HEALTHYRELATIONSHIPS

What are someReasons for Dating?

Fun and enjoyable Friendship and intimacy Companionship and emotional

support Learn how to communicate and

resolve conflict effectively Explore characteristics you would

like in a future partner or spouse

Are You Date-able?

What makes someone Date-Able?

What are some characteristics you look for in a dating partner?

Is honestIs unselfishTreats you and

others wellIs tolerant and

respectfulHas similar

valuesIs fun to be withRespects himself

/ herself

Do you share the same qualities that you are looking for in someone to date?

What makes a relationship Healthy or Unhealthy?

Would you be able to recognize an unhealthy relationship if you were in one?

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships:

Healthy Relationship Unhealthy RelationshipEquality Control

Honesty Dishonesty

Physical safety Physical abuse

Respect Disrespect

Comfort Intimidation

Sexual respectfulness Sexual abuse

Independence Dependence

Humor Hostility

Choose Respect Initiative, U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

Healthy Relationships Skills Controlling

Anger Problem-solving Negotiating and

Compromising Being Assertive

Fighting Fair Understanding Listening Being a Role

Model Communicate!

Choose Respect Initiative, U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

What are some things you can do when first going out with someone to make things easier?

What are some of the benefits of Dating in Groups?

People often begin a relationship by dating in groups

Movies, dances, or sporting events Get to know the other person without the pressure of being alone Learn how your partner treats other

people

What are some things you should consider when dating someone? Respect the rules your parents and

your partner’s parents have for dating (curfews)

Know your own and your partner’s sexual limits

Ending a Relationship Most dating relationships that begin

in adolescence eventually end Hurt, frustration, anger, and

sometimes a sense of relief can make break-ups feel over-whelming

What are some things youcan do to make

a break up easier?

Break ups can be difficult and emotional…

Avoid spreading rumors about your ex Don’t repeatedly check your ex’s Facebook,

etc. Make plans with family, friends, new people Avoid calling and texting your ex Listen to music that makes you feel better Get enough rest, do things you enjoy Delete embarrassing or harmful pictures of

your ex

Do’s & Don’ts when breaking up…

No matter whose fault the break-up was, it’s

important to know why a relationship didn’t work out to avoid the same

thing happening in future relationships.