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Introduction

Do you have a

certain goal ?

About the book Success

Engineering Students Problems

About The Book

• Reasons for writing the book• Success: – Covey’s point of view– Example: Thomas Edison

Success is the Way to Happiness

How to Achieve Success

Engineering students problems

• No certain goal• Laziness• Depression• Lack of self confidence

Wrong Model of Yourself

How to Make a New Model of Yourself

Focus on Friends.

Focus on Things.

Focus on Parents.

Focus on College.

Focus on Principles.

What is a Habit ?

Habit

Is intersecton of three :

• Knowledge

• Skills

• Desire

How to Insert a New Habit in Our Lives ?

“Sow a thought and you reap an act.

Sow an act and you reap a habit.

Sow a habit and you reap a character.

Sow a character and you reap a destiny.”

Role of The first 3 habits

• Dependence• Independence• Interdependence

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1st habit : Be Proactive

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Personal Vision

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Taking the initiative

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The choice is yours

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Proactive & Reactive

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Proactive & Reactive language

Proactive Language• I'll do it• I can do better than that• Let's look at our options• There has to be a way• I'm not going to let your

bad mood rub off on me

Reactive Language• I'll try• That's just how I am• There's nothing I can

do• I can't• You ruined my day

Circle of Concern and Circle of Influence

Pro-active

Reactive

Problems

1. Direct .2. Indirect .3. No control .

The solution: Circle of Influence

Expanding circle of Influence

The "Have's" and the "Be's"

Have’s (Reactive)• I’ll be happy when I have a

full establishment…• If only I had a boss who

wasn’t...• If I had respect from…• If I could just have

management days…• If the environment was

more conducive…

Be’s (Proactive)

• I can be a better role model…

• I can be more organized / resourceful…

• I will be more diligent…• I can be more loving /

understanding…• I can seek out personnel

and be able to understand…

The other end of stick

“When we pick up one end of the stick , we pick the other ”

Success is on one far side of failure .

The 30-Day Test• Work in your circle of influence,

make small commitments and keep it .• Be part of the solution, not part of the problem .• When you have a mistake, admit it, correct it,

learn from it ,and stop blaming . • Look at the weakness of others with compassion, not

accusation . • If you start to think the problem is "out there," stop yourself.

That thought is the problem.

2nd Habit: Begin with the end in mind

Begin with the end in mind

The Relation Between the 1st and 2nd Habit

As in computer metaphor habit 1 says:“you are programmer” ,habit 2 says :“write the program”.

• Meaning of beginning with the end– How different our lives when

we really know what is important to us

All things are created twice

• There's mental or first creation and physical or second creation to all things.

house garden Business

By Design Or Default

Practical life give us the real experience

Leadership and Management

• Management is doing things right, Leadership is doing the right things

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Become your first creator

• There are 2 additional unique human gifts that enable us to expand our proactively are imagination and conscience.

Personal mission statement

• Because each individual is unique, a personal mission will reflect that uniqness.

• Personal mission based on correct principles.

• We detect our mission in life rather than inventing it

Writing and using personal mission

• Writing is not done in Day and night, It takes aWhile.

Advice

The benefits of writing the personal mission.

• Determine your priorities.• Achieve your goalsaccording to your standards and your principles.• Increase your focus.• The size of your abilities.

We’ll help you to write your own.

• Collect your favourite quotes.• All inside your mind.• Escape away.• For lazy people take your time.

• Make it unique

Outline

Examples

The idea of having fun 

I will always give

you my best shot

Building

bridges for

life friends

familyhardworkingBelief on success

I will get my career

as soon as I

graduateFocus on my plan

Mind knows no boundaries and the heart

knows no fear

Whitney Nozsky

I care  - world           - life          - people          - selfI love  - me          - family          - world          - knowledge          - education          - lifeI fight  - for my beliefs          - for my feelings          - for achievement          - for  Voluntary work          - for believing on my self      They’ll always remember me

Discover your talents

1 •Singing•Drawing•writing

2 •Ability to give•Ability to listen•Ability to forget

3 •Kind•Friendly•Funny

Determine you goals

1.Negative titles.

2.Saying "It's over”.

3.Wrong goals.

They used to call me

Often in our quest for more fame to be apart of the

favourite group we lose our sight to the things that is more

important.

Three warnings:

Keys to determine your goals• Calculate the cost.

• Make it written.

• Just do it.

• Co-operation

Add a touch of realism.

The goal that is not written is just a wish.

Do it or not ,but don’t try.

Whenever your ropes increase, your chances for success increase.

• Take the advantage of the important moments.

New job

New house

Victory

Second chance

New season

New friend

New city

Gradu-ation

Promo-tion

New acade-

mic year

Make your life greatRemember that life is a message, Gandhi had his message to liberate 200 Indians, Martin Luther King had a message to ensure the civil rights to all people.

Enjoy your day

The Program

Habit 1: I am the Programmer

Habit 2: Write the program

Habit 3: Execute the Program

Habit 3: Put First things First

‘Things which matter mostmust never be at the mercy of things which matter least’ -Goethe-

Personal Management

The power of Independent

will

Effective Self Management

Put first things first

Time management

Time Management

• The key to time management is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule but to schedule your priorities.

• It’s almost impossible to say NO to the popularity of urgent , non important matters , if you don’t have a bigger YES burning inside.

Four generations of time management

Use Notes & Checklists that act as reminders

Prepare & Plan using Calendars

and Appointment

Books

Schedule & Prioritize

Being efficient and

proactive

Time management matrix

Urgent Not urgent

important 1

-Crises-Pressing Problems-Deadline-driven projects

2

-Preparation & prevention-Planning-Building relationships & re-creation

Not important

3

-Interruptions (phone calls)-Mails ,reports.-Many popular activities.

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-Distractions (some TV)-Excessive Relaxation-Some phone calls

Time management matrix results

Urgent Not urgent

important •Stress•Burnout•Crisis management•Always putting out fires

•Vision, perspective•Balance•Discipline•Control•Few crises

Not important

•Short-term focus•Feel victimized, out of control•Shallow or broken relationships•See goals and plans as worthless•Crisis management•Reputation – chameleon character

•Total irresponsibility•Fired from jobs•Dependent on others or institutions for basics

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Quadrant II properties

Importance not urgency

Activities

Time

Connect to mission

Review roles

Identify goals

Organize weekly

The choice

Evaluate

Planning steps

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The Big Rocks Theory

Summary

Habit 1 : Be ProactiveIs about being in charge and creator.

Habit 2 : Beginning with the end in mindIs about vision.

Habit 3 : Put first things firstIs about managing time.

Thank You for your

Attention