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F F A A M M I I L L Y Y M M A A T T T T E E R R S S North Carolina National Guard ~ 4105 Reedy Creek Road, Raleigh 27607 ~ (800) 621-4136 ~ www.nc.ngb.army.mil Individual Highlights Marriage Enrichment 2 Western NC Highlights 3 Central NC Highlights 4 Eastern NC Highlights 5 Programs & Services 6 Child & Youth Program 7 FRGs/Above & Beyond 8 Diane Coffill State Family Program Director [email protected] (919) 664-6324 SFC Calvin Buchan State Family Program Assistant [email protected] (919) 664-6124 SSG Ju Autry Budget Analysis [email protected] (919) 664-7583 SPC Daniel Holland Human Resources Assistant [email protected] (919) 664-6124 Lana Greer State Family Assistance Coordinator [email protected] (828) 271-5029 Renee Brotherton FAC Team Leader [email protected] (704) 359-5736 Kathleen Flaherty, LTC (Ret.) Wing Family Program Coordinator [email protected] (704) 398-4949 Pamela Hughes State FRG Advisor [email protected] (919) 693-5016 ext. 13 Alice Dean State Youth Coordinator [email protected] (919) 664-7616 December 2009 Volume 1, Issue 3 Happy Holidays We Were Happy To Assist You In 2009. We Look Forward To A New Year Of Working Together To Ensure Each North Carolina Military Family Remains Ready and Resilient. May Your New Year Be Filled With Joy & Love. To you and yours from the entire NCNG Family Programs Team Upcoming Yellow Ribbon Event The mission of the Yellow Ribbon Reintegration Program is to enhance the quality of life of the North Carolina Guardsmen and their Families statewide by implementing programs that provides vital information during all phases of their deployment. Providing information about benefits and entitlements such as medical, legal and financial aid will ensure a safe and healthy reintegration back into their family, community, school and jobs following a deployment. Dates are subject to change. Check with any Yellow Ribbon Support Specialist for updates. December 4 Hendersonville Unit: 163d ASMC Pre-deployment Brief: offers assistance, training and resources to Soldiers and Families faced with the challenges of a mobilization 800-621-4136 EXT. 6054 John Gattis Program Director [email protected] David Coffill [email protected] SGT Khan Eakin [email protected] Adam Garrity [email protected] Lola Lawson [email protected] Ken Martinsen [email protected] Gerald Murray [email protected] David Nobles [email protected] Chris Rosehart [email protected]
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FFFAAAMMMIIILLLYYY MMMAAATTTTTTEEERRRSSS North Carolina National Guard ~ 4105 Reedy Creek Road, Raleigh 27607 ~ (800) 621-4136 ~ www.nc.ngb.army.mil

Individual Highlights

Marriage Enrichment 2

Western NC Highlights 3

Central NC Highlights 4

Eastern NC Highlights 5

Programs & Services 6

Child & Youth Program 7

FRGs/Above & Beyond 8

Diane Coffill State Family Program Director [email protected] (919) 664-6324

SFC Calvin Buchan State Family Program Assistant [email protected] (919) 664-6124 SSG Ju Autry Budget Analysis [email protected] (919) 664-7583 SPC Daniel Holland Human Resources Assistant [email protected] (919) 664-6124 Lana Greer State Family Assistance Coordinator

[email protected] (828) 271-5029 Renee Brotherton FAC Team Leader [email protected] (704) 359-5736 Kathleen Flaherty, LTC (Ret.) Wing Family Program Coordinator [email protected]

(704) 398-4949 Pamela Hughes State FRG Advisor [email protected] (919) 693-5016 ext. 13 Alice Dean State Youth Coordinator [email protected] (919) 664-7616

December 2009 Volume 1, Issue 3

Happy Holidays

We Were Happy To Assist You

In 2009. We Look Forward To A New Year

Of Working Together To Ensure

Each North Carolina Military Family

Remains Ready and Resilient.

