are like that, I am sure," to which he replied, "Well, no, but you
are about the only exception I have ever found to the rule," and after that, of
course, she would not argue the point, for nothing is so delightful to a woman as
to feel that she is the sole and only exception to a disagreeable rule in a man's
eyes.
I have questioned several men since that day on this subject, and so far every
one has agreed to some extent with the irate orator of the Broadway car.
One gentleman, told me that he saw better manners and less rudeness in a
crowd on lower Bowery, which waited three hours one day to witness a boxing
match, than he found the next day at the Union League Club "Ladies' Day."
I have set myself to watching you, too, my dear ladies, and I must confess the
men are right in their estimate of us.
A few weeks since I accompanied a young lady friend to a theatre box-office to
procure tickets.
A lady whose name is placed prominently upon Mr. Ward McAllister's visiting list,
stepped out of her carriage as we approached the theatre and preceded us to
the window of the box-office.
Behind us came two other people and when we had been five minutes in the
place a dozen persons were in line waiting to procure tickets. Mme. Fashion
settled herself in the window frame, took out her handkerchief and wiped a very
ordinary looking nose leisurely, searched for her purse, refolded some bills
which had became wrinkled in one of its compartments, leaned her forearms in
the window and asked the young man in attendance what chance she had for
obtaining good orchestra chairs for the next evening's performance. That
personage replied with the bored brevity of tone and cold calmness of
expression, usual with the box-office young man, and placed the plan of the
house before the lady.
She looked it over leisurely, commented on the seats sold, indicated the seats
she would prefer if they were not already sold, and finally to the immense relief
of the crowd of people waiting behind her, paid for several tickets, and after
again re-arranging her pocket book placed the tickets within it. But instead of
moving out of the line she leaned in the window again and began questioning
the bored youth about the play. She had heard that some changes were made in
the cast. Was it true? No! Well, how could such an idea get in circulation? Had
he not heard of it? Was he quite sure? Well, she was so glad to know the facts in
the case.
When she finally moved on, serenely unconscious that she had annoyed,
irritated and inconvenienced a dozen people by her selfish and inconsiderate
actions, I wondered what interpretation she put on the words she no doubt
mumbled every Sabbath, "Do unto others as ye would they should do to you."
No doubt, like many people, she supposed this sentence applied to great deeds
of charity or self-sacrifice. Instead, they apply to the every-day courtesies of life.
My dear women, if you would like to have men give you seats in public -places,
begin by giving one another seats. I think I could count on the fingers of one
hand the women. I have seen resign their places to more burdened or tired
sisters.
If you would like to have people courteous in crowded stores, begin by not
allowing the door to slam in the faces of those who follow you; do not stand in
the aisles of dry-goods establishments and chat with some friend and compel
other women to push past you, and, if some woman has the politeness to ask
you to let her pass, do not glare at her and stand like a great glazier until you
force her to be angry and rude. Do not endanger the eyes of people who climb
stairs behind you by the careless way you hold your umbrella or parasol.
If you see two friends who want to sit together in a car, and by changing your
position you can accommodate them, be thoughtful enough to do so, even if you
are a woman.
If you ride on an elevated road, get your nickel ready for your ticket before you
reach the window, and do not keep a crowd of tired people waiting while you
hunt for your purse and search for your change.
If you go to purchase theater or opera tickets, remember the feeling of the
people who are waiting to do the same thing, and do not imagine that it is your
right to monopolize the time, because you are a woman.
In fact "do unto others as ye would that they would do to you" in the small,
trivial daily events of life and you will be helping to elevate mankind and to
evangelize the world far more than if you ignore these small courtesies and wait
for some great "mission."
No doubt the lady I saw at the box-office of the theater that day is an active
worker in some Sunday-school or mission, and feels that she is doing her share
towards educating and benefitting poor human nature. Very likely she is giving
little talks to working girls on good conduct and proper deportment; and since it
is fashionable to be literary, it may be that she writes articles calculated to
instruct the benighted people who are not "in the swim" how to behave. But to
my way of thinking she would be doing a nobler work if she practised the small
decencies of life, the thoughtful politenesses which demand constant
unselfishness from morning till night, even if she never entered a Sunday-school
or mission.
The woman who keeps her good manners, her politeness, her courtesy for
society, or for her own home even, is not doing her duty as a Christian or a
refined woman. No matter how indifferent she feels to the "great unwashed"
masses, no matter how small a part the public has in her life, she owes it to her
sex to be thoughtful, polite and considerate of others when she is in public
places or 'conveyances.
Not till we "do as we would be done by" in these places as well as in the home
or church circles, can we expect courtesy and respect from men.
Ten things men hate about women29.06.2006
No doubts that men heartily love women. However, numerous opinion polls reveal that there are ten
basic factors with females that strongly irritate men.
1. Men do not like women pretending they are chaste. Men believe that women should stay
themselves and give up every attempt to seem better. Indeed, women these days are not restricted
in entertaining themselves and can enjoy life to the utmost, just exactly the way that men do.
2. Men hate it when their women criticize other females. This is a proven fact that women often treat
other women as rivals. But remember that a woman will gain no popularity with men if she
continuously criticizes other women’s dresses, shoes and handbags and also their compatibility with
each other. Men actually do not care very much if their women wear fashionable dresses or not,
have stylish coiffure or not.
3. Women’s jealousy exasperates men. This is absolute nonsense that jealousy revives relationship.
The jealousy lifestyle can break even the strongest relationship. Jealousy appears when someone in
a couple does not trust his partner. Remember that trust is the basis of your relationship.
4. Men also do not like to be treated as an emotional support. They get irritated when women always
demand caresses and hugs, when women ask to call them special. Men do not like diffident women;
they say it is even worse than self-confident and independent women.
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5. It is no good for women to employ the speech code in relations with men. When women employ
the ‘What are you thinking about?’ speech code they thus hope to pump real feelings and emotions
out of men. When a woman asks a man this sort of vague questions she expects to catch his
unawares and learn what his real feelings toward her are.
6. Some women want all the spare time of their men to be devoted to them only. This is some sort of
interference with men’s private life. At the worst, women start asking relatives and close friends what
their men did or are doing at this particular moment. They also ransack men’s pockets and desk
drawers in search of some evidence. Women must not behave like proprietresses.
7. This is incredible but women’s emotionality makes men absolutely mad. Unlike women, men are
sure that broken nails or touching films are not a trouble at all. Males do not love their female
partners burst into tears or fly into a rage on every trifle occasion.
8. It is universally known that men hate women’s never-ending shopping. Men generally believe that
twenty four hours in a day are not enough for women to enjoy shopping, to have an opportunity to
touch and try on everything they find. Men find it the most terrible ordeal when women insist that
men must accompany them during shopping.
9. Women’s talkativeness is also irritating, men say. Women’s brain easily conceives every minute
detail while men do not like to listen to nonessential details.
10. Women have a sure leverage to demonstrate their superiority over men. This is sex which is the
most powerful weapon in the war between males and females. Women deprive their men of sex in
an attempt to punish them. But the measure may in some cases have lamentable consequences for
women.
When we consider the above bad habits of women closer, we can see they are not so terrible.
Nobody is perfect, and partners should learn to compromise and be patient toward each other.
Ouch! The 40 Things Men hate about the women! 40 is a long list but it
can still go longer. lol.. My favorites among the list are numbers 3, 6, 9, 17,
21, 30, 35. You can also add to the list if you want. The list by the way is
one I got from unknown source. I have the printed copy and decided to blog
about it because I feel most of these are true.
40 Things Men Hate About Women:
1. Leaving the toilet seat down2. Phoning or texting you every 10 minutes3. Never being ready on time when going out4. Spending too much time in the bathroom5. Being a bad cook 6. On the phone to girl friends for hours after just having spent the day with them.7. Not letting you spend time with their mates8. Only wanting to watch Soaps and Reality shows on TV9. On a permanent diet and yet they’re still fat10. Orange faces and white necks11. Moaning when you look innocently at other women when you are out together. You looked at a tree too but she didn’t complain about that!12. Keeping tabs on how much you have had to drink when you are out together.13. Nagging about you not helping around the house.14. Complaining that you didn’t do a good enough job when you tried to help out around the house15. Always making you take out the rubbish and do all the dirty jobs.16. Leaving female items on your bedside cabinet.17. Having a headache when you indicate you want to have sex.18. She never appreciates the gifts you get her. It’s always the wrong size.19. Telling you what to buy her rather than letting you make it a surprise.20. Taking your hard earned cash and spending it on make-up21. Moaning about how fast you drive.
22. Asking when you are coming home just so they can know how long before they can nag you in person.23. Expecting you to notice every change she makes to herself even though it was a while since you saw her naked and that’s really the only look you’re interested in.24. She is starting to look more and more like her mum. 25. Wearing multiple layers to bed.26. PMT.27. She spends her day off lounging around the house in an old tea-stained dressing gown.28. She reads her mates texts while you’re having s*x. 29. Snooping through your wallet, phone and Facebook account. They don’t stop till they find something incriminating,,,however minor.30. Spending too much time on Facebook.31. Turning on the tears when they’re in the wrong to get you to forgive them.32. Badmouthing you to all their mates when you have a row.33. Wanting to cuddle after s*x.34. Wanting you to let her squeeze your blackheads.35. Saying she’ll be ready in 5 mins and then being ready in 50.36. Expecting you to pay when you go out.37. Choosing your clothes and telling you what to wear. 38. Tidying your private things (pics of old girlfriends) into the bin without telling you.39. Lipsticks marks on your mug.40. Trying to get you to wear her undies when having s*x. (lol)41. Not letting you wear her undies when having s*x.
