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I 4-D BUFFALO COURIER-EXPRESS, Sunday, July 17, I960 Mary Haivorth m Take Action to bave DKAJt MAST HAWORTH: Bow do I regain my husband? I believe he is unconsciously falling in love with my next- door neighbor. Her husband is overseas. They have d e e p marriage problems and more and more the is depending on my hus- band. She bakes or cooks things and my husband eats them happily. She asks many favors of him, asks his advice on very personal things and they have long talks. He is very fond of her two children. FINDS FAULT—She sees twice as much of my husband as I do. He pays her compli- ments and actually has gone out of his way to find some- thing wrong with me or my wort I have received much sin- ttkUft suit in vibrant Dior blue imported wool... the skirt is slim and the jacket buttons snugly to give you a trim and uncluttered appearance from the first chill of fall and on 89.95 h 349 t>€LAWAR€ at TtJPP&l Aennu 6 tamn off for parts unknown I ^rkou . • . oeiaooers and await we go for two whole weeks vacation will be closed July 18 to Aug. 1 HOTEL STATLER HJITON cere praise from others on my cooking and was always an"A" student in Home Economics. I am easy going, have a nice face and a 34-22-35 figure. I am quite upset about this mat- ter and don't know what to do. What do you advise? G. L. DEAR G. L.: By seeing the problem in perspective, you may be enabled to cope con- structively, on your own initi- ative—without requiring A-B- C instructions from a coun- sellor. As of now. the proposition isn't so much "how to regain your husband" as it is how to protect your marriage from danger—the danger of covet- ous, unscrupulous blandish- ments on the neighbor's part and your husband's foolish, unguarded vulnerability to her designs. SHARK MEAT? — Try to imagine how you would react and the steps you might take if you caught sight of shark gliding in through surf towards your unaware hus- band. Would you just stand there, dumb-like, wordless, rooted to the spot, watching to see how things would turn out? Or would you set up a holler, and go into action—bold and di- rect—to change the immedi- ate pitch of events and avert disaster? It is my feeling that a healthy, hardy, socially com- petent and loving wife would automatically take the latter course. And that her husband (if he is worth having) will re- spect and value her more for proving that she has spirit enough to confront the enemy. OWN PATTERN—You will have to devise your own pat- tern on this score. Don't lend countenance to the neighbor's play for your husband. Call a spade a spade in making your objections known to both of them. Very likely he will be angry with discomfort when you be- gin to speak as you think about the problem (and it is a problem)—thus taking the false face of romantic senti- ment off their u n w i s e ex- change. If the neighbor has a history of marriage problems, she s h o u l d have specialist help to re-educate herself for right living. Meanwhile your husband should steer ejear of her. clear ft H. Mothers* Club Elects Mrs.Charles D.Hewson Mrs. Charles D. Hewson is the new president of the Mothers' Club of Holy Fam- ily Church. Elected to serve with her are Mrs. William A. Russo, vice president; Mrs. Stanley L. Babiracki, record- ing secretary; Mrs. Julian Zwo- linski, financial secretary, and Mrs. Philip A. Zucarelli, treas- urer. Elected directors are Mes- dames Benjamin J. Antonio, Joseph E. Calabrese, Albert Vingoe, Frank A. Buccella and John Wilson. Standing com- mittee chairmen are Mrs. John T. Miller, membership; Mrs. Robert F. Bamrick, program; Mrs. William J. Miller, ways and means; Mrs. Robert F. Barrett, sunshine, and Mrs. William P. Berst, publicity. Great Lakes Cruise Mr. and Mrs. Fred P. Sol- leder of Irvington Dr., Town of Tonawanda, will leave Aug. 6 for a cruise on the Great Lakes. POODS AIR- CONDITIONED FREE PARKING the Shoe H7 MAIN ST. Op«n MOO 0«d Ihm*. !