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/.1) 5(p55 A 'flP'-- ft•. 380 -1 '-0 C.J., A BASIC TRAINING GUIDE FOR New 4-H Parents & Volunteers Involved with Livestock Projects Virginia fllTech VIrginia Cooperative Extension Publication 380-120 Reprinted 2000 VIRGINIA POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE AND STATE UNIVERSITY VIRGINIA STATE UNIVERSITY *18 U.S.C. 707
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/.1) 5(p55 A 'flP'--ft•. 380 -1 '-0

C.J.,

• A BASIC TRAINING GUIDE FOR

New 4-H Parents & Volunteers Involved with Livestock Projects

Virginia fllTech •

VIrginia Cooperative Extension

Publication 380-120 Reprinted 2000

VIRGINIA POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE AND STATE UNIVERSITY VIRGINIA STATE UNIVERSITY

*18 U.S.C. 707

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A Basic 'fraining Guide for New 4-H Parents & Volunteers Involved with Livestock Projects

Prepared by: E. Wayne Compton, Extension Specialist, 4-H Youth, Virginia Tech

Table of Contents Page

4-H Philosophy

Developmental Characteristics and Programming Implications Sequential 4-H Curricula System

The 4-H System Experiential Education How People Learn Cone of Experience

Basic Human Needs Adults Influence Youth

4-H Livestock Projects Should Teach Life Skills Ten Commandments for Parents

A Few Thoughts For The Day

Sources

1

1

5

8

9

10

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4-H Philosophy

4-H is the youth development education program of Virginia Cooperative Extension. 4-H is committed to assisting youth, and those adults working with them, in acquiring the knowledge, life skills, and attitudes that will enable them to become self-directing, contributing and productive members of society. The central theme of 4-H education is "learn by doing."

4-H participants are all youth, age 5 to 19, taking part in programs provided as the result of actions planned and initiated by Extension personnel in cooperation with vol­unteers. 4-H is characterized as being community cen­tered, volunteer led, extension staff supervised, research based, home and family oriented, publicly and privately funded, and responsive to change.

This non-formal education program is conducted by our state land-grant universities (Virginia Tech and Vir­ginia State), the U.S. Department of Agriculture, and local governments. The land-grant university system consists of teaching, research, and Extension education. The Cooperative Extension Service was established by the Smith-Lever Act of 1914 for the purpose of serving the needs of people throughout the state and nation.

Extension 4-H programs are a partnership involving local residents, volunteers, private support, three levels of government, and universities. 4-H is the only nationwide youth education program that is an extension of the knowledge resources of a university system.

Developmental Characteristics and Programming Implications

Satisfaction from participation in 4-H is based on matching the degree and level of involvement to the needs and readiness of the boy or girl. All people have certain needs throughout life while other needs arise at different stages of development. Needs and readiness evolve from maturation and experience. Physical, cognitive, social, and emotional development are dependent upon matura­tion and sequential learning experiences.

Although each individual matures at his/her own pace, the order varies very little and the transition from one stage of development to the next is gradual. Understanding characteristics and needs at different developmental stages is important to planning 4-H learning opportunities to promote progressive acquisition of subject matter infor­mation and life skills. This understanding is important for all salaried and volunteer staff.

The following "Developmental Characteristics and Program Implications" schema gives a brief summary of developmental characteristics and programming implica­tions. It is designed to be read two ways, down for a composite picture of each age group in physical, cogni­tive, social, and emotional development and across for sequential examples of maturation and programming im­plications.

"The Sequential4-H Curricula System" which follows the schema outlines how different curriculum compo­nents can provide sequential experiences appropriate for different 4-H age groups.·

The mission of Virginia 4-H is to assist youth, and adults working with those youth, to gain additional knowledge, life skills, and attitudes that will further their development as

self-directing, contributing, and productive members of society.