May Your New Year Be Filled With Joy & Love. To you and yours from the entire

NCNG Family Programs Team

Upcoming Yellow Ribbon Event The mission of the Yellow Ribbon Reintegration Program is to enhance the quality of life of the North Carolina Guardsmen and their Families statewide by implementing programs that provides vital information during all phases of their deployment. Providing information about benefits and entitlements such as medical, legal and financial aid will ensure a safe and healthy reintegration back into their family, community, school and jobs following a deployment. Dates are subject to change. Check with any Yellow Ribbon Support Specialist for updates. December 4 Hendersonville Unit: 163d ASMC Pre-deployment Brief: offers assistance, training and resources to Soldiers and Families faced with the challenges of a mobilization

800-621-4136 EXT. 6054

John Gattis

Program Director

[email protected]

David Coffill

[email protected]

SGT Khan Eakin

[email protected]

Adam Garrity

[email protected]

Lola Lawson

[email protected]

Ken Martinsen

[email protected]

Gerald Murray

[email protected]

David Nobles

[email protected]

Chris Rosehart

[email protected]

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Strengthening the Hearts and Minds of Marriage ~by Kathryn Jarvis

Marriage Enrichment is about working together to create and maintain a healthy relationship. This

is done by polishing each person’s communication skills, listening skills and having an overall

understanding of each other. It is not only about fixing a marriage it is about making it stronger

and more resilient. There are many resources couples can find on the subject marriage

enrichment. In fact Google shows there are 228,000 results for searching the subject.

Unfortunately many people are apprehensive to attend Marriage Enrichment seminars and may

miss out on educational resources, tips and tricks that could have otherwise prevented larger

issues.

According to the Article, “Strengthening Marriage through Marriage Enrichment Programs,”

written by Written by Bradley Owens, Research Assistant, and edited by Stephen F. Duncan,

Professor, School of Family Life, Brigham Young University, There are three main reasons scholars

found on why couples don’t attend.

Good marriages happen naturally. Many people think a happy, successful marriage should

come naturally. They think what they learned about marriage from watching their parents

and other couples should be enough. If marriage partners need help to build a successful

relationship, the thinking goes, then they must be abnormal or deficient in some way. But this

"it's natural" theory is a myth. Few people get enough information about how to create a

strong and enduring marriage through absorption alone. Most need additional information

and education to build a truly satisfying marriage.

Marriage is a private matter. Some people believe the marriage relationship is too private to

share with others. They feel it isn't proper to share their marital issues with anyone outside the

marriage or to participate in an educational setting where others might see that they need

help. Couples with this attitude deprive themselves of the many resources available to

improve marital happiness, including the experiences of fellow participants in marriage

enrichment programs.

Marriage enrichment doesn't help. Some couples believe that marriage enrichment

programs are "feel good" experiences that might help briefly but don't help in the long run.

In fact, research shows the best marriage enrichment programs help couples improve their

marriages in a deep and lasting way.

Marriage Enrichment is not just for the health of a marriage. Relationship stress can affect your

health as well. There are many resources showing the health effects of marital conflicts on a

spouse.

Our Marriage Enrichment program offers the latest tips, tricks and tools for the betterment of

military family relationships. For more information on the upcoming 2010 Marriage Enrichment

Workshops, visit the Family Programs website at www.nc.ngb.army.mil or contact your nearest

Family Assistance Center.

Marriage Enrichment

Retreat

February 19-21, 2010

Cary, North Carolina

~Limited Space~

MAKE YOUR

2010

VALENTINE’S

ONE TO

REMEMBER!

RESERVE YOUR SPACE… FEBRUARY 19-21, 2010

The NCNG Family Programs and Chaplains are bringing spouses the 2010 Marriage Enrichment

Retreat to Cary, NC on February 19, 2010.

You and your spouse can join other military couples for a

weekend to gain skills that will fortify your marriage while

enjoying a time of relaxation, recreation, fellowship and fun.

Come join the Marriage

Enrichment Weekend Retreat to strengthen relationships, inspire

hope and rekindle marriages.

Service members may be able to attend in lieu of drill with prior

command approval. Lodging and breakfast will be provided. Spouses may be eligible for

additional reimbursable travel expenses.