«•• WA. MOO TRANSITOWN Plata Op»n iv«ry Ev**inf PI 5767 THE liLIillli SHOE Ut U S. to 0«. —4 Cm* Busy day after busy day, Clinics keep their good looks, help keep y6u at your best smartly and comfortably.' Crafted of the finest of glove-soft leathers. Easy to clean and easy on the budget, too! Eastwood's endorse the Clinic, bring you so many styles I Soviet Visit—/ Report Given on Russ Tour Photo oy Beidie Mrs. Petrie The marriage of Miss Shar- on Lee Rahn, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Harry E. Rahn of Burch Ave., West Seneca, to Patrick Joseph Petrie, son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Petrie of Starin Ave., took place at 10:30 yesterday morning in St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Abbott and Tamarack. The bride wore a chapel length embroidered gown of nylon sheer. A crown of pearls held in place her French illusion scalloped veil. Phato fry Mdwara&T. Cheater Mrs. Kolc The marriage of ffery Ann Lipiecki, daughteiwof Mrs. Theresa Lipiecki of Ivy St., and the late Frank Lipiecki. to Walter J. KolodziA son of Mr. and Mrs. Wal^r Kolod- ziej of Poplar Awe., took place at 10 yesterdajr morning at Queen of the •jost Holy Rosary Church in Sycamore Ave. The couple m honey- mooning in the Poceno Moun- tains. The bride wofe a dress of white Chantilly pee. Continued from Page One ets, went shopping in their markets, examined their un- dies, burped their babies and went to the beauty parlor. The first thing I discovered was that Russian women work longer and harder both on the job and as housewives than most American working wives. The work week in Rus- sia is 46 hours, nine hours a day with an hour off for lunch and seven hours on Saturday. That work week applies to almost every job—and in Russia women do almost every kind of job you can name — from ditch-digging and steel rolling to doctoring and directing traffic. MILLIONS LOST —They have to—the Soviet Union still suffers from the loss of nearly 8,000,000 men during the war. Women outnumber men in every age group ex- cept teen-agers down. They work hard on the job: Lateness or absenteeism can mean loss of earning power— while exceeding your work quota or doing a very good job brings not only community honors but more money. They also work hard off the job: Shopping in Russia means a trek from store to store, and since cleaning women are a "capitalistic luxury" for most house- wives, getting home means sweeping, washing, cooking, without any TV dinners to save time. LOOK AHEAD—No Rus- sian woman complains, be- cause they're all in the same boat. But they also make no secret of the fact that they like the American standard of living. A Russian woman isn't em- barrassed if your lipstick is better, or your nylons thin- ner. She says: "Isn't that nice—we'll have some like that soon ourselves." My guess is that some day they will. One of the most in- teresting things about Russia is that they have no air raid shelters and never heard of a civil defense drill. While Premier Khrushchev calls America names, his feminine comrades call attention to the fact that they are building a factory for wash-and-wear. The Russian women are 100 per cent behind their govern- ment, come what may, but they're also 200 per cent in favor of frozen foods, dis- posable diapers, pop beads, prettier dresses and two lip- sticks in every purse. Tomorrow: Reds'Beauty Care. Land Blooms Brighq with Good Care Continued from Page One greenhouse of Mr. and Mrs. Howard Johnt in Lafayette Blvd., Amherst. From November to May the Johnts have 23 blooming camillia bushes in their green- house. The greenhouse, which is attached to the house, was built before the Johnts bought the property. "It was really the greenhouse we bought," said Mrs. Johnt. Camillia-growing has been their hobby for 15 years. They have 19 varieties of the flower in white, pink, red and varigated colors. "When we started we paid $4.50 a bush. They are now as high as $50 a bush," Mrs. Johnt said. FREE TIME—They also keep six orchid plants in the greenhouse, all of different varieties. "Since we both love flowers," said Mrs. Johnt, "we spend all of our free time in thej greenhouse and garden, and even some tiraf that isn't free." Planted in the garden is a dwarf chestnut tree which yields edible chestnuts. "I usually grind the chestnuts and put them in the freez- er. I You'd be surprised at the number of recipes you can use them in," Mrs. Johnt said. toLDEN CHAIN—The Johnts have also planted a golden chain tree, smoke bush, magnolia tree and night-blooming jasmine. Thf, garden is filled with rose bushes, 135 busies of almost 75 