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Table of ContentsHigh Holy Days at Temple Beth Sholom Page 3Holidays at Temple Beth Sholom Page 4Shabbat at Temple Beth Sholom Page 6Congregational Programs Page 8Adult Education Offerings Page 9Family Education Programs Page 13Sisterhood Events Page 15

Brotherhood Events Page 16Religious School Page 17Early Childhood Page 19Youth and Camp Page 20Participate in Synagogue Life Page 21High Holy Days at a Glance Page 22Board and Staff Directory Page 23

“Let the good in me connect with the good in others, until all the world is transformed through the compelling power of love.”Rabbi Nachman of Breslov

Your Guide to Engagement and Community at Temple Beth Sholom

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HIGH HOLY DAYS The High Holy Days are a time for celebration as well as reflection. As we prepare for the High Holy Days,

we wish you Shanah Tovah and a year filled with health, happiness and peace. We look forward to being

together as a community during this special time in our lives.

Selichot Saturday, September 24, 2016 6:00 pm | Dinner (reservations required) 7:00 pm | Film & Discussion, Service to follow Location: Social Hall and Sanctuary

Erev Rosh Hashanah Sunday, October 2, 2016 7:00 pm | Erev Rosh Hashanah Service Location: Sanctuary

Rosh Hashanah Monday, October 3, 2016 9:00 am | Family Service 11:00 am | Main Service: Tashlikh to follow (Apples and Honey sponsored by Sisterhood) Location: Sanctuary and Outdoor Campus

Rosh Hashanah (2nd Day) Tuesday, October 4, 2016 10:30 am | Service, Luncheon to follow (reservations required) Location: Sanctuary and Social Hall

Erev Yom Kippur (Kol Nidrei) Tuesday, October 11, 2016 7:00 pm | Kol Nidrei Service Location: Sanctuary

Yom Kippur Wednesday, October 12, 2016 9:00 am | Family Service 11:00 am | Main Service, Yom Kippur Discussion Groups to follow3:30 pm | Afternoon Service/Yizkor/Neilah Sisterhood Break the Fast to follow Location: Sanctuary, Classrooms, Outdoor Campus

Sukkot Sunday, October 16, 2016 Sukkah Hop: TBS is hitting the road as we explore different Sukkot of TBS congregants on a fun and social Sukkah hopping event. Enjoy good food, friends and laughter as we celebrate one of the most joyous holidays on the Jewish calendar. Location: Various Homes Cost: $5.00 per person

Simchat Torah Sunday, October 23, 2016 4:45 pm | Yizkor 5:15 pm | Dinner (Reservations required) 6:00 pm | Simchat Torah Service and Consecration

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HOLIDAYS AT TEMPLE BETH SHOLOMChanukiah Lighting in the Orange CircleDecember 24 - December 31, 20166:00 pm | Orange Circle

Celebrate the Festival of Lights with your TBS Family when we gather at the northwest corner of the Orange Circle to light our Chanukiah each night of Chanukah, December 24-31! Everyone is welcome to join us for one, two or more nights of Chanukah as we say the blessings over the candles and sing our favorite Chanukah songs together with the community.

Children’s Purim Shpiel and Celebration Sunday, March 12, 2017 10:00 am - 1:00 pm | TBS Campus

Adult Purim Celebration Saturday, March 11, 2017 7:00 pm | TBS Campus

Purim’s not just for kids. Join us for a fun adult evening celebration including the Megillah like you’ve never heard it before. Food, fun and laughter are guaranteed. Don’t forget your costume!

Chocolate Passover SederWednesday, April 5, 20177:00 pm | Social Hall

Please join your TBS Family for a delicious chocolate Passover seder. All women, men, and children ages 12 and up are welcome.

Congregational Second Night SederTuesday, April 11, 2016Social Hall

Join your TBS Family for a Second Night Passover Seder at TBS. The Seder will be led by Rabbi Heidi Cohen and Cantor David Reinwald.

Pesach Yizkor ServiceMonday, April 17, 2017 at 6:00 pm

Shavuot Dinner and Study SessionTuesday, May 30, 20176:00 pm | Yizkor, Evening Program to follow

Celebrate the receiving of Torah with a congregational dairy potluck dinner with a special TBS cook-off. We look forward to welcoming a special speaker as we engage in the study of Torah and Jewish life.

Mark your Calendars... Jewish Holidays 2016/2017Tu Bishvat | Saturday, February 11, 2017

Yom HaShoah | Monday, April 24, 2017

Yom HaZikaron | Monday, May 1, 2017

Yom Haatzmaut | Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Lag BaOmer | Sunday, May 14, 2017

This is the Year of ShemaRabbi Heidi M. Cohen

Shema, the most basic yet complex prayer in our tradition. Six simple words that evoke emotion and questions. Shema Yisrael ADONAI Eloheinu, ADONAI Echad - Listen/Hear O Israel, ADONAI is our God, ADONAI is One. (Deuteronomy 6:4)

These words are one of the first prayers we learn as youth or when we enter Judaism. We recite them when we wake up in the morning, go to bed at night and the moments before we die. Moses recited these words to the Israelites as he prepared them to enter Israel. We recite the Shema in every service and before we read Torah. Historically, the Shema was recited during the gravest situations, from the time of the Romans to the Inquisition to the Holocaust. It has the power to evoke joy and bring comfort in times of need. Six words so powerful for the individual and for the community.

Like the shofar we hear at Rosh Hashanah, the Shema is a wake-up call - a daily wake up call! But unlike the shofar which is meant to wake up the entire community, the Shema is meant to wake up the individual. It is time for us to pay attention to our lives. We need to be present to listen to each moment and the truth that is that moment. It is a wake up call for us to understand that there is a purpose to our lives and we need to be constantly evaluating how we are living every day.

The Shema is a connector - it connects us to every facet of our life and to the Jewish people. Our lives are connected through family, work, school, extracurricular activities and hobbies. The Shema is what brings each of these together and connects the individual to the Jewish people and Israel. In all that we do we give a piece of ourselves to that endeavor, yet at the same time, we collect pieces of others along the way. While the Shema is a very personal prayer, it is also meant to bind us all together as one people.