RSVP by January 29, 2010. For additional details and to RSVP,

contact SFC Calvin Buchan at 800-621-4136 ext. 6124 or

[email protected].

Become a Fan

we’re on

search

“North Carolina

National Guard

Family Programs” And get the latest news,

information and

updates. See you there!

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Across the State…

If you would like to attend an event or have questions, please feel free to contact us. We hope that we have been of

assistance to you this year and will be, too, in the coming months. Happy Holidays! We look forward to seeing you around western North Carolina for some of these great

events. Contact Us Asheville Storefront FAC, 7 Yorkshire Drive, 28803 David Ponder, FAC Network Coordinator, [email protected] (828) 274-8571 Mark Woolbright, FAC Specialist, [email protected] (828) 274-8571

Lenoir FAC, 1535 Beecher Anderson Road, 28645 (800) 621-4136 Nancy Davis, FAC Network Coordinator, [email protected] (828) 757-4365 Frances Johnson, FAC Specialist, [email protected] (828) 757-4365

UPCOMING EVENTS

December 3, 2009

Fire Safety Class Gamewell Fire Department, 6 p.m. – 7 p.m.

Gamewell Fire Department, 2806 Morganton Blvd. SW, Lenoir

Lenoir is kicking off the month of December with some pointers on fire safety. Over the holidays, candles are burning, fires and wood

stoves are cranked up and trees are lit; all of which are a fire hazard. Stay on top of your fire safety and refresh your safety awareness.

Contact Nancy Davis or Frances Johnson for additional details and to RSVP.

*** Pictures with Santa

Lenoir Armory, 7 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Avoid long lines to see and get a picture with Santa. Check him out at the Lenoir Armory. Contact Nancy Davis or Frances Johnson for

additional details and to RSVP.

December 4, 2009

163rd ASMB Yellow Ribbon Event, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. 163rd ASMB Christmas Party, 6 p.m. – 9 p.m.

Lion Crest at The Biltmore Estate Family members of the 163rd ASMB are invited to join their service member at the Dept. of Defense Yellow Ribbon Reintegration event at the Biltmore Estate Lion Crest facility. Following the Yellow Ribbon Event, the 163rd will be hosting a Christmas Party at the Lion Crest Club from 6pm to 9pm. Contact Mark Woolbright for additional details and to RSVP.

***

Operation Toasty Toes America’s Armed Forces Tree Lighting Ceremony

Henderson County Heritage Museum, 4 p.m. Families and service members are welcome to join the official Operation Toasty Toes America’s Armed Forces Tree Lighting

Ceremony. RSVP by Sunday, November 29, 2009, to Patricia-Lee Pirog, 828-696-9777. Operation Toasty Toes, Chapter 7, is an

organization that sends yarn comfort items to service members overseas.

December 5, 2009

211TH MP CO. VA Welcome Home Celebration (in conjunction with) Family Day/Christmas Party

10 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. Clyde Armory, 1824 Jones Cove Road, 28721

***

210th MP CO. Family Day/Christmas Party, 3 p.m.

Franklin Armory Contact David Ponder for additional details and to RSVP.

December 6, 2009

1451st Christmas Family Day

Marion Armory, 9:30 a.m. Contact Frances Johnson for additional details and to

RSVP.

630th CSSB Christmas Family Day Lenoir Armory, 12 p.m.

Soldiers and families of the 630th CSSB are invited to the Christmas Family Day. Lunch will be provided at noon.

Contact Nancy Davis or Frances Johnson for additional details and to RSVP.

December 8, 2009

FACTS @ THE FAC “Mental Prep & Coping Strategies for Deployment”

6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Asheville Storefront FAC 7 Yorkshire Drive, 28803

On December 8, Military Family Life Consultant, Rob Morrison,

will be at the new Asheville Storefront, 7 Yorkshire Street, Suite C, presenting during the FACTS about the FAC event. Rob Morrison

will pin point stress and coping with it and will be available for any questions you may have. The event will start at 6:30pm and will end at 8:30pm. Contact David Ponder or Mark Woolbright for

additional details and to RSVP.

