2014 08 30 VCAC Hearing God Retreat Notes

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Vancouver Chinese Alliance Church

Fall RetreatAugust 30 September 1, 2014 ~ The Firs

His Voice:

Jesus With Us

Mark C. Anderson

Spiritual Director, Whole Life Coach, and Pastor

Name: ______________________________My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.

John 10:27

I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his masters business.

Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I

have made known to you.

John 15:15

Name: ______________________________


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A Prayer as We Begin

Lord, Elohim, You are Creator and Sustainer of all we see around us.

You spoke everything into being. You are God For Us.

Lord Jesus, Emmanuel, You came that we might know You.

You are the Living Word. You are God With Us.

Lord, Holy Spirit, You are the Presence of the Almighty saturating our world.

You are the voice, the breath of God. You are God Within Us.

We know You love us and want to reveal Yourself.

We want to encounter You this weekend and be changed.

Help us to listen. Help us to receive all You have for us. Amen.

The God Who SpeaksJesus certainly worked long, hard days of proclaiming the Kingdom of God in word and

deed. His days were full. He was faithful. But He was never rushed.

According to Him, the key to moving from busy days to a full life is complete trust

in the Father for everything we need:I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself;

he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does.

For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does.

John 5:19-20

So hearing God isnot a techniqueto be mastered, but rather the intentional

cultivation of a relationship a relationship we were created for with a

Heavenly Father Who is always Present, Active, and Loving.

In fact, the main thing is not even hearing a voice, but rather having a deep sense that:

God is here with us and loves us

He is stretching and growing us

He is calling and gifting and guiding us as His friends and co-labourers inredeeming the world

This is the interactive or conversational relationship that we long for indeed that we

were created to enjoy!


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Ways People Like Us Heard God in the Bible(adapted from Chapter 5 of Willards Hearing God)

Abraham hears the voice of God telling him not to kill his son, Isaac (Gen 22)

Samuelhears God calling to him as a little boy (1 Sam 3)

Elijahand the still, small voice (or gentle whisper) as the Lord passes by (1 Ki 19)

sometimes God adds a visiblephenomenonto the voice ...

Mosesreceives the call to Egypt from God at the burning bush (Ex 3)

Dove along with Gods affirmation of His Son, Jesusat His baptism (Mt 3)

Blinding light along with the voice accosting Saulon the road to Damascus (Acts 9)

think of all the people who heard God speaking to them through angels...

Abrahamand the 3 visitors (Gen 18)

Joshuaand the Commander of the Army of the Lord outside of Jericho (Josh 5)

Zechariahin the Temple, Maryand Gabriel, the Shepherdsin the fields (Luke 1,2)

Mary Magdaleneat the empty tomb

Peterlet out of jail (Acts 5 and 12)

Corneliusthe Roman God-fearer being told to send for Peter (Acts 10)

Paul in the storm before the shipwreck (Acts 27)

ordreams and visions...

Jacoband his vision of the heavenly ladder at Bethel (Gen 28)

Josephand Danielinterpreting dreams

Isaiahsvision of heaven at his commissioning (Is 6) ... Johns visions of heaven in Revelation

Josephbeing told to marry Mary, and then flee to Egypt (Mt 1)

Ananiasbeing told to go and heal Paul (Acts 9)

Pauland the man from Macedonia (Acts 16), encouraged to keep speaking in Corinth (Acts 18), and

his visions of heaven with the thorn in his flesh (2 Cor 12)

and of course, the most common way, throughanother human voice...

Moses speaking Gods words to Pharaoh

all the OT Prophets speaking to Israel, her Kings, and the other nations

Jesus teaching and praying


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Consider these promises:

Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit leadme on level ground.

Psalm 143:10

The LORD willguideyou always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched landand will strengthen your frame. Isaiah 58:11

Jesus answered, It is written: Man does not live on bread alone, but on every wordthat comes from

the mouth of God. Matthew 4:4

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. John 10:27

If you love me, you will obey what I command. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you

another Counselor to be with you forever the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it

neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. I will not

leave you as orphans; I will come to you. Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will

see me. Because I live, you also will live. On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you

are in me, andI am in you. John 14:15-20

our personal experiences not withstanding

The God Who SpeaksGod speaks from Genesis 1:3 onwards

God speaks to Moses I AM

God speaks to the JudgesGod speaks to the Kings

God speaks to and through the Prophets

God speaks to and through Jesus

God speaks to and through the Disciples

God speaks to and through His Church

God speaks through His Spirit and the Word

We conclude then, that according to the Bible, the most natural thing we should

expect is that our relationship with God as friends and co-labourers would includehearing His voice in some way.

Often with words (conversational), but sometimes without (interactive), He

guides us, nudges us, is telling us what we should do.

God is far more interested in speaking to us, than we are willing to listen.

If we are not hearing Him, if He seems absent or distant, the problem is probably

on our end!

Convinced? _______________________________________________


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Hearing God within theTransforming Friendship

Its a relationship we are longing for, not a technique!