Being Jewish is about being a part of Jewish life through attending Shabbat and holiday services, learning through religious school and adult education and acts of tikkun olam (repairing the world). Judaism is more importantly a personal commitment to a covenant made between us and God, whether we were brought into the covenant at birth or we entered into it later in life. It is the responsibility of each individual to own his or her own Judaism. We close our eyes when we recite the Shema to not only remove all distractions but to allow us as the individual to fully embrace this affirmation. No one can do Judaism for us - we must do it and create it for ourselves.

As we will discuss in the weeks ahead, this is the year of Shema! This is the year for us to listen to each other, to God and most importantly, to ourselves. For the past couple of years, our focus has been recovering, rebuilding and returning to our campus. We spent much time on the physical connections through our new facility and have been blessed to reconnect in our own sacred space. Now is the time for us to redefine and discover connections as a Jewish community. I was recently asked, ‘what is your why?’ What an amazing question! When I tried to answer it, I found myself delving into the ‘what’ and not able to articulate the ‘why’ as quickly.

This is the year for us to discover our ‘why’ as a Jewish community and as individuals. ‘Why are we a part of our Jewish community?’ ‘Why are we Jewish?’

The best way for us to discover this is to, Shema! Listen! I challenge each of us to ask ourselves, ‘why’ and then share these ‘whys.’ Shema is not a silent prayer. It is said in a loud clear voice by each individual. In order to listen, there must be something to be heard. Together, if we listen and if we share, we will shape our community into one that is relevant and connected. We cannot wait for someone to do Jewish for us, this is our task. This is the covenant we chose to be a part of and this is a commitment we make for today and future generations.

Shema Yisrael, Listen Israel - this is your wake-up call to discover your ‘why’ and together we can be and we will be one.

L’Shanah Tovah

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SHABBAT AT TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM Shabbat services take place every Friday night at Temple Beth Sholom. The Shabbat evening service schedule is as follows (October - May)6:00 pm- Oneg6:30 pm - Shabbat Evening Service(unless otherwise noted for special events)

Shabbat in Blue Jeans Celebrating SukkotFriday, October 21, 20166:30 pm

Tot ShabbatFriday Evenings at 5:30 pmNovember 4, 2016December 9, 2016January 13, 2017

February 10, 2017March 10, 2017 May 19, 2017

Bring in Shabbat with the music and spirit of Rabbi Cohen and Cantor Reinwald! Appropriate for families with little ones ages infant-6 years old. Stay for a potluck dinner, bring a favorite dish or a quick pick up item.  Please do not mix meat and cheese items and do not bring shellfish or pork products.

Learner’s Minyan ShabbatJanuary 28, 2017 and April 8, 201710:30 am

These special Shabbat services will explain parts of the service as we move through the prayerbook. This will give you a better understanding and appreciation of how the service works and how it all is integrated together. (These two services are both part of our Adult B’nei Mitzvah program and open to the entire congregation.)

Music & Meditation ShabbatFebruary 18, 2017 and April 22, 201710:30 am

Back again this year, join Cantor Reinwald for a service where we use music as a vehicle to find inner-peace. We will connect with our breathing, experience meditation through chant and visualization, and you will be guaranteed to leave feeling refreshed.

Shabbat at HomeJune 2, 2017

Enjoy Shabbat at home! Invite friends over to your house for a special Shabbat dinner. It can be fancy with all the china and crystal or pizza and soda. What makes it special is you! Check out challah recipes on the TBS website along with discussion starters.

T’filah Band Shabbat ServicesFriday Evenings at 6:30 pmDecember 2, 2016February 3, 2017

March 3, 2017May 5, 2017

The sensational TBS Tefillah Band, made up of our own volunteer musicians, will spice up our Religious School Shabbat services. Join us for these fun family services. We are always looking for new members - Please contact Cantor Reinwald for more information on joining our musical crew and for our rehearsal schedule.

SAVE THE DATES...Celebrating Shabbat with our 5th GradeDecember 2, 2016

Celebrating Shabbat with SisterhoodFriday, January 20, 2017

Sisterhood invites you to attend our annual Sisterhood Shabbat Service where we honor our newest SHAYNAH (Sisterhood Has All Your Needs At Heart).

Celebrating Shabbat with our 4th GradeFebruary 3, 2017

Celebrating Shabbat with our 3rd GradeMarch 3, 2017

Celebrating Shabbat with our K-2nd GradeMay 5, 2017

Celebrating our Teachers Shabbat ServiceMay 5, 2017

Celebrating Shabbat with Confirmation and Blessing of the GraduatesMay 26, 2017

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Tekiah: The Call and the AnswerCantor David E. Reinwald

When the shofar is sounded, what do you hear? Does it connect you to high holiday seasons of the past? Does it bring clarity to your mind to envision how you will better your life for the future? The sounding of the shofar is something we expect every single Rosh Hashanah, and yet it is a foreign presence to our ears, hearing its loud, jolting sound but once a year. It is a call to action, but we must, ourselves, then act to bring about the personal change we wish to make and want to see.

The sounding of the shofar is described in the prayer Unetaneh Tokef, repeated in every morning service of our high holidays. In a way, this is the most essential and important prayer of these days, unique to this time of year and the prayer repeated the most. It notes that the shofar is sounded, but does not end there -- it then states ‘the still, small voice’ is heard. What is fit referring to, and how do we hear this ‘still, small voice?’

Some of you may be like me - I pride myself on my ability to read my own intuition, to know when something is right or wrong for me. I always trust my heart and soul, my gut reaction and feeling. Is this part of the ‘still, small voice?’ Or, is it a familiar voice, not unlike the voice we think, speak, or sing with, and yet whenever we hear ourselves recorded, we sometimes respond, “Is that ME?” How we present ourselves to ourselves is different than we may be perceived by others, and if we can hone into that ‘still, small voice,’ we can learn something personally that may otherwise be hidden. It takes strength and conviction to look at our lives, past, present, and future, with a critical eye. And, yet, that should be the very essence of the month of Elul and the High Holidays.