December 12, 2009

A Btry 1-113th Christmas Family Day Lincolnton Armory, 10 a.m. – 12 p.m.

Contact Nancy Davis or Frances Johnson for additional details and to RSVP.

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Across the State…

UPCOMING EVENTS

December 5, 2009

HQ 690th Family Day Kinston, 9 a.m.

Family Day/Christmas Party JFHQ JFHQ, Raleigh

9:30 a.m. JFHQ Family Day Christmas party will be happening at the

Headquarters in Raleigh, 4105 Reedy Creek Road, 27607, starting at

9:30 a.m. on December 5.

December 6, 2009

Governor’s Christmas Tree Lighting Governor’s Mansion, 1 p.m.

The Governor’s Official Tree Lighting Ceremony honoring service

members and their families will take place on December 6 at 1 p.m.

The tree is being decorated with hand-made ornaments sent in from

military dependants throughout the state. You must be on the guest

list to attend the event; RSVP deadline has passed.

1-130th ARB Christmas Party Morrisville Armory, 10 a.m.

Contact Kay Teseniar for additional details and to RSVP.

230th BSB Christmas Family Day Benson Armory, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

Contact Abby Millsap for additional details and to RSVP.

December 8, 2009

Co C 1-252 CAB Christmas Party JFHQ

American Legion Hut, Aberdeen Contact David Butler for additional details and to RSVP.

December 19, 2009

USO Breakfast with Santa Charlotte Armory, 4240 West Blvd., 28208

9 a.m. – 11 a.m. Join Santa for breakfast, along with the USO. RSVPs are limited to

children of military personnel. Children under 10 years of age must

be accompanied by a parent with military ID. For questions, contact

the Charlotte FAC. Or, for more information and to RSVP, email

[email protected].

Thank you for the opportunity to be of service to you and your family. We look forward to 2010, as we have a lot of great

programs, services and events in store for you. Please be certain to contact us if you have any questions or concerns.

Happy Holidays!

Charlotte FAC 4240 West Blvd., 28208 Rachel Talbott, FAC Specialist [email protected], (704) 359-5756

Kannapolis Storefront FAC 6001 Gateway Center Dr., Suite 105, 28081 Shane Judd, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 485-9556 Doretha McLaughlin, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 485-9556

Greensboro FAC 110 Franklin Blvd., 27401 Katy Jones, FAC Network Coordinator [email protected], (336) 691-7712 Sandy Harrison, FAC Specialist [email protected], (336) 691-7763

Raleigh, JFHQ Headquarters Wendi Bell, FAC Administrative Specialist [email protected], (919) 664-6078

Raleigh Storefront FAC 130 Penmarc Drive, 27603 (800) 621-4136 Chinequa Knight, FAC Network Coordinator [email protected], (919) 485-9568 Lottie Anderson, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 485-9557 Valencia Green, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 485-9554 Kay Teseniar, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 485-9559 Marci Thames, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 485-9560

Smithfield FAC 406 Hospital Rd., 27577 Abby Millsap, FAC Specialist [email protected], (919) 934-2013

Southern Pines FAC 500 Morganton Rd., 28387 David Butler, FAC Specialist [email protected], (910) 692-8747

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Across The State…

UPCOMING EVENTS

On December 5th at the Kinston Armory

Families and soldiers of the unit are invited to

attend Family Day starting at 9 a.m. Join other

families in the unit for a fun day of activities.

***

On December 5th, Co B 690th BSB is hosting

their Family Day Christmas Party at the

Farmville Armory from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.

***

Also, on December 5th, the 694th Main. Co &

Det. 1 will be hosting their Family Day

Christmas Party at the Snow Hill Armory from 4

p.m. to 7 p.m.

***

1-120th Combined Arms Battalion (CAB)

Family Day will be on December 6, 2009 from

12:30 p.m. – 4 p.m. at Northside Baptist

Church, 2501 North College Road,

Wilmington. The units are inviting families of

the 1-120th CAB, including E/230th Brigade

Support Battalion (BSB). The day’s events will

be kicked off with a light lunch starting at 1

p.m. Following a day of fun filled activities

and entertainment like foosball, video games,

billiards, bounce houses and more.

