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2014 Retreat Offering—Save the date!

29th Annual Conference

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Series Offerings:

The EnneagramWomen Leaders in Scripture

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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2014

920 Market Street • La Crosse, WI 54601 • 608-791-5295 • www.FSCenter.org

In this Issue:

Dedicated to anyone seeking God, meaning and wholeness.

Fr a nc i s c a nSpirituality Center

Exploring Relationships through the Enneagram

Dates: January 24-25, 2014 Friday, 7-9 p.m. & Saturday 9-4 p.m.Registration Deadline: January 17

The Enneagram and Your Spiritual Path

Dates: February 28-March 1, 2014 Friday, 7-9 p.m. & Saturday 9-4 p.m.Registration Deadline: February 21

his year, the Franciscan Spirituality

Center is offering two unique weekend

sessions for individuals interested in self-

awareness. Each session will help you learn

how to build better relationships and discover a

deeper spiritual life.

The Enneagram is a system of personality

typology that combines psychology and

spirituality to achieve an understanding of

oneself or others. It is an invaluable tool for

understanding why we do the things we do and

feel the way we feel.

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‘‘We must learn to move beyond

self-centeredness to make room

within ourselves for others.

When you transcend yourself,

the fact will be confirmed by the

quality of your life.”

- Don Richard Riso

Program Presenters:

Rosalie Hooper Thomas, FSPA

Affiliate (rthomas@fspa.org)

Marci Madary, FSPA Affiliate (mmadary@fspa.org)

The Essential Enneagram by David Daniels & Virginia Price

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Franciscan Spirituality Center920 Market Street, La Crosse, WI 54601608-791-5295FSCenter@fspa.org • www.FSCenter.org

Identity

Franciscan Spirituality Center is a sacred place that welcomes everyone. We are rooted in the Gospels and sponsored by the Franciscan Sisters of Perpetual Adoration.

Mission

The Franciscan Spirituality Center is dedicated to supporting anyone in their search for God, meaning and wholeness.

We live this mission because we believe:

• In each of us lives the Sacred.

• We need each other to recognize and honor that part of ourselves.

• Responding to spiritual hunger is necessary for growth, healing and peace.

• As we grow in wholeness, we contribute to the healing of all creation.

Core Values

In keeping with the tradition of our Franciscan founders, we hold these core values:

Sacredness: Believe that in every person and all creation lives the Sacred.

Respect: Acknowledge the dignity, diversity and worth of each person as a unique image of God.

Community: Through prayer, empathy and sharing, create a safe, peaceful place.

Hospitality: Welcome all with compassion, acceptance and celebration.

Professionalism: Commit to competence, quality, trust and personal spiritual development.

What We Do

The Franciscan Spirituality Center guides and directs processes for prayer and offers personal presence to anyone on their sacred journey as co-creators of a just and peaceful world. The Center offers individual and group spiritual direction, guided and preached retreats, day-long programs and events. Staff is available for off-site workshops, presentations and programs.

At the CenterArticles 2 Director’s Column 3 Spirited Friends - Monthly Giving 5 What is a Retreat? 9 29th Annual Conference

January/February Offerings 4 2014 Retreat Offerings 6 January/February Offerings 8 Series Offerings

News & Happenings10 Body, Mind and Spirit11 Spiritual Direction

Preparation Program12 New Board Members12 Saying our Goodbyes

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Holiday Gift Certificates for LessGive the gift of peace and prayer this holiday season with a gift certificate

to the FSC. Friends, family and loved ones will enjoy and appreciate the simplicity of a gift card. This offer expires on Dec. 31, 2013, but the gift certificates

are good for one year from the time of purchase and can be used toward programs and retreats at the Franciscan Spirituality Center.

$25 gift certificates for only $20 $50 gift certificate for only $40

$100 gift certificate for only $80

Find these new titles:

Stitches: A handbook on meaning, hope and repair by Anne Lamott

Evolutionary Enlightenment: A New Path to Spiritual Awakening by Andrew Cohen

Seeking with All My Heart by Paula D’Arcy

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8The Enneagram

‘‘Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging

can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.” ~ Brené Brown

11Spiritual Direction Preparation Program

One of the first lessons I learned in the graduate community health education program at the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse is that the definition of wellness was not what I thought.

To be healthy or well includes other factors besides the state of our physical health. The quality of our relationships, our sense of purpose and meaning, and our spirit are equally important and need attention if we are to be well. The movement to a more holistic healthcare model in recent years recognizes this important fact.

The Franciscan Spirituality Center isn’t in the business of giving flu shots or performing surgery, yet we do actively work to promote wellness in body, mind and spirit. For example, a 12-step group for those living with depression has met weekly for years at the FSC. Yoga and other gentle exercise classes promote good breathing, flexibility and stress reduction.

Our trained spiritual directors compassionately support you without judgment and with careful listening while you come to an understanding of your life experiences. In a noisy and hectic world, during the change of the seasons, the Franciscan Day of Solitude provides a peaceful time for you to experience silence, rest, prayer and reflection.

Our Enneagram workshops promote healthy relationships at home and work through deeper self-awareness and understanding of personality types. We work to support personal relationships with monthly gatherings for parents and an annual celebration of marriage around Valentine’s Day.