5 Ways to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You
is it manipulative or smart strategy?Some people will read this and think what I'm suggesting is wrong. I admit it's about manipulating and meddling with people's emotions. Most particularly, people you wish to God would meddle with you. In an ideal world, I'd agree. It would be preferable if everyone you wanted just fell in your lap, without having to play games. Unfortunately, real life doesn't always work that way. Sometimes you can spend six months living, breathing, dripping, drooling, loving and lusting after someone with zero result. When that happens the techniques that follow suddenly seem like a gift from heaven. Besides, it's not like I'm proposing black magic or suggesting any of these techniques will force
someone to fall in love with you against their will. (If they did, I'd currently be shacked up with Brad Pitt.) What they will do, though, is nudge the odds a lot higher in your favor. Is that really so bad? I don't think so. Go on, keep reading. You know you want to...
hang around a lot... but then be unavailableThe more you interact positively with someone, the more they'll like you, says David Lieberman, an expert in human behavior. And several studies back him up -- showing repeated exposure to practically any stimulus makes us like it more (as long as our initial reaction wasn't negative). So forget about being aloof, evasive and unavailable in the beginning. Instead, find excuses to spend time with him. Now, pay attention, because this is the tricky part. Just when you're convinced you've won him over and he likes you, start being a little less available. And then even less, until he hardly sees you at all. You've now effectively instigated the "law of scarcity." We all know this one: People want what they can't have. By constantly being available, you diminish your value. If every time you walked outside your front door there was a huge pile of diamonds to step over, you'd hardly see them as precious would you? Be around and then not around for awhile and you'll give him time to think about how much he likes and wants you.
don't do nice things for them -- let them do nice things for youIf you do something nice for someone, it makes you feel good on two levels: You feel pleased with yourself and extra-warm toward the person you've just spoiled. The end result is we like the person more. When someone does something nice for us, we're pleased. But there are a whole lot of other emotions that come into play -- and they're not all good. Sometimes we feel overwhelmed. There's pressure to live up to being the wonderful person who inspired such a gift/act, not to mention pressure to return the favor. It's even trickier if the "nice thing" comes from someone you like, but aren't entirely sure about just yet. Got the point? When we're infatuated with someone, we're desperate to do nice things for him, but you're much better off letting him spoil you.
give them the eyeIn an effort to measure love scientifically, Harvard psychologist Zick Rubin began recording the amount of time lovers spent staring at each other. He discovered that couples who are deeply in love look at each other 75 percent of the time when talking and are slower to look away when someone else intrudes. (In normal conversation, people look at each other between 30-60 percent of the time.) The significance of what's now known as Rubin's Scale: It's possible to tell how "in love" people are by measuring the amount of time they spend gazing adoringly at one another. Look at someone 75 percent of the time when they're talking to you, and you may be able to trick their brain. Why? The brain knows the last time that someone looked at them for that long and often, it meant they were in love. So it thinks okay, I'm obviously in love with this person as well, and starts to release phenylethylamine (PEA), a chemical cousin to amphetamines secreted by the nervous system when we first fall in love. It’s what makes our palms sweat, our tummies flip over and our hearts race.
don't look away
There was another crucial finding from Rubin's research: Couples took longer to look away when someone else joined the conversation. Again, if you do this to someone who's not in love with you (yet), you trick his brain into thinking he is, and even more PEA floods into his bloodstream. Relationships expert Leil Lownes calls this technique making "toffee eyes." Simply lock eyes with the person you like and keep them there, even when he has finished talking or someone else joins the conversation. When you eventually do drag your eyes away (three or four seconds later), do it slowly and reluctantly -- as though they're attached by warm toffee. This technique may not sound terribly inspired but, believe me, if done properly it can literally take your breath away. If you're too shy to gaze openly, skip the toffee and think bouncing ball. Look away and at the other person who's joined the conversation, but every time they finish a sentence, let your eyes bounce back to the person you're interested in. This is a checking in gesture -- you're checking his reaction to what the speaker is saying -- and it lets him know you're more interested in him than the other person.
practice “pupillometrics”We all know "bedroom eyes" when we see them. But what makes that look of lust so appealing? According to pupillometrics, the science of pupil study, big pupils are the crucial element we respond to. You can't consciously control them, but you can create the right conditions to make your pupils bigger. First, reduce light. Our pupils expand when they're robbed of it -- one reason why candlelight and dimmer switches are de rigueur in romantic restaurants. It's not just the softer light that makes our faces appear more attractive, larger pupils also help. In a University of Chicago study, researchers showed two sets of pictures of a woman's face to a group of men. The photographs were identical, except for one thing: The pupils in one were doctored to make them look larger. When shown the doctored photograph, men judged the same woman twice as attractive. There were similar results when sets of photos of a man's face was shown to women. Our pupils also enlarge when we look at something we like. So if you're really attracted to someone, your pupils are probably already big, black holes. But if you want to ensure it's happening, focus on one of the person's attributes you like most.
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How to Care for Your Upset Boyfriend1. Find out if you are just misinterpreting his actions. Is he just tired? Does he always act this
way but you never really noticed? Find out if he is really upset so he won't get confused.
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2. 2
Find out what's bothering him. Is it something to do with the relationship? Is it a family problem? Is he stressed out from school or work? Figure out what's bothering him so you choose the right approach and solution.
3. 3
Smile. Sometimes just a friendly smile can brighten his day. Don't be offended if he says something like "why are you so happy?" that just means you need to care for him even more. Also hugs can comfort.
4. 4
Give him space. Sometimes he will just need to work things out on his own. Walk away for a while but make sure he knows you're there for him and will talk if he wants.
5. 5
Encourage him to talk and vent, but don't be pushy. You don't want him to confuse caring with nosy.
6. 6
Be willing to sit and talk, whether you're on the phone, texting, or in person, let him vent out his feelings with you. Don't make excuses for anything he says and don't bring up problems from either one of your pasts. That is unless his current problems are related to the ones in the past.
7. 7
Find a private spot and let him cry. Be willing to sit with him and let him vent. Whether or not he is crying or yelling or being silent. Sit with him until he's calmed down and ready to talk. If the
situation is appropriate and/or you are both really close, hold him tightly and whisper "it's ok. I'm here." or make shushing sounds.
8. 8
Give him a back rub or hold hands. He will feel better if he knows you don't feel awkward so get close to him.
9. 9Once you are done, let him know you're always there for him and you care for him. If it's true (and only if it's true) tell him you love him.
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Edit Tips give him space don't pressure him to talk sometimes just sitting close to him will help. keep him distracted from the bad things. Go out to a funny movie or eat dinner at his favorite
restaurant. don't gossip about what's been going on if he wants you to keep it a secret, keep it a secret. The only exception is if he wants to hurt
himself or somebody else. Then tell a parent, teacher, counselor, older sibling, etc. don't take it personally if he gets angry. He's just upset and things will blow over. In the next few days, take the extra time and effort to show you love and care. Bring him
surprise cookies at school or buy him a special treat. Ideas: surprise cookies/favorite food, random gifts, surprise visits at work if time allows, a nice back rub (if both people are comfortable), extra time to talk/text. Be creative. Make a homemade card with a sweet letter. Anything like that will brighten his dayAds by Google
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Edit Warnings He may get angry and think you are invading his space. If this happens, don't accuse and get
angry back. Let him know you are just trying to help. Then back off Only talk when and where there are no distractions. If you are constantly distracted and
answering calls, etc he will feel like you don't care. Don't say anything you don't mean. Especially don't tell him you love him if you aren't 100%
sure. If you confess later on it was a mistake, both of you will be embarrassed and it might end your relationship.
If you tell people about his problems, he most likely will not trust you again. But tell someone if he wants to hurt himself or others. He will thank you after the moments of betrayal pass.
If you are going to blow with this information, right it down in a notebook. Be careful who sees it though. You can also talk to a parent or counselor about vague details but be careful what you give out. If the people suspect anything, your boyfriend may be embarrassed and never trust you again.
don't accuse If you get mad at him If he says it's your fault, chances are, nothing will change except both of
you will be mad.
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This "How To" does not apply to situations of violence. In a romantic relationship, between a man and a woman, telling a man that he has or is hurting you can be difficult. This "How To" applied to women who want to tell her man (boyfriend, lover, husband) that he has or is hurting her.If you are being physically abused by a man, consider getting professional help from a lawyer, your doctor, or a licensed mental health professional. Telling someone that they have hurt you can be difficult. Chances are that no one intended to hurt you, so, telling someone that they did hurt you may make them feel guilty (for hurting you), angry (for being accused of hurting you), anxious (I hurt her so she will end our relationship), inadequate (I can never make her happy, and I hurt her instead), and sad (I don't like to see her hurt). Bad feelings make for difficult conflicts. The worse the feelings, the more intense the conflict. This how to may help you work through this difficult situation. It's not about coming out on top, it's about having a healthy relationship!
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Consider that telling a man he's hurting you may result in a conflict. So, before you do anything, consider how you and he prefer to handle conflicts (your temperament): are you "avoidant," "calm," or "volatile?" If you have different temperaments, then that will probably lead to other problems. For example: if you raise your voice because you're volatile, then he may ignore you or blow it off if he's a calm or avoidant type. Even the best of couples can have a lot of difficulty working through differences in temperament. The greater the differences in temperament, the more likely your relationship will have problems.
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Be aware that men can get more defensive of their ego than women. So, if he feels threatened, he may react with anger and defensiveness. When men get angry, they get a rush of testosterone and this amplifies their anger (yes, men are hormonal, too). Women are usually less defensive and more likely to give in.
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Finally, remember not to worry that you'll ruin the romance by having a conflict. The happiest couples are the ones that realize that a relationship is not perfect to start with but is made better over time by working through problems maturely.
4.4
Consider how and when you're going to assert yourself. Talking in public may prevent things from getting too out of hand, but it also may provide him with an excuse to talk about it later. Don't argue in the bedroom or places where you usually have fun or sex.
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Say it. Keep in mind some basic ideas about good communication: 1. speak softly during conflict, 2. say something nice, too, "I need to tell you something, because you're so important to me..." 3. use "I feel" or "I think" statements rather than blaming, for example, "I feel sad when you say things like that," rather than, "you make me so mad or sad."
6.6
Now that you've spoken, you have to react to his reaction. If he becomes defensive, try to say something nice. Make sure he has understood what you are saying. he may have trouble understanding what you've said, so be sure to give a specific example of what you're upset about. If he blows it off, makes fun or you, blames you for his behavior, minimizes what you've said, tries to turn things around and make it your problem, then you may need to consider that maybe he's not the most confident, mature or nice guy that you hoped he was, and let him know this. If this is your spouse or fiance, you may want to consider couple counseling or marital therapy to work through these problems. Hopefully, he will understand and respect your thoughts and feelings.
7.7If he responds well, don't expect him to change 100% immediately. He may need some reminders. Be sure to not take it personally if he makes a mistake and be supportive. The hurtful behavior will hopefully change over time. If he seems to get worse, then you'll need to have another "talk." Keep in mind that you're not perfect either and he may want you to change something about yourself, too.
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Edit Tips Be sure to have at least one specific example to discuss. Consider practicing what you're going to say to him either in front of a mirror or
with a friend. Think about how you would feel if you were him.
Remain calm during the discussion. Try to speak in a softer tone of voice. Be strong, but not aggressive. Don't use insults, avoid shouting and name calling.
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Edit Warnings Physical violence is not acceptable and you should seek professional help
immediately from a lawyer, doctor, or licensed mental health professional. If things get too intense when confronting him, consider ending the discussion
and getting outside or professional help.
The Surprising Way To Get Your Man Back
By Rori Raye
Have you ever felt like you had the relationship you wanted with the man of your dreams - like you could finally exhale and relax and not have to worry about dating again? And then, suddenly, did this same man withdraw or become distant from you and your whole world came crashing down?