During the event special guests Santa and

Mrs. Clause are taking a detour in their

holiday plans to visit our families and units.

Have your kids bring their wish lists so they can

tell Santa some things they would like, face to

face. Parents, Santa’s “helpers” have asked

for ages and genders of children that are

attending by the November 18th in hopes of

having specific toys for each child.

Don’t miss out on the 1-120th Family Day. Call

your Family Assistance Center, Jim Marley,

FAC Specialist at 910-251-7195, or Judy

Howard, FAC Coordinator at 910-251-7151.

***

December 19th is the 9th ANNUAL Afternoon

with Santa (Military, Law Enforcement, & Fire/

EMS) from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Greenville

Armory, home of the 430th Ordnance

Company (EOD) 1401 N. Memorial Drive

Greenville, N.C. If you have a special gift for

your child, wrap it and put your child’s name

on it. Bring it with you or drop it off to Paula

Sauls or SFC Stu Stevens prior so “Santa” can

deliver the gift to your child. Snacks, cold &

hot beverages provided. Don’t forget your

cameras for pictures with Santa. Please RSVP

with number attending to Paula Sauls at 252-

717-9367 or SFC Stu Stevens at 252-414-2087.

We would like to wish you and your family a very safe and Happy Holiday season.

Thank you for the opportunity to serve you.

Greenville FAC 1401 N. Memorial Dr., 27834

Henry Noble

FAC Network Coordinator [email protected]

(252) 551-5865

Jamie Jones FAC Specialist

[email protected] (252) 551-5865

Wilmington FAC 2412 Infantry Road, 28412

Jim Marley

FAC Specialist [email protected]

(910) 251-7195 FAX: (910) 251-7130

Wilmington Storefront FAC

3114 Randall Parkway, 28403

Judy Howard FAC Network Coordinator [email protected]

(800) 621-4136

Jamie McCormick FAC Specialist

[email protected]

(800) 621-4136

5th Annual Reindeer Dash For Cash 10 Miler and 5K Run December 6, 2009

1 p.m. Greenville, NC

On December 6, 2009, at 1 p.m. the 5th Annual Reindeer Dash For Cash 10 Miler

and 5K run will be taking place in Greenville. Race day registration is from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at the Greenville Town Common (start/finish area). Please note

registration will close at 12:30. Race starts at 1:00 p.m. You can also register on

December 5, 2009 at Omega Sports from 1-4 p.m.

The Reindeer Dash for Cash is dedicated to keeping the legacy of Christopher S. Cash, Sr. alive and is a fund-raiser for the Capt. Christopher S. Cash Memorial Foundation

of NC, Inc., which annually funds scholarships at several educational

institutions. Each year, the foundation will offer deserving students the financial assistance needed to pursue a higher

education and the accompanying rewards of learning and character development

achieved through hard work and dedication of earning a professional degree.

For more information contact Dawn Cash-Salau at (252) 531-4241

[email protected].

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When to Use debit or credit

Military & Family Life Consultants Counselors John Alleman Adult and Family Specialist (919) 745-9635 [email protected]

Betty Steelman Youth and Family Specialist (919) 665-9178 [email protected]

Asheville: [email protected] (828) 729-0729 Charlotte: [email protected] (980) 213-6458/6459 Greenville: [email protected] (252) 295-8558 Morrisville: [email protected] (919) 627-4360/4361 Wilmington: [email protected]

(910) 508-6170 Financial Counselors [email protected] David Porter, AFC Certified Financial Planner (704) 280-9555 (East NC)

Frank Molinar Certified Financial Planner (980) 329-8467

LEGAL ASSISTANCE

PROGRAM Reita Smolka

[email protected] (919) 485-9545

Chris Alderson

[email protected] (919) 485-9564

TAX CLINIC

ANNOUNCEMENT In 2010, the Legal Assistance

Team will be traveling through the state to prepare federal and state income tax returns free of

charge. Check the Legal Assistance webpage for details.