The still, small voice may be encouraging us to take one small step forward and out of our comfort zone to try to reach new truths and understandings, new heights of exploration, and ultimately, new milestones in our lives. Listening to that voice may be like listening to a new piece of music. Our first reaction may be our gut feeling of like or dislike. However, I always encourage those I teach to listen critically to music, not with musical taste as their first perception, but with an ear to the purpose of the music itself. What is the tone set by the composer to ultimately convey meaning through their art? When we approach music in this way, it is like studying Torah. We may or may not like or even agree with the message, but we can walk away enlightened every single time.

I hope that this high holiday season is one in which you will find new meaning -- in the strong sound of the shofar and in the still, small voice.

L’shanah Tovah Tikateivu.

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CONGREGATIONAL PROGRAMSShabbat Hikes Dates | Times | Locations TBA

The ‘Take a Hike’ group leads hikes to areas of interest in the Orange County area every two months. Future hike dates are determined at the end of that day’s hike by availability, consensus and take into account Jewish holidays. Locations are chosen by the hike’s ease and alternate between easy and moderately strenuous. Please contact Sylvia and Mark Borovay at (714) 544-7889 for more information.

Mitzvah DaySunday, March 26, 2017 9:00 am - 12:00 pm | Locations TBA

Mark your calendar for Sunday, March 26th as we come together to help our community. Engage in work with the homeless, help with clean-up projects, work with the Red Cross and more. Elevate your spirit through hard work and make this Mitzvah Day one to remember. Specific details will be available in the fall.

Maxine Horwitz Cultural Series2017 | Look for Announcements Later this Year

This is an annual favorite. An evening of entertainment for the TBS Congregation and the community at large. Please watch for details regarding the date and featured performer.

Sponsored by TBS Sisterhood Michele Shugarman & Michelle Singleton Chairs

TBS Annual FundraiserDate TBA

Enjoy an evening with your TBS friends as we celebrate life at TBS and support all of our congregational programs.

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Lunch N LearnSeptember 13, 2016November 8, 2016December 13, 2016January 10, 2017

February 14, 2017March 14, 2017May 9, 2017

12:00 pm - 1:00 pm | TBS Conference Room Bring your own lunch and join Jodi Kaufman and some special guests for an hour of noshing and learning. Topics might include, The Stories We Pray (the Midrashim behind our prayers), Who Wrote the Bible? and more.

Parenting with Positive DisciplinePART ONEThursday, September 15, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

What is Positive Discipline and How do I Fill My Toolbox with Parenting skills?

PART TWOThursday, September 22, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

Help! Why Do My Kids “Misbehave” and What Should I Do?

PART THREEThursday, September 29, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

Do Rewards, Punishments and Consequences Really Change Behavior?

PART FOURThursday, October 6, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

Effective Communication Skills for Nurturing Belonging, Self-Regulation and Resilience

PART FIVEThursday, October 13, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

Build a Happy Family with Family Meetings, Daily Routines and the Wheel of Choice

PART SIXThursday, October 20, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

How Do I Nurture Capable and Confident Children?

PART SEVENThursday, October 27, 2016 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm

Is it Okay To Be a Not So Perfect Parent?

Instructor: Tammy Keces, M.A., IHDS PrincipalCost: $5 Family per session

“TBS Coffeehouse”September 29, 2016October 27, 2016December 29, 2016January 26, 2017

February 23, 2017March 30, 2017April 27, 2017May 25, 2017

7:00 - 9:00 pm | TBS Living Room

Current events and conversation, fueled by coffee! Relax, review, unpack and analyze unfolding events, both domestic and international, in this stimulating, thought-filled forum.

Coordinator: Gary Holloway

Writing for the SoulOctober 20, 2016October 27, 2016

November 3, 2016November 10, 2016

6:30 - 7:30 pm |TBS Campus

Back by popular demand, this four week class will offer new and unique prompts, followed by writing, sharing, and, of course, a nosh. No writing experience is necessary! Join in and connect with an expression of thoughts and feelings through words.

Instructor: Rise Kirbo Cost: $5 member/$7 non-member

“We each decide whether to make ourselves learned or ignorant, compassionate or cruel, generous or miserly. No one forces us. No one decides for us, no one drags us along one path or the other. We are responsible for what we are.”Maimonides

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Adult B’nei MitzvahSelect Tuesday evenings and Sunday mornings, please see www.tbsoc.com/abm2018 for full schedule

Over a period of two years, the adult b’nei mitzvah program becomes a family who spend time learning Hebrew, delve into many areas of Judaism, read wonderful books, and culminate in our adult b’nei mitzvah reading from Torah and leading us in a beautiful service. The program begins on September 18, 2016.

Instructor: Cantor David ReinwaldCost: $360 for the two-year program

Beginning HebrewOctober 23, 2016November 20, 2016 December 11, 2016 January 22, 2017February 12, 2017

March 5, 2017March 19, 2017 April 23, 2017April 30, 2017

11:00 am - 12:00 pm | TBS Campus

Have you always wanted to follow along in the Hebrew during services or help your children with their Hebrew homework? This course will introduce the letters and vowels of the Hebrew Alphabet and, by the end of this course, learners will be able to read simple Hebrew words and phrases. Beginning Hebrew is for new Hebrew learners or for those eager to brush up on their Hebrew skills. If you are wondering if this class is for you, give me a call! 714-628-4620.

Instructor: Jodi Kaufman, RJECost: $75 member/$90 non-memberIncludes Textbook

Hatha Yoga 1October 23, 2016November 6, 2016

November 13, 2016November 20, 2016

9:45 am - 11:00 am | TBS Chapel

Hatha Yoga incorporates the importance of breath and clarity with movement and mindfulness. Hatha Yoga 1 provides in depth explanations of foundational Yoga postures that focus on movement and breath and incorporates meditation techniques, bringing clarity, lightness and inspiration. This class is designed for students of all levels seeking connection to body, reduction of stress and enhanced focus on and off the mat.