If this has happened to you - like it has to so many women including myself - then you probably did what the rest of us do. You launched into “get your man back” mode. That is, you worked hard to win him over again and prove your worth to him. You start making all sorts of excuses for him, even if he does things like “take a break” from the relationship and sleep with his ex in the meantime! How do I know this? Because I fell into the same trap years ago before I realized that there was something terribly wrong with this situation, and it was me.
The problem was my self-esteem. It was so low, that I didn't think I deserved better treatment from a man. In fact, I called myself the “crumb-taking queen”. It wasn't until I started boosting my self-esteem and feeling more confident that something magically happened: men treated me with the respect I - and you - deserve.
So how do you get your man back? You get yourself back first. Here's how.
Get In Touch With Your Anger If you've been used to settling for less in a
relationship, there's something you need to do before you even think about getting your man back. Putting up with poor treatment from a man starts to build up as anger inside of you. You'll interpret this as feeling “hurt” by what your man says or does, when in fact you are upset with yourself for accepting improper treatment in the first place or because you became
sexually exclusive with a man before he gave you the commitment you wanted.
It's very possible that the anger you are now feeling is actually creating distance in your relationship, so you need to deal with that anger BEFORE you get your man back. Otherwise it will continue to fester inside you. How do you do this? By really FEELING your feelings and having compassion for them. Stop right now, take a deep breath, and feel whatever is happening inside of you. Then name that feeling. Is it mad, sad, glad? The more you are able to identify your feelings and take control of them, the more closeness you will have with a man. Why? Because men feel relieved when they finally meet a woman who can feel her feelings without becoming dramatic or out of control about them.
Learn To Love Yourself Back in my dating days, before I met my husband, I
thought I had high self-esteem. After all, I was self-assured, had a great career, and I owned a home. But the truth was that even though I was strong on the outside, I was like jelly on the inside. And on top of that, I would beat myself up for feeling like jelly. And yet all I would show men was my “tough” exterior. So they just assumed I was “unhurtable”, and that I could handle things.
They thought that if I wasn't happy with the way they treated me that I'd leave - just like they would. It was so far from the truth! I had no idea how to treat myself well, much less require that they treat me well. Then I realized I had to teach myself to treat myself well. And this is what you have to do not only if you want to get your man back, but if you also want a truly connected, close relationship.
Starting is very simple: you need to embrace all of yourself, even the parts you don't like. When I started embracing my jelliness on the inside and let people really see me, an incredible thing happened. I got stronger on the inside. And you will, too. You'll become more sensitive to yourself instead of always being sensitive to him. When you do that, another miraculous thing happens: he becomes sensitive to YOU. The entire vibe in the relationship changes, and the urge to chase you again will come back - even if things seem very disconnected right now.
So, if you want to get your man back, stop. Get yourself back. It's the only way to get your man back if he's the right man… for good.
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just won't speak two words about what's bothering him? For many women we immediately go to big red button that says "PANIC" and push it . Setting off a code red that we need to investigate. Well we are wasting our time in fact we are
hurting our relationship with them by doing this. Women communicate our feelings through verbal communication. While women maybe the type to talk it out, most guys are the type to work it out. They do not do this with us. They do it ALONE. We have to first understand their logic behind this, its called the psychological cave. This is where men go PRIVATELY to work out, sort out, and process information.
Don't Push Guys have survived successfully for thousands of years using this process. So
far be it for you to go pushing him into a corner. Guys HATE to give on the spot answers to questions us females ask. Why? Because they know it will be followed up with more questions. Plus it is perceived to men that if they share their feelings with us at every whim then he is not a man. He minus well be a girl if he can't sort though his own messes. Guys may ask us for our opinion on issues that he has already processed just to see what we come up with or what maybe a nice add on. So don't push for answers when he goes into his psychological cave. What will happen if you do? He will take your pushing him as clinginess and that will draw him away from you more. Then if you assume he is mad or tell him you know what he feels he will perceive you as too needy. Clinginess and being to needy are MAJOR turn offs for men. It could even be the reason he decides to leave you alone FOR GOOD.
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Give him space YES I KNOW THIS DRIVES YOU CRAZY. Well you have to relax and get over it.
Men need space just as much as we do. Yes we may think the worst when they have gone silent, that they have lost interest in us, they don't want to communicate with us, they are mad at us, etc. Well walk away from the PANIC button slowly and think he is just being a man. When we talk to our girlfriends we can talk for hours about how much he upset us and how men can be dense sometimes. This is not the case for men. When they go to hang out with a male friend the purpose is to have a good time. They are not going to talk about what pissed them off. Lest they look like a little girl in front of the other guy. If you give him the time he needs to sort though his bullshit, without adding to it, he will come back and explain with simple words what happened. Don't expect some long drawn out answer. Its not like he is studying for a test. He will address it, and add he feels closer to you now. Or he noticed you been trying to keep him in a good mood. Point blank wait for him to break the ice on what he was thinking over. Then keep the drama down and you will be golden.
Last advice from me to you
My thoughts from me to you my reader is that males are simply not as complex as we make them to be. If they want to share with you they will. If not then that is fine. Yes he has a reason but you can't force it out of him. Give him space and if he still doesn't want to address it then be direct and ask if everything is okay between you too. If he says yes leave it alone. Don't fix what isn't broken. If he says I don't know then ask him what is the problem. Be direct but not pushy, just be calm. If he says he don't know again, then pause and think it maybe something he has to work out. Then say, okay when you figure it out let me know. Then leave it alone and give him space. As in make yourself unavailable for a little while he maybe feeling smothered by you. The key is to know when to push and know when to give him space. Don't worry about if he breaks up with you during your space. Or looks to be with other women. As he might be testing YOU to see how much you will endure for him. When you had enough of the bullshit call him on it. Say to him are we or aren't we together? If he says no make it clear to him you won't be waiting around for him anymore and your moving on. Yes you maybe hurt but guys respond to aggression. If you say it with enough aggression he will believe it and then if he really wants you he will claim you. If not he was a waste of your time anyways move on. Let him process in silence after an argument. Trust me it won't take as long if you let him think. Then see where things go from there. ;)
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Does your man after you argue become silent? When he is having a bad day he just won't speak two words about what's bothering him? For many women we immediately go to big red button that says "PANIC" and push it . Setting off a code red that we need to investigate. Well we are wasting our time in fact we are hurting our relationship with them by doing this. Women communicate our feelings through verbal communication. While women maybe the type to talk it out, most guys are the type to work it out. They do not do this with us. They do it ALONE. We have to first understand their logic behind this, its called the psychological cave. This is where men go PRIVATELY to work out, sort out, and process information.
Don't Push Guys have survived successfully for thousands of years using this process. So
far be it for you to go pushing him into a corner. Guys HATE to give on the spot answers to questions us females ask. Why? Because they know it will be followed up with more questions. Plus it is perceived to men that if they share their feelings with us at every whim then he is not a man. He minus well be a girl if he can't sort though his own messes. Guys may ask us for our opinion on issues that he has already processed just to see what we come up with or what maybe a nice add on. So don't push for answers when he goes into his psychological cave. What will happen if you do? He will take your pushing him as clinginess and that will draw him away from you more. Then if you assume he is mad or tell him you know what he feels he will perceive you as too needy. Clinginess and being to needy are MAJOR turn offs for men. It could even be the reason he decides to leave you alone FOR GOOD.
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Give him space YES I KNOW THIS DRIVES YOU CRAZY. Well you have to relax and get over it.
Men need space just as much as we do. Yes we may think the worst when they have gone silent, that they have lost interest in us, they don't want to communicate with us, they are mad at us, etc. Well walk away from the PANIC button slowly and think he is just being a man. When we talk to our girlfriends we can talk for hours about how much he upset us and how men can be dense sometimes. This is not the case for men. When they go to hang out with a male friend the purpose is to have a good time. They are not going to talk about what pissed them off. Lest they look like a little girl in front of the other guy. If you give him the time he needs to sort though his bullshit, without adding to it, he will come back and explain with simple words what happened. Don't expect some long drawn out answer. Its not like he is studying for a test. He will address it, and add he feels closer to you now. Or he noticed you been trying to keep him in a good mood. Point blank wait for him to break the ice on what he was thinking over. Then keep the drama down and you will be golden.
Last advice from me to you My thoughts from me to you my reader is that males are simply not as complex
as we make them to be. If they want to share with you they will. If not then that is fine. Yes he has a reason but you can't force it out of him. Give him space and if he still doesn't want to address it then be direct and ask if everything is okay between you too. If he says yes leave it alone. Don't fix what isn't broken. If he says I don't know then ask him what is the problem. Be direct but not pushy, just be calm. If he says he don't know again, then pause and think it maybe something he has to work out. Then say, okay when you figure it out let me know. Then leave it alone and give him space. As in make yourself unavailable for a little while he maybe feeling smothered by you. The key is to know when to push and know when to give him space. Don't worry about if he breaks up with you during your space. Or looks to be with other women. As he might be testing YOU to see how much you will endure for him. When you had enough of the bullshit call him on it. Say to him are we or aren't we together? If he says no make it clear to him you won't be waiting around for him anymore and your moving on. Yes you maybe hurt but guys respond to aggression. If you say it with enough aggression he will believe it and then if he really wants you he will claim you. If not he was a waste of your time anyways move on. Let him process in silence after an argument. Trust me it won't take as long if you let him think. Then see where things go from there. ;)
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Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not every man’s greed.
- Mahatma Gandhi Mahatma Gandhi (23) 311 1
It takes time to persuade men to do even what is for their own good.
- Thomas Jefferson Thomas Jefferson (10) 319 3
If a girl ever steals your man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep
him. Real men…can’t be stolen. 308 1
Being a male is matter of birth, being a man is a matter of age, but being a
gentleman is a matter of choice. 307 1
Men are what their mothers made them.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson. Ralph Waldo Emerson (39) 307 1
Men play the game; women know the score.
- Roger Woddis 306 1
Beauty is the wisdom of women. Wisdom is the beauty of men.
- Chinese Proverb Chinese Proverb (14) 304 1
When women are depressed, they eat or go shopping. Men invade another
country. It’s a whole different way of thinking.
- Elayne Boosler 304 1
Men are taught to apologize for their weaknesses, women for their strengths.
- Lois Wyse 302 1
Men are only as loyal as their options.
- Bill Maher Bill Maher (13) 302 1
When four or more men get together, they talk about sports. When four or more
women get together, they talk about men. 302 1
Men are easy to get but hard to keep.
- Mae West 302 1
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself.
- Galileo Galilei 311 3
Every man needs a woman when his life is a mess, because just like in a game
of chess; the queen protects the king. 306 2
Men forget but never forgive. Women forgive but never forget. 301 1
What would men be without women? Scarce, sir…mighty scarce.
- Mark Twain Mark Twain (53) 301 1
One of the things I like best about men is they’re a little vulnerable.