Reprinted Military.com - By USAA You've been asked this question over and over again: debit or credit? Like many American consumers you probably answered "debit." And why not, it's designed to be more convenient for purchases. In fact, Americans made 28.4 billion debit purchases versus 21 billion credit card transactions in 2008. Debit card users also spent as much as $1.1 trillion dollars in purchases, according to The Nilson Report. However, there are instances when paying with a debit card is not the answer. Debit cards come with rules and stipulations that may not be in your best interest if you buy a big-ticket item that is damaged, or if you want to boost your credit score. Don't know whether to use your credit or debit card? Use this guide to help you decide.

Pay with credit, when you want to: Shop online. One of the biggest cardholder benefits is purchase protection. If, for example, an item never arrives, is damaged or you have a dispute with the merchant, you can ask your credit card company to withhold payment. With a debit card, the money is gone from your account until the matter is settled. Buy something big. Some credit cards offer warranty protection beyond the manufacturer or store's coverage. For example, a home theater system may come with a one-year manufacturer's warranty. Buy it with a credit card, such as MasterCard® or American Express® and you get another year's protection automatically. Review the specifics with your credit card company before making the purchase. Establish a credit history. Debit card activity doesn't translate to your credit report. Rent a car. Some credit cards offer damage insurance, eliminating the need to pay for the add-on coverage rental agencies charge. Be sure to check your card's exact coverage and exclusions before you charge.

Establish a credit history. Debit card activity doesn't translate to your credit report. Rent a car. Some credit cards offer damage insurance, eliminating the need to pay for the add-on coverage rental agencies charge. Be sure to check your card's exact coverage and exclusions before you charge. Stay at a hotel or travel in general. Using a credit card is usually easier, especially for hotel and airline reservations.

Pay with debit, when you want to: Get cash fast. You can get cash from your bank's ATM without the fees and interest many credit cards charge for cash advances. Avoid interest charges. You'll pay no interest on purchases and only buy what you truly can afford. Set up overdraft protection to avoid fees or penalties for spending more than your available funds. Buy something inexpensive. Debit cards are great for purchases under $50. It's faster than writing checks and most merchants accept them. Make sure you keep track of your debits to avoid overspending.

Pay with debit or credit, when you want to: Earn perks and points. Many credit cards offer frequent-flier mileage and points for hotels, restaurants and purchases from participating vendors. More and more debit cards now have cash-back bonuses similar to those offered by credit card companies. Review reward programs carefully — some may offer smaller bonuses for debit card transactions than credit card purchases. For more information about using your debit and credit cards wisely, visit Military.com's Credit and Debt Channel.

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Child & Youth Program

2025 National Guard Drive, Morrisville, 27560

FAX: (919) 664-6156

CONTACT US Alice Dean

State Youth Coordinator (919) 664-7616

[email protected]

Bridgette Carroll KOG Coordinator

(919) 664-7664 [email protected]

Kristi Wagner Youth Coordinator

(919) 664-7625 [email protected]

TUTOR.COM Tutor.com is available directly to students, as

well as schools, libraries, businesses and community colleges to help K-12 and

adult learners succeed.

It’s time for the Armed Forces

YMCA

2010 Art Contest

“My Military Family”

Who can enter? K-6th grade children of

Military Families in the Army, Navy,

Marines, Air Force, Coast Guard &

National Guard/Reserves. The military

parent must be active duty or retired

(with 20+ years of service).

What to do? Drawings should be of the

student’s family and in color on a 6 by 8

inch template. Oversized and three-

dimensional entries will not be judged.

Entries should depict the student’s

military family. Please do not identify

family members on the drawings.

Facts to know! Art contest Entry Forns

can be found at www.asymca.org and

should be included with the entry in

order to be judged.

When is the deadline? All drawings must

be postmarked by February 19, 2010.

Questions? Call (703) 313-9600, ext, 106 or

email to [email protected].

All artwork becomes property of the

Armed Services YMCA and will not be

returned.