different types. fWe have fresh flowers all year round,** she said. "During the winter our Amherst Garden Club members are busy with dried arrangements, but I'd rather spend my time making camillia corsages." Tea-Told Tales Mr. and Mrs. Edward J. Butler of Parker Ave. are re- ceiving congratulations on the birth of their son. Edward Jr., on Thursday at the Buf- falo General Hospital. IT* Mr. and Mrs. Richard T. Brownrigs of Morningside Lane, Williamsville, have an- nounced the birth of their second child, Cynthia, on Thursday, July 7, at the Buf- falo General Hospital. The infant has a brother, Richard Jr. ur Mr. and Mrs. William Kolbe of Harrington Park, N.J., an- nounce the birth of their sec- ond child, Penny, on July 8 in Harrington Park. Mrs. Kolbe is the former Miss Marci Wirges of Doncaster Rd., Kenmore. Her parents are Mr. and Mrs. Carlton J. Wirges of Ft. Lauderdale, Fla., who will arrive soon to spend a few months at their summer home at Lime Lake. Mr. and Mrs. Robert A. Weber of Edmund St., Cheek- towaga are receiving congrat- ulations on the birth of their first child. Lisa Marie, on June 30 in Buffalo General Hospital. Mr. and Mrs. Richard P. Hurley of West Ohio St., Olean, have announced the birth of their second child, Terence Patrick, June 21 in St. Francis Hospital, Olean. The infant's brother is Bran- don Timothy, 1. Mr. and Mrs. Sean Seamus Ahern of Richmond Ave. an- nounce the birth of their sec- ond child, a son, Michael Shea Ahern, on Sunday, June 19, at Buffalo General Hospital. The infant has a 2-year-old sister, Ann Amelia. Mrs. Ahern is the former Miss Donata Giffoniello, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Emil Giffoniello of Richmond Ave. Mr. and Mrs. John W. Hast- ings of Glenwood Dr., Clar- ence, have announced the birth of their second child, Barbara Jeanne, on Thurs- day, June 30, at Children's Hospital. The infant has a sister, Susan Lynn. Mr. and Mrs. Landers L. Sullivan of Elmview PI. are receiving congratulations on the birth of a daughter, Melissa Pratt Sullivan, on Sunday, July 3, at Children's Hospital. The infant has two brothers. Mr. and Mrs. Aby Marks of Springville Ave., Amherst, have announced the birth of their first child, Kenneth An- derson Marks, Thursday, July 7, at Children's Hospital. Mrs. Marks is the former Miss Anne Kavanagh of Dublin, 1 Ireland. Card Party Set By College Unit The afternoon group of the University of Michigan Wom- en's Club of -Buffalo has set the date for a fall card party and luncheon. Mrs. Leo W. Coleman is chairman, and Mrs. James D. Kline is vice chairman of the event to be held on Oct. 31 at Amherst Community Church in Washington Hwy., Amherst. Assisting as committee chairmen will be Mesdames Dale Kaufman, Daniel Sutter, Herbert Moore, Norman C. Bender, Carl G. Frost, Her- bert J. Cuttler, W. Allen Fish- er, James E. Wilson, Clark R. Simmons, William Seibert, E. R. Low and Floyd P. Sugnet. Parents' N t h t Is Scheduled by FLEI! 237 Delaware MO. 2860 Furriers Since 1924 STORAGE - CLEANING - REPAIRING - RESTYLING HOW SHOW.NO NEW FALL COLLECTION at DISCOUNT PRICES Parents' Night at Sacred Heart School will t*ke place Thursday at the fchool in Emslie St. The school is con- ducting summer elapses in re- ligion this month. Cadet Lodge, iJloF. will present a new flM to the school. It will be accepted by Mrs. George Holt, president of the Home School Assn. After the flag presentation in front of the school, the children will give a play in the school yard. The Very Rev. Paul J. Eberz is pastor of the church. The Rev. Carl Puehn is assistant pastor. by Kurtz Mrs. Car The marriage of Miss Marie A. Bolis, daughter ft Mr. and Mrs. Louis C. Bolisipf Abbott Rd., and Victor Ga»rge Car- bone took place at 10:45 yes- terday morning at poly An- gels Church in Filter Ave. The bridegroom is Sxe son of Mr. and Mrs. Josep|fa F. Car- bone of Prospect Ave. The bride wore a gown of peau de sole with a hand-clipped peau d'ange lace bodice and front panel, trimmed with irides- cent sequins and seted pearls. Matching lace ed gel the hem- line and terminated in a wide court train. Her tiered veil of French illusion was caught by a matching peau d'ange lace coronet. Photo by Flahmrtt Mrs. Hoerner St. Benedict's Church. 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