Perhaps you’ve thought of the Center as being like a neighborhood church. It is true that our motivation comes from the Gospel. Like our Franciscan founders, we want to help bring about that abundant life promised by Christ here on earth to every human being. There is no religious requirement or expectation for coming to this wellness center, though. All are welcome with recognition of the sacred in all of us.

If you haven’t been to the Center for a while, we hope you will make us part of your New Year’s plan. And, write a prescription for the spiritual health of a friend by bringing them with you to a program or retreat!

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In September the director of the FSC, Jeff Dols, resigned. Jeff incorporated both a deep Franciscan spirituality and impressive business skills in his leadership of the FSC. We are grateful to him for his dedication and accomplishments, among them a strategic plan to guide the Board and staff. Jeff recruited me to join the staff of the FSC almost two years ago, and I am honored to follow him as the new director.

Peace and all good,

Audrey Quanrud, FSC Director and Progran Coordinator

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Mary KnutsonReceptionist & Hospitality

Emily StricklerMarketing Communications

Coordinator

Rosalie Hooper Thomas, FSPA Affiliate

Spiritual Director

Amy Taylor FSPA Retreat Coordinator

DarleneWozneyFSPA Affiliate Hospitality

Steve SpildeSpiritual Director

Zoua VueReceptionist & Hospitality

Audrey QuanrudFSC Director

Program Coordinator

Barb KruseSpiritual Director

Here’s to your spiritual health!F R O M T H E D I R E C T O R

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Staff

“We awaken one day to find that the sacred center is here and now—

in every moment of the journey, everywhere in the world around us,

and deep within our own hearts.” ~ Parker Palmer, Let Your Life Speak

Linda KerriganFSPA Affiliate

Spiritual Director

Jenny Ehlke-WalterOffice Manager

Friends

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Community Prayer is every Wednesday from 11:30-noon.We will “listen with the ear of the heart” to the Gospel for the coming Sunday and pray for the needs of the world, our community and each other. All are welcome, please join us.

Is Spiritual Direction for Me? This information session on January 8 at 5:30 p.m. is for those who want to know more about the spiritual direction options at the Franciscan Spirituality Center.

Evening Contemplative Prayer is the first and third Tuesday each month from 5:30-6:30 p.m. We provide the opportunity to experience prayerful silence in community. All are welcome, join us.

Depressed Anonymous is a 12-step group where people dealing with depression can generate positive energies, form friendships and find support. Meets every Monday from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Call Vince Hatt at 608-386-7551 for more information. Freewill offering accepted.

Return & Recovery for Military Veterans Program of A4TH invites veterans and loved ones to the FSC on Tuesdays from 1-4 p.m. January 21 and February 18 for free expressive art and support. Come and discover a unique way to treat PTSD and other mental health conditions in a welcoming and peaceful space with counselors, artists, mentors and other veterans who have shared experiences.

Enneagram Study Group is a discussion group for those interested in using the Enneagram to explore their spiritual life and relationships with family, friends and co-workers. The group meets monthly on the second Wednesday from 5:15-7 p.m. Freewill offering accepted.

Drumming Circle meets the second Thursday of the month from 5:30-6:30 p.m. This group explores drumming as a form of prayer. Interspersed with drumming, we share stories and reflections.

Bring your favorite drum. Freewill offering accepted.

Conversations that Matter is a men’s group that provides the opportunity to dialogue with other men on issues that matter in their lives. This group meets twice a month on either Tuesday or Wednesday evening from 7-9 p.m. Call Vince Hatt at 608-386-7551 for more information.

Saturday Morning Men’s Group enjoys coffee and muffins while discussing a current book related to spirituality. This group meets the third Saturday of the month from 9-11 a.m. Call Vince Hatt at 608-386-7551 for book information.

Q. Who are the Spirited Friends?A. Spirited Friends make a monthly gift to

help sustain the ministry of the Franciscan Spirituality Center.

Q. How does this giving program work?A. You decide on a monthly gift amount that

fits your budget. You authorize your bank to transfer this amount from your checking account directly to FSPA for the FSC.

Spirited Friends is an easy and efficient way for you to make a monthly gift

and provide reliable support that is vital to the Franciscan Spirituality Center. Your monthly gift will help the Center live out our Franciscan mission to provide for those who seek support. Each year we give scholarships to those in need for spiritual direction, programs and retreats at the FSC. By enrolling in the Spirited Friends program, you make a significant contribution all year without the need to write checks, find envelopes, buy stamps and make a trip to the post office. Become a Spirited Friend and help others on their path to connecting with God, meaning and wholeness. Visit our website for a brochure and enrollment form. Planned Giving Please remember the Franciscan Spirituality Center in your will. FSC is part of the FSPA, a 501c(3) non-profit organization. Our tax ID#39-0806386.

Thank youfor your ongoing support.

The Franciscan Spirituality Center

is the place for people from all walks of life and spiritual paths to come

together to learn more about God and themselves and how to use spiritual

principles to build a peaceful life and world.

We hope this will be a place for you to find your peace and renewal!

Spiritual Living

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MAKING A THOUGHTFULCOMMITMENT TO THE

FRANCISCAN SPIRITUALITY CENTER

Spirited Friends

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Peace is flowinglike a river,

flowing out ofyou and me.

