Bullying In Middle School

AMS takes a stand against bullying

What is Bullying?

• Bullying- physically, mentally or emotionally abusing another person for personal satisfaction and to feel a sense of empowerment over another. It can be in a direct form, such as teasing or taunting, or an indirect form such as spreading rumors.

First things first!

Bullying is NOT a NORMAL part of

growing up!No one deserves it!

Examples of Bullying

1. Physical2. Verbal3. Relationship

Physical Bullying

• Hitting, kicking, or pushing someone….or just threatening to do it

• Stealing, hiding, or ruining someone’s things.

• Making someone do things he or she doesn’t want to do

Verbal Bullying

• Name-calling• Teasing• Insulting

Relationship Bullying

• Refusing to talk to someone• Spreading lies or rumors• Making someone feel left out or

rejected

What do they have in common?

They are all examples of ways one person can make another person feel hurt, afraid, or uncomfortable.

If you have been subjected to any of

these behaviors repeatedly, you are a

VICTIM!

What to do if you are a victim

• Remove yourself from the situation• Remember you are NOT the one

with the problem, it’s the bully who has the problem.

• Talk to an adult! It’s not “tattling” or “snitching.” It’s asking the people who love you to provide help when you really need it. (parents, teachers, etc.)

• Do not keep it inside.

• Do not plan revenge against the bully or take things into your own hands.

Are you a bully?

Signs of a bully1. Hot-tempered and quick to anger2. Impulsive3. Low tolerance for frustration4. Difficulty conforming to rules5. Needs to dominate others6. Brags about his/her superiority over other

students7. Aggressive toward adults8. Tries to talk themselves out of situations9. Little empathy10. Engages in antisocial behavior11. Enjoys putting down others12. Treats animals cruelly13. Disrespects authority14. Enjoys fighting15. Refuses to admit fear

Stop the behavior!

If you are a bully, STOP the behavior!

Practice self control- remember you are the only one responsible for you!

Bullying could lead to future problems

For the bully, they have to learn

1. How to cope2. Manage their emotions3. Communicate effectively4. How to have a “real” relationship with

someone5. How to care for another’s needs

If they cannot learn to conform to society,they could possibly lead a criminal life.

Today’s bullies can become tomorrow’s

criminals.

For the victimThey have to learn how to deal with

1. Emotional scars2. Physical scars3. Depression4. Fear5. Low self-esteem6. Anxiety

They must realize that they are not the one with the problem. People who cannot see that experience all of the problems listed above and it could lead to suicide.

Columbine High School

School ShootingApril 20, 1999

Again, if there is trouble, see assistance from an adult. We are here to

protect you!

You are who you are!

• Celebrate differences• Be tolerant• Be forgiving• Respect yourself and

others