Colleen Madden. © 2015 Lions Clubs International Foundation. All rights reserved.

3.3.1 DiscoveringActivity

When are YOU

sometimes like a pot of water?

anger excitementfear

jealousyjoy

sadness

frustrationshame

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connecting Activity What, When, Why, and

How Messages3.3.2

• What—Name the feeling. I feel

• When—Explain what behavior isbothering you. When you

• Why—Describe why you arefeeling this way. Because I

• How (optional)—State how youwould like the other person tobehave that will better meet yourneeds. I wish/I want/It will help if

What, When, Why, and How Messages…

• help speakers share theirthoughts and emotions honestly.

• show respect for everyone’sfeelings.

• do not blame another person forcausing someone else’s feelings.

• discuss another person’sbehavior respectfully withoutname calling.

• offer a way to improvea situation.