God is: Present

Active

Loving

God longs to:

Know Us have a close, loving,

two-way, interactive relationshipGrow Us foster our growth,

maturing, transformation to

Christlikeness

ShowUs send us as a light to thenations; to be His Presence;

co-labourers in the Kingdom

Our Identity from Scripture were not just sinners in need of repentance:

Old Testament: Servants with elements of Friendship and even the intimacy of

Lovers (e.g. in the Song of Solomon and God wooing wayward Israel in Hosea)

New Testament: Servants Friends Children / Co-Heirs (Rom 8:17,29)Bride

The LORD would speak to Moses face to face, as a man speaks with his friend. Exodus 33:11

But you, O Israel, my servant, Jacob, whom I have chosen, you descendants of Abraham my friend, I

took you from the ends of the earth, from its farthest corners I called you. I said, You are my servant;

I have chosen you and have not rejected you. So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for

I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.Isaiah 41:8-10

You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does

not know his masters business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my

Father I have made known to you. John 15:14-15

We conclude then, that according to the Bible, we have been created by God for an

intimate relationship with Him as His Children, Friends, and Co-labourers.

The Angelus, by Jean-Francois Millet, 1857-9, Oil on canvas.


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Exercise: Attentive and ReceptiveBeing Here with the God Who is Present, Active, and Loving

Find a comfortable place to sit quietly, either inside or outside.

Take a few minutes to simply sit still. Feel the ground supporting you. In silence, close

your eyes and intentionally take 5 deep, long, slow breaths. Focus all your thoughts

on your breathing. Be here.

Now open your eyes and take in the view.

Outside: Pay attention now to what you can see.

Keep paying attention. What can you notice that you didnt see before?

Inside: Now pay attention to your feelings.How does what you areseeing on the outsidemake youfeel on the

inside? Can you name that feeling?

God: Choose to believe that I AM, Immanuel God is present with you.

He loves you. He wants to speak with you.

If you had to connect this seeing-feeling experience to God

somehow, what might He be saying? wanting you to hear?e.g. I am with you. I am here. Dont be afraid.

or He is reminding me of His awesome power

He is whispering, I love you in my heart

Close your eyes and listen.

Outside: How many different things can you hear?

Inside: How do these sounds make you feel?

God: If Jesus were saying something to you right now, what would that be?

Close your eyes and feel with your skin.

How does the warmth of the sun , or the breeze in your hair , or the

solid ground under you make you feel?

What do you think God is feeling towards you right now?

Are

You

Open,

Receptive

Soil?


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Hearing God Today

OK, if Im honest I Have Some Doubts!

Given that many of us have had experiences of an invisible and seemingly distant, silentGod and all the apparently unanswered prayers that we really dont like to

talk about is it reasonable and realistic to expect God to speak with us today?

Maybe its just answering machine prayers for most of us most of the time.

Those other stories and experiences of God told me to

must be for other peoplethe spiritually elite.

Lets talk about that

Ways People Like Us Hear God Today (adapted from Chapter 1 of Jersaks Can You Hear Me?)

Hearing God speak and responding to Him can happen in many ways which we might

easily overlook:

coming to faith in the first place (No one can come to Me unless the Father Who

sent Me draws them --John 6:44)

hearing God speak through Scripture: words jump out at you; you know whatyou must do after reading a passage

feeling convicted by a preachers sermon, or words from a friend that seem to

carry a particular weight this may lead to repenting from something wrong or

confidently stepping forward towards something good

a deep sense of longing for God or desire to serve Him stirred by a time of worship

the urge to pray for someone, to go and encourage someone, or a deeply burdenedsense of compassion for a group of suffering people

Notice how gentle, how subtle yet real, these interactions with God usually are.

The LORD said [to Elijah standing in the cave in Mount Horeb], Go out and stand on the

mountain in the presence of the LORD, for the LORD is about to pass by.

Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the

LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind.

After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake. After the

earthquake came a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire.

And after the fire came a gentle whisper. When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his

face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave.

Then a voice said to him, What are you doing here, Elijah? 1 Ki 19:11-13


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But Why Does He Make It So Difficult?!

Why Doesnt He Send Me a Goodyear Blimp Each Day?!

Because Small is Beautiful!In His grace, God desires a real, full relationshipwith us.

In His love, this is a friendship in which our growth and maturityis more important to

Him than our comfort.

God is stretching us towards maturity which includes autonomy (making our own

decisions rather than being told what to do each moment like puppets or robots)

and Christlikeness(our true selves emerging).

God longs for adult children who freely choose to regather at His banquet table and join

in His work.. He wants to hear their ideas, longings, and passion.

While a child or new employee needs to be told: Do this!, a grown up or experiencedprofessional can bring the delight of demonstrating their own way of doing things

completely consistent with the Fathers heart. God usually asks them, What do

youwant?

God is scandalously for us: He longs to engage our faculties as free, intelligent beings

made in His image.