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Retreat Offerings The Francis You Don’t Know

March 30-April 5 Tom Speier, OFM

The Heart of Jesus Revealed: Holy Triduum

April 17-19 Jolynn Brehm, FSPA

Icon Writing: Simplified Resurrection

May 11-17 Phil Zimmerman

Cultivating Consciousness: The Gift of Food

June 21Vicki Lopez-Kaley

Yoga Retreat: Connecting Heart & Soul

June 27-29Heather Henry

Icon Writing: Saint Francis of Assisi

July 6-12 Phil Zimmerman

Discovering Nature: One with All

July 29-August 2 Rose Heil, FSPA & Amy Taylor, FSPA

Art Journaling: Trees of LifeAugust 13-16

Kate Bausch, FSPA Affiliate & Amy Taylor, FSPA

Singing the Psalms: God’s Inspired Gift

September 11-13Jim Marchionda, OP & Amy Taylor, FSPA

Facilitation Methods for Group Spiritual Direction

November 21-22Sister Joan Weisenbeck, FSPA

SAVE THE DATE!

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R E T R E A T O F F E R I N G S A T T H E F R A N C I S C A N S P I R I T U A L I T Y C E N T E R

What is a retreat?Retreat is a gift to yourself — a way to step aside from everyday concerns to relax and care for your soul. We provide time for rest, reflection, prayer and discussion. Your retreat can be as structured or as unstructured as you like. It is your time to rest and pray in silence, or reconnect and deepen your relationship with God, or be inspired by a dynamic speaker.

What is unique about a retreat at the Franciscan Spirituality Center?Core to our Franciscan values, we offer a peaceful and serene retreat experience that is welcoming and warm. We offer a rich history of prayer and offer the opportunity to pray before the Blessed Sacrament in the Adoration Chapel at St. Mary of Angels Chapel.

Who goes on a retreat or who can benefit from a retreat?Many people of all ages and walks of life consider FSC their spiritual home. Some are searching for God; others are simply trying to find a greater sense of peace in their lives. Some come from traditional religious backgrounds; others consider themselves ‘spiritual but not religious.’ You don’t have to have a strong religious background to feel at home at FSC. What you do need is a thirst for a more peaceful life of compassion and love or a desire to renew your ability to hear God. You will return to your normal routine a bit more rested and centered. Taking time positively affects those around you.

Preached Retreats: A retreat director gives a retreat centered on a topic and weaves prayer into the presentation. Usually the participant listens and reflects on materials during free time.

Guided Retreats: A retreat director presents information on a specific topic, interweaves prayer and participant discussion with others in the retreat.

Private Retreat at the FSC:(no spiritual direction)

• $42/night• $40/night (6 nights or more)

Directed Retreat at the FSC:(includes spiritual direction)

• $102/night (5 nights or less)• $97/night (6 nights or more)

Private Retreat at a Hermitage:(no spiritual direction)

• $50/night• $48/night (6 nights or more)

Please call 608-791-5295 or email FSCenter@fspa.org for availability or additional information regarding bedroom, meals, hermitage or meeting room space.

Directed Retreat at a Hermitage:(spiritual director comes to you to meet)

• $95/night (5 nights or less)• $90/night (6 nights or more)

Private and Group Directed Retreats: An individual or group contacts the FSC and requests accommodations at a Hermitage or the FSC for an experience that fits into their life and the Spiritual Director’s schedule.

This year the FSC is offering the following guided and preached retreat themes for you to consider: Holy Days and Holidays; Contemplative and Silent; Music and the Beauty of Art; Body and Movement; Earth and Nature; Everyday Franciscan Spirituality.

What do you do on retreat?Each retreat experience at the Franciscan Spirituality Center is uniquely different, depending upon the type or theme of the retreat. Typically, each retreat experience follows the flow of the retreat director and includes time for prayer, reflection and solitude.

Why make a retreat?Rediscover what it means to just be. Our lives are so full of responsibilities, worries, and noise that we often ignore the call from within. Our concerns with families, jobs, health, finances, and personal relationships may override our commitment to spiritual growth, even when we need it most. A retreat helps one regain balance and develop the necessary spiritual tools to access the presence of God in the midst of daily life. What about the accommodations?Centrally located, the Franciscan Spirituality Center is rich in beauty and simplicity, and warm in spirit and hospitality. Our dedicated housekeeping and hospitality staff help our guests feel at home and at peace. We offer private bedrooms with a desk, comfortable chair and optional private baths (if available). Our meeting rooms and rest rooms are mostly handicapped accessible. Our staff will provide assistance to anyone with special needs.

Come and stay with us

Retreat Options

What do you think of when you hear that someone is “going on a retreat?” Do you have flashbacks from when you were a child growing up and a retreat meant sleeping in tents and eating food

cooked over an open fire? Take a minute to explore here what a retreat can now mean for you. And how important a retreat experience is to revive the peaceful flow in the river of life.

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2014 Program Offerings

Intuition and Intention in Decision-Making

Learn how to balance intellect and emotion, reclaim your senses and use them for effective decision-making. In this workshop we will examine the “gut instinct” and

develop a personal process for trusting intuitive knowledge. Kristy Walz is a business coach and speaker, and assists businesses with marketing and strategic planning as CEO of Confluence Consulting. She appreciates elements of many spiritual traditions and incorporates a holistic approach to her work. Kristy’s background includes a degree in metaphysics and she describes her relationship with God as one of awe and wonder and mystery. She is currently enrolled in the FSC’s Spiritual Direction Preparation Program.

