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Question: Do you have the 5p’s?

• A Pass• A Piece of Paper • A Pen • A Pencil• A Presence

Summary Re-View The fight we have with the past is a self-affliction. TRUTH MINIMIZES CONFLICT. We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OUR NEEDS, NOT OUR WANTS

(or desires). The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is by THE TRUTH be c a us e the

truth NEVER CHANGES. Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before

entering thehouse (our lives).

PURPOSEPURPOSE

Divorcing the past to advance into the future.

Let’s break the ice! If you could have only one sense (sight, touch, hearing, taste,

etc), what would you want it to be? If you had to lose one sense, what would it be?

Rank your senses in order of importance to you (5 being most important,1 being least important).

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What is Change?A TRANSFORMATION o r TRANSITION fro m o ne state, condition, or phase to a no the r– To c a us e to be c o m e different– To g ive a completely different form or appearance

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What is Change?

To p ut o n a DIFFERENT o r FRESH SET o f CLOTHING

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• Whe n we m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OUR NEEDS, NOT OUR WANTS (or desires) OUR BEHAVIORS will CHANGE.

Behavior changes by forming new habits.

Why does change occur? Be ca us e the m ilk ha s become SPOILED; o ur

a p p e tite s ha ve cha ng e d Wha t we ha ve be e n d o ing ha s be c o m e

o utda te d , a nd is NO LONGER effective; The DEMAND ha s cha ng e d

Wha t we “USED TO DO” ha s full-fille d its purpose a nd m e t its destiny

QUESTIONS TO PONDER

1 . Why wa s te tim e a nd e ne rg y c ry ing o ve r s p o ile d o r s p ille d m ilk?2 . Why wa s tim e c o m p la ining a bo ut s o m e thing we c a nno t cha ng e ?3 . If o ur e y e s a re c lo s e d , c a n we s e e whe re we a re he a d e d ?

SummaryChange is a TRANSFORMATION or TRANSITION from one state, condition, or phase to another.Change is also means to put on a DIFFERENT or FRESH SET of CLOTHING.Change occurs when what we have been doing has become outdated.If our eyes are closed, we cannot see where we are headed.