So His preference is to use quiet, gentle, subtle (i.e. easily overlooked or dismissed)

ways of speaking to us because He wants to interact with us, not overrule us.

The goal, of course, is to grow toward an adult religionthat includes both reason and faith and inner experience that you can trust.

A mature God creates mature people.

A big God creates big people. Richard Rohr

Jesus Listening Example: Confident and Humble

Following Jesus, we join the Father in His Kingdom Work:

CONFIDENT - we cling to the promise and expectation that God will bothequip and guide us.

ANY WAY - we are open to Him speaking in any way He wishes (Scripture,other people, the still small voice, subtle nudge or conviction, miraculous

signs, angels, dreams, visions, etc.)

ANYTIME - we are open to Him speaking in His time not insisting thatHe speak when we command (e.g. Bible Verse Bingo)

ANYTHING - we do not limit Him to words about our own safety, security,

comfort and success (the idols of our age) . but listen with the motives of

glorifying Him and caring for others


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Communication for Transformation (not Comfort!)

Jesus said that He was the Light of the World (John 9:5) and then told us to go and

be the same (Matthew 5:14)!By His Spirit in us, we are now His Presence in the world until He comes again.

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your

mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what Gods will ishis good, pleasing and perfect

will. Romans 12:2

God has revealed His secret wisdom to us by His Spirit ... in fact, we have the mind of Christ!

from 1 Cor 2:7,10, 17

Jesus watched His

Father, learned to do

His Fathers work, andbecame like His Father.

For you were once darkness,

but now you are light in the

Lord. Live as children of

light (for the fruit of the

light consists in all goodness,

righteousness and truth) and

find out what pleases the

Lord. Have nothing to do

with the fruitless deeds ofdarkness, but rather expose

them. It is shameful even to

mention what the disobedient

do in secret. But everything

exposed by the light becomes

visibleand everything

that is illuminated becomes

a light. Ephesians 5:8-13(NIV used to be for it is light that

makes everything visible)

We all, who with unveiled

faces contemplate (or reflect;

lit. behold in a mirror) the

Lords glory, are being

transformed into his image

with ever-increasing glory,

which comes from the Lord,

who is the Spirit. 2 Cor 3:18

St. Joseph the Carpenter by Georges de la Tour, 1645


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Exercise: Subtle Attraction and Aversion

John 13:3-6Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power,

and that he had come from God and was returning to God;so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing,and wrapped a towel around his waist.

fter that, he poured water into a !asin and !egan to wash his disciples" feet,

dr#ing them with the towel that was wrapped around him.$e came to %imon &eter, who said to him, '(ord, are #ou going to wash m# feet)'

Take a few minutes to consider each of the following artists interpretations of this

poignant moment.

What do you like about each one?

What do you not like about each one?

Notice the things you are attracted to ... the things that repel you.

Which Jesus do you feel most comfortable with?

Consider the body posture (torso) of Peter in each picture.

What does that tell you about Peters inner response?

What are his hands saying in each picture?

What are his feet saying?

How open is each of these Peters

to Jesus washing away the dirt in his life?

How open are you to Jesus?


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Picture Credits(from top):

Artist: Unknown (Illustrator of Vie de Jesus

Mafa)

Jesus Washing the Disciples Feet, Copper

Etching by Caspar Luiken, 1712.

Artist: Hermine F. Schaefer from Anne de Vries'

Childrens Bible

Jesus Washing Peters Feet, Ford Madox Brown,

1852-6

Open to Jesus?


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Encountering God in Scripture

Following Jesus doesnt mean setting out to dothe things He said in the Sermon on the Mount,

but rather becomingthe sort of Christlike person who does these things naturally.

--Dallas Willard

We long to have our quiet times with God be about more than information ... we are made for

relationship with God and yearn to grow into our true, Christlike selves. The goal of the Christian life is

union with God.

Communication Communion Union

We can know His thoughts, feelings, plans, longings, love, peace, power ...

He is longing to speak to us, share all these things with us ... the only question is whether we will take

the time to open the door, welcome Him in, and receive what He is longing to give us.

In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength --from Isaiah 30:15

No good spiritual fruit is borne outside a relationship with the Father ... this is the giveaway error of

New Age thinking, magic, superstition, witchcraft, and even legalistic or works-based Christianity which

all seek to harness or manipulate divine power without surrendering to His loving Lordship. i.e. If I

believe these things or do these things, then Godhasto act. See Acts 19:13-16 and hear this warning

from Jesus to the Scripture experts of His day:

The Father who sent me has himself testified concerning me. You have never heard his voice nor seen

his form, nor does his word dwell in you, for you do not believe the one he sent. You diligently study theScriptures because you think that by them you possess eternal life. These are the Scriptures that testify

about me, yet you refuse to come to me to have life. John 15:37-40

We conclude then that it is necessary read the Bible, AND also essential to be open to the Holy Spirit

bringing this Word to life in us. He helps us to meet and know Jesus as a Person and thus be transformed

into His likeness. Know the Scriptures AND know Him.