Instructor: Ronda Einbinder, 200 Hour RYTCost: 4 sessions | $48 member/$60 non-member

Parenting with a Growth MindsetOctober 30, 2016December 4, 2016January 8, 201711:00 am - 12:00 pm | TBS Campus

Based on the research by Dr. Carol Dwek, growth mindset is the idea that traits can be developed and improved. On the other hand, someone with a fixed mindset believes that traits, talents and abilities are innate, static and cannot be improved. Together we will explore what growth mindset is, why it’s important and best practices to support our children in developing this belief.

Instructor: Jodi Kaufman, RJE and Paula Pitluk Cost: $5/Family

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“I Believe with Perfect Faith”: An Introduction to the teachings of Moses Maimonidies (Rambam)November 1, 2016 and November 8, 20167:00 pm - 8:30 pm | TBS Board Room

“This two part series will focus on the teachings and influence of Maimonidies, one of the most famous teachers and guides of Jewish law and ethics. We will primarily focus upon his thirteen principles of faith, and the levels of tzedakah (charity) and his development of the Mishneh Torah, a simplified set of Jewish rules and logic. Finally, we will discuss his overall views of spirituality and deity through Jewish law.

CLASS 1 Ani Ma’amin- The 13 principles of faith

CLASS 2 Maimonidies views of Spirituality through Jewish Law

Instructor: Rabbinic Student Bryan ZiveCost: $5 member/$7 non-member

“Thai One On!”Thursday, November 3, 20166:30 pm - 9:00 pm | TBS Kitchen

Welcome to the world of Thai cuisine. Spend the evening combining aromatic herbs and spices with authentic ingredients to create a delicious Thai feast. Recipes, mentoring, wine and good humor will be in abundance. Bring that special someone and let’s make it a date!

Instructor: Hollis O’BrienCost: $18/member, $30/non-member

Latkes and SufganiyotSunday, November 13, 20169:30 am - 12:00 pm | TBS Campus

Join Lynne Kontur and learn how to make delicious Chanukah Latkes and Sufganiyot from scratch. You’ll take home yummy samples of the food you prepare and recipes, tips and tricks to make the holiday extra special for your family this year.

Instructor: Lynne KonturCost: $18 member/$25 non-member

Pregnancy: Staying Low-RiskTuesday, November 15, 20169:30 am - 11:30 am| TBS Campus

This 2-hour workshop will cover the 5 ways women can stay low-risk during pregnancy: Exercises to build birthing muscles, Nutrition to prevent common pregnancy diseases, Avoiding Harmful Things, Rest/Relaxation, and Education.

Instructor: Rachel Benson, Master in Social Work American Achievement of Husband Coached Childbirth Cost: $10/person

LGBTQ Identity as a Transcendent Force Amidst the Palestinian-Israeli ContextThursday, December 1, 20167:00 pm - 8:30 pm | TBS Board Room

Join us for a discussion examining LGBTQ identity in Israel. The focus will be on the power of sexual identity and the possibility of transcending other forms of identity to create a unique bridge to peace between Palestinians and Israelis.

Instructor: Suzette Zazueta Cost: $5 member/$7 non-member

Torah by TwilightJanuary 5, 2017February 2, 2017March 2, 2017

April 6, 2017May 4, 2017

7:00 pm - 8:30 pm | TBS Board Room

“Turn the Torah, and turn it again, for everything you want to know is found within it.” Take a twilight stroll through the first five books, guided by Torah Study participants. Each month we’ll highlight selected material in a unique and interactive fashion. From the origin stories and troubled families of Genesis to Exodus, the beginning of our people and the journey from slavery to freedom, through the quest for holiness in Leviticus, to Numbers and the long tradition of ritual, and into Deuteronomy and the emergence of the master storytellers, we promise a lively experience.

Coordinator: Dr. Martin Graffman; Selected Facilitators for each SessionCost: $5 member/$7 non-member (per session)

“Most people think that shadows follow, precede or surround beings or objects. The truth is they also surround words, ideas, desires, deeds, impulses and memories.”Elie Wiesel

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Book Discussion with Cantor Reinwald and Soni SanbergSunday, January 8, 20179:30 am - 11:30 am | TBS Board Room

Join Cantor Reinwald and Soni Sanberg for a stimulating discussion of Jonathan Safran Foer’s new novel, “Here I Am.”

Instructor: Cantor David Reinwald & Soni SanbergCost: $5 member/$7 non-member

The Healing Hand: Being Present for What Matters Most in Life and in DeathSunday, January 29, 201712:30 pm - 3:00 pm | TBS Board Room

What shall I do, what shall I say, and who am I in the face of this? These are universal questions that often arise when we are faced with the illness or the impending death of a loved one. This workshop is about connecting with the things that matter most in human life and relationship. Based on her book “The Healing Hand: 5 discussions to have with the dying who are living” Cantor Sue Knight Deutsch will address these questions, using stories, metaphors, videos, scientific evidence from positive psychology, and her own experience. You will learn how to be present in the moment through breathing exercises and a short meditation. Through the use of writing prompts, group and dyad discussion, and “what if” scenarios, you will learn the language to find your own unique answers to be present for those you love and care about. All you need to bring is yourself.

Instructor: Cantor Sue Knight DeutschCost: $18 member/$30 non-member

An Evening with author Rebecca Goodman and “Aftersight”DATE TBA7:00 pm - 8:30 pm | TBS Campus

“These things I can think and feel...” “Aftersight” is a personal and sensitively drawn reflection of memory, loss and living. Share an evening with the author whose work has been described as “superb and always deeply compelling.”

Instructor: Rebecca GoodmanCost: $5 member/$7 non-member

Parenting with Positive Discipline The Preschool Years and BeyondWednesday, March 22, 20177:00 pm - 9:00 pm | TBS Campus

Instructor: Tammy Keces, M.A., IHDS Principal Cost: $5/Family

ONGOING CLASSESWeekly Torah StudySaturday Mornings | 9:15 -10:15 am

Each Shabbat morning, learners of all backgrounds come together to share their insights and learn more about the weekly Torah portion. Torah study is an important part of daily living as it too lives as a Tree of Life. By uncovering the many layers of Torah together, we explore history and laws, and bring to life ancient teachings in our modern world.