The Sound of Bowls: An evening of calm and clarity with Tibetan singing bowls

Traditional historic singing bowls produce sounds that invoke deep states of relaxation, naturally assisting one in entering expanded states of consciousness and meditation. The

sound of the bowls creates a deep level of communication with our inner world that opens us to the Divine. Enjoy an evening of captivating renewal in the presence of ageless bell sounds. You are invited to wear comfortable clothes and bring your own pillow to sit on the floor.

Tom Roberts has over 35 years of experience in psychotherapy and his own personal Zen Buddhist practice. He is the author of The Mindfulness Workbook: A Beginners Guide to Overcoming Fear and Embracing Compassion. His practice specializes in mind-body healing.

Richard Rohr Webinar: How Jesus Interpreted Scripture

Join seekers from around the world as Fr. Richard Rohr re-teaches themes from the Christian tradition. Find sacred companionship in this community of ancient and fresh faith. He will

offer fresh ways of understanding the teachings of Jesus, St. Paul, and St. Francis.

Our first topic will be How Jesus Interpreted Scripture. What is the core message of Scripture and what does it tell us about God’s character? According to Fr. Rohr, Jesus shows us a biblical text tending toward inclusivity, mercy and justice. He reveals a benevolent God. The morning includes time for conversation.

Fostering Creativity

Our creative impulses are blessings and we have a sacred obligation to engage them. More than just a springboard for artistic endeavors, the creative impulse inspires divergent

thinking, resulting in new ways to approach our work, our relationships and so much more.

In this session, we will explore ways to foster our innate creativity. This can also benefit the people with whom we live. In the past two decades, creativity scores have dropped significantly for children in grades K-6. Children benefit when the adults in their lives value their own creativity—in “seeing” what is, and imagining what could be.

Jerilyn Dinsmoor is a spiritual director and artist who researched the intersection of creativity and spirituality as part of her master’s degree. She infuses humor, hands-on activities and personal stories as she shares her research findings.

January 7Tuesday, 6-7:30 p.m.

Investment: $10

Retreat Director: Tom Roberts, LCSW, LMFT

Registration deadline: January 3, 2014

January 3-4Friday, 7-9 p.m. and Saturday, 8:30-4 p.m.

Investment:$95 includes lunch on Saturday. Bedrooms are available for $42/night.

Retreat Director:Kristy Walz

Registration deadline: December 20, 2013

January 11Saturday, 9-11 a.m.

Investment: $10

Retreat Directors: Fr. Richard Rohr & Audrey Quanrud

Registration deadline: January 4, 2014

January 18Saturday, 9-11 a.m.

Investment: $10/person

Presenter: Jerilyn Dinsmoor

Registration deadline: January 13, 2014

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J A N U A R Y & F E B R U A R Y

February 8Saturday, 3-8 p.m.

Investment: $75/couple, includes dinner

Retreat Directors: Mike & Sue Blair

Registration deadline: January 24, 2014

Franciscan Day of Solitude

Francis of Assisi frequently spent time in solitude and prayer in order to sustain his active spiritual life. He encouraged his followers to do the same and gifted others with days of

solitude by ministering to them. On your day of solitude, enjoy Franciscan hospitality in the peaceful environment of the FSC to rest and pray as you wish.

Brush Wisdom: Messages from the Contemplative Heart

Japanese Zen brush painting is a creative representation of the spiritual experience. Explore the inter-play of mind, body and

spirit through the expressive use of the brush stroke in an atmosphere of contemplative calm and peace. Experience a deep sense of inner harmony as we express the message of our hearts into black and white space. To enhance the power of the brush stroke, this program will utilize Qi Gong, breathing and Haiku. No artistic experience is necessary.

Annual Celebration of Married Life: Love is Still Calling

For the FSC’s 8th annual marriage celebration, Mike and Sue Blair will entertain us with stories, songs and reflections about the blessings and challenges of marriage, love and

abiding friendship. Their music and stories will invite you to reflect on the laughter, tears, hopes and joys that renew our relationships and the gifts of grace that deepen our capacity for faithful love. Register early, as this popular event fills early and is limited to the first 18 couples—it makes a great gift! Please bring your wedding photo to share.

Sue holds a degree in music theater and has taught first grade for 16 years. A graduate of Lutheran School of Theology in Chicago, Mike has served as a campus pastor at Luther College since 1991. Married in 1980, they are the parents of Kate and Ben.

Forming Family: Blending Our Differences

The term “blended families” usually brings to mind families formed through remarriage after divorce or the death of a spouse. Yet in every situation where two adults come

together to create a family, differences must be negotiated in order to function well. We differ because of our family of origin, our priorities and values, our religious preferences and more.

Join Tom Roberts in a lively discussion on the differences we bring to our adult relationships, and how to respect and blend those differences for a peaceful home.

The Courage to Be Enough

We live in a world that bombards us with messages that we are not enough and that we do not have enough. These messages and our own inner critic limit us and keep us

from finding joy.

Join Kristy Walz and Steve Spilde for an interactive exploration in how to move past soul-stifling obstacles of shame, self-doubt and the fear of vulnerability. Discover how to embrace imperfection, welcome worthiness and invite joy into your life.

January 31-February 2Friday, 7-9 p.m., Saturday, 9-4 p.m. and Sunday, 9-Noon

Investment: $150 includes lunch on Saturday. Bedrooms are available for $42/night.