"God has revealed His secret wisdom to us by His Spirit ...

in fact, we have the mind of Christ!" -- from 1 Cor 2:7,10,16.

How can we read our Bibles for transformation, not just information?

Use Matthew 8:5-13 - The Faith of the Centurion, as an example


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Level 1 Knowledge (Facts) Lord, help me to understand this passageWhen and Where does this story take place?

early in Jesus ministry in Galilee, just after the Sermon on the Mount

Who are the major characters and what does each of them do? Roman Centurion asks Jesus to heal his servant Jesus does so remotely

What makes this story remarkable?

Jesus is astonished at this non-Jews example of extraordinary faith

Level 2 Wisdom (Truth) Lord, help me to learn and grow from this passageWhat do we learn from this story in terms of truth (doctrine or belief)?

Jesus was willing to talk to and help God-fearing Gentiles ... in fact, He underscores that because of

their response to Him, they will make it into the Kingdom of Heaven while many Jews will findthemselves on the outside

Words have power. They dont just state truth, but words are expression of His Mind, spiritual

forces which create, heal, and change things

The Centurion understood how authority works and that Jesus has ultimate authority over all creation

What do we learn about this story in terms of how we should live (practice)?

We should have faith in Jesus like the Centurion ... although we might feel like churchy insiders,

unlikely others may be far closer to the Kingdom because of their simple faith

We should expect Gods Word ... or words ... to have life-changing power in our world today.

Level 3 Meeting (Experience, Knowing) & Transformation (Christlikeness)

Lord, help me to know You as the Light of the World (Jn 8:12) ... and to become Your Light in

this world (Mt 5:14).

How does my personal knowing of God or Jesus change through this encounter?

What do you notice, especially about Jesus, as you enter this story imaginatively .... taking the

time to engage this story emotionally?

1) I Notice: Jesus is compassionate, sensitive, understanding, willing to help I Ask: Do I believe that He really cares about my needs or the things that are important to me?

I Pray: Lord Jesus, I choose to believe that you love me, that my needs are Your personal concern, that

You ache for things that I ache for, and that You want to do something about them

Lord, help me to live todaytouch me and change meas someone who expects Your compassion

and goodwill in every moment


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2) I Notice: The Centurion is remarkably caring and compassionate about his servant ... he humbles and

inconveniences Himself to seek Jesus help

I Ask: Do I care about others that deeply?

I Pray: Lord Jesus, help me to care this earnestly for others in my life.

Open my heart to feel your love for the people around me.

3) I Notice: Jesus has a remarkably strong and positive reaction to this mans matter-of-fact expression of

faith ... there is a childlike innocence in the Centurions trust that Jesus really appreciates

I Ask: Do I believe that Jesus could do, would do something like this for me?

I Pray: Lord Jesus, if I am honest, as I look at my heart I have all kinds of reasons, excuses, and

rationalizations for why I shouldnt expect a miracle like this. I feel I am unworthy, a failure, a

disappointment to You, undeserving, etc.

I choose today to believe that You love me, that You want me to be honest about my struggles, to believethat You can do ... that You love to do ... these kinds of miracles today ... for people like me.

Lord, I also know that Your ways are higher than my ways and that I am joining You in something much

bigger than I can understand ... so maybe in Your Sovereign Will, the healing I am longing for

________________is not what You are doing, but I still long to feel what You feel in this situation, and

to know whatever aspect of Your business You can share with me ... Lord, what are You doing here?

4) I Notice: Jesus has a deep loving longing for people to find their way into the banquet of the Kingdom of

Heaven ...He wants everyone (including me?!) me to join Him there!

I Ask: Do I believe that Jesus has a room in His Fathers House for me? ... a place at His banquet

table where I am welcomed and honoured as His Bride?

I Pray: Lord, I confess that I struggle to believe that I am actually this lovable, desirable, valuable to You.

Lord, I do want my motives, attitudes, and desires to be conformed to Yours, including this attitude towards

myself: please help me to see myself (and others) through Your eyes

Please help me to not argue with You today when You say You love me ... and keep me from the arrogance

that comes from pushing myself up in the eyes of others

5) I Notice: ____________________________________________________________________________

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I Ask: ____________________________________________________________________________

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I Pray: _______________________________________________________________________________

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Guidelines for Encountering God in Scripturea great way for most Evangelicals to take first steps in hearing Jesus Voice

1. Decide again today that, as a follower of Jesus, your deepest desires are to know Him, to know His will foryour life, and to be like Him

2. Enter this time with the expectation that He wants to meet with you, reveal something of Himself to you.

3. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you be attentiveto His Presence and receptiveto what He is longing to give you.

4. Begin with passages that are familiar to you. And dont try to cover a lot ... a few verses will usually do.

5. Dont hurry or just dabble in this sacred process. Stretch yourself to remain present to the passage until you

have met God or Jesus and prayed a prayer asking for transformation.

