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Live
Your
Destiny
NowTM
Understanding Who You
Are…
Dr. Camesha Hill-Carter
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Dedication
This book is dedicated to the people who want their
dream really bad but can’t find the disconnect.
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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 The only person who stops you is you……………….. 5
Chapter 2You cannot control anyone……………………………15
Chapter 3You can only give information………………………..21
Chapter 4You have to raise your deserve levels………………..26
Chapter 5You have to move forward every day.
Chapter 6You have to understand time.
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Introduction
Let me start off by saying I love you. I really
don’t mean any harm. Now since we have the
pleasantries out of the way, we can get started.
This first book is about you and how you can get
you out of the way of your dream! Delatorro McNeal1
stated, “ Build your dream or someone will hire you
to build theirs.” That is a fact! You are on jobs that
you can’t stand but there is this yearning on the
inside of you; a thirst that won’t quit – that is your
dream gnawing at your very being trying to get out.
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You know the symptoms, tension in your back
and neck, people getting on your nerve, and most of
all, the all famous line, “ I am worth more than this!”
You are and you can. I am not taking any
prisoners. You are no longer the victim. Blame
yourself. When it is all said and done the decisions
YOU make will determine the life that YOU will live -
PERIOD! I do understand that life has happen but at
this juncture in your life – you have to suck it up
and drive on! Your life is too precious to lay wasted
because of something or someone else. Let’s face
reality – SOMETHING HIDEOUS HAS HAPPENED
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TO EVERYONE. Forgive. Make peace with yourself
and keep it pushing.
This is the first part of this series. If you don’t
get you in check, then nothing else will be obtain or
accomplished. Smile, it is only going to hurt a little.
Smooches.
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Chapter 1
The Only Person Who Stops YOU Is You.
Have you ever wanted something so bad you
were willing to do anything to get it? It doesn’t have
to be something sinful. It could be something simple
as a set of power tools or a new pair of shoes. What
stopped you from getting it? Nothing! You were in
constant motion to get what you wanted. Let’s
analyze this for a moment. Sorry fellas, I am going to
talk about shoes.
Problem: Brand-new J. Renee are on sale. Pay day
is not until Friday.
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Issue: Sale goes off Saturday but you have to pay a
bill.
Restraint: None, because it is my money and I can
do what I want.
Solution: Call the company and let them know I will
pay the bill at a later date. Buy the shoes.
Hold up! You know women will do that in a
heartbeat. Fellas, you know that is true for us and
you. The buying of shoes is an analogy for you and
your dream. The only difference is your dream is
intangible and shoes, power tools, houses, cars are
tangible. You can feel, taste, touch, smell and hear
each one of those items. You can’t touch your dream
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until it manifest into the natural; and that is what
stops you.
Most of us are in debt. Most of us have bills that
come every month. Most of us have children who
need food, clothes and household items to survive.
Most of us go to an outing to relieve stress. But most
of us will not sacrifice for something that we cannot
see, taste, touch, feel or hear. The need is not
immediate. So we go to jobs we don’t like. We deal
with people who are less qualified than we are. We
take verbal abuse from people we can’t stand in
order to make a living and live at a level that you
have settled for.
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STOP THE MADNESS! Your Creator has given
you an undeniable gift that you must use. That’s
why you can say you are better than this! And You
ARE! You are better than your situation! You are
better than your circumstances! You are better than
your job! You are better than your present living
conditions – why because you can achieve your
dream and live the destiny that your Creator has
promised you!
Will it take time; yes, we will talk about that in
Chapter 6. Will it take sacrifice, yes! [Sidebar-
Anyone who knows me knows I love to get my hair
done but I have taken the hairdressers money and
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put towards my dream.] Will it be hard, yes! But it is
worth it. Let’s look at our example again:
Problem: Want to pursue my dream and live my
destiny now. [Brand-new J. Renee are on sale. Pay
day is not until Friday.]
Issue: I have been beat up and torn down about my
dreams and aspirations. I was told that my dream
will never happen. [Sale goes off Saturday but you
have to pay a bill.]
Restraint: None. People will talk all day long to
discourage and I have the choice to listen to them or
not. I might have to stay on my job a little longer
until it my dream can support itself but I am willing
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to do whatever it takes to make the dream come
true. The only person who stops me is me. No one or
nothing else. [None, because it is my money and I
can do what I want.]
Solution: Work on my dream as it my life depended
on it regardless of what may come my way. [Call the
company and let them know I will pay the bill at a
later date. Buy the shoes.]
*** People will talk about you regardless. Find
yourself doing your dream and prove them right
instead of siding with them and your dream dies.