- Marilyn Monroe 301 1
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. 301 1
Men like to barbeque. Men will cook if danger is involved. 315 4
Real men always have time for their woman. No matter what, even if hes busy
he’ll find a way to make time for her. 305 2
Men are all alike – except the one you’ve met who’s different.
- Mae West 304 2
Men forget everything; women remember everything. That’s why men need
instant replays in sports. They’ve already forgotten what happened.
- Rita Rudner Rita Rudner (12) 303 2
Men can read maps better than women. Cause only the male mind could
conceive of one inch equaling a hundred miles. 302 2
Boys will be boys. 303 3
Young men want to be faithful, and are not; old men want to be faithless, and
cannot.
- Oscar Wilde Oscar Wilde (54) 18 1
A real man treats his woman how he would want his daughter to be treated. nancy wrote on June 29, 2012 13 0
There are three classes of men; lovers of wisdom, lovers of honor, and lovers of
gain.
- Plato Plato (22) 16 1
Men are moved by two levers only: fear and self interest.
- Napoleon Bonaparte Napoleon Bonaparte (23) 11 0
I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his
mother.
- Martha Gellhorn 8 0
Man is the cruelest animal.
- Friedrich Nietzsche
Topic: Men Quotes - Famous Men Quotes, Quotations, Sayings about Man
All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his.Oscar WildeThe Importance of Being Earnest
God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time.Robin Williams
God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and foolish, that she might love him.Author Unknown
Man is the only animal that blushes - or needs to. Mark Twain
Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake a whole relationship.Sharon Stone
The more I see of men, the more I admire dogs.Jeanne-Marie Roland
A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him.Mae West
Young men want to be faithful, and are not; old men want to be faithless, and cannot.Oscar Wilde
When women are depressed, they eat or go shopping. Men invade another country. It's a whole different way of thinking.Elayne Boosler
Every great man nowadays has his disciples, and it is always Judas who writes the biography.Oscar Wilde
The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.Friedrich Nietzsche
Is man one of God's blunders? Or is God one of man's blunders?Friedrich Nietzsche
There's no trust,No faith, no honesty in men.William ShakespeareRomeo and Juliet
What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.Oscar Wilde
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the principal difference between a dog and a man.Mark Twain
Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed.Mahatma Gandhi
A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.
Chuang Tzu
Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more,Men were deceivers ever,-One foot in sea and one on shore,To one thing constant never.William ShakespeareMuch Ado About Nothing
It's not the men in my life that counts, it's the life in my men.Mae West
A hard man is good to find.Mae West
Men are all alike--except the one you've met who's different.Mae West
So many men, so little time.Mae West
When a young man complains that a young lady has no heart, it's pretty certain that she has his.George Dennison Prentice
A thing is not necessarily true because a man dies for it.Oscar Wilde
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.Oscar Wilde
A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies.Oscar Wilde
How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.Oscar Wilde
If a man's mind becomes pure, his surroundings will also become pure.Buddha
A man who does not think for himself does not think at all.Oscar Wilde
The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.Mark Twain
A man may conquer a million men in battle but one who conquers himself is, indeed, the greatest of conquerors.Buddha
The value of a man should be seen in what he gives and not in what he is able to receive.Albert Einstein
The world is beautiful, but has a disease called man.
Friedrich Nietzsche
The man who fights too long against dragons becomes a dragon himself.Friedrich Nietzsche
When a man is in love he endures more than at other times; he submits to everything.Friedrich Nietzsche
After coming into contact with a religious man I always feel I must wash my hands.Friedrich Nietzsche
Man is the only creature who has a nasty mind.Mark Twain
Nothing on earth consumes a man more quickly than the passion of resentment.Friedrich Nietzsche
Man is the cruelest animal. At tragedies, bullfights, and crucifixions he has so far felt best on earth; and when he invented hell for himself, behold, that was his very heaven.Friedrich Nietzsche
A man should look for what is, and not for what he thinks should be.Albert Einstein
Nature knows no indecencies; man invents them.Mark Twain
Any man who reads too much and uses his own brain too little falls into lazy habits of thinking.Albert Einstein
I danced more and played more in the last two months than in the last 10 years. One day it's like a switch went off - and all of a sudden it was like, 'Men! Everywhere!' The cloud is lifting. I'm starting to see the light and it's good. Actress Jennifer AnistonRecovering from depression after husband Brad Pitt left her for Angelina Jolie
O, what men dare do! what men may do! what men daily do, not knowing what they do!William ShakespeareMuch Ado About Nothing
O God, that I were a man! I would eat his heart out in the market-place.William ShakespeareSpoken by Beatrice in Much Ado About Nothing
I hate ingratitude more in a manThan lying, vainness, babbling, drunkenness,Or any taint of vice whose strong corruptionInhabits our frail blood.William Shakespeare
Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.Billy Crystal
Give a man a free hand and he'll run it all over you.
Mae West
A man with a grain of faith in God never loses hope, because he ever believes in the ultimate triumph of Truth.Mahatma Gandhi
No man is worth your tears, but once you find one that is, he won't make you cry.Author Unknown
Men are taught to apologize for their weaknesses, women for their strengths.Lois Wyse
Wise men are not always silent, but they know when to be.Proverb
Every woman needs one man in her life who is strong and responsible. Given this security, she can proceed to do what she really wants to do - fall in love with men who are weak and irresponsible.Richard J. Needham
Men play the game; women know the score.Roger Woddis
Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with.Kathleen Mifsud
Men are like a deck of cards. You'll find the occasional king, but most are jacks.Laura Swenson
Men are easy to get but hard to keep.Mae West
A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.David Brinkley
A man is a God in ruins.Ralph Waldo Emerson
A wise man, recognizing that the world is but an illusion, does not act as if it is real, so he escapes the suffering.Buddha
I like men who have a future and women who have a past.Oscar Wilde
Men are my hobby, if I ever got married I'd have to give it up.Mae West
There are two perfectly good men, one dead, and the other unborn.Chinese Proverb
A man of honor should never forget what he is because he sees what others are.Baltasar Gracian
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself.Galileo Galilei
Man will occasionally stumble over the truth, but most times he will pick himself up and carry on.Winston Churchill
When Man and Woman die, as Poets sung, His Heart's the last part moves, her last, the tongue.Benjamin Franklin
Men forget but never forgive. Women forgive but never forget.Author Unknown
Men are what their mothers made them.Ralph Waldo Emerson
A man does not mind being blamed for his faults, and being punished for them, and he patiently suffers much for them; but he becomes impatient if he is required to give them up.Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.Epictetus
When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself.Louis Nizer
It is our job to make women unhappy with what they have.B. Earl Puckett
Beware of the man who denounces women writers; his penis is tiny and he cannot spell.Erica Jong
Quotations about Women
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There is no such thing as an ugly woman. ~Vincent Van Gogh
If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving an infant's life, she will choose to save the infant's life without even
considering if there are men on base. ~Dave Barry
Women like silent men. They think they're listening. ~Marcel Achard, Quote, 4 November 1956
Sure God created man before woman. But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece. ~Author Unknown
Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman's toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace. ~Marianne Williamson, "A Woman's Worth"
Women cannot complain about men anymore until they start getting better taste in them. ~Bill Maher
A male gynecologist is like an auto mechanic who has never owned a car. ~Carrie Snow
You start out happy that you have no hips or boobs. All of a sudden you get them, and it feels sloppy. Then just when you start liking them, they start drooping. ~Cindy Crawford
Every girl should use what Mother Nature gave her before Father Time takes it away. ~Laurence J. Peter
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think. ~Author Unknown
A woman can say more in a sigh than a man can say in a sermon.
~Arnold Haultain
Whatever women do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult. ~Charlotte Whitton
Women are always beautiful. ~Ville Valo
The two women exchanged the kind of glance women use when no knife is handy. ~Ellery Queen
Curve: The loveliest distance between two points. ~Mae West
Can you imagine a world without men? No crime and lots of happy fat women. ~Nicole Hollander
Women get the last word in every argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. ~Author Unknown
Next to the wound, what women make best is the bandage. ~Jules Barbey d'Aurevilly
A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is a man who hopes they are. ~Chauncey Mitchell Depew
The rarest thing in the world is a woman who is pleased with photographs of herself. ~Elizabeth Metcalf
There is a special place in hell for women who do not help other women. ~Madeleine K. Albright
A man's face is his autobiography. A woman's face is her work of fiction. ~Oscar Wilde
There's something luxurious about having a girl light your cigarette. In fact, I got married once on account of that. ~Harold Robbins
When a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute. ~Author Unknown
Men get laid, but women get screwed. ~Quentin Crisp
The most popular image of the female despite the exigencies of the clothing trade is all boobs and buttocks, a hallucinating sequence of parabolae and bulges. ~Germaine Greer
Whether they give or refuse, it delights women just the same to have been asked. ~Ovid
Howiver, I'm not denyin' the women are foolish: God Almighty made 'em to match the men. ~George Eliot, "The Harvest Supper," Adam Bede
Women are like elephants to me. I like to look at them, but I wouldn't want to own one. ~W.C. Fields
Women really do rule the world. They just haven't figured it out yet. When they do, and they will, we're all in big big trouble. ~"Doctor Leon," drleons.com
Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. ~Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche
I expect Woman will be the last thing civilized by Man. ~George Meredith
Men who don't like girls with brains don't like girls. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
Women keep a special corner of their hearts for sins they have never committed. ~Cornelia Otis Skinner
Lovely female shapes are terrible complicators of the difficulties and dangers of this earthly life, especially for their owners. ~George du Maurier
Every woman is wrong until she cries, and then she is right - instantly. ~Sam Slick (Thomas Chandler Haliburton)
The essence of life is the smile of round female bottoms, under the shadow of cosmic boredom. ~Guy de Maupassant
I have an idea that the phrase "weaker sex" was coined by some woman to disarm some man she was preparing to overwhelm. ~Ogden Nash
When men reach their sixties and retire, they go to pieces. Women go right on cooking. ~Gail Sheehy
The torment that so many young women know, bound hand and foot by love and motherhood, without having forgotten their former dreams. ~Simone de Beauvoir
They call it PMS because Mad Cow Disease was already taken. ~Author Unknown
Be to her virtues very kind,Be to her faults a little blind.~Matthew Prior
They may talk of a comet, or a burning mountain, or some such bagatelle; but to me a modest woman, dressed out in all her finery, is the most tremendous object of the whole creation. ~Oliver Goldsmith
A highbrow is a man who has found something more interesting than women. ~Edgar Wallace
It upsets women to be, or not to be, stared at hungrily. ~Mignon McLaughlin,The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960
You see, dear, it is not true that woman was made from man's rib; she was really made from his funny bone. ~J.M. Barrie, What Every Woman Knows
If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning. ~Aristotle Onassis
Men will always delight in a woman whose voice is lined with velvet. ~Brendan Francis
Men really prefer reasonably attractive women; they go after the sensational ones to impress other men. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The
Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
I married beneath me - all women do. ~Nancy Astor, speech, Oldham, England, 1951
Women dress alike all over the world: they dress to be annoying to other women. ~Elsa Schiaparelli
Women are never stronger than when they arm themselves with their weakness. ~Marie de Vichy-Chamrond, Marquise du Deffand, Letters to Voltaire
If President Nixon's secretary, Rosemary Woods, had been Moses' secretary, there would only be eight commandments. ~Art Buchwald, 1974
Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat. ~Oscar Wilde
I'd much rather be a woman than a man. Women can cry, they can wear cute clothes, and they're the first to be rescued off sinking ships. ~Gilda Radner
She wore a short skirt and a tight sweater and her figure described a set of parabolas that could cause cardiac arrest in a yak. ~Woody Allen, Getting Even, 1973
It is only rarely that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman. ~Alexandre Dumas, fils
I'd rather have two girls at seventeen than one at thirty-four.