Great stories to begin:

John 2 Jesus changes the water into wine at the wedding in Cana

John 4 Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the wellJohn 5 Jesus heals the man at the pool

John 6 Jesus feeds the 5000 ... etc.

You can also pay attention to Gods thoughts and feelings in OT passages like Jacobs vision of

the ladder (Gen 28:10-22) or Samuels anointing of David (1 Sam 16).

... or even the Psalms, e.g. Psalm 23, Psalm 51

Level 1 Knowledge (Facts) Lord, help me to understand this passageWhen and Where does this story take place?

Who are the major characters and what does each of them do?

What makes this story remarkable?

Level 2 Wisdom (Truth) Lord, help me to learn and grow from this passageWhat do we learn from this story in terms of truth (doctrine or belief)?

What do we learn about this story in terms of how we should live (practice)?

Level 3 Meeting (Experience, Knowing) & Transformation (Christlikeness)

Lord, help me to know You as the Light of the World (Jn 8:12) ... and to become Your Light inthis world (Mt 5:14).

How does my personal knowing of God or Jesus change through this encounter?

What do you notice about Jesus as you enter this story imaginatively .... taking the time to engage

this story emotionally? Reflect Feel NoticeAsk Pray for transformation

(See example on pp.13,14)


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Going Deeper ~ God Present, Active, and LovingA good way to cultivate ongoing awareness of Gods Presence with us is to be attentive to situations

which have already happened, but are still present in our thoughts and emotions.

Take some time to pay attention to your life allow Jesus to reveal how He is walking with you.Notice the ways in which He is Present, Active, and Loving (PAL). Hear His Voice.

This exercise is designed to take you deeper into your life and develop a deeper awareness of His

active, loving Presence. Be sure to pause and turn to Him when you come to the lines in blue.

Think of a situation in which you found yourself this week particularly one connected to

strong emotions. Perhaps something really good and life-giving that brought you joy or

perhaps a darker time that brought frustration, sadness, or anger.

Consider these Questions: Date: ________________________

Facts: What happened? Briefly name or describe the situation.

Choices: What did you like / dislike about the situation? How did you respond?

Pause to remind yourself that this situation occurred in Gods sight. Praise and thank Him if you can.

Thoughts: What ideas, assumptions, strategies, etc. came to mind? Memories or associations?

Feelings: What emotions did you experience? Name the ones that are still with you now.

How do you feel about having these feelings? e.g. ashamed that I felt pleasure, angry that I was sad

Pay attention to deeper attraction and aversion: what draws you to this situation? What repels?

Pause to ask the Holy Spirit to help you see clearly.

Core Values: Using the strong emotions you are experiencing as signs, what can you learn about the

things that are important to you? What does this reveal about the way God has wired you?

What values (e.g. integrity, competence, caring, justice, etc.) connect to this situation for you?

What do you expect of yourself in situations like this? What do you expect from others?


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Motivations & Longings, Fears &Guilt: How does this situation connect to things you do well?

things you struggle with? or are deeply afraid of? Is there some guilt here?

What moved you to action? or freezes you in paralysis?

Is there something here that stirs a deep longing in you?

Choose to believe that everything about this situation is part of His Purpose to build the trust

relationship between you and mature you to be the Christlike person you were created to be.

Your Identity in Jesus Ultimate Meaning:

What might Jesus be doing in this situation?

What part of your True Self is Jesus longing to develop or stretch? What might He be calling you to do?

Where is Jesus in this situation? Near or far? Is He with you or do you feel alone?

How does Jesus feel aboutthe situation?

How do you think Jesus is feeling towardsyou?

Pause to remind yourself of Jesus great love and gentle compassion for His followers.

What might He be saying to you?

Does Jesus want something from you?

What might Jesus be wanting to give you? or longing for you to receive?

What would being open and trusting look like? a deeper surrender? Perhaps accepting a part of

yourself that He loves with which you still struggle?

What do you need Jesus to do for you today?

Share this need with Him. Praise Him and thank Him if you can.


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Recognizing the Voice of God(adapted from Chapter 8 of Willards Hearing God)

How do we know that the message we are hearing is from God?

Obviously if the content is counter to Scripture, then it isnt from Him ... but even if its a direct quote,it could be a satanic misuse of Gods Word, completely contrary to His purposes, e.g. the

temptation of Christ

The closest that Scripture comes to this topic are the instructions to discern the spirits: they must

confess Christ as Lord (1 Cor 12:3) or as the Son of God (1 Jn 4:2-3) ... but actually thats not that

helpful if we are wrestling with topics of vocation or relationships.

If we remember that we are trying to cultivate a relationship rather than master a technique, then the

only answer is by experience ... how do we recognize the other voices in our lives?