Retreat Director: Tom Roberts, LCSW, LMFT

Registration deadline: January 17, 2014

February 22Saturday, 9-4 p.m.

Investment: $45, includes lunch

Retreat Directors: Kristy Walz & Steve Spilde

Registration deadline: February 7, 2014

January 29Wednesday, 9-4 p.m.

Investment: $30 includes lunch and bedroom for the day

Retreat Directors: FSC Staff

Registration deadline: January 22, 2014

February 13Thursday, 6-8 p.m.

Investment: $10/person

Presenter: Tom Roberts, LCSW, LMFT

Registration deadline: February 13

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‘‘If we observe ourselves truthfully and non-judgmentally, seeing the mechanisms of our personality in action, we can wake up, and our lives can be a miraculous unfolding of beauty and joy.” ~ Don Richard Riso

Exploring Relationships through the Enneagram

January 24-25 • Friday, 7-9 p.m. and Saturday, 9-4 p.m.Registration deadline: January 17, 2014 Investment: $95/session, includes lunch on Saturday. Bedrooms are available for $42/night. Presenters: Rosalie Hooper Thomas and Marci Madary, FSPA Affiliates

Relationships can be graced experiences or frustrating challenges. Whether personal or work-related, the characteristics of our relationships affect the quality of our lives. We can be confused by another’s behavior and can surprise another by our choices. While a person can relate well with another operating on the same level, we may not understand why there is discord or misunderstanding with a spouse, friend or co-worker. Discover the biases and fears of each type and the skills needed to understand and find common ground.

The Enneagram and Your Spiritual Path

February 28-March 1 • Friday, 7-9 p.m. and Saturday, 9-4 p.m.Registration deadline: February 21, 2014 Investment: $95/session, includes lunch on Saturday. Bedrooms are available for $42/night. Presenters: Rosalie Hooper Thomas and Marci Madary, FSPA Affiliates

In exploring our personality characteristics we gain a greater awareness of our motivations, behaviors and understanding of others. While this brings peace and harmony to our daily lives, we just have part of the journey. As we set aside our ego distortions, we allow space for a deepening awareness of our true nature and the experience of the Divine essence. This workshop focuses on the spiritual gifts of each type, using exercises, meditations and practices to open you to the transformative spirit of God..

Presenters: Rosalie Hooper Thomas, FSPA Affiliate is a spiritual director, workshop presenter and facilitator. With the insights from the Enneagram, she helps people discover their own truths and develop skills to participate in a creative community. Rosalie received her certification through Dr. Jerome Wagner at Loyola University and continues to study multiple teachers for a broad perspective on the gifts of the Enneagram.

Marci Madary, FSPA Affiliate works as an affiliation co-minister with the FSPA. In addition, she is a poet, spiritual director and teacher of the Enneagram. She received her Enneagram training in the narrative tradition with Helen Palmer and David Daniels. With a masters in Pastoral Studies, her background is in education and she has worked in parish ministry.

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January 22, February 12 and March 19Wednesdays, 5:30-6:45 p.m.Investment: $10/sessionPresenters: Barb Kruse & Audrey Quanrud

From the Hebrew Scriptures through the earliest days of Christianity, women stepped forward to lead because of their faith. They differ in their leadership styles and the circumstances of their lives, but in each case they are women who risked boldly. Each of us is called to lead; in these women, perhaps you will find inspiration. Come hear their stories and reflect on the ways their lives may touch our lives.

January 22 - Sarah and Hagar: Founding Mothers

February 12 - Woman at the Well: Spiritual Seeker

March 19 - Phoebe and Mary: Pioneers in Ministry

Eating Poems for Lunch

February 7, 14, 21 & 28 Fridays, Noon-1 p.m.Investment: $7/session (Registration is preferred, however you can pay at the door)

Presenter: Marci Madary, FSPA Affiliate

If you enjoy poetry, you will enjoy this casual weekly gathering. Every Friday Marci brings a diverse selection of poems, all related to a common theme, for the group to slowly read aloud and savor. Bring a brown bag lunch and feast on good poetry while enjoying a meal and great conversation.

Marci Madary is a poet and a co-minister with the Franciscan Sisters of Perpetual Adoration. She works with FSPA Affiliates.

2014 Series Offerings

The Enneagram:

A Path for Transformation

S E R I E S S E R I E S

Women Leaders in ScriptureS E R I E S

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Life is a succession of open and shut doors. In order to move forward, we often face the choice of whether to open a closed door and step over the threshold into

unknown territory.

“My usual response is not to run toward this newness, but instead, to be afraid,” says Paula D’Arcy. Our fear may keep us from encountering the hidden God.

A former psychotherapist, Paula survived the loss of her husband and young daughter in an accident in 1975. She was three months pregnant at the time. Today she is a writer, retreat leader and international speaker, and the president of the Red Bird Foundation. The Foundation supports the growth and spiritual development of those in need throughout the world, including men and women in prison.

FSC’s 29th Annual Conference, Opening Doors to the Unexpected, will be at English Lutheran Church in La Crosse on May 2, 2014 from 1-4:30 p.m. The conference will start with opening prayer and your choice of two workshops. There will be a book signing and social with Paula D’Arcy on Friday evening from 7- 9 p.m. at the Franciscan Spirituality Center. Paula will be the keynote speaker all day on Saturday, May 3 from 9-3 p.m. at English Lutheran Church.