Instructor: Clergy and ParticipantsCost: No Fee | Tzedakah Collected

Introduction to JudaismDates: see www.urj.org7:30 pm - 9:30 pm | TBS Social Hall

Interfaith couples, non-Jews considering conversion, and Jews looking for an adult-level introduction to the basics of Jewish thought and practice will benefit from Introduction to Judaism. In Orange County, the Introduction to Judaism class is an 18-session course. Registration is online through the URJ only. Go to http://urj.org/learning/classes/intro/socal-az/registration/ to sign up. For questions, contact Rabbi Sabine Meyer at smeyer@urj.org.

Instructors: Rabbi Stephen EinsteinCost: $200 members/$280 non-members

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All families at Temple Beth Sholom are invited

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Torah TotsFridays beginning September 16, 20169:15 am - 10:30 am | TBS Campus

Socialization is an integral part of this program and together adult and child make new, lasting friendships. Parent or grandparent and child actively participate in a variety of activities that introduce the beautiful customs and traditions of Shabbat and the holidays. Appropriate for infants-age 2. Contact the Preschool office at 714-628-4640 to register and for exact dates.

Instructor: Pam RantaCost: $50 registration fee for the year

Family Fun Day - Hands on the High Holidays!Sunday, September 25, 201610:30 am - 12:00 pm | TBS ECC Outdoor Classroom

Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are a beautiful way to begin the Jewish New Year. We will have fun exploring the holiday through arts and crafts, games, literature, singing, cooking and more!

Instructor: Pam Ranta & Jodi Kaufman

Family Fun Day - Celebrate Israel!Saturday, May 7, 201710:30 am - 12:00 pm | TBS ECC Outdoor Classroom

It’s Israel’s Birthday week. Celebrate with singing, arts and crafts, games and more!

Instructor: Pam Ranta & Jodi Kaufman

Return, Renew and RepeatBy Jodi Kaufman, RJE | Director of Congregational Learning

I love a good midrash. Who doesn’t love a good story? I especially like midrashim about our prayers. They help me connect on a deeper level to the words on the page of the prayer book. Shema. Listen. Here is one of my favorites.

Jacob, also known as Israel, was an old man when he and his children left Canaan and settled in Egypt, a foreign land filled with people who worshipped differently, who worshipped idols, who did not believe in one God. As the years went on, Jacob got older and weaker. He gathered his children around him while on his death bed and said, “I am afraid to die.” His children replied, “There is no reason to fear death father. God loves you.” Jacob answered, “No. I am not afraid of dying. I am afraid of leaving you alone in Egypt with all those temptations to worship other gods. I am afraid that when I am gone you will forget the one God, the God who spoke to Abraham, to Isaac and to me.”

His children then answered together in a loud voice, “Shema Yisrael (Listen Dad). Adonai Eloheinu (Adonai is our God). Adonai Echad (Adonai is One.)” (Deuteronomy 6:4)

Then, with his last breath, Jacob answered, Baruch Shem (Praised be God), k’vod malchuto l’olam va’ed (Whose glorious empire will last forever.)”

When we recite the Shema and whisper Baruch Shem k’vod malchuto l’olam va’ed, we are reenacting this story. (Pesachim 56a)

The “One” in this story has a different meaning. In this midrash we are talking about the continuity between generations, the one thing that makes us one. We continue to be one people – L’dor va’dor- from generation to generation. There may be conflict amongst the generations, different music, different fashion, use of technology. But there are also things that are true from one generation to the next. These are the things we want passed down to our kids and our grandkids. Our values, our history, our traditions. This is the “oneness” we share. These are the things that are one between us.

In the midrash, Jacob is concerned that his children will forget what makes them one. He is afraid to leave them in a land filled with other “ones”. He hopes he has done his job instilling in them the Jewish values and traditions that make them one people. Jacob wants to make sure his children have heard him.

We hear these words all the time, “When I was your age…”, “In my day…”. As if to say that we are worried that the next generation has lost a bit of their work ethic, their values, their priorities. But with new times, new technology and new ideas, comes a different work ethic, new values and new priorities. Not better or worse, just new. We must embrace this newness and incorporate it into what makes us one. We must listen and learn and grow and change while also holding on to the unique things that make us one.

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TSTEMPLE BETH SHOLOM SISTERHOODThe Temple Beth Sholom Sisterhood is

dedicated to providing women with a voice and

presence within our congregation. Sisterhood

provides opportunities for women to serve the

Temple and our community, while meeting and

making lifelong friends. Sisterhood is made up

of women from all walks of life and in all stages

of life. Through social interaction, education

and tikun olam, Sisterhood devotes itself to

many worthwhile projects such as supporting

the religious scchool, camperships and college

outreach in support of TBS.

Follow us on our website www.tbsoc.com/sisterhood

Join us on Facebook Temple Beth Sholom Sisterhood of OC

Crochet GroupMeets WeeklyTuesdays | 1:00 pm - 3:00 pmSundays | 10:00 am - 12:00 pmTBS Campus

Meets weekly to crochet caps for Knots of Love, an organization that provides handmade caps to cancer units across the country. Knitters and knotters are welcome and if you would like to learn to crochet, we can teach you.

Coordinator: Sharon Tanner | sharon@plot180.net

Mah JonggMonday Evenings6:30 pm | TBS Campus

Whether you have played for years or would like to learn how to play, this is the group for you.  A friendly relaxing game where everyone is welcome. For more information, contact Sandra Drummond at s.i.drummond@sbcglobal.net.

Coordinator: Sandra Drummond

Membership CelebrationSunday, September 25, 20164:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Our annual kick off to the Sisterhood year.  This is one of our largest events and is a chance to celebrate all of the Sisterhood members.  Please watch for more information.