The three factors in the voice:

a) quality: tone, pitch, paceb) spirit or mood: the attitudes conveyed in the voice

c) content

Quality

Gods voice has a certain calm, steady, impact on our soul, innermost being ... we notice that we have

already given assent, acknowledgement as we perceive it

We sense the power and His authority

On the other hand, the voice of our own subconscious tries to argue, convince, plead with us

The Voice of God calmly commands or invites us to move toward something good or receive

something good (no arguing, convincing ... it just speaks and it is self-authenticating)

The voice of the enemy tries to badger, threaten, shame, guilt, or fear us away from something bad

Spirit or Mood

Gods voice is typified by a spirit of peacefulness, confidence, joy, freedom, reasonableness and

goodwill ... sometimes tough, but always loving

Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the

humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts,

do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such wisdom does not come down from heaven but is

earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find

disorder and every evil practice.

But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate,

submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. James 3:13-17Content

Words spoken by God will always be consistent with Gods nature and kingdom as clearly expressed in

the Bible ... deep principles such as: God is holy, powerful, loving, gracious, dignifying,

empowering, and freeingHe stands for humanity and justice; God is light; God is love; God is

to be exalted, honoured, glorified; God is humble, sacrificing, serving, laying-down-his-life, etc.

Our safety, security, comfort and success may not be guaranteed ... so beware of any voice that

promises you exemption from suffering


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But what if were mistaken?

We can still trust Gods love for us: He is the loving Shepherd that comes out looking for lost sheep;

the Father who stands at the edge of the field longing for his lost prodigal son. His standards of

loving care for His children are at least as high as the best human parents you know!Dont freeze, just seek to do His will and keep moving forward ... we dont have to be infallible, just

open, desiring to hear, and not resisting.

To him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you before his glorious presence without

fault and with great joy to the only God our Savior be glory, majesty, power and authority, through

Jesus Christ our Lord, before all ages, now and forevermore! Amen. Jude 24,25

The Sorts of Situations God Longs to Address

Brokenness, Bondage, or Obstruction which God might be longing to expose and heal:

o fear, anxiety

o hatred, revenge

o feeling alone or rejected

o feeling guilty or the need to justify

o victimization

o achievement / performance / perfection

o strengths gone wrong: compulsive peace-making, serving others, controlling

o

o

The Help God Longs to Give

The Healing and Redemption which God hopes will be received:

o reassurance, hope

o sympathy, compassion

o

grace, forgiveness. freedomo healing, restoration of wholeness and dignity

o growth, expansion, empowering, embracing new things

o deeper intimacy, trust

o sense of being loved and ability to love

o truth, correction, instruction

o Himself

o

Theology (thinking the right things) and Morality (doing the right things)

are both really important but they are not the MOST IMPORTANT

thing, which is knowing Gods heart, and being one with Him.


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Things God Saysgathered from years of walking with people in their relationship with God

As we listen for His voice, these are the things we are really likely to hear!!

Remember, He is passionate about 3 things: KNOW GROW- SHOW (from p.5)

KNOW Being in Relationship With Us - knowing us ... as friends, sons and daughters (not

hired servants)

o I AM here = I AM with you (Presence)

I hear you

I see you

I AM with you in this situation ... I know what you are feeling, struggling with

You are doing OK ... Keep Going This is what I am feeling for you ... compassion, acceptance, and also a desire to

see you grow, do the healthy thing, etc.

o I know your needs (Provision)

o I will not test you beyond what you can bear (Protection)

o There is meaning in this (Purpose)

Consequence, Dependence, Empathy, Himself

GROW - Maturity - stretching and growing us towards our true, perfect, Christlike selves

o I want you to receive ...

o I want you to see ...o I am inviting or commanding you to ...

hold on to, embrace ...

lay down, let go of ...

give away, pass on ...

o This is what I am longing for you ...

o

SHOW - Partnership inviting us into His Kingdom work

o Go out! Come with Me out into the world

o Have Faith, Believe, Trust in Me!o Say this to so-and-so ...

o This is what I ! "eeling towards so#and#so in this situation ...

o This is what I ! longing "or the$ ...

o This is what I ! going to do ... or what is going to happen ... and this is what I want

you to do ... your part is ...

o


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Exercise: Praying Beyond Petitions

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.

Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even

greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, sothat the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.

Matt 7:7 and John 14:12-14 (repeated twice more inJohn 15:16 and16:23,24)

When we face situations of need, we know we should turn to God for help. For instance, when

someone is having surgery, we ask God for it to go well. If a marriage is in trouble, we ask God to heal

it. If someone is out of work, we ask God to give them a job. If the teachers are on strike, we ask God

to end the strike.

These are all good and appropriate prayers. But God doesnt want to be an arms length vending

machine He wants relationship He wants to stretch us to maturity He wants to redeem the

world and glorify His Name. Adult faith is the invitation to union with Him:

a) to see a situation from Gods perspective

b) to feel what Jesus is feeling

c) to pray the prayers in Jesus Name that the Holy Spirit wants prayed and of course these

are answered because they are perfectly aligned with His will.

1) Think of a situation you are currently praying for.