The cost for the full program is $75 if you register before April 1, 2014. After April 2 the full program price is $90. Registration details will be available on our website January 1 at www.FSCenter.org.

Annual Conference

May 2-3, 201429th

with keynote speakerPaula D’Arcy

1. LIVE life at high speed. No exceptions. Run hard.

2. STAY scattered and distracted. The more clutter and activity, the better.

3. TAKE everything personally. Never evaluate. Agree.

4. USE blame liberally. It’s so invigorating. I wasn’t responsible, you were. Everything’s your fault.

5. DON’T laugh, especially at yourself.

6. STAY tied to your past. Elevate it to greatness. Live remembering and longing. Or missing. Why do it halfway? Go for it.

7. USE the word ‘because.’ ‘I can’t change, because.’ Because is so little appreciated as a solvent for responsibility. Try using because. This will work.

8. NEVER question or think for yourself. Just keep moving and accepting. (Refer to #1 and #3.)

9. CONTINUE to think of God as invisible and distant. Surely not present in this room. At this moment. Not while I’m reading a book.

10. REINFORCE the belief that your life is going to happen soon. This is not it, not yet. But one day. Maybe when I finish reading. from: Sacred Threshold: Crossing the Inner Barrier to a Deeper Love

Would you like to “meet” Paula D’Arcy before her appearance at the FSC’s 29th Annual Conference on May 2-3? Join Audrey Quanrud for an informal discussion of Gift of the

Red Bird, Paula’s inspiring account of loss and spiritual renewal. We will meet from 5:30-6:30 p.m. on Tuesday, February 4, 11 & 18. This is free; however we would like you

to register. Please bring your own copy or purchase this book in the Sophia Bookstore.

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Top 10 List of Ways toMiss the Hidden God

Opening doors unexpected

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Tai Chi - New this Winter!

Session One: Mondays, January 6, 13, 20 & 27; February 3 & 10 Session Two: Mondays, February 17 & 24, March 3, 10, 17 & 24 Time: 12:15-1p.m.Investment: $36/6 classesPresenter: Bernice Olson-Pollack

Tai Chi is an ancient discipline that involves both standing and balancing positions. The positions replicate the activities of everyday life, providing mindful attention to how they are expressed with the body. The slow meditative patterns of movement awaken energy, align the body, and improve balance and breathing.

Vinyasa Yoga

Session One: Mondays, January 6, 13, 20 & 27; February 3 & 10 Wednesdays, January 8, 15, 22 & 29; February 5 & 12Session Two: Mondays, February 17 & 24; March 3, 10, 17 & 24 Wednesdays, February 19 & 26; March 5, 12, 19 & 26Time: 5:30-6:30 p.m.Investment: $48/6 classes, register for Monday & Wednesday: $86/12 classesPresenter: Bernice Olson-Pollack

Vinyasa yoga has been practiced for thousands of years for its health benefits. These include mental focus, balance and flexibility, relaxation and stress relief. Wednesday sessions will also include strength training.

Golden Yoga

Session One: Tuesdays, January 7, 14, 21 & 28; February 4 & 11 (Limited to 20)

Thursdays, January 9, 16, 23 & 30; February 6 & 13 (Limited to 12)

Session Two: Tuesdays, February 18, 25; March 4, 11, 18 & 25 (Limited to 20)

Thursdays, February 20, 27; March 6, 13, 20 & 27 (Limited to 12)

Time: 11:15-NoonInvestment: $36/6 classes, register for Tuesday & Thursday: $65/12 classesPresenter: Bernice Olson-Pollack

On Tuesday mornings, traditional yoga poses are modified with the use of a chair so that participants do not need to get on the floor. On Thursday mornings, participants should feel comfortable getting down on the floor. Please bring a yoga or exercise mat that is at least ¼ - ½” thick. Both sessions provide a safe approach to improved flexibility, strength and balance.

body, mind & spirit

The Nia Experience

Time: Thursdays, January 9, 16, 23 & 30; February 6, 13, 20 & 27 5:30-6:30 p.m.Investment: $64/8 classesPresenter: Lisa Radtke

The Nia Experience is the ultimate mind, body and spirit workout. Created in 1983, Nia combines dance movements, non-impact martial arts and diverse styles of music to improve body-centered awareness. By connecting with your emotions and body, Nia can help you to look, think and feel better. It’s a great stress reliever.

Bernice Olson-Pollack is a staff member of the Wellness Center at St. Rose Convent, La Crosse. She holds a masters in counseling and has years of hands-on experience in life coaching, personal training and yoga instruction. She is a registered Yogafit instructor and a certified personal trainer with the American Council on Exercise.

Lisa Radtke has completed blue belt training through the Nia Technique, Inc. and is the director of organizational learning and development at Mayo Health System Franciscan Healthcare in La Crosse.

A New Year for Me

Time: Saturday, January 11; 8:30-NoonInvestment: $40 per person. Register early, limited to 15 participants.Presenter: Bernice Olson-Pollack

Begin the New Year with a new plan to live well. We will explore holistic ways to balance our needs for rest and activity, nourishing food, personal growth and soulful practices. We will begin the morning with light refreshments.

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Sometimes you just need someone to listen as you work through the complexities of life. The process of sharing your story and opening up to the conversations in your heart with a trusted confidante, or a spiritual director, offers a deeper self-awareness and understanding of your relationship with others, including God.