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men

tal C

hara

cter

istic

s an

d P

rogr

am Im

plic

atio

ns-S

chem

a C

hild

ren

and

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th 9

-19

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dine

ss d

eter

min

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y m

atur

atio

n an

d ex

peri

ence

s B

asic

nee

ds

to e

xper

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posi

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sel

f-co

ncep

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exp

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nce

succ

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to b

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crea

sing

ly i

ndep

ende

nt

to d

evel

op a

nd a

ccep

t one

s ow

n id

enti

ty

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ors

9-11

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w st

eady

gro

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for m

ost.

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erty

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r som

e gi

rls

usua

lly

acco

mpa

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a gr

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spu

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rem

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activ

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urs s

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rn o

ver b

ody

chan

ges.

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an a

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ips

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lan

for

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ter a

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iffe

rent

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eres

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ump

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one

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g to

ano

ther

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to s

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ork

clos

ely

to h

ave

them

reco

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as th

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appe

n. H

elp

refl

ect b

ack

and

set n

ew

goal

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nned

iate

s 12

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in p

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atur

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girl

s m

ay h

ave

appe

aran

ce o

f yo

ung

wom

en,

som

e bo

ys w

ill

not

have

ent

ered

pub

erty

. G

row

th s

purt

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ay c

ause

cl

umsi

ness

. M

uch

conc

ern

abou

t ch

angi

ng b

odie

s.

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rest

ed in

gro

omin

g, b

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roba

bly

won

't a

dmit

it.

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ude

lear

ning

exp

erie

nces

re

late

d to

un

ders

tand

ing

self

and

the

cha

nges

tak

ing

plac

e.

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vide

opp

ortu

niti

es f

or a

cqui

ring

go

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room

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habi

ts.

Mos

t hav

e m

oved

from

con

cret

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mor

e ab

stra

ct th

inki

ng.

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y en

joy

play

ing

wit

h id

eas.

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dult

sho

uld

prov

ide

supe

rvis

ion

wit

hout

do

min

atio

n. A

llow

them

to d

iscu

ss id

eas

and

conc

erns

in s

mal

l gro

ups.

Val

ues,

just

ice,

and

equ

alit

y im

port

ant i

ssue

s-ca

n be

com

e ve

ry i

nten

se. T

hey

wan

t to

be s

ure

thin

gs b

oth

in a

nd o

ut

of 4

-H a

re ju

dged

fair

ly.

Hel

p th

em u

nder

stan

d sc

orin

g pr

oces

s use

d in

4-

H.

Arr

ange

for

dis

cuss

ing

valu

es, j

usti

ce,

and

equa

lity

as

they

rel

ate

to a

var

iety

of

issu

es.

Intr

oduc

e th

e co

ncep

t o

f pe

rson

al

valu

es.

2 )

Seni

ors

14-1

9

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y ch

ange

s hav

e be

en a

ccep

ted

by m

ost,

som

e co

ntin

ue

to s

trug

gle.

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ivid

ual t

alen

ts a

nd a

bili

ties

em

erge

. B

e se

nsit

ive

to l

ate

deve

lope

rs,

help

the

m

feel

the

y ar

e 0

K.

Pro

vide

opp

ortu

niti

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hel

p re

cogn

ize

thei

r sp

ecia

l tal

ents

and

abili

ties.

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vidu

al c

ouns

el

is g

ood

-hi

ghli

ght t

alen

ts a

nd s

kill

s.

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teri

ng a

bstr

act t

hink

ing.

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inte

ract

on

adul

t lev

el.

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inni

ng to

pla

n fo

r th

eir

futu

re.

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ud

e ca

reer

ed

uca

tio

n

incl

ud

ing

op

port

unit

ies

to re

sear

ch c

aree

rs. E

ncou

rage

se

ttin

g

care

er g

oal

s an

d

pla

nn

ing

to

ac

com

plis

h go

als.

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nifi

cant

mor

al g

row

th,

diff

icul

ty

unde

rsta

ndin

g co

mpr

omis

e. O

ften

thin

k so

ciet

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mad

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of a

bun

ch

of h

ypoc

rite

s.