Name the situation. ________________________________________________________

2) What is the good and obvious petition you have been offering to God: ____________________

________________________________________________________________________________

3) Take a moment to ask what God is feeling towards this situation. Ask to feelthis with Him.

It may be enough that you are willing to do this!!

Perhaps, after decades of walking with Him, you can trust that your feelings and His feelings

toward a situation might be the same?

Can you sense Him askingyouwhat you feel about the situation?

4) Ask Him to share with you anything He wants you to knowabout the situation from His

perspective.

What is the bigger pictureHe may be seeing?

If we think in terms of transformation, growth, redemption, rather than comfort and success,

what might He be doing?

What might He be asking you to prayfor in Jesus Name?

Remember my story of Praying for Maureen: Once I stopped telling God to heal her, and opened

myself to feeling His aching love for her. He showed me the large circle of people around this

beautiful young woman and how His life would shine through her, like a torch being consumed.

The cancer took her body, but with her faith and joy, she defeated the disease in her spirit and

changed the life of everyone who knew her.God will share these spirit eyes with us if we are open to drawing near to Him!


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Cultivating the Daily Habit of Hearing:Attentive Before, During and After

The ultimate goal is to follow Jesus example of a relationship of faithful, loving trust in Godliving

each day being equipped and guided by Him.

Simultaneously being attentive to both the Spirits nudges and other people around us aware of our

own inner state, but not overly self-focused.

I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.

The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God,

who loved me and gave himself for me. Galatians 2:20

To help us live this life, we can be intentionally about doing 2 things each day: prepare beforehand

and reflect afterwards.Athletes who want to improve their game practice beforehand and watch videotapes afterwards.

Good musicians practice their scales and listen to recordings of their performances.

Prepare Attentive at the beginning of the day

daily quiet time with God is not optional for believers

reading Scripture to see Him, meet with Him, know Him better

praying and listening

longing to have our motives, attitudes, and longings conformed to His

recommitting ourselves to a relationship with Him that makes adifference in everyday moments of our life, e.g. the groceries of the

stranger standing beside us spill out onto the floor

Live attentive to God throughout the day

cultivating the ability to hear in the midst of the busyness

Reflect attentive to God in hindsight

recognizing when you have been guided and stopping to give praiseand thanksgiving in the midst of life

reflecting at the end of the day on where He was (the Examen)

Prepare ~ Live ~ Reflect


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Appendix: Spiritual Health ~ Consolation and DesolationQuite distinct from our exterior circumstances and inner life of our thoughts and emotions, we also

have a spiritual life: our soul, our innermost being. Over the centuries, Spiritual Directors have

gathered some language which helps us to understand the holy ground of our inner walk with God, andwhat is happening there. This is a way to be attentive to the sacred space of our spiritual beingwho

is calling us? what is pushing us? what is God doing? As always, our goal is to paying attention to

what the Lord is doing there, in order that we can respond to Him, trust Him, and choose His ways.

We want to get beyond thoughts & theological propositions, beyond feelings & emotions, to those

inner movements, remaking, or nudgings of the Spirit: clear and noticeable; significant yet subtle;

arising organically within us, not manufactured by us noticed, not created; discovered, not invented.

Im noticing that this is now true within me Something has changed This has shifted

In this season of life, would you say you are closer to(mark with an X on the scale)

DesolationA sense of either being blocked and crushed

or driven, chased and pressured

Feeling hemmed in, not free; vision

obstructed or clouded; we forget Gods

perspective or that He even exists

Stuck in a rut drained of energy

Focus is turned in on ourselves; sense of

being alone and separated from others

A sense of confusion, being upset and

contentious hope, joy, and love seem to

be slipping away more than just our owncircumstances not going well, we seem

disconnected from God; He seems absent,

silent

Tears of despair and frustration struggle

to keep going

Sense of guilt, blamed, accused

hopelessly stuck in Im a bad person

Metaphor: falling water splattering off a

stone

Response in a season of Desolation:Though uncomfortable for us, God has good purposes in thesetimes. Practice patience as you continue to trust in the

Lords love and ask for His provision

Intentionally resist the enemys accusations

Defend the weak points of your life that lead to desolation

Not a good time to make big decisions. Seek companionship

in community for discernment

Avoid secretiveness and dealing with this onyour ownfind someone able and trustworthy tospeak with, e.g. aPastor or Spiritual Director known in your community

ConsolationA sense of being drawn, invited, or moving

forward

Feeling free and spacious with broad

horizons; seeing new possibilities and

sharing Gods perspective

New ideas, inspiration, and energy well up

Able to focus outside, beyond yourself and

being connected to others in community

A sense of peace, joy, hope, connectedness

to God not so much happiness that

things are going well in your little world,but something deeper being a part of

something bigger

Tears of deep appreciation for Gods

activity in your life

Sorrow for sin, remorse & repentance; I am

falling short, but want to do better!