~Fred Allen
When a woman comes to her glass, she does not employ her time in making herself look more advantageously what she really is, but endeavours to be as much another creature as she possibly can. Whether this happens because they stay so long and attend their work so diligently that they forget the faces and persons which they first sat down with, or whatever it is, they seldom rise from the toilet the same woman they appeared when they began to dress. ~Joseph Addison
All women are basically in competition with each other for a handful of eligible men. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
A woman should soften but not weaken a man. ~Sigmund Freud
Women are in league with each other, a secret conspiracy of hearts and pheromones. ~Camille Paglia
No woman will ever be satisfied because no man will ever have a chocolate penis that shoots out money. ~Author Unknown
When I glimpse the backs of women's knees I seem to hear the first movement of Beethoven's Pastoral Symphony. ~Author Unknown
A woman wears her tears like jewelry. ~Author Unknown
If a girl looks swell when she meets you, who gives a damn if she's late? Nobody. ~J.D. Salinger, Catcher in the Rye
No woman wants to see herself too clearly. ~Mignon
McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
I prefer the word homemaker, because housewife always implies that there may be a wife someplace else. ~Bella Abzug
The basic Female body comes with the following accessories: garter belt, panti-girdle, crinoline, camisole, bustle, brassiere, stomacher, chemise, virgin zone, spike heels, nose ring, veil, kid gloves, fishnet stockings, fichu, bandeau, Merry Widow, weepers, chokers, barrettes, bangles, beads, lorgnette, feather boa, basic black, compact, Lycra stretch one-piece with modesty panel, designer peignoir, flannel nightie, lace teddy, bed, head. ~Margaret Atwood
Women go to beauty parlors for the unmussed look men hate. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960
Women polish the silver and water the plants and wait to be really needed. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960
You have to have the kind of body that doesn't need a girdle in order to get to pose in one. ~Carolyn Kenmore
A woman's hopes are woven of sunbeams; a shadow annihilates them. ~George Eliot
There are women who do not like to cause suffering to many men at a time, and who prefer to concentrate on one man: These are the faithful women. ~Alfred Capus
No matter how good she looks, some other guy is sick and tired of putting up with her crap. ~Author Unknown
A man sometimes wins an argument, but a woman always wins a silence. ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com
Physically, a man is a man for a much longer time than a woman is a woman. ~Honoré de Balzac, The Physiology of Marriage
The girls that are always easy on the eyes are never easy on the heart. ~Author Unknown
If a woman must make a fool of herself, the least a man can do is to let her be one in her own way. ~When Ladies Meet, 1941 movie written by Rachel Crothers, John Meehan, Leon Gordon, S.K. Lauren, and Anita Loos, spoken by the character Bridgie Drake (not sure if this is also in the 1933 movie or 1932 play - anyone know?)
Men enjoy being thought of as hunters, but are generally too lazy to hunt. Women, on the other hand, love to hunt, but would rather nobody knew it. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
I've reached the age where competence is a turn-on. ~Billy Joel
A man gives many question marks, however, a woman is a whole mystery. ~Diana Stürm
In passing, also, I would like to say that the first time Adam had a chance he laid the blame on woman. ~Nancy Astor, My Two Countries
God did it on purpose so that we may love you men instead of laughing at you. ~Mrs Patrick Campbell, in reply to a male
acquaintance who asked why women seem to have no sense of humor
Men at most differ as Heaven and Earth, but women, worst and best, as Heaven and Hell. ~Alfred Lord Tennyson
A woman asks little of love: only that she be able to feel like a heroine. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
The chief excitement in a woman's life is spotting women who are fatter than she is. ~Helen Rowland
I would rather trust a woman's instinct than a man's reason. ~Stanley Baldwin
And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not one of them. ~Helen Rowland
I should like to know what is the proper function of women, if it is not to make reasons for husbands to stay at home, and still stronger reasons for bachelors to go out. ~George Eliot, The Mill on the Floss
Men look at themselves in mirrors. Women look for themselves. ~Elissa Melamed
If your husband expects you to laugh, do so; if he expects you to cry, don't; if you don't know what he expects, what are you doing married? ~Mignon McLaughlin,The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
There are three ways to spread news: telegram, television, and tellawoman. ~Author Unknown
Women do not find it difficult nowadays to behave like men, but they often find it extremely difficult to behave like gentlemen. ~Compton Mackenzie, Literature in My Time, 1933
One is not born a woman, one becomes one. ~Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1949
Let us leave the beautiful women to men with no imagination. ~Marcel Proust,Albertine disparue, 1925
Women deserve to have more than twelve years between the ages of twenty-eight and forty. ~James Thurber, Time, 15 August 1960
Dramatic art in her opinion is knowing how to fill a sweater. ~Bette Davis, about Jayne Mansfield
A woman's whole life is a history of the affections. ~Washington Irving
The man's desire is for the woman; but the woman's desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man. ~Samuel Taylor Coleridge
After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the surface of that one. And I think the answer lies somewhere between conversation and chocolate. ~Mel Gibson, about what women want
Women who make men talk better than they are accustomed to are
always popular. ~E.V. Lucas
I'm not against half naked girls - not as often as I'd like to be. ~Benny Hill
A man is as good as he has to be, and a woman is as bad as she dares. ~Elbert Hubbard
You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests that you think she's pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her at that moment. ~Dave Barry, "Things That It Took Me 50 Years to Learn"
The supply of good women far exceeds that of the men who deserve them. ~Robert Graves
What men desire is a virgin who is a whore. ~Edward Dahlbert
Women are afraid of mice and of murder, and of very little in between. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
A woman should be an illusion. ~Ian Fleming
There are three things men can do with women: love them, suffer for them, or turn them into literature. ~Stephen Stills
It is because of men that women dislike one another. ~Jean de La Bruyère,Characters, 1688
Behind every great woman is a guy looking at her ass. ~Author
Unknown
Look like a girl, act like a lady, think like a man and work like a dog. ~Caroline K. Simon
If you are ever in doubt as to whether to kiss a pretty girl, always give her the benefit of the doubt. ~Thomas Carlyle
Women who feel naked without their lipstick are well over thirty. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
Women are like dogs really. They love like dogs, a little insistently. And they like to fetch and carry and come back wistfully after hard words, and learn rather easily to carry a basket. ~Mary Roberts Rinehart
It's simple. Women only nag when they feel unappreciated. ~Louis de Bernières,Captain Corelli's Mandolin
It's the good girls who keep the diaries; the bad girls never have the time. ~Tallulah Bankhead
Women are beautiful, and yummy. ~A.C. Van Cherub
Women are most fascinating between the ages of thirty-five and forty, after they have won a few races and know how to pace themselves. Since few women ever pass forty, maximum fascination can continue indefinitely. ~Christian Dior,Collier's, June 10, 1955
A husband only worries about a particular Other Man; a wife distrusts her whole species. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
A woman who cannot be ugly is not beautiful. ~Karl Kraus
A man chases a woman until she catches him. ~American Proverb
Variability is one of the virtues of a woman. It avoids the crude requirement of polygamy. So long as you have one good wife you are sure to have a spiritual harem. ~G.K. Chesterton, Alarms and Discursions, 1910
Beauty is the first present Nature gives to women, and the first it takes away. ~Méré
There's just something about letting a girl have her way with you. ~A.C. Van Cherub
Usually the woman has an appointment with destiny, and the man just happens to be there. ~Robert Brault, www.robertbrault.com
Brains are an asset, if you hide them. ~Mae West
With men, as with women, the main struggle is between vanity and comfort; but with men, comfort often wins. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
Once a woman has given you her heart, you can never get rid of the rest of her. ~John Vanbrugh, The Relapse, 1696
Is it too much to ask that women be spared the daily struggle for superhuman beauty in order to offer it to the caresses of a subhumanly ugly mate? ~Germaine Greer, The Female Eunuch,
1970
A woman can look both moral and exciting... if she also looks as if it was quite a struggle. ~Edna Ferber
Women have very little idea of how much men hate them. ~Germaine Greer
Do you not know I am a woman? when I think, I must speak. ~William Shakespeare, As You Like It
Being a woman is of special interest only to aspiring male transsexuals. To actual women, it is simply a good excuse not to play football. ~Fran Lebowitz
You're booty-blinded. You know what that is? It's like being snow-blinded only it ain't no snow, it's a cute little piece of ass. ~From the movie I Spy
Women are never landlocked: they're always mere minutes away from the briny deep of tears. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
To get to a woman's heart, a man must first use his own. ~Mike Dobbertin, quoted in A 5th Portion of Chicken Soup for the Soul
Through sources, we have obtained the following alien assessment of the human species: The male wants to be valued for what he pretends to be. The female wants to be overvalued for what she truly is. ~Robert Brault,www.robertbrault.com
Woman's virtue is man's greatest invention. ~Cornelia Otis
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Nature has given women so much power that the law has very wisely given them little. ~Samuel Johnson
Women speak two languages - one of which is verbal. ~William Shakespeare
Women are wiser than men because they know less and understand more. ~James Thurber
I hate women because they always know where things are. ~Voltaire
Good-looking girls break hearts, and goodhearted girls mend them. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
Fighting is essentially a masculine idea; a woman's weapon is her tongue. ~Hermione Gingold
The people I'm furious with are the women's liberationists. They keep getting up on soapboxes and proclaiming women are brighter than men. That's true, but it should be kept quiet or it ruins the whole racket. ~Anita Loos, New York Times, 10 February 1974
Women always worry about the things that men forget; men always worry about the things women remember. ~Author Unknown
No matter how happily a woman may be married, it always pleases her to
discover that there is a nice man who wishes that she were not. ~H.L. Mencken
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101 Relationship Quotes Having someone wonder where you are when you don't come home at night
is a very old human need.
Margaret Mead
If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make,
who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting?
Stephen Levine
Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go
hand in hand.