Completed Entry forms with 6” x 8”

artwork may be sent to:

ASYMCA

Attn: Art Contest

6359 Walker Lane, #200

Alexandria, VA 22310

Child and Youth Program

Holiday Update… For the Governor’s Tree Lighting

Ceremony on December 6, we requested

your hand-made, military-theme

ornaments. We are thrilled with your

response. We expected to receive

between 350-400 ornaments, from all

military branches. We’ve received well-

over 700 ornaments. Your support is

tremendous, and we extremely creative

military children across our state. The

Governor’s Christmas Tree Lighting

Ceremony will take place on Dec. 6 at 1

p.m. for previously registered guests. Thank

you, again.

ADD BOOKS TO YOUR

SHOPPING LIST! The Holidays are approaching! If you’re

wondering what to buy your children,

check out the Books For Military Children

website. This site contains fiction books

portraying children with parents in the U.S.

Military. Categories are arranged into age

groups, such as picture books for younger

children, middle school age, and teen

collections.

Need Extra Help? Check out www.tutor.com!

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We’re on the Web!

See us at:

www.nc.ngb.army.mil

FAMILY READINESS GROUPS

Pamela Hughes

State FRG Advisor 105 West Spring St.

Oxford, 27565 (919) 693-5016

[email protected]

Family Readiness Support Assistants

Charlotte

Genesia Newsome [email protected]

(704) 359-5707

Clinton Sarah Strickland

[email protected] (910) 299-5466

Goldsboro Greg Smith

[email protected] (919) 739-5319

Jacksonville

Judy Richardson [email protected]

(910) 347-4352/line 11

Morrisville Jim Roberson

[email protected] (919) 664-7655

If you know of anyone

who has gone above

and beyond, email

ncngfamilyprograms@

gmail.com with your

story.

Above and Beyond Spotlight on Volunteers

Small Acts of Kindness

Carried On ~by Kathryn Jarvis

Jennifer Neese and Kina Boles are two military wives, moms and unique supporters of what their loved one is doing. They show there pride to many people by carrying a handbag. This is not an average handbag though. It is a handmade purse pieced together with material from their spouses Army Combat Uniform (ACU) top, and Jennifer Neese is the one who has been making them.

She started making the purses around the beginning of the summer. Neese said, “There’s a lady on the internet, well actually you go on the internet, they are all over the internet but they are $100. So there was a lady who had one. So I looked at hers and I sew and I’m like I can make that. So I make her (Kina Boles) one.” Even with her husband deployed with Battery A, 1/113

th Field Artillery, two kids and

many responsibilities, Jennifer began making purses for several spouses like Kina Boles. Mrs. Boles said she “mailed her his (Cpt. Joes Boles’) uniform top, she cut it up and made a pocket book. Although she may have to fend off her daughter from using it all the time Mrs. Boles is elated with the special purse lined with a pink and white polka dotted pattern. Mrs. Boles says “I love it, you did wonderful, I am tickled pink.” For Mrs. Neese sewing seems to be second nature. What would take some weeks to do she does in two days. Mrs. Boles said, “It doesn’t take her long.” However, Mrs. Neese says with the kids she has “to start/stop and stuff” but it doesn’t take too long. However long it does take her, it still takes time. Time Jennifer Neese donates to give military spouses something unique and special. Above all she goes above and beyond for the military families on the home front so that each one can “carry” on.

Mrs. Kina Boles holds her new purse

Jennifer Neese made out of Mrs. Boles' husband's old uniform top.

Upcoming FRG Trainings: FRG Leaders are cordially invited to attend either of the training sessions below. Training topics include: FRG Essentials, Key Caller, Funding, and Communication. We encourage any and all command to attend with their FRG Volunteers. Please RSVP to Pam Hughes at [email protected] or (919) 693-3651 ext. 13. December 1, 2009, 2 – 4 p.m. Lenoir FAC, 1535 Beecher Anderson Road, Lenoir 38645 December 2, 2009, 2 – 4 p.m. Mooresville Armory, 720 N. Broad St., Mooresville 28115


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