Schedule your first one-hour appointment with a spiritual director by calling the FSC at 608-791-5295. Scholarships are available for your first visit.

Compassionate ListeningS P I R I T U A L D I R E C T I O N

Linda Kerrigan, FSPA Affiliate

lkerrigan@fspa.org 608-791-5276

Barb Krusebkruse@fspa.org

608-791-5612

Rosalie Hooper Thomas, FSPA Affiliate rthomas@fspa.org 608-791-5268

Steve Spildesspilde@fspa.org

608-791-5297

Our Spiritual Directors

What is Spiritual Direction?Spiritual direction is the powerful gift of compassionate listening. We have four trained and experienced spiritual directors on staff to meet with you whenever you are ready. When you feel the need or desire to share your sacred stories with someone who will listen intently and patiently to your words and feelings, without judgment and with love, we are here. Spiritual directors won’t give you solutions, advice or answers, but rather invite you to go deeper into your life story. This compassionate listening can provide immeasurable healing and spiritual growth. We are here for you.

W hen thinking about becoming a spiritual director, it is normal to have

a lot of questions about how you should respond. Becoming a spiritual

director is a huge decision. Being present to others while they share their soul is a

sacred offering that is filled with great responsibility.

For many, enrolling in a spiritual direction program is a path to deepen your

spirituality and prayer life. For others, it is because of a desire to be present

to those searching for meaning in their life or a way to develop skills in

compassionate listening. Spiritual directors don’t give people solutions or the

answers to their most sacred questions, but they will invite them to go deeper to

reflect how God is present in their life. What a gift!

General Information:

The Spiritual Direction Preparation Program (SDPP) extends over three years. Workshops begin at 7 p.m. on Friday and end at noon on Sunday. The practicum is a six-day workshop, beginning at noon on Sunday and ends at noon on Saturday. Downlaod the brochure for the full schedule at www.FSCenter.org.

A new class is forming and will start in September 2014. The application deadline is June 30, 2014. Participants are expected to have a spiritual director by the beginning of the program and to make a six-day directed retreat by July 1, 2016. Participants who satisfactorily complete the three-year program will receive a certificate of completion.

Co-directors:

Barb Kruse: 608-791-5612 or bkruse@fspa.orgLinda Kerrigan: 608-791-5276 or lkerrigan@fspa.org

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Application deadline: June 30, 2014

PreparationFor more information visit www.FSCenter.org

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In November we said goodbye to Margaret Cunningham after six years of service at the FSC in hospitality. We are sad to see her leave and will miss her sweet smile, warmth and compassionate understanding for others. We know her decision was a difficult one to make and we will continue

to pray for her good health as she moves forward on her journey.

After 12 years of dedicated service to the FSC, Jenny Walter resigned this month from her role as office manager to embark on new adventures with her husband, Tom. Jenny’s outward spirit and positive energy will be deeply missed, but we

Their new journeys now beginIn thinking about how we might offer a fond farewell to two staff members whom we love dearly, Jenny Walter and Margaret Cunningham,

we had cause to think about these wise words:

“To have courage for whatever comes in life—everything lies in that.” - Saint Theresa of Avila

Both women are facing the sun and looking ahead toward the unknown with courage and passion to follow their heart. With this, we want to offer them our heartfelt gratitude for their commitment and hard work over the years.

know she will continue biking, hiking and traveling the world in service and with great love for the environment. Safe travels to you Jenny, we know it will be an adventure!

Reverend R. Ellen Rasmussen currently serves as the pastor of Wesley United Methodist Church in La Crosse, and for the past three years has been an active participant in offerings of the FSC. Ellen completed the servant leadership program at the FSC, participated in a week-long retreat, prayer and reflection group, spiritual direction and non-violent communication classes. She is also an avid supporter of the book store and used book sale. The FSC provides a space for soul tending, rest and renewal in her active life. Ellen shares, “My soul finds peace at the Center and I am humbled to be among such people of faith.”

Wesley United Methodist has organized a number of community interfaith events including prayer and peace vigils, as well as, Community Speaks: Voice Against Violence, and continues to build relationships across the city to address social justice issues. She appreciates the collaborative spirit of FSC and the work, advocacy and ministry of the members of the FSPA. In addition to her role as pastor, Ellen

serves as the chair of the Board of Church & Society—the social justice arm of the United Methodist Church in Wisconsin, as well as the newly formed LaCrosse Area Volunteer Organizations Active in Disaster. She lives in La Crosse with her two children, Erika and Joe.

Patricia Boge is the community relations coordinator for the La Crosse Public Library and has been an active participant at the FSC, attending everything from yoga to the Lenten Gospels series. Last April she was involved in a community collaboration that co-sponsored a bus trip to St. John’s University in Collegeville, Minn. to see The Saint John’s Bible. At the La Crosse Public Library she concentrates on adult programming and looks forward to bringing this experience to her role on the FSC board.

Patricia has served on many local boards and is currently serving as the immediate past president of the Viterbo Board of Advisors and was a board member of the Wisconsin Historical Society Board of Curators. Also

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Welcome our newest leadership

active in the Rotary Club of La Crosse, Rotary Works Foundation, and the La Crosse County Commission on Aging, Patricia has been a member of the Roncalli Newman Center since 1971. Married to Jerome, a recent FSPA Affiliate, together they have three children and 10 grandchildren and reside in La Crosse.

