LIFE WITHOUT LIMITS

ATTITUDE IS ALTITUDE

ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT

Example of Linda Instead of focusing on her limited vision,

she focused on what she had. “ Do I want to spend the rest of my life

wallowing for misery, or do I want to rise above what has happened and pursue my dreams”

Negative Positive

I will never get over this

I can’t take this anymore

This is the worst I have ever had it

I ‘II never find another job

This too will pass

I got this far. Better days are ahead

Some days are harder than others

One door is closed, but another will open

Techniques of Attitude Adjustment

Attitude of Gratitude Jonis example=

reject the victim role

Attitude of Action I need to give back to the universe Create a positive momentum; getting out of the bed is the

toughest

Attitude of Empathy Self centeredness= suicidal thoughts Reaching out to someone is a way of healing yourself

Attitude of Forgiveness Anger is not designed to be a round a clock motion At least Forgive to unburden myself of anger an resentment

LESSONS OF LOSING

Fall seven times, stand up eight Life is not a pass-fail test, it’s a trial and

error process Success is the ability to go from one

failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm

Failures are not final. You are in the game.

Lesson # 1: It is a great teacher Learning from mistakes Practice, work hard Tapal Ice Tea example

Lesson #2: It builds character Losing makes you stronger, more

focused, more creative, more determined

You need patience and perseverance Thomas Edison example “Every wrong attempt discarded is

another step forward”

Lesson # 3: It motivates you Unfavorable variance in actual and

budgeted performance Use the motivation to try harder to stay

in the game

Lesson # 4: It helps you appreciate success

The tougher the climb, the better the view at the top

Feeling of achievement so incredible Give everything a GO!

TRUST OTHERS MORE OR LESS

2 Dimensions 1. Trust2. Skill Set

Trust relationships are based on mutual

understanding and trust. dream team of supporters

TrustBuilding a relationship is like a savings

account

Skill Sets “People skills” Psychologists say that our ability to build

bonds of trust and mutually supportive relationships depends on 3 primary people skills. Read emotions and moods(taking a read) Listen attentively to what others say and

how they say it

Skill Sets Demonstrate care for other with

actions(walk the talk)

RIDICULOUS RULES FOR RISK MANAGEMENT

“Pearls don’t lie on the seashore. If you want one, you must dive for it.” Nick Vujicic- the proud creator of Ridiculous Rules. “Every breathing person on the planet should be

committed to doing something ridiculous at least once a day..”

We easily get trapped in the ‘someday’ mentality

The biggest risk of YOUR life?

“Security is mostly a superstition. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing”-Helen Keller

Ridiculous Rules for managing risks

1. Test the waterso “No one tests the depth of the river

with both feet”

2. Go with what you knowo Do your homework

3. Check the timer You would not want to start a ice cream

business in the dead of the winter Write down something in the night;

read it in the morning; see the difference!

4. Get a second opinion Emotions may be outrunning; get a

mentor before entering the tricky territory

5. Prepare for the unseen consequences o Companies create a ‘buffer.’

“Take risks; if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.”

FYI.. Nick and his wife Kanae Miyahara

NEVER STOP BELIEVING

IN YOURSELF!