Coordinator: Denise StephensCost: No cost if paid-up Sisterhood member, nominal fee for guests

Sisterhood in the HoodFebruary 9, 2017, May 24, 2017, June 4, 20177:00 pm | Location TBD

Join us as we get together to socialize, reconnect with friends, meet new ones in a relaxing, friendly environment. Watch for notifications about dates and locations. Contact Michelle Singleton at sundvl89@aol.com.

Coordinator: Michelle Singleton

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“One woman can make a difference, but together we can rock the world.”Anonymous

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Chanukah BoutiqueSunday, December 4, 20169:30 am - 1:00 pm | TBS Social Hall

Your one stop Chanukah Gift Shop! Sisterhood will have a variety of vendors for all of your shopping needs. The Sisterhood Chanukah Gift Shop also opens!

Coordinator: Elizabeth Cohen

Sisterhood Lights the ChanukiahTuesday, December 27, 20166:00 pm | Orange Circle

Coordinator: Nancy Fidel & Denise Silberman

Celebrate Shabbat and Dinner with SisterhoodFriday, January 20, 20176:30 pm | TBS Campus

Sisterhood invites you to attend our annual Sisterhood Shabbat Service where we honor our newest SHAYNAH (Sisterhood Has All Your Needs At Heart).  

Coordinator: Fran Sherman and Soni Sanberg

Book ReviewWednesday, February 1, 20177:00 pm | TBS Campus

Join Sisterhood for a fun night as we meet to discuss a book. More info to follow.

Coordinator: Michelle Singleton

Sisterhood Game Night FundraiserMarch 4, 2017Time TBD | TBS Social Hall

Who’s in? Join us for fun, food and games in our second annual Game Night! Watch for notifications this coming Spring.

Coordinator: Susan Jasper

TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM BROTHERHOODThe Temple Beth Sholom Brotherhood offers

a variety of social activities and opportunities

for our members.  Events range from Dinner

& Theater outings, our famous Joke Breakfast

and sports attendance.  We are proud of the

accomplishments of this group of remarkable

gentlemen who work hard to support the

youth programs of the Temple.  All men at TBS

are welcome to participate in the wonderful

organization.

Follow us on our website at www.tbsoc.com/community/brotherhood

Men’s Night OutLocation and Programs TBD | Save the DatesSeptember 14, 2016October 19, 2016November 19, 2016December 14, 2016February 8, 2017

March 8, 2017April 19, 2017May 10, 2017June 14, 2017

Joke BreakfastSunday, October 16, 2016| 10:00 am

Pancake BreakfastSunday, December 25 | 9:00 am

Brotherhood Speaker SeriesSunday, February 12, 2017 | 10:00 amSunday, March 12, 2017 | 10:00 amSunday, April 9, 2017 | 10:00 amSunday, May 7, 2017 | 10:00 amSunday, June 11, 2017 | 10:00 am

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Jewish Studies for K-6th GradersSundays | 9:30 am - Noon | TBS

Our Jewish Studies sessions allow students to engage in deep learning in a fun and creative setting. We use art, drama, music, technology, and movement to bring Jewish texts, traditions, and ideas to life. Each Sunday our school engages in music and prayer with our clergy. Every grade participates in our Shabbat evening worship once a year during our family service, each first Friday of the month.

Traditional Hebrew School for 3rd-6th GradersTuesdays | 4:15 - 6:15 pm | TBS

At TBS, we teach students Hebrew through an individualized grade level program called Kavanah Corner. These individual packets allow for flexibility within our Hebrew curriculum. The interactive student website allows students to practice their prayers wherever they might be. The technology component allows our students to engage in Hebrew instruction and practice at home. With our small class sizes, our teachers are able to give individual attention to students.

Hebrew Connection for 3rd-6th GradersFamilies may choose to enroll their child in our nationally recognized Hebrew Connection program, where a private tutor meets at the students’ home each week for one-on-one instruction.

7th Grade/B’nai Mitzvah ClassTuesdays & Select Sundays | 4:15 - 6:15 pm | TBSInstructors: Rabbi Cohen and Cantor Reinwald

On select Sunday mornings, the 7th graders meet with Rabbi Cohen to explore what it means to be a Jewish adult, tackling issues from keeping kosher to observing Shabbat. The B’nai Mitzvah class is enhanced by a series of family programs and a special 7th Grade Retreat. On Tuesday afternoons our 7th graders learn trope and participate in a variety of classes such as cooking with Rabbi Cohen and video production with Cantor Reinwald.

8th, 9th, 11th and 12th Grade Teen Kehillah ProgramSelect Sundays | Noon - 2:00 pm | TBS

Temple Beth Sholom’s Teen Kehillah is built on the principle that every event and activity, whether in the classroom or not, should advance a certain set of common Jewish values. Each element of our teen program emphasizes some or all of these core values and complements and builds on other elements in a cohesive and cumulative way. All events and activities lead to our goal of nurturing Jewishly identified people of integrity.

10th Grade ConfirmationSelect Sundays | Noon - 2:00 pm | TBSInstructor: Rabbi Heidi Cohen

In Confirmation, students attend on select Sundays afternoons (see schedule & calendar).   Confirmation students have an opportunity to reflect on their own Jewish identities and confirm their commitment to Jewish life.  Along with the Confirmation class, which is taught by Senior staff, students participate in a TBS Confirmation trip and lead the congregation in a Confirmation ceremony.  Throughout the year, students will wrestle with foundational questions, such as:  Who or what is God?  How can Judaism guide my understandings on modern, often controversial topics?  How can I live an ethical life? Why and how do we pray? How can I affect change in the world? 10th Grade Confirmation is a part of our TBS Teen program and includes the Confirmation retreat.