Please welcome these new members of the Franciscan Spirituality Center’s board. We thank them for their commitment and their time.

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Dorothy Lenard, Chairperson

John McHugh, Vice Chairperson

Rita Feeney, FSPA, Secretary/Treasurer

Rose Elsbernd, FSPA, FSPA Liaison

Emilio AlvarezBlake Auler-Murphy

Karen DunnKen Ford

Mike HeschLaurice Heybl, FSPA

Hannah HoaglundEllen Rasmussen

Patricia BogeJoan Weisenbeck, FSPA

Mike WoodsTony Yang

Board of Directors

We offer them both this Irish blessing, “May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be ever at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and the rain fall softly on your fields. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the hollow of his hand.”

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Sophia BookstoreTucked away inside the Franciscan Spirituality Center, the Sophia Bookstore is a treasure waiting for your discovery. Full of books and interesting gifts, it is a wonderful, quiet place to sit and enjoy the quiet buzz of life and energy inside. The room has three tables, free wi-fi and complimentary coffee.

Open Monday-Friday from 8-5 p.m.

Please stop by to browse!

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M E E T I N G R O O M S

The Franciscan Spirituality Center offers a wide variety of rooms to fit the needs of your meeting,

retreat and training sessions.

We offer five meeting rooms to accommodate groups from 2-72 participants. Each room is bright, attractive,

comfortable, quiet and can be tailored to meet the needs of your group. In addition, we provide a wide range of audio/visual equipment for no additional charge. Refreshments and catering are also available.

Call 608-791-5295 or email FSCenter@fspa.org to reserve a room today for your group’s next meeting.

Where to find usFranciscan Spirituality Center is just west of Mayo Clinic Health System-Franciscan Heathcare and one block north of Viterbo University at 920 Market Street. The Franciscan Spirituality Center shares the building with St. Rose Convent.

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Telephone: 608-791-5295 • Email: FSCenter@fspa.org • On the web: www.FSCenter.org

Solitude Ridge HermitagesThree individual hermitages are built on the edge of a woodland and provide the peace and quiet of a rural setting. These small buildings were designed to provide a space for the silence and solitude necessary for a deeper experience with God. Hermitages are $50 per night. Email or call the FSC to make your reservations today.

Telephone: 608-791-5295

Registration Process

Please visit the Franciscan Spirituality Center’s website at www.FSCenter.org to register for each session. We accept PayPal for all online registrations and require payment in full at the time of registration. If you would like to pay in installments or register by phone, please call 608-791-5295 or by email at FSCenter@fspa.org. We accept credit cards, personal checks and cash for all registrations not completed online. Payment must be paid in full prior to the start of the program to be a confirmed participant.

Refund Policy Some of our events require a non-refundable registrationfee; the balance will be refunded to you if you cancel priorto the event start time.

Registration Deadlines Many programs/retreats now have a registration deadline. This will help us make important decisions regarding the status of the program/retreat. Many programs fill quickly; early registration is recommended to guarantee placement. Prompt registration also helps reduce the possibility that a program or retreat might be cancelled due to insufficient enrollment, an issue that inconveniences participants and presenters.

Scholarship InformationIn the spirit of Francis and Clare, we honor and respect everyone in their search of spiritual healing, growth and renewal and will not turn anyone away because of inability to pay. Our scholarships are based on need and on the type of program or retreat. We give scholarships to anyone who asks for financial assistance for spiritual direction and partial scholarships for programs or retreats. Please contact us for more detailed information about scholarships and payment options for specific retreats and programs. We do not offer scholarships for bedrooms or hermitages. Contact us at 608-791-5295 or by email at FSCenter@fspa.org, or visit us online at www.FSCenter.org for more information.

FranciscanDay of SolitudeReflect and Pray in Silence

Wednesday, January 29 • 9 a.m.-4 p.m.

Seek out this sacred place of solitude andcommune with God in silence.

FSPA • 912 Market StreetLa Crosse, WI 54601

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H Y G I E N E F O R H O M E L E S S

Last year there were over 100 children in the La Crosse School District with no permanent address. The few lucky ones are given a small space in a crowded homeless shelter, which often provides a small sleeping area and a warm meal. Rarely are those who are homeless given the basic hygiene supplies necessary to maintain their health and confidence. Access to basic personal supplies can give a greater sense of self and a brighter outlook on life.

The Franciscan Sisters of Perpetual Adoration, and their Affiliates, are asking for your help in responding to the needs of local individuals and families who are homeless and in need of basic personal care items. With the right supplies, we can help them avoid physical and dental health problems. Perhaps even more importantly, together we can help them retain their dignity during a trying time in their lives.

Items in need are:Baby wipes, talcum powder, diaper rash ointment, diapers (all sizes), baby shampoo, comb/brushes, deodorant, razors, shaving cream, bar soap or body wash, Kleenex, shampoo/conditioner, feminine products, manicure sets, raincoats/ponchos, socks, towels and washcloths, and diaper bags.

Thank you for your kind and compassionate donation! Please give generously.

Drop off your donations in the collection bin at:

Franciscan Spirituality Center920 Market Street • La Crosse, WI 54601Questions? 608-791-5295

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The Franciscan Spirituality Center is a sponsored ministry of the Franciscan Sisters of Perpetual Adoration.