Emily Kimbrough
There's one sad truth in life I've found While journeying east and west - The
only folks we really wound Are those we love the best. We flatter those we
scarcely know, We please the fleeting guest, And deal full many a
thoughtless blow To those who love us best.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Oh, the comfort - the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person -
having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all
right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful
hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the
breath of kindness blow the rest away.
Dinah Craik, A Life for a Life, 1859
Sticks and stones are hard on bones Aimed with angry art, Words can sting
like anything But silence breaks the heart.
Phyllis McGinley, "Ballade of Lost Objects," 1954
Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.
Swedish Proverb
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and
behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love
someone.
John Gray
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then
love has a chance to blossom.
John Gray
To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well.
John Gray
A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.
John Gray
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of
her relationships.
John Gray
Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a
problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her
problems.
John Gray
When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he
can get closer.
John Gray
Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Assumptions are the termites of relationships.
Henry Winkler
I like her because she smiles at me and means it.
Anonymous
You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best
thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if
nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.
Keith Sweat
At bottom the world isn't a joke. We only joke about it to avoid an issue with
someone, to let someone know that we know he's there with his questions;
to disarm him by seeming to have heard and done justice to his side of the
standing argument.
Robert Frost
We rarely confide in those who are better than we are.
Albert Camus
Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings.
Miles Franklin
You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you,
but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your
stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.
Frederick Buechner
Present your family and friends with their eulogies now - they won't be able
to hear how much you love them and appreciate them from inside the
coffin.
Anonymous
Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. 'Pooh!' he whispered. 'Yes, Piglet?'
'Nothing,' said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. 'I just wanted to be sure of you.'
A.A. Milne
Relationships give us a reason to live. Revenge.
Ronny Shakes
Are we not like two volumes of one book?
Marceline Desbordes-Valmore
When I want to end a relationship I just say, 'You know, I love you. I want to
marry you. I want to have your children.' Sometimes they leave skid marks.
Rita Rudner
Trouble is part of your life, and if you don't share it, you don't give the
person who loves you enough chance to love you enough.
Dinah Shore
Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important.
Carl Reiner
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming
gardeners who make our souls blossom.
Marcel Proust
To know when to go away and when to come closer is the key to any lasting
relationship.
Domenico Cieri Estrada
If fame were based on kindness instead of popularity, on understanding and
not on worldwide attention, you would be the biggest celebrity on earth. And
to my heart, you already are.
Anonymous
Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you. They are not perfect
but are always perfect for you.
Author Unknown
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.
Wayne W. Dyer
How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.
From the movie Annie
Sister is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but
once the sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship.
Margaret Mead
Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with
others.
Stephen R. Covey
When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every
fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.
Deepak Chopra
If one does not wish bonds broken, one should make them elastic and
thereby strengthen them.
Ardant du Picq
However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are
with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of
who you are inside.
Deepak Chopra
A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows. Love can erase
an awful past, love can be yours, you'll see at last. To feel that love, it makes
you sigh. To have it leave, you'd rather die. You hope you've found that
special rose, cause you love and care for the one you choose.
Cella
Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective
communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships.
Stephen R. Covey
Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that
most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to
find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a
relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to
give, and not a place that you go to take.
Anthony Robbins
The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we
say or what we do, but what we are.
Stephen R. Covey
Little kindness and courtesies are so important. In relationships, the little
things are the big things.
Stephen R. Covey
The fundamental glue that holds any relationship together is trust.
Brian Tracy
Commitment is inherent in any genuinely loving relationship.
Scott Peck
Any relationship primarily built on physical attractiveness is predestined to
be short lived.
Zig Ziglar
Before we can have a successful relationship with anyone, we first need a
perfect personal relationship.
Russ Von Hoelscher
Don't rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel yourself,
experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract
that special loving other.
Russ Von Hoelscher
Problems in relationship occur because each person is concentrating on
what is missing in the other person.
Wayne Dyer
Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement...all
success... all achievement in real life grows.
Ben Stein
The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.
Anthony Robbins
To succeed with the opposite sex, tell her you're impotent. She can't wait to
disprove it.
Cary Grant
I present myself to you in a form suitable to the relationship I wish to
achieve with you.
Luigi Pirandello
An intimate relationship does not banish loneliness. Only when we are
comfortable with who we are can we truly function independently in a
healthy way, can we truly function within a relationship. Two halves do not
make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship: it takes two wholes.
Patricia Fry
Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of
mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one
or both parties run out of goods.
Wiston Auden
The bonds that unite another person to our self exist only in our mind.
Marcel Proust
People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.
Joseph F. Newton
Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we
are never ever the same.
Flavia Weedn
Nowadays love is a matter of chance, matrimony a matter of money and
divorce a matter of course.
Helen Rowland
You meet someone and you're sure you were lovers in a past life. After two
weeks with them, you realize why you haven't kept in touch for the last two
thousand years.
Al Cleathen
Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn
them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.
Richard Bach
It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a
real relationship with them.
Anthony Storr
Guys are like dogs. They keep comin' back. Ladies are like cats. Yell at a cat
one time, they're gone.
Lenny Bruce
Today we are faced with the preeminent fact that, if civilization is to survive,
we must cultivate the science of human relationships... the ability of all
peoples, of all kinds, to live together, in the same world, at peace.
Franklin D. Roosevelt
True friends are those who, when you make a fool of yourself, don't believe
that this condition is permanent.
Erwin T. Randall
In terms of the formation of long-term relationships, it's far better to get
false negatives than false positives.
Eric Pepke
The difference between being in a relationship and being in prison is that in
prisons they let you play softball on the weekends.
Bobby Kelton
Basically, the only thing we need is a hand that rests on our own, that
wishes it well, that sometimes guides us.
Hector Bianciotti
There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or
company than a good marriage.
Martin Luther
It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, bit it is the
little differences that make them interesting.
Ruthman
My girlfriend told me that she was seeing another man. I told her to rub her
eyes.
Emo Philips
Relationships are the hallmark of the mature person.
Brian Tracy
People change and forget to tell each other.
Lillian Hellman
In the coldest February, as in every other month in every other year, the
best thing to hold on to in this world is each other.
Ellerbee
A man in a relationship trades intimacy to get sex. A woman in a
relationship trades sex to get intimacy.
Old Proverb
Sometimes you have to get to know someone really well to realize you're
really strangers.
Mary Tyler Moore
Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each
other exceeds your need for each other.
Unknown
Be the kind of person you would like to be with. Some people come into our
lives, make footprints on our hearts and we are never the same. People are
lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.
Joseph F. Newton Men!
Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human
beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if
they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible
for each to see the other whole against the sky.
Rainer Maria Rilke
Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships.
Brian Tracy
The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your
bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you
will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments
you will experience together.
Barbara De Angelis
Good company upon the road is the shortest cut.
Unknown
Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they
arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
Anais Nin
I think a relationship is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it
dies.
Woody Allen
If we are incapable of finding peace in ourselves, it is pointless to search
elsewhere.
Francois de la Rochefoucauld
Don't smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.
Leo Buscaglia
Sticks and stones are hard on bones Aimed with angry art, Words can sting
like anything But silence breaks the heart.
Suzanne Nichols
I like her because she smiles at me and means it.
Tas Soft Wind
Almost all of our sorrows spring out of our relations with other people.
Arthur Schopenhauer
I respect only those who resist me, but cannot tolerate them.
Charles de Gaulle
The easiest kind of relationship for me is with 10,000 people. The hardest is
with one.
Joan Baez
When the man is at home, his standing in society is well known and quietly
taken; but when he is abroad, it is problematical, and is dependent on the
success of his manners.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
With three or more people there is something bold in the air: direct things
get said which would frighten two people alone and conscious of each inch of
their nearness to one another. To be three is to be in public - you feel safe.
Elizabeth Bowen
It is always safe to assume that people are more subtle and less sensitive
than they seem.
Eric Hoffer
The more you let yourself go, the less others let you go.
Friedrich Nietzsche
No road is long with good company.
Turkish Proverb
I felt it shelter to speak to you.
Emily Dickinson
Science may have found a cure for most evils: but it has found no remedy
for the worst of them all - the apathy of human beings.
101 Happiness Quotes Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your
grasp, but which, if you sit down quietly, may alight upon you.
Nathaniel Hawthorne
We are as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Abraham Lincoln
Much happiness is overlooked because it doesn't cost anything.
Unknown
Unhappiness is not knowing what we want and killing ourselves to get it.
Unknown
To be truly happy is a question of how we begin, and not how we end, of
what we want and not what we have.
Robert Louis Stevenson
To be busy is man's only happiness.
Mark Twain
The secret of happiness is not in doing what one likes, but in liking what one
has to do.
James M. Barrie
The surest way to happiness is to lose yourself in a cause greater than
yourself.
Unknown
The best way to secure future happiness is to be as happy as is rightfully
possible to-day.
Charles W. Eliot
The art of living does not consist in preserving and clinging to a particular
mood of happiness, but in allowing happiness to change in form without
being disappointed by the change. For happiness, like a child, must be
allowed to grow up.
Unknown
People don't notice whether it's summer or winter when they're happy.
Anton Chekhov
No one has ever injured his eyesight by looking on the bright side of things.
Unknown
No man can enjoy happiness without thinking that he enjoys it.
Samuel Johnson
Make happy those who are near, and those who are far will come.
Chinese Proverb
Learn to let go. That is the key to happiness.
The Buddha
It's not how much we have, but how much we enjoy that makes happiness.
Unknown
It's good to be just plain happy. It's a little better to know that you're happy;
but to understand that you're happy and to know why and how and still be
happy-be happy in the being and the knowing---well, that is beyond
happiness, that is bliss.
Henry Miller
When someone does something good, applaud! You will make two people
happy.
Samuel Goldwyn
In the pursuit of happiness, the difficulty lies in knowing when you have
caught up.
R. H. Grenville
If there were in the world today any large number of people who desired
their own happiness more than they desired the unhappiness of others, we
could have a paradise in a few years.
Bertrand Russell
I feel that when we really love and accept and approve of ourselves exactly
as we are, then everything in life works.
Louise Hay
We must select the illusion that appeals to our temperament and embrace it
with passion, if we want to be happy.
Cyril Connolly
He who has no wish to be happier is the happiest of men.
W. R. Alger
Happiness is a habit, cultivate it.
Elbert Hubbard
Happiness held is the seed; happiness shared is the flower.
Unknown
Better to be happy than wise.
John Heywood
Happiness is making a bouquet of those flowers within reach.
Unknown
To be content with what one has is the greatest and truest of riches.
Cicero
All happiness comes from the desire for others to be happy. All misery
comes from the desire for oneself to be happy.
Shantideva
Never lose your happiness. Problems will come and go, problems are an
external situation which have come from others, and they will come and go.
Happiness is your own property and you always keep something that belongs
to you.
Om Shanti!!!
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in
harmony.
Mahatma Ghandi
The Grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love,
and something to hope for.