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tinu

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port

unit

ies

for

unde

rsta

ndin

g ho

w v

alue

s ar

e ac

quir

ed a

nd th

e im

port

ance

o

f a se

t of p

erso

nal v

alue

s. P

rom

ote d

iscu

ssio

n an

d ac

tion

rel

ated

to c

urre

nt is

sues

.

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Juni

ors

9-11

App

rova

l fro

m le

ader

s an

d pa

rent

s is

impo

rtan

t. W

ant t

o kn

ow h

ow m

uch

they

hav

e im

prov

ed a

nd h

ow th

ey c

an d

o be

tter

nex

t tim

e.

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divi

dual

eva

luat

ion,

sug

gest

way

s to

im

prov

e.

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pari

son

wit

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cces

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is d

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pari

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an

d

pre

sen

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man

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phas

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ls.

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each

ers.

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ncou

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tee

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ring

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nn

edia

tes

12-1

3

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ende

nce

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hift

s to

depe

nden

ce

on th

e op

inio

ns o

f pee

rs.

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see

k pe

er r

ecog

niti

on.

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ogni

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as h

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row

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elp

pare

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unde

rsta

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is a

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in h

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ones

cre

ate

moo

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ings

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tim

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acti

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port

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cour

age,

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min

ate.

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l im

port

ant

to a

void

com

pari

ng w

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teen

s.

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ing

tow

ard

mor

e in

depe

nden

ce.

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t to

pla

n ow

n ac

tivi

ties

and

exp

lore

bey

ond

a co

mm

unit

y.

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ter

at

plan

ning

than

car

ryin

g ou

t the

pla

n.

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lve

mem

bers

in

plan

ning

. H

elp

them

de

velo

p re

alis

tic

plan

s an

d th

en

prov

ide

nece

ssar

y gu

idan

ce f

or

com

plet

ion

and

eval

uati

on.

Pla

n ac

tivi

ties

be

yond

the

co

mm

unit

y.

3

Seni

ors

14-1

9

Opi

nion

s o

f pee

rs r

emai

n im

port

ant b

ut s

elf-

reco

gnit

ion

of

acco

mpl

ishm

ents

is a

lso

impo

rtan

t. B

ecom

ing

mor

e in

depe

nden

t, ac

quir

ing

valu

es a

nd s

etti

ng g

oals

. A

dult

s ne

ed to

con

tinu

e to

giv

e su

ppor

t an

d gu

idan

ce d

urin

g th

is p

erio

d w

hen

teen

s ar

e m

akin

g se

riou

s de

cisi

ons.

Uns

ettl

ed e

mot

ions

caus

e th

em to

be

stor

my

or w

ithd

raw

n at

tim

es, b

ut w

ill u

sual

ly p

ride

sel

f on

incr

ease

d ab

ility

to

be r

espo

nsib

le.

Con

sist

ent t

reat

men

t fro

m a

dult

s is i

mpo

rtan

t ev

en th

ough

som

e w

ill a

ct li

ke a

dult

s one

day

an

d ch

ildr

en th

e ne

xt.

Pro

vide

opp

ortu

niti

es

to u

se s

peci

al ta

lent

s.

Man

y ca

n pl

an a

nd in

tera

ct o

n th

e ad

ult l

evel

. C

an in

itia

te

and

carr

y ou

t ta

sks

such

as

rese

arch

ing

area

of

spec

ial

inte

rest

wit

hout

muc

h ad

ult

supe

rvis

ion.

A

chie

ving

in

depe

nden

ce a

nd i

dent

ity

impo

rtan

t go

als

for

this

age

. A

chie

ving

sat

isfa

ctor

y ad

just

men

ts

to

sexu

alit

y an

d de

fini

tion

of

care

er g

oals

are

im

port

ant

fact

ors

of th

ese

goal

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ome

an a

dvis

or, l

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en p

lan

and

assu

me

resp

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pr

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us, if

pro

gram

s ar

e fi

lled

wit

h bu

sy

wor

k te

ens

will

los

e pa

tien

ce a

nd in

tere

st.

