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How to Survive Hardball Office Politics
5 Unwritten Rules You Need to Know
to ‘Play the Game’ to Win
Toxic office politics . . .
Some co-workers seem to suck the air out of the room, don’t they?
But you can bloom where you are planted.
When the going gets tough, the tough get going.
The 5 Unwritten Rules
You need to know the 5 Unwritten Rules.
Rule #1: People you work with are not ‘Family’
F A M I L Y
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THIS IS
People you work with are focused on: • Making
money • Staying
employed • Maybe even
‘getting ahead’
N O T F A M I L Y
The 5 Unwritten Rules
THIS IS
Your welfare is not their top concern. If it’s ‘you’ against ‘them,’ guess whose interests win?
The 5 Unwritten Rules
THIS IS
N O T F A M I L Y
The 5 Unwritten Rules
Rule #2: Honesty is not always the best policy
I can tell a lie?
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Is your boss’s homely grandchild ‘adorable’? Of course!
The 5 Unwritten Rules
Would you throw yourself under a bus for the company? Sure!
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Rule #3: Bullshipping is sometimes a good idea.
Observe the masters of bullshipping. It’s an art. Learn from them.
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Great speech, boss!
Ah hah hah hah. That joke was hilarious, boss!
That’s amazing, boss. I love [stamp collecting/etc.] too!
Have you lost weight?
& don’t forget to work hard (& to be nice to your co-workers too.)
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Rule #4: Don’t share personal problems with your co-workers.
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You broke your heart?
You broke your leg?
Your basement flooded?
Be cool, calm & collected. Look outside the workplace for shoulders to cry on.
There will be
a $5 charge for
Whining
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You gain points for showing how you handle a setback by taking it in stride.
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EXCEPTION to Rule #4: This does not apply to Serious personal problems.
EXCEPTION: In the case of truly serious problems, such as life-threatening illnesses or a death in the family, share what you need to with your supervisor, bosses, and Human Resources. They may be able to reassign your workload temporarily, or arrange a paid or unpaid leave of absence. Decency and kindness should prevail.
BE INVINCIBLE
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BONUS INSIGHT: Never have a ‘Problem.’ Talk ‘Challenges’ versus ‘Problems.’
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Rule #5: Know that Information = Power
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Sharing too much personal info leaves you vulnerable to ‘swiftboating’
Swiftboating - attack by a political opponent who twists the truth to make your plus a minus.
Home schooled? You must be one of those weirdos. You went to a
prep school? You must be an elitist snob.
You moonlight? So that’s why you slack off here in the office.
You’re active in [fill-in-the -blank ethnic] club / [f-i-t-b] church? You must have a parochial outlook.
You’re working on a book? No wonder you don’t concentrate enough at work.
The 5 Unwritten Rules
Don’t seek confidants at work.
Google ‘Monica Lewinsky & Linda Tripp.’ ‘Nuff said.
‘Talk into this flower.’
The Boring Strategy
SAFE TOPICS: • Restaurants (but not nosebleed pricey ones.)
• Sports • Recipes • The Weather
Limit your conversation to Safe Topics.
How to Handle ‘Nosy Parkers’
• Smile & don’t answer. If he repeats the question,
ask ‘Why do you ask?’
• Smile & change the subject. NOTE: Always be pleasant as you deflect the NP. They will catch on (that you are not a doofus).
Nosy Parker – co-worker who persists in trying to ferret out your personal info.
Nedra Cleary’s Book
Check out the hundreds of additional career-booster tips in Nedra Cleary’s book. Here are links to both the paperback & eBook versions on Amazon.com • The Innocent’s Guide to Hardball
Office Politics (paperback) • The Innocent’s Guide to Hardball
Office Politics (eBook)
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