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL RETREATS AND TRIPS7th Grade B’nai Mitzvah RetreatNovember 11-13, 2016 | Hess Kramer w/ Rabbi Cohen, Cantor Reinwald and Jodi Kaufman

Confirmation RetreatFebruary 10-12, 2017 | Joshua Tree w/ Rabbi Cohen

Post Confirmation Trip March 2-5, 2017 | New York w/ Rabbi Cohen

Shema – ListenPam Ranta | Director, Early Childhood Center

Listen to the almost silent beating of wings To the quiet buzzing of a bee moving from flower to flower, bringing new life to nature, preparing sweet honey. Birds soaring high, searching for a meal and a fertile place to rest from flight Chirping, cawing, squawking, hooting

Listen to the wind, wafting between the branches of the stately old tree, gliding along the sails of a ship at sea, beating on the roof tops Carrying all that is ready to move: waiting to catch a ride

Listen to the heartbeat of the unborn child snuggled in her mother’s life sustaining womb First experiencing existence from within the protective walls, nurturing body and soul Muffled voices, swaying to the maternal rhythm

Listen to the silence, listen to your heart, listen to earth’s pulse, listen to the water, listen to nature, listen to the animals

Listen to humankind

Hear God

We stand on holy ground and are surrounded by all that is holy. The world, filled with miracles and wonders, mysteries and understandings, great joys and great sorrows are easily overlooked in the bustle of our everyday lives.

We focus on what is in front of us, what has passed, what we long for. We rush from place to place, swept up in the race. The race to complete a task, the race to be better, the race to win. Do we take time to truly relate to those so meaningful in our lives? Do we feel fulfilled? Do we feel? Do we take the time to pause, to breathe, to see, to listen?

For those of us fortunate enough to play with, learn from and guide young children the words pause, reflect, seek, see and listen are a vibrant part of our day. Children exemplify the everyday miracles of our world but we must actively listen to bear witness. A child’s patient observation of a bug, viewed differently each time it is gazed upon; the struggle for self-expression with or without words; the picture drawn by a child, so telling and yet layer upon layer must be unraveled to comprehend the thought being so mindfully communicated. The world seen through the eyes of a child filled with the magic that we would otherwise forget to see.

An infant’s cry, more than a cry, a language. A language known only to the parent and caregiver who observes and listens intently to the tonal variations signifying the need to eat, to sleep, requiring a diaper change or even express discontent. Nature has a way of communicating with us as well. The sky turns black before a thunderstorm, plants wilt without sufficient water, insect’s surface when the ground is flooded or too hot. When we listen, we hear our own bodies telling us what we refuse or don’t want to see - age, illness, our heart, our conscious, knowing the “right thing”.

Pause, breathe, listen, reflect, feel the rhythm that weaves the strands connecting all life.

Listen and see God’s wonder.

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TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER                       Inspired by the Reggio Emilia Municipal Schools,

Temple Beth Sholom’s Early Childhood Center,

provides a social constructivist program for ages

3 months – 5 where children are encouraged

to explore, question and seek answers.

Children’s thoughts and ideas are respected

and regarded with value. Through observations,

documentation and further research children’s

interest are recognized and explored. Literacy,

math, science and communication are a natural

outcome of this approach. Jewish values,

holidays and traditions are introduced in a

natural manner based on the calendar cycle

and in the context of daily life. Children are

exposed to ideas of social justice and are given

opportunities to view experiences though many

different lenses. Our certified outdoor classroom

allows children to continue their exploration

in a nature filled setting. Our credentialed and

loving staff, guide children through the process

of building relationships with their surrounding

world creating the foundation for greater

understanding and constructing knowledge.

Infant/Toddler and Preschool hours are 7:30 am

to 6:00 pm, 5 days a week. Half, extended, and

full day programs 2, 3, 4, or 5 days a week are

available. Call the office at 714-628-4640 or email

pranta@tbsoc.com for additional information

and a tour of our beautiful facility.

Early Childhood Center Open HouseWednesday, October 26, 20165:30 - 6:30 pm | TBS ECC classrooms

Preschool and other interested families bring children to tour and play in the ECC. Finger foods are served for a light dinner.

Afterschool Enrinchment ClassesSports, Yoga, Music and Dance, and more. Times, days and classes will vary. 

Contact the ECC office for more information: 714-628-4640 or pranta@tbsoc.com

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YOUTH AND CAMPThese are the years during which lifetime

friendships are created. The Temple Beth

Sholom Youth Group Programs focus on creating

a social and socially conscious environment

and complement the more formal education

programs offered to our youth. Active

participation in TBS Youth Groups is an excellent

way for your child or teen to develop lasting

Jewish friendships, a sense of pride in their

Jewish identity and a connection to the TBS

community. We offer youth groups for students

in Kindergarten through 12th grade.

Youth GroupsKTY (K-2nd Grade)Dates and Events TBA

YTY (3rd-5th Grade)Dates and Events TBA

BSTY (6th-8th Grade)Dates and Events TBA

OCTY (9th-12th Grade)Dates and Events TBA

Camp SholomHappy voices greet the day with ruach, the incredible Jewish spirit, as Camp Sholom offers another fun-filled summer. Camp Sholom is an incomparable blend of diversified, high-quality camping experiences in a warm, safe and positive Jewish environment. Camp Sholom entices both first-time and experienced campers, who are divided into age-appropriate units. Each camper participates in a variety of activities, including arts and crafts, sports, swimming, music, dance and Judaic programs. Units also come together to participates in beach activities, field trips, an overnight and our camp-wide Shabbat experience each week. Camp Sholom’s schedule and fees will be available in the winter.

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“We must take adventures in order to know where we truly belong.”Anonymous

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PARTICIPATE IN SYNAGOGUE LIFESynagogue life is about building relationships

both within the congregation and for the

greater good of the community. At TBS, there

are numerous opportunities for Tikkun Olam,

repairing our world through social action

projects. You can also find life-long friendships

and build strong supportive connections within

our community. Here are some ways that you

can be involved and make these connections.

The Action in Social ActionSocial Action at Temple Beth Sholom offers our members a way to reach out into the community through the ideal of “tzedakah”. Some of our projects include Adopt a Social Worker and Mitzvah Meals. This year we are looking forward to partnering with local organizations to make a difference in the lives of those in need. There will be opportunities for everyone.