Metaphor: water surrounding a sponge and

gently saturating it

Response in a season of Consolation:Celebrate with gratitude

Practice humility, not self exaltation

Turn to long term planning or large decisions

Reflect on patterns in your life which might lead to

desolation and develop strategies to recognize and

counter them.

Again, consider working with a Spiritual Director

Source: Silf, M. Inner Compass. Loyola Press, 1999


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Stopping, Turning, and Drawing Near to Him Where Are You?

Created in His image, even in our fallenness we long

to meet Him face to face, and know His Thoughts

to be accepted for who we are

opening our lives to be guided by our Good Shepherd

and be transformed into the likeness of our beloved Jesus

Our Goal in the Journey of Listening is not to arrive at the right destination,

but to stay close to our Companion Who Knows Best.

A Prayer for Approaching God

O God, You are my Beloved,

and in You alone

does my soul find rest

You are my rock,

my salvation,

my fortress

My soul thirsts for You,

Let me never be shaken

Because Your steadfast love is life to me,

my lips will praise You,

and I come seeking You now

Longing to be like You,

I will radiate Your love

as long as I live

Becoming a blessing to others,

in gratitude to You.

Based on Psalm 62 and adapted

from Nan C. Merril.

Psalms for Praying: An Invitation to Wholeness.

Where are you in this picture?

where is God?

Psalm 62 by Anneke Kai; Acrylic on Plexiglas

The Psalms, An Artists Impression; Piquant, 1999


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Helpful Books:

Biblical Spirituality An Intimate Relationship with God

Barton, Ruth Haley. Invitation to Solitude and Silence Experiencing Gods Transforming Presence.

IVP Books, 2004.

Barton, Ruth Haley. Sacred Rhythms Arranging Our Lives For Spiritual Transformation. IVP Books,

2006.

Curtis, Brent & John Eldridge. The Sacred Romance Drawing Closer to the Heart of God. Thomas

Nelson Publishers, 1997.

deCaussade, Jean Pierre. The Sacrament of the Present Moment. Harper Collins, 1966.

Jersak, Brad. Can You Hear Me? Tuning in to the God Who Speaks. Kregel Publishing, 2009.

Lawrence, Brother. Practicing the Presence of God. Whitaker House, 1982.

Manning, Brennan. The Furious Longing of God. David C. Cook Publishing, 2010.

Nouwen, Henri J.M.. The Way of the Heart. Ballentine Books, 1981.

Nouwen, Henri J.M.. The Only Necessary Thing Living a Prayerful Life. The Crossroad Publishing

Company, 1999.

Rohr, Richard. Things Hidden Scripture as Spirituality. St Anthony Messenger Press, 2007.

Rohr, Richard. Falling Upward A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life. Jossey-Bass, 2011.

Roy, Denise. My Monastery is My Minivan Where the Daily is Divine and the Routine Becomes

Prayer. Loyola Press, 2001.Willard, Dallas. Hearing God Developing a Conversational Relationship With God. IVP Books,

1999.

Willard, Dallas. Renovation of the Heart Putting On The Character of Christ. NavPress, 2002.

Discernment Knowing the Will of God

deYoung, Kevin. Just Do Something A Liberating Approach to Finding Gods Will. Moody, 2009.

Smith, Gordon T. The Voice of Jesus Discernment, Prayer and the Witness of the Spirit. InterVarsity

Press, 2003.

Are you hungry for change in your life?

I would love to discuss a continuing relationship with you in either:

Spiritual Direction (joining you in paying attention to your walk with God) or

Whole Life Coaching (facilitating your steps towards positive change with God at the center).

You can reach me at 604-266-7446 or [email protected]


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Examen ExercisesFor Paying Attention to Gods Presence at the End of a Day

The Consciousness Examen adapted from SoulStream www.soulstream.orgDont make up answers. Let them emerge, even if only one thing seems significant.

Thanksgiving What was life-giving today? For what things am I most grateful?

Where did I experience love, beauty, truth, peace, honesty, courage, etc.?

When did I feel close to You? Notice Your love towards me?

Honesty About My Choices What was life-draining today?

Were there times when I was closed to You? Avoiding You? Resisting You? What choices or habits have been keeping me from living in the full freedom of Your love?

Trust in Gods Loving InitiativeGracious Spirit, I believe You are here with me and that You love me.

I open my heart to You. Help me to trust You.

Please lead me into greater freedom and dependence on You as You live in me tomorrow.

The Jesuit Examination of Conscienceadapted from Through All the Days of Life, by Fr. Nick Schiro, S.J.

Thanksgiving Lord, I realize that, even myself, is a gift from You.

Today, for what things am I most grateful?

Intention Lord, open my eyes and ears to be more honest with myself.

Today, what do I really want for myself?

Examination Lord, show me what has been happening to me and in me this day.

Today, in what ways have I experienced Your love?Contrition

Lord, I am still learning to grow in Your love.

Today, what choices have been inadequate responses to Your love?

Hope Lord, let me look with longing to the future.

Today, how will I let You lead me to a brighter tomorrow?

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