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The 4-H System

Experiential Education

Learning by doing, the key concept of experiential education, has been central to 4-H since its beginning. The process puts the focus on the learner and enables her/him to process through several stages.

4. Performance

Experiential Learning Process

1. Goal setting establishing desired objectives is impor­tant to all age groups. Goals may be adjusted after each step.

the testing takes many forms though all allow individuals to be assessed on the level of their knowledge or proficiency.

2. Cognition the learning of facts, gaining knowledge for later applica­tion.

Practice the hands-on application of what has been learned results in enhanced understanding and greater retention.

Experiential learning takes place when a person is involved in an activity, looks back and evaluates it, determines what was useful or important to remember, and uses this information to perform another activity.

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How People Learn

People learn in many ways through their five senses: sight, learning, smelling, taste and touch or feeling. People retain more of what they learn if they are actively involved in the educational process compared to reading a book or listening to a lecture.

Retention Rate

READ ... 20%

HEAR ... 20%

SEE ... 30%

HEAR & SEE ... 50%

SAY ... 70%

Do ... 90%

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Cone of Experience

Teaching Methods and Techniques

Actual Methods and Techniques

Working with models

Judging- Dramatic participation

Discussions

Demonstrations

Field Trips- Tours

Exhibits - Displays

Movies

Slides - Filmstrips

Radio - Recordings Still Pictures

Illustrated Talks Charts, Graphs Posters, Maps

Effectiveness of Learning Increases as One Moves Up

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Doing

Seeing

Listening

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Basic Needs All young people have basic needs such as belonging, acceptance, security, achievement, independence and recognition.

Parents and volunteers need to recognize and capitalize on the basic needs of children as they provide leadership, support and training through the 4-H program.

Belonging "I'm in."

Acceptance "What I do and say counts."

Security "I feel safe."

Achievement "I can do it."

Independence "I can do it by myself."

Recognition "Others recognize me."

Adults Influence Youth Adults (parents and volunteers) always have tremendous influence on youth. That influence will be either positive or

negative. The objective would always be to provide a positive environment and influence on youth as we provide leadership support and training through the 4-H youth development program.

Adults who influence youth will hopefully help them to:

Become responsible

Learn to share

Help others

Learn life skills

Appreciate friendship

Find out about self

Set meaningful goals and find ways to achieve them

Learn things

Develop leadership skills

Take pride in what they are doing

Learn how to get along

Try new things

Accept recognition graciously

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4-H Livestock Projects Should Teach Life Skills

It seems that far too often we place way too much emphasis on winning and losing at 4-H livestock shows.

Unfortunately, many times adults consider a 4-H live­stock project a failure if their son or daughter does not win. There are many benefits that our youth are gaining from participation in livestock projects and shows.

Ideally 4-H livestock projects should be family affairs. If the right percentage of time and energy is spent by youngsters and parents together, these projects can help our young people learn the basic life skills and eventually help them develop into better citizens. If the percentage gets out of hand, we see a group of spoiled kids, whose parents are sore if they don't win, who are constantly criticizing the judge, and who try every trick possible to win.

Very few 4-H livestock projects are economically sound; however, neither is having children and paying for band lessons, taking them to summer recreation programs, buying them bicycles and paying for other youth activi­ties. If a parent's goal is for a child to make money, investing in a savings account is less risky than investing in a 4-H livestock project. However, if a parent's goal is to invest in the future and to help their son or daughter develop as a person, learn responsibility, set goals, and gain some knowledge about livestock production, then 4-H livestock projects are a low-cost investment.

Let's keep these shows in proper perspective. They are not beef shows, swine shows, or sheep shows; they are kids shows. The animal is simply the ticket for the youngster to take part.

Through school, university extension and other educa­tional units, we constant! y hear of improved teaching tools to better equip our young people for life. The 4-H livestock projects are one of the oldest and greatest tools we have to teach our youth life skills.

Following are the 6 life skills which Virginia's 4-H program has identified as the reasons why 4-H programs are offered to Virginia's youth.