Allan K. Chalmers
Happiness is something that comes into our lives through doors we don't
even remember leaving open.
Rose Lane
I have learned to seek my happiness by limiting my desires, rather than in
attempting to satisfy them.
John Stuart Mill
Success is getting and achieving what you want. Happiness is wanting and
being content with what you get.
Unknown
We all live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all different and
yet the same.
Anne Frank
The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go
outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature
and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that
God wishes to see people happy, amidst the simple beauty of nature.
Anne Frank
Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without
action.
Benjamin Disraeli
To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of
happiness.
Bertrand Russell
Gratefulness is the key to a happy life that we hold in our hands, because if
we are not grateful, then no matter how much we have we will not be happy
-- because we will always want to have something else or something more.
Brother David Steindl-Rast
Happiness comes when your work and words are of benefit to yourself and
others.
Buddha
The pursuit of happiness is a most ridiculous phrase, if you pursue
happiness you'll never find it.
C. P. Snow
There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in
the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of
darkness, and the word 'happy' would lose its meaning if it were not
balanced by sadness.
Carl Jung
The richness I achieve comes from Nature, the source of my inspiration.
Claude Monet
Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed.
Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace
and gratitude.
Denis Waitley
If only we'd stop trying to be happy we'd have a pretty good time.
Edith Wharton
Unhappiness is best defined as the difference between our talents and our
expectations.
Edward de Bono
The truest greatness lies in being kind, the truest wisdom in a happy mind.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox
You can never get enough of what you don't need to make you happy.
Eric Hoffer
The truth which has made us free will in the end make us glad also.
Felix Adler
Remember that as a teenager you are in the last stage of your life when you
will be happy to hear the phone is for you.
Fran Leibowitz
The true way to render ourselves happy is to love our work and find in it our
pleasure.
Francoise de Motteville
Happiness is not in the mere possession of money; it lies in the joy of
achievement, in the thrill of creative effort.
Franklin D. Roosevelt
Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.
George Burns
There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
George Sand
The basic thing is that everyone wants happiness, no one wants suffering.
And happiness mainly comes from our own attitude, rather than from
external factors. If your own mental attitude is correct, even if you remain in
a hostile atmosphere, you feel happy.
H.H. the Dalai Lama
When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel
loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and
peace.
H.H. the Dalai Lama
Consider the following. We humans are social beings. We come into the
world as the result of others' actions. We survive here in dependence on
others. Whether we like it or not, there is hardly a moment of our lives when
we do not benefit from others' activities. For this reason it is hardly
surprising that most of our happiness arises in the context of our
relationships with others.
H.H. the Dalai Lama
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be
happy, practice compassion.
H.H. the Dalai Lama
Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within. It is not
what we see and touch or that which others do for us which makes us happy;
it is that which we think and feel and do, first for the other fellow and then
for ourselves.
Helen Keller
When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so
long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened
for us.
Helen Keller
Many people have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not
attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.
Helen Keller
That man is richest whose pleasures are cheapest.
Henry David Thoreau
The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to
bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no
other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?
Henry David Thoreau
All seasons are beautiful for the person who carries happiness within.
Horace Friess
Here we are the way politics ought to be in America; the politics of
happiness, the politics of purpose and the politics of joy.
Hubert H. Humphrey
Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others, cannot keep it from
themselves.
James M. Barrie
The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his
feet.
James Oppenheim
Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn't know you left open.
John Barrymore
I can think of nothing less pleasurable than a life devoted to pleasure.
John D. Rockefeller
The mind is its own place, and in itself, can make heaven of Hell, and a hell
of Heaven.
John Milton
Happiness lies in making others happy, in forsaking self-interest to bring joy
to others.
Paramahansa Yogananda
It's pretty hard to tell what does bring happiness. Poverty an' wealth have
both failed.
Kin Hubbard
What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our
willingness to choose life.
Leo Buscaglia
I don't know why we are here, but I'm pretty sure that it is not in order to
enjoy ourselves.
Ludwig Wittgenstein
The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are
feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such
moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our
ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.
M. Scott Peck
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming
gardeners who make our souls blossom.
Marcel Proust
It is only possible to live happily ever after on a day to day basis.
Margaret Bonnano
Whoever is happy will make others happy, too.
Mark Twain
Sanity and happiness are an impossible combination.
Mark Twain
Happiness is a Swedish sunset -- it is there for all, but most of us look the
other way and lose it.
Mark Twain
The perfection of wisdom, and the end of true philosophy is to proportion
our wants to our possessions, our ambitions to our capacities, we will then be
a happy and a virtuous people.
Mark Twain
The greatest part of our happiness depends on our dispositions, not our
circumstances.
Martha Washington
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in
harmony.
Mohandas K. Gandhi
Happiness is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our
grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.
Nathaniel Hawthorne
Happiness is not so much in having as sharing. We make a living by what we
get, but we make a life by what we give.
Norman MacEwan
The world has to learn that the actual pleasure derived from material things
is of rather low quality on the whole and less even in quantity than it looks to
those who have not tried it.
Oliver Wendell Holmes
Growth itself contains the germ of happiness.
Pearl S. Buck
There is a wonderful mythical law of nature that the three things we crave
most in life -- happiness, freedom, and peace of mind -- are always attained
by giving them to someone else.
Peyton Conway March
To fill the hour -- that is happiness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They
chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the
emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed
to search was within.
Ramona L. Anderson
Love is a condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to
your own.
Robert Heinlein
There is no duty we so underrate as the duty of being happy. By being
happy we sow anonymous benefits upon the world.
Robert Louis Stevenson
Wisdom is the supreme part of happiness.
Sophocles
Independence is happiness.
Susan B. Anthony
Happiness, it seems to me, consists of two things: first, in being where you
belong, and second -- and best -- in comfortably going through everyday life,
that is, having had a good night's sleep and not being hurt by new shoes.
Theodor Fontane
Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile
can be the source of your joy.
Thich Nhat Hanh
The happiest moments of my life have been the few which I have passed at
home in the bosom of my family.
Thomas Jefferson
But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life;
and thanks to a benevolent arrangement of things, the greater part of life is
sunshine.
Thomas Jefferson
If you observe a really happy man you will find him building a boat, writing a
symphony, educating his son, growing double dahlias in his garden. He will
not be searching for happiness as if it were a collar button that has rolled
under the radiator.
W. Beran Wolfe
That is happiness; to be dissolved into something completely great.
101 Friendship QuotesFriendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be
friends with anyone else in the world.
Eleanor Roosevelt
True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be
lost.
Charles Caleb Colton
Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they
arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
Anais Nin
A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else.
Len Wein
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back
to you when you have forgotten the words.
Donna Roberts
A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in
yourself.
Unknown
Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not
lead. Walk beside me and be my friend.
Albert Camus
My friends are my estate.
Emily Dickinson
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Unknown
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.
Walter Winchell
A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more.
Jasmine Fitzwilliam
Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise.
Unknown
Every person is a new door to a different world.
from movie 'Six Degrees of Seperation'
It takes a long time to grow an old friend.
John Leonard
Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you.
Elbert Hubard
I get by with a little help from my friends.
John Lennon
Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone
when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.
Ecclesiastes
Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really
meet; and two others at first speech are old friends.
Mary Catherwood
Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art...It has no survival value;
rather is one of those things that give value to survival.
C. S. Lewis
I might give my life for my friend, but he had better not ask me to do up a
parcel.
Logan Pearsall Smith
Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life.
Unknown
The better part of one's life consists of his friendships.
Abraham Lincoln
The love of my life is the love between friends.
Unknown
One's best friend is oneself.
Unknown
A Friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway.
Unknown
To be depressed is to be lonely; to have a friend is to be happy...
Guido
Strangers are just friends waiting to happen.
Steve Klaka
Sometimes you pick your friends, sometimes they pick you.
Steve Klaka
The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to
reveal to him, his own.
Benjamin Disraeli
Though our communication wanes at times of absence, I'm aware of a
strength that emanates in the background.
Claudette Renner
I can trust my friends. These people force me to examine, encourage me to
grow.
Cher
Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to
become what they are capable of being.
Goethe
Friendship is a pretty full-time occupation if you really are friendly with
somebody. You can't have too many friends because then you're just not
really friends.
Unknown
No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving
some mark on it forever.
Francois Mocuriac
Give others freedom to be themselves. Appreciate the differences between
their ways an yours.
Jennifer Chen
Friends are the Bacon Bits in the Salad Bowl of Life.
Pizza Place Sign
Friendship is one mind in two bodies.
Mencius
Truth and tears clear the way to a deep and lasting friendship.
Unknown
True friendship is never serene.
Mariede Svign
Friendship: a building contract you sign with laughter and break with tears.
Unknown
Friends are God's way of taking care of us.
Unknown
It's the friends you can call up at 4am that matter.
Marlene Dietrick
A friend is a gift you give yourself.
Robert Louis Stevenson
Friend - a person known well to another and regarded with liking, affection
and loyalty.
Collins English Dictionary
A new friendship is like an unripened fruit - it may become either an orange
or a lemon.
Emma Stacey
Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very
fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success.
Oscar Wilde
Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried, Grapple them to thy soul
with hoops of steel; But do not dull thy palm with entertainment of each new-
hatch'd, unfledg'd comrade.
William Shakespeare
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
Mother Teresa
I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody.
Benjamin Franklin
Misfortune shows those who are not really friends.
Aristotle
Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have
somebody to divide it with.
Mark Twain
Thus nature has no love for solitude, and always leans, as it were, on some
support; and the sweetest support is found in the most intimate friendship.
Cicero
Advice is like snow; the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the
deeper it sinks into the mind.
Samuel Taylor Coleridge
The best mirror is an old friend.
George Herbert
What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies.
Aristotle
The friendship that can cease has never been real.
Saint Jerome
I count myselt in nothing else so happy, as in a soul rememb'ring my good
friends.
William Shakespeare
I find friendship to be like wine, raw when new, ripened with age, the true old
man's milk and restorative cordial.
Thomas Jefferson
Sir, more than kisses, letters, mingle souls; For, thus friends absent speak.
John Donne
Too late we learn, a man must hold his friend, unjudged, accepted, trusted to
the end.
John Boyle O'Reilly
Friends have all things in common.
Plato
Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.
Artistotle
My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.
Henry Ford
What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity. They are but trifles, to
be sure but, scattered along life's pathway, the good they do is
inconceivable.
Unknown
No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel
trust and reverence.
George Eliot
It is a sweet thing, friendship, a dear balm, a happy and auspicious bird of
calm...
Shelly
The best way to keep your friends is not to give them away.
Wilson Mizner
The happiest moments my heart knows are those in which it is pouring forth
its affections to a few esteemed characters.
Thomas Jefferson
One can never speak enough of the virtues, the dangers, the power of
shared laughter.
Francoise Sagan
Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.