Contact: Cindy Grossberg at houseofgros@cox.net

Mitzvah Meals - Every SundayIt started with a congregant’s vision and now, six years later, we feed 2,000 people a month. Through the generosity of our supporters and our volunteers, we provide a much-needed service to many shelters and soup kitchens.

To learn more and sign up contact: Hollis O’Brien at hollis@partiesbypanache.com or Cheryl Escoe at rdrnner43@aol.com.

Special Needs NetworkThe Special Needs Network (SNN) at Temple Beth Sholom is organized as an outreach and support for both the family and the member with special needs. We provide assistance with inclusion for members to participate in all spiritual, educational, celebratory and life event activities at the synagogue. We are concerned with acceptance and appreciate differences. We provide special needs awareness to synagogue members through education, communication, and a positive attitude.The Special Needs Network group includes people who are also professionals dealing with special needs such as psychologist/lawyers/social workers. These professionals have been helpful in providing guidance and advocacy.

Activities are planned to include the entire family throughout the year. Some of our family activities include a Hanukkah Mitzvah potluck/gift wrapping, family Passover seder, social gathering. For more information, please contact Susan Sherman at sandanmom@aol.com.

ChavurahA community within a community, Chavurah (Hebrew word for “friendship group”) is a special program which enables the members of our congregation to get acquainted in smaller, more intimate friendship groups based upon compatible needs and interests. The Chavurah program is available to members of Temple Beth Sholom and provides a wonderful way to get to know others and to build lasting friendships with fellow synagogue members.

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Selichot Saturday, September 24, 2016 6:00 pm | Dinner (reservations required) 7:00 pm | Film & Discussion, Service to follow Location: Social Hall and Sanctuary

Erev Rosh Hashanah Sunday, October 2, 2016 7:00 pm | Erev Rosh Hashanah Service Location: Sanctuary

Rosh Hashanah Monday, October 3, 2016 9:00 am | Family Service 11:00 am | Main Service: Tashlikh to follow (Apples and Honey sponsored by Sisterhood) Location: Sanctuary and Outdoor Campus

Rosh Hashanah (2nd Day) Tuesday, October 4, 2016 10:30 am | Service, Luncheon to follow (reservations required) Location: Sanctuary and Social Hall

Erev Yom Kippur (Kol Nidrei) Tuesday, October 11, 2016 7:00 pm | Kol Nidrei Service Location: Sanctuary

Yom Kippur Wednesday, October 12, 2016 9:00 am | Family Service 11:00 am | Main Service, Yom Kippur Discussion Groups to follow3:30 pm | Afternoon Service/Yizkor/Neilah Sisterhood Break the Fast to follow Location: Sanctuary, Classrooms, Outdoor Campus

Sukkot Sunday, October 16, 2016 Sukkah Hop: TBS is hitting the road as we explore different Sukkot of TBS congregants on a fun and social Sukkah hopping event. Enjoy good food, friends and laughter as we celebrate one of the most joyous holidays on the Jewish calendar Location: Various Homes Cost: $5.00 per person

Simchat Torah Sunday, October 23, 2016 4:45 pm | Yizkor 5:15 pm | Dinner (Reservations required) 6:00 pm | Simchat Torah Service and Consecration

High Holy Days at a Glance...Temple Beth Sholom wishes you a very happy and healthy new year ahead! Elul 5776 - Tishrei 5777

Peanut Butter and JellySpaghetti/PastaMarinara SauceMacaroni and Cheese

CerealRamenSoupCanned Tuna

Powdered MilkCanned FruitsCrackersGranola Bars

Juice BoxesHot Cocoa MixSnack PacksReusable Grocery Bags

High Holy Days Food DriveThe High Holy Days Food Drive is back. Grocery bags will be available beginning on September 19 and throughout the High Holy Days. We are asking everyone to pick up a bag, fill it and return it during our High Holy Day services. This year we have the opportunity to help more people than ever before! See below for the list of items we are collecting.For more information contact Cindy Grossberg at houseofgros@cox.net or Cheryl Escoe at rdrnner43@aol.com.

“Make a fixed time for study; say little and do much and

greet each person with a cheerful face.”

Pirkei Avot 1:15

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TBS Board and Staff DirectoryTBS BOARD OF DIRECTORSPresidentAndrea Wassermanawasserm@uci.edu

Executive Vice PresidentJack Holmesjackpholmes@yahoo.com

TreasurerJerry Rothblumjerrylroth@aol.com

SecretaryJeff Winstonjeffrey.i.winston@gmail.com

VP of MembershipFerne Michaelsonfjmichaelson@gmail.com

VP of Early Childhood Educ.Susan Shermansandanmom@aol.com

VP of Social ActionCindy Grossberghouseofgros@cox.net

VP of WorshipMichele Shugarmanmshugar@att.net

VP of Congregational LearningSoni Sanberginosecir@sbcglobal.net

VP of Business DevelopmentElaine Schwartzjjemms@gmail.com

Past PresidentLynn Matassarinlmatassarin@cox.net

DirectorStacy Nagelprofnagel@yahoo.com

DirectorBill Konturwilliam.kontur@t-mobile.com

DirectorMarc Lebanoffmlebanoff@gmail.com

DirectorKaren Warrenwarrenk123@gmail.com

DirectorPaula Pitlukpkpteach@gmail.com

DirectorPam Honsbergerpam@brownberger.com

DirectorBonnie Wennebergbbwg42@aol.com

DirectorAnthoney Rosalesanthoneyrosales@gmail.com

Brotherhood President Sylvan Swartzsylvan@swartzcre.com

Sisterhood PresidentLori Glaskytbsshpres@gmail.com

TBS STAFFRabbi | Heidi Cohenrabbicohen@tbsoc.com

Cantor | David Reinwaldcantorreinwald@tbsoc.com

Director of Congregational Learning | Jodi Kaufmanjkaufman@tbsoc.com

Director or Early Childhood Education | Pam Rantapranta@tbsoc.com

TEMPLE BETH SHOLOMwww.tbsoc.com | 714-628-4600

2625 N. Tustin Ave, Santa Ana, CA