Marriage in the Lord Part 2 – The Key to Success.

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LordLordPart 2 – The Key to SuccessPart 2 – The Key to Success

Marriage in the Lord 2

► See things from God’s point of viewSee things from God’s point of view

► In the Lord for lifeIn the Lord for life

► Picture of Christ and EcclesiaPicture of Christ and Ecclesia

► Hold the standard high with the Hold the standard high with the

right attituderight attitude

► Principles go back to EdenPrinciples go back to Eden

Marriage Part 1 – SummaryMarriage Part 1 – Summary

4. The Key to Success4. The Key to Success

1.1. Common groundCommon ground

2.2. CommunicationCommunication

3.3. SelflessnessSelflessness

4.4. Decide to loveDecide to love

Good RelationshipsGood Relationships

► Abraham & God Abraham & God ((Gen 12:1-4; 18:16-33Gen 12:1-4; 18:16-33))

► David & God David & God ((1Sa 23:2+4+9-12; 30:8; 1Sa 23:2+4+9-12; 30:8;

2Sa 2:1; 5:19+232Sa 2:1; 5:19+23; plus numerous Psalms); plus numerous Psalms)

► Jesus & disciples Jesus & disciples (esp. (esp. Jn 13Jn 13))

► Jonathan & David Jonathan & David

► ……

Jonathan & DavidJonathan & David1Sa 141Sa 14 1Sa 171Sa 17

v6v6 - the garrison of these - the garrison of these uncircumciseduncircumcised

v26v26 - who is this - who is this uncircumcised Philistineuncircumcised Philistine

v12v12 - Come up to us, and we - Come up to us, and we will shew you a thing.will shew you a thing.

v44v44 - Come to me, and I will - Come to me, and I will give thy flesh unto the fowls give thy flesh unto the fowls

v13v13 - And Jonathan climbed up - And Jonathan climbed up … and they fell before … and they fell before Jonathan.Jonathan.

v48f.v48f. - David hasted, and ran - David hasted, and ran … and he fell upon his face to … and he fell upon his face to the earth.the earth.

v10v10 - for the LORD hath - for the LORD hath delivered them into our handdelivered them into our hand

v47v47 - and He will give you - and He will give you into our handsinto our hands

v6v6 - for there is no restraint to - for there is no restraint to the LORD to save by many or the LORD to save by many or by few.by few.

v47v47 - the LORD saveth not - the LORD saveth not with sword and spear: for the with sword and spear: for the battle is the LORD’S.battle is the LORD’S.

=> Common Ground!!=> Common Ground!!

Jonathan & DavidJonathan & David

► CommunicationCommunication

1Sa 19:2f.+7; 20:1-23; 23:15-181Sa 19:2f.+7; 20:1-23; 23:15-18

► SelflessnessSelflessness

18:4; 20 18:4; 20 esp.esp. v32-34; 23:17 v32-34; 23:17

► LoveLove

18:1+3; 20:17; 2Sa 1:2618:1+3; 20:17; 2Sa 1:26

4. The Key to Success4. The Key to Success

1.1. Common groundCommon ground

2.2. CommunicationCommunication

3.3. SelflessnessSelflessness

4.4. Decide to loveDecide to love

► Works in the worldWorks in the world► Our faith – Our faith – “heirs together”“heirs together”

One common aim: the KingdomOne common aim: the Kingdom Serving God togetherServing God together Common understanding of our roles Common understanding of our roles

in marriagein marriage Praying togetherPraying together

4.1 Common Ground4.1 Common Ground

4.2 Communication4.2 Communication

► No good relationship without it!!No good relationship without it!!

► Goes both waysGoes both ways

► Is it helpful?Is it helpful?

► ““Let not the sun go down…”Let not the sun go down…”

4.3 Selflessness - 4.3 Selflessness - Php 2:1-5Php 2:1-5

► One flesh – one mind! – One flesh – one mind! – v2v2

► ““All the way” – All the way” – v4v4 Admitting faultAdmitting fault

Saying sorrySaying sorry

► Sacrifice – esp. the husband (like Sacrifice – esp. the husband (like

Christ! Christ! v5ff.v5ff.))

4.4 Decide to Love4.4 Decide to Love► PhileoPhileo – – AgapeAgape► Can be used interchangeablyCan be used interchangeably► Important differenceImportant difference

Phileo – feeling, affection (“kiss”)Phileo – feeling, affection (“kiss”) Agape – conscious decisionAgape – conscious decision

► Results may be the sameResults may be the same

► What What startedstarted with with PhileoPhileo, must in , must in due time due time developdevelop into into AgapeAgape!!

4.4 Love – 4.4 Love – 1Cor 131Cor 13

► PatientPatient

► KindKind

► Not jealousNot jealous

► HumbleHumble

► Not proudNot proud

► Not rudeNot rude

► SelflessSelfless

► CalmCalm

► ForgivingForgiving

► HonestHonest

► ProtectingProtecting

► TrustingTrusting

► HopingHoping

► PerseveringPersevering

OverviewOverview

► God’s Point of ViewGod’s Point of View► A Word about DivorceA Word about Divorce► Roles in MarriageRoles in Marriage► The Key to SuccessThe Key to Success

Common GroundCommon Ground CommunicationCommunication SelflessnessSelflessness Decide to LoveDecide to Love

MiscellaneaMiscellanea

Being one means:Being one means:

► United frontUnited front

► Keep it private!Keep it private! QuarrelsQuarrels

CriticismCriticism

Private lifePrivate life

Marriage in the Lord Part 2 – The Key to Success.

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