Kahil Gibran
There is magic in the memory of schoolboy friendships; it softens the heart,
and even affects the nervous system of those who have no heart.
Bejamin Disraeli
I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends.
Walt Whitman
True friendship is never serene.
Marquise de Sevigne
When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world
loses some of its radiance.
Anatole Broyard
Friends are born, not made.
Henry Adams
This communicating of a man's self to his friend works two contrary effects;
for it redoubleth joy, and cutteth griefs in half.
Francis Bacon
Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom
we choose.
Tehyi Hsieh
There is no hope of joy except in human relations.
Antoine de Sainte-Exupery
The making of friends, who are real friends, is the best token we have of a
man's success in life.
Edward Everett Hale
Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to learn
unpleasant things from his enemies; they are ready enough to tell them.
Oliver Wendell Holmes
The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to
bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no
other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?
Henry David Thoreau
Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the
water that flows from the spring cannogt congeal in winter.
James Fenimore Cooper
Friendship without self interest is one of the rare and beautiful things in life.
James Francis Byrnes
Never kiss a friend. If you have deeper feelings, never reveal them. You will
lose that friend forever...
sent by David
Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead; Do not
write them on their tombstones, speak them rather now instead.
Anna Cummins
True friendship's laws are by this rule express'd, welcome the coming, speed
the parting guest.
Alexander Pope
Best friends are like diamonds, precious and rare. False friends are like
leaves, found everywhere.
Anoymous
Every man should have a fair-sized cemetary in which to bury the faults of
his friends.
Henry Brooks Adams
If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be
at the bottom to catch them.
Unknown
A good friend is hard to find, hard to lose, and impossible to forget...
Sent by Joanne
Money might make you wealthy, but friends makes you rich.
Unknown
A world without a friend, what would it be? It would be like a world without
water, something you need. Friends are like glass, once broken, they are
hard to fix. Keep your friends, as you would keep your water.
Unknown
Silences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but
the never needing to say is what counts.
Maragret Lee Runbeck
Scatter seeds of kindness everywhere you go; scatter bits of courtesy, watch
them grow and grow. Gather buds of friendship; Keep them till full-blown;
You will find more happiness than you have ever known.
Amy R Raabe
Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness...
Richard Bach
The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that they can
grow separately without growing apart.
Elizabeth Foley
You only meet your once in a lifetime friend... once in a lifetime.
Little Rascals
A circle is round it has no end, that's how long I want to be your friend!
Anonymous
A friend is like an oreo, its not always that great, but it always gets better!
Erin Westbrook
Love doesn't make the world go round, it makes the ride worthwhile.
F.P. Jones
All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us
complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of
heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere and somehow
there is someone searching for us.
The Wonder Years
101 Romance Quotes The simple lack of her is more to me than others' presence.
Edward Thomas
In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes.
Elizabeth Ashley
Each moment of a happy lover's hour is worth an age of dull and common
life.
Aphra Behn
Justice is the loveliest and health is the best. but the sweetest to obtain is
the heart's desire.
Aristotle
Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
Aristotle
If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you've made me smile, the
entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.
Unknown
Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually
have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity
of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the
saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain.
Buscaglia
A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life, to be thankful
for a good one.
Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings
You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you
have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of
love.
Henry Drummond
Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be
seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment,
and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
Barbara De Angelis
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my
lips you kissed, but my soul.
Judy Garland
The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His
heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he
hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
Pearl S. Buck
Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The
only way to retain love is to give it away.
Elbert Hubbard
The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times
almost insupportable.
Victor Hugo
Inside the heart of each and every one of us there is a longing to be
understood by someone who really cares. When a person is understood, he
or she can put up with almost anything in the world.
Rev Ed Hird
True happiness and a fullness of joy can be found only in the tender and
intimate relationships of the family. However earnestly we may seek success
and happiness outside the home through work, leisure activities, or large
bank accounts, we will never be fully satisfied emotionally until we develop
deep and loving relationships.
James J. Jones Ph.D.
Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find
that you are left holding only yourself.
Leo Buscaglia
My heart to you is given; Oh, do give yours to me; We'll lock them up
together, And throw away the key.
Frederick Saunders
The heart is the place where we live our passions. It is frail and easily
broken, but wonderfully resilient. There is no point in trying to deceive the
heart. It depends upon our honesty for its survival.
Leo Buscaglia
There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved.
George Sand
Love is an act of endless forgiveness. A tender look which becomes a habit.
Peter Ustinov
It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, but it is the
little differences that make them interesting.
Todd Ruthman
What we need to know about loving is no great mystery. We all know what
constitutes loving behavior; we need but act upon it, not continually question
it. Over-analysis often confuses the issue and in the end brings us no closer
to insight. We sometimes become too busy classifying, separating, and
examining, to remember that love is easy. It's we who make it complicated.
Leo Buscaglia
Romantic love reaches out in little ways, showing attention and admiration.
Romantic love remembers what pleases a woman, what excites her, and
what surprises her. Its actions whisper; you are the most special person in
my life.
Charles Stanley
From every human being there rises a light that reaches straight to heaven.
And when two souls that are destined to be together find each other, their
streams of light flow together, and a single brighter light goes forth from
their united being.
Unknown
Love is not a matter of counting the years... But making the years count.
Michelle Amand
The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a
woman's heart.
Josiah G. Holland
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last
romance.
Oscar Wilde
What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to
what lies within us.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Real love stories never have endings.
Richard Bach
Romance is the glamour which turns the dust of everyday life into a golden
haze.
Elynor Glyn
Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love.
Albert Einstein
The dedicated life is the life worth living. You must give with your whole
heart.
Anne Dillard
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but looking outward in the
same direction.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; What is essential is invisible
to the eye.
Antoine De Saint-Exupery
T'is our Love that finds us! And the glue that binds us! And in this we know
that by faith we show We are ever strong.
Ben Fox
We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.
Benjamin Disraeli
Romance has been elegantly defined as the offspring of fiction and love.
Benjamin Disraeli
Love is not enough. It must be the foundation, the cornerstone - but not the
complete structure. It is much too pliable, too yielding.
Betty Davis
One who walks the road with love will never walk the road alone.
C. T. Davis
Love is a roller coaster ride, that never seems to end. It has its up and
downs. Love is journey, that has no end.
Celina
Never close your lips to those whom you have opened your heart.
Charles Dickens
A loving heart is the truest wisdom.
Charles Dickens
Vacations are not about 'getting away' - but about getting in 'touch'.
Chinese Fortune
Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier.
Love everything, you will be happiest.
Chinmoy
In all that we do let us do it for love.
Chris Cotton
Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it rekindles
the great.
Comte DeBussy-Rabutin
The more a man knows, the more he forgives.
Confucius
Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle.
Crystal Middlemas
Because she my friend and my wife, she has seen and brought out the best
and worst of me, and she is still with me and I owe her my whole heart, soul,
attention, love, and anything she desires of me. She will always be there...
Dagny Connolly
Only passions, great passions, can elevate the soul to great things.
Denis Diderot
Your slightest look easily will unclose me, though I have closed myself as
fingers, you open petal by petal myself a Spring opens her first rose.
E.E. Cummings
Love is the whole and more than all.
E.E. Cummings
For Love is Immortality.
Emily Dickinson
That love is all there is is all we know of love.
Emily Dickinson
Till I loved I never lived.
Emily Dickinson
Love is an act of faith.
Erich Fromm
Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself
completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person.
Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
Erich Fromm
He is not a lover who does not love forever.
Euripdes
There is no end. There is no beginning. There is only the infinite passion of
life.
Federico Fellini
Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows
out the candle and blows up the bonfire.
Francois de La Rouchefoucauld
Love is blind. That is why he always proceeds by the sense of touch.
French Proverb
In order to love simply, it is necessary to know how to show love.
Fyodor Dostoyevsky
Honor the ocean of love.
George de Benneville
What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are
joined together to strengthen each other in all labour, to minister to each
other in all sorrow, to share with each other in all gladness, to be one with
each other in the silent unspoken memories?
George Eliot
I love you deeply, unconditionally, forever and beyond...
Gina Cianfarani
You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you
have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of
love.
Henry Drummond
The only way to have a friend is to be one.
Jasmine Crespo
I've looked around enough to know that you're the one I want to go through
time with.
Jim Croce
More than kisses, letters mingle souls.
John Donne
Love reckons hours for months, and days for years; and every little absence
is an age.
John Dryden
Spoil your husband, but don't spoil your children.
Louise Seier Giddings Currey
We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can fly only by
embracing each other.
Luciano De Crescenzo
Presence is more than just being there.
Malcolm Forbes
Something happend to me. It was the sweetest thing that ever could be; It
was a fantasy a dream come true; It was the day I met you!
Mandy Forkner
In our life there is a single color, as on an artist's palette, which provides the
meaning of life and art. It is the color of love.
Marc Chagall
Love works in miracles every day: such as weakening the strong, and
stretching the weak; making fools of the wise, and wise men of fools;
favouring the passions, destroying reason, and in a word, turning everything
topsy-turvy.
Marguerite de Valois
You are my glue. Without you, I'd be nothing but broken pieces.
Miley Cyrus
Where love is concerned, too much is not even enough.
P.A.C. de Beaumarchais
Love is like smiling, it never fades and is contagious.
Paula Dean
What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to
what lies within us.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
The only true gift is a portion of yourself.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thou art to me a delicious torment.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
All mankind love a lover.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile,
nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one
when he discovers that someone believes in him and is willing to trust him
with his friendship.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
To laugh often and love much... to appreciate beauty, to find the best in
others, to give one's self... this is to have succeeded.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Love and you shall be loved. All love is mathematically just, as much as two
sides of an algebraic equation.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
My soul may be returned to the heavens but my heart will remain with you
for all eternity.
Richard Dominguez
The anticipation of touch is one of the most potent sensations on earth.
Richard J. Finch
They cannot scare me with their empty spaces between stars -- on stars
where no human race is. I have it in me so much nearer home to scare
myself with my own desert places.
Robert Frost
Love is the desire to be irresistibly desired.
Robert Frost
Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.
Rose Franken
I love you not only for who you are, but for what you are when I am with
you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but what you
are making of me.
Roy Croft
We find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place in ourselves
for those who love us.
Saint Bernard of Clairvaux
It is love alone that gives worth to all things.
Santa Teresa de Jesus
What is love, Does anyone know, Is it what twinkles between our toes, Can
we not see it with our own eyes, Can we not hear its whisper with our own
ears, Can we not touch it with our own skin, No we can not, Because true
love comes from you, Within.
Scott William Emminger
Love is most nearly itself when here and now cease to matter.
T.S. Eliot
When a male and female combine, all things achieve harmony.
Tao Te Ching
To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.
Thomas Campbell
Where there is great love, there are always miracles.
Willa Cather
Nobody has ever measured, even poets, how much a heart can hold.
Zelda Fitzgerald