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Answer these questions:
1. Who or what is stopping you from living
your dream and destiny?
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____________________________________________
2. There are three problems you will face not
living your dream and destiny: You, Time,
and/or Money. How are you going to rectify
that problem so that you can move forward
into your destiny?
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3. You may be entangled in some form of
bondage, (ie, debt, spousal disapproval, too
many irons in the fire), how are going to
continue working on your dream and live
your destiny while moving past those
constraints?
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When all else is said and done you are the person
who will determine if you will live your dream and
destiny or remain the status quo.
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Chapter 2
YOU cannot control anyone.
Thomas Glasser2 famed psychologist coined the
phrase in his studies – You cannot control anyone.
I am a fixer. I love to fix other people problems. I
love to give advice. That is the reason why you are
reading this book. Most people are fixers or leavers.
Leavers are people who leave people alone, if the
person does not do what he or she has asked them
to do. Some people are both. Either way, the need of
control is present.
Often times, we try to help people to out. That is
the nature of people. We do not like to see other
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people struggle. I do understand. You are only
trying to help. When people don’t accept your help or
take your substance and do something different then
what they have stated – we get mad! Why? Many
times, we get mad because we feel that our time and
resources were wasted. It depends on the side of the
diamond you are looking at. If you are on the
receiving side then you are grateful until someone
makes us feel guilty. On the other side of the
diamond is the person who is given who feel used
because they feel that the person has manipulated
them and that person makes the other person feel
guilty. Either way someone has to ask for forgiveness
for either attitude or regret.
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You may not agree with me but you only control
you. You cannot make anyone do anything. People
do things out of respect for you or your position.
That is it. Your children do so because they respect
you and your position of provider. That is why every
now and again they buck the system.
So instead of being mad with everyone because
you feel that your time and resources have been
manipulated, know that the person can only do what
is in his or her scope of learning. Some things are
just obvious. If you know the person is not going to
do right – why send yourself through all that grief of
being mad and regretting why you have done what
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you have done. Just don’t do it! You can make them
do anything they do not want to do. So, why are you
stressing out? Control what you do and the other
person’s behavior will change according to your
decision. Yes, people will throw a guilt trip! Yes,
people will get mad at you because you are not
acting right. Who cares? You shouldn’t because you
have been wasting time on unneeded emotions. If
you want to continue to ride a roller coaster because
someone else is sending you on it, keep riding it
until you either get sick and tired or you die. You
choose.
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Answer the following questions:
1. Identify the emotions you feel when you
give.
____________________________________________
____________________________________________
2. Identify the emotions you feel when you feel
that your time and resources are wasted
____________________________________________
____________________________________________
3. Identify the negative people in your life.
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4. How can you deal with them without getting
into an emotional turmoil?
____________________________________________
____________________________________________
5. How can you adjust so that you can use the
extra time you spent dealing with your
emotions on your dream and destiny?
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Chapter 3
YOU can only give information2.
Contrary to popular belief, your information is
valuable. Whether you bought your sense or you
learned it vicariously, you know what you know. The
only way to help people is by providing information.
You cannot get mad if people do not take your
information and make their life easier. Why are you
stressing out? That goes back to chapter 2. Reread it
if necessary.
Do you know why you get so mad when people
do not take your advice? You get mad because you
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have given a piece of your life that you hold dear
away so that the person you are talking to do not
make the same exact mistake you did.
Give the information anyway. St. John3 writes,
in the book of Revelations 12:11, “They overcame
him by the blood of the lamb and the word of their
testimony.” Not to get too preachy, you have to tell
so that someone else can get the help they need.
Hearing is the only sense that is tied directly to the
brain. Everything else is through synapses and
relays from the brain. Even if the person does not
use your advice, he or she has heard it.
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Have you heard something before and have said
to yourself “That sounds familiar.” Well, you have
heard it before but you didn’t need the information.
Since you did not need the information your brain
filed it away until you need it. You do it all the time.
A song you haven’t heard in years will come up out
of you and you start singing it out of the blue. Sure
you have. What happens your brain says to your
body, he or she needs a happy song and your brain
retrieves a song that you consider happy and brings
it back to your remembrance.
The point I am trying to make is they have heard
you. Give the information freely and let the people
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go. You cannot make them do what you tell them so
just let it grow until they need it.
Reflections:
Write about a time you were given advice and didn’t
use it. How did you feel?
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When did you decide to use the advice?
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Have the same mercy on some else as you want it for
you.
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Chapter 4
YOU have to raise your deserve levels.
Do you believe that your dream will come to
pass? Do you think that it will take a while?
