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A 5-WEEK TUNE-UP FOR ANY MARRIAGE
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Bloom
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Doom Cycle
Bloom Cycle
Vs
Whether you are fully aware of it or not you are in one cycle or the other
3
WHY WE DOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS BROKENrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
Your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over youhellipthrough painful toilhellipall the dayshellip Gen 3
AddictionsLoss
4
HOW WE BLOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS SUSTAINEDrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
hellipthey will become one flesh Gen 224Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ Eph 521
Addictions Loss
5
WHY WE MUST BLOOM
God patterned them after Himself Gen 127hellipso that we can be mirrors that reflect His glory 2Cor 318
copy Mass Ignition6
HOMEWORK A COMMITMENT PLAN
-to sacrificially love daily yearly amp seasonally
1 Find your vows and verses Decide what to do with them2 Clarify your top 2 love languages and list 5 ways it can be met 3 Determine what are the top 3 threats to your oneness 4 List the top 5 reasons you married the other5 Discuss how you will handle your future anniversaries
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition2
Doom Cycle
Bloom Cycle
Vs
Whether you are fully aware of it or not you are in one cycle or the other
3
WHY WE DOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS BROKENrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
Your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over youhellipthrough painful toilhellipall the dayshellip Gen 3
AddictionsLoss
4
HOW WE BLOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS SUSTAINEDrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
hellipthey will become one flesh Gen 224Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ Eph 521
Addictions Loss
5
WHY WE MUST BLOOM
God patterned them after Himself Gen 127hellipso that we can be mirrors that reflect His glory 2Cor 318
copy Mass Ignition6
HOMEWORK A COMMITMENT PLAN
-to sacrificially love daily yearly amp seasonally
1 Find your vows and verses Decide what to do with them2 Clarify your top 2 love languages and list 5 ways it can be met 3 Determine what are the top 3 threats to your oneness 4 List the top 5 reasons you married the other5 Discuss how you will handle your future anniversaries
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
3
WHY WE DOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS BROKENrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
Your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over youhellipthrough painful toilhellipall the dayshellip Gen 3
AddictionsLoss
4
HOW WE BLOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS SUSTAINEDrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
hellipthey will become one flesh Gen 224Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ Eph 521
Addictions Loss
5
WHY WE MUST BLOOM
God patterned them after Himself Gen 127hellipso that we can be mirrors that reflect His glory 2Cor 318
copy Mass Ignition6
HOMEWORK A COMMITMENT PLAN
-to sacrificially love daily yearly amp seasonally
1 Find your vows and verses Decide what to do with them2 Clarify your top 2 love languages and list 5 ways it can be met 3 Determine what are the top 3 threats to your oneness 4 List the top 5 reasons you married the other5 Discuss how you will handle your future anniversaries
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
4
HOW WE BLOOM
Finances
ldquoONENESS SUSTAINEDrdquo
Friends Culture
Kids
Health
PassionsHobbies
Family
Career
hellipthey will become one flesh Gen 224Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ Eph 521
Addictions Loss
5
WHY WE MUST BLOOM
God patterned them after Himself Gen 127hellipso that we can be mirrors that reflect His glory 2Cor 318
copy Mass Ignition6
HOMEWORK A COMMITMENT PLAN
-to sacrificially love daily yearly amp seasonally
1 Find your vows and verses Decide what to do with them2 Clarify your top 2 love languages and list 5 ways it can be met 3 Determine what are the top 3 threats to your oneness 4 List the top 5 reasons you married the other5 Discuss how you will handle your future anniversaries
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
5
WHY WE MUST BLOOM
God patterned them after Himself Gen 127hellipso that we can be mirrors that reflect His glory 2Cor 318
copy Mass Ignition6
HOMEWORK A COMMITMENT PLAN
-to sacrificially love daily yearly amp seasonally
1 Find your vows and verses Decide what to do with them2 Clarify your top 2 love languages and list 5 ways it can be met 3 Determine what are the top 3 threats to your oneness 4 List the top 5 reasons you married the other5 Discuss how you will handle your future anniversaries
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition6
HOMEWORK A COMMITMENT PLAN
-to sacrificially love daily yearly amp seasonally
1 Find your vows and verses Decide what to do with them2 Clarify your top 2 love languages and list 5 ways it can be met 3 Determine what are the top 3 threats to your oneness 4 List the top 5 reasons you married the other5 Discuss how you will handle your future anniversaries
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition7
HOMEWORK CHERISH amp RESPECT
1 Husband asks the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel uncherishedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel cherished
2 Wives ask the followingWhat have I done or failed to do to make you feel disrespectedWhat are some things I can do to make you feel respected
3 Together reflect back on your love language lists to see how the cherish and respect needs relate
4 Pray daily asking Godrsquos help to cherishrespect your spouse
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition8
What it takes to BLOOMThe 5 key nutrients
bullCommit to LovebullCherish amp RespectbullBe Gracious amp ForgivebullChoose the Right WordsbullSeek a Greater Purpose
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition9
DOOMING Myth 3 Certain things cannot be forgiven
BLOOMING Truth 3 Grace and forgiveness is possible in all situations and vital to sustain a healthy marriage
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition10
Without GampF
ldquooneness lostrdquo
With GampF
ldquooneness gainedrdquo
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition11
WHY WE NEED GampFEach of us are imperfect people who make mistakes (sin) and need grace and forgiveness
Otherwise our self-worth isdestroyed by guilt andor shame
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition12
BE GRACIOUS amp FORGIVEBear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you
Colossians 313
Grace leaves space for error
ldquoan attituderdquo
Forgivenessreleases
ldquoa processrdquo
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition13
BE GRACIOUSBut where sin increased grace increased all the more Rom 520Let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt Col 46hellipthe one and only Sonhellipfull of grace and truth John 114
bull To show unmerited favor
bull To bear with one another
bull To give what is undeserved
bull Grace = Gift
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition14
AM I GRACIOUS
REACT ldquoSTAND OFFrdquo REACT ldquoTELL OFFrdquo
REACT ldquoGIVE UPrdquo REACT ldquoHOLD ON rdquo
RESPOND
ldquoGRACE
amp
TRUTHrdquo
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition15
FORGIVE Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another Forgive as the Lord forgave you Colossians 313
bull An act of mercy
bull To give up resentment
bull To release another
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition16
Past
OwnershipldquoI am sorry
forhelliprdquo
Takes one
Present
Forgiveness
ldquoWould you please forgive merdquo
Takes two
Future
TrustldquoHow are we
doingrdquo
Takes time
RECONCILIATION PROCESS
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition17
5 LANGUAGES OF APOLOGY
What is yours
-Regret ldquoI am sorryrdquo-Responsibility ldquoI was wrongrdquo-Restitution ldquoWhat can I dordquo-Repentance ldquoI will try not do that againrdquo-Requesting Forgiveness ldquoWill you forgive merdquo
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition18
GampF IS LINKED TO THE CROSS
Only graced people give grace
Only forgiven people forgive
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition19
Bitter Better
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
copy Mass Ignition20
HOMEWORK BE GRACIOUS AND FORGIVE
-assess and get a plan of action (see attached)
1 4 key questions on Grace 2 6 key questions on Forgiveness
Bonus Within the next 6 weeks write a note of recommitment