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1. Acquiring, analyzing, and using information: for youth to learn how to gather, understand, and use livestock project information so that a project is successfully completed.

2. Problem-solving and decision-making: for youth to set goals and to identify the logical steps necessary to manage their livestock projects.

3. Managing resources: for youth to manage their time, financial, and other resources to meet their project goals.

4. Understanding self: Youth, through a livestock project, will build self-confidence, develop a positive attitude, and accept responsibility.

5. Communicating and relating to others: For youth to improve their listening, speaking, and writing skills so they can interact with others in a positive manner.

6. Working with others: for youth to work with others to accomplish and to accept group goals.

Ten Commandments for Parents of Youngsters Showing Livestock Prepared by Dr. Clyde Lane, University of Tennessee

1. Thou shalt not feed, train, and care for the animal for thou art trying to teach the child responsibility.

2. Thou shalt forgive a child for making mistakes in the show ring for thou hath made mistakes too.

3. Thou shalt not get mad when thy child forgets items in the show box, for one day thou may forget the show box.

4. Thou shalt help the show management for they are doing a job that thou would not want to do.

5. Thou shalt see that thy child is on time for all show ring activities for thou should not want to wait on another.

6. Thou shalt be sure that thy child has the animals entered and the registration papers in order by the designated time.

7. Thou shalt teach thy child that winning a blue ribbon is a desirable goal but making friends along the way is a more worthy goal.

8. Thou shalt not complain about the judge, for it is his opinion that has been sought.

9. Thou shalt not forget that livestock projects are teaching projects, not necessarily money­making projects.

10. Thou shalt remember that the livestock project is a family project that shall be enjoyed and supported by the entire family.

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A Few Thoughts for the Day

The best way for children to believe they are winners is for them to see themselves winning. Catch them doing something right. The only way to raise positive kids is to start by becoming a positive parent. You are what you are and where you are because of what has gone into your mind. We need to let our children know that we understand, that we're there, that we love and support them. We fail our children if we say, "don't do as I do, but do as I say." Total success is an attainable goal. Motivation is something you do on a regular basis. When we do more than we are paid to do, eventually we will be paid more for what we do. It is never too late to do the right thing. Rules are important, but example is best. You never know when a moment and a few sincere words can have an impact on a life. When we deal with our children, we must remember that they are children. Unconditional love is loving a person without any prior conditions. Successful parents raising positive kids need to "see" their kids as finished, competent, positive adults. The disciplined person is the one who does what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Real love demands you do what is best for your children and not always what is easiest for you. Many of us spend half our time wishing for things we could have if we didn't spend half our time wishing. Let children know by the way you treat them that you are glad they are who they are. The more children like themselves the more they like to behave themselves. Big shots are little shots who keep on shooting. Issue a challenge to children to achieve excellence. Feedback is the breakfast of champions. Anything worth doing does not have to be done perfectly. Achieving good performance is a journey not a destination. People who produce good results feel good about themselves. Only positive consequences encourage good future performance. Love can do what nothing else can.

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Sources Adkins, Peggy, et al, "Training Trainers to Teach," University of Georgia, 1990 Barret, J. David, "4-H Handbook: A Guide for Extension Faculty," Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State

University, 1992. Wahlberg, Mark, "Recommended Rules for Virginia 4-H Livestock Show and Sale Events," Virginia Polytech­

nic Institute and State University, 1992.

Virginia Cooperative Extens ion programs and e mployment are open to all , regardless of race, co lor, religion . sex, age, veteran status. national origin. di sability , or political affi liation . An equa l opportunity/affirmative action employer. Issued in furtherance of Cooperative Extension work. Virginia Polytechnic Ins titute and State University. Virg inia State Un iversity, and the U.S.

Department of Agricu lture cooperating. J. David Barrett. Director. Virgini a Cooperati ve Ex te ns io n. Virginia Tech, Blacksburg ; Lorenza W. Lyons. Administrator. 1890 Extension Progra m,

Virg inia State, Petersburg.

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