Depending on your answers, you may need to rasie
your deserve levels. If you answered no for the first
question, then you have a low deserve level. If you
answered yes on the second question, then you have
a low deserve level. Pat Pearson4 states, “A deserve
level is what you think you should expect. You will
not go over or under that level of expectation.” If you
try to go over that level you will begin self-sabotage.
Self- Sabotage is where you put in blocks for
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yourself to stop yourself. You deserve all that is out
there for you.
You can have whatsoever you say. If you say you
will have it. We believe that bad things will happen
and they do. We believe good things will happen and
they do. What you have to realize is that your words
have power.
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Look at this table:
Life Dream Life
after reading
Dream
after reading
5
4
3
2
1
0
Shade in [first two columns] what you think
your deserve levels are. 5 is the highest. Zero is the
lowest. This is the estimated level of what you think
you deserve. If your deserve level is high, then keep
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reading. If your deserve level is low, then repeat out
loud after me, I deserve all that my Creator has for
me. Yes, you do. You will talk yourself right out of
your dream. That is why you need to know who you
put your trust in. Negative people love to cosign for
you or against you. We are more negative than
positive. So if we are unsure of something we will
talk to people until someone cosigns on how we feel.
That is why you need to know the negative people
who are in your life so that you can stay away from
them. You do not need a cosigner. You need a
positive affirmation. Repeat after me out loud, “I
deserve all that my Creator has for me.” Yes, you do.
You have to tell yourself that you deserve your
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dream everyday. Regardless of what goes on, you
must tell yourself everyday, I deserve all that my
Creator has for me. What do you have to lose?
Write your own affirmation:
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Chapter 5
You Have To Move Forward Every Day.
Energy is neither created nor destroyed. It
just changes forms. Everything that is done takes
some form of energy. There is always movement.
Your movement determines where you have been,
are and will be in the future. There is no such thing
as happenstance. Everything is planned by our
energy. No, I am not a physic or a spook. I am telling
you the truth. If you don’t have the energy to do
something, chances are, you won’t do it. If you have
the energy to do something, then it gets done and
you excel at it without problem or complaint. The
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same is for your dream. Either you are going to move
forward or move backward. Those are the only two
directions you can go in. If you don’t move at all
your body will begin to disintegrate. Think about
people put in the grave. They are flesh when they are
buried. After years, they are bones. Why? The
bacterium that is on your body began to eat your
flesh as well as the bugs. The dead person can’t take
a bath, brush his or her teeth, wipe off bugs and the
like. All they do is lay there and do nothing – waste
away. That is what is happening to your dream.
Your dream waste away.
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You have to make changes. What you do
everyday determines where you are in your dream. If
you write, write everyday. If you sing, sing every day.
What is your goal for your dream? By the end of this
year I will have 10 speaking engagements at my fee.
I have to create materials, call schools, get that
website together and move forward. I do something
every day to ensure I am moving forward on my
dream.
Guess what life happens. You will have
heartbreak and heartache. Money will run short. [As
I write this book, the house phone is off.] But you
still have to move forward. No questions. No excuses.
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I challenge you to move forward. There will always
be obstacles. So be it! I have a question for you. Do
you know how powerful you are? You are so
powerful that your very words can draw people to
you or can repel people from you. Think about. You
have to work on your dream every day. I have been
working on my dream for 10 years now. I have only
become serious about moving forward on my dream
last year. I am more than grateful for it.
I had a wakeup call. My mother passed in
December of 2009 and my husband was diagnosed
with congestive heart failure in February of 2010. He
was hospitalized for two weeks. Then my doctoral
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chair let me know that he was leaving for Korea in
May and I had to finish my dissertation by March to
get the last of the process completed. After
experiencing death and dealing with the possibility
of death with my husband and the not finishing of
my dissertation was life at its worse. I had my dream
nagging at the back of my neck saying, if you were
living your dream you would have had time to spend
with your mother before she passed. You would have
had time to spend at the hospital with your
husband. You would have had time to work on your
dissertation. I still had to go to work. I still had to go
to the hospital and I still had to take care of the
home and type and retype my dissertation. Did I cry,
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yes? Was it heard, yes. Did I want to quit, yes but I
had to do it for all the people who were saying I
could do it. I could do it and I did do it. The only
person that stopped me 10 years ago was me.
Nothing or no one else. Just me-frustrated wanted it
to bad. Now I am working on it every day, with and
without time and money. Remember this if nothing
else. If you are not going forward, you will always go
back. You get pushed back but you fall forward. I f
you do fall, and you will, assess the damage and
them get up and move forward.
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Chapter 6
YOU Have To Understand Time